17 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR CHRISTIAN PARTNER ABOUT $3X || CHRISTIAN DATING || WAITING TILL MARRIAGE

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2 жыл бұрын

Hello Beautiful People! Today we will be talking about 17 questions to ask your Christian partner before Doing The Do in Marriage.
Hope you enjoy watching!
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@wolfmate5893 2 жыл бұрын

The way I see it, if people are this openminded in communication this way so many homes would not have had the kind of problems we see today. Good job.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I believe so too!

@princechristophervictor7150 2 жыл бұрын

Never thought there will be any Christian channel that will bluntly speak about sex in this manner. Many times, youth engage in sex before marriage because of "exploration" and end up getting pregnant and the worst follows many times. I believe and I think, this is what some Christian youth meetings should be all about. Although such conversations like this should be limited to some set of persons just like you also said in this video. By the way, I still wonder what most marriage counseling is all about when people still come out of marriages almost immediately they go in. Yes, the bed rock of marriage is God but this little little things are what makes it exciting and last almost forever. Thank you Victoria. These are sincere and well spoken words. No pretense and no lies.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

This is one of the biggest reasons I do these videos regardless of how comfortable it makes me sometimes. If one person is saved by this. I am blessed Thanks so much for your kind words

@davidadewunmi842 2 жыл бұрын

Lovely

@mapurensosundaykpanpenso 2 жыл бұрын

Nice content,i just saw this video,you are a blessing to the world 🙌💯👍

@sandraodrey1023 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing! 🤍

@henrysunday9221 Жыл бұрын

You are doing a great job. This is what we need as singles in this generation of perversion

@odeyprincess6864 2 жыл бұрын

This is amazing. Saving!

@narleekchikowore524 2 жыл бұрын

relationship is all about knowing yo values n standards and we have to stand up conversing our minds b4 signing up for the long term relationship.

@dinangakizito903 11 ай бұрын

These are very informative questions to better understand each other. Thank you for these tips.

@omotayooluwatimilehinb465 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ma'am...this was really helpful ❤️

@nnennaonuorah4601 2 жыл бұрын

Omo, that "I'm just doing it for you," it sounds sweet and romantic on paper. In real life, premium tears is usually the outcome. Also, some people are evil, they act like they're willing to wait until they know you're attached then they start making threats. And at that time, it becomes harder to just walk away.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

True... it is well sis ❤

@nicequestionaminterestedto8854 2 жыл бұрын

True 👍

@LegalPamela 2 жыл бұрын

Omo this is so true

@Temitope_Lawal Жыл бұрын

Walk away regardless.!

@davidojo1387 9 ай бұрын

Very interesting. I love the content. Kudos 👍

@savedforh 2 жыл бұрын

This video is very informative It has blessed my life U are very amazing

@ibrahimfarida9397 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing❤️❤️

@joychima9568 2 жыл бұрын

I really really enjoyed watching this 😍.

@naagilbie5786 2 жыл бұрын

thanks for sharing vic😊😊🥰

@favourfatimaabdullahi7413 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ma, this was really helpful New sub

@Treasure_tiftog 2 жыл бұрын

I don't often type a response/feedback on videos.....but on this in particular, it's beautiful, realistic and highly necessary. I didn't expect this much details....... I'm glad you gave it all!! Thank you.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Awww.. thanks so much

@rosemawulidogbey506 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for the knowledge

@collinsezeocha2460 2 жыл бұрын

A life case scenario of answers to these questions being anonymous would be helpful 🙏🙏🙏

@giaesinam5628 2 жыл бұрын

It’s my first time here and I absolutely LOVED everything about this video. Great content, good sense of humour, everything was just on point. You’ve reminded me how important these questions are and how generally, communication is good for healthy relationships. Thank you❤️ And oh, you’re beautiful too😍. Keep up the good work, hun. Can’t wait to watch your other videos.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Awww... Thank you so much! ❤♥

@merocode1821 2 жыл бұрын

Very valid valid conversations so as to avoid stories that touch .

