In our earthly reality, the dominance of the male archetype in the concept of God often leads to an imbalanced portrayal of power and beauty. It's as if our perception of divinity is distorted, mirroring the flaws and biases of our society. However, amidst this disparity, the clarity of the Goddess's name shines through, symbolizing a beacon of balance and harmony. Just as mathematics serves as the foundational framework upon which our understanding of reality is constructed, the concept of God aligns with this principle. God, in this context, provides the necessary substance or building blocks to complement the foundational structure of math. Math is the language of the universal truth and the blueprint upon which all existence is built. Mathematical truth can be used for good or bad and in between those two choices lies the principle of math. The principle of math remains there at a neutral position of neither good nor bad until our actions reflect upon it. We can use that truth to build something beautiful and lasting (Heaven) or something that is the opposite of that (Hell). Your personal truth is the meaning of life and not the foundation of life. Your existence can give meaning to life or take it away. The foundation of life is built on math, not God. The foundation of math is built on Truth. God is built on the same principle of math just as we are. The principle of math provides the necessary foundation of life and God provides the necessary substance also known as building blocks to build upon it. Without math, a good foundation those building blocks have no lasting foundation or no foundation at all. When something is built on a lie it's not meant to last, aka wages of sin is death. That is why when something is built on a bad foundation it's not meant to last, eventually, it will collapse and in most cases hurt like hell, to teach a painful lesson of not building or rebuilding your life on a lie, aka bad foundation. Do you know who you are? What do you see when you look in the mirror? What you see is called reflection. That means that you are a reflection. And what do you reflect? You reflect your consciousness, feelings, desires, actions and much more. And if you care about your appearance, reflection then you should care about your actions because those actions will reflect upon your true reflection. One day we will face the truth and we will have to live it. Please make sure that you can live with your actions because you will have to live with their reflection. Many of us when faced with the truth like true image would rather live a lie instead. Why? Well, because their true reflection is so ugly as a result of their ugly actions they would rather live a lie, false image than live with the consequences of their actions. Your image, reflection is like a home, a vessel for your mind, soul. What it means is that your reflection is built on the same principle as the house is. And we do not build houses on assumptions or beliefs we build them on mathematical truth. What can happen if a house or any other structure is built on a lie, bad foundation? Well, that house or that structure is not meant to last and it will collapse. And what can happen to those who live in that structure? For example, they can become homeless. You can become a ghost if you don't have a reflection aka vessel, body (home) for your mind, soul. Don't forget, that those who walk away from the truth are walking into hell. How long does anyone need to be in hell or hell-like situations? Well, that depends on each individual. Eventually, they will get tired of pain, suffering, building or rebuilding their lives on a bad foundation and eventually, they will seek the truth instead of walking away from it. How do you know if you have suffered enough? Well, do you like to suffer? If you don't like suffering then you shouldn't contribute to suffering or feed on the suffering in any way or form. That is why I became vegan. If someone tells us that they do not like suffering and yet they choose to feed on the suffering of animals or others, shows that they do like suffering otherwise they would not do it and if they do like suffering so much then they should not complain about it, instead they should embrace it with open arms ✝. If you would like to see the true reflection of life and those who are part of it before it’s unveiled, I suggest that you study the truth. The better your knowledge and understanding of truth is the clearer your vision will become.

I onn my way too ann being ann better utgawe person off me myself!!and happier!!rithe!!❤❤❤

I’m so sorry for your loss. I had a dog that I had 17 years and I lost her to cancer. She was loved. She was loved beyond words and I understand your loss completely, but please know you will see her again over the rainbow bridge she is playing with my dog and my cats Who have died over the years they will greet her and they will love her and they will play with her and there will be no pain not even for my cat that lost her leg. She is there. I’m waiting for me. I can’t wait to see her. I love her, as I loved all my friends, don’t cry it will be OK. There are no pain and they are happy.

Ty for your insights stoic way of life.

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I did that with my best friend of eleven years. The last two years he brought so much drama to my life I have finally said enough.

@@theclumsyprepper same! I came to this video after ending it with my close friend of 13 years. I kept ignoring her drama or trying to solve it sometimes but finally learned that it won't work.

Yes!

Not one second...I am the exact same

Sometimes it’s discovered too late. Certainly not without turmoil. Having walked away earlier could’ve saved me much. But not pursuing the truth soon enough cost me . I just didn’t see it coming from a friend of 30+ years.

