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As a woman, hearing this makes me want to cry... This man speaks to my core. I am at a loss for words for his profound message, he is an example of a true man! Thank you Zan for standing for the masculine and loving the feminine in its purest form.

"Go climb a mountain and don't tell a soul" That one stuck with me.

"I get blasted by feminists. I don't care. I'll say it any way" -thats like a real man

As a woman, I can honestly say that we are starving for the masculine man! At 47 I am learning how to allow men to be men and unlearning all of the false info I have been taught. Thank you for this movement! I can’t wait to attend a 22 Convention!

"The size of your problems is the size of your life".

Sharing my notes for people who wants the essence of talk: #1 Change questions to statements. Don't ask, tell Example: ❎"Would you like to go on a date with me?" ☑️ "I would like to take you on a date sometime" #2 Energy of woman is in receiving mode Energy of man is in giving mode #3 Persist even when you can't find hope in your endeavours #4 Sexual desire and Kindness must be balanced. Too much niceness makes you a nice guy, too much sexual desire makes you a creep. Balance them #5 The biggest barrier men face is the belief that "I am not good enough" #6 Real Men are honest #7 Compliment the energy and vibe #8 Two Qualities of Men 1. Father figure (warrior) Setting boundaries with assertiveness Example: "I like you but I don't like the behaviour, don't do it again" 2. Little lost boys (Poet) A need to be taken care by a woman & being vulnerable. 9. Conclusion: Men who love Women are loved by women 10. Be decisive. Masculinity= Leadership. Hope this helps.

Possibly the most important talk I've heard . . . ever.

The Alabaster Girl is amazing book. It really cleansed my perspective on life and made me more hopeful and relaxed.

Benjamin Franklin said, If you want to be remembered, do something worth the writing or write something worth the reading.

I wish. I could retire all the RSD information, that taught technique, and obnoxious lifestyles and talk-tracks, and started listening to this. MY ego shattered recently, when I realized how much inner game I was lacking, simply by embodying spam approaches. What happens when you stop spam approaching for some days?! Square one. This is real inner game. Thank you, Zan!

Like a talk from the father I never had...

Zan is a Messenger.

This guy is giving us 40 years of experience in 1hr, respect.

I'm now a student of life.Thanks Zan.

I can't count how many times i've watch this video. The message is energetical and goes to the core of who we are as men and women. Long live Zan with live his truth

Best gift from 21 convention

wow he looks good for 52, thought he was like 45

52 years old! Looking amazing Zan! Very inspiring!!!

I'm not to sure how to start this but I guess I'll say this ..... his speech was incredibly motivating. I'm reading his book for the forth time now and I've gotten so much better at communicating with women. Zan your speech definitely landed with me or I guess I should say it's landing with me. Thank you Zan and thank you 21 Convention.

Thanks for uploading this for free guys. Lovely stuff

This has to be one of Zan's most profound speeches I've heard so far! His message gets straight to your soul.

Almost every word he spoke, every sentence he made and every silence in between has been a journey of realization. Thank you!

55:00 is honestly the most insightful and valuable information i've ever read concerning this subject. And trust me, i've read and heard A LOT

This guy is whom we all need to listen to more frequently. AMAZING stuff Thank you 21 Studios and Zan Perrion

This video made me shed tears of how truthful and impactful his wisdom is... right on Zan! - I hope to learn directly from you one day during my travels.

Fantastic talk. All our sons and brothers should be told to watch this talk. Brilliant.

This is peak knowledge on masculinity. Powerful shit.

Sir, I clapped for you watching this from home. Great talk, much needed wisdom, knowledge, and insight.

best video on this channel so far! Zan is just always amazing to watch - especially in full lengh version!;-) greetings from Germany

That was beautiful, reading his book right now. It's time for a new generation of men

This speech was fantastic, thank you to Anthony for getting him in as a speaker.

This is the best youtube channel I have ever encountered. Thank you

What makes this talk so special is that it is TIMELESS. This will be useful in a 100 years and would have been useful 100 years ago.

I literally used some of the things he mentions in his talk while chatting with a girl the other day and it made a difference for sure

Zan is areal as they come , for him to be so brave and tell his story is so powerful . He had a big heart BE PROUD OF WHO YOU IS

This is the video I've been waiting for so long to come out

Renounce everything that keeps you small. If not now, when? Yes, even if you did that thing for 2 years already. Yes, even when your parents are against it. Yes, even when you are afraid. Because this is it. This is the one life. And now... who are you gonna become? What do you want? Who are you? Be authentic to that. Don't fake nonneediness/non attachement. If you see something you like, that makes you feel something. Express it - and relax - you showed up. You did your job as a man.

Thanks Johnny Depth for such an enlighting talk. You really went into amazing depth of these less talked concepts.

