If you’ve watched this video to the very end i love u:') what are some new mindset habits that you've picked up on throughout this year?

People are like flowers. You wouldn't compare a daisy to a petunia because they are different types of flowers. Instead, we appreciate how unique each flower is. We should do the same with people :)

therapy: expensive and risky bc of covid-19 jem's videos: free and 100% works

Sometimes I forget that people project their insecurities on me.

what i say instead of “i have anxiety” is “i’m overcoming anxiety”. i think it’s definitely good to acknowledge and comfort yourself through the fact that you have some battles, but you don’t have to accept it as a part of you. once you accept it, you start convincing yourself that you’re stuck with it and you’ll never change. i use to turn down any social situation or public speaking and say “i can’t, i have anxiety.” now i tell myself “i can, i’m overcoming my anxiety.” obviously everyone has different levels of anxiety and some may need to take smaller steps than others. this may not be the best method for everyone, but i wanted to share in case someone found some insight

i feel like quarantine has made me address all my deep rooted issues and it’s both a blessing and a curse lol

the self-victimizing part really hit home bc of my bipolar and then i felt guilty that i was blaming my bipolar for my own flaws :)

Getting older sometime feels like a curse you need to stop, specialy if you feel like you are not where you "suppose" to be, and sometime where you suppose to be is goal made by the society, be marriage by this age, have kind at that age, finish you education at that age, know what you want to do with your life and that deadline is teenager, and thats something im trying to shake of me, since i just found out what i want to do with my life, and i feel like im so late to party, but im trying to be kinder to my self. thank you for the video, you definity made me think of certain things.

going into finals, ending the year - i totally needed this. the amount of reflection i did with this video I'M GETTING CLEANSED

Depression and others is and can be negative, you don't have to limit yourself to certain realities It can be different if you want it to

you looked like a cozy grandma in the thumbnail and i mean this with so much love omg.

Dear Jem, i listen your coffee shop podcast and videos.idk your voice is so soothing and positive. You cheer me up everytime i am with you.Strange how we connect being so far away from you.Lots of love from 🇳🇵❤️

it's 3am right now in my country but 💖✨priorities✨💖

What you said about not wanting to read or write for fun because it can’t generate income in our capitalist society was SO relatable. I’m also working on overcoming that way of thinking and just doing things for myself and my own growth and happiness. Also you’re totally right that nobody has it all figured out and we shouldn’t put so much pressure on ourselves to always know what’s next. This was such a lovely video, you’re super inspirational and have such a calming vibe! 💛

so motivating n beautiful. it's the trying to help others and being kind for me.

1 point..the quotes part...the comparing myself part ..so many parts soo much relatable ! :( thanks for this❤

number 3 is SO true... i honestly appreciate you putting it on there :') i honestly didn't take this into account until covid

I never clicked on a notification this fast ahaha

wow! that bit about feeling that your hobbies don’t matter really resonated with me. I always feel like, if what i’m doing isn’t really gonna get me anywhere in the future, then it’s a waste of time. this was super insightful, and made me realize that doing things that make me happy should be enough!! Thanks Jem 💗

I really needed this. Thank you!! 🥰

thank you for uploading this! it really means a lot and is super helpful!

the timing of this is so great!!! exactly what I needed. thank you so much

the rain in the background was so soothing 🥰

I'm proud of how you improve yourself

I love all your vids so much Jen they help me think back and reflect and thank you so much for that . I hope you have a good rest of your day :)

We love u too! My favorite youtuber:>

i loved how realistic this video was and how much i could relate to it.

nothing like a Jem video to make me do my work and feel better

Gurl, thanks so much for this video, I think it rocks and I know it’s gonna help people out there. A lot of people need to hear this advice (including me) :)

i needed this, thanks boo

thank you a lot for this video ✨💕

I love you Jem!! You have inspired me so much, and ur vids have helped me so much to get out of studying slumps and pull out a great mind set!!! Thank you so much!!!!!!

Really needed this video Jem thanks for posting it! I really loved how open you were being in the video and that it was longer than most of ur videos too

great video omg. i love how calming yet educational your videos are. it legitimately feels like I'm talking to a friend tysm for making our weekends!

Thank you so much for this video, I really needed these tips! I hope I'm able to use them in practice

Thank you so much for this video! The tips are insightful and speak to the areas I’m actively working on!

I needed this video and I’m literally going through the same , so thank you ❤️

thank you SO much ! this was r e a l l y inspiring :,)

SUCH AN AMAZING VIDEO. Love your mentality. Love you, Jem 🌟

hi jem!! i just wanted to thank you for your videos and podcasts :] i really love hearing you talk about life bcs it makes me feel much more at ease. i also tend to feel down on the days that u upload, so having new videos to come and relax to make me feel so much better!! so thank u so much

Thank you so much for this video. I love how open you were and I definitely needed to hear these things, so I can better my own life too. 💖

Jem giving me the validation I really needed for the past few days :( I really appreciate this! ♥

Jem I really loved the whole video. I am a huge fan of yours. Thanks for posting, love your editing🎅🌲💜

I love listening to your voice and insights about things! Rooting 4 you Jem😊😊 I have also listened to some of your podcasts!

