this scene makes me sad. the way Jenna feels waking up to being and adult is how I feel everyday as an adult - I just still cant believe it that im not a kid anymore. I see people I grew up with getting married and having children, my parents getting older, and everything is changing, including myself, and I just want to turn back time and be 13 again and see everyone one around me younger and carefree

"since high school" ugh Jenna he means you!!!

Matt is our dream guy.

Threw the doll house that he worked hard on at his face? That is not only harsh, but it's damn right disrespectful.

Matt's description of how he and Jen stopped being friends is absolutely heartbreaking. 😔

Matt may have forgiven Jenna but he never forgot about the pain it caused him. You can tell by the way he talks about it that the pain is still their and he remembers everything that happened like it was yesterday. People never forget something that caused them great trauma in their lives especially when it’s someone you were friends with and had strong feelings for. Which is why it’s hard to look at someone the same again after what they’ve done to you. Things can never go back to how they were no matter how bad she wants them to because Matt will always remember what happened that night when they were 13.

Yeah I love this movie because Jenna realized what a jerk she was and she was so selfish and dissatisfied with her life and she has no friends only Matt. And then when she wished to be 30 and it came true she realized that being an adult isn't all as fun as it seemed for her. I dunno why but I can somehow relate to her as I had a guy as a friend and I was an outcast at school.

The feels in this movie....

He Really Loved Her & She Broke His Heart & She Realized it in this moment

This scene is as real as it gets. To see Jenna instantly come face to face with so many painful things all at once. All the pain and loss that people usually experience gradually in life hits her all at once like a freight train. She's paying the price for turning her back on her best friend, and she's paying for the fallout that came with that decision in ways that her 30 year old self never had to. The 30 year old Jenna just continued down the same path, and we gradually see just how rotten her lifestyle is - made up of poor, surface level decisions, blatantly chasing instant gratification over real, deep and meaningful relationships. The more we learn about 30 year old Jenna that went down a path of poor decisions, the clearer it becomes that 30 year old Jenna is the real villain of the story, and it doesn't get any more grounded and real than to have the villain be made up of a series of poor decisions - she's always there in the background, along with the frightening idea of becoming her. It's beautiful to see a film explore a concept like this and to go all the way with it and do it with so much heart. I never forgot this one and I never will.

That was a good and emotional movie. Jenna got insecure about her looks back in middle school and even pushed Matthew away after the mean girls ditched her. She wishes she was a model and years passed but at the price of never keeping in touch with Matthew and he ended up marrying someone else. Never push away the people who care about you cause you could end up making a mistake. But luckily she got a second chance to make things right with the little magic dust that was left.

0:23 the way he opened the door LMAO 😍😆😂😂😂

One of my favorite movies in the mid 2000s. I was 13 in 2007 and I will turn 30 next year🫢Wow

I turned 30 yesterday and today I thought about this film. Sometimes I do still feel like I’m 13 😂

Mark is so incredibly handsome, especially in this movie. And I also loved him in the movie Dark Waters. Gosh… he’s just so dreamy! 🥰

I love how she calls him matty ❤️

Matt is the STANDARD

I can really see myself in Jenna. I, too, had a very good friend as a teenager. She was so sweet, so pretty, so funny, so everything. We didn't always understand each other and yet we shared secrets, insights and passions together. Time has torn us apart. We drifted apart and our lives went on. I miss her terribly sometimes.

Why’d he have to open the door like that 😩

I love this movie! I met my husband when I was 13, and we grew up together. I couldn't imagine waking up one day and being without him...

I can relate to Matt. There was this girl I was close to in high school who is a lot like Jenna; suffices it to say, we didn't work out and I moved on with someone else. This is pretty close to my life except I don't regret my choices, and even though it's kind of sad it didn't work out, my stance now is really more "good riddance." I guess that was kinda Matt's stance before this whole magic thing hit.

I haven't believe in that since high school... n'awwww

Awwwwww so many good memories with past friends we all cried in this scene❤

who's your daddy? Wayne rink! love that part 😂😂

"I'm not 13 anymore" Proceeds to run away.

Why did I cry lol

No matter what, he always was for her....... Matty love u!

What beautiful about this movie that you learn not everything you wish is the best for you when Jena got everything she wanted she became unhappy she had a faithful friend and caring parent but she was always dreaming about different life style and she got them all she wish to come back to her old life which is in real life is impossible.. this move show you that your decisions change your whole life

Growing up means a lot of choices, things that happened beyond our control, and people who are there for us but we ignored them, we loved somebody but it's impossible to be with them, etc.

