15 Differences Between a High Value vs Low Value Couple
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In this Alux.com video we will be answering the following questions:
What's the difference between a high value couple and a low value couple?
What makes a high value couple?
What makes a low value couple?
What are the traits of a low value couple vs a high value couple?
00:00 - Intro
00:53 - Difference in value
01:59 - The relationship isn’t 50-50
03:35 - Don’t get bored & stay attracted to each other
04:46 - Communication and course-correction
06:18 - They’re actively investing in each other's growth.
09:49 - You work through hard sh*t together and in private
10:33 - They are an asset to their network and community
11:37 - They take pride in the person they’re with and the life they’ve built together
13:06 - There’s a long-term commitment or goal
14:21 - Exceptional Earners with Exceptional Lifestyles
17:06 - Trust and Loyalty
17:46 - They forgive each other
18:30 - They don’t try to fix the other person.
20:15 - Physical intimacy
21:26 - They care about their legacy as a couple
23:41 - Question
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@alux Жыл бұрын
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@dylancullen9999 Жыл бұрын
You guys are stupid for deleting my comments
@gojira1230 Жыл бұрын
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@chamodyapranidhi5008 Жыл бұрын
Peace✌️
@aidenjeremyvister5536 Жыл бұрын
PEACE
@bignew7136 Жыл бұрын
ALUX needs to give Kevin Samuels some recognition. He brought these subjects to life within the Black community. 👍🏽👍🏽
@badgerlifter9572 Жыл бұрын
I am part of a high value couple! We started off dirt poor together with a baby on the way... but 6 years later we are debt free (excluding a very manageable mortgage), have 3 lovely children, and make 75-100k a year together! There was plenty of bumps and the growth was slow at first, but I am very proud of my wife and family.
@jessg1372 Жыл бұрын
And in 6 yrs be able to say something completely different from that. Grow more. You aren't done.
@esmiley3 Жыл бұрын
Nice Man! Keep pushing!
@alexbob5209 Жыл бұрын
I make 80k at 24 years old and I feel broke. Haven't even graduated college but I've bought a house
@hanniacorena7657 Жыл бұрын
God bless your family even moreeeee!!!
@mmtech4114 Жыл бұрын
Great
@mcmaschio Жыл бұрын
A relationship can literally make or break your future … however if you cant find a good relationship your better off by yourself … avoid my mistake and dont just get into a relationship for the sake of a relationship it can lead u to dark places 🤷♂️
@janeenharrison1953 Жыл бұрын
Truth!
@cryptonomous888 Жыл бұрын
💯
@danielland3767 Жыл бұрын
Facts, learning this the hard way now.
@emilgzade3158 Жыл бұрын
Not your but you're
@greatestever8169 Жыл бұрын
Hey we have cookies 🍪 here so bring milk 🥛
@claire1605 Жыл бұрын
I woke up and realized I can do better and be better. I do agree that having a partner who constantly pulls you down is the worst thing that could happen to a person. All goals are achievable but sometimes the simplest things can become so difficult to achieve when surrounded by the wrong people. Remember, it’s Better to be alone than with the wrong people.
@clarissaywy Жыл бұрын
In my opinion, high value couples don't compare themselves to other couples and stir unhappiness/dissatisfaction in the relationship but do whatever they enjoy doing and focus on their own path and goals.
@joannabuchanan3287 Жыл бұрын
A couple who argues in public IS DEFINITELY a low value couple. In my opinion.
@luxuryhub1323 Жыл бұрын
Whether you're man or woman. Don’t let anybody, especially yourself, make you feel like you don’t deserve to be in the room you’ve earned a right to be in. You have something unique to contribute - your ideas, your experience, your wisdom, and your point of view.
@raz7573 Жыл бұрын
Right on!
@tgip_pudgy1853 Жыл бұрын
💯FACT‼️
@luckyduckydaisyflower2344 Жыл бұрын
Just don't take it personally when the church couples snub you..
@luckyduckydaisyflower2344 Жыл бұрын
They won't want their kids playing with your kids either..
