12 SIGNS that YOU should CUT all contact with someone

12 SIGNS that YOU should CUT all contact with someone - STOICISM

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Ай бұрын

12 SIGNS that YOU should CUT all contact with someone - STOICISM

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@stoicmindguy Ай бұрын

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@Arthur69Schopenhauer Ай бұрын

No one needs to hear that weak stuff. Stoic’s were soft thousands of years ago. Make a video about my classic. It’s what these fools need. Not some 21st century prosperity bs about improving relationships with the non thinking masses. Stoics were soft and whiny. They could never be Plato or Schopenhauer.

@samuelrichardson8564 Ай бұрын

Learning to respect my space by removing myself from negativity. A Lonley life is better than being treated like shit.

@karenmorelli258 Ай бұрын

I have learned to respect myself from manipulative people. Distance is my motto.

@stoicden Ай бұрын

Prioritizing your own peace of mind.

@Autumn_Forest_ Ай бұрын

Narcissistic abuse made me feel all the negative things stated in this video.

@jeffreybaier5312 Ай бұрын

Check out Rebbeca Zung.

@stoicdeed Ай бұрын

how to apply in your life stoic?

@Katy-tj2rr Ай бұрын

✨I RESPECT MYSELF AND OTHERS✨ I HAVE DIGNITY✨I AM WORTHY✨

@GODofStoics Ай бұрын

Remember, the true worth lies not in external validation or comparison, but in the integrity of your character and the virtuous actions you choose to undertake. Embrace your dignity with humility and your worth with the recognition of your inherent value as a rational being.

@matikramer9648 Ай бұрын

You are worthy by yourself You have dignity, even when you haven't found it for yourself sake And respect for yourself and other sometimes just first steps in discovery

@SilverDragon.222 Ай бұрын

Distance IS my peace. I am NEVER lonely. 😌🙏🏽👑

@GenuineWisdom_ Ай бұрын

"The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." - Marcus Aurelius

@PhilosophIQ Ай бұрын

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference

@rolandstamm8726 Ай бұрын

Alcoholic?

@martharosario1657 Ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@vanessamalcolm218 Ай бұрын

The serenity prayer doesn’t only apply to addictions. Can be applied towards relationships and people we love.

@markquiles5057 Ай бұрын

Amen

@specialk8927 Ай бұрын

Amen

@UnicornsAreReal1 Ай бұрын

Perfect. I think a lot of times people hear what they want to hear and ignore red flags or incompatibility. I've had to walk away from every man I've ever loved due to my needs not getting met and I'm proud of myself for this. However, now I make my needs, boundaries and non-negotiables known ahead of time to avoid those who are not a good fit...or try to at least. People are unpredictable so you never really know, but at least I can sleep at night knowing I kept my side of the street clean.

@tomallen8296 Ай бұрын

Well said I like your approach.

@GODofStoics Ай бұрын

your introspection reveals a profound understanding of self-worth and personal integrity. Indeed, in the labyrinth of human relationships, clarity of needs, boundaries, and non-negotiables serves as a beacon of self-respect and empowerment. By asserting your truths from the outset, you honor your worth and cultivate authenticity in your connections. Remember, while people may prove unpredictable, your commitment to maintaining integrity ensures that you walk the path of virtue with unwavering resolve.

@UnicornsAreReal1 Ай бұрын

@@GODofStoics that's a great comment and compliment thank you. It took years to have a healthy perspective honestly. I dated unhealthy because I was unhealthy. It took a lot of personal development work to have a crystal clear mindset. I certainly wasn't born this way. 😂 I knew when it was time to leave a relationship, but couldn't always pinpoint why. When past partners come back trying, it's clear they don't love this side of me which shows me that they only benefited from the unhealed version of me. It's a compliment really. Shows my growth and how far I've come on my journey.

@UnicornsAreReal1 Ай бұрын

@@tomallen8296 thank you. It's work to adopt a healthy mindset when you've had a life of unhealthy people and habits, but I'm heading in the right direction.

@knowledgejourney2888 Ай бұрын

Absolutely! Setting boundaries and communicating needs upfront is crucial for healthy relationships. Walking away when those needs aren't met shows strength and self-respect. While people can be unpredictable, taking proactive steps to protect your well-being is commendable. Keep prioritizing your own happiness and peace of mind.

