10 Things That WILL Stop Divorce | Jimmy Evans

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Are you starting the divorce process or considering divorce? Stop right now because Jimmy Evans is showing you these 10 things that WILL stop divorce! Your marriage can be saved and grow stronger than it has ever been. Watch this to find out how.
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@LovelyD23
@LovelyD23 Жыл бұрын
It is so hard to keep hope when there is only one person in the relationship hoping for restoration 😢 My only Hope is JESUS showing up and showing off!!! 🥺🥺🙌🏼🙌🏼
@davidclawson6527
@davidclawson6527 11 ай бұрын
I'm also the only one hoping for restoration. So I will join you thanking Jesus in advance for Our Victory in Jesus name !!!!!
@LovelyD23
@LovelyD23 11 ай бұрын
@@davidclawson6527 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@tssherrill2295
@tssherrill2295 11 ай бұрын
I am joining with you sisters in the Lord, where 2 or 3 gather in my Name I will be in the mist of them says our Lord Jesus Christ of Nazareth the Son of the living God. Lord we believe in the Name of Jesus Christ for restoration of our marriages, we come before that you will keep our covenant that you put together we will not let know man asunder, in Jesus Name!!!🙏
@jholmes3316
@jholmes3316 11 ай бұрын
Sisters I too am joining and praying for us all!
@jax4936
@jax4936 11 ай бұрын
Yes I’m also praying for my husband to get saved in the name of Jesus 🙏🏽💕. I pray that he will change the heart of your husband and all wives in this comments and heal your marriage and families in Jesus name. Amen amen 🙏🏽 ♥️
@xelamom8
@xelamom8 Жыл бұрын
Repentance. Repentance can stop a divorce.
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 11 ай бұрын
On top of wise council & God’s help. But don’t tell Jimmy, Dougie, or Joni that. Adultery is the preferred method here. $o $ad $o many are falling. But we were told they would be now. Pray for the lost & wayward to repent.
@DriversFromHere
@DriversFromHere 10 ай бұрын
1-Divorce is not an option 2-We will not go to bed while being angry 3-Never agree to disagree, solve it. 4-we will respect and celebrate each other in our différences. (Don’t tolerate or challenge. 5-Right to complain without being punished (not criticize) 6-We will be faithful. Unfaithful starts when your hearts goes away. 7-We will be accountable to our church and contribute… 8-We will make all our important decisions together and never bully each other. 9-prioritize our marriage 10-Expect disappointment, it’s happens!
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 9 ай бұрын
Except if you’re Jimmy’s good buddy, Dough Wei$$ 🤣
@cynthiadelgado1317
@cynthiadelgado1317 7 ай бұрын
All you state is true, but being cheated on is a very serious matter that must be addressed immediately. There’s more to it than instantly forgiving. You will go to bed without acknowledging your spouse’s presence (ignoring). You’ve been hit by a freight train and shot with a machine gun all at once. “Get over it.” is not sound advice for the grieving spouse. Much Christian therapy is required in order to heal. Sometimes divorce is the only option. Marriage is like the saying, “It takes 2 to tango.” Yeshua was and is aware of what it takes to be married, tolerance being one of the most important factors in it. God must be first when 2 become one.
@jaylentz8096
@jaylentz8096 9 ай бұрын
My wife tried for a year and half to earn me back after her affair, she found God afterwards and I didn’t go to church so I continued rejecting her, the enemy has had such a strong hold on our marriage that I was hell bent on getting revenge against her and what cost, God has now given my wife the peace and healing to divorce me and now I’m fighting and trying to find my way to God to bring us together for us and our daughters
@sjg5994
@sjg5994 9 ай бұрын
Wow....
@ReenaBINA
@ReenaBINA 7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry man
@yuri_e83
@yuri_e83 5 ай бұрын
“you have to find your together purpose” 🔥🙌🏽
@Ruth-vy1qj
@Ruth-vy1qj Жыл бұрын
I love listening to Jimmy Evans and his wife. I also like listening to his guests. I'm single by choice. I'm still working on trust issues from past relationships, working on my goals, and having a more serious relationship with God. I also will tell people it nothing wrong to get educated in relationships. We go to college in our chosen field. Relationships are important. Many people were not taught about successful relationships or seen bad role models.