@hanooi7450 Жыл бұрын
Everyone in my family is part of a high value couple. Wealth wise, everyone in the millions. We all have great education, great careers, zero divorces. We invest in our spouses with no hesitation, both the men and women. Always fun bringing our kids together.
@petermayama8819 Жыл бұрын
Thank God for that! It’s very rare these days
@UnlimitedAspirations24 Жыл бұрын
@ Han Ooi - you are lucky that you’ve met the right ppl to marry because if otherwise I don’t think anyone get married with intentions to later divorce but sometimes things just doesn’t work out and you have no other options. You guys must be lucky ones.
@hanooi7450 Жыл бұрын
@@UnlimitedAspirations24 Well, we were able to replicate our success consistently, I don't think it is luck. We have a system for evaluating partners. Plus our family is morally conservative. All this sleep with a person first to figure out whether you want to have a relationship with them garbage would just get a candidate canceled from consideration. Our very first screen is "What kind of family is the person from?" and "Where is the person going with his life, career, education and family aspiration wise?" The third rule is once you find a qualified candidate, be decisive and move fast towards marriage. We have each other evaluate our candidate as a sanity check. In some other threads, I posted an evaluation scorecard we use.
@priscilladuarte6324 Жыл бұрын
@Han Ooi I don’t believe it, how could you be happy living with jowels like those. If you have money invest in yourself please!
@hanooi7450 Жыл бұрын
@@priscilladuarte6324 What gives you the impression I'm not investing in myself? I have been granted patents for my ideas and have founded a startup company around them of which I am CEO. Better yet, I've been able to self fund all the way to profitability thanks to the large savings we've accumulated and the support my wife gave me on the journey (health insurance from her job). One would think this is the ultimate textbook example of both self investment and mutual couple investment.
@PFPSocialMedia Жыл бұрын
Peace is everything to me. I slipped up a couple of times but chose to make the decision to only do the things that give me consistent Peace!!💙💙💙
@transformingstep Жыл бұрын
Be careful who you marry. Be even more careful who you have a child with. Another great video Alux!
@lefunkable Жыл бұрын
Exactly...be careful
@lyndonbrookins5300 Жыл бұрын
Oh, how right you are.
@feliciapillow5860 Жыл бұрын
I love how alux recognizes how absolutely uneducated it is to put down your partner. From the outside, people really frown on a person who does that. It does make a person look like a "clown".To really bring it home; it's the same when you cheer people on who do the same to your mother, sister aunt or grandmother. Alux. You get the point.
@danielland3767 Жыл бұрын
Yup to put down anyone that's not a criminal. They called it fair down the middle from fact based research
@chrisscanlon3717 Жыл бұрын
Wahmen initiate divorce 90 percent of the time and the more educated she is the more likely that Hoe is going to quit or cheat on her man. BYE FELICIA 😉
@doomguy9049 Жыл бұрын
It's bizarre to me that so many maintain relationships with people they don't respect or even like, but seems like most people eventually end up in one. My guess is it's largely due to people valuing material comfort and familiarity over peace of mind and independence.
@csensale Жыл бұрын
Yeah my girlfriend would put me down saying I shop like a woman was very demeaning
@seannixon745 Жыл бұрын
You can definatly be a high value couple and not have alot of money. As one of the points suggested money isn't the only marker of a low or high value couples. I beleive as long as both encourage growth in the other without attempting to change the other from their own desires. They both contribute in one way or the other.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
Exactly and it is much more than just money.
@indirapoitier338 Жыл бұрын
This one has A LOT of great points, but I cant say I agree with all of them. For instance, at some point life will become routine in a marriage. Yes sure you can spice it up, but most times people dont even realize as its happening. Its not that they are not working towards certain goals together, rather they are in a phase of those goals that demand consistant, routine action. Sometimes, because of life challenges, its prolonged for years. This does not mean theyre a low value couple. Also the point of them always leading and everyone adjusting their schedules for them is flawed. Not every high value couple must lead in everything they do. They are not experts in every area, no one is. Rather I would say they are always a valued member of a team or committee whatever. They are able to identify when others are more suited to take the lead, and offer strong support. Likewise, when they do lead, people are more than happy to follow. As leaders or supporters they are sought out to join. There were one or two other things, but overall this was a great video
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
I agree and they had some good points, but I don’t agree with all of them. Plus, it will vary from couple to couple.
