15 LESSONS People Learn Too Late In Life
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In this Alux.com video we'll try to answer the following questions:
What is a video that can change my life?
What are some lessons you learned in your life?
What are the biggest regrets people have?
What are the most common regrets old people have?
What do people regret the most before they die?
What are the biggest regrets in life?
What's one thing to know that can make your life better?
What are the secrets to living a successful life?
What are some things people don't know about life?
How much money do you need to be happy?
What would people change if they had the chance?
What do people regret before they die?
What do people wish they knew when they were young?
What are some things you don't know when you're young?
What are the best things you learn with time?
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@nishamehra7845 5 жыл бұрын
My biggest regret being too shy and afraid to express myself... fear of being judged, laughed at always held me back
@tanujsharma9445 5 жыл бұрын
Expressing yourself here took guts!
@mematipolat9591 5 жыл бұрын
70 years later we all dead so fuck it. When you are 80 you will hate your life because those people already forgot you and then you sitting there as a loser. Maybe people judge you but 1 week later they will forget it but you will succesfull. If they had the change they would grab it and not be shy. So why you? What will they do let them judge
@mematipolat9591 5 жыл бұрын
Nisha Mehra 👍🏻
@keydaniels1823 5 жыл бұрын
Nisha Mehra facts❗️
@nishamehra7845 5 жыл бұрын
@@keydaniels1823 late but I did realize that what others think of us is just them, what we can become is totally on our hands... All the best 😊👍
@Socrateez0217 4 жыл бұрын
Playing it safe was my biggest take away. I watched this video back in november 2018 and decided to make a change and go big. I have lost about 15 lbs, and became a firefighter for the wildland department. Also in the last stages of starting a dropshipping business. Thank you Alux. Keep it up Aluxers!!!
@alux 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your progress Jorge
@malakghalb8280 3 жыл бұрын
CONGRATULATIONS YOU HAVE COME A VERY LONG WAY
@rappermokas8434 2 жыл бұрын
How's the dropshipping business
@rappermokas8434 2 жыл бұрын
I'm soon stepping in too
@Socrateez0217 2 жыл бұрын
@@rappermokas8434 you lose nothing by trying it out. You just learn how you can get better and where to improve. Im doing ok tbh. When i first saw this Alux Video, i was on a mattress in a garage. Now i got a little studio to myself. Dropship is a great start as long as you keep improving and stay motivated. Theres plenty out there for everyone. 👍🏻
@tdior4136 3 жыл бұрын
“People treat you how you treat yourself, not them.” I always thought respect went both ways but in reality people treat you based on how you carry yourself. 🤯
@spiroskatsas6888 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@randysixt987 3 жыл бұрын
Family over friends is entirely situational. Some people don’t even have a family and their friends become their family. Some people are treated so poorly by their families that they’re better off without them.
@garlapatibannu2375 2 жыл бұрын
I'm looking for this. Well said.
@tracykey274 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@kshysterzoegod5387 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@dellisantoine1329 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@theoheitzman9163 Жыл бұрын
exactly ik some people like this it’s sad man
@nourah5033 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 19 and my biggest regret for the past 5 years has been not spending enough time with my mom. It’s not that I didn’t know what I had until she was gone, it’s that I didn’t think I would lose her until it was far too late. So, spend time with your family, ask them millions of questions and appreciate them and tell them that because you may never have the chance to ever again.
@marukochan1032 4 жыл бұрын
💓
@spiroskatsas6888 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate, especially about my grandmother. But don't worry too much about the past - I strongly believe all things will be normalized and be harmonious in Eternity.
@MERCIFULGOD7 9 ай бұрын
Thank you man
@vahiddabbagh6794 6 жыл бұрын
I am 30 and my best lesson that I learned is that best friend of anyone is not their parent, wife, friend or anything else. your best friend is just you alone. take care of yourself and your emotions and respect yourself as more as you can, you are precious.
@tikadc7428 6 жыл бұрын
Vahid Dabbagh...!!! Wow supper...!!!😍😍😍😍
@michaelmyers4706 5 жыл бұрын
💯
@seanmartin6773 5 жыл бұрын
That's why I always give myself a pat on the back after a good workout or run. I also have been off social media for 7 months.
@alexandertracy30 4 жыл бұрын
Sean Martin definitely gotta Qing myself off of social media. It’s definitely an addiction at this point.
@hannahzain1609 3 жыл бұрын
It’s 3AM and I searched “ what people learn too late” so that I can learn it before it’s too late.
@samBrightuel 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@lefunkable 2 жыл бұрын
It's Never Too Late 😉
@Youknowwho910 Ай бұрын
Same lol
@giovannicordoba5282 3 жыл бұрын
One lesson I learned late in my life: a good habit is a superpower, a bad habit is kryptonite. A bad habit is a slow death.