I'm in tears, I can definitely relate to this..tough years

The only guy in this 21 convention that doesn't seem like a grifter, I like how he moves and talks, great speaker!

Become the hero of your own movie. Visualize it and live it. Excellent Speach Zan. Bought your book today.

The tears jus started to flow for no reason from 11:15-11:30 that one stung abit. But I get it now thank you sir I needed to understand this. For years I've been between alpha and beta and didn't know why, now I get it.

"Every great life has had a great renunciation." Renounce things in your life that keep you small (example Zan gave was a person's parents expectations of college and expectations to stay in a field of work that you do not enjoy).

Zan Perrion is my Sensei. I like him and I feel his energy. True words are spoken here guys and gals

Wow - powerfully authentic. Much needed message. thank you!

Best speech ive ever seen. unmatched charisma!

Rejoice! You have found the goat. Love this guy!

Guy who asks the first question at around 1:30 misheard Zan's term. It's not Warriors and Poets, it's the Warrior's Repose. Just a quick note so you don't lose context for what Zan intended to convey.

"Beige ASEXUAL MEN..." On point. Go Zan, thank you very much. I feel so sad for men growing up in my generation, its such a violation to the masculine that is happening

I love Zan, his opinions and content speaks to me

Just ordered the book, good job man. Looking forward to the read.

To often, we forsake our authentic self. We subdue our passion and purpose, in favour of performance. It is a futile attempt to uphold the facade of what we THINK we ought to be, rather than the conviction to be what we ought to be. It ultimately fails, because people can sense the incongruity between who you purport to be, and who you actually are. A man with conviction: determination, persistence in the face of fear, the courage to acknowledge his fears, and the passion to pursue his dreams in the face of it, brings that energy with him, into a room. It is magnetic. It is that willingness to acknowledge fear, the adventurous aspirational child-like aspect of masculinity, that gives you that mystique. His awareness of others, begins with self-awareness, a sense of his own humanity, that cultivates compassion for others. That vulnerability IS your humanity. Embrace it.

This like best speech ever

Thanks 21. Youve had some great fantastic teachers up there that I liked

Really amazed by the contents of (21 Studios) [The21Convention] keep up the good work!

Really appreciated you for sharing this wisdom. Totally feel you!

This video changed the way I view life and I hope you got a epiphany watching this Go get your dream life

The prophet has spoken

Better than I thought it would would be and very sound advice and observations when you cut through the new age phrasing

hands down the best video I have seen on this channel

Zan has always been in another level.

Pure gold right here boys.

Joe rogan should invide zan

Clear intentions, clear message, outcome independent, numbers game,

wow the Fear of success part really hits home!

Absolutely inspiring. Every young man should be taught this In School at age 17 or 18 and we wouldn't have so many lost men in life. ! Men are more like women and women are more like men is so true now. !

Excellent, this speech is very important, for life in general.

thank god for finding this channel

direct and enlightening speech. I loved it.

Well... that was a TALK! Great experience. Great knowledge! Thank You!

This talk is a beautiful thing. Thank you.

finalllllyyyy!!!! Thank you very much! highly appreciated!

Been here countless times, some say it’s a rare gem, or it has about it, this theoclassical way, and this time around, it dawns, (in part to the gentleman with that thoughtful question) that perhaps, nice or should say, kind gentleman’s are but romantics (or “hopelessly”) in the rough... Realized now, coming back from makeshift outlets, that had gone almost fully astray... In order to In/ordinate Ie Etc. More Zan, more

First!!.....also Zan’s speech is amazing.

Everyone needs to see this.

The Alabasta Girl just arrived at my place. Cannot wait to start reading!

Very Helpful, I listen to a lot of stuff, but felt that I could really relate to Yan

very profound stuff. you speak the truth Zan, thank you

1:09:00 This question is a brilliant one. With all respect to the gentleman asking. My answer is to start somewhere. Anywhere from a place of truth. Who am I to answer this question? Nobody, to you. Though someday, like you, I shall be forgotten. But maybe one of you, out there, will read this message and feel the honesty, authenticity, and "Start".

Zan is my superhero. He has changed everything for me. I am very grateful for his book which he has written. I'll hope it gets very, very good translations to all languages in this world, but it is better to read it in its original language to very understand what he means.

Zan is my Hero

I learned a lot from this. Thank you

Pure, amazing and excellent, thank you!

I love this guy!...dropping truth bombs all over the place!

So thankful I watched this.

If you step into nothing your foot will land on something. OMG yes its a step of faith. "Somebody will give you the next step" Because they see the progress in you. DONE. GOLD

Zan's always so likeable, and so cool in a non douchey way. BE LIKE ZAN.