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
Ask Jimmy how successful Doug Wei$$ 30 yr marriage to Lisa was. Another fellow marriage counselor.😂 And why he endorsed the divorce based on LIES & went ahead to marry Lisa’s husband to Joni Lamb...all very hushed & rushed. Hypocrisy is _nauseating!_ Ask jimmy if God destroys a marriage, just so He can ‘bless’ any widow w/someone else’s spouse? 🤔 Ask Karen if she can empathize at all w/Lisa & their kids (none of which showed for daddy’s 2nd big day). Since according to Doug & Jimmy, she turned from “Faithful & loving” to ‘abusive’, all along. Ask if either of them ever even attempted to talk to Lisa, to get her side...AND the truth! Let alone counseled Doug & Lisa to even try to save their 3 decades of marriage. You’d think between TWO marriage counselors of different types, that marriage could have been saved, if both were willing participants. 🤔 However, we realize that $230 Million $ JoniPot probably had just a tad bit of persuasion away from Lisa & all in for Day$tar. Their longtime friend Joni, just happened to go w/it. ;) With friends like that, Lisa sure doesn’t need any enemies. May God continue to expose the liars & deceivers of so many. And may fans like you have your eyes opened to them. These definitely are the days! *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Minor details to at least 2 ‘marriage counselors’. OH the irony...🤮
@user-ye3if2nd7q
@user-ye3if2nd7q Жыл бұрын
Have been married 12 years my wife wants a divorce I ask for prayers God blessed me with the best wife I could have asked for and I take it for granted I haven't been in church the way I should be I want God In my family and in my life I just hope God forgives me for all I've done wrong in my marriage I want to make it right so bad but I praise God for every second I've had with her even if I lose her I knew things were going bad and I did nothing I really hate myself right now
@YOUnique2023
@YOUnique2023 Жыл бұрын
Praying for healing and restoration for you and your family
@jamespasteur3397
@jamespasteur3397 Ай бұрын
don't hate yourself...correct yourself with Jesus.
@Ed-vi8lj
@Ed-vi8lj 4 ай бұрын
Point 5. Totally agree We become defensive and that stops any real o n communication
@Sunshinelife122
@Sunshinelife122 Жыл бұрын
Thank you needed to hear the word I have been standing for 2 yrs and in zero contact due to his infidelity despite at times I am frustrated and sad I keep my faith and listening to the word of God and his promises amen amen 🙏
@sjg5994
@sjg5994 Жыл бұрын
May God pour out His Spirit on your situation! I'm 2.5 years separated. Almost no contact except email for a divorce. I'm actually ok now. The joy of God is with me truly but after a long journey of giving my emotions to God. But I am 100% looking to God to resolve this quickly whichever way He sees best. I do pray for my husband's deliverance and blessings to know the Living God, but the way the enemy has caused sooooo many of us to be in this situation is very spiritual. Therefore, I've been seeking the Spirit of God to come and manifest His Power so there is no more hook of the enemy on what I have.
@Sunshinelife122
@Sunshinelife122 Жыл бұрын
@@sjg5994 amen 🙏
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
@@sjg5994 & Vicky: Very sorry for your circumstances. Please Pray for Lisa Weiss to be able to accept the betrayal of her husband Doug, her friend, Joni Lamb & Jimmy Evans, who gave their divorce after 30 yrs of marriage his blessings, & married Doug & Joni! Doesn’t seem he or Karen even attempted to get both sides, so the truth would come out. All Doug’s deception & lies... Guess being a fellow marriage counselor has it’s ‘passes’ among the brotherhood. *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Minor details to at least 2 ‘marriage counselors’. OH the irony...🤮 Please don’t continue to be sucked into deceivers. These are the days when sooo many are. But God is Faithful to expose them. Then it’s up to us, to either stick w/the deceivers, or w/God’s Word. May His Holy Spirit be allowed to help you choose wisely.🕊He is the giver of Discernment...So desperately needed in these ends days we’re immersed in.
@Musikisbellatastic
@Musikisbellatastic 11 ай бұрын
May you and your spouse allow God to work on your hearts to bring healing, forgiveness, & restoration. May God place a new song in your hearts and bring joy into your marriage. In Jesus' Name Amen.
