3 Myths About Self-Harm

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3 Myths About Self-Harm

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Psych Hub

Күн бұрын

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@yk.itzkenn 3 ай бұрын

Been clean for 1 day 🤗

@UrfavLuna1234 2 ай бұрын

That’s a great start ❤ keep going

@UrFavHaley123 2 ай бұрын

Been clean for 15 minutes 😢

@UrfavLuna1234 2 ай бұрын

12 hours not gonna stay that way after a few hours

@_Valentino4ever_ 2 ай бұрын

Been clean for… like…. 10- ish hours…. My mom took away the pencil sharpener but I have another so…

@yk.itzkenn 2 ай бұрын

@@_Valentino4ever_ you’ll get through it, I’ve been clean since I posted this comment 💗

@debbie_target 2 жыл бұрын

I had a relapse yesterday, after a fight with my boss and a feeling of Stress, aggression, frustration . It was a wake Up call to reach out to my doctor and get help.

@PsychHub 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.

@debbie_target 2 ай бұрын

@@ilovemusic234 in Germany you can get a transfer document. This is valid for three months. In that time you can reach out to mental clinics or therapists. In the end I was too scared to use the Transfer document.

@MaryEisenhuth 2 ай бұрын

man, i hope youre doing better now. its great you got help.

@TechABit_ 27 күн бұрын

@@MaryEisenhuthi hope so

@dolanaxoxi1124 2 жыл бұрын

Not me watching this just after sh and now i feel guilty for doing it

@R3TROSKULL Жыл бұрын

Its been a year. How are you doing?

@SunnydaBunnyO_O 3 ай бұрын

Ikr

@lzzyBizzy Ай бұрын

Real

@itskay72 19 күн бұрын

2 years...are you okay?

@cyaneous227 2 жыл бұрын

I've been struggling with sh for 7 years and i just wanna say it does get better and you will be able to recover. sending love ♡♡♡♡

@PsychHub 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your lived experience. By sharing what you’ve gone through, others know that they aren’t alone and that recovery is possible.

@we5436 2 жыл бұрын

Do it takes this much of time?

@juicyballs6351 2 жыл бұрын

I can't give it up 😕

@ixzy_8214 Жыл бұрын

Did you hide it? If so, how?

@FallenAngel564 Жыл бұрын

@@ixzy_8214makeup, or you do it on a part of your body that people can't see

@benpietsch7971 2 жыл бұрын

I got addicted after 6 years I’m finally clean for 6 months here soon

@witchiesthufflepuff8574 Жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of you!!!You are doing amazing ,you got this 👍.

@MikaelaTufts 4 ай бұрын

Hey, how’s it going? I’m so proud of you!! That’s amazing! Even if you’re not still clean, I’m still proud of you. You’re so strong and amazing.❤️

@Duolingo66329 2 ай бұрын

I’m so freaking proud of you you’re doing great remember everyone loves you no matter what ❤️

@sarahfuller5482 2 жыл бұрын

I started self harming in my 30’s. I was being gaslighted and I didn’t know how to cope with all of the lies. My feelings were always being distorted. Cutting was something I could see and feel and no one could tell me it wasn’t real.

@PsychHub 2 жыл бұрын

Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.

@sharkloverr_ 2 жыл бұрын

A way to recover: write someone u love names on where u wanna cut!

@we5436 2 жыл бұрын

I don't have anyone 🙁

@bellaquijada 2 жыл бұрын

@@we5436 maybe an influencer, a game, a voice actor, a movie, a pet (if you had any), basically anything you like could work

@auhzii590 2 жыл бұрын

doesn’t help.

@forrneus6955 2 жыл бұрын

@@we5436 I hate the fact that I can relate to this

@luminousflower3240 2 жыл бұрын

This is a good idea! There is another variation of this with butterflies, where you draw them where you would cut. If you cut through a butterfly, then all the butterflies “die”. No wiping or washing them away to make them fade faster :)

@we5436 2 жыл бұрын

I i addicted to self harm . it make me feel relief.

@lifeoncanvass Жыл бұрын

Oh no! Trust me there are other ways to be relieved! Try going to therapy If you can! Maybe listen to music? Or rub ice on where you want to self harm, it doesn't physically hurt but it's odd, it's better then sh! I personally just did it, I've only been addicted for 4 months but I'm working on it, you got this!