@BasementBerean Жыл бұрын
16. They know how much a divorce really costs (emotionally, financially, psychologically, for them and the children), and they make every effort to avoid it.
@alux Жыл бұрын
Definitely true.
@guitaro5000 Жыл бұрын
Correction: HE makes every effort to avoid it.
@hanooi7450 Жыл бұрын
Forming a high value couple is like investing in real estate. You make your money when you buy.
@mayanlogos92 Жыл бұрын
@@guitaro5000 THEY DO IT TOGETHER... cs a HIGH VALUE COUPLE MEANS 100 - 100 REMEMBER? OR U SKIPPED THAT PART?
@hanooi7450 Жыл бұрын
@@mayanlogos92 @guitaro comes across as a red or black piller. They are the kind of people who only play to not lose. His kind doesn't know how to play to win. His kind stagnates and then die slow lingering deaths of the soul and body.
@jeremyherschler Жыл бұрын
You can recognize a high value couple by the depth of their love, the aliveness they share, and the strength of those involved.
@soumi1984 Жыл бұрын
Or by how they react to hard times which is the real mesure of a hight value relationship
@andiswamadlopha325 Жыл бұрын
I didn't even know what high value was, yet this is exactly how I see me and my future husband. It's something my mom has always drilled in my head since I was a teen. PEACE
@raspberry_dreams Жыл бұрын
You’re blessed to have had her wisdom poured into you.
@snee21 Жыл бұрын
I am very happy to actually have a partner who is equally ambitious and supportive. I see couples who are just going through these block unblock games and fighting over birthday wishes, whereas I have never had a fight with him, because it always have been just an active discussion rather than argument. I would say that someone who makes you feel that they are another chore you have to handle, is not a good sign. They should be someone you should go to have good and meaningful conversations and just relax and being able to share everything and feel comfortable, sharing things.
@torycook1215 Жыл бұрын
Each person in the couple has to have respect for the other in order for them to grow as a high value couple. It can't be one-sided. 💕👍
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
Exactly and it is always a 2 way street.
@brentduanefoster Жыл бұрын
As I read through and listen to this list, while I thoroughly agree with the entirety of this list, being a “high value” couple has nothing to do with how much money either party has. The truth is that there are PLENTY of “low value” couples who make a lot of money. I’ve had clients who have shared with me some pretty scandalous stories with certain couples who would be considered “high value”. All that glitters isn’t gold. In other words, you can be a “high value” couple before you make a high value. Be of high value mentality FIRST.
@talethaqueen2042 Жыл бұрын
Yes! High Value Mentality!
@nowie4007 Жыл бұрын
Agreed fully with this comment,a high value mentality is 1000 times better than having great deal of money
@2022l Жыл бұрын
It all comes down to mutual respect and being good teammates.
@verb0ze Жыл бұрын
I agree that having lots of money doesn't automatically make a couple high value. However, a couple who struggles financially will have a hard time achieving some of those things that lead to high value. It's harder to provide for good education, diverse experiences, etc for the children and the family if money is a contention point. Agree 💯 mentality is where it starts.
@nyanzarojas8776 Жыл бұрын
@@verb0ze it’s all about mentality. Bc if a Financially low value couple times together, but has a high value mind set it’s only a matter of time before they build together and create a financially high value life them and their family.
@EboneCurry Жыл бұрын
This was so eye opening to see the two combined. The PEACE means so much and demands reciprocity. Thank you for this series. I truly enjoyed it.
@TruckingwithJReddick Жыл бұрын
PEACE ☮️, What an amazing video! This one of the most important decisions we all have to make in life. Choose right and your life can be setup for greatness, choose wrong 😑 and suffer the consequences until you are out of the relationship!
