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True love is hard to find but when you do it hits hard and there’s nothing like it. I fell in love with my wife but didn’t realize it for six months well we were at a wedding and had a argument and I left and went home. I went to bed and couldn’t get to sleep. After four hours I realized how much I really loved her and went to her house and told her I was wrong and how much I loved her. We been married now for 46 years.

The biggest misconception is that love is a feeling. It isn't. In fact, love is an act of will. Love is when you will still cook your man dinner and bring him a plate even when you're mad at him. Love is when you'll change the oil in your girl's car even after she said something mean or stupid that made you mad. I would argue that if you base love on a feeling, given how fickle and fluctuating feelings are, then you will always be doomed. Because, if your love i based on a feeling, then every time a moment comes where you don't feel a certain way, then in that moment you don't love that person. That isn't real love. Love is the willful commitment to someone regardless of how you feel.

Basically, she'll confuse the crap out of you!!! 🤪🤪 🤣🤣🤣

Today's relationships are not what they were. Few actually know what a long term relationship is.

A man can buy a woman flowers, candy, sexy lingerie, take her out to dinner and movie, and she still be like "I don't know if he likes me" even though we aren't being subtle but she expects us to outright tell her. Well check this ladies, despite you telling us your deepest darkest secrets and turning into a complete giddy ditz around us, we still gonna be like "I don't know if she like me" until you outright say it.

It is a bit frustrating, fear, shows you are emotionally immature, and this can negatively impact a relationship if you both end up having one. Romance takes choice, choice often takes courage and determination. Can't tell you how many times I have dated women who are too emotionally broken to date.

There's another type of love that far surpasses mere feelings. It's an unconditional love and most people crave it. That kind of love transcends all others and results in a true trust that frees one up to be completely honest at any time and never fear of losing that love.

Another sign, from severely broken women is they clam up and rebel against their own heart

When she starts saying “we” when making future plans, she’s already thinking as a couple, not as a single.

A friend and I became really close after 2 years of knowing each other to the point we shared secrets with each other. One night I opened up and told her about my feelings and she told me she had too much baggage to get into a relationship and felt she didn't deserve anyone. She said nothing would change and we'd still be friends and I took that hard but accepted it. She closed up for a day or two after but then things seemed to be back to normal. However in a month things did change, she wasn't as open with me anymore, we texted less and didn't hang out as much. We started to grow apart and then the texts just stopped. That was 3 years ago and we haven't talked since...

Hi Anna, you know I think we're all a bit scared, love is so much fun, I refuse to give up! I hope you dance!! The dance of love is a furious force! Also the most calming affect!

Its really nice when you have a female that cares about you it means she wants too be there for you matter what happens in your life its so cut and powerful too have someone around

Sometimes you gotta break her heart to trigger that scandal she's hiding

I understand it. It's hard to show feelings for another person

Anna - you're very wise for a person your age. I enjoy your videos immensely. Take care and good luck!

This is my current crush/future gf exactly. We will be together by Christmas or New Years🤔🙌

Your hair looks fantastic in this video....thanks for the vid

Lot of those points are hitting my current relationship thing I'm in...

Fascinating concepts ! Thank you

I’m experiencing the self sabotaging stage now 🤦🏿‍♂️ thanks for your video

Wow everything you said I'm going through it at the moment. Thank you, this video was very helpful.😊

Message to men and woman... if you like someone just tell them... If they don't like you then no big deal. What have we become it's insanity.

This is so sweet. Love the video

If she is scared, no matter why, how or when, she does NOT love.

in-depth analysis!

Shes like yoda on the love boat! Search your feelings, feel the POWERRRRRR of the luuuuuuuve force! 😍

That magical L word gave me H word. H- Heartbreak 💔

Faith over fear

Your hair is looking stunning in this video!

Really good. Thank you !

Thank you i really appreciate and like this one

How about a video explaining the subtle (or not so subtle) differences between terms like “dating”, “in a relationship”, “seeing each other”, etc. For example, does one term imply a sexual relationship while another term implies no sexual engagement?

Thanks for the amazing lesson have a magical day ❤

I'VE SUBSCRIBED!!!

Yeah, I had that and she was still just a friend. She saw me just as a friend.

A female friend who I haven't seen in a long time came to visit & commented on my eyes saying I have beautiful eyes of course had I known then what I know now I wouldn't of quoted my favorite show & commented something nice back to her she also enjoyed that I wore a shirt she got me for my birthday last year made her happy

This really helps to understand.Thank you

VERY HELPFULL. WHO KNEW. ?

