I can tell you.. as a woman. I'm glad I found Kevin Samuels. But sad to say I did once he passed away. But this man.. this man humbled me and changed my mindset and has challenged me to change my ways. I cannot unsee the disgrace many of us women carry and the lack of accountability we have... WAKE UP LADIES!! Especially if you have a son(s).

at least she respectful and not loud ghetto and obnoxious. I wish her the best

“You let him hit it RAW, you had no second thoughts…now you a single mom”

His ability to say a needed truth regardless of her feelings is what's missing in todays world

Most women want to be married, but most don't want to be wives. There is a big difference!

Asking a man to provide for the child that you made with another man is very disrespectful.

She definitely needs therapy. She was completely dysregulated when Kevin refused to gratify or coddle her. This is a child.

If a man has exercised a level of self discipline having no kids before marriage, he should at least search for a woman who has the same self discipline.

The fact that she constantly tries to justify her mistakes and not caring about how men see it is so ridiculous

Kevin is 1000% correct when he talks about dating with intent. When I was still single I never dated anyone who didn't want the end goal of getting married and having kids. It's a waste of time to date someone with opposite goals.

She said she didn't decide to be "independent" and a single mother?? Women LITERALLY make thise decisions. Zero accountability.

This is why we need to start raising these girls to not just have babies because they can

Why would people call in for advice but become so argumentative when he wouldn't tell them what they wanted to hear. LOL

Listen as a woman like myself with no kids. I am now finding out that dating a man with kids will not benefit me in any way. So men/women with kids out of wedlock must accept this reality. It sounds harsh. But it’s the truth!

This man was an absolute blessing to Black people and continues to be. He forced these women to engage logic when they refused to.

She’s definitely not wife material. Gentlemen don’t make this mistake, it will ruined your life.

This is a great segment. You folks should respect both Kevin, and the young lady for being authentic and teaching us all a lesson.

I grew up wanting to be a wife and mother. My parents raised all four of us girls to be a wife. I have been married almost forty years. My sisters also are married with children, it’s all about the right mindset..

Stepdad here. It is no glory in it.

It’s clear she just wants to be a wife. She needs to focus on raising her daughter and maturing mentally.

This poor young woman is another example of her environment unfortunately. Too many women have made the mistake of trying to trap a man by getting pregnant. A man marries a woman for love not because she has his child or to trap him. The cycle of deceit has to be broken.

The problem women have with KS is that he doesn't give them the answer to get out of their situation.

That felony comparison was deep and on point. Basically your at the mercy that someone will be willing to take the chance and risk. The vast majority will not!

The "BABY MOMMA BOX" ! 😅

Another single mother looking for a bailout

Her wig tells the real story. It's..... hiding the truth of an unmade reality

Even Sponge Bob and Patrick can’t believe what they’re hearing

Biggest mistake I made was being a step father. I've moved on and will never make that mistake again.

No French toast accountability with a side order of crocodile tears

Damn that was a good one. Never seen this KS clip before. This man is highly missed. May the Godfather rest in peace.

I swear most of the women I see on this show lacks empathy. They never consider what the man has to go through to accept a woman and her child smh. It’s a burden smh

I see Section 8, food stamps, medicaid, total welfare pkg.

She is in shock . She is upset with her life choice of having a baby first now the reality has set in. She definitely looking for a stepfather. She crying but when men cry they say man up. Welcome to a man's world.

She could of married her child father. She didn't want that.

My god the level of accountability women show are sooo ridiculous. It’s absolutely sad, then play victim after they made stupid choices.

This is EXACTLY what she needed to hear. She could decide to level up and increase her personal worth and improve her daughter’s prospects OR give up and continue on the downward path.

I love the way KS called out women who brought children into this world without the benefit of marriage. What were they thinking??? And now they want marriage.

They swear they're special. Nope.

She may be crying. But there are many people laughing. I'll leave it at that. The one lesson almost everybody inevitably learns in life. There is always the good chance there will be nobody to RESCUE YOU. Facts.

KS really gave it a college try patching up the black community. We’re so broken. Trying to reason with a foster care baby mama is extremely difficult and he does it with the simplest of ease.

