1. 👄💋I WAS THE SIDE CHICK & DIDN’T KNOW IT!!! 😩💔 HE LIED TO ME TOO

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1. 👄💋I WAS THE SIDE CHICK & DIDN’T KNOW IT!!! 😩💔 HE LIED TO ME TOO | Fumi Desalu-Vold

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@BarbB56 2 жыл бұрын

I am a 65 year old white woman. I have loved watching your makeup tutorials and listening to the sound advice you give. Thank you Fumi for your hard work. Xx

@sugababe971 2 жыл бұрын

I had never thought about the fact that being well put together for an event was to show appreciation and support to our loved ones... Thank you for this, Fumi!

@sweetspice9120 2 жыл бұрын

Yes it is a sign of respect. We are taught in Africa to dress well when visiting ppl because it means we have regard for them

@FumiDesaluVold 2 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome darling. You are a part of a tribe wether you know it or not, and you are depended upon when u show up in full force. You are their ARMOUR.

@sugababe971 2 жыл бұрын

@@FumiDesaluVold That is deep! I always dress well as a sign of respect towards me and towards others. But I was never going full force fearing that it might be perceived as arrogance, showing off,... Maybe because I've never been embraced as a member of a tribe. Now I know better

@whatnot798 2 жыл бұрын

@@sweetspice9120 very true.

@thequeenmidas 2 жыл бұрын

This is correct. Respect the other person with your put togetherness🙌🏿✨

@veronicadaeh2336 Жыл бұрын

Fumi you could really do well with giving Charm classes not just to girls but women who never was taught etiquette, Self-worth, Feminity, Class. You are a doll and role model. 🌹

@dr-k1667 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi is helping women while looking like WONDER WOMAN in this episode. I am happy to see the support for women who were betrayed and for the advice. We must support our sisters and brothers who stand for what is right.

@blossom6235 2 жыл бұрын

exactly, I agree!!!

@A.F.U-A 2 жыл бұрын

You know!!!

@barbara54 2 жыл бұрын

Fabulous woman.

@liliaittryingsimeon8717 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful

@Ashas.Garden 2 жыл бұрын

“That’s below me.” Simple, concise and reflects the full measure of her own high self-esteem. ❤️ No additional words needed.

@calitomms22 2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way, it is beneath me to be dating somebody else sloppy seconds.🤮🤮

@miscyjay4450 2 жыл бұрын

Well said!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@Waridi23 2 жыл бұрын

This has always been how I feel and I always tell guys the same thing. I cannot be number two. You cannot subject me to nonsense drama just for your enjoyment. Hell no!

@trudytriad4574 Жыл бұрын

When I tell you I snapped my fingers and clapped for her when she said this. I am in Chech everytime I tune into this KZfaq channel. 😆

@thickbrownlegs1859 2 жыл бұрын

It’s the lying tongue for me. I hate liars!! Be honest so I can make a decision, don’t take my decision away from me.

@sylviemorgan9770 2 жыл бұрын

Me too, I hate lies...

@traceylennon1204 Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU

@wendyfitzgerald9179 Жыл бұрын

Yes! exactly!

@ujunwaaniere9798 Жыл бұрын

I know this video is old but I must admit that you are one of the positive impacts of social media ❤

@tashamonetformulations 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi I could listen to your stories for hours. It's not the stories themselves , it's your way of telling them

@reitaebohon7853 2 жыл бұрын

Did I not know a guy who rented an apartment like he wasn't attached elsewhere.... he was only on a break from the home. I knew after 2 years when moving forward seemed impossible. Fummi, some of them have PHD in this matter.

@garnellwallace5594 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi you are giving us The Young and the Restless, The Bold and Beautiful, Days of our Lives, Loving, One Life to Live, Passions, and All My Children with these episodes! I'm on the edge of my seat eating peanuts and hanging on every word. Your life is a Tellenovella and we live for it!

@summerslotus1109 2 жыл бұрын

And then she DROP KICKED YOU!!! WE WAITING!!!--

@kamlabenlawrence8835 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi u are excellent loving the way u are educating us as female

@tennehfromayan6387 2 жыл бұрын

Yes she is 😃

@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES 2 жыл бұрын

She ABSOLUTELY IS!

@ogechukwuvivianezeani3104 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely right👍

@DanaConquersBoutique 2 жыл бұрын

Nooooo, Fumi you kill me with these cliffhangers 😭 but I love that you make us wait also. Beautiful look and I can’t wait to find out how you tried to help uplift Mrs Tony.

