Hi girls! Just one thing, there is nothing wrong with sleeping with a bra, there is no proof of it causing any damage or reducing growth, im saying this cuz there may be girls who feel more comfortable wearing bra (as myself), there is nothing wrong with it! Im 17 and I have never been affecfed by it 🙌

The only lesson that I would've liked to learn earlier (I'm almost 18, so by earlier I mean when I started my teenage years) is to embrace my introversion. Forcing myself to be extroverted and try to hang out with everyone when in reality I didn't feel comfortable at all made me think that I was weird for a long time, which made my high school experience kind of meh. I think we aren't taught that enough, and we all just try to be socially extroverted people because that's the capitalist standard.

Being a 13yr old and watching this, Man I'll never waste my teenage years. I got a good headstart.👌👌😚☺

You actually are like the big sister I’ve never had. Your advice helps a lot

'Wearing tighter clothes makes you more attractive' - remember you don't have to wear them if you are uncomfortable

And!! To all my religious sisters out there, NEVER be ashamed of your beliefs. The way you dress, act, or speak, is nobody else’s business but yours! Don’t be afraid of your peers knowing who you are and what you believe in 💗☺️

Another piece of advice I really like is “not everyone is your friend” my mom taught me this when I was younger. It basically means you don’t HAVE to be friends with everyone. If someone doesn’t like you then so be it. That’s their loss. It’s fine if you only have a couple close friends, half of the time it’s better that way.

im 14. i ruined my first 2 yrs of teenage not caring about myself. at the start of new year, i promised to improve and now i am slim, healthy and fit and even more stronger. both emotionally and physically. i will add more tips to my routine to improve as much as i can. tysm

My advice is enjoy your teenage years while it lasts. Don't force yourself to grow up especially around 10-15. There is always a right time for everything. Don't compare yourself to girls on tiktok and wonder why you don't look like that. Don't get influenced by peer pressure. Make good friends, build boundaries and make memories. You don't need to have relationship goals or a bf. It's not a necessity. Take care of yourself and surround yourself with positive energy. Balance your social and study life. Grades don't predict your future but they do help shaping it. If you push yourself to be consistent now it will be beneficial for you to focus more in college. Take part in co-curricular activities, like debates and speech. They really help in building confidence and make your communication skills better. Choose a sport that could keep you occupied in your free time so you don't get bored. Be creative find your talent. Don't think you are less than anyone. Be experimental and open to trying out new activities even if they don't turn out good. Don't care about popularity in school. Be your own hero, try not to depend on others for help and figure things out on your own. It will make you stronger. Be a supportive friend and appreciate your friends accomplishments and take motivation rather then getting jealous. Don't let anyone take you for granted and don't be afraid to cut out toxic people from your life. Be kind yet don't let people step on you.

It’s a great feeling to see all these wonderful advices given to all the first year students out there. I wish I’d recevie these advices when I was in my first year.

A few more hacks for you girls :) 1. Before going to bed, pick out your outfit for tomorrow instead of in the morning. It makes you so much more organized and you'll be able to pick something that'll not only make you stand out, but something you really love

Before turning 15 I was so afraid, I don't know why. I just felt guilty and empty all of a sudden as my birthday approached but after turning 15, I realized there's nothing that has changed except my age, my life is the same, I am growing and becoming mature. Yeah studies are a little hard, it stresses me out sometimes but instead of complaining I try to discipline myself and work according to my schedule, that helps alot. The advice I'd give all the teenagers is that don't forget to breathe, don't forget to have a moment for yourself and clear up your head. Go on a trip, treat yourself and find ways to make yourself happy. Trust me, life will be better.

As a teenager, I try to live the moment and not “post” the moment. I try to experience and discover as much as I can. I try to find new good habits, new places, and new experiences. I try to teach and develop myself as much as possible. I try to not care about people’s looks at me. I try to be a good person with all my heart. Trying all those things at once every single day is hard work yet so amazing and worth it!

I'm 15 right now, and this video has legit helped me so much. I feel like there's a particular purpose for me doing things now. Ali you're the best!! Thanks so much!!