I wish Kevin would talk about the single mothers who are married. It’s a real thing and marriage is not the ultimate prize.. successful loving supportive marriage is. Also, Kevin never tells these men or women about his divorced wife being remarried and still married to this day

🌺As a foster kid I always felt like a family girl with no family. Married young and had a baby. Then his mask came off. Violence. Very confusing. I left. Sometimes being a single mom is better. It's way better than being with a dangerous person. That's common for foster kids to want a family. I get her.

Are you a wife? ..wives wouldn't waste their time. Important info

People need to understand that there is an order you're supposed to follow. Once you get out of order, you have to make the best out of what you have.

Spreading your legs and pop-up kid before a marriage has consequences. If you weren't planning on marrying your baby daddy's, why have a kid for him? And come on these streets looking for another man to take care of a responsibility of another man's problem.

Why are they all like this ??!!!!!

Accountability is like kryptonite to women

I feel so badly for a lot of women because they will not get married because of their choices. We have to make decisions that are intentional and thoughtful for the best outcomes for our lives. Ladies don’t fall for it! When he wants to marry you HE WILL DO IT. Unless yal are under 24ish and went to college I understand not getting married in college but men don’t usually fumble women they want to marry. If he is not proposing there is something fundamental about you that he doesn’t want to commit to early. He doesn’t trust something about you. Also when you have kids - they a lot of times don’t want to marry a woman with kids because they have to commit to the child in a very serious way too. I hate it for these women but life is real. The choices we make today are the consequences we face tomorrow. Ladies - get off market early! Don’t let multiple men experience you! Get therapy! Pick best option for you!

she's looking for a meal ticket, and a bill payer.

She likes to argue. She doesn’t want to admit that she made a bad mistake. Marriage is probably not in her future.

Modern women want independent choices without consequences.

It’s sad. She wants a man to save her.

That convicted felon example was so on point 🔥🔥🔥🔥

Kevin sounded actually really sincere with her and I could hear that he actually had some feelings in him when he was talking and almost slipped up being nice

19:03 let me tell you something! she doesn't give a shit who she marries she just wants to be married! HOW DO I GET MARRIED! WTF?

She sounds like my mother, who took 40% of my father's business because she called herself the office manager, even though every decision she made had disastrous results. My father taught me a valuable lesson in marrying my mother.

BUT WHILE HE WAS PIPING HER DOWN SHE NEVER SAW HIS MENTAL INSTABILITY

KS was a true pioneer in this field. He did a fantastic job to enlighten men and warning women about their bad choices. RIP

She's crying because she realizes her predicament.

You can get married but maybe not to who you want.

Kevin is truly a legend

This women are airheads. The disrespect must stop

Multiple kids multiple baby daddies ain’t stop my husband from stepping in and loving me but of course he was god sent I prayed for that don’t loose hope

To be honest I’ve witnessed a ton of people have one or two children and later got married and stayed together nobody is 100 percent perfect I do not have kids myself at 30 but I’ve learned to keep my mouth shut when it comes to people and dating. Joyce Meyer a famous televangelist literally had a child, was poor, and abandoned by her first husband then a few months later she met her current husband had children with him and been married to him for over 30 plus years. I know a lot of people would be in the same boat with kids if it weren’t for abortio***s, birth contraceptives, giving up for adoption, and miscarriages to cover up the truth to save face.

IF THINGS DO NOT GO HER WAY -IT IS MELT DOWN TIME.

This has become almost the norm among these women.

I can relate to Kevin's comments because my older sister and I was a stepchildren and my stepdad literally hated us. Period. My mom put us out as teens because of the three kids my mother had with my stepdad. Women.....men don't enjoy being step Dad's.

Sadly this woman was failed by her parents due to a poor upbringing then ending up in children's services until her adulthood. No one taught her self respect and to make wise life choices. Why wasn't she on birth control when she was dating the first boyfriend who she learnt later was an unstable partner in life. This poor woman is craving what she did not receive during her own childhood (stability/love/support) and her poor life choices has has made her a baby momma fearing for her own and child's future.

She’s looking for marriage as a bailout Hail Mary plan

This woman is just like Jada Pickett-Smith just like that movie Nate I’m i’m in a bind.

