As a Mum of an autistic girl, I must say Lyla’s mum is absolutely amazing. Her sensitivity & understanding of her daughter’s brain difference, means this little girl is in awesome hands. I wish them well, they are both so beautiful! 💕
@samanthabaxter39543 ай бұрын
My son is 3 and got diagnosed with moderate non verbal ASD this past halloween.....i felt this mums pain of just wanting to help her child. 🙏🏻❤️
@billy-jadeachiu22963 ай бұрын
I love when parents of autistic children tell you their autistic right from the get go...it's much easier to do what needs to be done when as a healthcare worker you're informed...Lyla's mum did great.
@curtispandachuk93233 ай бұрын
That Jamaican guy is so so sweet It’s kind of a shame that he sometimes has to deal with aggressive people he’s got the best mentality ever ❤
@TSBS9863 ай бұрын
Absolutely loved the security guard….amazing man and valuable employee for this hospital. 👍❤️
@pamabernathy87283 ай бұрын
Lucy is a SUPER STAR Mum!!! And Sugar is an amazing man. This episode is so touching, even more than usual. BTW, we staff members conspired to let a husband bring the family's beloved pet rabbit to visit her in our inpatient mental health unit. The lady had a private room. The rabbit was super tame. Ride in a bowling ball bag, quiet & still. Box trained, so no mess during the brief visit. 1 RN had a double yellow head parrot -- very healthy -- with tips of flight wings trimmed. He talked & did tricks. He spent a short visit in the nurses' station, patients could choose if they wanted to pass by. The above all decades ago. I am now retired, since 2017. Blessings to all.
@TechnikMeister23 ай бұрын
I am in Australia and I specialise in Autism Transition. This is where they finish school and all the support and tailored teaching that they have been given and used to ends, and they have to join the community to find their way. You cannot protect them from this. It's not fair to expect parents to have a lifelong obligation to effectively look after their adult Autism children 24/7 forever. They don't need this like other severe disabilities. The sooner that this occurs the better. Of course this only applies to those who are not severely disabled by it. We have funded transition programs to help them get used to being with strangers and to understand their condition. They need very firm boundaries and predictability. Thats makes them feel safer. You teach them to build these themselves and to plan their lives even down to even an hourly basis, because beneath it, they want to be like the other young people. The anger and frustration comes from not understanding why they are different and then accepting it.
@debragatz26473 ай бұрын
How do you access this type of program plz. I'm in Australia and my granddaughter has level 1 autism
@marnidamoulakis38272 ай бұрын
I had no idea that this was a thing in Australia, I’ll have to look into it! I’ve never heard of it! What state are you in?
@TechnikMeister22 ай бұрын
@@marnidamoulakis3827 NSW. Our system places priority on enabling people to lead normal lives. In schools, these kids are not put into special classes except where its necessary. That makes it worse for them and hinders integration. They are put at the front of the class where a teacher can monitor them closely and give them support. This breakdowns the feeling of alienation.
@curtispandachuk93233 ай бұрын
That Lila is so so adorable. She’s just got the cutest little cheeky face ❤ not to mention I do love her pair of headphones
@user-pj1ut5lg4d3 ай бұрын
The parrot is gorgeous. ❤
@shirleyac123 ай бұрын
The little container. Sweet
@franciseyre15823 ай бұрын
Belongs in a zoo not a hospital.
@curtispandachuk93233 ай бұрын
I could totally understand if like it was a wild bird just flapping around in everybody’s face, but it’s quite obvious that that bird was quite tame like It’s not like somebody showed up with an orangutan or something
@curtispandachuk93233 ай бұрын
I remember my first time on anaesthetics that was hilarious. It was between having uncontrollable giggles and being completely zonked out. 😂
@bethdow33323 ай бұрын
Fantastic show…. Please keep posting! Thank you so much!