@stephenolah8177 5 жыл бұрын
GO BIG!!! I am 48, and suffering depression. This year I took up archery and really love it. A lofty goal I would set for myself would be to become good enough to possibly compete at Olympic level. Wish me luck
@ajinkyapatil2650 5 жыл бұрын
Stephen Olah go you!
@giv123 5 жыл бұрын
good luck!
@AshishSinghPaL777 5 жыл бұрын
Best of luck! 😊😁😄
@torosalvajebcn 5 жыл бұрын
You'll make it,
@antoniohernadez103 5 жыл бұрын
Stephen Olah good luck 🍀👍
@andreingramakadjscrewrip7372 6 жыл бұрын
1. Everything is temporary 2. Life isn't fair 3. Family matters more than friends 4. Others treat you the way you treat yourself, not them 5. The sacrifices you make today will pay dividends in the future 6. Sacrificing your health for success or wealth isn't worth it 7. Fear of embarrassment or criticism stopped you from being who you really are 8. Things don't matter that much 9. Even the longest night was followed by a morning 10. Happiness is a choice and requires a lot of hard work 11. This moment right now, this is you being alive this is your moment 12. Everyone is really out for themselves 13. Beneath anger is always fear 14. The world is bigger than you got to experience 15. A lifetime isn't very long
@hamida7402 6 жыл бұрын
Andre Ingram aka DJ Screw RIP Go big ! I have always wanted to find these kind of advices. Even, I always search on KZfaq videos which talk about lesson from old people. I love that. I am sure, It is not only luck or destiny which made me failures but it is also lack of understanding the value of HARD experiences which I avoided until I faced harder things which I couldn’t avoid ! I recently believed that I am ready to this temporary Residence in life but I always want to be eternal through my talent and passion for music. I can be eternal through this comment and people will visit my KZfaq channel and hear my voice😊 You are all welcome 🙏
@MOMON2006 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro.
@muhammadkamran4657 6 жыл бұрын
Thnx man i really appreciate that
@mariosuares4622 6 жыл бұрын
13...Beneath anger IS NOT ALWAYS FEAR< i think that is wrong thought...
@empressironbladder8942 6 жыл бұрын
This was excellent...and I really needed to read this today. In fact I’m going to save this to read for later. Thank you, Andre.
@MiguelSanchez-fs6cu 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 16 and this is one of the best videos that I’ve ever seen.
@mkhuselixashimba5931 3 жыл бұрын
" Happiness is not a goal, but it's a by product of a life well lived "
@sunny3264 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a grandmother, and the biggest regret I have is all the times I didn't follow my instincts, and ignored them. A mistake 100% of the time. Also, I have learned that you do not need anyone's approval, and it doesn't matter at all what other people think of you.
@melisaganci2120 5 жыл бұрын
Gads Bee thank you for sharing this .. I will take this to heart and listen to my instinct! I needed to read this!!
@christiehobbs3827 5 жыл бұрын
You are right .... I do what I know is right for me and make adjustments as I go LOL
@sunny3264 5 жыл бұрын
@@melisaganci2120 thank you, I'm glad it was useful to you. It is uncanny how on-point our instincts really are. We must listen to them always! It's sort of like when you take a test, about 99-100% of the time, your first answer is the correct one. If we start thinking about it too much, we second guess ourselves and change the answer to the wrong one. Best to you, and thanks for your reply!
@edissonespinoza6305 5 жыл бұрын
I'm struggling to stop caring about what ppl think of me. I dont know how to stop that. Any advice?
@yklohana 5 жыл бұрын
I am 22 and even I regret it. It is indeed a true lesson.
@adonis2411 4 жыл бұрын
“Don’t base your decisions on the advice of those who don’t have to deal with the results”.
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
Wowww...one of the BEST comments on here!!!!!!
@everydayusefulinformationu7930 3 жыл бұрын
Please support my channel, I swear to you that I am very needy, please
@omnihexa 3 жыл бұрын
Damn true. Some people give stupid suggestions because it's not them who will bear the result!
@George-je1fs 3 жыл бұрын
Doesnt that mean don't take advice off anyone?
@VictoriaVictoryable 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the insight! Worrying about others have missed alot of opportunities . I pray you are doing well in this life
@williambartle5510 3 жыл бұрын
It took me until this year to realize just how unfair life really is. GO BIG!
