15 RULES of BEING ALONE
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Күн бұрынAll of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone!
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In this Alux.com video we will be answering the following questions:
How to get good at being alone?
How to find success on your own?
How to be successful without anyone's help?
How to deal with being alone?
How to be alone without being lonely?
How to be productive when alone?
How to win at life while being alone?
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00:00 - Intro
00:36 - Your happiness depends on you
01:45 - Your health depends on you
02:41 - Your success depends on you
03:19 - If you’re lonely or not - depends on you
04:13 - You become self-sufficient
07:27 - The gap between mind and reality can be instant
07:59 - You choose where your feet are and what you see when you look out the window
08:50 - Alone is better than a toxic environment
09:46 - There are no scapegoats to blame for anything
10:24 - Your identity is who you decide to be
12:32 - Your work is pure
13:13 - The longer you are alone, the better you get at being alone
14:46 - Find a partner you want to be alone with… but time is ticking
15:40 - Being alone reveals who you want to hang out with
16:33 - Alone is a cage locked from the inside
17:33 - Go fast until you decide to go far
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@Metamorph268 7 ай бұрын
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@Metamorph268 7 ай бұрын
Speed
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@@Metamorph268I had the same issue. I’ve tried from my computer and the link above & with two different email addresses. Any suggestions?
@ramsharma6163 4 ай бұрын
Siblings are also toxic ! You forgot to mention them.
@Steven0040 7 ай бұрын
I'm 59 years old, and I've finally reached the point in my life where I've come to realize and accept that I'm better off alone. The vast majority of people can not be trusted or relied on to do the right thing. At least that has been my experience. Both patents are deceased. Divorced due to infidelity on the other persons part. My Brother and Sister on opposite ends of the country. Loneliness does creep in once and awhile. But at least this way, I only have to depend on myself. I can do as I please. I have more faith in my dog than I do most people. "If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principle difference between a dog and a man". - Mark Twain.
@ankhpom9296 2 ай бұрын
I live alone but am not lonely.
@janeentumbao8690 7 ай бұрын
This here is soooooo much better than church! 😂 I'm almost 50, never married, no kids, left my hometown over 10 years ago to break some vicious cycles. Most of what you said is true. I do whatever is best for me, without asking permission/coordinating schedules and without so many interruptions. I do get to choose who I vibe with vs group think. I do get time to take care of myself without nagging or criticism(that's the best!). I get to only buy stuff I want/need without caring if someone has allergies or hates the color/smell/tastes. I don't have to justify spending money, nor do I have to hide anything. The down side... If I don't do it, it ain't getting done. I am the sole dishwasher. That mess- I know I did it. Pile of laundry won't wash or fold itself. And the being alone with the right guy-YES! Too many women in miserable marriages or have kids that aren't making them as happy as they thought kids would. I'd much rather be miserable by myself than miserable because of a sucky marriage. You even said it. Being with the wrong spouse could make you poor and the right one enriches you. Thank you Alux for my Sunday sermon!❤🎉
@akire628 7 ай бұрын
Amen! I feel like everyone should live alone for at least a year just to get to know themselves. I was so used to hearing other people's opinions and habits that I never got the chance to otherwise
@explorer.samrat 7 ай бұрын
We are in the same boat 🤝🏻
@LifeOdysseyMotivation 7 ай бұрын
Same here.
@attaist 7 ай бұрын
Same
@HectorLavoe-me4or 7 ай бұрын
Same here 47 and now use to be alone
@pay_it_forward_franklin4469 7 ай бұрын
"if it costs your peace of mind; it's too expensive”
@alux 7 ай бұрын
True
@imlv2614 7 ай бұрын
@@aluxYesssss
@asianp1067 7 ай бұрын
Brilliant
@Briscosnowman 7 ай бұрын
Being alone is one of the most underrated superpowers
@perfesser944 7 ай бұрын
100 to being alone. Better alone than with bad company.
@jah-eljohnson377 2 ай бұрын
Better to be in good company than it is to be alone
@Go.Graphic2222 7 ай бұрын
Being alone has helped me do what i want when i want.