Be Healthy

Im actually tapering off my anxiety meds and taking my power back. It's a balancing act for sure. ❤

I'm in a toxic job at the moment. It's getting physical, and scary. My chest starts hurting, and my heart starts pounding whenever I think about the toxic culture around me here. I feel helpless. I've gone to the supervisors, but now it's even more tense... I hate it. I wish I was able to quit already. 😪 I'm here for advice until that day comes. ❤

@@roxannerodriguez7075Don’t worry you will soon get away from it and be happy . Just talk to manager or leave that job. You have gone to supervisors it self is the first step you did for yourself to be happy . Be confident and tell them truth about why you feel like this . Happiness and mental peace are important than anything in this world. Please take care !

If it’s gotten that bad, it’s a sure sign you need to find another job asap and quit that toxic place. Run away as soon as you can.

I hope not this is written by the man I love..😢

I ended a 4.5 year relationship,,she kept inventing negative statements,,,I loved her 😢

I’m happy for you! Finding the courage to let go of a toxic friend is a big sign that you are growing spiritually and emotionally

How long did that take you?

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉❤🎉😊

xo

This method doesn’t work with everyone!! There are some illiterate people whom this method can never work because they are too full of themselves!! There’s nothing you can do or say to them that will let you walk away in peace because they won’t let you!!

Really Great

Great tip, override with the positive

I find that work just don't feed

Exactly, you cannot engage them, it is futile, therefore more draining.

Yes. They are in the toxic state because they have unresolved business and never confronted the actual source of their pain so they instead pursue and actively torment the innocent ppl that come into their lives. Don't feel an ounce of guilt for walking away, they need to clean their heart correctly first.

@@a_leaf , Thank you, you don't know how much I needed to hear this today. You are appreciated.

These souls are on another time line... (if they are souls) Many here....are not...human.

Once you start to fix your traumas, toxic behavior, it's easier to spot in others. Especially defensiveness.

Thank you. 💜

I kicked someone like this out of my life. When she asked me why, I told her, "You know why." I nodded my head and she began nodding her head. That was the last 'in person' interaction I ever had with her. Oh and she was also an "I love you" type of lip service person.

I let go of all the people that did this same thing. Including family. I refuse to surround myself with people like this anymore. They’re not nice.

My family speaks well of those who are not present. Private conversation with one other is confidential. Problem solving by conversation with respect is sometimes necessary. Be ye kind.

15:06 I now explain to others how I no longer support gossip and I ask them to stop talking about the person who is now gone. I have also learned not everyone can handle rejection and that creates guilt. Maybe you should talk to them together about how you feel. I no longer allow anyone to bully, abuse, shame or put down anyone around me without a group conversation about it.

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Meal plan and stock up so you don't have to grocery shop as often. Less encounters with shifty people

Do. God's will won't go wrong

Be the light when we feel dark around us. turn up the light in "dark" room. ❤🎉

You Are Right

Don't give up. If you feel you're a decent human being, don't you think there are others in the world? There are. One does need to take the time to determine if another is genuine. And, I think, perhaps that's the hardest part. Real life doesn't often happen at the same pace the entertainment industry might suggest it does. So, take the time. Put in the effort. The fruit is worth it. Be well, JJ

Walk away

You can only do what you can do .

You Are Right

We can only change ourselves, not others, so we should keep changing ourselves to become better every day, having a more optimistic perspective on current life. God will help us

Trying to control people is very toxic. And very telling of the people who attempt too.

@@icalotdonthide2646 I think they meant calming them down when they let their emotions get out of control. Many emotionally immature people out there; road rage, murders, fights, etc.

Same here. Hardly any family I am close to and no direct family left. I went for a simple life and very small circle. Had a mostly peaceful and very interesting life. I try to make friends, but at this age and time they just aren't ever deep connections and maybe have three I consider closer. I just never was able to be one of these women that runs around in a reliable friend group. They always fall apart

That's evolving, who needs drama , yes we watch , but so great without those that have drama .😊

Good advice as long as we don’t dance in the rain for too long !

I love the credo "Dance in the Rain" and I have not only lived a life buoyed by that positivity...I have ~ on few spontaneous occasions ~ Danced in the Rain. The emotion was infectious in the FIRST instance....I was in a desert town and a summer shower made me feel so wonderful I could NOT help myself and I found myself gently dancing in the street...as the rain stopped...I looked around and every person within the line of sight had silently JOINED ME. There were cars stopped in the street and the occupants had opted to join in rather than watch. We never said a word, but the smiles were genuine and heartfelt. I ALSO loved to swim ~ alone ~ in violent storms which tossed me about as I played in the towering waves. I swam far away from the shore in a huge lake, such that I was over a kilometer to any shore. I felt not an iota of fear.. I felt this wonderful feeling of AWE at the power of nature....so much greater than I. This was a powerfully positive experience (time and time again) as despite my awe at my relative tininess ~ frolicking ~ but I also felt this intense sense of my own POWER. I had no fear as I am a strong swimmer and I was incredibly lean and strong and had utter faith in my safety. I felt so good knowing I could TRUST my abilities and the waves made me EXHILERATED. And I love men because they are so PASSIONATE and fearless about their truth.

