That's great

Why did you broke up?

hey love, i can understand that. your emotions right now is all over the place and that is ok. If writing all down doesn't help, make a list. For instance, you feel sad because you got period, mad because the electricity went away, crying a lot because you are feeling lonely, but felt also good because after giving food to that homeless, that aunt and his kid just smiled. little sentences and not everything ok? One step at a time.

@@insiya4561 you are absolutely right about periods 😭These days I’m feeling emotions which I never felt in my life. I’m hoping that it will get better with time. My therapist said the same thing: one step at a time. Thanks for understanding my situation 💕

@@GSa9926 no worries, my dear. if i say your mind is a bucket and even if you do not feel emotions right now, other things like stress or whatever else can be added, their taps are on heavy flow and hence your bucket is getting heavy. as one step at a time is said, similarly take one drop at a time. or take one mug full at a time then. but will be worth for you. do some deep breath works. try working on things what makes you happy. watch some comedies. show some love on your food and enjoy, if more to enjoy give your neighbor or a needy. pick up some trash and clean the space. make your room tidy, if you feel to. taking all this one step wise, and not doing all in once. take care ❤️

Thank God its not just me. I was actually starting to clean my ears 😂

Yes

@@olivamodak1724 but dude intro & outro was well balanced na!

@@olivamodak1724 same here i thought my right ear phone damaged. 😂😂

Thank god. I thought I was the only one...I even changed my earphone...

Stand up for yourself! That's a major red flag. If he really loved you, he wouldn't try to change you or put restrictions on you like that.

Tell him that you're comfortable in those 👗dresses... And tell him that you don't like to be controlled ... And it's totally your decision that what to wear and what not to wear... Tell your boyfriend that... I like to wear those dresses because I want to look good ..i want to be more confident... I am not wearing shorts to seduce people around me... So, if any part of my body ..is visible. it doesn't mean that i want to make people uncomfortable around me. They need to change their mind, they have to learn how to behave... I am not the reason for their misunderstandings...

This is the starting point of toxicity in your relationship. Just say that you love wearing shorts and you don't like any people telling you what to do and what not to, see how he reacts, if he understands you then you may continue the relationship and if he behaves aggressively or in a way which you didn't like, please break up.

Depends where n when u r wearing shorts..if its somewhere unsafe where u might b getting unwanted attention of creepers or maybe in front of his fam or relatives,etc then he might be protective..but if he restricts u everywhere to wear shorts then thats toxic

@@anisharamteke3307 victim blaming at its best

Accepting ur mistake..... ☀️☀️☀️☀️Great

thats good u realized hope for a healthier relationship next time

@@ASH-bb4sg now I am married to same guy . 🥰💞

@@khushbooverma1570 congrats , u worked it out

@@ASH-bb4sg yes 🥰

Thanks 😊

Yea!!! I thought my earphones is not working.

Dear let it go...if he don't care about your own identity then in future he will restrict you in many ways.

Have u guys discussed the issue thoroughly, this Disaggrement might be arising from some big differences in the way of thinking(quite probably), or it might be bcz of some trivial reasons. Those reasons need to be clear

You keep both surnames. Both of you would be happy at end of the day.

See if there is a bigger issue here that’s making him take this so seriously. If not, let him know that this is not going to work. It’s not just about the surname anymore, it’s about knowing that you have the right to chose your own identity and your name is where it all starts. If he can’t handle this, he can’t handle your identity either. Let go.

@@SmileWithPrachi you are broad minded for girls but old fashioned for boys. Didn't expect this kind of suggestion from you

I understand , u had a good long relationship . u both are just wanting more intimacy , u both should keep talking and not loose interest. and start doing other things together , like something online playing together or find some common hobby. listen to songs together on discord or anything. its normal , and everybody get through a phase of insufficient intimacy , just try to give each other more time and hae little more trust at these times and communicate more softly. I hope ur love has already changed its state and u both have become open and comfortable with each other enough that there is more than physical between u two. I hope u somehow get more time with him/her lockdown made people pretty lonely and depressed. her mother lost her job which may be impacting her , maybe her mom is getting more angry than usual which is impacting her . at the end of the day keep reminding each other that u still want each other . and try to meet as everything gets over .

Try from a different device. The same thing happened with me

Communication is the key. Talk to him regarding this matter,if he is shy or not expressing love you may try to make the first move. He is giving importance to others not you is cause of concern. Ensure whether you are also giving time to him and try to find middle ground after fights.

@@ronaksingh9460 really thanks for your reply. I tried to sort it out, but during the conversation he just started fighting. He is not accepting. My main concern is he doesn't know what equality means he wants a control over me and he wants my unconditional love but he doesn't know how to return it. I don't have any frds as a frd I am sharing these things with u.

@@abbiraminarmadha9891 Is he smaller than you or of same age because boys tend to be mature at late(mostly). As per your reply it is a reverse case where you are giving unconditional love, respect etc not him,it is generally women who love to seek attention, pampering etc. Remember fix the issue as early as possible because it is a very small issue and dragging it can cause serious harm. 3 years of relationship is not a joke where both parties are invested emotionally,physically,mentally etc.Make sure he is not cheating on you or trying to avoid you or who knows he might be facing some family issues and all. Evaluate all these circumstances and move ahead. Otherwise rest everything is all right with him and you are comfortable with him then solve such small(but crucial) issues early.

@@ronaksingh9460 we are in same age. Your correct only he still needs time to be mature I suppose. I love to seek attention and pampering but he don't know how to do that. And I Know he is not cheating me but he is saying if u want to breakup u can do I will not ask you to stay. This seems hard for me. He is calm person to everyone but to me he is getting angry and handle me hardly. We have different perspectives in many things for him he will not change his behavior.

@@abbiraminarmadha9891 I can only pray for your bright and happy future. Remaining issues have to solved by you and your partner. All the best...

Yes Good point. I guess there are exceptions to this rule. :)

yes, in some ways but she mostly gave signs towards a partner.

@@insiya4561 ok thank you !!!

is it bcz of periods ?

What type of problem in your relationship?

@@shachitripathi4350 misunderstanding

Which type of misunderstanding do u have in your relationship