@esmiley3 Жыл бұрын
I found myself binge watching these videos daily this week, receiving something more with each video. Truthfully, I have a high-value work ethic, I earn high-value wages. But everything else in my life is low-value. Wife, family… Help! I need to make life changes, starting right now! I now smell change in the air, beginning with me. I will nolonger roll as or with anyone low-value. Low-value family members and friends will now be kept at a distance. This writing holds me accountable. Peace!
@lilid5016 Жыл бұрын
We rooting for you
@mathogre Жыл бұрын
All the best to you, Eugene. I'm definitely in the upper middle class region with high value goals and aspirations. As with you, parts of my life were low value. Over the years I walked away from the low value people in my life - family, friends. Regarding immediate family, wife and daughter, I find I must be the relentless guide, not just by talk, but by example. I won't do low value activities. I won't talk trash. When someone says or does something trashy, I'll ask, "Why would you say/do that?" I hold them accountable, just as I hold myself. As in this video, there are times it would be desirable to just walk, yet I know I made decisions many years ago, and I'm committed to them. You sound like a good man. You have the money side worked out. You have the drive to make other parts of your life better. You have the intelligence to figure out how to do that, to find resources, to find information, to really learn right and wrong. All the best to you in your journey. Keep up the good work!
@danielland3767 Жыл бұрын
I see alot of these videos as a guide and nothing more. Like the having kids when young part, that can come for systemic reasons and such. But you can either take the information and do what you see fit to do with it
@SingleMomMission Жыл бұрын
Best of luck Eugene. I walked (moved 1000's of miles) away from low value friends and family four years ago and have endured relentless criticism ever since from my husband. I can't lie though, it has been so darn liberating!!! Best decision ever!!! I'm excited for you!
@esmiley3 Жыл бұрын
@@lilid5016 thanks!
@RebeccaEvans Жыл бұрын
As a woman, being respected demonstrates love to me. I do not care just about effort but about outcomes, and the partner observing those outcomes after his actions or mine and planning accordingly over time. Coddling a male because he feels he cares is of no interest to me. A man who demonstrates respect to you brings more peace and communication than the male who showers you with gifts or constant compliments
@Aj-fd4ne Жыл бұрын
What’s coddling ?
@mrscott01 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you have a thick masculine shield repressing your femininity. A sign is your disgust with what you term "coddling" that you are disgusted with the feninine.
@nyanzarojas8776 Жыл бұрын
@@Aj-fd4ne babying and excusing bad behavior to protect someone’s feelings.
@doomguy9049 Жыл бұрын
Better be willing and able to give whatever you hope to receive then, because any man worth having won't tolerate a disrespectful, lazy or selfish woman just as you won't accept that behavior in him.
@doomguy9049 Жыл бұрын
Better be willing and able to give whatever you hope to receive then, because any man worth having won't tolerate a disrespectful, lazy or selfish woman just as you won't accept that behavior in him.
@shatteredsoldier81 Жыл бұрын
Something that I have learned from past relationships is if she is going to her mother, friend, or some other dude about issues you two are having then you need to leave her. No matter what who fault it is everyone will take her side. If you want to go outside of the relationship for advice then see a couples therapist. At less they are a neutral party.
@doomguy9049 Жыл бұрын
Yeah man, women love taking bad advice almost as much as they love giving it. I've seen women destroy their relationships, families and lives on the advice of others so many times IRL and it never ceases to amaze me. Often the ones giving the bad advice do so knowingly and maliciously too, but the woman never realizes it until too late because the advice flatters them and encourages them to act impulsively.
@fosteringleaders9872 Жыл бұрын
So true!
@Ayo_Aderinola Жыл бұрын
Happy Sunday ALUX. I've been waiting for this compilations of this. Because ALUX is high valued, I choose to be a high valued person. Cheers!
@alux Жыл бұрын
This will add even more value.
@darwinlandav Жыл бұрын
I love how you guys can always deliver such good quality content.
@onelife7247 Жыл бұрын
Communication, emotional intelligence and functioning as a team rather than competitors really does help! The rest of what was mentioned, I guess should be obvious, e.g mutual respect and intimacy, fun etc.
