10 things I wish I knew Before being a mom | HINDI | WITH ENGLISH SUBTITLES

10 things I wish I knew Before being a mom | HINDI | WITH ENGLISH SUBTITLES | Debina Decodes |

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2 ай бұрын

Motherhood is a beautiful journey, but it can also be overwhelming. Nobody told me that it's not just about caring for your baby; you also need to take care of yourself. Proper assistance from family and friends can make a big difference. Vitamins and supplements are crucial for keeping your energy up and your body healthy. Prenatal vitamins are just the start-supplements like collagen, vitamin C, and biotin can help your skin recover and feel your best.
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10 things I wish I knew Before being a mom | HINDI | WITH ENGLISH SUBTITLES | Debina Decodes |
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@BulbulBarman-ss3yk 2 ай бұрын

With all due respect to your mother hood journey, what do you want to highlight for content? Having 2 nannies for 2 children, own parents a friend who you have turned into a photographer, cooperative family who allows you to do everying in house for youtube vlogs & still you r glorifying & doing paid promotion through your journey. Acknowledge those who do it without even realizing what an ardent task it is, those women who did it all for themseves managing home or going out to work. Honestly I feel your only task is to fit in all the imaginary high society spectrum which you are really insecured about. Desperately fitting into everything out of your insecurities of skin color, body shape & everything is quite evident. So please stop spreading these artificial made up vlogs...be the way you are show things the way it is & your vlogs will be loved💙 (eg. Bharti mam we all love her because of her being so natural inspite of all flaws & imperfections💙)

@prarthanadas7053 2 ай бұрын

Very well summarised!

@BulbulBarman-ss3yk 2 ай бұрын

👍🏽💙

@Asma34752 2 ай бұрын

Please you keep posting your own journey,your own work...in this way the kids specially lianna will be less pressurized....let her enjoy being only herself just like her sister...

@quirkychip 2 ай бұрын

Don’t tie such tight ponytails to your babies. It’s not recommended for anyone in general. It causes hair thinning. Also, don’t make them wear elastic headbands. It’ll hamper the blood circulation.

@sowmiyanadar23 2 ай бұрын

In summer vacation even the school going children play and take rest but this little lianna is not able to🥺. Like Divisha lianna must also be allowed to enjoy her childhood. Lianna is few months older doesn't mean she should do these many things😶😶😶

@rupalikulkarni1450 2 ай бұрын

True but why debina doing so with little baby?

@umb819 2 ай бұрын

Let Liana enjoy her babyhood and choose what she likes to do as she grows older, else when she is big she will be disinterested in everything

@rupalikulkarni1450 2 ай бұрын

True but kon kitana bhi samaye nhi manegi bahut pyariiii intelligent clever smart confident baby ko aise nhi dekh sakte

@rupalikulkarni1450 2 ай бұрын

Debina please agar aap class nhi bhi lagate 📺 tv timing bhi nhi rakhate to bhi pura din lianna ka time pass ho jaata aur wo bhi acche se lianna ko bahut saare gift 🎁 mile hai usko nikalti khelne deti dono betiyon ko ek saath to ye acche parenting ki nishani hoti 😊 Dono ka bond aap ke saath bhi strong hota aur aapas me bhi strong hota hi hota

@AP-do8mi 2 ай бұрын

You multi-task Debina and follow your own rules. Dont impose them on tiny tots. . Dont make little 2 year old multi task. Dance ki baad party, school otherwise to keep your own cool. Despite help, you feel easily ruffled, with handling of almost twins,... this is an over stretch and is repeatedly pointed out to you. Ghar is for kids. Yes its chaotic, and they do raise a storm. But you have to learn to enjoy it. Also its easy to be soft spoken to a calmer kid. The uphill battle for you is to keep your calm around a boisterous and assertive in her own way, kid who has her own likes/dislikes. The journey of raising kids is very brief. they become own person soon. Once its over we live relishing memories of motherhood. Dont swat guilt away but use it as a pointer to make this journey better. Lastly I as a mom believe milestones and achievements are all individual centric. But a word of caution here, although Liana appears absolutely fine and is tremendously interactive, speech delay needs to be addressed. here in US they send state sponsored speech therapist and child psychologist starting as early as age 2, to help them pick sign language and then spoken words, in the known comfort of home. Not all milestones are same as kisne kab pen pakda.