She's like the older sister we all wish we had

Idk why I clicked on this since I'm 24 almost 25 but I just want to tell you girls that it's gonna be okay. The world is really hard on you but it's not worth your attention and time. Be kind to yourself and enjoy the road you're on. I wished I had given myself permission to just be me and stop trying to be someone else. Stay safe and bless you all

as the oldest and only girl (i have two younger brothers), i never had an older sister to give me advice and never had a younger sister to give advice to. this is so serene and helpful. TO THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE SISTERS: please please please don’t take it for granted, and for those who don’t have brothers i love them sm i def dont take them for granted

As an 18-year-old watching this, I feel very encouraged because I already do a lot of these things! Thank you for making such a brilliant and beautiful video.

i feel like she explained everything so perfectly

My advice: This happened like 1 day ago to me- If a online friend/ friend suddenly starts being rude to you, Unfriend them. You won’t have them in your life anymore, it’s not good for mental health, and they weren’t your friend anyways I had a friend who I haven’t seen in 1 year and they were sending me rude messages. I just deleted there number and told one of my friends abt it and asked them if it was ok! She said it was and she had the same problem with that person. Don’t listen to them! You are amazing

Being confident in being single is the BEST tip I've ever heard from someone. Being confident and HAPPY being single is the best way to find a healthy relationship. You don't rely on someone to make you happy so you are able to find someone who is healthy for you because you're not clinging to someone who is toxic.

"Wearing tighter clothes makes you appear more attracrive" I think most of the ppl here are like 10- 14 years old kids 😃

"Once you stop seeing others as competition, you'll be happier" THIS IS SO TRUE I went through a face of bad insecurities until I just realised, idc what people think of me, I'm going to do my life how I want to It made me so much happier :)

No girl around my age is gonna agree to this: In all my 13 years of living I have NEVER. EVER. wore makeup on my own without my mom putting it on me. I usually never wear ANY makeup when i'm going out or guests are visiting. I only wear it when i'm going to, let's say, a festival where ur supposed to look fancy or smt. And no, its not embarrassing.

being almost 18, I would like to recommend my junior self, don't compare!! you are enough and better than a lot of people, just don't mind the words of ones who don't even matter. Just be yourself n do what your heart says.

13 y/o girl here, these tips seem very helpful and I'll implement them in to everyday life lots of love!!! ❤️❤️

I love how this isn’t just on looks but on so many other stuff. You have earned yourself a sub!!!

I'm 17 turning 18 this june and I really feel like I wasted most of my teenage years in being sad and depressed for no reason - and the 2 years of real school experience that I lost because of the pandemic is even more depressing to think about, the memories I could've made with friends, the fun I would've had but didn't because of online school. But now I should know better and not worry about things that aren't in my control. Thank you so much again. I just want to have fun, I don't want to look back in 30 years and regret that I missed out on my young adult years by being a depressing piece of &hit

Another tip, your teenage years don't have to be perfect. You may not have had many friends, low energy, not much hype. You may not have gone out often to parties and such but that's okay. It can just mean the peak of your youth has yet to come.

Ur making every to me more comfortable bc everything is happening to me and ur giving me advices including « stop giving rude people attention that’s what keeps them talking » thank you so much❤

Though you couldn't go back in time to tell your teenage self these things, you've just told them to this teenage me and it is exacty what she has always needed to hear

Youre literally the only one whos honest and realistic in her vidsss, and i got soooooooooo many new tipsss

ive been needing advice like this! i really appreciate you making a video like this one, it makes me feel like im not alone and that i can get through anything. thank you so much ilysm!

Wow! These are actually really helpful advices! Not just the same thoughts most of the youtubers/tiktokers are saying all the time. I yould actually use some of them and they make sense! Thank you!😁

you are literally the big sister i never had. Thx so much for this obakie! Love you lots!

