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True story -- my INTP husband proposed with a PowerPoint presentation. How appropriate.

I’m an INFJ engaged to an INTJ and he didn’t even beat around the bush from the beginning of our relationship. He said “look I’m tired of things falling apart on me so if you want to date then you need to decide if marriage is what you want first” As an INFJ I was so relieved I cried

I knew he'd pull that hypothetical proposal when it came to INFJ, we just can't catch a break from living out our ideal futures in our minds, can we.

INFPs have the whole proposal script already prepared. But then awkwardness gets them and they make it weird af. And go on saying something to make it less weird which is actually weirder. And the chain continues until they realise it.

I love INFJ practicing proposing, that IS something they'd totally do, since they're crazy planners!

INTJ proposing was hilarious! My husband is an INTJ and when he proposed he literally walked up, got down on one knee and with a ring said "I really need you to take this for me." At that point we had been planning our wedding for 2 months already.😂😂

0:01 ESFJ 0:22 ESTJ 0:31 ESTP 0:56 ENFJ 1:04 ESFP 1:32 ENTJ 1:52 ISFJ 2:26 ENTP 2:36 ISTP 2:48 ENFP 3:00 ISFP 3:10 INTJ 3:33 ISTJ 3:47 INFP 4:10 INTP 4:35 INFJ

My husband is an ISTJ. He proposed and then apologized, because he felt it was lacking. 😆 Him: “Will…you…marry me? I’m sorry, I wanted to say more, but my mind went blank. That was all I could get out.”

INTJ woman here. I told INFP boyfriend the exact parameters of when he could propose to me six months in advance because I could tell by his flushed and nervous behavior that he had bought a ring. He agreed and when he achieved the necessary steps (had some financial things to work out), he sang me a song from Moulin Rouge at sunset next to a waterfall complete with backing track and pulled out the ring. Win / win.

Not gonna lie, INFJ got us in the first half. I was really happy for him and at the same time I was also surprised for his courage and well-articulated expressions.

My INTP husband (finally) proposed on the beach at sunset. He suddenly dropped to one knee and handed me a piece of printer paper. At the top in small writing : "I could say many reasons why I love you..." All the way at the bottom: "Will you marry me?" My ENFJ self was wanting to see all the reasons filling the huge blank area in between. I had a laughing attack and said "yes." I enjoy how smoothly INTPs can articulate theories and strategies yet how awkwardly they convey personal feelings (I've learned to interpret subtle eyebrow movements as romantic gestures). Loved the video, FJ, especially the INFJ!!

Wife and I are both INTJs and our proposal discussion went something like this: Me: Will you marry me (done in private at our home) Her: Both of our families are insane. Can we elope and remove them from the equation? Me: I think I love you even more now. Her: Awesome; let’s go. 15 years later and we’re still going strong!

That INFJ man did a perfect rehearsal, but when he find that lady (qualified candidate) he might be running away 🤭

I'm and INTJ married to an ISTJ for 28 years. Here's how it went down: First 4 months of dating: I made sure we covered lifestyle, financial views, religious/philosophical views, and childrearing views in our conversations-he was fine with that. When it was clear we were compatible he proposed. Him (ISTJ): I want to marry you. Me (INTJ): I want that too. Him (ISTJ): Then we should do that. Me (INTJ): OK Him (ISTJ): I'll take you ring shopping this weekend. I don't know what you like and I really want you to like it. Me (INTJ): OK It was the perfect proposal for us. And I picked out exactly the ring I liked. He was surprised it cost less than he expected. I was EXACTLY the INTJ bride FJ's 16 Personalities as Brides portrays 6 months after we started dating. Not only did I do it my way as a small intimate affair, we (everyone including parents involved) had no debt from it, came in under budget, and hubs and I made a tidy profit from financial gifts. A year later on our anniversary: Him (ISTJ): So you had a pros and cons list for marrying me and you checked off items one at a time while we were dating, didn't you? Me (INTJ): Of course, but it wasn't a physical list; it was in my head.