Wakey wakey 👌🏻Nice ice u're

but a word of caution "change is the only constant"

Why scared? You give love u will recieve love

I see love, I run 🏃🏾‍♂️

Sometimes it is simply a crush 😍, you should leave it at that.

What gets me is all the mix messages I seem to get. Example is I will respect a situation so will inquire in a certain way so as not to make a scene at her work. She says no on one thing so I just think to myself ok I got a answer so all good. Then two minutes later I get told that I was kind in how I asked my question then proceeded to ask me what I was doing rest of day. I just shook my head and was like what the heck lol

If a girl is very nervous, it may be how he speaks or interact with people and she doesn't want to get hurt by him. In this way she is giving him space as she pull off and see if the guy like her too then he has to help her open up the conversation so the fear will reduce andshe will feel confident. But if the guy is reacting somrhow that means he has one kind of intention over her. It's not that she doesn't like him but she doesn't want to regret speaking to him.

Honestly, I'm just here for your voice. I know she's not into me much (she's an ex who texted me and got me hooked again instantly), but maybe... I dunno. I'd love to see her at least. See someone after so long.

Hello! I'm in couple but the the interaction between woman and men still fascinating me. Thank you so much for helping me learning more. And yes you're very cute!

Great video

Awesome ❤thanks

I've watched a number of different clips by various uploaders from both the woman's and men's point of view for the fun of it and to get an insight into how young people view this subject and how they are interacting with today's world I've studied people, psychology and psychotherapy all of my 70 years on the planet and your clip has the hallmarks of good information done from quite a logical aspect without any hype To me the most important sign a person who really cares about you will show you is respect That doesn't mean being weak and as a matter of fact it requires strength to show respect but it does seem to be something that people in general are missing these days A well produced and presented clip

This vid certainly gives me hope!!

I don't know anyone let alone talk to anyone that being said if so she is scared I'm scared as well. Talking to eachother works everything out

The relationship paradigm has shifted from a traditional model to finding relationships that support your soul growth. People are evolving at a significant rate and it’s beginning to make more sense to opt out of relationships until you are aware of and connected to the authentic self within, not the self that is composed of mental constructs that give you an identity.

I have a friend who acts like this, but her work is complicated. She works for the State Department. I didn't realize how I felt about her until almost was too late. Now she's overseas for a year.

I have a friend (probably my best friend) that I've known for 4 years, and recently, she's been giving off most of, if not all of these signs.

Thank you Love.

Hehe I got all the signs to a girl. This means that I am scared that I starting to love her and afraid? It totally may be.

"You bump into her". I don't know if I like the idea of being stalked!

This is a really good look for you Anna. I like it a lot. Have a wonderful day thank you bye.

Love and fear cannot abide together. Either you ARE love or you operate from fear. This is why it’s so difficult for me to date a women because the woman gets scared of the feelings and is afraid of losing me. This is not love coming from her. Love is not a feeling but who you truly are

🖤⚡Is anyone else "HYPNOTIZED" by Anna!!!⚡🖤

Sign # 1 " I can change Him " # 2 Bailed Him out AGAIN !

We had a hilarious first day! She signed off the dm with "Sleep with the angels." Then we were supposed to meet up and she ghosted me. I asked to meet her again, she was busy. Then I figured she wanted me to go away but I wanted a direct answer. She wrote..."Our meeting was a fluke." I wrote back...I will accept a "fluke' and I will not bother you again . Take care! Mark All gone!