@LearnWithLilibeth 2 жыл бұрын
#2 @2:22
@LastRealPlayaAlive 3 ай бұрын
This is one of the most genuine comment feeds I've ever seen! That's truth, honesty, and love Alux style
@nickpastorino5370 6 жыл бұрын
I'm only 26, but I've already learned some harsh life lessons: 1. Hard work does NOT equal success. This is a cruel reality most people don't want to admit because most people like to feel like they have control over their destiny. Knowledge, intelligence, natural talent, and dumb luck are way more useful than hard work. Effort is important, but it's useless without the other traits I mentioned. 2. Never take advice from anyone. What works for some people may not work for you. Learn from your own mistakes, not other's. 3. The person you are today may not be the person you will be in a few years. My passions have changed more times than I can count. The things that bothered me in the past I can now care less about. 4. Never make assumptions about other people, and never judge a book by it's cover. More often than not, things are not what they appear to be. This is the most important lesson I have learned.
@jimmoefoe1471 6 жыл бұрын
Hard work is only 25% for success
@ahmeddaaniyal6117 6 жыл бұрын
Nick Pastorino thank you for sharing! God bless!
@thenightdances21 6 жыл бұрын
I’m 26 also & I agree with this! Especially number 1!!
@KING-ci2jl 6 жыл бұрын
So we shouldn't take advice from you?
@nohomobro8933 6 жыл бұрын
Nick Pastorino thank you im 23.
@Eltopshottah 4 жыл бұрын
One lesson I wish I learned earlier was, “it never has to be perfect” just go ahead and fail your way to success it’s like machine learning but millions of times less efficient but you’ll get there.
@tbilod 3 жыл бұрын
Perfection = paralysis
@TehPoet 3 жыл бұрын
If the first release or version 1 of your project r product doesn't embarrass you a bit then you're not releasing soon enough
@user-bx6lf3et8v 3 жыл бұрын
Actually, I would still consider humans to be far superior to computers in terms of general learning.
@lefunkable 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, Definitely
@jamesgentry13 2 жыл бұрын
Nah failing sucks. Failing is too painful. If you are going to fail a bunch of times it isn't worth it
@deanc2000 3 жыл бұрын
I learned this just recently "Done is better than perfect". GO BIG!
@Corderp558 3 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this at 13 trying to get out of the lower to the high upper classes
@xtremesports77 4 жыл бұрын
Love the child within you because you are the only person who knows how to love the way it needs to be loved.
@TheVMbros 3 жыл бұрын
I will respectfully disagree. Just because you give birth, it doesn't mean that someone else won't be able to fully and truly love the child like he deserves to be loved. That's just my opinion
@xtremesports77 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheVMbros I would recommend you to lookup the concept of the inner child :)
@janeekinns 3 жыл бұрын
L
@pravinyedage 3 жыл бұрын
*•Quotes by Socrates•.•.* kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ldx5edqSxLSsloU.html
@cleopatracaesar3309 3 жыл бұрын
TheVMbros I- Do u know what an inner child is?
@Nicodemosfreitas 6 жыл бұрын
1. Everything is temporary 2.Life isn't fair 3.Family matters more than friends 4.Others treat you the way you treat yourself, not them 5.The sacrifices you make today will pay dividends in the future 6.Sacrificing yourself your heath for successs or wealth isn't worth it 7.Fear of embarrassment or criticism stopped you from being who you really are 8.Things don't matter that much 9.Even the longest night was followed by a morning 10.Happiness is a choice and it requires a lot of hard work 11.This moment right now, this sis you being alive this is your moment 12.Everyone is really out for themseselves 13.Beneah anger is always fear 14.The world is bigger than you got to experience 15.A lifetime isn't very long 16.You played it too safe
@bihanbandyopadhyay2294 6 жыл бұрын
this is one of the most helpful comments I have ever gone through....except for the ones of the same category.
@rollingthrees 6 жыл бұрын
WHY ARE YOU DOWN HERE??
@HappyNadia_S 6 жыл бұрын
2) depends on the family
@getpaidtocruise4630 5 жыл бұрын
Carlos Vasconcelos z
@carlbannies1818 3 жыл бұрын
Go big...amazing and eye opening video series I wish had existed when I was younger. You supply a lot of informative life lessons. As an entrepreneur myself, I can honestly agree that discipline , smart moves, and hard work will pay off!! Thank you!!
@ideoformsun5806 3 жыл бұрын
You set the tone for every interaction. Take a moment to set your intentions before every interaction with others. Often, they will follow your lead.
@jonasbaert 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 years and I've a disability. Thanks to this I've learned all those lessons already a long time ago. I've become a very positive person who loves to take risks and live the life I want. I already wrote a book, did a lot of crazy things, studying hard and reading a lot. I just don't work yet, but despite this I've learned to wake up early every day and Read or write a bit before I rly start my day with excersizes. I also love aventures. So I'm going in the right direction. 😊
@michellepinnock2141 4 жыл бұрын
Same I'm 22 and also have a disability as well... wish you best of luck also your success in life!!!
@YousefYiusef-hg9er 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@dalebrown3779 5 жыл бұрын
My biggest regret: a lack of self confidence, always finding a reason why I could not do something instead of just going ahead and trying, irrespective of the outcome.
