True. Be careful what you say. Sometimes silence is golden. If one has nothing positive to say , say nothing. A little bit of knowledge is a dangerous thing. It is my major in college. Never used it had to much empathy. If one get toO involved in people's problems one can't help. I do pay attention to body language and read between the lines. Changing tone of voice and eye movements.

Be careful what you say, you are listening. Self talk is usually the reason one has low or high self efficacy, if one has low self efficacy they are more likely to demonstrate the 'why try' model, which hinders successful outcomes. High self efficacy increases persistence determination and endurance, which results in successful outcomes. So speaking positively will increase levels of hope and optimism.

@@anitacarrier9386 The " why try method " has nothing to do with helping another. At times all a person needs is ventilate feelings and concerns " What do one says if one lost a child ore spouse to suicide "? Of course one helps with food and shelter if needed. Without bragging about it. One need to know the limitation, help or doing harm to self ore another. Yes " you listening ". Do you.?

@@annaamalia7189 at no point did I say the why try method helps another, the why try model demonstrates what happens to people who lose all hope, they give up, anyone who gives up will not succeed. And yes people do need to vent etc I know I did when my child died, see I am one of those people you speak about, but after decades of Research I have come to realise, misery attracts misery, we are the ones responsible for drawing more negativity into our lives, because we emit negativity, we project it out into the world and then it returns back to us, like a boomer rang. Religions called it karma or justice, science states all energy returns back to its original source. Either way we either learn to discipline ourselves, though positive thinking or we are the ones who don't succeed, it's that simple. I never said it was easy, I can assure you it's not, mainly because of what you yourself identified is everyone wants to vent' people have to learnt to behave in their animalistic instinctual manner, and yet they need to learn to develop self discipline, we can accept that a child when hurt or angry will behave in a unacceptable manner because they know no better so they react in an i tinctual animalistic manner, and unfortunately most adults continue their lives doing the same, but those people will bring suffering to themselves. Hense why when that adult is given the answer to change it, they can either behave egotistical and animalistic and Continue reacting or they can learn positive psychology change their behaviour and mind set, to enable them to respond rather than react.

@@anitacarrier9386 excellent post what I was thinking and writing may is misunderstood. The power of positive thinking is unlimited. I tried to work in the field often dealed with people who couldn't understand that living with a narcissist and finding excuses for this person's behavior brought on their problems. I stand up for injustice but can't change others behavior. I took the problem home with me and couldn't find a solution to help. That is why I left...... Like you said positive energy radiates , negative energy radiates as well. After everything is said and done we are responsible for what we say and put out into the world. Sometimes it's best to be quite just be present and actively listen. Again a little bit of knowledge is a dangerous thing. " The more I learn the more I realize how little I know ".

Or for women, "are you on your period?" During an argument does that x10

@@godsperfectfailures796 that question pisses off a man too!

True

@@godsperfectfailures796 who in their right mind would say that.

I've never once in my lifetime heard, or felt, a smile come through a phone without being able to see a persons face. (Unless it's a video chat) I can, however, tell if a person is friendly or not, in a good mood or in a bad mood, or truly interested in what i'm saying or not, just by the tone of their voice, their input, and how they speak to me.

@@onedayatatime8756 taking it too literal

Wow- that is so true!! Your idea 💡 was very cool!! While a smile can be felt during a phone call, your message tells me your a very intelligent lady! A wise woman I once knew she always was smiling, I asked her why she always smiled (because I wanted to be that happy) she said that she smiled because it makes her happy so she always smiles...I implemented her idea and wow it really worked! People called me mr. Smiley or Awesome Eric which made me even happier. But about 15 years I developed clinical depression after a big life change and the smile has left my body. I hope I can get back to being Mr. Smiley one day soon! Keep on smiling! 😀

@@tayoa4260 I took it as i understood it to be. Can you hear me smiling right now? 😁 😂👍

They can tell when I make nude cold calls too

Sure, a whole world full of experts that can manipulate each other would certainly be unique. :-)

Same to myself

Real T!

No..a fake smile’s one of *worst ways to connect. Goes to subconscious & instantaneously reads ‘not to be trusted!’ to anyone who listens to it

Hahahahaha

How many last signatures did you compile?

@ Lawrence Webster Yes, well, I wish I had known all these tricks 40+ years ago! 😉

What? We're not incredible anymore? 💩💩💩

You know what? Dreams do die sometimes. And there can be life after that death.

Hahaha 🤣 That Is funny but true.

I’ve definitely done this 🤦‍♀️

😂😂

Your post is confusing, what are you trying to say?

@@jamesmcnaughton5092 put yourself in someone else’s shoes and stay calm … it’s so easy to resolve conflict and deal with people that way . I work with the general public… ( and my coworkers..) pretty much on a daily basis. When you work at a fast food joint , you need a skill like this .

So you've never had to go up to someone's level

@@knocut7157 going down , not up . Not meant to be condescending… it’s not hard to come down a level .

TNx for this video

Journaling is a good tool to relieve anxiety. Been doing this for years. I reread what I wrote and I'm like what was I thinking.

You don't yawn At them, you look around as you yawn. You are not looking at them when you start.

Annet Elizabeth Nmiyingo Yes it is true i've found that when you temporrily stop worshipping these je@lous types, they turn on you bec@use they wish for continuous worshipping ✨🙏

Make sure you hit the notification bell for all videos, if not, YT will decide which videos to send to your notifications.

I remember I was pregnant with my first child and had lots of sickness. Had to go on a drive to Watford, where my ex-in laws live and had to pull over and be sick. When I went on a journey to a relatives party a few weeks later, my mum gave me some chewing gum which helped me relax

huh

True

Dislike the gum chewing. Gets on my nerves. Shows disrespect for others. Especially when popping . Otherwise excellent post.

Tip : when somebody is staring at you stare back. I bet you he will turn his gaze to a different area . Either that or he is a serial killer. 😆 😂

My ex used to stare at me , gave me the creeps , but he grew on me like a wart. Now I know why he is my ex.lolz , 😆. Creepy stare haha 😆😆😂.

Great comment! All narcissists don't always yell. Many narcissists are calm and will allow you to loose your cool. Either way, like you said BEWARE. Peace.!

Staying quiet and ignoring will upset someone, attempting to engage in meaningful conversation. Narcissists or Fart-Cissists.😁 (no disrespect my friend)! Wonderful topic and comment you made. Peace!

staying quiet with a narc sets them off. Get out of his/ her way.

It’s like appeasing a volcano. My husband is naturally that way … tho he doesn’t notice it . He’s becoming more of a pussycat lately , the older he gets … it’s not that bad. It takes a lot to piss him off , I try to give him a wide berth when he “ explodes “ … I try to stay calm.

Me too

Don't know about you but these two weeks have seemed like two years to me. 🤔 I'm not an expert though so it must have been only two weeks or it's the "white supremacists" fault for it taking so long. I can't decide until TV god tells me what to think 😞

@@dakoderii4221 >>> Follow the science , Brandon.

No its not. Not at all. This is a video for teenagers.

@@dixieboy5689 Its a video for people ?????