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@blanchet2531 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. The emphasis on keeping ourselves pure should not be for another person but for God because we have been called to keep ourselves holy for him and of course we would be pure for the man/woman we would be marrying

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Love this! Thanks so much for watching ❤

@henrysunday9221 Жыл бұрын

It is for both male and female

@danielshalomidu3719 Жыл бұрын

My first time I truly enjoyed my self here ,it truly blessed me and I can totally relate because I asked my husband these questions too.

@VictoriaFash Жыл бұрын

I'm really glad! Welcome aboard!

@estheredeh7535 2 жыл бұрын

Nice one dear 🥰🙏🏽

@divisway6258 2 жыл бұрын

I love u ma Thanks for the knowledge It is worth it ma

@ebukareuben5785 2 жыл бұрын

Great content and informative,thumbs up... you've gotten another subscriber.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

@prosperighosotu8314 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Victoria

@olusolaakinade6147 2 жыл бұрын

It's everything for me😍😍 the content, the vibes, the smile, the beauty, the outfit.....First time been here and just had to subscribe straight up. Keep doing the good work ma'am. God's blessings

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Aww... thanks so much ❤

@munachimsonwufo708 2 жыл бұрын

Wow Really educative, God bless u for this❤️❤️❤️

@adwoaforson5686 2 жыл бұрын

I've learnt alot from this video God bless you

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching ❤

@bimbolaolumoba8846 2 жыл бұрын

I'm saving this post ..

@citygatetv376 2 жыл бұрын

I’m listening to you for the first time. Very informative, exhaustive and responsibly delivered. Thank you.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@TimilehinOlamide 2 жыл бұрын

Victoria with the good vibe, you look beautiful ❤

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

@malachiosobase9796 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome content

@sedinamafewu6504 2 жыл бұрын

This is awesome! Thank you Mrs Fash!

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

You're very welcome ☺

@RxLumina 2 жыл бұрын

Victoria with the gems❤️

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰

@nenegbaraka3125 2 жыл бұрын

You are beautiful and intelligent.We need more christian channels like this.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰

@eseemasodje1485 2 жыл бұрын

I learnt a lot from this video, thank you so much ma'am 🤗

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

You're highly welcome ☺

@oluwapelumiogunmokun9485 2 жыл бұрын

Well done. I see some persons don't understand that a lot go wrong people and settling down with someone even when go has given a go ahead does not remove what they had grown with except God has helped them to overcome them. Every question is important either oral or not. Ask. The devil is still out there!

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@je39981 2 жыл бұрын

3 sums and watching P0rn ? That should be something a man dealt with prior to being married or pursuing a relationship. I preferably wouldn't wait until the wedding night to ask those types of questions. What a man thinks with his mind comes from his heart. It's one thing to have sexual desires; however, there's a boundary between sexual desires and battling sinful thoughts. The woman I was before Christ can answer those questions if asked. The woman I am now would feel out of place to have that mindset. When God washes us and renews our heart, mind, soul, and spirit there's some thoughts we wouldn't have. I'm assuming everyone has different experiences as far as I can see with asking about a 3 sum.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, sone questions should be asked earlier.

@cynthiachioma9776 2 жыл бұрын

Ok ma'am vicky you are amazing my first time doh.. I think with this so many marriages can really workout thats if they work on this little but absolute truth...cheers

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching ❤

@nwaezejoy1983 10 ай бұрын

It's always a blessing watching each of your videos; every bit of it is so informative and detailed... Great job always ma'am❣️ can't wait to ask these questions.

@VictoriaFash 10 ай бұрын

My pleasure 😊

@ogbucharles4694 Жыл бұрын

A friend shared a link to your video on "Sexual Compatibility" I originally planned on watching that video then zoom off but here am I, on the 3rd video 😁😁 I'm glad I did click on the link. Thank God you discovered this assignment in God. I'm so going to check in always for updates 😊

@VictoriaFash Жыл бұрын

Aww... thanks so much for watching

@angelamartekimarkwei8608 2 жыл бұрын

Good questions to ask before you marry.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@konarshalom5695 2 жыл бұрын

Never you be fooled by a positive affirmations to all your answers🙂👍 To get married, marry the Holy Spirit First and He will other your steps beyond what the physical signs bears rather go for God's green light 💡. You won't miss your bone. Bones came to bones #Ezekiel37. Thanks and Shalom 🙏❤️🔥✝️

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

The Holyspirit is non negotiable

@eliasjonathan9102 2 жыл бұрын

FULLY CORRECT!