@Beyond50Beauty 2 жыл бұрын

@Dana Foster, I KNOWWWWW, right? And we fall for it EVERY time ;-)

@summerslotus1109 2 жыл бұрын

Don't SHE!!! Lol

@AdaAtigogo 2 жыл бұрын

When I look at you, I told myself, It is not late to get the kind of life I want. You are always saying it the way it is , my daughter is going to college and encourage her to watch your videos because there is a lot to learn.

@bahlemotshegoa4528 2 жыл бұрын

"They are puppies, they'l do anything until they get the cookies"🤣🤣....i love it

@tennehfromayan6387 2 жыл бұрын

Right 😅😂

@katybug6572 2 жыл бұрын

You’re honestly giving me the motivation to start looking good again ugh I’m being very very honest, I let myself go.. I used to have it ALLLLL on point, no matter what I was doing even just chillin at home I still had my hair nice n a cute yet comfy outfit.. now I’m just eh who cares anymore I’m 35 so blahhhh lol but honestly, I just found ur channel couple days ago and recently became single again- I think it’s time I turn my own FABULOSITY back on! Lol I dunno why I just put that all out there- but you are so honest yourself n I just had to tell you, your very inspiring.. not just great advice on the exterior beauty- but also on the inside, our interior beauty. You’re truly a Goddess and I’m so glad I found your channel Auntie! You’re just so awesome! Keep up the FABULOUSNESS!! Hehe XoXo 💜😉🙏🌸✌️👍❤️‍🔥

@amandaspaintinglessons9908 2 жыл бұрын

35 is YOUNG!!! You can do it!

@karmaisanillusion7307 2 жыл бұрын

I’m happy to hear your mind shift😊😊

@estherbeamsforaballad3342 2 жыл бұрын

Kind of late, but if that's you in your pfp, you're really pretty. As said in the video, don't let some guy's invalidation of you make you invalidate yourself. Plus 35 is still pretty young. Even the way you write is youthful 🎉🌹💕💞👗🍨🎄🧁🍿enjoy your youth and validate yourself 🥂💝❣

@teniaosayande6355 2 жыл бұрын

yes indeed. at 41 & single I'm doing the same. time to put that fabulousness in high gear!! 😘😘

@wordsbymaribeja1470 2 жыл бұрын

@@teniaosayande6355 Same.

@Jaidzeka36 2 жыл бұрын

I also think it's absurd for people to date someone who is separated from their spouse. It just seems wrong because things aren't finalized

@Khangel 2 жыл бұрын

Although I would agree with you in general, in my situation, we were both separated over 1 year. We have been married 18 years.

@KimmiesKloset85 2 жыл бұрын

I can see the point but sometimes divorces take forever (especially if someone purppselyn drags it out) and people are ready to move on with their lives. I wouldn't get with someone NEWLY separated though...it's too fresh and still within time to reconcile.

@egwthe1 Жыл бұрын

This is absurd. I went through a divorce that took almost 3 years. So should I wait 3 years for someone else?

@dr-k1667 2 жыл бұрын

We have a new show in the Fumiverse. This is what the people need and the women want!

@lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi you are on point with this one. My Daddy ,Grandfather, Uncles and Male Cousins sat all of the Young Women in my family down and told us bring all Male suitors home so that they can size him up. They also said that Men can enjoy you, take a 🚿 and then its a wrap. This was wonderful for the young women to hear💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤

@cynthiacarr2093 2 жыл бұрын

Older Women Too! 😁❤👸🏾💯💯💯💯👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥

@rahabhenderson2480 2 жыл бұрын

I think that part of the issue so many of us don't have males to bring them home to..cause men will see thru other men and they can put you up on game..god bless the men in your life

@creolekween 2 жыл бұрын

You are so blessed to have men in your family who care for you. It brought a tear to my eye.

@achatwithgoitse Жыл бұрын

The men in your family are doing amazing. Transparency is really needed with these things

@theugandanvillagewife6647 2 жыл бұрын

RIP my dear #Husband you respected me from the start despite being in LDR to begin with you didn't expect cookies even after we physically met and waited till we both said I do. I miss you so much and always proud of you. Sleep well my babes 💓

@shabanakhan507 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi, you’re the greatest example of a feminist. You’re smart, funny and you support other women. Big hugs from Toronto xx

@jamilaabubakar8356 2 жыл бұрын

It'll depend on your definition of a feminist

@gldnglow 2 жыл бұрын

I'm on the floor at 11 mins in. 😂 We're about the same age and once I moved out, it was ingrained in me to always meet a date out. Do not let him come to your house until you know him well.