No one has ever given me such good advice like you did 🥺❤ tysm you’re the best

3:24 instructions weren't clear, now I'm an alcoholic (jk)

This is a lot of good advice. I got my life in order recently and I can say I did about half the stuff on this list and it made me feel amazing about myself. The thing is you can pick and choose which you want to do and which will make you feel best. You don't have to do anything big

Another advice I would give is to not care what other people think of you. I know, at the beginning it's hard, but once you finally do it you will feel just amazing. Being yourself is always better than trying to be someone who you are not. Everybody is different and that is what makes us unique. Also, don't try to be friends with anyone just because you don't have friends. It's 100 times better to be alone rather than having fake friends. Once I had a friend in primary school and I could notice that she was very jealous of me because I was always had better marks than her at school. Then we stopped being friends, but later in middle school we kinda started being friends again (because I didn't have any other friends and she didn't have any friends). Now we did argue (and in my opinion it was, again, because she is jealous of me) and we're enemies again. The point is that if a person did dissapoint you once, don't give them a second chance because usually they don't change at all

THANK YOU GIRL 💗💗💗 I needed that so bad thanks a lot

love the honesty in this video! super helpful

. thank you so much for making us all feel comfortable and loved. we love you

im so happy that nowadays the younger generations get a headstart with these type of videos. back then these weren't that common or they just didnt have advice that was actually useful. but now, it is more available for everyone and i love that.

i actually had no idea about the first one, and the mascara one! i never knew you could get an infection from that, ive used my friend’s maybelline sky high mascara before i got it and i never knew it would cause something like that, thankyou for telling me this!

I needed this so much

She’s literally a mood, she’s my best friend and everything and she’s bae and content is bae and lastly she’s such a big sister to me and I’m literally grateful for her!😩❤‍🩹

This was so helpful i love how honest and helpful obakie is

0:54 this touched my heart thankuuuu❤❤❤

Your like my guardian angel, thanks for all these tips, I'll make sure to follow them, stay safe and stay hydrated

This video is amazing full of advices. It changed my life .Thank you OBAKIE.

Sleeping with a bra on will NOT stunt your breast growth or cause breast cancer!! This has been said by medical professionals and can be researched. When it comes to the ammount of breast tissue, it almost always comes down to genetics, not sleeping with or without a bra. HOWEVER, if a bra is worn for too long for enough dirt and oils to start accumulating, it may cause skin irritation and acne. Wash your bras often.

How aesthetically you make your videos is just awesome 💜💜💜

i just started watching ur video and i love how your just positive u are these advices are rlly helpful thanks love!!!!!!!!!

Im 15 and I think I really needed this. Thank you so much you explained everything perfectly

Thank you for the tips! I just turned 14 a week ago and I think I can start to live differently rather then living a lonely life ❤

Your videos gave me a complete glowup and they are always so helpful Thank you 🥺💫✨

tysm, this is really helpful for me because i’ve just arrived in my teenage years 💗😊

watching your videos /play all/ is my selfcare >>

1:49 “If I cut you off, chances are you handed me the scissors.” I love you Obakie thank you for teaching me everything I know ❤

Thankyou obakie .. 💙 each of your advice are on point and it really helps us alot even though some of the Questions aren't applicable/ or not part of our life style you make us Relate And open our minds to it 💐 Love you 💗

literally AMAZING for tips and advice like i genuinely wish she was my big sis-

man, spending my teenage years ugly, lonely and depressed is the worst feeling, the amount of videos like these i have watched is insane, i just feel like i will never fit in, or be beautiful

This video helps me a lot I'm turning 13 in september and I rlly loved this video helped me think to not give attention to the bullies in my class!! Also helps me to know things like the ice to remove acne tysm I needed this 😂🤣

This advise acc helped me bc as a yr 7 (yeah I'm kinda young) it helped me way better than the previous vids I watched n I haven't been doing my skincare n my skin hasn't been good so yeah I'm hoping to have a good yr by following these tips byee!

THIS HELPS SM THANK YOUUU

Omg tysm for the tips you really help me

in 2:13 that happen to me not once but twice :> like when the first day of school I really don't wanna take off my mask even my friends telling me to take if off but I really don't wanna do it cause I'm insecure of myself I don't have confident unlike those girls I see from my school they really so pretty I just don't have the confident, then ONE DAY its lunch time I was like really hungry cause I didn't eat much from home then we're walking to the cafeteria then we grab some snacks, NOW when were going to our room, I just take off my mask without making decision XD cause like I'm really hungry that time lol then my one of my closest friend said "dang girl u gotten much prettier" then were walking down the hall way then a bunch of boys staring at me like wth bro ;-; I'm just trying to eat in peace ;-; they are like talking idk what they're saying but I put my mask on then walk away T-T, then it happened again at the Mall my Mom needs to go to the toilet then I go with her ( dude ur grammar needs improvement XD ) then this two boys ( they're like 17-18 ) was freaking staring at me I'm not sure but the other dude was like open-mouth XD before that I take off my mask cause yea XD thats it :D btw new subs >:3