I am an ENFP female, married to an INTJ male. Can attest to the accuracy of this skit. “So, you’ve been the best girlfriend ever, I think you will be the best wife ever. Will you marry me?”

My fiance just proposed last month. He's an INFP and yes, it was hilariously awkward and I wouldn't have wanted it any other way. As an INFJ, I already had the majority of the wedding planning done before he proposed, and yes, I did ask for a sustainable diamond :)

My husband, an ISTP, had a file called 'DER' (Diamond Engagement Ring) that he kept for months before he proposed. It housed all of the research he was doing to buy the perfect ring.

I'm an INTJ & I have this running joke with my partner [INTP] that, whenever something noteworthy happens, it's because I meticulously orchestrated the circumstances of his life from behind the scenes so that he would meet me & I could set up everything to lead to that exact moment. His reaction is always hilarious, especially if it's particularly mundane & absurd. 😂🤣

INFP here. I told my partner in advance that I’d buy a set of rings as a Valentine’s Day gift. Comes the day, I propose, I’m rejected, and can play it off as being a dramatic way to hand out the rings. We keep wearing the matching set for 6 months until I can’t keep the pain in anymore and admit that it was a legit proposing. 10/10 for accuracy, don’t recommend anyone proposes like that ever

As an INFP whose wedding anniversary is April 1st, I feel so called out. We'd been engaged for 7 months and had applied for the license in March. Woke up on April Fool's and said, "Hey, do you want to elope today? Nobody will believe us. Haha, just kidding! Unless?" The courthouse clerk even asked us if we were joking. Been married for almost 9 years.

I'm an INFJ, and I actually accidentally ended up proposing to my husband without even realizing it. 🤔 He kept dropping hints so I was trying to let him know that it was safe to ask me... Yeah, that didn't come out right... I think I should have rehearsed the interaction a few more times in my head first. 😅 As the girl, I had never once practiced giving a proposal. Clearly that was an oversight! I totally didn't even realize he had taken it as a proposal until several days later. We were long distance (like literally "long-distance" back when it cost a lot of money to call someone who lived an hour away, and we only saw each other on the weekends) at the time and when we talked on the phone later the next week, he said he was so excited and he had told his parents and they were excited and I was literally like, "told them what?" I was completely confused. He goes, "umm, that were engaged..." I mean, I guess the results were the same and it was going to be way too awkward to correct, so I just went along with it. But, if I was going to propose, I would have done something seriously romantic. It wouldn't have just been in a random conversation. Instead, I was apparently engaged for nearly a week and didn't even know it... 🙄 (He's ISFP, if you're wondering) UPDATE: Scroll down to the 8th comment to get the details... (because several of you asked)

How I proposed... My wife and I were getting ready for the evening, getting changed in our bedroom out of our work clothes and into something nicer. I was sitting on the bed and I just looked at her and said "So, I was thinking...if you don't have any plans for the next 65 plus years maybe you wouldn't mind marrying me". Then she laughed and looked at me and said "wait...wait...are you SERIOUS?!" "Yes. Yes I am" "REALLY?! Of COURSE I'll marry you!" -INFJ

As an INTJ, I can agree to an extent that most of the actions are preplanned, or already guessed. But similarly, I have learned to acknowledge that many things do not go according to plans, and sometimes you simply roll with the change.

I like how INFJ is doing it backwards- trying to find a picture to fit an existing perfect frame. I guess if you really believe in magic, anything could happen 🪄😉

I'm INFJ and I can confirm we're the most romantic people we just need partners to whom we show all of the romance

As ISTP I can agree that me and my partner have discussed just going and getting married legally but not having a wedding or telling anyone until the ask when we’re going to get married and go “we already are”

INTJ cracked me up. My INTJ husband proposed to me at his 30th birthday surprise party 6 months after we had gotten my engagement ring together, and 7 years after we had our first child. He straight planned everything to a T, 💯. As an INFJ, I'm lucky as all hell he did. Lol

My boyfriend is an ENFP and I laughed because he has told me he will get me a nice ring once he finds a better paying job and pays off his debts. Lmao accurate

Me, an INTJ who has yet to find anyone half as captivating as my fourth grade crush: ...how the FUCK does he do that?!!

