21 Ways To Command Respect When You Enter A Room (Even If You Know No One!)

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0:32 - Tip #1 Know your purpose
1:09 - Tip #2 Believe in yourself
1:52 - Tip #3 Dress like the man in charge
2:37 - Tip #4 Call your safety
3:08 - Tip #5 Bring your own crew
4:00 - Tip #6 Start talking to people
4:17 - Tip #7 Acknowledge people
4:32 - Tip #8 Give yourself margin
5:09 - Tip #9 Enter the room with a direction
6:13 - Tip #10 Introduce yourself
6:23 - Tip #11 Remember people's names
7:08 - Tip #12 Speak to be heard
7:44 - Tip #13 Speak slowly
8:05 - Tip #14 Use pauses
8:36 - Tip #15 Don't hide or fidget
9:25 - Tip #16 Lean in
9:45 - Tip #17 Sit in the right place
10:01 - Tip #18 Become a great storyteller
11:00 - Tip #19 Use hand gestures
11:32 - Tip #20 Don't scan during a conversation
11:47 - Tip #21 Be willing to end the conversation
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@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

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@richiedegraff4718 4 жыл бұрын

Please do a video on the pros and cons of being a loner

@ashlinr38 4 жыл бұрын

Enjoy Mauritius,if you're flying through Johannesburg airport then happy to buy you a beer Antonio

@aakash2115 4 жыл бұрын

i dont know how you earn 2 m subscribers 🙄🤮

@omadlom 4 жыл бұрын

Great video, loads of great tips, thank you!

@19deliriumtremens 4 жыл бұрын

"Speak to be heard, speak clearly, and speak slowly" nails it on the head for me.

@jadenlesser8519 4 жыл бұрын

Being 17 years old, if I even follow some of these tips I’ll for sure be the most mature and respected in class. Thank you!

@locutusdborg126 4 жыл бұрын

Just for being on this site you have earned my respect.

@baikaranabyo 4 жыл бұрын

You are already ahead of he game. The earlier the better.

@omegaXjammur 4 жыл бұрын

Best tips I can give when in class is to sit in the front and be active in the lesson. If you don't understand something, challenge your teacher to explain themselves and that'll benefit you and your classmates. It's not about being the know-it-all but rather it shows that you're taking your class seriously.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Jaden -You're welcome. You can also check out our master class: rebrand-u.com/youtube

@secondaccount9214 3 жыл бұрын

Im 15 watchin these

@karlbrundage7472 4 жыл бұрын

It may sound silly, but if you have the opportunity to take an improvisational acting class you should do so. It's amazing what it will give you in terms of confidence, projection and communications skills.

@brentkingston4389 4 жыл бұрын

Most enjoyable video. I especially liked the phrase: “know your purpose”.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

I do too. Have you checked our new master class? rebrand-u.com/youtube

@TheLastRoman0000 4 жыл бұрын

"You can be underdressed, but never overdressed" Roger Stone.

@gopinathanpalakkal1136 4 жыл бұрын

"overdressing is better than underdressing"Tom Ford But i like minimalist clothing

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more. Have you checked out our new master class? rebrand-u.com/youtube

@Anthropomorphic 4 жыл бұрын

I assume he was referring to business settings and such. If you show up to a camping trip in a tuxedo, it'll be inconvenient for yourself and the people with you.

@MrAtown3057 4 жыл бұрын

I like wearing a tux to the beach

@alessiom3859 3 жыл бұрын

@Follow the howl you'll get the best scraps this way

@chuyimuyi8579 4 жыл бұрын

I have really changed my personality , thanks to you.. now I feel more confident and I hold my self respect without becoming rude.. life long thankful to you

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

This is great Ankit. Have you checked out the master class? rebrand-u.com/youtube

@Wiinajamizzi 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video, Antonio. I'm an introvert, and I tend to avoid what feels like intruding or imposing on others. I find that the thing I have to work on is approaching groups of strangers. The tip you gave regarding physical space between individuals as an indicator to what kind of conversations to join into was on point. Also, I wasn't even aware about perceived weakness when lingering in boring conversations. Ironically I feel selfish if I leave a conversation when other people are in the middle of speaking. As an artist I tend to let my work do most of my talking, but that's made me complacent.Thank you so much for providing us with this free masterclass. I'd love to check it out and improve on making a pressence and commanding respect & attention.

