oh man i met a girl with 8 of these qualities.... was a nightmare and so hard to get rid of her

@@nikosv8166 same🤣🤣🤣🤣

Narcissist

Or ruminating and talking about good things about her ex is a flag she is more attached to him than you

All women do number 5

That's Gaslighting dude ! She is miserable, her own mind would eat her like maggots one day, you just dodged a land mine

Yea.. its great to watch these videos for reminders ... I had a few leaches in my life

100% bro my ex had like 9 of them and holy fuck love blinds you. So true focus on yourself kings

Same here I ignored or let slide all those red flags, 2 years wasted

@@aten8953 me too 1 year

I agree as well. I had my own flaws as well in yhe relationship because I thought it was all me but holy damn this video listed a half of what my ex was. The sex and romance deluded me from reality. What's worse is that everyone around me was watching us too and they all tried to warn me but I didn't listen. Or couldn't listen from the overdose of serotonin clouding my vision. Never again.

Yep. The lying one is key. A healthy relationship has transparency, honesty, & no lying. I refused to be transparent with my girl for months about something then finally caught her lying to me (Because she was trying to mimic my behavior). Checked her on it, fixed it by being transparent going forward & she hasn't lied to me since

I always mirror men's behavior... whenever I see and feel any of those red flags..... sorry guys 🙈😅 you'll get them back, before I walk away and let go

Dated a girl that everyone said was a total liar, crazy, manipulative, for about three months we hung out and vibed like we knew each other for years she was very beautiful and I'm always saying to myself this girl or that girls way to good for me which I know is bad to do I just can't help it at the moment but she wanted to get into a relationship and I wasn't so sure cuz I knew I'd get attached to her, but took her pov in perspective maybe thinking she's changed idk, we got matching tattoos that had half hearts on her finger half on mine and she'd kinda imitate how I have alot of respect with life and Loyalty amongst everything in life, rn lol so two weeks ago she says she's going to pick up her brother with her sister in georgia and we're in Indiana so she's texting me saying ,"I miss your face, or love you miss you" gets back in three days and ghosts me for a week straight and I told her from the start that we should've just been friends but still swore up and down she was being honest with me but obviously she just wanted to play some sorta mind games or emotionally needs attention from who or whatever I just thought wow three months out I'd honestly give her a golden globe nominee for how genuine she did act with me and just got together and was great but yes she just acts like I'm extinct now so idk

@@excallibur4574 you caught her lying because she was trying to mimic you ? No brother. That not why people lie. They lie to hide things they arnt proud of, ashamed of or things they want to hide. I think you should examine that and don't be blaming yourself for the reason you caught your girl lying to you

@@chriswood922 bltches swing that way, trust me you dodget a bullet.

Very true brother!!!

@@username-ze9fx That was a very good decision you took. But just be 100%sure that you did not Love her deeply.otherwise you might not be happy at all. I mean if True Love is There.... If you Love her,communicate... express yourself how you would like things be done.

Istg bro... I saw a few of them in my too

How do you get your heartbroken before even in a relationship😂 you sir are a professional sucker

You were not in a relationship. Ergo you broke your own heart. You put her on a high pedestal. You tricked your own mind in to believing you had something when you clearly didn’t. That’s on you and not her. So I will say that is selfish to blame her for that. Perhaps she just saw you as a kind person and not relationship material. Nothing more, nothing less. I’m not trying to be mean to you. And I’m sure you really liked her. I’m just saying you set yourself up believing this was more than it was.

My dog gives me more love than anyone ever has. Its a win win for both of us

Already have but I have classic cars instead of a dog..

That's what I did when I saw his red flags

dude, the brutal truth is these sorts of women are not girlfriend material... they are commonly referred to as 'pump and dump'. More PUA's need to expose these traits as I find guys are led into a trap of 'dating' one of these monsters because they are good looking..

A Friend of mine - when his wife left, he was Sad. But when later his Dog died, he Cried .......

This chicks with psycho problems are the worst to deal with. She will try to project the shit on you . Fuck that .Run ASAP

NEVER date a BPD girl

and what was that?

@@gregorfrim2898 for me, its fun stuff with my right hand

If it gave you joy then it was not a waste of time 💊🤔🥱

Completely disrespectful and a waste of your time.

Video games are a waste of time unless you're making money from it.

omg! these are all wonderful

Very good!!! I look for many of these traits. I think the 4th (healthy balance between interest and independence) is VERY important. Also, the more I go on in life, I say it's quite suspicious when someone is not able to befriend people from both sexes.

@@MelisseDelice87 yh

Yes!

Love it. It makes me realise that sometimes, negative thought patterns can drive our mindset more than we like to admit. Admittedly, red flags are usually like things you're not thinking about but they bug you subconsciously and you don't know why. That's all a red flag is. Putting a name to the thing that bugs you. Green flags are universal.

Yeahhhh. Be smart when young and stay out of the dating game. Work on yourself first. Over half these people don’t even know themselves and they’re creating this crazy relationships and it always leads in heart-break. All good things come in time.

What age is considered young to yall ?

@@omarhinojosa279 I think that it really depends on the two people and the circumstances of the relationship. But that’s just my opinion.

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.