@jaydaye42783 ай бұрын
I grew up with undiagnosed autism and was ab*sed bc I wasn't "acting normal". I'm happy this mum is doing what she can to help her daughter and accommodate her needs. Love to her ❤
@squiggle.64Ай бұрын
I really feel for Lyla as someone else with autism and adhd, I wasn’t diagnosed until i was 15 but her relationship with her mum reminds me so much of me and my mum. Even when I was younger and wasnt diagnosed my mum always tried her best to understand the things about me that were “different” and advocated for me in every way she could. my dad is also autistic (we realised he had it when i was getting diagnosed) and so he could understand me better but that did not stop my mum trying to help and understand both of us as best as she could. love you mum and dad💛
@vickyfibe53403 ай бұрын
I absolutely love their past stories ❤️ you never know what people have gone through in life. Really opens up people's eyes
@susancronick3 ай бұрын
As an autism mom, you are doing awesome 💕
@nikkikidd84283 ай бұрын
I bet that Parrot would have been a great distraction for poor little Lyla and her painful fingernail xo
@river87602 ай бұрын
Omg no!
@andreasaunders41003 ай бұрын
I feel for the mam of the little girl with autism and adhd , my son has both diagnoses, she will find her way honestly xx
@pamabernathy87283 ай бұрын
Layla is a beautiful little girl, inside & out. With the love she has, she WILL be an amazing young woman!!
@elizabethroberts62153 ай бұрын
……had a horse rear-up on me, but I threw myself down from the waist, over his off shoulder, which brought him down onto his front hoofs’ again. Maybe the fact of riding since I was 8, &’ my then 15years’ of experience saved me a fall………
@elizabethroberts62153 ай бұрын
……p s …… my horse was 18hh………
@melanytodd29293 ай бұрын
Jack's mum❣♥️
@river87602 ай бұрын
Sugar is so kind and engaging, what a sweetheart. 😀
@river87602 ай бұрын
Jack’s Mom is so fantastic. ❤
@kristymadden153 ай бұрын
I’m really surprised that they allowed the bird in the hospital! Obviously he loves the bird!
@jojomart3 ай бұрын
I think he mentioned it was a therapy bird.
@karenmclaughlan91283 ай бұрын
Therapy bird 😂😂@@jojomart
@jojomart3 ай бұрын
@@karenmclaughlan9128LOL well you never know what might be considered a therapy animal :P
@river87602 ай бұрын
@@jojomartHe then said “he knows that’s a joke” to the parrot, so no. 😂
@nicolemoore3275Ай бұрын
Lyla and mum, you both did fantastic. My heart was with you every step of the way from 🇨🇦. I know all too well what you both were going through. Lyla reminds me so much of my son at that age, she will exceed all expectations!
@sarahlee66413 ай бұрын
If you use meters/cm instead of pre-decimal mesurements, you can guess the height of the horse by putting a 0 at the end, due to average hand-width being 10 cm (4 inches), and is usually up to shoulder-height for the horse, not head due to movements/stability of the rider on it's back, during rides.
@curtispandachuk93233 ай бұрын
I don’t know what it is about the word pus, but it just grosses me right out 😂
@pattyobrien2720Ай бұрын
I have an autistic daughter, she's 24 now and still gets very overwhelmed with lots of situations, it's very hard as a mom to watch her go through these things, her melt downs are very emotional for both of us. I wish you luck for her future. Kids can be very mean to other kids.
@luciennewallace49593 ай бұрын
What a superb Mum Lyla has
@river87602 ай бұрын
She’s incredible! So in tune with her child. ❤
@user-pj1ut5lg4d3 ай бұрын
People r so heartless with the parrot. He’s am❤amazing❤
@renb61333 ай бұрын
Also, parrots get very bonded to their owners & often consider them their “mates.” They’re extremely intelligent animals & can literally die from the grief of separation. I don’t understand why people feel the need to dim someone else’s joy. He’s not hurting anyone, neither is his parrot. I’m sure the bird is healthy & free of disease/parasites. Without that bird, that patient mightn’t have made it. Let’s not go overboard in over-dramatising situations. Remember, everyone used to openly smoke in hospitals. In comparison, I think a parrot is a minor concession to make!
@curtispandachuk93232 ай бұрын
It is kind of shocks me to know that drugs that are technically illegal are used in our medical system in a professional capacity
@cynhiacations98792 ай бұрын
I'm sure the legal system has laws in place for medical use of fentanyl and ketamine. The illegal use came after reactions of the drugs from medical use was noticed
@curtispandachuk93233 ай бұрын
It really peeves me off to think that a mother could even have the slightest fear that her children would be judged for something so stupid I mean, seriously who the hell judges somebody just because they have a physical or mental disability
@InspirationalWolverine-gm6xq3 ай бұрын
Lots of people do actually. And In school children can be so evil. Im a disabled adult and iv been judged alot by other adults.