@Sunshinelife122
@Sunshinelife122 11 ай бұрын
@@Musikisbellatastic thank you amen in Jesus name I believe he has his timing thank thank you
@stephenieblankenship5069
@stephenieblankenship5069 Жыл бұрын
Currently seperated as of yesterday. No work done all blame toward me. Emotional abuse. I'm disabled and it's taking a massive tole on my health..
@katsato3118
@katsato3118 11 ай бұрын
It's not your fault. Being in a relationship with a disabled person can be a great thing for the right person, and a "burden" to the wrong person. As the less able bodied person in our marriage (even though I pull equal if not more weight) I will tell you it's my opinion that selfish people would rather blame, nit pick, create imagined flaws in you...essentially demonize you because they can't simply say "I'm a selfish jerk that doesn't want a disabled spouse so I have to make up another reason." You are perfect, don't let him convince you that you are the sole problem.
@incognitoriaanonymousita
@incognitoriaanonymousita 2 ай бұрын
This was wonderful....if only my husband would.listen to this.
@sabrinatoglia4729
@sabrinatoglia4729 Жыл бұрын
The best marriage pastor!❤
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
He took my reply to you down. No surprise. This probably won’t stay either. ;) Look into Doug Weiss & Joni lambs recent nose thumb wedding to God & Doug’s wife of 30 yrs, Lisa. That this guy not only supported, but officiated. The irony...both guys are ‘marriage counselors’! 😂 You may want to find one who actually honors God’s Word. He’s certainly not fooling Him.
@alg375
@alg375 Жыл бұрын
I would give anything to have a Godly marriage, I’ve been married to my husband for almost 29 years, we were not believers when we dated, I got pregnant before marriage, we married, we both had toxic backgrounds, I got saved about 5 years into the marriage, he got saved about 8 years after me, we raised our boys Christian, I made sure I took them to church and made sure they knew Jesus, both are married to good Christian women. I feel now especially since they are raised and we’re empty nesters it’s been especially hard. I felt like when they were home I fought harder. I’m so tired… we go to church faithfully, I pray, I read my Bible, I study God’s Word but we don’t pray together, he sings on the praise team, people think we’re good but we’re struggling. We can’t talk about issues without arguments, it seems nothing gets resolved, I’ve asked over the years to go to counseling, he doesn’t want to. He’s been to counseling himself for depression, he’s talked to Pastors about our issues but I’m never involved. He’s on a rollercoaster of emotions most of the time, since becoming a Christian over 22 years ago I have healed a lot but it’s hard to completely heal in a toxic environment, trust me I have begged God to help me, to put love in my heart, I have forgiven, and I feel I’m always wandering what mood he’ll be in. I have contemplated separation for awhile to see if that would open his eyes to counseling and help. If I try to share my thoughts, feelings or opinions then everything gets turned on me and I’m the problem, as I’ve told him many times, I own my issues and there’s not a day that passes that I’m not trying hard to be better but when you’re constantly feeling like you’re on an emotional rollercoaster on a regular basis it’s hard. It takes 2 to make a marriage work and it takes 2 to break a marriage, it takes work from both people but I’m so tired from years of trying with no solutions. I’m looking into just getting some counseling myself. I wish our church had professional counseling, I would go in a heart beat, my problem is I have no idea who to go to for help.