Dude go to school and learn how to spell! (Percent)

BPD results from childhood abuse. Yes, you need to get out of there fast. Even many psychiatrists can’t fix this. And if you are not one, you can never fix her.

Cliche dating site profile- "Love hiking, traveling," Hiking= Walking. Not a hobby. Traveling= Going different places. Not a hobby.

😂😂😂

@@themadasshatter1088 true

True

I don't blame women who say that cause they basically have a beta male father 🤣

They know exactly what they want, they merely pretend not to so they can manipulate men.

Amen to that brother

@@PeerlessUtopian qq00

I've heard this too. Dumbest shit lol

yeah otherwise you could get sithilis

@@minder4u1 HAHA

Is that absolutely true?

Confident players have the high ground.

Its not their fault they were abused. If you demonstrate you are worth trusting then a woman will trust you but if she has been mistreated its not her fault

My boyfriend did that. I was the one reaching out to him and he went days without replying to me. All the time saying he was committed to us. I'm a good, kind woman who hasn't got any of these traits

@@helensanderson7092 Oh yeah, this is not isolated to one gender. There are men who do this to woman all the time too and the same thing I said above goes in that situation, too. When people are interested in being around you, they will be. When they're trying to avoid you, they will make every excuse not to show up. People who show up periodically only to get something out of you are manipulating you and not healthy for your life. It doesn't really matter if that thing is a hookup, attention, validation, etc.

Ngl I was like that and now I’m trying not to fall in love too easy, I have no hobbies 😂

Usually means they have BPD.

Watch out for those kind of girls cause they can turn into #8 kind of girls and murder you in your sleep. 🤔

But i wonder... Would u consider a 30+ woman too? I see alot if men the same age as a woman treat her as too old if she is 30+ and single. Just asking. No accusations.

@@adsvert3909 Thats a nice point you brought up. Its true that many men dont look up to women 30 and 30+, but that is a society's old tale. For 2 reasons: 1 - back in the day, woman 30 or 30+ were in fact very beaten by time, wich does not applies to nowadays. 2 - Its easier to be persuasive with a 20ish than a 30ish. Many men dont want equal, they want to rule alone.

Facts, the sex keeps men addicted. Stop playing the game fellas.

Toni V. You write the HARD truth! Many Men my "forget" the lost years in recovering from these REAL Crazies! All those total years lost... For S*X? Not worth it...

@Jennifer than your that one woman in 10,000. Stay assertive beautiful.

Funny.. I had a girl that said that after dating her for a few months... so I started talking to other women ..she eventually came around and wanted us to be "exclusive"... lol

@@davorebo5790 lol! Good story she was confused until other women wanted you haha! Unlike us guys, women tend to want you more when other women want you. Stay toxic!

@@dougiehikesvegas Simp

@@redpillthinking6043 lol simp. Stay positive!

Don't date women that need fixing its that simple.

Remind yourself always: It is not your job to fix anyone. You can try to be supportive but if she doesn't try to help herself then there's nothing you can do for her. It's hard to help someone who doesn't want help. Set healthy boundaries for your own peace of mind. Maintaining good mental and emotional health is important too.

Well maybe you talk to him after he has gone so she might just be checking to see you are ok

People don't like her,she gets teased,the girl has no friends,she feels stranded,doesn't have an ex,not a good sign,I'm different to other guys💲

I heard these ones: "You're 'ghosting' me." (While being just as silent) "I want to talk on the phone more vs texting/messaging." (The phone line runs both ways, SO CALL ME THEN.) It's tough to always be "the problem" in a relationship.

Wow that's a long time with someone, I hope you find peace 🙏

Ended a 7 yr relationship with a narcissistic woman.. its tough but it gets better with time and a shiat.. ton of hobbies .. keep busy

Exactly in every relationship there is good and bad. Ive loved every man lve been with but l also had to walk away when l realised they were hurting me

Experience

Absolutely, this was not meant as an attack on anyone. I myself have been guilty of some of these. If you see someone exhibiting them consistently you don't have to leave them but I would at least address it. See if they are willing to change or it can be worked out. You're right, no one is perfect but if the person is willing to work with you then a lot of issues can be fixed.

@@TheSingleGuy so true .takes effort but i tbink its worth it to work on it.whatever it may be.

Should I Trust In Your Keyboard ?

Dated all of these.. and here I am 37 and single.

U can search for me😄

“If you’re seeing these things consistently”

They do. The goal is to pick the ones that have a low red flag score 😂

Yeah my ex had all ten......plus 4 more!

@@mwloos1 👌😂👍🤣

Mine literally had all of them. 🤦‍♂️

Or say, "I truly hope you find what you want".. & leave.

What we want is respect from men and loyalty

Riiiiight.

Poor girl didnt know how to communicate thats all

@@fionagrant2023 she was awesome for a while and I keep in contact with her and it turns out she was trying to move on a couple of days afterwards. It’s upsetting for me and idk if I can handle being her friend rn. To be fair I was being an idiot in the relationship. I wasn’t mean to her at all but I was insecure. She had a lot of guy friends, she never wanted to tell me where she was. I was a bit controlling. I never yelled or tell her not to do something but I was uncomfortable with it being with guy friends. I was unhealthy for her, she wasn’t healthy for me. It sucked but I miss her a lot.

You want a perfect lady good luck