@PracticalInspiration 4 жыл бұрын

Great point on finding group conversations where people aren't too close together, great way to identify whether they want privacy or not

@faktCheck 4 жыл бұрын

All the points discussed are very crucial.! well said.!

@brentonjohnson1825 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome content as always!

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Brenton - what did you like about today's video?

@brentonjohnson1825 4 жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle being an individual who will soon enter corporate this video is a great guide for powerful first impressions.

@jobro524 4 жыл бұрын

Great video. Love the descriptions down below

@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, I LOVE this video! I want to use these tips.

@darrellfoster5889 4 жыл бұрын

This is an outstanding video! Great advice!

@SChome100 4 жыл бұрын

This is something I often struggle with. Thanks for making this video.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Hey SChome100 - Thanks for taking the time to say so! Which tip did you find useful?

@SChome100 4 жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle Being able to take control of a conversation and not fidget so much.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

@@SChome100 I know how you feel. We all struggle with this at first. Have you checked out the new master class? rebrand-u.com/youtube

@federico83bg 4 жыл бұрын

great video Antonio!

@OBZRV82 4 жыл бұрын

I must be getting weak or soft because the "Call Your Safety" tip made my eyes tear up. My safety was my old man when he was alive.

@Astonthepunk 4 жыл бұрын

It’s never weak to love or hurt. Take your time

@OBZRV82 4 жыл бұрын

@@Astonthepunk Thanks for ur kind words.

@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, your dad must've been so respectable. I'm sorry to hear that. Don't worry too much about weakness; it's okay to cry! Just identify and emulate what you respected most about your dad.

@brentkingstonphotography4615 Жыл бұрын

It is great to be able to come back to this video and to re-learn the Lessons 👍

@lokendraramsurn1064 4 жыл бұрын

Mauritius here 🇲🇺

@wilfigs9705 3 жыл бұрын

Great vid!

@austinjohnson7746 4 жыл бұрын

Antonio coming with the golden nuggets great video

@kevinaguilar6361 4 жыл бұрын

I love this!

@AmanSingh0699 4 жыл бұрын

Antonio, dude. You are seriously doing God's work. I have learned a lot from you man, from fashion to character development skills. Kudos to you man. :)

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Aman. Have you joined my new master clasS? rebrand-u.com/youtube

@AmanSingh0699 4 жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle yep, looking forward to seeing it.

@dustinezzell4242 4 жыл бұрын

Great video. I've recently found your channel and binge watched quite a few. Putting your advice in my daily life has helped a lot. Thank you!

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

So glad to hear that you enjoyed the content I put out. Have you joined our master class?

@dustinezzell4242 4 жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle no, not yet. But I will definitely be looking into it.

@keshia001958 2 жыл бұрын

🔥 . Thanks.

@jpjp9111 4 жыл бұрын

Insert pauses: How does one handle it when someone constantly interrupts when you insert a pause? (Even very small ones.)

@probablynot1368 4 жыл бұрын

Yes! I interact with a person who CONSTANTLY does this, often hijacking the conversation to add some esoteric tidbit of knowledge, and then redirecting the conversation to fit with her agenda. I have dreaded being in meetings or conversations with her, as it takes twice the effort to get the meeting agenda, or even a basic conversation, back on track to the subject that needs addressing. I think she does this as a smokescreen to avoid receiving an assignment.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

One thing to do is to say “Please let me speak.” www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/open-gently/201709/how-deal-people-who-interrupt

@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын

I just shut up, let them speak, and _then_ speak.