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 11 ай бұрын
I’m sorry. Seems you need to do some homework & focus there, instead of on him, which is just going to upset you. Look up Christian counselors in your area. It’s a start. I would think a pastor your husband saw would have requested to have you go too. Even if just a few times. So don’t go to that guy. See if he will pray w/you at night. Even a short prayer. Just say, ‘honey, I would like to pray before we go to bed/sleep. Would you join me please?’ Then, you get to hold hands too. ;) If he says no, then pray aloud w/o him. Let him lay there & listen to you. Keep it short & full of gratitude. Thank Him for blessing you w/your Salvation, 29 yrs of marriage, His Grace & Mercy new each day, your sons, their wives & Salvation. Thank His Holy Spirit for His guidance daily & drawing you both nearer to Christ & each other. Ask Him to walk w/you both daily & bless your days w/love. OK, so that may not turn out too short, but it’s all positive & thankful. And that’s all good. You’re not dwelling on your marital problems, but thankful for the marriage & your boys & whatever blessings that have come from it during your time together... Your home, health, good friends, family.... Pray something thankful aloud each night whether he joins you or not. After a week or 2, if he hasn’t joined, you may want to ask him if he has anything he’s thankful for that he’d like to add. And just agree w/him on whatever he may say. And end it there. At the start of each day, put on your armor! If you don’t have it memorized, then Read Eph 6:10-20 *aloud* every single day, before you get it started. Once you have it memorized from saying it enough, you can say it aloud before you even hit the floor. And say it in the car driving, & whenever else you need to be reminded of all it encompasses. Speaking of car, do you have a Christian radio station? Put it on & listen every time you’re driving. You have ear buds? I don’t, but many do...Tune in to Christian worship music. Tune into it here on YT. There’s so many good praise/worship songs! *You’ll be uplifted* & God _Loves_ to be praised! There’s even beautiful instrumental praise music on YT. David Nevue, & Terry MacAlmon are just 2 you will probably love. They’re both on YT. Check out Chris Tomlin, Michael W. Smith, David & Nicole Binion, CeCe Wynans, & Natalie Grant... Just Worship Him! *Guaranteed lifting of your Spirit!* _Don’t_ focus on your marital problems. _Focus on Jesus._ Leave your husband & marriage in His capable hands. Tell Him that’s what you’re doing, b/c you trust Him to do right by it & both of you. And then just let His Spirit lead you. 🕊 Don’t nag your husband about anything, at all. Just be as positive & God like loving toward him as God helps you be. Show by example & ask God to lead & give you the strength to do so. *Join a woman’s study & prayer group.* Be it in your church, or another. There’s prayer & study groups in several churches. Find one of each & go. You will meet other women to connect with, who will lift you, pray w/you & a study will help you grow in Christ, too. You’ll have fellowship then with others...those who may not go to your church, so that may be a plus for you. Get together for lunches, movies. Don’t wait to be invited. Invite one or 2 you like/feel connected to on you own. Ask God to bring strong, Godly women to fellowship with, into your life. He will. But you have to put yourself out there in a study/prayer group, so He can. ...Speaking of movies...Please go see ‘Sound of Freedom’. Very important movie to see/support. Tell your church about it. Get ppl together & go! Church groups have gone to see it here. It’s a problem that needs exposure, prayer & ppl to reach out in their communities to help. If your husband doesn’t want to go w/you, go w/others who want to go. Don’t not do something, or go somewhere b/c he doesn’t want to. Go/do w/o him. When you enjoy yourself away from the stress/toxicity at home, you will be a different person. And he’ll notice that. But you want to do it for you, not him. That’s just going to be an added bonus. ;) Is he on meds for his depression? If not, maybe he should be. There’s so many new ones out now. No shame in needing some help getting through it. Read Psalm 46. Read a Psalm a day. Are you familiar w/David Jeremiah? He’s excellent! Have his sermons come to your inbox. Not sure if he’s on YT. Go for a walk each day. Take a friend you may meet, or one you already know. Add more to your walks if you want to. Walking is an all around beneficial thing to do. It will lift you, help you feel better physically, get yourself in better shape, lose a few extra pounds you may have...if you walk at a regular pace. Not a leisurely stroll. A good walk. Work your way up to longer as you get physically stronger, if you’re out of shape. If alone, another time to listen to worship music. Leave one bud out, so you can hear around you, too. I’d suggest a dog...even a smaller one, if you like them & would have the time for one. Doesn’t need to be a puppy. Plenty of adult dogs already housebroken & even basic trained, need homes, too. I only adopt/rescue adults now. A loving dog around could help your husband come around, too. They’re known to help w/moods & depression in people. They force ppl out to walk them. ;) Their Love is unconditional, 24/7/365. They’re God’s reminders to us on how we should all treat each other daily. Dog is God spelled backwards for a reason... Consider one. You’ll be amazed at the number of new ppl you’ll meet having one, too. Walking a dog has strangers talking to you all the time. Can be an opportunity to share Jesus w/someone who needs to know Him. Talk about a mood booster! You’ll never feel so good, as when you open that Salvation door for another person. God will use you plenty, if you ask Him to & then open yourself to it. Your husband will hopefully want to walk it