Yeah... I can fully relate to the INFJ one. I have never practiced proposing to a girl before, but I have definitely thought of what it would be like. Despite never having dated anyone... ever...

I thought INTJ was INFP until The word "plan" was brought into the equation.

INTP engaged to an INFP. We went to LOOK at rings and found a good deal. I love how he kept the ring until the next day to officially ask in a nicer setting. Oh wait that's right. He didn't ask 🤣. He just got down on one knee and was like "here you can have it now". All the while I was covering my face, 100% embarrassed. It was so awkward and yet so us 🥰! Edit: According to him his speech was a lot more romantic 😂.

My INTJ husband did propose by the ocean! It was very straightforward, lol, but my romantic INFP self had, thank God, said enough times that I wanted it on one knee, that he did. Made me cry. We've been married 14 years. 🥰🥰

INTJ IS SPOT ON! On the bright side INTJ’s tend to be the most loyal ones, once we make plans for someone…and decide if we like someone…our plans don’t change, only the environment. And we plan ahead to make sure there is no failure.

As a INTP getting married in itself is considered a reckless move. I agree I ain't buying a ring until I get a definitive answer. I see no better way to do it than text. Phone call is going to have to be a no for me.

OMG the infp. “If you’re going to reject me, I didn’t mean any of it.” Can confirm.

That INFJ proposal speech to Firstname Middlename Lastname was freakin’ beautiful. Firstname won’t be able to say no. 🥲

I love the INFJ one. My little sister an INFJ and she did the cutest thing ever. She wrote a letter to her future husband and left the letter at a hotel where you can take a book if you leave one behind. She left the letter and is waiting for the person who finds it one day and falls in love with it. So creative and sad at the same time. I'm an INTP and related to mine as well. Terrible anxiety from the texting.....

He asked her if she ate that whole cheese cake like he already knew the answer. 😂😂 But he loves her anyway. How romantic. 😊

The people I wanna marry do not exist, they are fictional characters- INFJ

As an INTP the INTP proposal is the only one that makes sense. Efficient, direct, no big fuss, no strangers involved, no embarrassment and not waste of money. I would answer "yep" right away

Some ideas for more videos!! - 16 personalities giving birth 16 personalities as uncles 16 personalities as aunts 16 personalities as mean girls 16 personalities as Zodiac signs 16 personalities as therapists 16 personalities getting married 16 personalities falling in love 16 personalities at Christmas 16 personalities at New Year's Parties 16 Personalities as celebrities 16 personalities as Disney characters

INTP probably took a long time to work up to that point and, can attest, failing a social interaction (especially an important one) is a heck of a detrimental thing

I am an INTJ in a long term relationship with an INFP. This is how things are going: Him: I love you so much. Me: Me too. It seems we will eventually get married. Him: YES! I have been eyeballing some rings. Me: Oh, I don't like surprises. Can I choose my own ring? Him: Good idea, I didn't know what to choose. Me: What if we exchange engagement rings to signify that there is no hierarchy in our relationship? Him: Sweet! ... Him: But I still want to make a huge deal of the proposal. :C Me: Alright, do as you please. Me: (Still gets prepared because doesn't like surprises). I will update on how things go.

i love that intp is always wearing glasses and standing awkwardly cuz thats exactly how we are

Oh god, it's me. INFP, decided to propose, planned it all out perfectly and romantic and awesome to go out on the first snowfall at the ice skating rink where we had our third date, and then we got there, I got down on one knee, and completely forgot the script, kinda stared at him while waving the ring box at him, and babbled awkwardly until he said yes. Thank god he said yes. Now I just have to not screw up the wedding vows, lol