@jpjp9111 3 жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle Thank you, Antonio. I'll check out that article.

@djkramit 4 жыл бұрын

Great tips. 👍

@anuragnayak6037 4 жыл бұрын

One of the best videos by you man! Great.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Anurag - thanks man.

@westphillykarate 4 жыл бұрын

Great content 👍

@dannypham9926 4 жыл бұрын

I need more of this thank you

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Dan - You're welcome. You can also check out our master class: rebrand-u.com/youtube

@danielkelley7548 2 жыл бұрын

This is great.

@garethofpembroke 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice, There is a place for pause and even extend this if it helps to bring in someone less confident and engage a broader audience.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Great idea Gareth - sounds like I should film part 2 of this video. Keep adding those suggestions here.

@pareenmehta1003 4 жыл бұрын

100% informative , solid content and being among first 600 people to watch , is amazing .

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for taking the time to do so. What did you like most about the video Pareen?

@pareenmehta1003 4 жыл бұрын

I think the whole video or videos are informative. Can't select a part of it.

@radioactivefa6129 3 жыл бұрын

THE GREATEST VIDEO OF ALL TIME

@TraditionArt 4 жыл бұрын

Great Advice, thank you very much for sharing - best wishes from Germany ❤️❤️❤️

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Love my viewers from Germany. Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment here.

@TraditionArt 4 жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle Thanks a lot, Great Video again ❤️❤️❤️

@kletts42 2 жыл бұрын

I need to start practicing 15 minutes early. I am usually about 5-10 minutes late. I need to improve that.

@pieterwesterink50 4 жыл бұрын

As a referee in field hockey this is also very usefull. You want to have the respect from the beginning so your autorithy is being listened to and have control over everyone on the pitch to have a nice and safe game.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Have you joined our master class Pieter? rebrand-u.com/youtube

@akualovepeace8957 Жыл бұрын

Thank you I'm a cleaner but I adopt these attitude and it helps me a lot I feel comfortable and feel at home when at work 👍

@tawandampofu2201 4 жыл бұрын

This is great man so much good advice man will live by it...... How is Africa treating u ?

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

It was awesome! Looking forward to going back there with the family :)

@HighSpeedNoDrag 4 жыл бұрын

7:28: I as well was required to under go Speech Therapy around age 9. Excellent point and awareness Sir!

@themanwithpan6607 4 жыл бұрын

Dont think it too much what to do. Just be yourself and authentic! It works for me.

@brandonbentley8532 4 жыл бұрын

Yup!

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more. Be yourself and have confidence. It works every time :)

@azulknight474 4 жыл бұрын

Where's that polo from? Looks great!

@MsChloeVEVO1 4 жыл бұрын

So i'm a really young woman (22yo) working in a man industry being an assistant manager and the youngest of the company.... that makes it very hard for me to be listened and taken seriously... hopefully this helps !

@dcg31free 8 ай бұрын

As soon as I heard Tip #1, I knew this was going to be good

@brandonbentley8532 4 жыл бұрын

Come in wearing two six shooters...wide brimmed hat optional. When entering a bar, buy everyone there a drink....instantly loved....hehe. All kidding aside but I always default to listening first, respond thoughtfully. Be impeccable with your word. When others are gossiping about someone speak well of that person instead.

@probablynot1368 4 жыл бұрын

@brandon bentley Your final sentence is golden, spoken (written?) as a true gentleman. Many thanks!

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Great examples. Have you checked out the new master class? rebrand-u.com/youtube

@chaddfry5345 3 жыл бұрын

I too had trouble with Rs and Ws since 1st grade, but learned to embrace it, and it's something that makes me a little unique.