too. That will get him out & moving more than he may otherwise, helping boost his mood. As things get better w/your prayers separately & together, you may walk the dog together. They should be walked twice daily. Or more, if you want to. Aside from playing w/them. Maybe you could ask him to please walk the dog, if you can’t b/c you’ll be at a study or prayer, or fellowship. Although I was able to bring my dog w/me to studies & some fellowships, depending on what we were doing. Everyone loved her. She was our little mascot. (No longer w/us) 😔 But if you’re out for a bit & he’s home, you can ask him to take the dog out. That will be the start of him doing it more & him benefiting from it as well. Then maybe as things are less tense, you may be able to start walking together w/the dog. Walk it alone for one of the walks & then together for the other. Just don’t discuss your problems. Keep your time together a more positive experience. A dog in tow will help keep things lighter between you. Men are different than women in the sense that they don’t want to open up like women do. They need to feel safe in doing so. Not interrupted w/rebuttals & defense. They need to be heard out. Then, not hear back...’but _you always...or you do_ such & such.’ That puts them on defense quick. And shut down mode. If/when he wants to talk about anything... _listen fully w/o interruption, & defensiveness._ He’ll be more apt to talk, if he feels ‘safe’ to do so. And a dog may help switch things & the mood in your home up enough to pull him out. Just remember, dogs are for life! Don’t get one if you won’t keep it forever. Well this sure went on longer than planned.😂 These are things that will help you move in a different direction. All positives. You seem like you’re dwelling a lot on your problems & marriage issues. You would benefit a lot from doing homework solo & bringing yourself up w/Jesus help. Focus on the 2 of you,(Jesus & you) instead of the 2 of you in a frustrating marriage. Give you & your husband a break from that. Leave it w/God. He hates divorce. We know this. He is the Great restorer. We know that, too. So leave it in His very capable hands. I will keep you in prayer as you work on turning yourself around & starting fresh w/you & Jesus.🙏 Keep me posted. 😁
@amandameyer2206
@amandameyer2206 6 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for the struggle you are going through. I can relate to some of the things you mentioned. God led me to Leslie Vernick. She has many extremely helpful resources online. Her resources will encourage, strengthen, support, and show you how to live well in a marriage that seems one-sided. Highly recommend ❤🙏
@MJYouAreNotAlone1
@MJYouAreNotAlone1 Жыл бұрын
🙏❤️. God bless you and thank you!🙏❤️
@MrGoBlue3333
@MrGoBlue3333 Жыл бұрын
To God be the glory! I love my wife Kori! We WILL WIN!
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
Praise God! Too bad you weren’t the one ‘counseling’ Doug Weiss w/his divorce after 30 yrs from his “loving & Faithful” wife, Lisa. Instead, he was given Jimmy’s blessings & officiated the adulterous wedding of him to Joni Lamb. Never got both sides of things w/Lisa. And perpetuated Doug’s lies about her, leading millions to believe his “Faithful & loving wife”, suddenly turned ‘abusive’ for years, when Marcus died. Hush hush, Rush, rush to the alter. Marcus wasn’t even cold when ‘close friend Doug, for many years’ (as Joni called him) swooped in to capture Joni & more importantly, Day$tar, for his own. Imagine how Lisa feels. Her own friend, her own husband betraying her like that?! And then good ‘ole jimmy on top of it all. You’d think at least Joni would pause, doing that to ‘a friend’ from years back. I’m sure Marcus would approve, though. Being he was friends w/Doug as well. Let’s keep it all amongst friends, shall we? Wonder why Doug’s kids weren’t there to support their ‘abused’ dads 2nd biggest day at the alter? All the Lambs were. You’d think they’d be so happy for emotionally beat up dad, finally finding true love! Odd, I thought body builders egos were so huge, they easily brushed aside any emotional abuse attempts, via the women in their lives. Doug being an ex professional builder, who preened so well on stages. Looks like he whipped Joni in better shape before he married her. Wonder how he’ll react if, by chance, she ever ‘turns him down’. Since the couple times I heard him puking out advice on his ‘Heart to Heart’ Ministry, he liked making the woman ‘the heavy’ for sexual problems in marriages. I was immediately turned off by his arrogance. Sadly all his clients he made millions off of, are now shell shocked & feeling quite betrayed. As they should be. Being he also deceived them into believing he was still happily married after he was divorced, so he could marry Joni, ASAP. Failed to ever mention it. Or the fact that he filed for divorce as soon as his ‘friend’ Marcus, hit the dirt. All good by Jimmy. Who apparently believes we’re all too stupid to see the obvious. Including God, since he too, just dissed His Holy Word, for his ‘friends’ happiness. Can you say major hypocrite? SMH No more $upporting ppl who blatantly condone sin against God & His Word. No matter how he twists the narrative to suit, Jimmy’s massive failure here, has exposed him for the phony he is. God said He would be exposing much deception & deceivers in these End of End Days. And even the elect will be deceived, by it all, if possible. Don’t continue to be one of them. *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Minor details to at least 2 ‘marriage counselors’. OH the irony...🤮
@nunyabb
@nunyabb 8 ай бұрын
THANK YOU❤
@freddavidson286
@freddavidson286 10 ай бұрын
Yes Ive been married for 43 years and I ve been praying and trusting god my wife wants a devorice it has been very hard hanging on to Jesus
@angelamurphy75
@angelamurphy75 6 ай бұрын
Find out what she needs from you and love her!!!!