I had a bestfriend when i was in college i didn't knew he likes me that's why his giving me chocolate cakes and teddy bear. But i was so inlove with my pharmacy course back then because we don't have our own house. We r poor. But his the best thing i ever had. I wont forget him💝

I feel like the reason Matt doesn’t believe in soulmates in this timeline is due to what happened with Jenna.

‘I haven’t gotten crazy like that since a girl from high school thankfully’ 😟

Spin the rapist lmao! I never noticed he said that he must hate that memory 😂

Miss the movies from the 2000s

What makes this sad is it really is a true story for me and the problem is there is no going back like how she gets to at the end. Only movies lol

Oh Matt 😍😍

Jennifer Garner es una excelente actriz. De este personaje, en particular, hizo una interpretacion muy bonita.

Why would you ever stop being friends with the Hulk?

could watch thisn non stop and never get bored of it!!❤

I'm 27 and can't believe I'm not in my teens anymore. It doesn't help that I look around 19.

Lesson of the film be careful what you wish for!

Jennifer Garner is my favorite actress. She is extraordinarily talented

People change from circumstances, but souls are eternal once they are activated✨️✨️💫♾️💞

She looks absolutely terrified in that big apartment...

Moral to this film Your true love is standing right in front of you and you realise that they are the one when it's too late. Now all I want is some of that wishing dust.

I can relate to Matt.

My first time watch this movie 13, going on 30, very interesting polt line awesome fashion and songs sound track

I can't believe watched this amazing movie only once.

This movie proves that Chasing a Dream without any experience is one of the worst thing you can do to yourself!!! sometimes we don't appreciate what we have now, we always lust for more but when the time passes by, we silly humans always miss the things which we hate and can't get rid of'em by calling it "Nostalgia" We all stuck in past, We all stuck in our childhood, We all stuck in our high school era, We all stuck in our past friends which we hate'em and called'em worst, We all have regret of getting older sooner. I still can't believe the things I always used to hate are the golden masterpiece which I will never found in my entire life again. Big smoke already said in GTA SanAndreas "Same things make us laugh, make us cry"

Mattie: "TIME TRAVEL!"

I’m not 13 anymore. Runs away immediately 😂

Ruffalo is a fucking good looking guy lol he's the man in😅 this movie lol

This movie plot is so good :’)

Every time I see this scene and Jen cry! Gaaaah, rips my soul!

Love this movie

I love th8d movie!

2.21 even though Matt says "forget it, it doesn't matter" It probably would have felt good to finally get an apology for that.

My first time watch it was really sweet movie 13.going on. 30. Awesome polt ine great songs sound track.

Poor Matt. After the humiliation and Jenna admitted she was to blame for all this and being a jerk

This scene is so dreamy and sad

Matt is very cute.

Hulk and Elektra

Just to think that Mattie is the hulk now 🤯

This movie has a lot of meaning. & a lot of females are worried about guys having cars. Jenna and Matt where going on walks no matter how long the distance, taking Ubers everyday. It’s the effort. & crazy thing is Jenna was the one walking back and fourth because she wanted something Wendy had and she couldn’t have it at that moment.

THIS is a scene, and a movie, that the girls of this "TikTok generation", REALLY NEED, to watch.

super movie

Had a similar experience, the lady (girl at the time) dumped me while in last year of high school. She did it by a letter, telling me I was the last man on Earth she'd ever marry. Definitely knocked me for a loop at the time. Well, took me awhile, but I dealt with her loss. Still think of her though. And we talk on Facebook once in a while. Maybe that sort of thing, depicted in the film , happens more often than we know. Personally I don't handle loss too well.

I relate to this a 100%...My best friend fell for my friend and she was jealous of our bond. I was made to prove to her that it wasn't more from my end, and by doing that, I started losing my best friend. He became bitter towards me, things became mean between us and we eventually stopped talking. His gang (which was first OUR gang) started to turn against me, threw petty remarks, then the whole class joined in as I was a student related to the management, they alienated me, and I eventually cracked & got burnt out. I was a great kid before all that and what was left of me was trauma & heartache for a very long time. Sometimes, I think is it right for people to have such power over you? I miss myself when I was around him...The longing for 'us' never went, but so didn't the memories of utter hate & disrespect.

I’ve asked myself the same question with my ex and a couple of friends. Miss some of them but thankful life has been kind of good.

