Human beings are nothing more than containment vessels for the production of human excrement.....

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For me i see them as teachers showing me my blindspots. Then I take that knowledge and do selfwork

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True in a way but being a walking paradox among other things can be quite beneficial. Forget about those kinds of people. Those kinds of people don’t deserve to be around a wonderful personality type such as this. Anyone that has to use something against you is lacking in something themselves & by doing such things will never change their personality or whatever anyway.

Rishabh Shukla Haha so true 😂

You know, I have noticed it right away! There is something neat about INFJ's writing.... and also the coherence of thought and the chosen words to express that thought... it is beautiful!

I make mistakes beacuse I am dyslexic and therefore never got around to learn punctuation and gramma correctly.

Hmm , I mean , I personally feel like i can be sloppy sometimes xD

Avacado 13 do some research on empaths. You are quite likely an empath, as well as an INFJ. I am, as well.

Avacado 13 Yes! All the time!!

I do too i hate it

Saame and I like need to find them a solution as quick as possible, if not Id still think about it till it works out

I feel more emotion, than those who are actually going through it

Well said :). I can feel out of place even with other INFJs because I pretty much went through all this kind of self growth early on; it was first and foremost what I was driven to do as a child, so if I acted in some way, I would reflect. I generally spent a lot of time in applying Ti and understanding my own feelings after taking in the world around me with Ni & Fe. In this way, I have a high Fi and can probably handle conflict better bc I try to fix it asap. Or rather, I'm also very good at keeping drama out that I very rarely have to worry about it. Family conflict is unavoidable, so that's really where my tolerance for conflict comes from. I cried a lot over it as a child. Because I've learned to read myself, the communication part is where I actually struggle when arguing, especially if I feel very emotional about it. I know their feelings & my own so the struggIe is trying to find the right way to express myself which usually doesn't go well in arguments bc I prefer open discussions over presenting opposing sides (heart of heated conflicts that leads to uncontrollable feeling screaming out. It especially frustrating when the other person keeps pushing your side out of the way as if they don't actually care). I look for an absolute way to do things in a way, so I knew from the getgo I needed to take the time to analyze myself and I did. That's how eventually I broke out of depression and I guess a form of Ni-Ti loop which was integral to me learning my own emotions and stuff by allowing myself to use Fe more. It isn't more developed for me than Fi, but it definitely drives the way I socialize.

I have a few main problems now, (I’m 16), they are mainly coming from infj: 1. Selfdoubt (problems with loving myself) 2. Fear of not knowing the unknown thing of the future. 3. Crushes. Finally the hormones start to affect me and my behavior. And my infj personality is fighting it

Advice we can see it's validity, but I for one take it into account as concrete advice I still had to do everything the hard way. I may know better but I always like/d to see for my self. It's good for everyone. Constructively

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Hoseok's Wifeu you took the words right out of my heart :)

Arcade awww😂😁

A fellow INFJ Army xxx

Ellie Scotland Heyo✌😂

omg I loveeee hobi too heehee

agreed

Same 100 percent

Isn't it though?

Yes! I'm right here...

Cian McCarthy Yes 😊 🤚

just found out but still dont know even if most signs are just how i work and feel which feels like a stone suddenly lifted

Dr Shinobi I know what you mean. I hear you. If you ever need any support or feel the need to talk then feel free to get in touch. I feel at least we INFJs can support each other as we would be able to understand ourselves in a better manner.

Oh yes definitely such a resonance for me

Agree. 😑😑

simply a typical high Fe trait....also I gotta admit, infj's tend to be extremely complicated and contradicting on so many levels, that anyone would have a problem understanding them

Apparently INTP/INFJ is the golden pair. It's weird to think that compatibility works like that, but things are really awesome when I see an INFJ girl I know

I'm just one of them,so no need to go further.

Diogenes Laertius 🙄😌 your post....really made my day thank you for sharing

Idk, but honestly I feel like only other INFJs can help us.

Diogenes Laertius my dad was an enfp, haha yes. I think the enfp-infj tandem works especially if the enfp takes the mentor-sidekick role & the infj takes the visionary-student role.

INFJ here, can agree. We definitely can go without help from others. But, help from others can really make us much better no matter what position we are in. We are just waiting for someone who wishes to understand us and take the time and effort to learn about us.

Alexis Morris, my hubby (INFJ) and me (INFP) don't have friends either--except God, other late family and friends, and almost no others.

Me too it is horrible. I just want someone to understand me and spend time with. I have so much to give but can’t seem to find someone who deserves it,I been let down too much.

What’s the point, death is inevitable and we can’t do jack 💩 about it. nothing matters, and one day planet earth will be lifeless and full of the trash we left behind.

yeah, i always write down what i want just to delete it when i finish... english is not my mother language but i listen and read it most part of the time, and i'm always afraid of mispelling something or just not making any sense. also, sometimes i feel like what i'm saying is irrelevant and others will judge me. lmao it sucks.

I absolutely relate to every thing you said brother...so funny, I also delete what I wrote even after I've posted it, English is not my mother language either...misspelling, judgment......ha ha you are not alone.

@@notinuse926 I know what you mean I've had people/trolls making stupid comments that my spelling and punctuation is crap So i just point out to them people/trolls that not all countries are English speaking writing countries and that it's known as the world web as it's available in all over the world so you shouldn't let it bother you about any spelling and grammar punctuation in English just do what i do and point out to any one making stupid comments about your English spelling punctuation grammar that not everyone in the world is English speaking writing and that theres more countries other than the few English language countries

So true! I always have to be super aware what I say to people after I have already researched them. And I hate lying, or acting like I don't know anything about them. But if they knew how much we have researched, they would consider us weird stalkers. So to counter act that, I have to act like I know nothing at all.