@mahoniudo-n805 2 жыл бұрын

Saw the #aboutowedonly I'm not about to wed and this video is really educative for me coz it teaches, u can get to know Ur partner "sexually" without actually doing it. It kinda calms my fears of not knowing nothing cause let's be frank most youths and teenagers already know a lot sex. And a number of acquitances always advice u had beta start doing it so you know your partner.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

I understand your perspective. Thanks for watching ❤

@ugochiokoro8250 2 жыл бұрын

This video did one thing: one can know one's partner sexually through conversation without doing the act. But that's hoping the person tells you all the truth, though. God bless you for this one... Really eases off some worries

@Atonic91 2 жыл бұрын

It’s refreshing to see how open and very knowledgeable you are. Have you considered being an official Christian relationship counselor ? People will gladly pay for one-on-one sessions with you, especially single or engaged ladies. Thanks for always sharing!

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

I am planning to get licenced first. Thank you so much for the encouragement ☺

@favournlemchukwu4452 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing ma ❤️

@helenzoe5285 2 жыл бұрын

I really learnt alot from this. Thank you Victoria. I've just joined the family💃

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Awww welcome Sis!!! 💃💃💃

@onyekachiamulue7270 2 жыл бұрын

But you can always say these words you are pronouncing on KZfaq because I watch other videos on KZfaq a lot..... Buts nice to see a Christian ask these question because I thought of it and what one gets when you finally enter the marriage might be beyond your expectations... Thank you

@dorisgebechi3097 2 жыл бұрын

I learnt a lot. In advance 😌 🥰 Thank you Ma ♥️

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

@berniceokoso1439 2 жыл бұрын

You're so knowledgeable...Thanks so much for doing this video. I love your outfit too 😍💕

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰

@nandomjudejames266 2 жыл бұрын

Great. Thank you ma

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

@profsammy821 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this ma...

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

❤❤

@mwewamwabamk8110 2 жыл бұрын

LOOKING GOOD VICTORIA.........THE TOP REALLY LOOKS GOOD ON YOU

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

@MrOkicks 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this Victoria Very helpful for later 😁 But I think some questions should be asked before getting closed to marriage because some of these knowledge are deal breakers for some people. I think.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

You're right about that, the fear of trying to experiment is what made me suggest waiting

@estheredeh7535 2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@preciousenyi 2 жыл бұрын

Yea, that's true, I concur

@ogomsseries 2 жыл бұрын

I love your disclaimer biko🤣🤣don't ask the question inside a closed room.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Before they will say it's Victoria Fash 😄😄.. I no dey house oo 😄😄

@adadaddy9251 2 жыл бұрын

@@VictoriaFash 😂

@adadaddy9251 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@adedayoaruwajoye7910 2 жыл бұрын

This is very interesting, lol.

@mirjammnwadigo6358 2 жыл бұрын

These questions can really be sexual arousing. Good approach and also remember some of these questions change over time and one my want to ask them even as one assess the development of the sexual experience

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@johnsonbassey3515 2 жыл бұрын

This is hot cake o, more stronger than comedy

@proudman6153 2 жыл бұрын

before watching this, i was like mtchewww. After watching this, i am like wowww. Was not expecting this

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Awww... Thank you so much ❤ 🥰

@collinsezeocha2460 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this information. Everything should be communicated whether sex related or not. Definitely, it takes alot of maturity to swallow some answers of this question but I feel it should be discussed

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@classicalretroback 2 жыл бұрын

Learnt a lot from this eg d.on't ask promiscuous questions in a relationship until it gets to courtship. Many Christian marriages are suffering in silence because of inadequate info on this "food" and self righteousness has enslaved many in church not to be open. I pity African conservative attitude towards this topic.😍

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

I know right! Thanks so much for watching

@segunjay4153 3 ай бұрын

Nice video as usual Victoria. Just wanted to help you with some words to say on your videos without fear of demonitization. Instead of do the do, call it s3x. Pronounced s three x. Instead of porn, call it corn as in agbado. Hope these help