this video really means a lot, every detail you said is really things that i went through, It motivates me to fight my fears and its enable to find myself to show my truth capabilities to change my life...

i always go back to this video when i feeling myself slipping into a bad state of mind and it always does the trick!!! tysm for this jem

I just love her and this really helped me. :)

#2 really inspired me. I resonated so much with the fact that the things I love such as blogging and film seem "useless." But this was such a great reminder to keep pursuing those passions!

i love how u can simply put everything into words beautifully and i can relate to it as right now and in my current situation. And i somehow feel like youre like a sister to me cus i dont have one lol . This feels really nice. Thank you jem

thank you, i needed this video rn

I love your videos they are so advisable and helpful, and relatable. : )

your voice is so pleasing :)

Thank You so much for this!! Just yesterday I was feeling really down on myself. And the gaslighting of yourself is real!!. But as of today that stops. I am going to celebrate the positive in my life and I will be working on the negative. And once again Jem thank you so much, and as always you are the best❤️

i love this, thank you

Your points were very valid 🙂 And may I say I love your make up and hair 😍

two days late but i love the video ! thank you for the advice once again jem

ahhhhh i love love love you for this :')

thank you for the free therapy session

I LOVE SO MUCH THIS VIDEO ♥

Omg, Thank you soo much for these beautiful reminders and lessons !! I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THISS VIDEO, MY LOVEE !! I LOVEE YOU SOO MUCH MY ANGEL !! SENDING YOU LOADS OF LOVEE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY AND HUGSS !! ❤️❤️❤️🦋

Look at you! Growing out of your negative mindset! Ahh I’m more proud than a proud mom fr fr. 💞💞 you deserve the world!

i love u sm jem! you're the best 💕

You really made me feel well. I have a great anxiety disorder and when I your videos i feel so comfy, relaxed and safe. Thank you i love you so so much i feel like you are my older sister that i have never had❤ love from Italy🇮🇹

This video really spoke to me. I learned so much, and at the same time, you gave me the chance to reflect on myself and what I've learned throughout quarantine. If you have time, could you please do a video on how to deal with failure? I just feel like there's always a fear of failing for everyone, and it would be wonderful if you could address it and give your thoughts and opinions. Lots of Love

Thank u so much for this video. After everything we all went through this past year what u said was really needed. This 18 minutes long video might have not completely changed my mindset but I picked up a lot of good things from it especially things that would help me deal with anxiety in the future. Truly felt like my older sister giving life advices to me. Hope u have the best year ahead Jem I love u !

yay finally first i love u jem 🥰🥰🥰🥰ur videos are so soothing 🙂

Thanks a lot for posting for this video.❤ 🎄🎇♥️ I can't explain in words that how much it helped me!‼ BTW UR VOICE IS SO CALMING THAT I CAN HEAR IT FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS 🎧🎧😍

Your videos just help me a lot, Thank you.

I love your content!

thank you i really needed this

I love watching these type of videos as you navigate life. I'm struggling with similar things as you and it's nice to see such a driven women who's being proactive about her problems. Edit: When are uploading your next podcast? 💞

i love this omg this is just what i needed 🥺💖luv u sm

Love this!! ❤️💖

Love you, sis❤️🙏 thank u so much 💖

Thank you for this video🤍

omg i can relate so much thank you for making this :)

bro i love you tysm 🥺

honestly u r so motivational like dude, u keep it so real. ty and luv u ! 🤍

Happy #AdoreYouDay !! And i adore you jem :D

Damn, this is spot on! Especially on the optimistic part!!

this was v much needed :))

needed to take notes bcs THIS IS WAY ACCURATE TO BE NOT TAKEN 🤧 thank you for this Jem! check her podcast guys, it soul saving. 🤍✨

I needed this

i love ur videos pls always more

i have quiz tomorrow and i'm glad i'm watching this before reviewing my notes. thank you so much

loved loved LOVED this video

jem, i can't even tell u how much im grateful for u for doing this video. im at a crucial step in my student life right now and i needed this so much. thank u thank u thank u

Bruh thank you for posting this video, I gotta fix this lazy and anxious mind of mine 😭

Your videos are a breath of fresh air ❤️ Also your makeup looks so pretty 😍

thank you so much for this video.

i just came from your podcast, i love the way you think oh my god.

yes ! luv ya 🤍

love u jem ❤️❤️

U change my life thanks u sooooooooo much your videos make me a human🙏💜

I loved this

We love you, Jem.

Lots of love from Nepal❤️🇳🇵 You are my favorite KZfaqr😊

The number four is really relatable for me. I’ve been following one of my fav youtuber and she’s in my age, more or less. She’s recently married and right now she is building her new house and it is super big, and i was like, wth is wrong with me? I even don’t have a job because of this pandemic (recently graduated from uni) and it make me really sad to watch someone around my age that can afford big house 😥 Love you btw Jem, one of the most honest and real youtuber ever 🥰

Please watch the full video and subscribe to her channel , she's a love !!!! Free therapy ❤❤

This was very helpful, I, like many others in today's time, have a hard time just having the motivation or self love when we wake up in the morning. I will definitely implicate these methods into my life, thank you so much. I have been in a really dark place lately and this really made me think, and feel so much better about what is to come in life! thank you and stay safe. :^)