@joannawofford
@joannawofford Жыл бұрын
Amen yes Sir
@timlucasentertainment
@timlucasentertainment Жыл бұрын
Incredible!
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
Especially since he recently wed Doug Weiss & Joni Lamb!🤮 *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Backed up Doug’s lies about Lisa, being abusive & said, ‘go for it!’ And Doug did! Ole Marcus was barely cold. All were friends... Doesn’t get much sicker... Maybe they all forgot... *God will not be mocked!* Prayers for poor Lisa...3x betrayed! Can’t imagine.
@goodnesschidimma326
@goodnesschidimma326 Жыл бұрын
May Almighty God forbid divorce in my marriage, it will never be once mentioned in my marriage no matter what by the grace of God
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
Don’t worry, jimmy will condone it & even remarry you, if the price is right. Look what he did for Doug Wei$$ & Joni! Word of God be darned! Pray for Doug’$ poor wife of 30 yrs, Lisa. She was faithful. He wa$ greedy. Jimmy was willingly deceived. They will reap what they’ve sown.
@hm144
@hm144 11 ай бұрын
I would rather pray - no to divorce and please do not do things to encourage divorce. Unrepentant adultery & violence - I come from an African background - where these things are almost normalised and after giving one STDs ( sexually transmitted diseases) people will still quote - God hates divorce
@lesliem5617
@lesliem5617 Жыл бұрын
Great if you have a spouse that is a believer and can admit they're wrong.
@femmesaufront9005
@femmesaufront9005 Жыл бұрын
I believe God has sincere compassion. He understands you...more than you know. May He comfort you and raise you above the clouds and into His loving arms.
@parvinacouture
@parvinacouture 10 ай бұрын
Exactly my thought, when you have 2 people who are willing to work it out.
@TripleGAutoDetailing
@TripleGAutoDetailing 3 ай бұрын
EPIC 👏
@tarraholifield4998
@tarraholifield4998 23 күн бұрын
I would really like to hear someone teach on saving your marriage if only one of is willing to make changes & actively seek counsel & apply these things in your marriage. What's the protocol to help that situation? Definitely Holy Spirit, but if they are unwilling to participate in counseling, they won't humble themselves at all, they don't want to make any changes that need to be made that confronts anything.... Then what do you do? That's the teaching i need
@incognitoriaanonymousita
@incognitoriaanonymousita 2 ай бұрын
I.need these things on a poster in my house.
@Sukii2u
@Sukii2u Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@RS-ov2st
@RS-ov2st 9 ай бұрын
You have to have a willing partner. If your teammate is against you, you get nowhere. If their determined against you your over.
@mommacita2069
@mommacita2069 Жыл бұрын
Awww 😍😍😍
@bf6048
@bf6048 Жыл бұрын
Excellent message.
@margotaylor6157
@margotaylor6157 Жыл бұрын
Always!! Love him
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 11 ай бұрын
@@margotaylor6157 Lost all respect w/his hypocrisy in supporting a lying, deceiving adulterer, remarrying for d$tar. Total abomination. More suffering the Great Falling Away under the thickening clouds of deception, daily. Scary stuff to witness. Don’t keep getting suck in by false teachers in these End of End Days. God warned us all. Heed His Word. Not this fake.
@JeannieMaxwell-jj3wi
@JeannieMaxwell-jj3wi Жыл бұрын
Jimmy, can you help me understand what happened to Doug weiss the marriage counselor, how is that ok?