Cool! Now you need to make a FEMALE VERSION - the 16 personalities receiving a proposal!! (the INFJ would probably run away even if she were crazy about the guy🥲)

My husband is an Intp and and I'm an Infj. Before we got married he asked if I wanted to date him over text. To be fair, I was in a different state at the time but this is pretty accurate. 😂😂 When he "proposed" to me it was more like you want to get married yet?? (Over text) 🤣 Doesn't sound very romantic but he was very shy about opening up to me and wanted to make sure I even liked him before he proposed lol he's honestly the best husband I could have ever asked for, and we are definitely a perfect match. 🥰❤

ESFP: Nice touch inviting the pigeons to witness the event! I bet they were really moved by that! 😁 INFJ: Well that was just sweet and lovely! Awww! ❤ Definitely keep the magic part in there! ISFJ: maaannnn....😬🤦‍♀️

The intp with the texting proposal!!!!!!! Lol I laughed so hard.

I thought the one proposing in april's fool was SO creative, and it turns out it's INFP LMAO. I am INFP myself and I haven't proposed to anyone. I only did it in RPG. However, I dit like... like A LOT. Since I am an idealist, I wanted to make my person's ideals and dreams come true. It had to be fantastic. I took all of our memories and created a blog for him (both of our characters are male). I put there all the preparations I did, the entire month before proposing. Letters I wrote each day for him. When the day came, I gave this person the link and another gifts via app. I bought a ring and tuxedos for both our characters, and after he read the blog, I would send him to the app where I gave him the ring, and after that I would send him to the app where I bought the tuxedos, so that he could collect all the clues and romantic notes. The day we got married, I filmed 14 videos (14 because I asked him to be my boyfriend in Saint Valentine's day) showing him how I prepared the house that was going to be ours. How I decorated it, how it changed little by little. I did the house in an app for decorating houses. Then I edited a video with a summary of all the videos plus screenshots that are our memories, pictures together, etc. 14 parts, each one with a flower and an emotion he provoked in my heart. I let his favorite flower for the end. This RPG relationship is almost 3 years old now, and we are going stronger each day. I don't know if I will get to propose the same way to anyone irl, but I do know that IF an INFP really loves you, they will be willing to pull all those preparations and romantic details for you. And they will not get tired, because they want so bad to make you an active participant of their ideal life and world. You will be always included in their plans for the future and they will remember every detail about you that can turn a gift into something really personal and deep. Intimate. Fellow INFP, if you read this and you love someone, don't be afraid to take advantage of your artistic skills and abstract mind! You have the potential to create the most romantic and heart-felt gifts and proposals! Love for you💙 Edit: Writing this made me want even more to travel to meet this person. She's a lovely ISFJ and deserves the whole world.

“I will crawl into a corner and die.” Honestly that’s me with anything

As an INTP that couldn't be more realistic. Except it wasn't a proposal which was ghosted, I was just asking for a date.

I'm an INTP and I can't imagine proposing with a text. Well, I mean, I can but I wouldn't want to go that route. If I ever found someone and learned what love is, I would push my creativity and knowledge of the person and (proposals in general) to the limit and come up with a really unique and personalized moment/scenario to pop the question.

INFJ have really perfect romantic life in our imagination. But reality always speak differently.

The ISFJ! 😜🤣 "a cleaning process" indeed. Oh my gosh!! You always have to kill us with the INFJ.🥺😄👍💜

Accurate. I, an INFJ, have practiced so many conversations that never happened the way I thought they would lol. And my ISTP hubby mentioned that diamond rings are way too overpriced, and I agreed, so we got a fairly cheaper one, which is more sparkly (moissanite). 😊 ✨ And he challenged pretty much every wedding cost that came up, asking if we really need it and if it really has to cost that much. 😆 I actually appreciate how he challenges the norms and makes me think. He was very sweet when he proposed. He was nervous and awkward, but I was prepared for that. 😉 After a day of doing all our fave things, eating all our fave foods, etc, at sunset, in a gazebo, he proposed.