This was a good video and I get where you’re coming from but there is one issue worth mentioning. At the beginning you give a definition for the word Love: “The meaning of the word Love is an intense feeling of affection for someone” I feel that many people have problems in relationships because they are misled and thus don’t really have the proper definition of love. When one’s understanding of love is that love is a “feeling” it’s also easy to believe that love is gone once it no longer feels the same, and then to act on that by giving up on the relationship assuming love has gone. If people believe that they will be inclined to bail rather than do the necessary things to rekindle those feelings through actually living out what true love is, if that makes sense. There is a huge difference between “falling in love” and real love. When people speak of “falling in love” they knowingly or not speak of a self-centered thing. A feeling of pleasure, the desire for gratification and feeling the gamut of chemical-induced reactions and emotions that accompany becoming addicted to someone new is not really love, those are things mistakenly called love. We all know inwardly, or should know anyway, what this really is- desire- but to make it sound respectable people come up with terms like “falling in love.” Such feelings can begin to happen immediately upon meeting someone and there is no guarantee that these feelings are going to last or that they represent any greater truth. “Falling in love” (feeling desire) has nothing to do with what love actually is. The term is greatly misleading. People don’t want to seem thirsty so instead they choose “love” as a cute substitute word for desire. It sounds higher and better to tell someone you love them than it does to say that you desire them. But desire and loving the time one spends with someone is not the same thing as actually loving someone. That definition is all wrong. On the other hand actual love when shown has true substance beyond any emotions or feelings. Over time the accumulation of benefits given and the weight of true acts of love give proof of the existence of love. Love is a verb, it is an action word. One cannot without lying claim to love someone or to have loved someone unless or until that has been proven over a period of time and consistently. Love (not the feelings that people call love, just love by its correct definition) can only be confirmed following action and can only be revealed and proven with hindsight. Love is the opposite of self-centered feelings. It involves placing the well-being of another over one’s own feelings. Love is something sacrificial (not in a religious sense, rather it involves the actual sacrifice of self-will in the caring and providing for another) and results in tangible, materialized and infinitely valuable benefits to the other person. Sure one can promise to another to truly love them- but whether that promised love is true can only be determined through the unfolding of time as love is given and tangible benefits are produced. Someone just meeting another person or only just entering into a relationship with not yet having had any opportunity to live out a life displaying actual love on a day-to-day basis can not truthfully say to that other person, yet, that they love them without it being untruthful. And yet people say, “I love you” all the time to someone they’ve just met. Well no, sorry, you don’t and haven’t loved them yet. What such people are really saying is, “I desire you and gosh I really like how I feel when I’m around you!” If two people feel desire, tell each other they love each other but then only proceed to gratify their feelings and never give true, sacrificial love to one another that relationship will run out of steam fast because all they’ve done was cater to self-gratification. When the initial romantic feelings lessen as they inevitably will there’s no solid foundation underneath for that relationship to stand upon. People end up “disappointed in love” or feeling that “there’s no such thing.” And that’s the issue I have with the vast majority of dating advice videos. They perpetuate the teaching and leading people to believe that their own feelings are love and that the techniques to connect with someone for self-gratification are proper ways to show love. It really does matter what definitions we use. If we wish for and pursue real things and if we want those real things to last it’s important that we not confuse how to obtain something real with how to obtain fleeting gratification. It’s important that we not confuse our first steps toward something real with the thing which is real itself. Everyone wants true, real love. It’s not easy to come by. But it’s easy for a content creator to promise a path to Love and instead give people easy, workable tips on how to achieve mere self-gratification (sex) and pass such methods off as the way to actually get Love. That’s disingenuous. Sure, it’s theoretically possible that a tinder hookup might result in love, one never knows! But if I put out a video on ‘how to find love’ and the content was basically ‘how to swipe left and hook up’ that wouldn’t be honest. My vid should be called ‘How to hook up’ so as not to mislead and waste the time of a person looking for info on love rather than info on easy hook-ups. There’s a difference between meeting a person and keeping them. The majority of dating advice videos focus only on meeting someone. There are endless videos on that but very few on how to love and keep someone long term avoiding break-ups and divorce. Videos which claim to be about love should actually be about love, not about how to satisfy one’s own desires for sex, imho. Finding and keeping true love is a lot harder to do and much more important than simply knowing how to strike up a conversation, establish a connection and determine whether the other person wants to get laid. Not that that’s not good info to know but labeling feelings and desires ‘Love’ is to confuse the definition of something lasting and real with that of something temporary. That encourages people to unwittingly lie to one another and to mistake the result they get as a shot at the ‘real deal’ when in fact it’s anything but, and when these temporary ‘relationships’ quickly dissolve it reinforces the idea that true Love doesn’t exist, only passing pleasures. In turn people get disillusioned; just read the comments section under any of these vids and you’ll find disappointed people who have come to believe there is no such thing as true love because heck even the “experts” don’t know!

Good video

I quite liked a woman at work, probably about 10 years older than me. We seemed to have chemistry, staring into each others eyes long after we finished talking and couldn’t help but simile. It seemed like there was tension there too at times if we didn’t talk, almost as if we weren’t purposefully talking to each other because we wanted to other one to say something first. I also got the feeling that she didn’t like me talking to this other woman that she didn’t get along with, as if I didn’t want to talk to her, when in fact the opportunity was true. I would catch her staring at me from across the room, I would just look back. If one of us was walking past we would stare in each others eyes for a while and smile. Just recently she seemed to up the ante, one day she just stared at me like she was in love, she seemed a bit more nervous around the whole staring and smiling thing. That’s when I think I fell in love. Who knows? Maybe she just liked staring at people, how do I know she wasn’t just trying to manipulate me? She’s an immigrant and maybe that sort of intensity is normal where she is from. Sometimes I think she may have liked my friend more though, he would make her laugh more whereas I would be a bit more serious. Although it didn’t seem like he had the same connection with her as I did, she would bring him books and find excuses to talk to him. Maybe she just found me attractive and wasn’t into my personality as much. I’d never been in a situation where I was doing this intense flirting thing with a woman I really liked. I don’t think anyone else saw what was going on though, so it’s pretty much ignored if I bring it up. My friend would say she would outrageously flirt with him. Here’s the main thing though, she’s married. So, is she just playing games and wants the attention? When I didn’t speak to her for a whole day she started to cry. Was this because she wasn’t getting that daily validation or that she actually liked me? I really liked her, I couldn’t wait to see her everyday. I would imagine being in a relationship with her and generally just being loving. She, on the other hand, may not have really cared at all. Now it’s all I can think about and I’m not sure if I’ll ever see her again.