@prarthanadas7053 2 ай бұрын

Very well said.....liaana hasn't picked up any speech yet which is quite concerning..hope d parents are concerned about it too

@visibility738 2 ай бұрын

Well said. Totally agree

@monika53005 2 ай бұрын

No bhut se baby 5 year tk bhi bolte hai it's normal vho sb kuch smjtj hai iska mtlb jb vho bolna strt krgi tb thode hi time me sida sentence bolgi

@AP-do8mi 2 ай бұрын

@@monika53005 5 years main bole theek hain But you have to get them help starting age 2. Its all about brain re-wriring. Speaking through experience here.

@rupalikulkarni1450 2 ай бұрын

@@prarthanadas7053 yes jab wo divisha ke saath bhi khelegi ya dadi, nani ke saath hogi to hi to bolne ki koshish karegi na debina kyu nhi samjati

@prem9303 2 ай бұрын

This lady is torturing small toddler by imposing too much pressure on her.no one should watch her channel.

@rupalikulkarni1450 2 ай бұрын

Atleast we r raising voice if we r not with little lianna then

@khatijafatima669 2 ай бұрын

Dear I love your kids allot n love your the way of upbringing your kids but you know how it is possible for you to be happy n in relax mood always how you handle these two kids in z same time becoz dear you have two nanny's, for each child you have nanny plus your mother is there you have your best friend, n camera men to capture every single moment so you r blessed to have . That's y you can enjoy each single moment. You have so many helping hands with you dear debina.

@afreen6672 Ай бұрын

Thank you for always motivating all of us with your true experience, really appreciated that u socially say truth to your audience, not like others .Pls make more videos like this

@sujataroychoudhury3202 2 ай бұрын

Lianna was very tired ❤

@rupalikulkarni1450 2 ай бұрын

Yes very true sirf 2 saal ki baby hai wo divisha always wondering around debina then why not lianna itani bhi chotusa baby nhi hai divisha only 6_7 months ka difference hai dono me pata nhi kyu bahut bura lagta hai lianna ke liye

@vinitadesai8067 2 ай бұрын

Debinaji आप Liyana कों really मे सबके लिये force कर रही हो अपने से दूर रख रही हो तुम्हारे कहने पे वो सब करती है divisha कितनी free है किसीका नहीं सुनती अपनी मर्जी की करती है ऐसा होना चाहिये pls हम सबको Liyana पे हो रही जादती नहीं देखी जाती कितनी छोटी है वो pls उसको भी free छोडो ❤❤🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

@pratikdey9498 2 ай бұрын

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@shifamangoli8041 2 ай бұрын

poor baby lianna 😢 feeling sad for her lianna ko bhi uska bachpan enjoy karne do jaisa divisha karri hai

@rupalikulkarni1450 2 ай бұрын

Yes dear par we can just pray for lianna nothing else 😣🥺🥺

@priyankadebnath2026 2 ай бұрын

This vlog will be so helpful and great for all new mommy's out there you doing great Debi boudi ❤️❤❤❤❤ keep inspiring many..........and I loved the glimpse of Diva in this vlog she is the cutest................ sending more love to you and Gur bhaiya

@kstylefood 2 ай бұрын

Wonderful advice ❤

@gitatiwari8750 2 ай бұрын

Kafi acha and learning vedio tha😊

@ankitakirti1438 2 ай бұрын

Just so relatable , but maintaining sanity between all this becomes overwhelming

@kurusdriver6752 2 ай бұрын

I am grandmom of 2 babies. 1 is 3 years son & other one 10 years. Both are loving kids. I always like to see your Liana & Divisha on videos. They are so so cute babies. Touchwood. Gurmeet & you ofcourse make a very good pair. 👍

@GkioulerSalioglou 2 ай бұрын

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@user-dy1ss6me1c 2 ай бұрын

Hai sister, pls don't give so much stress to them..pls let them enjoy to the core...

@sara-pr5hs 2 ай бұрын

Do you sachi main consume it or just promotion ke liye bol rahe hain. I also want to know, is it collagen or collagen booster kyunki maine pada hai collagen kabhee directly lene se body absorb nahe hota. I hope you take note of my query

@user-jp9yl9ex9g 2 ай бұрын

Glimpse of divisha ❤❤❤ so cute. Liana beauty nap le rehi 😂 actually baccho ke sath plan kabhi bhi badal sakta

@dolandas7854 2 ай бұрын

Didi khub valo kotha bole6o tumi, mone onek sahosh pelam amr baby o choto ,so thank you 😊