@estherbeamsforaballad3342 2 жыл бұрын

"He wants to be upset🙄😏 like I care 😌" hahaaa I love it😂😂

@fashionandluxury101 2 жыл бұрын

Where were you 20 years ago when I needed a friend like you! ❤️listen up young people; these are words of wisdom!! This is better than a Netflix series!

@veniestagourdine3881 Жыл бұрын

Agree 110% It’s as if she’s narrating a book. I’m all in .

@papamamatthews9210 2 жыл бұрын

"It is below me. I feel like I'm that fabulous..." I wish all females felt that way about themselves

@zenobiahood6969 2 жыл бұрын

Some know not how to achieve it! I'd love to have that gift.

@God.sDaughter 2 жыл бұрын

Stop calling w0men females.

@jennifersterling4239 2 жыл бұрын

When you abstain you feel Empowers. I love that feel Fumi.

@janelleespinosa6247 2 жыл бұрын

If I only had a good friend like you in my life when I was dating. You just make everything make sense, plus you have a good sense of your worth, so important!

@blossom6235 2 жыл бұрын

Fums, you really need to have your own round table talk show, this discussions is so helpful for girls who's going through this thing of being a side chick unknowingly or knowingly, thanks for sharing your experience with us, I can't wait for part two!!!!!!!!!

@achatwithgoitse Жыл бұрын

Yeah coz u can start off unknowing 😢 then find out but now u in love 😅

@patriciamharris5664 11 ай бұрын

Agreed!!! ❤

@udegbebrothers6006 2 жыл бұрын

I love the way Fumi tells her stories, you can actually visualize it. Can't wait for part 2.

@aponteaida913 2 жыл бұрын

Instead of sleeping, I am here in NYC watching Auntie Fumi, she is just Fabulous. Thank you for being there and sharing your wisdom. May God bless you.

@blissowen4149 2 жыл бұрын

Aunty fums, you are a fantastic story teller, thank you for making my cold London evening worthwhile 🙏🏾

@marjanarif8231 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you are encouraging women to take care of themselves for their own mental and physical health.

@consolatricemwanza4161 2 жыл бұрын

I love you Fumi. Your maturity, elegance, wonderful personality...goodness, you are a rare combination of all the good things.

@bfeltonwilson1 2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree, if you don't see yourself as the jewel you are...neither will he! Make him wait--if he loves you--he will stay if he only wants to get into your pants, he will leave when he realizes you're better than he deserves. It's old fashioned but it does work.

@arcoiris890 Жыл бұрын

Yep, I believe in no sex until marriage, because of situations like this. My bf has been waiting for me for 4 yrs. He knows if he really wants me, not use me, what he needs to do.

@kirbiejohnson4475 2 жыл бұрын

lol, i was ALL IN and you said "that's for part 2" NOOO! I luv these S2S, everything you are saying is EXACTLY, EXACTLY what my momma told me. I'm stunned even in causal relationships women give a part of them to a man, who moves on and wonder why we can't "find" the right man. As my momma used to say "it's a man's job to find you, and if he wait to long to put a ring on it move on, but don't jump in the bed with him" Thanks, Fumi

@carolpettersen114 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi, I think you found your niche in these Sister 2 Sister videos! They are soooo good! It's like having a big Sister looking out for you!

@CommonSenseSisters 2 жыл бұрын

"You need to stick with the guidelines because in that retrospect you will get your clarity" what a commonsensical 👏🏽statement you've made Fabulous Fumi❤️ we look forward to part 2....... your makeup 💄 & hair is gorgeous 😘

@carmelozimba9554 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi Fumi how can you do us like that!!😂WHAT a cliffhanger! !Can't wait for the next episode!So much wisdom.Bless you

@rosieking383 2 жыл бұрын

Guys do this all the time. I was a victim of this too... When I confronted him about why he lied, his response was, "I knew you wouldn't accept me, so I lied!" So damn selfish!!!! Me too, I'm now #TeamAbstinence... Thank you, Fumi. ♥ I thought I had something wrong with me because I can't handle being a side whatever! Same reason. I find it rather disgusting! Love you, Fumi!