Wow, a good look.

Was in a situation with a female best friend. We had chemistry and of course I fell in love with her. She was absolutely beautiful and amazing in every sense. Of course I told her more than once how I felt about her and never got the same back in return. She’s all I think about even until now and it’s been quite hard to move on knowing I don’t have a choice. It’s crazy cause even now kno matter who I’m with or what I’m doing I’m dropping everything to b with her. I knew something was there and I think she did too and it was so powerful never felt anything like it. Don’t think I will ever love anyone as much as her. I still love u McGrath and always will!!

Better Early than late 😌 👌

Someone who play games are either imature, toxic af (because this makes them feel empowered by toying with you) or they like your attention but not you. Someone who is serios don't play games. They like you and make this very clear.

Cool video

You have a great voice

Feels like watching a big sister giving advice and I find my self liking it and noting it down

People in general are vulnerable around me, so that sign doesnt really mean much. I'm not trying to sound cocky or anything, its just a weird thing that very often happens with me :0

I Got One Sign!! "Her Friends Know About" Me

Thanks God bless , cool cat dan

This hairstyle suits you much better.

I’ve never had anyone do this around me or too me.

In my 25 years of living as NGSB, I never notice any of these to my woman friends. Lol No wonder why I gave up hope 2 years ago.

She's scared to lose you is about right that's my problem I new it I thought so

Nah, men are taught to have confidence and go after what they want. Now it’s the woman’s turn to show the man that she has confidence and go after me. For me, it’s “me” until the girl proves to me it should be “we”

Anna and her hair 🔥🔥🔥🔥

A girl saying that she likes the way you're dressed isn't really flirting, that's just her being nice

i just hope my crush see's this n understand i like him more than anything in world

just spit it out Anna i know how you feel i love me 😂😂😂👍

Love doesn’t = affection. Love = sacrifice

OVE YOUR WISDOM AND YOU HAIR, YOU LOOK MARVELOUS, HAVE A GREAT DAY

Trust me Joyanima, no girl ever loved me. I was a creepy bad guy with lustful intentions. No not on a conscious level, but I learned later in life that I am addicted to lust! I never dated or loved/ was loved by anyone ever.

As an INFJ i just needed to compare my theories xD

You are so super sweet and nice, Anna. I love your cheeriness.

Well almost all the signs you talk about are in my girlfriend but I never understand her girls are so complicated sometimes and deceiving. However my girlfriend always nervous and shy around me and she apologies quite a lot. she text me a lot everyday.

She flirts in front of others. My friend told me that she is crazy in love or something for me!

Yes I Know♥️👍

YES, I BEEN IN LOVE💌🥀🥀🔥🙌💋💋💌🥀🔥🥀🥀🥀🔥🔥🥀🔥🥀🔥🤔🎧🎶🎧🎶🎼😎🔥😎😎😎

I still make mixtapes in the form of KZfaq playlists haha

I'm just watching this to see if any girl likes me so far none of these things are happening to me😂😂

I got one she loves you but is worried about committing because she might miss out on someone better

with my luck I always meet or know or even work with women interested in me but they never express their feelings about me to me, nor communicate openly, nor read my mind, always sending the wrong signals, not going all the way, not finishing what they started, always being shy with me and very flirtatious with other guys, always quiet with me and very talkative with many other guys, always being an introvert only with me, but always showing openly to me that she is not shy with other guys and being an extrovert with them. I take it like a put down that she/them is'/are not interested in me at all, and all she is./they are only teasing me, playing hard to get, mind games, making me jealous etc, etc So I always pull away I dont like to play games. Either you are into me are you are not. Go play games with the other guys. For me when women do that, talk to other guys and have many male friends means that I am a third wheel, she/they treat me as an option and not a priority and that they are promiscuous

Nice👍topic