Godfather told nothing but FACTS

This woman is looking for captain saver --

F A I R : THIS IS YET ANOTHER WORD THAT MODERN WOMAN DOESNT KNOW THE DEFINITION TOO !

When you hear what Kevin Samuels is saying, he's right. It's a screwed position for a man to date a woman with children for another man. And she would expect him to take care of children that aren't his. It's all screwed up. For any man to take care of kids that aren't his. And why would they if they aren't biologically his?

The solution is keep your legs closed or use protection when having sec

Being a "step father" requires a certain type of strength...not all men possess that quality! But for the step fathers out there who see the big picture and recognize there is a fatherless child at no fault to them who could definitely have a better chance at stability and decides to selflessly enter.. create.. build /destroy when necessary and help cement a foundation where there may not have been one.... I tip my hat to those men who have done it and im proud of each and everyone of you. #StepFathersAreTheShizznit!! ya dig

They kill me slinging back that fake hair.

Man.... That's pretty dark. is that why step kids tend to be abused and neglected from both sides? The stepdad sees the kid as a burden and responsibility and the mother could grow resentful of the baby because she'll feel like her child is holding her back from joy and happiness.. at this point the child could be abused

It may sound harsh or rude to some women, but if only one young girl sees that and says, sheesh, that's not a situation I wanna be in, I'm doing it different, then Kevin's approach fulfilled it's purpose.

Broke down when confronted with facts

She was all right. One of not many who understood the situation she’s in. I wish her all the best!

I kind of feel sorry for her, coming from foster care. I hope this experience with Mr. Samuels teach us something and she does not lose hope in herself or her future. Even if she doesn't stay with that guy, I hope she does not have any more children.. herself together... And stop looking for love and all the wrong places... I hope she can do better in the future.

She is very respectful

I see why God called Kevin home early!!! Sad to say but the nan had no degree or compassion, or training for that manner. She's young and she has plenty of time to find a man, or a man finds her! Plenty of single men out there with their own child it goes both ways. Especially when they hit 40 and they are now single and divorced and have their children every two weeks.

EVERY TIME, 100% of the time, when the accountability swings over the woman's head, they ALL try to blame the men by accusing him of being mentally or emotionally unstable, or claim that he was abusive in any way they can think of at the moment, so they don't have to acknowledge they they themselves ARE the problem. EVERY TIME.

As someone who has done the stepfather thing I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. I'm sure there are situations where it does work but for me it didn't. I learned quickly that the most you can be is the fun uncle. You take care of the child, pay for her, raise her, do all the things a father should do but it's only a matter of time until the child says "don't tell me what to do, you're not my dad", during an argument. My stepdaughter saw her dad 1-2 days a month. He takes her out, tells a few funny stories, while I'm the asshole who tells her to do choires. Meanwhile, the mother is watching you like a hawk. The second you raise your voice or try to discipline the kid she steps in and says "that's not your place. It's between me and her father". But it is my place to pay for the house, pay the bills, feed them, clothe them and all that. It's ridiculous. When the shit hits the fan they are not yours and every interaction proves it. If I want to be fun uncle I'll take my nephews out for a day.

This was actually one of the better sessions because she wasn't hot-headed like many of the other women I've seen him speak with.

Most women want to be married, but they don’t want a husband. They don’t wanna be a wife they want a sponsor

She says she didn't make the decision to become a single mom but she did make that decision. When she allowed herself to become pregnant while being a single woman she became a single mom. She was a single mom Immediately because she wasn't a wife. She thinks she became a single mom after the relationship ended but she was a single mom as soon as she gave birth without being married

Sometimes I’m really happy that I was never desirable enough to marry. Crisis averted.

Eternal victims no accountability and combative!!! Stay strong Bonnet warrior's

K.S. told the truth. What a great man!

Look at the shirt she has on tells it all

What episode is this from? I've been looking for this for a couple of years.

2024 and kevin Samuels funs we glowing strong.Rest well godfather

This one was powerful

I feel bad for black women, they are lost and in a dangerous cycle.

Damn I miss this man...

Yeah tell men straight up I agree Kevin had some good points. She just need to tell him when. That man may marry her.

Honestly this is just sad….