@estherbeamsforaballad3342 2 жыл бұрын

"It's below me" 💎 once you found out! Yes! That's how I feel about it too. Thank Jesus He has allowed me feel this way. I don't know how some women feel good dating other women's husbands. I really think they feel special like they're catering their nurturing services to these creatures. But it just feels spiritually unclean to me. To each their own, I guess.

@kimivey285 2 жыл бұрын

My goodness Fumi!! You know how the kids gather around for story time sitting Indian style? That’s me in my mind and saying awwwwww when you said stay tuned for part II. 😂 You are classy at al times and I love it!!

@therealconqueror1373 2 жыл бұрын

These stories are juicy yet quite motivating and empowering...lessons being learnt and making better choices so we don't need to deal with heart breaks

@susandoyle1177 2 жыл бұрын

If any woman dislikes this probably the side chick and they know it. I love these stories ❤️❤️❤️

@SandcastleGirl 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@dr-k1667 2 жыл бұрын

Cliffhanger!!! I'll be back for part 2! Believe it!

@savvyfeminist4700 2 жыл бұрын

"it's below me to date another girl's sloppy seconds" now that needs to be on your merch! You better preach Fumi.

@moonbeam7815 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, for always giving it to us straight and for being so real, with us. It's the Oxytocin. You know, that "bonding hormone. You've heard about it, Auntie. The hormone that binds a mother to her baby, is the same hormone that binds a woman to her male partner, when they are physically intimate and body fluids are exchanged. And THAT is why and what makes it emotionally difficult for women to detach, or walk away. But Aunt Fumi, you already knew all of this. Just a gentle reminder

@blessingsbest6838 2 жыл бұрын

I have learnt about Oxytocin very well and yes so true!

@agelessrestyling 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi I was sitting on the edge of my chair for this story time, can’t wait to see part two.

@chiakwamary2919 2 жыл бұрын

The make up was fabulous but the energy more fabulous, I love you Aunty Fumi, Thanks a million times Am really learning from your videos both make-up tutorial and Sister to Sister. I have had such experience from men . You know what? We learn everyday

@estherbeamsforaballad3342 2 жыл бұрын

This might be a random comment with such a serious topic but I love🥰 the unintentional sounds you create with your makeup palettes/cases as you talk to us. They give some nice tingles☺️

@kamenterpriz3439 2 жыл бұрын

Sis, Fumi. I loved it. But at my age, I can't be given cliffhangers. LOL!

@lindalilajameelal.6011 2 жыл бұрын

It is not arrogance. It is SELF-RESPECT!!! It is DIGNITY!!! Can't wait for part 2 🙂 BTW, your story time is better than telenovelas. I am typical Caribbean. I really enjoy telenovelas 🤭

@pennyarmstrong309 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love Fumi, her show is so real, and on point. Peace my sister keep blessing and sending your beautiful light out we really need you.

@fashionisticdiva 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi is bringing the heat! 🔥🔥 I cant wait for part 2

@rukyakpowaye967 2 жыл бұрын

Aunty Fumi, I came across your channel 3 weeks ago and I can say for a fact that I love you and everything you believe in. I wish I had met you earlier in life. But its never too late. Thank you for all these stories and advice on sister 2 sister they are changing lives.

@patriciawhitten3298 2 жыл бұрын

You are the queen of cliffhangers. Wow, can hardly wait for part II.

@carlo9678 Жыл бұрын

You, my darling, are the sister I never had - that I seriously do wish that I had! Love you!

@BetsysH0pe 2 жыл бұрын

Sis, your show is amazing - I really needed to hear this. My fabulosity level is quite low right now, but I’m going to work on it, you have inspired me. Much love xx

@Jujulocs88 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi, your laugh is magical. You're such an amazing woman. I love your stories ♡♡♡ and what you said about Armenians makes so much sense. Kim Kardashian is of Armenian descent and she only dates African American men. I now understand why.

@dubc04life 2 жыл бұрын

Can you do a video on maintaining relationships with family abroad, like your adult child(ren) in the States? I'm 35 and will be dealing with this soon 😓

@TeeBoss_Empire 2 жыл бұрын

Hi mama, my family and I are watching and we’re all sending our regards from Nigeria

@aquarise3791 2 жыл бұрын

Ugh Fumi KNOWS how to leave us wanting more. What a queen. Love you Fumi!

@Ralynva 2 жыл бұрын

It's amazing that you're sharing this story. I just was saying to my colleague about concerns she was having with a gentleman. I expressed my concerns about the health risk that he can cause with unprotected sex or having multiple partners.. that point was an on-time message for ME!!! Love you sister/friend!!