@uditsharma5005 2 ай бұрын

Nice

@zakiakadri2119 2 ай бұрын

Well put all the points your content is always different 👍

@kiruthikasundaram 2 ай бұрын

These are indeed Valid points for all the new mom's and the soon to be mommy's too... thanks for sharing what you have experienced personally...and all these might be useful for many...lil diva was the cutest in between the shots... sending more love to you dears keep going and keep inspiring many dear di ❤

@glenysroberts3487 2 ай бұрын

Smthg very similar to what Rubina Dilaik is doing about before pregnancy

@ishudobhal8056 2 ай бұрын

Di i love u. Kash apki advices and the way u motivates with the most genuine advice i believe ki kash kbhi ap hum sabke liye ek group bnaye so that kaafi kuch hum sikh sakhe sabse he jaha sab apne experience share karein

@charvidosi3923 2 ай бұрын

Please do this segment on shorts video ❤❤❤

@allgaming-nn3xd 2 ай бұрын

Hello ma'am..meri daughter ka birthday hai ..muje Liana ki kuch dresses mil skti hai.please..

@sandhyamishra8041 2 ай бұрын

Ye aap shoot kyu krti h plz bataiye ye kon se kaam me use krti

@crazynisha0207 2 ай бұрын

Debina tho dil ki bhath bolthey ho

@sushmasamson9870 2 ай бұрын

Jesus bless you and your family Debina ji 🙏😊

@anitaraj8767 2 ай бұрын

Y do u give so much of stress to such a small kid…..school, dance classes n Wht not. All the viewers were telling u this only we have also raised our children but u want to b super mom. It’s too much. They need to enjoy life

@shifamangoli8041 2 ай бұрын

thats 💯 true but she didn't understand that

@ArchanaRath-qb4fi 2 ай бұрын

Bachon ko busy rakhna chahiye. Altu faltu cheezon se dur achhi cheezen sikhani chahiye. Ye bache bachpan se hi discipline sikhenge.

@ArchanaRath-qb4fi 2 ай бұрын

Debina is doing good.

@Asma34752 2 ай бұрын

@@ArchanaRath-qb4fi😂😂😂 wo sirf ak ko hi busy rakhti hain not the other one..and here people are saying to do everything with both of them but she does every activities with lianna not with divisha..

@seemaskitchen-foodsforhung6221 2 ай бұрын

Exactly...let the kids grow up in home environment first,,,let them grab the habits of mom dad other than teachers and nanny's

@manishmarketing4 2 ай бұрын

Very nice 👌 mama

@NidhiSingh-dz3hb 2 ай бұрын

i love your vlogs 😍

@anki7869 2 ай бұрын

Ma'am New born baby k excessive hair fall hota hai kya ....

@dipadas9115 2 ай бұрын

@anki7869 2 ай бұрын

@@dipadas9115 meri beti 4 months ki h usko left side se bhot hair loss ho raha hai pura khali ho chuka hai....

@monika53005 2 ай бұрын

@@anki7869 it's normal meri baby ka bhi six month me side ka sara hair chla gya tha sirf bich ka hair bacha tha bki tkli ho gyi thi but abhi vho 11 month ki hui hai n hair vapas aa gye hai

@anki7869 2 ай бұрын

@@monika53005 Thank you dear main to bhot Darr gyi thi ki itni choti bacchi h aur itna hair loss ho raha hai......😘😘😘

@thedentaldoctor7892 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful vlog Debina… I have a 10 month old and I feel the same… All the points are realistic. Shoutout to all the mom’s . We are doing great ❤

@harpreetbhatti8358 2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@shikhasingh8305 2 ай бұрын

Hi debina ,i love your vlogs and got to know so many new things about parenting and kids, but now i think u should slow down with lianna you are engaging her in too many things ,let her take proper rest and play, dont overburden her, let her enjoy her childhood ,she is not even 3 , after class 1 any way she will have to do a lot, You will do what you want but it suggestion, i hope many parents will agree to it

@vinitadesai8067 2 ай бұрын

Nice vlog imp tips 👌👌❤❤

@Kirtiverma16 2 ай бұрын

So cute family❤❤

@richakashyap8345 2 ай бұрын

Love you ma'am.. u r inspiration for all women

@nawalsheikh1260 2 ай бұрын

very true

@madhurimulye795 2 ай бұрын

Awsum vlog

@nishubhatia3138 2 ай бұрын

Nice video ❤

@anitaraj8767 2 ай бұрын

So it was reg paid promotion tht u sat for advice to begin with some talks to begin with n ending up for ur ad tht u want to promote

