11 ways to become instantly more ATTRACTIVE according to Psychology :)

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Do you consider yourself attractive? Have you ever met someone who you instantly wanted to spend more time with? Attractiveness or charisma is a well-researched topic and there are several theories on what makes someone attractive to others. Today I am breaking down several of those theories and sharing with you practical ways that you can apply them in your life while sharing anecdotes from my own experience of using these psychological phenomenons. There were several inspirations for this video including Mark Manson, Lana Blakely, Clark Kegly and more. Thanks to the research these creators put in that helped me bring this video to life ❤️
Enjoy and don't forget to subscribe ❤️
Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction
01:10 - 1. Looks
02:27 - 2. Confidence
03:31 - 3. Smile :) Reciprocal liking
04:20 - 4. Kindness
05:53 - 5. Authenticity
06:50 - 6. Mutual liking
08:22 - 7. How they make us feel
10:29 - 8. Relatability
11:12 - 9. Health and Fitness
11:41 - 10. Attitude/Behaviour
13:01 - 11. Good sense of humor
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@surbhisharma3317 7 ай бұрын

Sometimes, the person you think is mean can turn out to be the kindest, while those who act friendly may be quite selfish. Be patient and give the "mean" ones a chance; they might become your true friends.

@studynow8314 7 ай бұрын

That's me 😅 my 2 friends thought I was rude and mean now I'll work on it

@thewierd_thewonderful996 7 ай бұрын

So true. I have been perceived to be rude and damn straightforward, but people found the kinder side of me only when they got close to me.

@user-us7rg4cd6p 7 ай бұрын

yup.. mean attracts mean and you got sucked right away once they knew you were their kind.

@NithishS99 3 ай бұрын

The usual introverts

@Aakanksha-gp1ls 14 күн бұрын

So true..

@diviyanshmodiGJ 7 ай бұрын

00:04 Looks matter a lot and influence our perception of attractiveness. 01:53 Improving your attractiveness involves focusing on attitudes, fitness, grooming, and confidence. 03:33 Being kind and smiling more makes you instantly more attractive. 05:19 Kindness and Mistakes make you more attractive 07:06 Assuming that everybody already likes you can improve social interactions. 08:56 Developing effective presence includes active listening, making eye contact, open body language, giving genuine compliments, and regulating emotions. 10:40 Be more relatable and open with others. 12:24 Positive attitude and sense of humor make you more attractive

@kavyamaadhu653 6 ай бұрын

Thank youuu❤

@sakshhtf 6 ай бұрын

@lovelyly3536 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for this comment ❤

@shaambhavishrivastava 5 ай бұрын

Thankyou for the summary

@Shitaldwivedi 3 ай бұрын

Thank you

@raghavgarg8980 7 ай бұрын

Confidence Smile-spread hapiness Kindness- making other person feel valuable Authenticity- accept your flaws Reciprocity- believe everyone likes you How they make you feel-good listener,open body lanuge,genuine appreciation Relatability- Health and fitness Attitude towards yourself about you- you attract what you believeyou deserve Good sense of humour 😅

@apekshasehgal 11 ай бұрын

being a psych student, i loved the parts where you included real psychology studies and not some "psychology says" facts!! loved the video

@NewToYou1164 2 ай бұрын

Hello psych

@Ramdes815 7 ай бұрын

Relax guys if you dont have this qualities , you can better have a govt job...😂😂

@inaaya1441 7 ай бұрын

Exactly 🤣🤣

@palak_.prajapat 7 ай бұрын

Correct 😂😂 I was thinking of that only😂😂

@muskan_shaa09 7 ай бұрын

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@sohamsur2218 7 ай бұрын

😒

@coolsnowstar35 7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Veeraaaaaaa849 11 ай бұрын

We want a part 2 of this❤ love the way you also explain psychology behind every point 💫💫

@pieceofpeace1111 9 ай бұрын

Your smile, way of talking, hand gestures, speaking with eyes.... everything is so so charismatic! I have lack of patience tbh but I listened and watched your video in one go!!! What a miracle!!😂 I love love love your energy! Keep going sister! I subscribed!!♥️💫