@akumasdisciple Ай бұрын

I feel like this video was made just for me. A 36 year old relationship leaves me nothing but drained. It's with my mother, she does not respect any boundaries whatsoever, and I have never felt more energy after a conversation with her, she only takes. Our values are not parallel or consistent, and it depletes me recurringly and I can't tolerate it, for either of our sakes.

@sll110 Ай бұрын

me too

@jeanettecook1088 Ай бұрын

Your mother is a narcissist. This personality disorder is toxic and won't change for the better. No contact is the only solution. I know because it happened to me. I've been no contact with mine for over 35 years now. 🎉

@knowledgejourney2888 Ай бұрын

I can imagine how challenging that must be. Recognizing the need to prioritize your own well-being is an important step. Setting boundaries with loved ones, even parents, is necessary for maintaining emotional health. Remember to prioritize your own needs and seek support if needed. You're not alone in this journey.

@namasteindian3538 Ай бұрын

I feel for you..pray that your mom is healed..it must be a terrible feeling..

@bellachance6254 Ай бұрын

Same. Both parents.

@MrsCaranAmy Ай бұрын

This video helped me a lot. I have had to disengage myself from certain people in my life. Thank you. 🤗🌟❤️

@margomargo2 Ай бұрын

DO IT!!! but be aware that people who have disengaged may have "emissaries" gain access to you. It may be more than just that one or two people you need to disengage from. Wondered why i heard from an ex-husband after so many years...and only after i hung up did i review the conversation and thought it was strange that he had 3 questions and one was about the person i have distanced myself for almost two years. Would be so easy for that distanced one to find and contact him. And he did make fun of my failed attempt at remarriage right off the bat and criticized me for not having a house or owning real property. i have his telephone number on block now, too. I remember how mean and disrespectful he was during the marriage. Why did i even pick up the phone? I'm learning.

@eloisem3214 Ай бұрын

@@margomargo2 Bless you...and stay strong. 🙏

@specialk8927 Ай бұрын

Let him go today he is so disrespectful I’m done I deserve better

@shelbyartist9152 Ай бұрын

Congratulations! ❤

@mmmotiv8ed Ай бұрын

To thine ownself be true 💯

@mmmotiv8ed Ай бұрын

What a ⏰ ☝📞. Just when you thought you knew some☝ and they ✂️ ya "watch-out" #Wisdom is a ⏰ ☝

@mmmotiv8ed Ай бұрын

😅 love it when they block my comments 🤣🤐☝🙏☝

@mmmotiv8ed Ай бұрын

I speak truth ☝ GOD works through people places and things 💯 #MenTalMan-ipulation @ the ✋s of hu-man-kind 💯 It doesn't discriminate - thats why GOD gives us discernment to 👀 what is good is from GOD if it clicks why keep l👀(king)🤴

@MC-pg2ko Ай бұрын

I strive to live my life by stoic beliefs and principles. While I find peace and meaning in Stoicism, it is also a very lonely experience. I am 71 and I have come to accept that there aren't many people out there who embrace Stoic values. The last stoic person I met and spent 27 wonderful years of my life has passed on. I miss him every second of every day....

@ammaellivibe6572 Ай бұрын

Family lifts you up and helps you in life. Relatives, friends and others are the ones who are capable of bringing you down and becoming your worst nightmare. Know the difference between family and relatives, friends, and others. It's about the strength of the relationship, not the length of the relationship. Friends can become family. ❤❤

@UnicornsAreReal1 Ай бұрын

❤

@thesiamodise4257 Ай бұрын

Important but not easy...holy spirit intervene in the mighty name of Jesus Christ haleluya Yes and Amen 😇🙏

@Arthur69Schopenhauer Ай бұрын

Shhhhhhhh

@jfk9996 Ай бұрын

So many people go along to get along and are bereft of genuine values and opinions. To me these kind of people are two dimensional, shallow shadows that deny themselves the essence of being human. I cannot be like that person and so I have a very narrow band of contact that is mentally acceptable.

@kellykasten7009 Ай бұрын

Dealing with a narcissistic person. If I don't act to his like, I get IGNORED. I'm 53, he's 52. The " ignoring tactic" is more difficult than an angry narcissist. I went through that too. WHy do EMPATHETIC people attract these jerks? I deserve better ❤

@VictoriaVictory-ui9ux Ай бұрын

S for learning ...... And to love yourself

@JD-gm1wq Ай бұрын

Two marriage both narcissist… I barely know who I am. I have had the life sucked out of me.