@Knightsbridge256 4 жыл бұрын
Dale Brown I need a favor from you please 🙏🙏 Subscribe on my channel please 🙏🙏😘
@Flametasticeedits 4 жыл бұрын
I think only real mature people understand this from the very beginning. Most of us understand this from our 30s forward and some never realise it and live their life with no motivation.
@Sariine436 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 16 and I'm super shy! 😩
@Sariine436 4 жыл бұрын
@@faysalsframephotography4263 Your right I missed going to Disney In California for free at school I kinda regret and not regret going..... kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ZuCHg62KyLLDqqc.html
@Rakeshkumar-xi7fo 4 жыл бұрын
Finally you have realised
@itsrizzy3883 3 жыл бұрын
I was about to skip this, never heard of this channel. But wow am I glad I watched this.
@ninadbhatkar2127 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video, Alux. I think point no. 15 is something that most people don't figure out in their life. Your grave is just round the corner. Start the reverse count, and get down to doing the essential things of your life.
@uanip1341 6 жыл бұрын
I definitely regret wasting my 20’s fearing people’s criticism Go big
@sinhabibha8980 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@Knightsbridge256 4 жыл бұрын
Uani P I have just subscribed on your channel coz I was interested and u inspired me to make one can u please be the first person to subscribe on it
@jayandjim709 5 жыл бұрын
3. Fear of embarrassment or criticism stopped you from being who you really are
@nizhumsharmili1974 3 жыл бұрын
1.The world treats you the way you treat yourself. 2.suffering>hatred>anger>fear. 3.fear of embarrassment and criticism stopped you from being who you really are. 4.Happiness is a choice & it requires a lot of hard work. Never thought this way.This has brought a huge change in my perspective.
@beanshrock4804 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I'm watching this while I'm 18, I mean I questioned a lot of these things before when I was younger. Yet I still waste so much of what little time we have
@MrKym3502 5 жыл бұрын
Build your body, respect yourself, develop some boundaries, build your wealth early and be careful who you choose as your life partner.
@Knightsbridge256 4 жыл бұрын
KYM HAWKINS please do me a favor and subscribe on my channel 🙏🙏
@jugalgohel3830 5 жыл бұрын
My 26 years in this world has taught me lot of things but one thing particularly I would like to mention is "be honest to yourself"
@davidmayes2803 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! I'm 31, and it dawned on me that I was constantly lying to myself AND others. Being honest with yourself is very liberating.
@oshoreborn2464 3 жыл бұрын
What does that really mean am 18 ? Please answer
@masonswider5767 2 жыл бұрын
These old Sunday videos just get that itch, they break it down and are honest
@mariaalejandragarcia4745 2 жыл бұрын
GO BIG! I love this video and I use it with my students of English as a foreign language! Everybody seems to learn something different from it! And they are all different ages (13 to 50 year olds all love it)!
@carolinasmoke5047 6 жыл бұрын
If you're younger, save money. Invest carefully. Never stop learning. Avoid alcohol and drugs. I've made the mistakes.
@bonchidude 6 жыл бұрын
Carolina, and when they say you are young and you can take more risk, that is HORRENDOUS advice! It is ALWAYS prudent to invest wisely and not take much risk.
@tapiwajames341 6 жыл бұрын
Avoid "too much" alcohol not at all
@carolinasmoke5047 6 жыл бұрын
Moderation is key. Not everyone is capable of that however.
@maazullah7991 6 жыл бұрын
Avoid isolation and stick to a task for a certain goal in life. As we can see in this video it says to be with your (family), spend time with your parents, siblings and relatives. These two things could really work for you to draw your attention from drugs and alcoholism and your wastage of money.
@bertiepimplebum5633 6 жыл бұрын
Carolina Smoke Wagon - Nice words Carolina. We all have the same enemy - it's VICE. Gambling is a vice, it is NOT a leisure activity. You'll be rich enough, smart enough, for keeping vice out of your life. Regards. U.K.
@timperry6715 6 жыл бұрын
What I wish I learned sooner: To be more selfish and put myself before others
@HSN6592 2 жыл бұрын
Go Big! Im 21 and i wish that I hadn't spent so much time dwelling on the negative aspects and lived in the moment more. I see so much overconsumption and grandiose expectations that are unrealistic.
@nashcharles8506 2 жыл бұрын
Having an open mindset and taking the time to listen will teach you a lot
@myriad860 5 жыл бұрын
Be careful who you choose as your life partner!
@davidmayes2803 5 жыл бұрын
Good one, Kaha! I've seen many people recklessly choose a life partner, only to regret their choice. It's almost like buying a bad home lol!
@DanneyTanner 5 жыл бұрын
You mean wife?everybody does that bad choice a few times
@dneuman7455 5 жыл бұрын
can you like it enough to visit it while relaxing
@fadeskywards1245 5 жыл бұрын
@@dneuman7455 I like that question.