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​@terencehennegan1439 this is good! 😊❤🤩

@GoldTau-km9dmYes many try to convince you they are not toxic so taking your time will reveal the truth don’t rush.

Thank you,just went radio silent, I will not engage....

he sounds great, and for now, relish the great memories.

I was more devastated by my dog’s death than some relatives ☹️ you will eventually find room in your heart for another one ❤sometimes they find you

I can testify… Eternity is Real & Animals have Souls! A personal belief, is that LOVE means that we Are Connected & will be able to Choose Each Other again in Eternity. Otherwise, everything… Means Nothing. And that does not seem Logical in the least! So… The old saying stands… This is Not Good-Bye; this is only… “Until we meet Again!” 🙏🏻🦮🌷🐕‍🦺💖🦋💛🐩🌷🦋🐕💖🌸💛🐕‍🦺🦋🐕🐩🙏🏻🕊🍃

I think it's healthy to blame ourselves for having no boundaries. The worst part is moving on without establishing boundaries. I'm 59 I finally have some serious boundaries and I guard them relentlessly.

Having a marriage without the marriage being based on God is the biggest mistake I’ve seen. Foundation first. It’s sad to see people just divorce. I’m sure you know your situation best. Just throwing out some things to ponder.

@@user-sd5cm9wf6pMy husband and I just celebrated 39 years. We are Atheist. Love and Respect for each other is how it is accomplished. Namaste.

You Are Correct, everywhere there is conflict,

I pray that Mr.Universe will guide them to a better path, everything is temporary. I was like this as a teenager, and I'm not sure it was my fault, I was very small-minded because of the lack of experience I had. Just a suggestion- yes you should keep your distance, but maybe you should send little gifts & kind letters. It may move them towards a better path ❤

Don't give up on your daughter. Goodness sake. Your son is good, wonderful. Don't leave your daughter behind because she doesn't love you how you need her to. She's your child. You can not close the door. You need to stop looking for videos to confirm your biases. Figure it out. God hates ugly.

​@LisaLee__ obviously you have never lived with someone with narcissistic personality disorder.... or you would understand. Supporting them feeds their illness and gives them energy to keep it up. The only way to preserve her own health is for this mother to love them and let them go... completely..

@barba5537 you have absolutely no idea how wrong you are, on multiple levels. Alas, I doubt what I say will be heard. Interesting though that is Narc mothers who usually, nay, always sees a child as good or their "golden child" and see one as irredeemable or the "scapegoat". And guess who is always the ultimate hero or the ultimate victim in their anecdotes? Themselves. Like OP. I believe I have the unfortunate expertise to recognize red flags in this short comment. I pray to be wrong.

Sounds like they’re very overwhelmed. Invite each one separately on a long drive or spa day. Talk to them about how you feel. You are a parent for life. It’s never time to give up.

They call that "grey rock" or no contact if you can fully walk away

Move away in silence,let it fall away,fade out,had to do that recently,I feel better,stronger...

Who buys a sailboat without learning ANYTHING to do with the ocean and sailing, including the tides!? It is wild to me that anyone would trust that boat owner with their life, that way. Wild.

sorry but he’s an idiot for not learning to sail and you are too. very unsafe. would you buy a car without knowing how to drive? 🤦🏽‍♀️

Ironic a sailboat and nobody thinks of using the sails.

I like your point of view.

@@shareqaazam9171 Thank you for your encouragement!

The thing is Raven, your quote renewed my perspective. Most of the time I am calm but I have to learn to not let certain waves around me effect my composure. Especially since I know they actually want me rattled. I scare too easily and they take advantage of it. Thank you again.

Wish You A Blessed Relationship

ever ask him what he’s so angry about?

@Zaroffmom I agree…I found that out when my mom died. I cried whenever I missed her or felt sad. Then the pain went away. I could think about her miss her without feeling that awful pain. Crying is cleansing.💜

I can't help but cry it's a release,and usually makes me feel better...

It’s Hollywood programming, they indulge it and believe the portrayals are accurate depictions of

ABSOLUTELY! Spot on! They try to put you in a box! Human beings by nature are complexed! Self mastery of self is key! Not others.