@AfroTae 2 жыл бұрын

This is the first Christian video that is actually informative and not sugar coating sex and saying when you're married it'll be magical and it'll fall into place. thank you for being realistic. I never thought to ask some of these questions because I had never done it before. But I would make sure you ask these questions in the morning and preferably in public because late-night chats on the phone have got me in trouble before lol.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

I'm really glad, thank you so much for watching ❤

@googleholyspirittv7223 2 жыл бұрын

Watch kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qbN4kpWgvMXWg3U.html

@stephennora1152 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this💓. I learned a lot. But I have a question and it is, what if your partner is a novice or both parties are notice and have had no experience in past and have also decided not to have s3x until marriage. How will they really know how their body works? You talked about asking how often he/she would like to "do the do", the level of exploration he/ she would like to experience etc. I think some of these ones one can't really tell until he or she have had experiences in the past. For such a couple without experience how will they go about this?

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

There were questions for Experienced and non Experienced. I mentioned, How much does he think of it will give you an indication. Thanks for watching ❤

@nankomasarah4265 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for teaching. You made me laugh so hard 🤣🤣

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching ❤

@chiamakailomuanya1692 2 жыл бұрын

Very bold step because a lot of people don't talk about it but my confusion was where you said the conversation should happen when he proposes or when you're engaged. I beg to disagree , especially on the first question, two intending people who already know their intentions and have prayed over each other should ask the first question before getting serious. Many times people get together and then the pressure to have sex from one partner comes up and you're now saying ohhhh, I would love us to wait. For the no one question, please let your intending partner know before you get serious that these are your values and if they can't stay with you, it's also fine but I can't compromise. But other questions can come up much later.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. Thanks so much for sharing ❤

@osatotito16 2 жыл бұрын

Your right ma

@sarahletsoalo9668 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful ❤

@VictoriaFash Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 😊

@ogunlekeolayinka8722 2 жыл бұрын

Waoh! Very Educative but where do you get these questions from? You are doing a great job, keep it up?

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

From personal experience and inspiration from God 🥰 Thank you for watching ❤

@kareizaamune429 2 жыл бұрын

Enlightening and entertaining. Please, I'm confused about the wedding ring. I thought it's supposed to be on the left hand?

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

It's on the left, camera angle

@kareizaamune429 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for clarifying!

@RosyJones 2 жыл бұрын

Very interesting/ important topic... Me I ask ooo even the ones that I end up laughing at myself as though it's nothing but I must say you never can find out except you talk about it.... Thanks for always sharing! ♥️

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's good to know 😌

@googleholyspirittv7223 2 жыл бұрын

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@corinnecoraline 2 жыл бұрын

Great advances!!

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@rhemaken6012 2 жыл бұрын

i can imagine been asked all this questions.funny

@omnivertash 2 жыл бұрын

New Subscriber! Thanks for this video. Please, what Lapel mic are you using?

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, can't recall the name, bought it from the US

@omnivertash 2 жыл бұрын

@@VictoriaFash Thanks for the reply but if you still have it, can you kindly check the name and model? Thanks

@laourouba1935 Жыл бұрын

Thank you sister! I do have a few questions. What if the world has been deceived about sex, and followers of Christ consequently (2Corinthians 5;17)? I also wonder what can inspire "virgins" to ask such questions. And the answer is because of porn. With all due respect, we need wisdom not to seek for a porn actor in a husband or wife because a Christ based marriage is more than sex. Sex is simple and sweet, to the point that most women, though they don't know how to cook, they excel in sex. Thank you.

@harrietlucky6316 2 жыл бұрын

I think this content should be for #abouttoweds...

@oluwatomiolaoye538 2 жыл бұрын

Yes it is

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

I mentioned that

@favour_mkpuruoma 2 жыл бұрын

what do I know kwanu?? Mama you are beautiful 🥰

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰

@beatriceinim4029 2 жыл бұрын

But this "how often do you think of it" part. Is it OK to have a particular amount of time it is thought of. Or should the question instead be how often do you think it's OK for it to happen in a Day, or a week.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Both questions are good. I gave my reasons for asking that question, it's not compulsory to ask everything 🥰🥰

@destinyebiwoni9271 2 жыл бұрын

You look good,..nice video,..keep it up

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@keneokeke9232 2 жыл бұрын

Great! What's doing the do though?????