@gretac85 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi !!!! You’re killing me with these cliffhangers ‼️😫😫😫 I love your channel and the makeup is as glamorous as ever. I love your laugh it’s magical, when I hear it I know you are getting ready to get real and raw. See you on the conclusion of part two!!!💕❤️♥️

@Heather9Y 2 жыл бұрын

Answering the phone back then was like playing Russian Roulette. Caller ID is a blessing.

@thenigerianhealthnut115 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 @ Russian Roulette

@moonbeam7815 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE to hear you speak. Love your voice, love your accent, love the way you pronounce your words and WE LOVE your sweet pouty way you use your lips to form your words. You are so loving and so, so lovable!

@estherbeamsforaballad3342 2 жыл бұрын

Serena Williams is married to an Armenian. Ah- ahhh! now it's all coming together 😆💕

@agnesbiswalo1593 2 жыл бұрын

Ahhhh...and the Kardashians...now it makes sense.

@6rockinrobin 2 жыл бұрын

STILL fabulous! Love from Palestine, Fumi!

@breatherepeat 2 жыл бұрын

So much wisdom packed into 33 minutes.... Fumi! You're a blessing.

@moyaj82 2 жыл бұрын

This is your calling Fumes. You have me actually responding to you like "uhuh". I have never in my life done that. Great job.

@pattikaymakcian1473 2 жыл бұрын

live for these story times sister to sister All so,I married a Arminian, bad news, he was a cheater ,physical abuser, went through hard times,But 15 yrs ago.i kicked him out the door

@soniairak80 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha I love this woman, her stories are EVERYTHING. I just discovered this channel like a wekk ago and I can’t get enough

@givenmahlangu1266 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you mama, there is something about abstinence that will make you see clearly through the fog .

@delisapeters170 2 жыл бұрын

Amen that statement said it all and should be the view of all of us as women. It is and should be beneath us all to date another woman husband/boyfriend etc. We should consider ourselves fabulous enough to deserve more. If we all had that point of view we would change the culture overnight.

@Gladyscakekitchen 2 жыл бұрын

Funmi got my full attention for nearly 30mins n I didn't miss a beat! Her story with " I can give the gift of good bye " still gets me laughing.. what a legend!thank you for sharing your wisdom Aunty Funmi... blessings to you n more x

@olufunkeo8576 2 жыл бұрын

You tell your stories so beautifully and I love the life you bring into every detail. I love the overall look...drips fabulosity. Thank you for sharing real life stories and makeup tutorials. I look forward to the next episode. I love you Aunt Fumi Desalu-Vold ❤️💝🌺🌹🤩🙌🏽👌

@lovelybrown3217 Жыл бұрын

Its so wonderfull how you speak about your beautyful friend! not manny woman are able to speak about their beautyful friends like that. I wish more woman are like that.

@LydiaJarra 2 жыл бұрын

It’s below me to date another girl’s sloppy seconds - preach Aunty Fumi!! 🙌🏾This is the level of confidence in my life I want ❤️❤️❤️

@chidinmaegbulefu6236 2 жыл бұрын

I just love the way you teach lessons with your stories as well as teach us how to apply make up . As one who doesn't use much make up because I don't understand what much of it is for. I normally just put on lipstick and eye pencil with a little eyeshadow and I'm done . I'm learning a lot even though am not dark skined .New subscriber here 😀

@queenb660 2 жыл бұрын

Welcome to Fumiland in whatever skin color you are we are sisters. Love you ❤️

@VirgoRushTv 2 жыл бұрын

I like when she said " it's arrogance, call it whatever you like" & "you have to understand bodily fluid"😂😂😂

@ingridauko3900 2 жыл бұрын

Love from Kenya, aunty Fumi keep, keeping us on track, I love you 💕

@ElegantPaws01 2 жыл бұрын

You area fantastic story teller. This, my lady is your wheelhouse. You are the modern female Aesop and one classy lady.

@DeeDee-fo9yx 2 жыл бұрын

Yeeessss Fumi - PREACH!!!! You are indeed to fabulous to have been a side chick. I'm 62 and I've told younger women those exact same warnings for decades. Thank you so much for this very important video.

@milliem1061 2 жыл бұрын

Mama Fumi..