I agree. Everyone throws around these words but do they look into their own shadow? Others are a mirror/reflection of our unconscious. Maybe it’s not everyone else who is toxic and a “narcissist”. I guess a person who calls others this is totally enlightened? Lol

This is Deep

@@elishacolon9552 thanks for your comment. I know that this post might make me seem uncaring and a monster, but I truly do not think my friends and family would describe me that way. I must say I was very lucky to have a loving father, sadly he died young at age 50 from cancer caused by a work place exposure. I cared for him through his 15 month illness and held his hand as he took his last beath. Years later I have no regrets over my breaking contact with my mother. The one thing I do object to is the idea that we "should" forgive. I think there are times when forgiveness is correct and right, but with an NPD they know full well the harm they do. They do it on purpose because it brings them pleasure. I hope you never see the glimmer in the eye of an NPD as they diminish someone else. They are not out of control, they are calculating and intentional and will always blame others. Education about this disorder should be taught in all high school. I know 2 friends who killed themselves because they had a parent with NPD. They thought they were the problem, just as the NPD intended. They were not the problem.

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There is nothing you can do better than you did and do.

Gratitude

True Always!

This is true, but it can be in a situation where, your able to attribute peoples poor behavior to their frailties and insecurities ; but you can still decide to keep a healthy distance and maintain a protective moat against this person.

And you can’t stand it but to leave. Sometimes we’re not in the same wavelength with others and they need to learn the lessons by themselves to make them a better person.

If we have peace of mind toxic doesn't affect Us

Yes it is

Take what resonates with you from the video I think it was great very interesting

I found this very interesting, listen to it to the end

God Bless You And Help You!

I prefer to be silent but sometimes I feel I have to stand up for what is right and good and call out the abuser ! 🙏 Then I walk away and keep my distance from their negative vibes !💗

Asking you to forgive them is BS enabling behavior, which is also abuse. You can’t forgive someone who isn’t sorry and isn’t asking for forgiveness anyway.. I am glad you are free at last and wish you peace and joy 💖✨✨

Prayer,and meditation helps me,it has taken me a long time to accept me as I am.

What are you backing this belief with? You are talking alot about God, so then where exactly does it say in the bible that your pets go to heaven? I have never seen that

@@johncronin5311 There is a verse , and l cannot tell you exactly where it is, where animals are discussed in the afterlife. It is posed as a question, rather than a definitive. It goes something like....who is to say that animals don't go to heaven? Think about it. If you've ever owned a pet and loved that pet, you have gazed into those eyes and realized the depth of understanding and love behind them. The Kingdom of God will be filled with animals the Good Book tells us. Why would our Lord newly create those animals simply for heaven, when He already has a host of earthly animals to draw from, particularly those we have loved so much and formed a special bond with? No, l don't believe in a God Who will let anything go to waste, especially the beautiful beasts we were privileged to love and care for.

Love Will Save another, Right!

God Bless ! We meet them all again ! I've experienced seeing my brother who passed away and other things happening .💗🕊🌻🌹💖🙏

Great

I'm one of them. Was Mgtow but there is too much rage against women. Told myself I wasn't about hating women but there's insight to be gleaned from everything. While I still say that, this feels more in line with my philosophies, it rings true where Mgtow doesn't always.

Do What You Love! You Are Right,.

Your comment is vague and disturbing.

Thanks

I worked in a toxic work environment for 15 years because of the money. I survived, but think I've been damaged emotionally because of it. Thank God I was able to retire early.

I quit my job yesterday, after telling the boss exactly what I really thought. I felt so much relief and an awesome sense of power as I left, and o know she will regret disrespecting me because I know I was the hardest working person there. I put my faith in God and trust in myself to land on my feet, because I knew I’d done the right thing by standing up for myself. As I stormed out of work it starts raining. Within an hour I was offered another job from an agency I signed up with. It’s clear I was supposed to leave. If you start making back up plans you will feel more empowered to quit. Send out you cv to hundreds of openings online for a week or two. Pick the moment you are needed most at your job and quit at that moment so they feel your absence. Take the power back, I wish you luck, blessings and a happier work life! ❤

I was stuck in a toxic job situation for 8 years, had to stay as I was going through a divorce and had too many irons in the fire during that time. I did survive and learned a great deal. My coping mechanisms included: Keep engagement to a minimum whenever possible, pick your battles, find someone in that environment you can trust. Take care of your physical health , take prescribed medications if need be because you have to be able to sleep. Simplify your life away from work where you do have more control, be kind to yourself, read books and watch shows and movies that make you laugh. Picture a yapping chihuahua when looking at the this person/ people, sounds disrespectful but it’s not, it’s helping you to diminish their power over you. Remember you are a lot stronger than they are. Only unhappy and sick people enjoy being cruel to others.