@xanty_3513 3 жыл бұрын

5:39 Alpha M. in the crib boyyy

@sayyedfaizal1038 4 жыл бұрын

Nice Video Antonio I’m Waiting For This Video Thank God You Done it Your Advise is Always Perfect For Everything Antonio Keep it up 👍 Faizal From India 🇮🇳

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks man. You never fail to leave a comment in the last 5 videos :) And yes - I do read ALL the comments here.

@sayyedfaizal1038 4 жыл бұрын

Real Men Real Style Last 5 Videos I Comment in Every Video Antonio and Thanks 😊

@thepraetor8685 4 жыл бұрын

İ needed that

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Glad it helped. Have you joined our master class? rebrand-u.com/youtube

@HoTnHeavy89 4 жыл бұрын

And that’s how you win a pissing contest ladies and gentlemen

@johnparkerzabala 4 жыл бұрын

Cheers San Miguel Pale Pilsen

@ARM_DM 2 жыл бұрын

The crazy but yet normal thing in society is that if you're a loner, it's going to feel like you are stuck. I moved back to my hometown and never had much friends, the small amount of friends I had, moved out. I tried making connections at events and it's shocking to see how people react when you tell them or notice that you are by yourself, they change the way they act towards you and makes you feel like you committed a crime, as if they have all the power. It's RARE to find someone that wants to befriend a loner because most people now days don't have the courage to go to public places by themselves. So once you've reach 0 local friends, it will be ridiculously hard to get the ball rolling again.

@SkylerDouglas Жыл бұрын

Alpha M with the guest appearance NICE

@silverstreak8958 4 жыл бұрын

Did the thumbnail suddenly change from Mr. Centeno to someone with a look reminiscent of Alex Costa? PS: Loved the video, am back to the newsletter subscription and gonna save this one too! PPS: Hand gestures within a box works when you're standing at a podium. If you got the whole stage to yourself, you make sure you OWN it ✊✊.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Super - thanks man! P.S. That wasn't intentional :P

@junaidjoomun6787 4 жыл бұрын

I live in mauritius where are you exactly at

@countcastle6547 4 жыл бұрын

Not only for men but for all👍👌

@TheAviationChannel 4 жыл бұрын

I'm going to have my british airways work experience interview later this month. I bet one of the activities will be a group task. Thank you soooo much for the video. I really appreciate it. I have a question: how do you know what video to produce and at the right time?

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Monthly planning :) Good luck on your interview. Also - don't forget to check out the new master class :) rebrand-u.com/youtube

@Cale_Davison 4 жыл бұрын

Like the old saying, perhaps: when the student is ready a teacher will appear... heh!

@i9incher 4 жыл бұрын

10:14 hold up, did Dan Lok come to one of your events? :O

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Yes! :)

@SkylerDouglas Жыл бұрын

I seen Alpha M as well

@BeyondGenetics 4 жыл бұрын

Walking into work today like Antonio

@saranox7319 3 жыл бұрын

I move like I‘m a panorama 😜

@stevedoe3994 4 жыл бұрын

Any book recommendations on this subject?

@gav1983 4 жыл бұрын

Steve Doe check out the masterclass! Link in video description.

@stevedoe3994 4 жыл бұрын

@@gav1983 will do Thx

@Lambdamale. 4 ай бұрын

Man...Its so complicated. I remember my childhood days when I could literally just walk up to another child and ask them to play, and we were best friends for the next hour.

@brentkingston4389 4 жыл бұрын

A question, and maybe an idea for a video: how can you build a good crew? I have become a lone Wolf, a hardline lone Wolf, over the years and do not know how to change.

@Cale_Davison 4 жыл бұрын

I was just listening to a song by Curtis Harding: "I need a friend" It's a good thought for a video, and an important topic. We're all dying of loneliness in the modern world. You're not alone. Thanks for reminding me of that. What do you love, and can you be a part of it?