@snowman7070 7 ай бұрын
People will always disappoint you. Don't depend on others 2 make you happy. The answers are within you. 👀
@raisa_cherry33 Ай бұрын
Exactly ❤
@blackbaron0 7 ай бұрын
There is a difference to bring lonely and bring alone. The latter can be liberating and allow so much creativity and clear thinking. Wouldn't want to be alone all the time. It is an escape from hustle n bustle and something to make the most of.
@dilshybanu4827 7 ай бұрын
I love to be alone & yes, I do have boring days. And I agree that we need both sides of the coin & thank you Alux for showing me ( or rather us, because there are so many people who prefer to be alone most of the time) the guidelines in deciding choices on the times to be alone & choosing when to have people around : "Act of Creation is superior when done alone in Isolation & Act of Consumption is better when done with People". Thanks Alux for the Guidelines🎉
@bruce7021 7 ай бұрын
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@SophiaBint-wj8wn 7 ай бұрын
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@Max_Jacoby 7 ай бұрын
Speed, although I don't agree loneliness is a cage locked from inside. I can't become talkative, charismatic, charming extravert just because I want it. It's like bodybuilders usually say that genes aren't important it's either you're slacker or not. Hell no! Genes play like 80% of role. No matter how hard you try you're just capped on some level your never be able to overcome because of genes. You never be able to sing like Tarja Turunen or Freddie Mercury unless you have specific genes. You never build your body like Schwarzenegger unless you have specific genes. You never be Einstein unless you have specific genes. You still have to try hard if you have genes, but if you don't have them then trying hard is not enough.
@douglaschester2097 7 ай бұрын
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@AmeliaLiam01 7 ай бұрын
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@lefunkable 7 ай бұрын
I've been Alone for many years and I'm very Grateful Used to it already... I can't imagine to be with someone right now. I'll like to have a partner, but it would be difficult...to have someone to get used to my Habbits. I'm a Dancer-Choreographer/Businessman/Visionare to become a Millionaire...Soon. And sometimes people may not understand you, the way you think about life. There are some points that you have mentioned, that I do frequently...especially exercising. Health is Wealth, Definitely. The last one, if you want to Fast go Alone, but if want to go Far, go Together...I do it with my Team Always, when I work online. Thanks for the video, I appreciate it very much
@1234GOPRO 7 ай бұрын
There are many people who can be lonely in a room full of people. Being alone means I don’t have to give zero fucks, and that makes me happy.
@janetsmith1919 7 ай бұрын
Alone but not lonely. It's a choice!
@thisisme3238 7 ай бұрын
Best thing about being alone....FREEDOM! 👍
@keithb7817 7 ай бұрын
Wow, I definitely needed this video. Currently watching now, I know that this will be a good one.
@alux 7 ай бұрын
We knew you did, so we decided to help!
@sayyer10 7 ай бұрын
I’ve alone for a long, long time. The reason is to pursue my passion. But I lack speed. I am still a work in progress today. Thank you Alux for waking up my senses!
@1life1kitchen 7 ай бұрын
I need to be alone at least 1 hour à day!
@somerandomfella 7 ай бұрын
Being alone has helped me do what I want when I want. The only downside is it becomes lonely.
@stay.in.school. 7 ай бұрын
no crying my friend
@danhattaway3513 7 ай бұрын
Same for me. 🙂
@nkyampz 7 ай бұрын
Meaning it’s good to be alone so we can focus on our goals but not so much that it affects our social connections.
@thekid1597 7 ай бұрын
Not really.
@olly2027 7 ай бұрын
Same.
@evagazso2863 7 ай бұрын
80% alone, 20% people & that's enough for me as I am alone for 25 years now. ❤ love every minute of it.
@lefunkable 7 ай бұрын
I'm very happy for you
@grahamwithinshaw5575 3 ай бұрын
Have fun been alone for ten
@ecn1997 7 ай бұрын
Being alone is better than with a wrong company. #Speed!
@entleza 7 ай бұрын
OMG THAT BACKGROUND MUSIC !! took me back to the olden alux days!! 🎉❤ you're doing the Lord's work!
@alux 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for noticing
@elhar3761 7 ай бұрын
Facts! Be careful who you allow in your life.