@odeanlawrence1834 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Fumi, great story telling! People have told me I also have a great gift for storytelling, but I really am shit at doing makeup!! I haven't got a frikin clue 'my darling' 😅 All i know how to do, is use an eyebrow pencil, eyeliner and lipstick, not even mascara...oh! And i put lipstick on my cheeks for blusher! I don't even have money to buy a decent wig! I saw a wig on 'LUVME' which I really, really liked and wanted, so I tried to save, but always needed to dip into my savings, so this went on until it was all gone! And that is how my life is!. Meanwhile, I wear my wig back to front to create different looks...when you live in poverty, you MORE than have to fake it! Even when you know your not ever gonna make it! Fumi, I have the most incredible life stories! But know confidence to tell them. 😕😟

@donnaholmes1158 2 жыл бұрын

Such an elegant beautiful woman who knows her worth. Luv ya!

@shalas.6322 2 жыл бұрын

When do we get part two?!!! FUMI you are so engaging. I love the makeup and stories. You look fabulous. Your content is Always full of gems 💎

@tequilawalker6207 2 жыл бұрын

Yes Sistah!!! This was some good meat to eat!!! I'm a mom of two young women 24/21 these are the conversations that we have. Yes, protect yourself, your heart by abstaining. Get to k ow him first, if there's any red flags, you'll see them. Good stuff Sis😘

@sweetestscooby 2 жыл бұрын

I don't care what anybody says but Aunty Fumi tells the best stories!!!!! I love you so much! I learn so much from you. When you said 'It is below me to date another woman sloppy seconds" Yes queen!!!!! I felt that

@melvaspence17862 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent content as usual. Proper woman teachings are so important to stand out from the pack.

@mariac6280 2 жыл бұрын

I was also a side chic and didn't know it. God has been protecting me all along. I could've been in a mess situation. Loving your channel Fummi.

@Superbambinotv 2 жыл бұрын

I’m enjoying your makeup tutorial but at the same time I’m anxious to hear your story 🤣 you are fabulous and so funny too beautiful girl!

@alisonsneed3707 Жыл бұрын

😂you’re too funny leaving a cliff hanger on a makeup tutorial video. I am smiling so much right now.

@annkdrama-queen1254 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi, I love how you’re giving solid advice to our young women bcaz I never understood why women don’t respect their body and sleep with men on the second date. I know the saying is it’s my body I do whatever I want to do and that’s true but sleeping with a man without knowing him is absolutely crazy, you’re bonding with someone you know nothing about. I truly appreciate you Fumi, these stories are reality and needs to be talked about. Luv you to pieces, god blessings to you and your family💖

@sosexymagazinerobinwatkins8467 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent storyteller Fumi...you've got THE MAGIC!! LOVEDDDDDDDD THE BEAT HUNNY- ESPECIALLY THE BLUSH 😊 JUST GORGEOUS!!

@veroanijs536 2 жыл бұрын

Heading straight to part 2🏃🏿‍♀️

@tamikaqueen1203 2 жыл бұрын

Liking this channel. Ladies do a back round check on that guy. Met this guy & I felt he was slick talking. I ran a back round check on him & found out he was married.

@cheryldevers7750 11 ай бұрын

Hi Fumi, I am in my sixties, and I love watching you!!! Been divorced for 5 yrs, and this episode is the very reason why I’m sooo skeptical about dating. I am blessed and don’t look my age, so I get approached by younger men a lot. I feel I am worth more than just the cookies, so I continue to hold out for whoever God has out there for me ! Not easy but I’m worth it!! Thanks for all of your wisdom. It is soo needed these days. God bless you .

@yettytube 2 жыл бұрын

Funmi please can you drop part 2 with immediate effect .loool...I love listening to your stories, so interesting and quite educative also

@abbiella 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi!!!❤️. I love your channel!! Everything about it and you. I cannot wait for part 2. You can tell a storrrryyyy!

@sandya1168 2 жыл бұрын

Can’t wait to see your next episode Fumi. Thanks for educating all women before falling for the wrong guy.

@MissSusannna12 Жыл бұрын

Watching from Armenia 😂 You are so right about our cultures! That guy was so pathetic. Hope his karma got him. I love you, Fumi. You are so inspirational!

@delmadennis-walters7010 Жыл бұрын

Hello, I really enjoy your videos and they are very informative. At the beginning of the videos, I love the cartoon lady the way she struts her STUFF to the beat of the music. She holds her head high with pride and she's on top of the world. I love it! 😂 God bless you and family!