@AdeteDahiya 9 ай бұрын

Yayy! Thank you 😍

@user-vo7yv4lv8c 2 ай бұрын

I "relate" to you! The way Adete conducts herself, and her sense of originality along with the facts made me go Woahhh (Psst... here we have a relatability ; ) )

@kunalgore2555 11 ай бұрын

Your youtube is so underrated. Appreciate the efforts that you are putting, even the video quality and editing deserves so many more subs❤. Feels good to find your channel. Really helpful❤

@Heal713 7 ай бұрын

Just loved the Wisdom you shared In awe of it❤❤❤ Plz do make the part 2 as well, would love to watch & know more about it

@Yellovalentime 7 ай бұрын

just make a part 2 already .... i can feel that why i am loving someone by your words..

@neha3436 11 ай бұрын

Ofc di we need a part 2 of this...loved part 1 💗

@priyasolanki1919 4 ай бұрын

Just wondering how wonderful your content is .... the way u present it is really appreciable❤

@AankitaDolly 7 ай бұрын

Yours words were charming and light. I really appreciate your hard work on making such videos. Wish you millions subs ahead. 😇👍

@Gaurav_Tripathi_ 7 ай бұрын

This is the first time I am watching your video, and I have just subscribed.. Thank you for this video and you are doing really great 😊

@sivamanigunji5171 9 ай бұрын

Just loved it...noted each point😊 looks like relatability applied here . just subscribed

@sthitidas1987 11 ай бұрын

yes! a BIG YES for the part 2

@Sarcasmka14 3 ай бұрын

I follow this rules since 1.5 year & still believe me guy i seen lot of improvement..!

@dharaniparthiban5218 7 ай бұрын

I love your videos they are just crisp and clear❤️🤗 much love to you

@rahulsalunke1872 2 ай бұрын

Please make part 2…I’m excited to see!

@sparklingkala8962 7 ай бұрын

This is the best video that i found...i enjoy every thing about this and i was just listen your how flawless you said ☺❤ and i wish you just keep going with this 😊

@Haruhi5488 5 ай бұрын

Ngl but your eye make up and your make up looks so good. I personally don't focus on people's faces much but you looked very presentable here and thus I watched the whole video in 1 go.

@romilpatel7712 2 ай бұрын

Definitely, it was enlightening and informative but the background instrumental sound was outstanding

@soniyabhavsar9467 7 ай бұрын

Happy to see your channel it's really informative n quite interesting.Ur content is too good. Keep growing us & growing you man. 🕊️✨💪

@tanyabhardwaj4680 11 ай бұрын

Definitely a part 2🌞🌞

@apoorvbhushansrivastava115 11 ай бұрын

Definitely want part 2

@SwetaNahar 11 ай бұрын

Such relevant points Adete.. its 💯 meaningful.. pls have part 2 shared.. loved that how you backed it up with not just logic but good psychological facts..and real life examples those are soo relatable.. happy vibes! ❤

@AdeteDahiya 11 ай бұрын

Yayy. Glad it resonated with you

@mvsrinidhi3028 7 ай бұрын

Helped alot somthing I'm waiting for!!!❤

@rayjustslay 9 ай бұрын

I have almost all of these traits and i kid you not everyone I meet i have this feeling that they instantly like me and wants to be around me!

@bananamcdonald4916 11 ай бұрын

Discovered this channel. Subscribed!

@renaissabhattacharya2446 13 күн бұрын

i mean wow.. 15 mins almost passed by and it jst felt like 5 mins. Thank you so much for making this video.

@AdeteDahiya 12 күн бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@sanskarpandey6213 11 ай бұрын

Wonderful video Adete, learnt alot and will definitely be applying what I learnt. Thanks! Would really appreciate it if you could make a video on sense of humor or continuing conversations when running out of things to say

@AdeteDahiya 11 ай бұрын

Hey great idea. Noted :)

@drvishalnagar 7 ай бұрын

@Dahiya right now you look the most attractive, beautiful, confident, pretty outfit and vibrant smile which is contagious too!!