@almaeclu2 ай бұрын
If your statement means you've gone through life without you or your loved ones being bullied, I'm super happy for you. Both adults and kids can be really mean to/exclude others because they're different. It happens more often than you might think.
@curtispandachuk93232 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for I don’t know what to say like I am the least judgemental person out there and while I appreciate your replies, it really infuriates me that people look down on people like that
@RainerandRobert25 күн бұрын
I absolutely love 24 Hours In A&E it’s my favorite tv show along side In The Night Garden Justin’s House and Show Me Show Me and 999 On The Frontline and Emergency Helicopter Paramedics and Billie and Greg The Family Diaries and Ferne McCann My Family And Me
@curtispandachuk93233 ай бұрын
Like seriously you know you don’t expect everybody to be an animal lover, but I mean learn to love a little, not be such a crank pot
I was diagnosed with Aspergers aged 7. I would fall over as a child and not cry. Unless I had physical signs they couldn't always tell if I was unwell or hurt. High pain threshold when I had appendix issues aged 19.
@chrislee10963 ай бұрын
Terrible nurse never got over seeing film “The Birds” and refusing to get gentleman in recsus
@curtispandachuk93232 ай бұрын
I don’t get what everybody’s big deal with this parrot is like it stays on his hand. It’s nice it’s friendly. Personally, I would love for that thing to come climb over to me and say hi.
@cynhiacations98792 ай бұрын
I have a phobia of birds. If one flies or flaps their wings near me I have a severe anxious moment. I'm sure that any hospital wouldn't want patients to be screaming and running around.
@headerahelixАй бұрын
@@cynhiacations9879I love birds but agree with you. Then again, I knew a girl afraid of balloons and you see them quite often in hospital lol. Of course way less potential for chaos with a balloon.
@moni19504123 ай бұрын
No matter how old they are when they sick they want their mom..
@tassiegirl19913 ай бұрын
The hospital is lucky to have the security guard who spoke on this video he is a big asset I am sure they appreciate him Lila’s mother needs some help she was great but then lost it which didn’t help her child. She is looking for things that are not there.
@river87602 ай бұрын
She was and is an incredible Mom. No need to say what you did!
@littlebitacresfarm25203 ай бұрын
😊
@curtispandachuk93232 ай бұрын
I pretty much thought I was dead when that happened to me. I mean, that is like you might as well have a car rollover on you.
@curtispandachuk93232 ай бұрын
I was surprised to find out that technically speaking fentanyl and heroin are actually used in professional capacity, of course, in the medical system I don’t know it kind of shocks me that you see the way that they abused outside of our hospital
@whythoidk2 ай бұрын
Wait does the parrot not breach health and safety 😭
@walkwithmeASMR2 ай бұрын
That mum needs to do better at masking her victim mentality. Its going to spread to her child. You NEED to push your children to be brave and just get on with things sometimes and not always pander. There is a fine line between being aware of her daughters autism and just simply letting her child rule the roost. And before anyone says anything i have a 16 year old with ADHD and autism and im telling you now, you cant be saying awww poor baba everytime they are in a stressful situation.
@sheriaustin8750Ай бұрын
Thank you for saying the quiet part out loud
@curtispandachuk93232 ай бұрын
Speaking from experience having a horse roll over on you that is not fun. Good God I feel bad for that person that took me away for quite a while.
@curtispandachuk93233 ай бұрын
No offense, but I mean seriously for people saying that they would flip their lid just because there’s an animal around what is wrong with you like it’s not harming you
@bonniebeams504Ай бұрын
Every child has autism anymore. They better find out why its happening.
@gracekelly28102 ай бұрын
Here is one difference between NHS and American Drs - no way would American Drs waited 2 full years, 18 different antibiotics to do something different, more serious to find out what was going on with the beautiful Lyla.
@amybaker52413 ай бұрын
So basically what im getting ...if you dont want to wait forever to see a doctor just act like a walking arsehole and you get seen faster.
@user-ew2px6nz1u3 ай бұрын
How come they don't sedate Lyla?
@melmazing39933 ай бұрын
Agreed. She is abusive and aggressive. I know it's her condition but the fact is she clearly has violent tendencies. It would have been safer for all if she was sedated.