@marymotherofgod4861 5 жыл бұрын
Soooo true
@victoriaalbastra6325 5 жыл бұрын
Don't hurry to start your sexual life! Study and get good grades while you have the time for it. Don't get drunk. Don't do drugs. Exercise. Choose your friends wisely. Never spend more than you make. Be nice to yourself.
@jerrysmall167 5 жыл бұрын
I agree
@sadafkhan1679 5 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%
@bobbirdsong6104 5 жыл бұрын
I know all too well how Rock sold advice these are. Unfortunately for me, there all of my regrets every one of them.
@frikandelspeciaal1431 5 жыл бұрын
I agree too! I remember joung and dump.. in the Netherlands we say ( iedere wijze uil is wel eens een uilskuiken geweest.) Greetz and tanks for advice toppic Alux!
@babinchhetri9099 5 жыл бұрын
Good motive my friend .
@donnaalston3206 Жыл бұрын
Go Big!Most definitely some things to think about!Thank you
@giovannicordoba5282 3 жыл бұрын
Another lesson of age: a person that is too agreeable in general will make almost zero progress in life.
@lorrainejacobson6737 5 жыл бұрын
At 77, I would say these fifteen items are very accurate.
@thousandaireradio3199 5 жыл бұрын
Noted, thank you
@hajrakhan6396 5 жыл бұрын
Then you should’ve tried harder lol
@carlosalfaro2465 5 жыл бұрын
Haj, The 77 yold, just want to help you. It is you who need to do shit, we learned from other people, people like thru Mr 77 yold experiences.
@nitishsingh598 5 жыл бұрын
thank you soo much sir
@ArkantosC13 5 жыл бұрын
16*
@yevette310 6 жыл бұрын
Life is a lesson, every day is a test. Learn the lesson ace the test. Sundays are for family, friends, and Alux
@alux 6 жыл бұрын
Love it!
@christoffbaker8052 6 жыл бұрын
E.Y. Collins
@shauntyndale 3 жыл бұрын
Go BIG! Clearly all true. All about remembering it's all true, and we've always known it!
@ranamuhammadusman3817 3 жыл бұрын
💕😘 Love you always. Love your Style, selection of topics and detailed discussion especially your pronunciation.
@samwinchester61 5 жыл бұрын
"If you find yourself going thru hell... keep going." Practice trusting your gut and tune out everyone else!
@ketchup5344 5 жыл бұрын
CORRECT 👍
@FuyuEterniya 5 жыл бұрын
Lucky me watching at age of 15...time to go big
@coolingguy4610 4 жыл бұрын
Neko Harem lolll lucky us cause I’m 15 too
@safewordiswolfy2012 4 жыл бұрын
Have you gone big?
@cfvbggsggbse7054 4 жыл бұрын
@Tarvinder Singh never to early
@alonberger2281 4 жыл бұрын
Me too. Good luck to all of us!!🤪
@arpandas8296 4 жыл бұрын
U are lucky but your brain is not that much mature to feel it...you can just understand this...and it is not easy to always follow this inspite of knowing all this. So try to note it down and read more often. Good luck.
@jay6828 2 жыл бұрын
Go BIG!! First time listener and I like what I hear thus far - I will keep listening. Thank you!
@renee-qi2tt 2 жыл бұрын
Still in my early teens and want to work on my dream starting now. V encouraging! GO BIG!!
@savvageorge 6 жыл бұрын
Treat every day like a separate life. In the morning you are born and in the night you die. If you live in the present and make the most out of every day then you will be living at your full potential.
@namutolostephen2859 5 жыл бұрын
Legit
@laralara-qq6xc 5 жыл бұрын
Great advice
@ronaldpinheiro1474 5 жыл бұрын
16. Life is so much more than just money 17. Success isn't measured by how much money you make
@stanymathew3293 5 жыл бұрын
Well said
@KWolfMusic 5 жыл бұрын
True but having money is nice :)
@christiehobbs3827 5 жыл бұрын
Yes The Journey is Life unfolding along the way I love it
@MoscleBrog 5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree on 17
@nicholasmendez9108 5 жыл бұрын
16 is retarded
@Icy1256 3 жыл бұрын
go big!!! great video thanks for making this. helped me reframe my view
@thinkingoutloud3470 2 жыл бұрын
watching this video while at the gym. Keep it up Alux.
@1212zeek1212 6 жыл бұрын
"Just because you think you deserve something doesn't mean you're going to get it." This is true and I agree. I want to add - if you DON'T think you deserve it you DEFINITELY won't get it.
@JasmineMershon 6 жыл бұрын
Zeek1212 Yes, I agree.
@Whoeverwhateverwhenever 6 жыл бұрын
Really? You usually dont think you deserve shit, but that's usually exactly what you're getting.