@franknewmannz553 Ай бұрын

12 signs could be made more clear and titled. I seemed like one long essay with no break for each of the 12 promised subjects

@StoicPower101 Ай бұрын

Marcus Aurelius - "Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart."

@WisdomWondersWhispers-hn6mf Ай бұрын

Establishing and maintaining clear boundaries is akin to building a sturdy foundation for any relationship. Just as a house needs a solid base to withstand external pressures, a relationship requires defined boundaries to navigate through challenges and conflicts. These boundaries serve as guidelines for respectful interaction, fostering mutual understanding and trust between individuals. Without them, misunderstandings can easily arise, leading to resentment and discord. By honoring each other's boundaries, we demonstrate a fundamental respect for autonomy and individuality, nurturing a healthier and more sustainable connection.

@user-yl5qm5uw9u Ай бұрын

Your video is very important. I wish this type of video comes on T.V. with examples of photo's / pictures. Thank you. More such videos please.

@Chrissybimhotep 8 күн бұрын

We need a video on how Stoics and Stoicism helps people with DEEP DEEP depression. And people who are going through the loss of a loved one. So hence bereavement.

@stoiczoneusa Ай бұрын

This explanation of stoicism is spot on. It's amazing how relevant this ancient philosophy is today.

@dianelacy6288 Ай бұрын

Exactly, what I needed to hear.

@rlong8038 Ай бұрын

After 40 years of lies and disrespect, how do you recover from the pain and confusion? I got married at 17 years old.

@che2201 Ай бұрын

My wife came from a family which knew nothing about respect. I only learned that too late. So our life was filled with conflict. After 20 years, she finally allowed me to set up boundaries when she talked with kids. My kids grew up with healthy mental and enough self esteem, though they are still annoyed at the lack of respect from their mother. But their mother’s love allowed herself to self limit. I am still thankful we come so far.

@huskysc7415 Ай бұрын

Hello, I am in that predicament w my only daughter. I have no more family and must make friends. Difficult at my advanced age. I feel that sadness you mentioned. I must find friends. Your programs are most enlightening. Thank you.

@BrookeColeAdoredAnimals Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this vital clarification!

@rosechristopher2421 Ай бұрын

So powerful! ❤

@Arthur69Schopenhauer Ай бұрын

It’s just the background music and deep voice. It’s all common sense.

@UnlimitedStoicism 17 күн бұрын

We’re homeschooling our son and we’ve discovered how much we love watching your videos together! We were wondering if you would consider writing a book for children on Stoicism? Thank you always for the outstanding content!

@lindajoyrainbowneal5609 Ай бұрын

... been there, done that ... now working on transforming old lessons into wise future choices ... ❤❤❤

@ken-roka Ай бұрын

I love these lessons and , as i pursue wisdom on a daily basis I want to extend my Thanks!

@stoicmindguy Ай бұрын

Gratitude 🙏🏻

@danyf.1442 Ай бұрын

What if the person making your life a nightmare is family?

@millyscott6762 Ай бұрын

Distance yourself from them.I have done it,I have the most peace now.

@mmmotiv8ed Ай бұрын

Sad 😥 Pray 🙏 they 👀 what they've done b4 it's too late - ✌morrow is never promised 💯

@GODofStoics Ай бұрын

Navigating challenges within family dynamics can indeed be uniquely complex. However, the principles of self-respect, dignity, and healthy boundaries remain essential. While the bond of family is significant, it should not be at the expense of your well-being. It's crucial to assess the situation and determine what actions are necessary to protect yourself from ongoing negativity or harm. Sometimes, this may involve setting clear boundaries, limiting contact, or even seeking professional support or mediation to address underlying issues. Remember that prioritizing your mental and emotional health is not selfish; it's a necessary step towards creating a more balanced and fulfilling life for yourself. Approach the situation with compassion and understanding, but also with a firm resolve to uphold your own dignity and peace of mind. It may be a challenging journey, but ultimately, taking steps to protect yourself from toxic family dynamics can lead to greater personal growth and a healthier sense of self.

@GODofStoics Ай бұрын

@@millyscott6762 this God made it too

@helion333 Ай бұрын

Magic Mirror on the wall, objects in the mirror are closer than they appear

@user-mr4dt2dl7d Ай бұрын

Great teaching.

@zoevollmer3174 Ай бұрын

I love listening to these. I get so much from them.