@explorer.samrat 7 ай бұрын
I am at my "Ultimate Best" when alone.😇😇
@AvaNick-hs1gh 7 ай бұрын
Really!!! Are you serious about this😂
@AvaNick-hs1gh 7 ай бұрын
I'll love to know you more better dear
@venkatgoud8394 7 ай бұрын
Finally so good value based content 👏, I give 60-70 being alone , rest 40-30, based on value others provide
@jjrikiorikio174 7 ай бұрын
Being alone made me realize I hate my co workers but I pretend to love them to their faces
@daronxoxo 6 ай бұрын
First time listening to one of your videos. As I was listening....thought this would be great to send to my 19yr old son....until your plugs came in. As his attention span, I believe to be short, he will probably cut the video short and not listen to the rest. I will still send to him in hopes he does watch it to the end. I loved the content. Very enlightening but the plugs could have been a separate obvious Ad video. All in all very enlightening!
@studyingfocus 7 ай бұрын
14:47 - It will be hard, but the goal is not only to find someone that accept you as you are and as you want to be and makes you feel confortable enough to act as if you were alone, but also someone who is available, among other things.
@LifeOdysseyMotivation 7 ай бұрын
Speed! Another motivational blast that pushes people to keep going and grinding. Thank you Alux.
@alux 7 ай бұрын
Can you believe it's already been 2 years?!
@LifeOdysseyMotivation 7 ай бұрын
What do you mean it's already been two years? 😀@@alux
@jonathanpimentel177 7 ай бұрын
That’s how fast Alux is moving in 2 hours 😂😂
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bweee! di nga! 😆@@jonathanpimentel177
@alux 7 ай бұрын
You've been subscribed to our channel for 2 years now@@LifeOdysseyMotivation
@axlwinehouse6210 7 ай бұрын
Fantastic timing!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉first view 🎉🎉🎉🎉THANK YOU ALUX for great knowledge..
@alux 7 ай бұрын
Our timing has always been great :D
@63patve 7 ай бұрын
I am complete when I’m alone… do not get me wrong … love company but I don’t mind being alone because I enjoy the company of myself 💥🙋🏼♀️ love me, myself and I ❤
@chrischarles3770 7 ай бұрын
Speed. Loving the content, loving the new update on the app, loving the journey. Appericate you Aluxers.
@alux 7 ай бұрын
We keep building and keep growing Chris. We hope you've been doing the same since the Mind Mastery days
@chrischarles3770 7 ай бұрын
We have. Looking forward to being apart of the 1,000.@@alux
@mathogre 7 ай бұрын
98 points to ALONE, 2 points to PEOPLE. SPEED. Being alone is so powerful.
@Jubee12 7 ай бұрын
Totally agree with you
@eferlinindonesia1910 7 ай бұрын
Good being efficient. One has to learn to be alone and to be able to work with others equally important.
@jodie1997 7 ай бұрын
got TOO good at being alone, at 64 feels more on the lonely side. at this age the man pool has shrunk to a wading pool. most men date down. heed my words young ladies.
@mumbaiactor 7 ай бұрын
Much needed. Came at the right time
@alux 7 ай бұрын
Definitely the right time.
@AvaNick-hs1gh 7 ай бұрын
That's good
@trusno7751 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video Alux, we over here at T.N.E absolutely love you guys! The motivation and inspiration is PRICELESS! "SPEED"........
@Jim-ox5hv 7 ай бұрын
Mucho speed :). Thank U for sharing this information!
@shaheemjackson283 7 ай бұрын
S P E E D ! That secret bonus is a freakin game changer!!! Q.O.T.D: For me, its a 70/30 split with 30 points going towards habging out with others. Im beginning to bs VERY selective with the people I choose to have within my inner circle, and I prefer being alone if they don't fit the criteria.
@Leftists_are_Losers 7 ай бұрын
The worst thing in the world is being alone. The worst thing in the world is being surrounded by people who make you wish you were alone.
@darkvader125 7 ай бұрын
yes i am introvert as as lone wolf i like to be alone 95% of time
@andreeabratis3222 7 ай бұрын
Thank you Alux , forever and always ❤️
@sirvalentefanning 7 ай бұрын
Speed! Thank you Alux for these gems!
@750tripple 7 ай бұрын
The best place to be alone is a cliff face over looking the ocean that is where you will get total mental clarity and you will also feel amazing
@ElectronicsFreakEF 7 ай бұрын
Damn Valuable video in terms of mindset shifting!!