@cosmicgoddess9574 6 жыл бұрын
Zeek1212 Soo either way you won't get it?? Lol jk
@Bro-lw1kl 6 жыл бұрын
Also true.
@hamida7402 6 жыл бұрын
Zeek1212 Go big ! I have always wanted to find these kind of advices. Even, I always search on KZfaq videos which talk about lesson from old people. I love that. I am sure, It is not only luck or destiny which made me failures but it is also lack of understanding the value of HARD experiences which I avoided until I faced harder things which I couldn’t avoid ! I recently believed that I am ready to this temporary Residence in life but I always want to be eternal through my talent and passion for music. I can be eternal through this comment and people will visit my KZfaq channel and hear my voice😊 You are all welcome 🙏
@davouda964 5 жыл бұрын
My definition for Happiness: Being satisfied and content about yourself.
@user-lq9hq6ry5j 4 жыл бұрын
My definition of happiness: Jannah, paradise True contentness and happiness is in paradise :) 🔆
@yashalamwar9913 3 жыл бұрын
Go big. This was a great video guys, thanks 👍🏻
@giovannicordoba5282 3 жыл бұрын
My next failure will come from the lessons learned that i am not reminded, and from the lessons that i will never learn. I will fail, but i can take it better today.
@jaykirby3601 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I would've learned the value of education earlier in life. My parents nevet encouraged me to care about school, so here i am at 44 getting my BA. Learn to enjoy learning.
@akanbijustina9921 5 жыл бұрын
sorry to say but its nt all about education, a mans gift/talent maketh way for him so, invest in it.
@kasarachipeter8816 5 жыл бұрын
@@akanbijustina9921 yep. U are on point
@Hanna-on2wu 5 жыл бұрын
Well done, congrats on taking your life in your own hands. Good luck!
@feeps55 5 жыл бұрын
You're not alone, I am 35 and just went back to school, I only have 15 credits because I work 12hr. Shifts but I will get my associates at least.
@4meincognito 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! That's a mouthful. Bet if they even tried you probably wouldn't have listened anyway. In that case, you wouldn't be blaming them now.
@brianbozo2447 5 жыл бұрын
1 Life Rewards Action. 2. You can never have enough friends. 3. Keep a diary or you will forget your past. 4. Get out of bed within 5 minutes of awakening. 5. Always have a book you are reading. At least 1 book every month. 6. List you goals in order of importance and priority and look at them daily or weekly. 7. Exercise for 20 minutes every day. 8. Don't wait to be asked. Take the first step. 9. Make a list of positive statements and say them to yourself every day while looking at yourself saying them in a mirror. 10. Take a holiday for a minimum of 7 days every 6 months. 11. Leave you mobile phone off at least 1 day per week. 12. Intermittent fasting 2 days per week. 13 listen to or read comedy at least once / week to retain a perspective on life's issues. 14 memorize at least 10 good jokes or interesting stories that can be used at will. 15. Meditate or pray 10 minutes / day. 16. Give to charity.
@meghnasingh9941 4 жыл бұрын
well written :)
@ArmsUganda13 4 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@lova751 4 жыл бұрын
You are mad , do you really believe that your list is ok with EVERYBODY?
@leahhulme9456 4 жыл бұрын
I like the last 2 haha !!! I admire this list 💯
@pathmaram 4 жыл бұрын
thank you for your precious tips, god bless you.
@michaeltiller2323 3 жыл бұрын
GO BIG ! Alix...keep it up even if they aren't keen.
@fashionistinc6971 3 жыл бұрын
Go BIG! Thanks again for another awesome video.
@NilanjanPaul 5 жыл бұрын
*others treat you the way you treat yourself, not them* I'm gonna remember this for the rest of my life. 👑
@jeff9393 5 жыл бұрын
same
@tomyngilifavalikadhikwa6123 5 жыл бұрын
I am only 20 and one thing I should of told myself is 'I am worthy just as every other human being walking this earth
@meiko431 5 жыл бұрын
Wow that is a very good quote you have,ty for sharing.
@davidmayes2803 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent!
@Porthos240 Жыл бұрын
Go BiG. And today is a day I needed this more than ever. Have placed it on a daily "to play" list.
@RaghvanandMaharaj6964 2 жыл бұрын
Fear of criticism and embarrassment stopped you from being who you really are ❤️
@neildalucapas9150 4 жыл бұрын
"Life time is very short" hits me hard. Instead of watching netflix for 5hrs straight I could dedicate that time into reading books or studying which i might use for a lifetime and pass it onto others. It's important to find some things to improve yourself than to entertain yourself.
@oluwatoyeboluwaduro1610 3 жыл бұрын
We waste too much time on frivolities. The rich is coming for our time, they know in that way we become numb heads and they get more rich
@misterfatih23 3 жыл бұрын
so true!