This is just brilliant. Yes to statements instead of questions!!!!!!! Additionally less texting more phone calls please.

Amazing, thank for all of you guys works! And its seem odd but sometime Zan's voice remind me of Alan Watts lol

2 years later Peterson started talking about the meaning of responsibility for males as well as the '' edge '' that is missing, as Perrion said. No wonder as boys we resonated to much with the message.

25:37 that so true that I feel it when he talks bout it. Finally it feels good to hear it 28:00

you crush it again zan!

Spot on Zen. Particularly about the part of seeing/feeling a woman's energy vs her outer beauty - which is her parents' accomplishment not hers. Men don't like it when they get judged based on their car or bank account, naturally; that doesn't describe who they are, so why do men continue to value a woman's physical beauty so much? Then when they have enough of the eye candy they discover that her remaining attributes may not be as well developed, but by that time there's 1.5 children on the way. And you wonder why the family unit dissolves. I'm surprised men/women haven't figured this out yet: hold out to have kids until you found the right person to have them with and can't hold out anymore. No more 'oops'; guess we're stuck with each other for now - which only lasts a few years. Result: the reality of more than 50% of our current society. The other critical point you made: experience. Couple that with a good mentor, or decent material like your book, (planning on buying it) THAT is how you fast track life experience. I'll share this: I was in sales for the first 12 yrs of my career. Started a software co at 19; internet was only 2 hrs old. To get clients I started networking. Do you know what it's like to shake/quiver uncontrollably (vaguely noticeably, voice quivering, face beat red from shame and discomfort of my mere existence + the idea of asking for business) for 2 hrs prior to entering the trade show, the 8+ hrs at the trade show, and 1-2 hrs after? I do. But I wouldn't let myself leave until I earned the 'right' to leave: when I spoke with enough ppl and collected enough business cards to keep me busy for weeks (150+ cards). Took years to desensitize myself to the fear of rejection and failure. Now I can walk into a hall with hundreds of booths and thousands of ppl and engage in conversation. I enjoy it. It's fun. Had I had a mentor, I could have fast tracked. For those of us who like or are forced to learn on our own, there is a delicious self respect that accompanies us, everywhere, knowing that our own personal journey was much more challenging and and as result we developed a deeper skill. That's a source of confidence. Also, knowing that we didn't allow ourselves to give up yesterday gives us the confidence to know we won't allow ourselves to give up today. THAT'S where most of my confidence comes from. And how did I do that? I asked myself: if I give myself an excuse to give up early today, what's to stop me from using the same excuse tomorrow? Answer: today I must do a little better than yesterday. Minimum one more business card. AND. NEVER. EVER. LEAVE ON A BAD NOTE. Always leave on a positive note. If you leave on a bad note, your brain will kick you in the teeth the next time you endeavour that same task. Much harder to self start afterwards. Also: what I'm wearing is irrelevant. Really. There is a balance between casual and formal, which I rarely paid attention to, but here's the trick: the less impressive clothes you wear, the more it forces you to develop real, genuine skill. You work harder, but you get better, faster. Then you know that what you are, what you have inside you is real, it won't vanish when you disrobe at the end of the day. Tomorrow morning that confidence will still be with you as soon as you wake up. No one can take it from you, just like no one can give it to you. I vehemently disagree with bringing one's sexual energy to work. I'm there to work, not anything else. I take my work very seriously, I enjoy it immensely. When other ppl have other agendas ... There is a time and a place for things, student of life. Also, most of the time, it's NOT a good idea to date someone you work with.

This guy is SO awesome!

For all those men who are going out of they're way to better themselves in understanding women; rather it's by getting help from pick-up artist, reading guide books, taking classes to sway women seductively, I'll save you guys from going down the rabbit hole (which may take years for you to get out of as your mind's perspective will wrongfully be misconstrued), start by taking some time out of your busy schedule, and JUST WATCH THIS VIDEO. I kid you not, you will thank yourself for doing so. This is the type of man that all men should be taking notice of by versifying what Zan Perrion is conveying (Speaker on this video; btw he's Canadian who grew up in the wilderness; which helps to develop a higher sense of awareness for all that is around you, physically, spiritually, as well as a continuous rendering sense of intuition. I can vouch for him as I had the same upbringing, just from a later time; the deliverance of every message will enlighten you as it did for me, I can promise you that). Zan Perrion, for you, thank you for having gone through all the hardship and the good of which has made you the person you are today, and thank you for being a man who continue his journey throughout the struggles to help shed a light on this world. It is all part of a revelation that is at work. Yours Sincerely,Keelan Delaurier

Dude this guys is amazing

It's hard for me to hear some of the painful truths in this video.

YES!! this is thrilling, can you feel it?

This speech is beauty