@user-dx4yw7pi3f 2 ай бұрын

loved this video !!🌹

@aksheys2672 7 ай бұрын

After long I got a good stuff over here... With a beautiful smile.... Keep it up senorita

@sweetyr2374 11 ай бұрын

Adete, you are LOVE! ❤

@priyankachaurasia1509 7 ай бұрын

Felt sooo happy and energatic after hearing you, sis❤😊 U are also Very attractive 😊

@user-tv4mf2li5y 5 ай бұрын

Literallyy everything said was true!!!❤❤❤

@kunalsuthar8188 7 ай бұрын

So as I've attracted to this video because of it has psychology facts and you explained beautifully your voice attracted me and you've missed that point one's voice is also attractive.❤

@sweetyr2374 11 ай бұрын

Part 2 pleaseeeeee!!!! 🌼

@musicalmeters 11 ай бұрын

Interesting Video🎈 Adete. Thanks for Sharing 🦋

@anjalityagi3442 2 ай бұрын

You're going to have millions of subscribers very soon. 🥂

@riddhi_g 10 ай бұрын

Those are really good tips ❤❤

@nirajkrchoudharyofficial2039 7 ай бұрын

Loved your content .❤❤❤

@lizameow05 7 ай бұрын

Very informative,part 2 please 😊🙌🏻

@baivabjena4311 6 ай бұрын

Genuinely Liked this video💙💙

@mansicreates_ 7 ай бұрын

Great insights!

@madhumitha8549 10 ай бұрын

Useful 💯!!

@poorvameena5690 9 ай бұрын

Be consistent girl, i really want to see uh grow..your channel is literally underrated 🙃❤

@AdeteDahiya 9 ай бұрын

Yes ma'am ❤❤❤

@Suryas-mn4sh 11 ай бұрын

This video means a lot :)

@fitakkie1.2 7 ай бұрын

Loved it Adete❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@nehasinha3861 11 ай бұрын

Soo glad to have found your channel today! :')

@AdeteDahiya 11 ай бұрын

Yayy ❤️

@advaitatawde6340 10 күн бұрын

You are so pretty and charismatic!

@SwetanshuSubhrajit 11 ай бұрын

This is so insightful! As always Amazing Adete ❤

@AdeteDahiya 11 ай бұрын

Ayeee thank you! How are you? It’s been a while

@SwetanshuSubhrajit 11 ай бұрын

@@AdeteDahiya yeah. I’ve been good! Love seeing your channel grow and such amazing content ♥️

@tusharkapoor4816 11 ай бұрын

yahh! also make a video on sense of humor 😀 I love to listen from you...

@lovealways9 11 ай бұрын

Love the content

@ohgauch Ай бұрын

Editing was on point. That aside..I have never came across anyone who said Psychology helped me be more attractive. Besides this is a vastly subjective topic.

@pragyanatani335 7 ай бұрын

your videos are really insightful...

@snehagaur3463 9 ай бұрын

Stumbled upon on tis quality content...loved it...subscribed immediately...loved your charisma girl .😊... keep going...

@AdeteDahiya 9 ай бұрын

Ayeee thank you so much ❤️

@SaniyaSachinm 7 ай бұрын

Thanks A Million for this Video. You made Great Video. I got nice knowledge and it will help me.

@sriraj2098 7 ай бұрын

Just Amazing, Keep going 🔥

@jannatunferdousmim8 13 күн бұрын

Di... Can u please make a video about how to stop being negative when there is full of negativity in our surrounding and also how to stop being judgemental.. And stop overtalking

@Senorita_2005 7 ай бұрын

Hey dear who are you? Simply superb😊 you deserve millions..one fine day that would happen.. with my whole heart❤❤ congrats in advance!!