@DopeTheG 7 ай бұрын
Alux, I don't know if you saw my last comment. But the fact that you made this video is awesome. Literally, I requested this video, and I don't know if you got this idea from my comment, but I just want to thank you.
@Jose-ht2lw 7 ай бұрын
Finally a list i can relate to. 😅
@AvaNick-hs1gh 7 ай бұрын
Nice 👍😂
@carterconklin8164 7 ай бұрын
Retirement is like that as well-the three stages. 1/2 would be allotted with people. I have my person and we love being alone-together.
@mysbhyv1707 7 ай бұрын
I am a lone wolf since childhood and was more at peace that way, but . . . family and friends think I'm abnormal and keep dragging me to social gatherings. It was torturous stressful and often times end up in an embarrassing moment. When I'm alone is when I'm more at peace and happy.
@motabhai6530 7 ай бұрын
Thank you Alux for this video❤
@olly2027 7 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this today.
@freecreator6426 7 ай бұрын
Being alone for long time is not good for mental health. So, while enjoying your alone time, remember that you need to be with people too. Just choose the right people for you.
@guitarsandcheesecake1632 7 ай бұрын
Great video. 5 years ago I decided to be on my own. I moved to the next town. Closer to work. Bought a cheap property and made new friend's at the local gym. I've taught myself all about money and investing, as I'm mortgage free. So have spare money. I've never been happier. I should have done it years ago!!........."speed"!!!
@clementifangblog8583 7 ай бұрын
Be alone is a best way to get there first,. SPEED is the only language, thanks so much my college for this special One, be alone is a major change in life..
@umairdost1010 7 ай бұрын
Make a dedicated video on techniques and tactics of persuasion❤❤❤❤
@kennethgardner3090 7 ай бұрын
Our of a hundred points? That is a very good question. I lived alone for fifteen years, and gave it up and got married. Big mistake. I felt more lonely in my bad marriage for 31 years. Now I've given up everything. I'm homeless in some ways now. But I live on the road with my dog, and I am happy.
@MarieTMa 7 ай бұрын
Being full SPEED alone have thought me that Happiness is like a favorite meal. You get to cook it whenever you feel like it, but only if you have the ingredients at reach. Or you order it if you can. Either way, it's all up to YOU! 55 Pts alone / 45 pts with family
@mrsodolo 7 ай бұрын
Check the user name, being alone is a lifestyle I embraced 20yrs ago and love everything about it🙌
@lefunkable 7 ай бұрын
Definitely
@derekseven1647 7 ай бұрын
Great video and great information this is why I subscribe to you guys.
@HenryEfeiam_topnotch08 7 ай бұрын
I'd rather be alone 8/10 times, just meditating and reminscing about my goals. Being alone is different from being lonely, some people don't know this. SPEED
@back2zion948 7 ай бұрын
70pts belonging alone.. 30 around people.
@raisa_cherry33 Ай бұрын
I much much prefer being alone but unfortunately the society i live in feels like “aloneness” is problematic hence should get married. Not saying,marriage is bad but it’s never a one-stop solution.I am forced to think of marriage coz my parents are getting old and that there’s no one to look after me. Sadly the conservative society sees marriage as the only way to live a fulfilling life,while that’s true but as mentioned in the video about“toxic environment”.Then a committed relationship is meaningless if it cannot add value to my life. I am struggling miserably to get the right man,marriage proposals are rolling in but majority of them are failing to live up to my expectations.
@imlv2614 7 ай бұрын
Alux, your videos are gold❤
@alux 7 ай бұрын
Only for those who can distinguish solid gold from gold plated
@user-jt5he4bu2y 7 ай бұрын
I can't wait for the new course how long
@alux 7 ай бұрын
2 weeks to launch 🚀
@user-ig5mf3yo3y 7 ай бұрын
SPEED. Finally, a shout out to lone wolves from Alux. individual excellence and self sustainability is just as important as knowing how to be a team player. Thanks alux
@ShaKing_037 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the content ❤️❤️❤️
@robins3206 7 ай бұрын
If I had 100 points to divide up 95 would go to being alone and 5 would go to being around people
@timesmond75 2 ай бұрын
The price of being alone is loneliness, then when you try to meet someone, it pulls you back
@jasoncromwell4206 7 ай бұрын
SPEED!!!!! I'm a proud ALUXer. I'm very careful about how I use my time and voice, but I believe in the mission of this Channel. It has changed my life in so many ways. Keep up the amzing work.