@brentkingstonphotography4615 4 жыл бұрын

@@Cale_Davison Good morning Mr. D., I love photography and I am wanting to do it full time, (and to say goodbye to my computer servicing job). A crew of a female model, or two, an e-commerce guru, a marketer, a Business Manager….the list goes on and on, and that a crew like that would be a Dream come true. I had a quick listen to Chris Harding and “I need a friend” on iTunes and yes, that is a good thought for a video. Check out “You’ve got a friend” by James Taylor and or Carole King; also on iTunes. Cheers,

@Cale_Davison 4 жыл бұрын

@@brentkingstonphotography4615 Thanks for reminding me of an old favorite tune (both versions are nice), and the thoughtful response from you. A fine day to you, sir.

@marinakulmann2015 4 жыл бұрын

thanks

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Marina - You're welcome - Glad to know you liked the information I put out. Which tip did you find most useful?

@aryaan8435 2 жыл бұрын

Mauritius 🇲🇺

@qarhsi 4 жыл бұрын

#early

@Unhacker 2 жыл бұрын

I know I'm the outlier, but I wear a tie and jacket pretty much everywhere. Is that a faux pas? It's how I'm most comfortable, and I've been doing it since I was 16. It's my "thing", and people even identify me with it: I'm "that suit and tie guy". I know there are times it may seem a little out of place, but not as out of place as shorts and sandals at a dinner, imho. I have a casual way of wearing it, though - I'm perfectly comfortable in it, usually loosen my tie a notch and unbutton the top button, indicating "I'm serious, but relaxed". I don't do flamboyant colors or patterns, its always simple, clean, classic basics. I shouldn't ask, as there's clearly 0% chance I'm going to change this, after 30+ years. ;)

@jakeo5947 4 жыл бұрын

Ayy

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Is this good or bad? :)

@jakeo5947 4 жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle good but you forgot one. Be a veteran, walk and talk with respect

@freedomring3022 4 жыл бұрын

Why did you turn off the comments on the Facebook group?

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Which post are you referring to? You can still post comments in the group.

@freedomring3022 4 жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle I went to the group and it said that my ability to comment was disabled? Not sure what I did, but that's what I get.

@amaze-on07 4 жыл бұрын

10:15 He is DAN LOK(red suite) do you notice

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Yes - it's a clip for the Menfluential conference event that we host every year :)

@amaze-on07 4 жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle it's appriciable Who can attend that conference Does it has any criteria .

@TheArizonaRanger. 4 жыл бұрын

The first rule to being a great story teller is to start every story with "No shit, there I was..."

@JB-ui1dq 4 жыл бұрын

Looks like Alex Costa in the thumbnail

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

I'm seeing a lot of Alex Costa in the comment section.

@emunahshalomselah5124 4 жыл бұрын

Pausing usually allows people to interrupt.

@apointb2260 4 жыл бұрын

Actually saying "speech coach" seems like a good diction exercise

@rad3790 4 жыл бұрын

Do you have any friends on KZfaq that does these kinds of advices to boys who wants to be men?

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Teaching Mens Fashion.

@rawjitt_trent3867 3 жыл бұрын

I’m just going to a different school😂

@duglife2230 4 жыл бұрын

Just kick the door open. Kidding. Don't do that. Please.

@st_king_jay 4 жыл бұрын

@madakesahil2233 4 жыл бұрын

New background in video... Shoot at home ... Trying something new.. Ausumm.

@RealMenRealStyle 4 жыл бұрын

Watch out for it :) We'll have more awesome videos coming in and a NEW background for you to look forward to.

@fionandanu9060 Жыл бұрын

Am a woman, but I have subscribed because class is genderless.

@joeydion8329 4 жыл бұрын

22 use a briefcase

@MatrixKeySystems 2 жыл бұрын

What a load of crap... bring your own crew, power dress, ring somebody for support, stick your chest out, regurgitate stories... these are the lamest of dudes. If you want people to respect you... always underdress, be alone, work the room with your own style.