@stargasm1000 Жыл бұрын
This is the video every person should watch before getting involved with someone and that every couple should watch to strengthen their relationship.
@danielland3767 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad ya'll made this into a series
@kpeggs82 Жыл бұрын
This is a good video for those looking for a relationship now or in the future. I personally am not looking now but still agree with the content 100%. I know some of both here and I have always said the partner you choose is the only family you decide to be with, that is the most important choice.
@AUSTIN-ss2zd Жыл бұрын
So do you go to bars only to become an "alcoholic", "talk", or "have fun?"
@tgip_pudgy1853 Жыл бұрын
Fact‼️
@narcisodelgado-cruz3204 Жыл бұрын
This channel keeps getting better and better! The amount of knowledge and wisdom given here is worth millions and millions! Thank you 🙏
@dre7370 Жыл бұрын
As long as there's a breath in my body I'm NOT going to stop trying to improve my quality of life, & if a woman that I'm attracted to wanna GROW TOGETHER then God is watching over me for sure. Until then I'll do it alone. PEACE✌🏾
@Calcuttasnippets Жыл бұрын
Will you ever make a cast abt divorced women? I mean marriage is good and there are some women who do not have the good luck of a good man or marriage and yet they show courage walk out and start from scratch... They too can be high value.. may be some tips on how they can find good partners
@peternguyen1911 Жыл бұрын
PEACE thank you for releasing this at an opportune time for me to appreciate my wife that works late nights so that she can be with family during the day
@mathogre Жыл бұрын
Peace. Thank you for this series. It's been very helpful and informative!
@samdegr3901 Жыл бұрын
PEACE ✌🏾 I enjoy the video so much that I share with my siblings and their spouse and most of friends. Thank you for the amazing content. Keep it up! Following your channel, I have been growing on many levels… 👍🏾
@ravindumirihana2784 Жыл бұрын
When I'm in the right relationship I feel like doing my 100% to make my partner feel special and happy. I go the extra mile and can not justify why I work like that. I usually don't get this energy for the other things in my life.
@dearbrave4183 Жыл бұрын
When you are? That means you leave the $1,000 for the $500 on the ground?
@waqas Жыл бұрын
Beautiful video as many many more, completely agree with you. At the start it was briefly mentioned that often our geographical location dictate who we pick as a partner, what if you like in an area with low population, super focussed on your targets in life and career progression, are dating apps your only resort? When statistic say most people on these apps are mentally/emotionally damaged. Any advice or suggest would be much appreciated. God bless you guys
@ladybarbarapinsonartist431 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant insights! These are the guidelines I’ve lived by my entire life, contributing and receiving while expanding the beauty and Joy of our worlds. Thank you for putting pen to paper.
@AbbyLeebarbieluvsfashion80 Жыл бұрын
My husband and I are definitely high value. Love this video.
@isaacahadjie4866 Жыл бұрын
Literally every topic I have a debate the night prior, turns out to be the Sunday motivational video 😅
@alux Жыл бұрын
We're good at reading your mind Isaac
@norbertlubega4326 Жыл бұрын
High value couples are were each partner puts in 100 percent.That's great insight Alux team.
@thisdyingsoul76 5 ай бұрын
I feel like I'm part of a high value couple now. My wife is amazing. She saw something in men when we met that I didn't even see in myself. She stood by me through my divorce and helped me to become a better version of myself. She got me to take more pride in my appearance, she encourages me to excel in my career. She lifts me up when I need it and gives me a reality check when I'm being unrealistic. We compliment each other because one is strong where the other is not. I didn't have all this in my first marriage. My ex actually left thinking she could do better. 4 years later she is still single and the grass was not actually greener on the other side while I have thrived without her thanks to my current wife. I wish the best for my ex, but I feel like she did me a favor by leaving.
@MrGchiasson Жыл бұрын
This would be fantastic advice for a pre-marriage counseling session. Whether it's for the middle-class or the rich...it would be a tremendous benefit! Peace.