Your INFJ interpretations are always perfection Frank. Its a lonely existence lol. But I rock at my social work career and friends love me and people in general come to me all the time. ALL THE TIME for advice and emotional support. It gets freaking annoying after a while though when a part of you just wants to find someone who wants to be with you in a more than friends way. I'm not convinced there is enough time for the frustrating ritual that is sifting through dates that end in "lets go back to being just friends". "Sorry to disappoint but I don't feel the same way". Also I dated an INTJ then we were friends after dating for ages. We were really good friends too until I had to end it because I couldn't stop wanting more (a relationship). But the INTJ proposal is a little scary 😂

FJ in his head: "Should I get a ring for the sketch? Nah, actually it's more funny if the box is empty."

That is exactly how my INFJ boyfriend now husband proposed to me, it is so accurate it is scary!!!

Hilarious! INTP here. Proposed to my wife on a walk in the park. It was inevitable, as I’d procrastinated about it for ages and I finally had to bite the bullet. Partly because my parents were going to visit the country where we live, so I decided it’d be good for our wedding to coincide with their visit. Thankfully my fiancée said yes, and we’re happy together after nearly 18 years.

Funny but not enough sobbing and blushing for the INFP one. :’) if it was me I would probably not be able to stop crying and I’d accidentally drop the ring then have the most awkward laughing fit ever, stumble over my own feet and knock over that something on a restaurant table nearby, THEN after 27 tries finally say, will you marry me

INFJ was so accurate! I've been single for 8 years BY CHOICE, but also constantly imagine my life with someone else. 😅

Awww, INFJ deserves happiness.

INFP female here. I’ve been happily married to multiple guys that don’t exist and are widely popular in games/animes for years now and our relationships are absolutely perfect courtesy of my self indulgent fanfictions. ... The thought of an actual, legit proposal being done by an actual, legit human being, however, is terrifying and I would most definitely puke from a sheer emotional overload. The idea of a real romance is scarier than any horror movie/game/etc in existence to me and my terrible dating luck has almost doomed me to a forever single life :,)

Omg after hearing that INFJ proposal I don't want any other type anymore Q_Q It was so beautiful, and all I would ever wish for! I even teared up a little (kudos to your acting skills Frank!). ~ Sincerely, another INFJ

INTP here. I didn't do the proposing but I definitely orchestrated the relationship direction perfectly so that he would fall right into my clutches.

How about... 16 personalities as stalkers 16 personalities as criminals 16 personalities when they are at their highest and lowest self esteem. I think that their confidence would present itself differently depending on the type, same with the forms their self-loathing would take

Officially married to an ISFJ. It was pretty much assumed from almost the very beginning of the relationships that we are going to get married. With the whole pandemic situation we haven't had the wedding party yet, so he is waiting to propose 😁 He wants me to choose my engagement ring and it's pretty much up to me when he buys one and when we hold our party.

That INFJ proposal was both so sweet and simultaneously unsettling for me. I'm not good with the feels, haha. If your actual proposal will be like that, your SO is going to be so happy. 😊 All the best FJ! 👍🏻

You've convinced me I need to go fall in love with an ISFJ. 😂😂😂 Love his patience with her. (And tbh, I could totally be that lady who ate cheesecake without noticing the ring.) -INTP

As an INFJ, I can relate to this, lol! I have my whole wedding and stuff picked out, now I just need to find someone to propose to me. XD

My husband is an INTP and he proposed by giving me a dozen red roses on Valentine’s Day and writing “Will you marry me?” on the card that came with the flowers. That was 21 years ago. I still have the ring box. I collect them.

My INTJ fiance recently proposed, and thankfully it was not like that! 😆 I could tell he had planned out how to do it / what to say, and he was still nervous even though I already knew he was going to do it. LOL. I couldn't have asked for a better proposal though (me an INFJ).