Hey everyone, just saying theres a few things wrong with this video. All the tips on how to appear more attractive don't apply to everyone, like the one where it says to wear tighter clothes or paint your nail certain colors. Only do this if its what your comfortable with!! Some people will feel more confident with it and some without. Do what makes you happy and don't ever change yourself to make someone else happy.❤❤

You're amzing omfg, thank you so much for this!✨💞🦋

Im turning 13 this year and Im actually thankful i found your channel, thanks! New subscriber heree

“Don’t be obsessed with finding a bf” proceeds to give us tips on how to be more attractive to others

3:59 pleaseee sleep on your back! I've been sleeping on the side of my face for many years which caused asymmetry on my face and I've always been insecure 😊

Tysm for the tips, love ur videos! 💞

Thanks i really love your channel. Ilysm ♡

It was pretty helpful for me i'm 18 and i think i have a lot of time to change my life 🙂 go forward and do something beneficial for ourselves Btw mostly i liked when you said " Don't worry what others think about you"🙃 Thanks you Obakie i for such as useful videos for us❤

0:38 OMG That is such a good idea! I can't buy ANYTHING, because I think, all will judge me...

Aww thank you so much for this advices 🥺💖 I wish I've known this earlier so I won't make many mistakes and regrets 😌 but I'm gonna be a better person now.

you don't know how much these tips means to me at first when i saw your content i was like idk how i got here but i'll stay

As a 17y/o autistic lesbian my tips are to focus on yourself, bc this is the time when forming an identity is most important. Nothing society or what the norms tell u to do matters. Be yourself and be wild, try out every trend or invent your own flavors. Practice leaving your comfort zone. In this age range youre going to change SO MUCH and so fast, so don't feel pressured abt ruining ur teen years, and for the love of God, do not date anyone three years older or younger 😭🙏💯

thank you so much girliee these helpeddd meee

i love you gurl😟 tnx for the vid💖

Me who prefers discord more than snapchat even though I have both: 👁👄👁

I love all of these tips except for the Snapchat has a better camera than and iPhone because Snapchat turns you into someone you aren't it makes you look like someone else and when you realise you look prettier with Sanpchat it makes a person depressed. we should all be happy with our flaws!

ILY ur so kind! ♡

Your videos helped me so much! Thanks for the advice :D

hi, 17 year old sister advice. you are barely a teenager (focusing on the 10-13 group here), you don’t have to appear “attractive”. you are in this world to learn and find yourself, not to please others with your appearance, especially looking at yourself through adult standards. they already too messed up for adults, they shouldn’t be your concern. focus on keeping your hygiene in a good condition and don’t push yourself to look attractive. you’re too young to feel sexualised. stay safe out there, lots of love x

0:33 but blue and black are cool too v:

Thank you for this!❤In 5 months I’ll be 13!Im getting a good head start!

I loved these sm you're so awesome and you help so many people! May you be blessed

0:24 lesbians watching this: 😭

2:30 I have to have my alarm right next to me otherwise I genuinely can't hear it 😭 I keep it under my pillow

big sister who?! you!!! you really help me, i’m gonna come back to your channel whenever i feel good, or need help. i got my motivation from YOU!! today!

This video is so helpful i hope it reached to more girls so that they can learn

2:20 look some of these tips are good but some of them are very um- questionable. like wtf.

Me when I cut my art teacher in half (she handed me scissors once)

Absolutely wonderful. Thank you for this wonderful channel. I'm just seeing your channel, today, but I'm already a subscriber. I'm always looking for ways to help myself and our girls in the community, especially in my family. Peace to you, and peace to everyone who finds this wonderful channel.

A new subscriber tysm for the tips, you guide me like your my own sister!! 😃💕

Can you suggest skincare routine for a 15 year old? And i'm chubby so i don't feel confident in most of the outfits so can u suggest also what should I wear?

2:36 bro I have phobia to eye contact ;-;

This helped me SO much tysm you just got a new sub!