@01adityaghosh Жыл бұрын
Very well articulated, all golden nuggets of information, a must watch for any adult who wants to have a high value relationship :)
@alphamoneyacademy Жыл бұрын
It's no surprise that the majority of divorces in America are cause by problems related to money or lack thereof. Get your financial situation straight before you commit to a long term relationship if possible. Your future self will thank you for that.
@charlesblack949 Жыл бұрын
I hope I get this right. I'm about to get married in a few months haha
@generic-channel Жыл бұрын
100% agree. A marriage is no longer a romantic commitment. It's an enterprise, a "company" of sorts.
@mariannestone6441 Жыл бұрын
Been through a divorce once for exactly that reason and I can confirm this...
@tammysummers7360 Жыл бұрын
High value men are scarce these days, ngl
@ghorn1217 Жыл бұрын
@@tammysummers7360 Lol. They represent the top 10% of men, so BY DEFINITION, they were always scarce.
@vectorkaiser Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Alux for finally making these videos. Peace!
@walterherrera3660 Жыл бұрын
Peace! I always love learning from you guys. Thanks for the pointers.
@sevidzemgillesajumi435 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Alux team. Ever great and practical life lessons. Merci beaucoup.
@ChairmanPaulieD Жыл бұрын
PEACE ✌🏼☮ I’ve been learning from this channel since LATE 2020 and I’m considered a “Alux Loyalist” 🙏🏼👌🏼🙌🏼👍🏼
@dawncopley5671 Жыл бұрын
Peace, love and gratitude. Alux videos have been a huge blessing and of immense value in navigating through life with a vast amount of insight and common sense as well being a constant inspiration to pursue one’s most noble skills and purpose. Thank you!
@larissavuolo5282 Жыл бұрын
#12 and #13 hit home. We can sense when there's something wrong. We state our issues up front, argue/discuss, but we forgive at the end. #13, Pre Cana was a pre requisite before getting married in the Catholic faith. We learned each other's short comings/nobody's perfect, and accept them. If you/fiancé has an issue, then you do not go through with the marriage. (2 years) before taking vows.
@georgecampuzano Жыл бұрын
Peace. My wife and I have known each since Fourth grade. Since we've been together we've grown so much .
@G0ddess_Kate Жыл бұрын
I am part of a high value power couple 😌 peace is power 💛
@ladyparmelee1003 Жыл бұрын
So true!! Peace is Power. 💕 Going on 17 years married to my power dude.
@evanlai9787 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the best contents Alux has ever produced. Thanks Alux.
@czarlifestyle5335 Жыл бұрын
By the way ..as a man, I can honestly say..when you have a high value woman in your life, cheating on her is 100% impossible...
@robertwhite4980 Жыл бұрын
Good configuration, respect for each is prima/excellent. Peace have to do with forgiveness.
@ramakrishnakamathsuresh1076 Жыл бұрын
Did anyone happen to notice that there is an undefined income range from $150,000 to $200,000. Middle class is until $150,000. While upper middle class starts at $200,000. So what is the term for families with income between 150k to 200k ? Middle-middle-class?
@sandrapates7644 Жыл бұрын
I did notice.
@ambrosia-venusbelladonna835 Жыл бұрын
I'm personally not looking for anyone at this stage in my Life; right now. However, I am glad Alux touched on this particular topic because I (until now) didn't really know what a High Value Couple was or what that means. I found it highly educational. Prior to this, my thoughts ran along the lines of "If you're doing extremely well alone; why would you add somebody else to your Life and possibly risk it?" However, everyone is different. If someone does make your Life better in every conceivable way; why wouldn't you marry them? This video has opened my mind to that chance. If it is possible. Thanks again, PEACE 🕊️ ☮️ ✌️🕉️ .
@lalabell1953 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Alux..this is really a good help for me..
@nicetomeetyou610 Жыл бұрын
Peace? 🤔 I think yes. Can be the most valued quality in relationships. 😍
@josetheman239 Жыл бұрын
Glad you brought up the part about high value couples marrying. It is just so weird to see people in their 30s who have been "living together" for the last 7 years. It shows a lack of maturity.