@aaronaustrie 7 ай бұрын
Well said Alux💯
@blubberbun 7 ай бұрын
Ive learned that many people were using me and then dissapearing from my life.
@Naturenerd1000 7 ай бұрын
Its all good untill loneliness catches up to you where everyou go. You cannot escape it.
@m.showers1242 7 ай бұрын
You win when you conquer loneliness. One way is to expand your world through travel - next town, next state, next country.
@jimmyburnett2245 7 ай бұрын
Great video...I understand it as well! I am in a relationship ( if you want to call it ) basically just 2 people living under the same roof! Back in September I took a short gig and went to Kansas for a month to work the Fall Harvest and left there in October...went next door to Colorado for a couple of days and then headed back to Texas...I was free for a month and loved it..I will be changing addresses in 2024! 🤠😎
@DopeTheG 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this.
@arunakamath1371 7 ай бұрын
I enjoy being alone.
@aaronaustrie 7 ай бұрын
I agree 100% with this video!!
@kotabutico 7 ай бұрын
Be alone is the best company that i have. I love it!
@carylederoche1913 17 күн бұрын
75 alone and the 25 with the person that i want to be alone with.
@Prodigychild1977 7 ай бұрын
Finally Alux is going at Modern Woman Idealogy. Thank you.
@SP-xw3et 7 ай бұрын
This is so true, Had the opportunity to experiment on this by coincidence for like 3yrs & can confirm it's so powerful since i was listening more than saying. It's so peaceful & now i hate staying with a roommate even if it's my own brother 😁
@Chris-pt1bl 7 ай бұрын
Speed this episode 💯 hit the nail on the head
@rajlandicho 7 ай бұрын
SPEED May this serve as a guiding light as you move forward in your life.
@raymondtendau2749 7 ай бұрын
The more you pursue feeling happy all the time, the less satisfied you will become as pursuing something only re enforces the fact that, you lack it in the first place. -Allan Watts The Backwards Law. If pursuing the positive in itself is negative, then accepting the negative generates the positive.
@raisa_cherry33 Ай бұрын
Thanks Alux,i need this kind of motivational video ❤
@user-mj8gm8jv4l 6 ай бұрын
Practically I'm alone in my hurdles in life, but I find happiness with kids. 😊
@deanacarroll8804 7 ай бұрын
SPEED!! I am ready to take action!! This is the beginning of the rest of my life!! I am ready to change my mindset and take consistent steps!! Thank you for another great video!
@eferlinindonesia1910 7 ай бұрын
Would love to be with someone whom I love. If not, rather be alone.
@colinchandler6516 7 ай бұрын
thanks great video
@certifiedqueen 7 ай бұрын
Power truths!!🎉
@remigijusr7014 6 ай бұрын
Stuck great question just I lucked for new ways
@catroirenee6519 7 ай бұрын
SPEED SPEED SPEED So helpful!! Thank you team Alux!!! X
@guidoschaarschmidt8770 11 күн бұрын
Read the Dokodo, the Way of walking alone, Miamoto Mussashi, 16 Century , Japan, Principles and Philosophie, sorry for my bad english, it isnt my motherlanguage
@Metamorph268 7 ай бұрын
I have been single for a mighty long time. Open and receptive to clarity.
@erickriebel4366 7 ай бұрын
Being alone is a lifestyle choice being lonely is a state of mind keep yourself active keep busy that doesn't mean you don't do things with other people that just means that you rely on yourself and when you go to bed you are alone when you wake up you are alone but you should be active enough to be very very happy the word I like to say I have peace of mind and I have peace in my life I'm not in the middle of a chaotic mess
@joyblevins8712 7 ай бұрын
I'm never lonely I like being alone
@enjoyslearningandtravel7957 7 ай бұрын
One of their points is that , reading is a bit of a boring activity for most people!!!! For me, it’s a wonderful hobby!!!!!!
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