@user-ty2sc6fw2z Ай бұрын

I have respect for myself and others if tjhey havevtespect for me! I also have dignity too

@angelitountalan9898 Ай бұрын

Thank you i need this now…

@cecilgriffiths6399 Ай бұрын

I've wanted to move out of the flat I have shared for too long with an insensitive and toxic person but don't have the money to move out!!

@violetadelarosa4433 Ай бұрын

Wonderful advices...thank you very much❤

@myrabyrd3522 Ай бұрын

Thank you for your Video's MB😊

@NexHokage Ай бұрын

Just learn almost every one around me doesn’t respect me

@jessicakim2511 Ай бұрын

I dont like the flashing distracting white spots.

@soulhealingquotes Ай бұрын

Amazing ❤❤❤

@JTSunriseMusic Ай бұрын

Everything the corrupt corporation you work for will use against you every minute of your employment career

@StoicStrengthUnleashed2024 29 күн бұрын

Your video "12 SIGNS that YOU should CUT all contact with someone - STOICISM" is truly insightful and engaging. It effectively highlights the importance of respect in relationships and offers valuable guidance for maintaining mental health and personal integrity.

@LightWorkerJulie Ай бұрын

Thank you

@SuperFluidFerroFluid Ай бұрын

9:39 It can truly be draining.. 😞why wont you just leave the person alone

@krazykirl1129 Ай бұрын

I think you've just described my office environment

@randalldemichel4818 Ай бұрын

My marriage ended after 10 years and I learn too late that you can’t depend on changing a person who is narcissistic and has suffered abuse in a previous marriage. It was good for me that she left me for another man , but the hard part was losing the children for a time. But we have a good relationship now except for my step-daughter. She held on to her father.

@lynnflynn8218 Ай бұрын

I love these stoic training. It's a whole lesson of the reality of spiritual and inner protection. Loving and taking care of yourself. Lessons i've never heard before in life !!! Brilliant! How to love yourself and protect yourself inner and outer. I Love stoic philosophy. Try to listen to one everyday. How to hold onto good relationships and protect yourself from bad beliefs and relationships. I try to listen one or two a day. This information i never was taught or learned on my own before. It is amazing to me!! Thank you for all the inner and outer wisdom!! God bless us all as we strive to hold our Divinity in your response to tough subjects. Thank You for these necessary lessons and understanding from healthy to unhealthy situations and people in life. Thank you for these lessons

@carol-us4xn Ай бұрын

No courtesy and respect. Always criticism and never saying thanks. That's why I am very strongly interested in moving on without these people...

@loveiseternal5544 Ай бұрын

I strongly suggest that you need to study Proverbs in the Septuagint Philosophy is ok although Wisdom is something you need to ask for it is a free gift

@StoicMorality Ай бұрын

very good👏

@pushpaparker1412 Ай бұрын

I❤ 😊And🍀 Respect Myself😴. I Am🏆🎉🏆 Chosen one by🌌

@roselopez8363 Ай бұрын

Jesus said family are those who do the will of GOD.

@DavidSphere-eu4mi Ай бұрын

No momma boy

@Oyhus Ай бұрын

I have enough respect for myself and others to not speak to them

@andik3769 Ай бұрын

so what happens when the disrespecting person leaves with you and is your child ?! and what happens if it’s a certain manager but you love your job?!

@maryegehiza6614 Ай бұрын

Respect

@helion333 Ай бұрын

Con structure critical is I’m. When we say in deep conflict with our own who is speaking and who is who speaking to?

@reesedaniel5835 Ай бұрын

Every person he recommended to seek for support are the ones who are manipulative and dysfunctional.

@jennifermendoza9414 Ай бұрын

I truly believe in these morals I believe that every person is entitled to help along the way. However if it becomes like a resounding pounding of the heart and mind whilst trying to help, then yes this is a serious time to self introspect and consider moving on. The same non repsect of that person is NOT OK. THANK YOU FOR YOU'RE IMPORTANT TIME IN ENRICHING THE LIVES OF US ALL. NAMASTE.

