That's a double-edged sword in a lot of ways. Yes, it can be revealing, especially when you look at the people she chooses to have in her life, not just the people she had no say in being her family. However, I've known many people, both men and women, who when they found the right person for them, pulled away from the toxic and dangerous relationships to be with the person they loved. Many people, especially people who struggle with anxiety, depression, and general low self-esteem, surround themselves with people who make them feel better about themselves, and sometimes when they aren't fortunate enough to find people who lift them up, they seek out people who, by comparison, make them see the good inside themselves. So by all means, yes, be cautious if everyone they surround themselves with is a trash human being, but don't let that immediately send you running.

This is a big one.

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Leonardo Pinheiro Differentiation

This is so important....

They may seem sane but often turn crazy. And when they do the authorities do not protect you.

Appreciate you sharing that.

@@anthonyc5039 This is the norm. It's our responsibility to educate men as fast as possible !!!! Spread the word....

#10 and #12 .....very important!!!!

I appreciate this

Thank you!

My wife and I lived together for 3 years before we got engaged and another 2 before getting married. In my past experiences I realized that you usually dont truly know anybody until you live with them. I had good friends that I lived with and then couldn't stand them after living together.

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Sadly, that is true. Signing a contract that only one party is held to giving complete power to the other, is too dangerous.

On point!

Step 0 is epic. LMAO.

I would love to meet the 20 something year old woman who will date a man for a year or two prior to marriage celibate and be loyal. But every relationship the woman basically expected it. It was less of my choice, and saying no would’ve ended in a break up then and there.

You're good to go lol don't worry

Because there are a lot of weak little boys masquerading as men in this world...

Okay see I’ve been getting really worn out by all the anti marriage dudes. I don’t get it.

Anthony Valenze bullshit. What you call "providing for her needs" is not necessarily always enough for her. Maybe you have a deep argument and she starts to reciprocate the flirting from the guy at work who is better looking, makes more money than you. and is exciting purely because he isn't you. You are never safe. I wish you the best, but most men don't see it coming. Hypergamy is real. There is one way you could assure she will never leave or stray : If you are a 10 and she is a one.

I thought the Red Pillers were all about challage. So here's one...satisfy one woman for a lifetime! Are you man enough to try? Then pick a woman of good character (plenty out there) and go for it!

To paraphrase Robin Williams, being alone is better than being with someone who makes you feel alone. He would know having been married thrice, two ending in divorce and the third ending with his suicide. And of course not getting married, or even not pursuing romantic relationships at all, doesn't mean you have to be alone. You can still have friends. How bout you take on a challenge of sticking your finger into a spinning lawnmower blade and pulling it out before it gets cut off? What, are you sissy?

@@aramfingal5180 I understand your feelings and even shared them for a short time. I did take the risk 23 years ago, after making an extensive character evaluation first (of her and of myself). Still married and it's better every year. I'm sorry it's not that way for everyone. It can be if both people prepare for a life of marriage before getting married, commit to the marriage, and keep growing together. Sadly, some men do get taken advantage of. So do many women. Many people use this as an excuse to avoid serious relationships. Some even treat people like disposable chattle. That, of course, perpetuates the problem of distrust. I'll read up on Robin Williams' 3 marriages. It could be that he was a completely devoted, hard working, and family oriented husband all 3 times and just got jipped. It could also be that a man of 3 divorces had either bad discernment regarding good partners or some character challenges that were hard to live with.

Lol you are either crazy yourself or have never dealt with a crazy person. They will threaten you physically, abuse you and make your life hell

@@RandomAnonn Such a dumbed down label. What's 'crazy' or 'insane'? You or the bloke in the vid don't give actual definitions of this or any real examples of what constitutes 'insanity'. Suggesting they 'threaten you physically' just because they're 'crazy' doesn't hold. There were causes and reasons for this reaction. Not because they're 'crazy'. They probably need help themselves... And a partner with patience and care. 'Wildness' (???) is apparently a red flag, what does that mean? He doesn't define it in the video, nor gives specific examples of how that apparently affects the relationship. Wildness to one person is different to another. Frankly he probably just means independence and motivation, which he'd perceive as hurting his ego and control over her. The video is problematic in other ways. Nothing about same-sex marriage, just assumes heterosexuality. The confidence of this bloke is outstanding, that vaguery can just applying to everyone, that his views work for everyone. The way he discusses men and women as though they all behave in the same gendered way is weird. There's a lot patriarchal, man-must-be-king bullshit here too.

@@antsmith9909 lol ok

747tbar oh yeah no problem. These women are so common. Good luck with that

@@starke6666 never said it would be easy... But if men made that stipulation for marriage then the horror of sluts not being married will teach the next generation to not be one if they want marriage.... You can't save these of this generation but you can influence the next....

Really man your going to be like that, just because you dont agree with no sex before marriage your going to unsubscribe. Living life that way will get you no where in life. Here's a tip take in advice and points of view from everywhere and use what works in your life and set aside what dosent work for your values, not all of what he says I agree with but I dont have to to see the value in what he is teaching I use what he says that works in my life and the other stuff I dont simple. Good luck in life.

Anthony Valenze that’s correct. I like to make my decisions based on sound, well-articulated arguments. This particular channel hasn’t offered me anything new that I don’t already have from other channels/sources. So yes, I’m making the decision to unsubscribe. I also wish you good luck in your life.

@@logandwilliams Clearly you felt the need to tell us you are unsubscribing. Why is that? Also why do you disagree, I haven't seen a counter argument.

HSP it’s feedback. Many people welcome it. I have no need to engage in a counter argument for a statement. You could call it agreeing to disagree. It’s my prerogative to do that and I’m exercising that right. Thanks for your comment!

he did he said that sex is an important factor in determining if he's attracted and willing to commit long term.

The day after you marry a woman is the day you meet her.

@Jacob Howell okay, tit for tat, you glazed over my other points