@ivoltzvictorino4861 2 жыл бұрын

Me sef I don't Know, Can u help 😜🤣

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

It's Sex 😁

@melisawisdom2952 2 ай бұрын

Some of these questions that u said should be asked later. I think they should be asked early. Because u dnt want to be far advanced in wedding plans n find out z answer to any of these questions is a deal breaker. Then u would of wasted all this time for nothing.

@ogomsseries 2 жыл бұрын

I can ask questions ehhhh to the extent my hubby will just be laughing at me all through,I need to know everything and also I tell him how I want it to be done,communication👌👌

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 Me I didn't even know what kind of questions to ask... everytime I hear it read something, I will ask him... out of the blue... 😄

@googleholyspirittv7223 2 жыл бұрын

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@ianyimiah 2 жыл бұрын

As a Christian, the first question you need to ask is a question you ask yourself. You need to ask yourself whether the person you are considering is a Christian. And I am not talking about people who just go to Church or people who have been in Christian circles for sometime. You need to ask whether the person in question is willing to literally die for Jesus Christ because they've known the love of God. If the answer is no, as a true Christian, you should not even take another step forward.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! But this video is regarding sex

@ianyimiah 2 жыл бұрын

@@VictoriaFash I appreciate that you are willing to talk about this. Not many people talk about this especially in Christian circles. So I think what you do is important. Having said this, I believe what I posted is very important especially for the our current times. Desire to be like Jesus and taking steps to ensure that is not emphasized enough in most Christian circles I have been in. A lot of marital issues will be solved if this was emphasized as it ought to be.

@eliasjonathan9102 2 жыл бұрын

There is nothing to be painted about oral sex, it's a sin.

@user-jf4vt6nb4m 2 жыл бұрын

✌🏾️2nd

@johnsonbassey3515 2 жыл бұрын

3rd

@aladepeter4605 2 жыл бұрын

I'm a first timer here

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

💃💃

@melody_tioluwa 2 жыл бұрын

Educative video! Thank you. Meanwhile, I dont't think there is any issue mentioning the 'S' word (sex) on KZfaq, besides, you mentioned it a couple of times in the last video you did with your husband and some other videos you have done. Please feel free sis.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Trust me, there is. One of my video is still not monitized because of it

@Kenadura 2 жыл бұрын

It does actually

@medanashebir5388 2 жыл бұрын

Hey, this is medan ashebir, from Ethiopia. The video is informative. you are amazing. I have added something in my mind. But I wanna ask you something about kissing. In my country, as a Christian, kissing is one of sin. If I kiss my gf and when my pastor watches, I will be in denger. what do you think about kissing my gf before marriage??

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

Follow the leading g of YOUR spirit

@medanashebir5388 2 жыл бұрын

@@VictoriaFash Thank you. I will keep following my spirit. You are blessed.

@angelandaba 2 жыл бұрын

I'm not ready to ask how many people he's been with😅😅 my mind cannot process that kind of information

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

😄😄😄😄

@mahoniudo-n805 2 жыл бұрын

A whopping 17 questions 😐, make I finish my exams first 😁

@mahoniudo-n805 2 жыл бұрын

Or not 😁

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Please focus oo 😄

@joskyshams4758 Жыл бұрын

Where do I get strength to ask this questions?😂😂😂🙆🙆

@obinnawilliams9436 2 жыл бұрын

Legit questions really though I feel some could questions would serve someone who has some experience. Then again, if answers are provided today but as one begins to experience the act, some responses would be adjusted. Eg, if I haven’t tasted amala, I might not know how it is until I taste it. So I believe couples should endeavour to receive and get feedback on this area & others as well because as humans, we could change

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree with this! Thanks so much ❤

@KelsiPrecious 2 жыл бұрын

I agree too

@obinnawilliams9436 2 жыл бұрын

@@VictoriaFash my pleasure sis.