@aya.sondoussa 2 жыл бұрын
@@oluwatoyeboluwaduro1610 this's so true ✨✨
@realhazem 5 жыл бұрын
My Best advice for all 1_Know your passion. 2_Be clear about your life purpose. 3_Make goals & action plans to achieve them. 4_Be kind with everyone and remember these 3 (Love, Laugh, Live in the moment) Thank you...
@nayeonthebunny230 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks because of you i got this lessons at age 12 but I will never forget you even though I become successful.
@PEACEISMINEK 2 жыл бұрын
This video made my day, I was just passing by to hear such much to the point I have to agree everything u said is True 🙏🙏🙏💯💯💯 Thanks to u
@albertshaw6811 6 жыл бұрын
I am 57, but I've been retired 8 years. I was diagnosed with cancer last year; which would be my original scheduled retirement date. I had a stem cell transplant , last year, and am doing so well , that I have a doctor that follows me around, just taking notes. I live your list, it's All true. I exercise everyday, and smoke pot. I love life, and I treasure my health. The key is to learn how to appreciate "the Now". If you can sit outside and enjoy just "Being with You"...... then you you have figured it out. 😔👍🏾
@priusa8113 6 жыл бұрын
Stop using drugs please
@albertshaw6811 6 жыл бұрын
Priscila Di Galvanini Thank you for your response. I said "I USE drugs, Not ABUSE drugs. Thanks for your concern, but I am the happiest I've ever been in my life. 😎
@longbone6416 6 жыл бұрын
Albert Shaw too bad we dont live close we could hangout same bio
@fredcongress1967 5 жыл бұрын
Pri USA STFU PLEASE.
@fredcongress1967 5 жыл бұрын
Pearl Perlita Venegas Thanks.
@gf4353 5 жыл бұрын
GERMAN SAYING, WE GET TOO SOON OLD AND TOO LATE SMART.
@Ajay-qu2kn 5 жыл бұрын
True
@LA12312 5 жыл бұрын
Fucken eyy!!
@roseworldhomesandproperties 3 жыл бұрын
Go bigger Alux 👌🏾💯❤️
@no_regretsgameplay7354 Жыл бұрын
Go big! ✊️ thanks for the confidence boost and the advice.
@robertgoosescott1527 5 жыл бұрын
At 50, the one thing I learned a little late was that there are some people in lives that don't need to be there. Association is a part of our success, good or bad, and we need to be aware of who we allow to be a part of it. Toxic relationships breed poor negative attitudes, while healthy relationships breed excellent positive attitudes. Some friends aren't worth keeping around if they're going to drag you down.
@davidmayes2803 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! For me, this includes toxic in laws. I've tried to incorporate them into my life, but they are extremely toxic and this year, I've decided to completely remove myself.
@seanmartin6773 5 жыл бұрын
I am also realizing now in my late 30s that friends do disappear pretty quickly. I am ok with just a few close friends and family members.
@seanmartin6773 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah in laws can be very toxic! Just don't try to let them get in your head making you believe you are the jerk when it's really them.
@Stackem901 5 жыл бұрын
Association bring similarities
@convadodeltaro1997 4 жыл бұрын
Learned it at 16.
@gabrielevalencia4894 6 жыл бұрын
One lesson I wish I had learned sooner is to never stress out about things too much. Often time the things I get stressed about won’t even matter in a week, months, or years, I am trying to learn how to live in the present and just do my best today for a better tomorrow
@markhoang4254 6 жыл бұрын
great, try your ulmost.Come on!!!
@jesslee168 6 жыл бұрын
Great lesson!!! Thank you for sharing!!
@Bro-lw1kl 6 жыл бұрын
If you not give much fuck about things happening isn't that also not giving shit about present?
@starmoves2626 2 жыл бұрын
I wished I learned this in my childhood that life is too short we should learn things early 🙂 so we can apply it later soon but I've so much of life left as I'm in my 20s so I will make most of it from now. ❤️❤️
@Dodo_NaeNae 2 жыл бұрын
I'm only in Matric but I can truly say that my biggest regret has always been caring too much about what others think of me. Today I realise that my main goal in life is to attain peace for myself, free from whatever thoughts my mind tries to make me think people think of me.
@whatever5575 5 жыл бұрын
This I learned too late. Let go of the past. Don't dwell on it. You will find with that attitude, you will have more energy today since the past is not weighing you down. When you feel lazy, try to tackle a few chores. For example, I wipe the car for a few minutes with a towel and I feel uplifted by the cleanliness. When my room is messy, I spend 5 minutes organize it. It's amazing the difference it makes. You can apply this strategy to studying too. Spend half an hour solving a few math problems and it will not be so daunting next time.