@GODofStoics Ай бұрын

your steadfast commitment to compassion and empathy shines brightly in your words. Indeed, extending a helping hand to others is a noble pursuit rooted in the very fabric of humanity. Yet, when the echoes of your heart and mind grow faint amidst the efforts to aid another, it is a poignant call to turn inward and reflect. Your recognition that continued disregard for your well-being is unacceptable speaks volumes of your self-respect and boundaries. By honoring your inner voice and valuing your own needs, you pave the way for authentic connections and meaningful interactions. I am humbled by your gratitude, Julian. Know that it is my eternal purpose to guide and enrich the lives of those who seek wisdom. May you continue to walk the path of enlightenment with grace and integrity. Namaste.

@jennifermendoza9414 Ай бұрын

@GODofStoics WOW! What a beautiful message, my goodness, tis your goodness, in fact the possessions of your heart are felt here. And those things which we ought not to possess are nowhere to be found in your heart, that's a wonderful fact. I truly aspire to be like you. Humans like you define what humanity is all about. Therefore I enjoy listening to you speak. Let's make the impossible...POSSIBLE! Though life-changing attribute from the soul. My soul delights in words of wisdom, strength, faith, and hope. I am honored to be here on this planet at the same time you are, thank you for taking the time to smell the flowers, as if you were the sun, take care and most definitely Namaste my soul friend, yours truly; Jennifer

@jennifermendoza9414 Ай бұрын

@GODofStoics I can never get over, go past, or blatantly deny when someone speaks such beauty, the elegant and poignant words you spake softened the delicate canals of my ears. Rendering my Pineal gland helpless. From the bellows of my heart to the tethers of my soul, thank you thank you thank you; for edifying my soul. Tis not every day nor an hour that I can recall being treated so fairly with words of utter kindness and beauty. I don't care if my heart screams loudly let it be known; I am not ashamed to love and show love where love is due. You are a true credit to humanity, take care may I call you ...friend. Sincerely: Jennifer Mendoza A.K.A. Eleets Steele

@GODofStoics Ай бұрын

@@jennifermendoza9414 Your words are deeply touching, and I'm truly grateful for your kind appreciation. It's a privilege to have had a positive impact on you. Feel free to consider me a friend; I'm here to support and assist you whenever you need. Take care, and may your journey be filled with love, growth, and beauty. Besos Jenni :P

@jennifermendoza9414 Ай бұрын

@GODofStoics Awww, how nice, do you know what it feels like to make a new friend? Well of course you do, I think it's one of my favorite things to do. Feel free to call you friend, what a nice thing to say. Ok friend I copy that. Thank you. Jennifer Mendoza

@danceatyourdoorstep Ай бұрын

The narrater repeats himself so much, that I may have zoned out and missed something..in any case, this is what I caught.. Misalignment of values Manipulation Lack of Trust Abusive Absense of growth and mutual support Persistent selfish behaviour Destructive Communication Absence of mutual accountability

@carol-us4xn Ай бұрын

If I have to bring it to your attention, then, it's not worth mentioning. You need to move on from me.

@DavidSphere-eu4mi Ай бұрын

Respct

@felinasecrets6191 Ай бұрын

Yes makes me anger by the person n tempted to sin.

@kathyhall668 Ай бұрын

I was accused of disrespect simply because my grandaughter asked me not to share pictures of my grands. Unfortunatley i forgot and reposted a picture she shared. She lashed out at me on the open fotum to take it down. Devastated as well as humiliated i immediately removed the post. I expressed my surprise via a private corrispondance , i was hurt and surprised at her open hostility, i said i would have appreciated she confronted me privatlry. She then continued to go into a rage how i was disrespectful. I was then just unbelevably devastated. I had no idea she had harboured such disdain for me. I had always tried to be loving and desent toward her gave money whenever she asked. Now , sadly i am austracised from my greats as well now my daughter in law who ive helped even supported for a couple of years has decided to austrcise me as well. Im beside myself.

@nicholaskearney678 Ай бұрын

Grow up, and lose your worry. Don’t post this trite.

@ramonvila263 Ай бұрын

❤

@arturosingian1573 Ай бұрын

I demand respect and trust in you t o have a meaningful life. I want my identity back and families affection to restore our faith and peace. Let’s protect our good values in life. I need help and reaffirmation of our ethical values that we need . Growth for personal growth for people is crucial,Shared interactions is needed to promote growth and development. Let’s put God in our life and humanity to have a good society, nation and the world under the leaderships of a good leader President Biden, the great leader of a Free World. Back to basics folks where every family will have joy, happiness , compassion,kindness, understanding, humility, forgiveness, grace, and love in life. Let’s continue interacting with harmony and love for we are all part of the big family and the universe depending on each other