@purplelove3666 Жыл бұрын
Or 20's
@josetheman239 Жыл бұрын
@@purplelove3666 Yep.
@josetheman239 Жыл бұрын
@I’ll beat everybody ass Cohabitation is not biblical marriage dude. Besides I'm not even in the US, never been, I'm speaking from my country's perspective where the laws are different to yours and cohabitation still exits.
@atenas80525 Жыл бұрын
LOVE the bonus - spot on, maybe fundamentally the most important point of which all the others flow from
@wynnvip Жыл бұрын
One of my all top relationship video, specially at this current phase I am experiencing
@sazzbeats Жыл бұрын
I like how they’re replying to the comments : )
@alux Жыл бұрын
Don't tell anyone we're doing this...
@navodabeyasinghe8599 Жыл бұрын
Damn the thing about middle child is soo true. I am going through it myself
@BigSosayNYC Жыл бұрын
Thorough breakdown!! Thanks for sharing.
@cayecaringaleisma8945 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this Alux....😇
@asdf_lifestyle4245 Жыл бұрын
Mw half-way through the video: I hope alux makes a video on High Value Families and Low Value Families. Thank you for your content alux, you always help me expand my knowledge and I'm totally living for it 😭💕✨
@everythingemary5991 Жыл бұрын
my future husband and i aim to become a high value couple 😍
@TheSeunAlbert Жыл бұрын
Same with my future wife and I
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
I hope my future husband and I will be one too. But it will take a lot of work.
@Real.Flowers. Жыл бұрын
Respect for each other in their face and behind their back.
@hhhoneycomb Жыл бұрын
this is gold as someone who is working towards myself I now know who and what o must become
@CassiesPetParent Жыл бұрын
I TRULY need to find myself within a high-value relationship, if not rise to & accept myself as a single high-value woman. 😓 #HardTruth #DropLossAversion
@miguelgonzalez6213 Жыл бұрын
2:35 "Men don't want to be loved, they want to be respected." #FACTS This is where modern women get it wrong every time. They come at us (men) from THEIR perspective and assume we look at the world the same---which we do not. Its the rare woman who can break out of her comfort zone and learn that her man does not have to externalize his feelings to prove to anyone what their relationship is about, or their commitment to each other. That is all between them. As long as they are both showing each other respect and loving each other the way each individual respects and accepts it, then they are good and forget what the world thinks. I'm always suspect of couples who seem a bit too determined to show PDAs in public. At some point, it always seems a bit forced on the male end of their relationship. As if he knows he doesn't want to do it, but sort of has to, or she'll be upset with him. I appreciate older couples who occasionally hold hands, or I'll see them support each other in very small ways, but don't feel the need to prove to the world they love each other by hugging and kissing 24/7.
@tosin1018 Жыл бұрын
thanks for this. I am beginning to accept the fact that men don't externalize their feelings. I have always been with men who showered me with beautiful words but rarely backed it up with actions. I am currently with a man who shows love through actions but rarely showers me with sweet nothings. He tells me here and there but not as often as what I am used to. He is one of the most reliable men I ever met. I am experiencing love as an action. While I love to hear the words, I will take a man who shows love through action than the one who consistently compliments me but is unreliable and won't be there during hard times.
@rvcuisinemarysway Жыл бұрын
I love the peace...so important!
@josephreolalas1041 Жыл бұрын
Peace! I am grateful of the efforts you make and sharing them with us
@iammoamp Жыл бұрын
Genuine laughter between a couple speaks high value .. PEACE
@BasementBerean Жыл бұрын
50% of marriages end in divorce, but not 50% of first marriages (at least not the last time checked). The legendary 50% statistic includes second, third, etc. marriages, and second marriages fail more than first, third marriages more than second, etc. I've been married and divorced once. That was enough. The kids are raised, and I'm done .
@Justsayingthat Жыл бұрын
Exactly. There are many serial divorcees.
@lorettaknoelk3475 Жыл бұрын
Oh wow. I never thought of that
@nickfuller3428 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Alux! I needed this video as I get married next month.