@venkateshyoutube 4 ай бұрын

Please make part 2 about this topic

@bhartichawlaaa 6 ай бұрын

Glad this vid came across!! Useful❤ new subscriber:)

@darshannn7001 2 ай бұрын

Well, I am sharing my personal experience di: I was emotionally vulnerable in my past and that kept backfiring upon me, until I stopped doing it :) What I believe is, when you share your weakness with people, they don't tend to appreciate you for that, instead they use this weakness as a weapon to harm you at times :) Appreciations for some advice on this!

@tusharkhapne4714 7 ай бұрын

what a communication incredible.

@gouravchouhan5616 7 ай бұрын

Very useful ❤

@DataPulsePoint 7 ай бұрын

Hey Aditi i loved all tips and ideas btw Which Camera Do u use?

@pranitmane 6 ай бұрын

I've always wondered why Indian creators don't make this kind of content. Surely, this channel will gather an audience who look to Western creators for these topics, and it's definitely going to grow.

@rahulkulkarni2643 7 ай бұрын

perfect content and best information put all together more such videos in the future

@devverma_ Ай бұрын

Thank you so much ma'am...🙏🙏💫😇

@Radha_23 7 ай бұрын

Your style of speaking ❤

@Vaibhav_banking5781 6 ай бұрын

looks is god gift. if you look good then everyone is attracted by u . nd thats the reasons why so many watching u. its not a negative comment but just telling the truth

@user-gjfxhvxt 7 ай бұрын

bro your sound design is so good:)

@AdeteDahiya 7 ай бұрын

oooh thank you

@acergamingbattlezone6077 3 ай бұрын

Very nice video Thank you for the information

@abhijeetkarle6144 5 ай бұрын

Nice video I learned so much in this video Thank you 😊👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

@gunjeetkumar3883 2 ай бұрын

7th point looks most important trait to become attractive I believe.

@shantanuambhore4852 7 ай бұрын

You are amazing ❤

@abcdabcd8605 11 ай бұрын

video wonderfully made! definitely make a Part-2

@AdeteDahiya 11 ай бұрын

On it!

@vipinjogani892 Ай бұрын

Best video ever❤

@sumitkumarsuman4935 7 ай бұрын

part 2 bhi chaiyeeee!!!

@shravaneeswamy4883 6 ай бұрын

i like the way u present ur opinions

@sandheyakumari5249 6 ай бұрын

I really loved the way you spoke throughout the vedio,

@AdeteDahiya 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much ❤️

@SaniyaSachinm 7 ай бұрын

Thanks A Million. I got nice youtube channel to Learn more knowledge and improve myself.

@bunnyvai5745 2 ай бұрын

You're so beautiful 😍 and I love the way how you were telling ❤

@rafequreshi9614 7 ай бұрын

As per my understanding good character is most attractive things in life if we have good money but not good character nothing we have. So❤🎉

@mi026 7 ай бұрын

Knowledgeable 😇 want part 2

@AdeteDahiya 7 ай бұрын

It's already uppp kzfaq.info/get/bejne/iceDpc2QptqZaYE.html

@UmeshNikam9319 10 ай бұрын

thankyu adele

@visheshagrawal5338 3 ай бұрын

very good information video

@srishtibhardwaj5716 27 күн бұрын

Part 2 please

@chinmayi2714 6 ай бұрын

Heyyy.. what is the lip and cheek tint u used in this video.. it looks so natural

@itsmylife5540 2 ай бұрын

Need part 2

@MME__Amankumar 7 ай бұрын

your eyes is expressing more than your words.

@samridhikumari12E 5 ай бұрын

1sr time and comment in your channel

@KRAZZYWARMACHIENGaming 2 ай бұрын

Most of these work yesss but a lot of them will not apply to men , but they are great advices regardless. Though they will apply on women better

@R.Jjewelery-rq9ny Ай бұрын

Want you to make part 2 please your fan from Pakistan

@rajeshkannan8608 Ай бұрын

I listen classes and ask doubts, while no other students have 0% interest to listen the class. I 'm productive. my classmates don't have interest to talk with me!! What to do?