@gracenmesoma4751 2 жыл бұрын

Is it okay or acceptable to ask about size?

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

If you want to, why not?

@olagokeadedamola 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Victoria I have a question to ask

@olagokeadedamola 2 жыл бұрын

I went to a senior collègue party and met his niece who I'm interested in, I had a chat with her and everything was cool but the party was dismissed cos of some other issues. Since that day I've been trying to get the number but failed. I've been thinking telling my senior collègue about how i like his niece and my interest of having a serious relationship with her. Please kindly advise me

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

What is the Worst that could happen? He'll say no. If it's worth pursuing, then go for it, as long as she's of age

@praise3700 2 жыл бұрын

Why ask these quests after you’ve accepted his proposal. His answers wouldn’t make a lot of difference. I’d rather ask when we are in a committed relationship, that way there’s room to make the necessary decisions

@TA-nr1kr 2 жыл бұрын

Because she is trying to address Christians. For Christians, decision to marry someone is not based on these question. The decision is a function of your conviction about who your future partner should be.

@praise3700 2 жыл бұрын

@@TA-nr1kr lol, so your future husband’s sexual history makes no difference to you. If it makes no difference then why are you even asking? You could as well go in and handle whatever you face together

@olusolaakinade6147 2 жыл бұрын

@@praise3700 I guess that's why she said before you ask, make sure you're ready to take it (the response)

@rutholarinre4336 6 ай бұрын

For Christian couples, some questions can't be asked directly they may want to be dishonest in answering. Like the "do you watch pornography?" question. You may have to ask indirectly.

@jonasotukabu5076 2 жыл бұрын

Very very good work done. But I think you should be straightforward in mentioning those words you don't want to. KZfaq is an open place. Since you are a Christian, I think it's better to call what is wrong wrong and not to massage it. Thanks and keep it up

@somtomercy5277 2 жыл бұрын

Hi thanks but you take longer time before talking 😔

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

I don't understand

@sholafagbohun9079 2 жыл бұрын

@@VictoriaFash he means you spent too much time on intro and preambles before the actual gist

@mofeajayi8955 2 жыл бұрын

Masturbation is wrong oh!!!, sexual experiences ought to be between a man and his wife. The Bible is clear on what is acceptable, sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@sholay706 2 жыл бұрын

A woman can't satisfy a man's urge especially if they are doing long distance. A man needs to release his sperm and make new sperm regularly so he needs either sex or masturbation to release and make fresh sperm. Non fresh sperm is weak and not healthy

@eliasjonathan9102 2 жыл бұрын

All your advices are good. But including oral sex in this which is regarded as a platform for Christian's is somehow.

@VictoriaFash 2 жыл бұрын

You people will not kill me 😄😄 So it's okay to use your mouth to kiss your wife's mouth, back, neck, stomach, but you can't bring it near her Vjay? It is that one gan gan that us a sin? 😄😄 Please, to each, his own 🙃

@eliasjonathan9102 2 жыл бұрын

@@VictoriaFash yes it is that one gon gon that is the sin. And by the way, things can be Crystal cleared, there is a difference between kissing and stimulating the woman's private part with the tongue, that is letting the tongue taking the place of the man's organ, it is a perversion of how God made things to be. It's a manual frm the pit of hell which devil has given out to those he plan to destroy. And most importantly, not just the physical act but the spiritual part of it is the main thing, i believe you know that whenever a two people engages in intercourse there is a spiritual energy that is created around and beyond them which goes far beyond what they are engaging in? That energy will become a transport system for demons to transport themselves to the where these people are and create spiritual havocks in the lives of these people if number 1, they are not legally married, that is they are only DOING THE DO on the platform of fornication. And number two, if these people are perverting the way things ought to be done that is they going out of the original course. But if they falls not into non of those categories, that is they are married and doesn't pervert or turn things upside down, that energy will be guarded by God's protection and thus they are free and free to enjoy themselves and have fun without any fear. These things I said may not be accepted by you but it will be good you your own research and also ask the Holy Spirit. Thanks for your good work and, GOD BLESS YOU.