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
Don’t ask him. He’s removing posts that call him out. Same is happening on Joni’s end. All rainbows & roses narratives. Nothing else allowed. *”And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.”* Matthew 19:9 Minor details... Stop supporting liars & phonies. I stopped my support of both.
@StevenRay64
@StevenRay64 Жыл бұрын
Pay Jimmy some money and he'll save your marriage!
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
Or, condone adultery & marry ppl that shouldn’t be. Doug Weiss & Joni Lamb.🤮 We’ll just ignore what God says...It’s all good!
@RS-ov2st
@RS-ov2st 9 ай бұрын
Coulda, woulda , shoulda. Your speaking of a couple working together. What about when your spouse won’t anything? Doesn’t acknowledge fault, rejects you. Won’t stop, don’t care, is a narcissist? Someone who just isn’t and will never be? It cannot always be worked out.
@worldtraveler303
@worldtraveler303 2 ай бұрын
🙏🏿
@cynthiawlaughlin5435
@cynthiawlaughlin5435 6 ай бұрын
So if they shut down emotionally and physically and financially then start looking at other women or comparing me to other women how do I handle that?
@incognitoriaanonymousita
@incognitoriaanonymousita 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Jesus for Bible based Christian marriage principles and for Pastor Evans and his wife.
@all_mine1233
@all_mine1233 2 ай бұрын
Not an abusive marriage to someone that doesn’t wanna change.
@pamelasurratt9479
@pamelasurratt9479 Жыл бұрын
So good
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
Doug Weiss & Joni Lamb...wed by Jimmy recently. Sooo bad... *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 *God will not be mocked!* Nor does He take a husband from his 30 marriage away from his faithful wife, & bless any widow w/him, before her own husband is barely cold in his grave. 🤮 Did I mention they were all friends? Listen to someone who’s not a phony.
@rebekkahpennington5679
@rebekkahpennington5679 Жыл бұрын
Jimmy tell us what happened to Lisa Weiss? Was she guilty of fornification? How did you bless Doug leaving his wife for Joni ? Need to know- all of us that have followed you. My heart breaks for Lisa.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
I have a bad feeling about Doug and Joni marrying.
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
The truth is out there on YT...warts & all. Doug lied about Lisa...called her abusive...Jimmy backed it on TT. Next you know, he marries them. So much for him vetting the liar, before blessing him. SMH He files for divorce right after Marcus death? All of a sudden, his “Faithful, loving wife” has actually been ‘abusive’ for years? NONE of Doug’s clients getting marriage counseling are aware of any trouble at all, & he LIES further, telling them he’s still happily married, when he was *divorced!* HELLO Jimmy??? No red flags for you dear? Or, I guess just no ‘red flags’ among friends. 🤔 Joni openly admitted their ‘close’ friendship for years & he was on the scene to ‘comfort’ them almost immediately. Probably beat out Jimmy! 😂 Did Jimmy even try to talk to Lisa at all? He knows there’s ALWAYS 2 sides! _Shameful!_ Or, shameless...however you want to see it. _Absolutely Godless._ No getting around that. Not even w/rose colored glasses. Not enough lipstick for that pig they’re parading around w/wings, hoping it will fly. You’d think Joni wouldn’t do that to someone else’s wife, she referred to as ‘friend’. Especially since she was hurt by Marcus years ago. Guess she wanted to have a taste of that side for herself. No way does God take another woman’s husband of 30yrs & give him to any widow. No matter how you try to dress it. Jimmy just lost my total respect. As has Joni. *Withdrew my $upport from both.* No way will I endorse blatant $in from any ‘Christians’ hiding from & _twisting_ Gods Word to suit. Keep exposing them Father! *You’re **_always_** faithful.* Even when we’re not. And *You will **_NOT_** be mocked!* *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Minor details to at least 2 ‘marriage counselors’. OH the irony...🤮
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
@@danilaroche1156 You, & many others who are voicing themselves. Just not here, or on anything to do w/D$tar or Joni. All being removed. Only the supporters of adulterers are acceptable. SMH *God will not be mocked!*
@JeannieMaxwell-jj3wi
@JeannieMaxwell-jj3wi Жыл бұрын
So glad I'm not the only one seeing this hypocrisy. Removed my support from daystar also.