@PatriciaShannon-vy4uo3 ай бұрын
@@melmazing3993 Are you high? She is a little girl who was surrounded by a bunch of so-called medical professionals who should have known how to handle the situation. Instead, they surrounded her touching and talking to her at the same time. They had no idea what they were doing. They caused all of her emotional trauma. Based on their behavior it is surprising that they were able treat her at all.
@cindycreateforlife3 ай бұрын
Sedation requires a breathing tube in a surgical suite or resuscitation room, that would be a last resort. Just the gas and air was traumatic for her because she has been through a lot and has autism!
@orellagillette24843 ай бұрын
@@cindycreateforlifethere is a thing called conscious sedation. This would’ve been a good idea for her. They’re asleep until the med is stopped and then wake up immediately.
@melmazing39933 ай бұрын
@@PatriciaShannon-vy4uo yes I am, the weed where I live is excellent.
@robinconner66523 ай бұрын
T🙄oo bad you can't hear it unless you turn up high!
@elizabethroberts62153 ай бұрын
……have only on halfway volume, & can hear all perfectly………
@cathymadsen29303 ай бұрын
I'm fine on my TV... no sound issue at all.
@auntbee19593 ай бұрын
Hubby and I couldn’t have children. Cheated is a good word about how that feels. Especially when your friends are having abortions and then getting pregnant again and again and keeping those children.
@curtispandachuk93232 ай бұрын
Not to make light of the matter, but it’s weird to think that fentanyl and heroin actually do serve a good purpose in some scenarios
@ellceerandomАй бұрын
Who asks to be sectioned? I really don’t get why 😮
@curtispandachuk93233 ай бұрын
To each their own, but I mean whenever there’s an animal around animals are usually the most loving yeah that comment just goes to prove why so many people say that people suck
@shirleyac123 ай бұрын
Exactly , people think and act individually. I like most animals but I understand that others don’t . I think as long as no upset caused it’s ok but I get that others see it as unhygienic and they could be scared . We are all unique in our likes and dislikes.
@vickimoran1349Ай бұрын
I can't imagine a parrot can be the most sanitary thing to have in a hospital. Not sure how I'd feel about it if I was a patient.
@angelaame61483 ай бұрын
Who hates parrots??😢
@river87602 ай бұрын
I don’t hate them, but I’m not a fan. 😂
@atticusvilly8883 ай бұрын
Parrots should never be pets! I’m sure this man loves his, but too many birds suffer in the exotic pet trade!
@PatriciaShannon-vy4uo3 ай бұрын
@40:10 These so-called medical professionals handled this wrong. There were too many of them surrounding her at one time. Surprising that they were able to treat her. They caused all of her trauma. Her mother should have filed a complaint against all of them.
@CymruEmergencyResponder3 ай бұрын
Shhhhh. They were fine.
@thewildetyme11123 ай бұрын
she’s fine
@PatriciaShannon-vy4uo3 ай бұрын
@@CymruEmergencyResponder These so-called professionals ramped up her fears. This little girl is autistic and suffers from ADHD. They were wrong 100%. They should have known better. They are very fortunate that I am not her mother.
@river87602 ай бұрын
@@PatriciaShannon-vy4uoThey were definitely not the best! A child life specialist could’ve been helpful here too, and her Mom is incredible. Such a challenging situation and I really felt for both Lyla and her Mom.
@jeanieesajian23253 ай бұрын
I would absolutely flip my lid if there was a parrot or any animal other thAn a support animal in a medical facility where I was being treated.
@heidis46773 ай бұрын
Why?
@heidis46773 ай бұрын
What about the bird being w their owner, more than likely helping them, concerns you? And why can’t a bird offer the same service as another animal?
@melindakaufman66053 ай бұрын
I’d love it and be asking for pets.
@nikkikidd84283 ай бұрын
With respect I would just have to put it to you that it probably IS a support animal and if that is the only prerequisite needed for you to be comfortable with it, then just tell yourself that it’s a support animal lol. But in defence of the gentleman that owned the parrot, it’s almost certain that when he left his house that day, he didn’t have a clue that he was going to end up in the emergency room lol. At least he had it in a little backpack and could keep it in there and not out in the open where it could get injured or make someone uncomfortable. Which seems a lot less complicated and cumbersome that a support dog.