@daeveybaby8787 Жыл бұрын
Peace. Alux always says all the right things, I love it! Amazing
@lucienelson Жыл бұрын
Peace! Valuable vid.
@DreadMike73 Жыл бұрын
Men love peace when they are with a woman, she don't have to be a IG model, if she can give him peace then she got him and he's not going anywhere.
@nancychism3480 Жыл бұрын
PEACE! This is my first comment since subscribing.... an add to this list is that a HVC work toward and present a "unified front" in important matters (to others).
@charlenegoskowicz8220 Жыл бұрын
Best advice ever! Men do want respect and appreciation. To them that equals love, and it took me a long time to learn that. Too much of today's media buzz is about toxic masculinity...nothing is toxic about true masculinity and it deserves appreciation.
@romilsahu4847 Жыл бұрын
# Peace 👏 that's why some men choose to be single until they found their Peace "life partner". Once again thanks Alux
@muhammadaayanaziz7916 Жыл бұрын
Mind blowing 🤯🤯🤯
@alux Жыл бұрын
End of the series...
@toniriedl2399 Жыл бұрын
Another true and aspiring video. Thank you .
@earthsteward9 Жыл бұрын
By the way, the career fitter test is awesome! It picked out the job of writing for me so working on my fiverr profile
@Hiro6543 Жыл бұрын
I love the idea of a relationship being 100-100. We never just split the bill. I'll pay the bill, and she leaves a 100% tip. I'll do the dishes, she then washes all of them again.
@RamonRodriguez-hq7vn Жыл бұрын
Lmao 🤣.
@briaunahinds6092 Жыл бұрын
🤣😂😂
@theorderofthebees7308 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@AprilHarmony9 Жыл бұрын
*NUMBER 2* is a key point for me. Yes, I *do* judge a man's love based on his efforts. .Respect be damned, it's meaningless if the man doesn't show how much he is willing to sacrifice for that love. Exactly.
@marieaxen645 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your new video! Always samething new to think of. Peace. /Marie from Sweden
@nadinenyangii5151 Жыл бұрын
I am thankful for this great message 💓
@paulwosik4621 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, one of my favs. I know high value men who have a dead weight wife. The wife behaves like she’s better than though, despite being nothing special together as a couple.
@Chaos1612mr Жыл бұрын
Both sides having alot of kids by different people. That's a sign of a low value couple.
@119Skyline Жыл бұрын
This is one of your best videos! 🍷
@5thdimensionliving727 Жыл бұрын
This was an incredible video with amazing content 👏👏Having been in a 20 year marriage previously, divorced 7 years, I’ve been in a later life relationship for the last 11 months having been single for 6 years. So having reflected on my relationship history the last 28 years, my partner and I would regards ourselves as both high value partners working towards some relationship goals. However, your video was masterful in the way it offered some top notch insights on how to be in a high value relationship. We will refresh our relationship goals accordingly as your video was so enlightening and helpful - thanking the content writer/s wholeheartedly 👍👍👏👏
@CeliaCavalli Жыл бұрын
Such a good video ♥️
@alux Жыл бұрын
We're known for that Celia!
@meherjanurmee9566 Жыл бұрын
Make a video on how to become a billionaire, really inspiring for us!
@cryptonomous888 Жыл бұрын
Provide some value.
@meherjanurmee9566 Жыл бұрын
@ContriveBrain Very well said, thank you!
@meherjanurmee9566 Жыл бұрын
@@cryptonomous888 Thank You!
@thedatasciencetrinity Жыл бұрын
Hi Alux, your all videos are great and I try to apply them in life as well but as you are creating content always. therefore so many things miss out. can you suggest some way to apply almost every possible thing to improve life
@dhanagunter5893 Жыл бұрын
This video is very insightful. I've never had a high value relationship, but have seen couples who do and are in loving committed relationships. I was never seen as having any value, only being a burden. Being alone is how I'm going to ride the rest of this life out. Better to remain alone than make someone else miserable.
@stellafraser8351 Жыл бұрын
I'm sure you have a lot of value unless you are a horrendous psychopath or something equally negative. Being a good, kind person is always valuable. Take care.
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