Angelica Gutierrez I'm sooo like that too! Haha, but especially when I like a guy 😋

Well thank you!! I personally have two really great INTJ friends, and you guys are pretty amazing as well!

Thank you for kind words and thank for the answer! I'm dreaming of romantic relationship with INFJ woman. That would the most beautiful experience in my life! Finally, I could open myself emotionally to another person. Believe me, INTJs have very strong emotions inside and INFJs understand that very well. So INFJ is the best match for me! :-) PS: Don't believe in this stupid stereotype saying that INTJs are robots without feelings because It's not true. We just don't show our emotions very often. Sometimes I struggle with them inside and that's very tough for me. I'm ashamed of my own feelings and because of that I don't want to show them. I just need a person who would like to understand me. Everyone has emotions. No matter what type you are. Sorry, I had to write this because this stereotype annoys to death. I can be really sensitive I just don't show it. I keep my feelings inside. Okay that's all haha :D

Believe me I have never considered that stereotype to be true of INTJ's being robots! Two of my INTJ best friends (one female, the other male) I have perceived to have many feels. They just rather operate under reason and calucation than emotion and feeling- but that doesn't mean emotions don't exist inside them.

uth Płońsk You feel as if you open up the whole world will look at you and point fingers at you, right? Do you feel like people will think less of you because you feel as if your emotions are so embarassing that other people might think your stupidly freaky? I don't know, I feel like that's how you feel. Like your suffocating because you can't open up and you just wish to get everything off your shoulders. You feel as if you do you will be able to breathe and live again. This is from an INFJ perspective hehehe I don't know, that's just the way I perceived what you said.😊

I'm not sure how to believe that statement very much considering that my ex boyfriend was an INTJ and he found alot of reason to distance himself from me. I came to the conclusion that he never likes to confront his problems or be emotionally vulnerable in my presence so..when I hoped to connect with him, it was overwhelming for him when I'd point out the issues he would shrug off and mirror him in a sense. He said he loved me but he just can't stand me. Lol. That INTJ confused me alot. :X

Phøebe Wägner relatable😁

me in a nutshell

Knowing the struggle of complaining friends and it's impact to myself I still cannot allow myself to hate any person, place, thing, idea. Since I have made the concious choice to exclude hate from my vocabulary or my labeling of things or feelings I have had a lot more energy to focus towards my intent.

Your probably an Empath like me..Im starting to think most "INFJ'S" are probably Empaths..

I feel like I'm a bit immune to friends whining and complaints. I almost like it. 😂 I can relate to them and I want to know what they're struggling with because I want to be there for them and help them. What I can't stand is when people encourage other to keep their emotions locked up inside - even though they had something truly terrible happen to them. I never understood why we should pretend to be OK when we're obviously not. Maybe I hate that because I want everything and everyone to be genuin and real? 🤔 I do feel their pain though, but I can often take it because I care so much about them and I know that their pain is greater than the one I feel because for me it will go away later but it will stay with them for much longer.

AmyKinso same

You may want to retake the personality test to confirm your INFJ results. Be advised a personality test taken via facebook is not viable.

You’re either the epitome of INFJ who thinks lowly of themselves. And, you may not be one at all? Retake the test possibly? As for me, I stay quiet in most situations which makes me seem aloof but at some point -especially in debate, when I open my mouth I am not a snowflake. INFJ are probably some of the strongest people internally. You can put emotional bricks on us and we won’t break simply because of out self-thought. Internally, we’re like marines. As to the ‘we’re not shit’ .. yeah. We are. We are the most rare of the personality types. 2% of the population is INFJ. We are a dying breed, we must study and understand ourselves because other INFJ’s need to understand the power of their persona.

AmyKinso well thats true i agree with u on 100%

Snow flake.... no way! I am overly sensitive. But no one besides my inner circle would know that. And you don’t want to make me feel cornered. When faced with adversity I will rise to the occasion.

Thank you for your encouraging comment! I should totally make a video, I enjoy going through KZfaq and seeing other like INFJ's discuss their personality and expiriences. -S

Master Human Video Damn you sexy

Geez, thanks Atum 777!!! ...and if you don't mind me saying, that's a beautiful shade of black you've got going on ;) Pop by my channel anytime. All are welcome. Haven't got a whole lot of feedback just yet so I'd love to hear your thoughts. Cheers!

Master Human Video Not u the lady in the video

You say the hulk I say "WHEN THE LEVY BREAKS" Led Zeppelin ..... INFJ theme song.👽👾👽

I do believe you're the first genuine INFJ I have watched here in KZfaq and, hope you keep posting as your harmony makes your infinite webs of perception a comfortable web of self awareness that you create for all to Seeeee.

Are you a flippin mirror?! Same here!

Mine too! 😍😄

Yeup, Pardon Me by Incubus is one of my favorite songs 😅.

Not a top five but I've owned it on my iPod for many many years

And she always knows what I'm thinking with an eerily high degree of accuracy and insight far beyond her years.

Yeahh buddy

Brenda, If they are no longer in your life I gaurantee they will never find another you.

Meee

INFJ-A, Aries Sun & Venus. Scorpio Moon, Rising & Pluto. I’m the type of Empath that melts the Psychopaths and Narcopaths 😂

All of them!!! Its actually our motto!

Amen

You have crossed the bridge, once you know what it is that makes you an INFJ you can never go back, welcome to the club, embrace that you do not really fit in, who wants to anyway, you have a higher calling. Being an INFJ can be lonely at times, but we truly enjoy our own company and don't feel the need to be social all of the time. If you feel the world is too exhausting give yourself a break, go away from people to find your true center again, it's okay, you are okay even tho others don't understand you, they don't need to.