@mohammedmaahi7919 2 ай бұрын

It's a beautiful vlog Debina I agree with each point it's so true which no body told me before i became a mom. Thank you for cheering up all the moms and sharing this important points to mom to be I liked the last point ki ek mom ek hath se hazaaron kaam kar sakti hai how meaningful ❤ lots of love to you Debina keep up the good work ❤️

@DebinaDecodes 2 ай бұрын

Thanks a ton

@mohammedmaahi7919 2 ай бұрын

@@DebinaDecodes it's means a lot when you reply thank you so much 💓

@GkioulerSalioglou 2 ай бұрын

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@GkioulerSalioglou 2 ай бұрын

👸👸

@KanggeNov23 2 ай бұрын

Without babies your vlog become so boring

@Asma34752 2 ай бұрын

Please don't point out this... kids have been suffering because of this type of comments ... please let them enjoy their childhood...lianna vlog main na ho to bhi chalega..aise vo bacchi Thora Kam pressurized hogi...

@rupalikulkarni1450 2 ай бұрын

@@Asma34752 true but vlog me hogi to 3_4 min hi sahi she can live with debina nhi to ............ Divi hi hamesha hoti hai debina ke saath lianna busy with class, school,gym, etc etc

@niroshininavaratnam2219 2 ай бұрын

@@rupalikulkarni1450Because Divisha does not cooperate with her the way Lianna does. This is obvious in the Kathak vlog.

@rupalikulkarni1450 2 ай бұрын

@@niroshininavaratnam2219 she is cooperative that is her nature but it is not necessary that lianna is going to school and classes,, debina should decide not to send her and be with divisha waise bhi 3_4 saal se pahle kathak ko koi teacher allow nhi karti ye teacher ne allow kaise kiya aur debina bhi nhi send karna chahiye to class

@aartiborkar6139 2 ай бұрын

@@Asma34752 you are absolutely right otherwise Lianna will always have to entertain the audience and more pressure will come on her as everybody loves to see her doing her cute things as we all are aware Divisha too is cute but she is not able to give the content to increase the view for that Debina is dependent on Lianna only and i think its not Liannas repsonsibility to increase views for Debina Divisha is enjoying her childhood in protected shell but Lianna is put forward for everything let her enjoy her childhood this time will never come back again

@rupaliguhathakurta7289 2 ай бұрын

How are you pronouncing chaos????

@bookaffeinated 2 ай бұрын

It is correct

@kaumudirane6199 2 ай бұрын

Too good vlog. M always a huge fan of you ma’am….

@kh.renubalasingha8107 2 ай бұрын

Hey cutipie mama aap ki vlogs dekh te hi mujhe bahot assha laga mom banna aashan nahin hain lekin hat's off bonu do kids ke saath kam bhi baby ki dekh bhal so difficult lehkin aap ki baby bahot assha hain thoda chulbuli liannu lehkin bahot pyari hain love you so much bahot jaldi catçh karti hain so proud of you li n di aap jeishi maa n guru jeisha papa mila love you Choudhary bandle 🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤👌👌👌

@thaseenbegum6208 2 ай бұрын

So cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰 dhiveesha ak jagah ny kad Rahi hi😊😊 so cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰 lanaina

@user-xl4mv1cj4r 2 ай бұрын

Ak hath divisa k lia bg hota hai,toh ak hath se kam krna padega😂😂

@madhurimulye795 2 ай бұрын

Awsum clog

@deeptiarora1117 2 ай бұрын

@user-ci1jq8rm8s 2 ай бұрын

Please come back TV industry 🙏😭 I love you Mam 🙏🙏🙏 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤VISH ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@user-tb1dv9jo9x 2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

@rimachakrabarti3736 2 ай бұрын

Stop taking content from other YT channels, Rubina does a show on this only: Kisine bataya nahi! Copycat Debina

@visibility738 2 ай бұрын

True. Copycat

@bookaffeinated 2 ай бұрын

But every mom has a different perspective, opinions and experiences and they can share theirs. Rubina has made a show on this, does this mean no one else should ever talk about it in the future? Or has no one else spoken on it in the past? I loved what Rubina shared. I also like to know Debina's perspective.

@rashmibarman9233 2 ай бұрын

lol.. i was thinking the same thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@user-ru7ek5gh6m 2 ай бұрын

So what same as rubina does but at the end helps us mom..more u collect information it helps u n makes us mom comfort..Respect every mom deeds❤