Now that I see the red shirt I always think of ENFJ first. And the “ethically sourced” was a cherry on top! But I would go even one step further and get a vintage one 😂 now, something tells me I need a red shirt, that one actually looks nice 👀👀👀

As a constantly planning INTJ who already thought of pulling this sh!t... Don't expose us. Yeah, can't wait to see the opinion of INTJs who are already married.

INTP is cute as always! I guess "16 personalities doing random acts of kindness" would be great for this season 🎄🎁🎅🏻😄

Timestamps:- 0:00 ~ ESFJ 0:24 ~ ESTJ 0:32 ~ ESTP 0:58 ~ ENFJ 1:06 ~ ESFP 1:34 ~ ENTJ 1:54 ~ ISFJ 2:28 ~ ENTP 2:38 ~ ISTP 2:50 ~ ENFP 3:02 ~ ISFP 3:12 ~ INTJ 3:35 ~ ISTJ 3:47 ~ INFP 4:11 ~ INTP 4:37 ~ INFJ

ISFJ knows he can’t really blame the lady- cheesecake is THAT GOOD 😋

The one with the INTJ is just terrifyingly accurate! What can I say?! We love to control every possible factor in our environment; which, at some point, leads to us wanting to control the people themselves

I'm an INTJ and the whole concept of 'knowing that you're the one for me and planning the entire course of the relationship up until a week after our official wedding' is pretty accurate, but I ain't gonna say it out in the proposal. The aim is to get married so "no" isn't an option, and because I know you so well, I'll do everything within my abilities to make you emotionally and psychologically incapable of saying no.

5:04 STOP, I LITERALLY KNEW RIGHT AWAY 😭 🚶

For anyone watching this, proposing over text is NOT okay, for ANY personality type!

Infj married intj here. I think you kind of nailed it. He had been preparing for 10 years. I was going to do what it takes to make it work. Now, take into consideration the narc parents that spawned us, and books could be written.

And yes, female INFJs practice both the proposal their future fiancé will propose to them AND their own reacton to it.

The ENFP was too real. My ex wanted to propose to me on our first year anniversary and we were both so broke and unemployed and in debt 😂

Oh man, that ring box was as empty as my cold cold heart. 😃

Instead of proposing, INFJ will give therapy or help her to propose her crush......"you've heard this before" (background song) Edit- OMG!! I laughed so hard when he said i just need to find a person 🤣🤣......poor INFJ☹️😂

I am an INFJ who was mistyped as an INFP for ages. I used to see my ISTP partner in the ISTP sketches, but never myself in INFP. These INFJ sketches though, now that I know, they hit me hard. 🙃

My husband was definitely intj proposing... he remembered when he first met me but I seriously have no recollection. It was about 4 years before we even met

ENFJ one was spot on… that’s literally how I proposed to some INFP on a futurely-open note but apparently “she has kids and doesn’t need one more”..

At least the 75% of FJ's audience that is supposedly all female all be like "yes!". Married, unmarried, in a relationship, no matter! 🤪😂

0:42 That's why I was the one who proposed to him. Now he is like a cute tamed wolf. uwu -Female INFP married to ESTP for 12 years and counting.

I suggested to my husband that we could get married, no point in waiting when we knew we want to stay together; that I will get the ring coz I can get it cheaper and that he can give it to me when I won’t expect it. Which is exactly what happened. Who says I don’t have the romance figured out?! INTJ

INFP here! Why can I relate to our skit so much? A while back I literally asked someone out on April 1st so that if they said no I could be like "haha, just kidding". HOW IS THIS SO ACCURATE?!

As an INFJ... that one hit hard... but it is what it is.

The esfp is literally my husband. The intj is what he becomes after several drinks. Lol The first time he said that he loves me and wanted to marry me, I looked at him and asked, “are you drunk?” Btw, the intj in this video is so romantic! Love it.

Love the INFJ, really sweet 😊 and the pausing to contemplate at the end 😅 all a little too accurate lol …I like that you added ''first name, middle name, last name'' 😂 can't imagine that person saying no 😊

I‘ve been waiting for this one, and it didn‘t disappoint!😃😂