@rebekkahpennington5679
@rebekkahpennington5679 Жыл бұрын
@@JeannieMaxwell-jj3wi hello - it’s so obvious in your face wrong- I can’t figure out why men and women of God are not confronting this? Prayers for Lisa W. Doug’s wife.
@user-bx8mq6nw7t
@user-bx8mq6nw7t Жыл бұрын
If you and Karen worked out your marriage for the good to Honor God Almighty, how come Doug and Lisa didn't work out their marriage conflict? Or did Doug want something better where he can get more public attention to hear himself talk and watch the monitor while he's hearing himself to make sure he's looking good to everyone watching online? How is divorce justified to marry another when there is no adultry?
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 11 ай бұрын
Don’t ask Jimmy. Quite the hypocrite. Rules for thee...supporter. So sad to be watching the Great Falling Away among so many supposed ‘leaders’ of others. But God warned us there would be, didn’t He? Lost all respect for this guy, adulterer Joni, D$tar. Can’t watch for 2 min now. Abomination keeps SCREAMING at me. Withdrawn all $upport. Not that they needed it, w/their $230 Million Doug married. Never had any respect for Doug Wei$$. They will all reap what they’ve sown. Prayers for Lisa. 🙏Triply betrayed.
@williewhite169
@williewhite169 Жыл бұрын
We will never go to bed angry, instead we will just argue all night. A counselor is never to solve any problem. This is unethical, even if the person is “Godly.” A counselor is to provide constructive tools to assist the individuals in resolving conflict. Being in a community of church folks does not save anything. The marriage of 50% of so-called Christians believers end in divorce.
@slv8581
@slv8581 Жыл бұрын
It’s too late for me. Hopefully God can save other people’s marriages.
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 Жыл бұрын
Too late for Lisa Weiss, too. Jimmy thought it was just fine to condone her husband Doug tossing her after 30 yrs, for Joni Lamb he married recently. Yup, no adulterers there. Only in Gods eyes...and Word. Why would jimmy care about such minor details when it comes to friends, though? This probably won’t stay, since he’s removing anyone calling him out. Like they’re doing for Joni at D$tar, too. ;)
@davidclawson6527
@davidclawson6527 11 ай бұрын
Sorry
@davidclawson6527
@davidclawson6527 11 ай бұрын
Sorry
@charlesbell5500
@charlesbell5500 11 ай бұрын
Great sermon, Jimmy! But you need to use more examples of women being the assholes when you're telling counselling stories. You're too biased towards women.
@maryhelen7734
@maryhelen7734 11 ай бұрын
Jimmy, I'm not sure what you are really teaching. Hope you listen to the Holy Spirit & change your double minded ways of teaching. I am wondering why you did not use this advice to help Doug & Lisa Weiss save their marriage? This would have stopped the adulterous affair your sister Joni & Doug were having, which led to their marriage that has no biblical backing. Please stop with leading so many people astray.
@bribricruise3256
@bribricruise3256 9 ай бұрын
Unless you know for certian Doug & Joni were having an affair, it is not right to slander them. As christians we will give an account for the words we speaks. Also, God calls us not to slander Proverbs 20:19 - “He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, therefore do not associate with a gossip.”
@cindymckenzie3002
@cindymckenzie3002 27 күн бұрын
You too much with your double standards
@joannawofford
@joannawofford Жыл бұрын
Amen yes Sir
@sonneversets3530
@sonneversets3530 11 ай бұрын
Sad it wasn’t a ‘yes’ for Doug Wei$$ his Faithful wife of 30 yrs, Lisa. Never bothered to see if Doug’$ marriage was really in the toilet, before he jumped in to counsel Doug & Joni to get them moving on fast fwd to their ungodly, adulterous union.🤔 Maybe since ‘Dr wei$$’ had at least $230 Million $ reason$ to chuck Lisa, that was good enough for Doug. Total abomination, all around. Ask God to lead you to a real man, who follows His Word, you can actually rely on, not to falter, when ‘friends’ come calling for favors & approval. It’s GOS’s Word & approval that matter. Not secular men & women who step away & try to justify it, to suit themselves. All on dangerous ground. These truly are the End of End Days. The Great Falling Away is infecting those you’d never think. Don’t follow any fallen man. Stick w/Christ.✝
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