@cookies_jungkookie3909 5 жыл бұрын
It really dose help me too, thanks;)
@MrCassett 5 жыл бұрын
The 2 most important lessons i can think of are No 1. You only have yourself and can only count on yourself. You Will always have you. No2. Keep going no matter what.
@sheilasiles2417 5 жыл бұрын
True!
@mrinavjain4395 3 жыл бұрын
This video is surely life - changing. *Go Big*
@mhamedmoussabenlahrech6320 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this beneficial course.
@MrCwalkerify1 5 жыл бұрын
I disagree with point 3 “family matters more than friends”. Not everyone comes from a good family and most importantly just because you’re related to someone doesn’t automatically make them your true family. Some friends I’ve made are a lot more like family than people I share the same blood with.
@francismsangi2553 5 жыл бұрын
Yaah! Sure
@avakai1404 5 жыл бұрын
TRUE!! some people have great families who go all the way with you, but others have friends who ride with them more than their families would
@me0101001000 5 жыл бұрын
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb
@prettypatties5229 5 жыл бұрын
Agree. Some people are toxic so we avoid them. Yet the toxic persons family shouldn’t because they’re related.. by this logic. Makes no sense. Not everyone is fortunate to have a good family
@nadiafedorenko491 5 жыл бұрын
Red Swishhh I agree. I stopped watching the video at this point. There are so many toxic families out there that good friends can be and to me have been more so than ones own family. It's a stupid comment.
@shirleyss 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 40 years old the lesson I wish I learned before was “I played it too safe” ✅💚🌈 I must teach my son take GOOD RISKS , great advices thanks a million Alux
@alux 5 жыл бұрын
Our pleasure Shirley!!
@extradimension7356 5 жыл бұрын
+shirley soares silva I think people have a hard time distinguishing between GOOD RISKS (as you say) versus needless/bad risks and lump everything into one fearful "Box". What helped me (very obvious) is to try and properly evaluate risk/ reward... Some risks are high but have terrible consequences or low reward whereas other decisions may have moderate consequences but amazing rewards but "We" the human animal tend to have a bad time making those distinctions which can cause some to "Freeze". Always good to get to plan B and plan for that too. Determine the success and failure points of every decision.
@nedaari1 5 жыл бұрын
You're still young Shirley. Go for it!
@jadenlee2091 2 ай бұрын
This is fire 🔥🔥, everything said in this video I've experienced,GO BIG💪
@rjgc4409 3 жыл бұрын
You make great videos. Wonderful messages. Thank you very much.
@iftiqarahmed7130 5 жыл бұрын
Video definetly worth your time, 1. Others treat you the way you treat yourself; not them. ‘GO BIG’
@scottishfury77 5 жыл бұрын
A hard Lesson I am still learning. Don't Procrastinate. When something needs to be done, do it. It will mess with you if you don't. And it may take a big bite out of you. Also, Go Big!
@fallenstar358 3 жыл бұрын
All lessons are incredible! I am gratefull
@deepakhandique9187 3 жыл бұрын
Go Big... I wish I could have given more time & love to my sweet loving sister....
@Thecoldhunter1 4 жыл бұрын
Getting in shape is one thing I wish I did years earlier, and it’s taught me discipline
@quanbrooklynkid7776 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@sreed8427 4 жыл бұрын
GO BIG!!! Two lessons I learned in life are 14. The World Is Bigger Than You Got To Experience. I never took enough time out to travel the country and 16. I Played It Too Safe out of fear, worrying about what people would say about me and/or think about me, and from taking advice from other people, who were only giving me advice based on their personal fears. Misery Loves Company!
@jesicamercado5304 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I would’ve loved myself more. Truly love my kids and my family more. I wouldn’t have let the one get away. I would’ve been more brave and stood up for myself.
@geljimenez1304 3 жыл бұрын
I will GO BIG! Thank you Alux
@thinanemalili3636 6 жыл бұрын
Go Big! The lesson I've learned so far is to listen to your inner self, stop looking for answers outside yourself because, only you knows what's best for you.
@uanip1341 6 жыл бұрын
Thina Nemalili facts 💯💯
@seabreeze667 6 жыл бұрын
Families can be disappointing, actually for most times, like friends, as well.
@0114855 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I haven't spoken to mine for eight years.
@seabreeze667 6 жыл бұрын
Alicia Hobbel - sorry that happened to u as well.
@seabreeze667 6 жыл бұрын
Youssef Houaoui - lucky u, I know many people are disappointed by families and friends.
@seabreeze667 6 жыл бұрын
Youssef Houaoui - on the contrary, I tried killing myself when I was with them, now that i completely cut them off for many years, I’m feeling better now.
@BitchChill 5 жыл бұрын
That is true
@kyleore1373 3 жыл бұрын
Go big, alux is one of my favorite and the best youtube channel thankyou, worth my time
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
The key word Perspective!!