Back in HS, 10th grade. I had a crush on this girl who i enjoyed chatting and sitting next to, especially helping her outside of school time. But when the 3rd classmate-friend, of our desk group, kinda told her what i felt for her. She laughed and somewhat joked about it, i can admit I pretended to laugh too but i felt frustrated. I stopped sitting next to her and the other classmate throughout our semester, i looked over on my shoulders a few times & she looked me back and was always mad at me. Maybe she did feel something about me? Never did see her again until i was about 20 or 21, we crossed paths one day when i was going to the park to play basketball. She looked way different: she seemed like she developed a habit of smoking Marijuana & drinking, had lots of tattoos around her body, & was overweight, no offense. At first we were both surprised at seeing each other after a long time, but then it got serious when we chatted about those missing years. Before we parted ways, she never really said sorry about what happened between us back in HS. But rather she told me that i was nicest boy that she ever met and felt a bit regret that she didn't stay in touch with me. We said our goodbyes but never saw each other again, last i heard she had a few run-ins with the law and had problems at home. To this day, i still believe i mattered to her even though she didn't want to believe it, otherwise she could've changed her life around for the better. I guess the point I'm trying to say is: be careful who you like because he/she may feel it as a joke/prank but will regret it in due time.

..oh no im tearing up for real

He said “spin the racist!!!!”

Here I am on this wonderful movie’s 20th birthday. Two years later, I still find hard to believe it was Jennifer and Mark before Marvel and The Adam Project

Honestly i think jenna and matt loved eachother even in adult hood before they got married in the end of the movie.

Isn't it funny that Jennifer Lopez is shown in some magazines and Jennifer Garner used to be married to Ben Affleck who was great with J-Lo

RAZZLE RED ♥️♥️♥️

Nice

I feel lost every day. Don't feel like an adult, or how im suppose to be I guess. My childhood was lost, and all my loved ones have passed away. I'm alone and everyday my quietness gets louder

i fucken love this movie :C

this is her oscar clip, she really should’ve been nominated

As a adult all I faced is depression and loneliness. As a gay guy all gets so hard when you're getting older and feels so empty by not beeing able to love someone, not even a man because of your childhood traumas.

Hulk and Batman wife having a conversation together

Whats that song on the beginning?

Unfair movie ending. Jenna never deserved Matt.

Me pueden mandar la película entera ?? En español??

Haha relatable. I may be a girl but I was in Matt's shoes. My high school bestfriend and I are still not in speaking terms for 16 years . It was march 2005, out high school grad. She got angry at me for not asking permission that I will go home. She didn't answer any of my calls and the cookies and brownies I made for her as graduation gift, she just threw them and said they're just trash just like me 🥲 We haven't talked until now 🥲 it hurted me so much in my college years . Now I'm 33 years old, i'm fine with it 😀 I was able to move on from heartbreaks of cheating ex boyfriend and backstabbing 2 best friends 😀 I mean, I can imagine my life now and I doubt if I will have a happy life if I will still have a relationship with a guy who just take advantage of me and having friendship with kinds of people who are backstabing and who are not contented with what they have and always rant about their parents ❤️ We are not also civil towards each other after everything because we literally don't talk nor even greet each other whenever we see each other at malls. It happened many times but I don't dare to do my first move. Had enough of it 😀 But in reality, a lot of friends drift away just like matt and Jenna, because people outgrew each other. I wasn't able to maintain my elementary friends, because I transferred school, but that's ok 👍🏻 . You cant always miss people. Life has to go on. 😁

that’s the reality of some of us, to my 35 we cut paths with people and nowadays but past still there. 😶

I love Jennifer Garner and I wish there were more romantic coms of her

1:15 Answer: You rejected me hardcore & put me in the (no)friend zone. 🤷‍♂️

Mark Ruffalo was sooooooo fineeeee in this movie! 🫦

moral is- ladies, as hard as it is, never ever friend-zone a good decent man who likes to date u. Either date and marry him or cut him out off your life- let him be happy with a woman who WILL treat him right. U canNOT have it both ways. HUMBLE yourselves.

Sometimes i wonder why we couldn't stay 13 forever. Well for me its 12. I still feel 12 everyday and I wonder how people forgot how to be kids because I never forgot. I wonder how my friends grew up and became parents because I still feel like I'm a kid. I think about this everyday. Its funny, i have little memory of the years after those years but at 12, i remember everythig. I also remember loosing a friend this exact same way. How Mat lost Jenna...we only got back in touch after 16years. But by then we were different people.😢.

Jenna realized she did not want to be that person the only people who c change your life is you

pleaase where can i find the full movie of this

its say don't walk...and she walked?

It took me 18 years to realize he says “spin the rapist” 1:34 😂

0:54-0:55, 1:04-1:08, 1:40-1:44, 1:51-2:11, 2:20-2:21

It's an interesting perspective. Jenna is an adult but she was thirteen only yesterday.

feels weird that I am closer to 30 than 13. my twenties have been a blur

Did he say Spin the rapist? Lmfao