@3e03 Жыл бұрын

@@lifeoncanvass i lisin to music but nothing really helps, unless my family/teachers are there but my friends knows about it and does it themselves

@user-vh2vq4wb9x 7 ай бұрын

Omg...it happens to me...ugh...it hurts horribly...but if not that it's an addiction to something more sexual...they are the only things that keep me relaxed...but I don't like to hurt myself!

@sammyshaker6321 6 ай бұрын

For real, it truly relieves

@koda450 2 жыл бұрын

Started when I was 8 and it's still a realy hard battle I'm fighting at 16 .

@PsychHub 2 жыл бұрын

Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call or text 988. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.

@MaryEisenhuth 2 ай бұрын

man i hope youre getting better.

@koda450 2 ай бұрын

@MaryEisenhuth I'm doing better 17 now and almost 100 days clean, not having many urges anymore. found other ways to cope and got away from a lot of people that made it worse. So overall not 100% but I've gotten better.

@Kashf-c1g5 Ай бұрын

@@koda450hey hru? I am glad to hear that you overcomed this habit..i am going throught the same i am a teenager and addicted to self harming can you give some tips to try to get through situations without hurting myself

@koda450 Ай бұрын

@Kashf-c1g5 well honestly 4veey now and them I still struggle and tbh ik the way I got out of it wasn't rly 'healthy'. Atlest for me I find myself bassing my own happiness off others ans being in relationships so for me I got into a relationship and he talked me though alot of situations to just presses how I feel instead of just hurting myself to not think about the problems. So if your able to find someone or a way to just write ot tell someone about how you feel and all to presses through it. if you donr have it " I Am Sober" is an app that I've used to help get my thought put top. hope that helps some. You're loved

@drnusratbashir8936 Ай бұрын

i had a relapse a few days back, and feel VERY guilty for it its been like three days and im clean and hope ill be clean.

@Just_a_sillydude Жыл бұрын

I’ve told my friend that I SH and she says “Don’t kill your self” I DONT WANT TO KILL MYSELF!

@shanya676 Жыл бұрын

exactly

@Amyhatespreppy 5 ай бұрын

What sh

@drnusratbashir8936 Ай бұрын

To all the ppl sayinh cutting ourslef of arms and wrists is just for attention, have you ever felt the itching feeling of a blade of your skin even though it hurts but you do it anyway cause you love how the blood oozes out slowly and you love how it looks and you love yourself only for a few hours but you do it again and again till you can't stop and your falling in a downward spiral of pain and tears? Its not for attention, its so you can feel control over something in your life.

@gracemozingo1008 2 жыл бұрын

Children older then 7 and younger then 13 also can sh.

@dmtelves1176 2 жыл бұрын

Sad that’s the case

@itsmimizim7672 2 жыл бұрын

Yea, I’m under 13 and alr sh-

@notahumanoid5696 2 жыл бұрын

I started at 5. It was one of the only ways I felt better. Never knew it had a name untill recently

@navyadhigan7459 2 жыл бұрын

That's the saddest parts

@bekelechweldeyohanes8041 2 жыл бұрын

I was eight when u started

@PP-Guy21 Жыл бұрын

This video is so good that yt wont allow me to watch it

@Nao-qi5oh 5 ай бұрын

same

@parkmochi4151 2 жыл бұрын

I'm getting back at doing it again. I'm tired.

@PsychHub 2 жыл бұрын

@Same_Local.Insomnic 2 жыл бұрын

It can also accrue in children and young teenagers, they’re just less likely to be caught because no one really thinks they might

@julianefaria7508 2 жыл бұрын

Tbf, there are,people who sh because they want attention and it’s JUST AS CONCERNING. Think about it, someone is literally inflicting themselves pain just because they think people will give them more attention that way, that is not normal behavior. The person needs help, even if it isn’t the kind of help they want.

@Ilovebanana_pudding Жыл бұрын

This is what Iv been trying to ecspress to my aunt like if they are doing it for attention THERE IS STILL SOMETHING WRONG

@Natalies..feverdream 19 күн бұрын

EXACTLYYY. One of the reasons i do it, is attention but only because i never get payed attention to by family members, have no friends, and no one takes me seriously. It can also be a cry for help that something is wrong :)

@Chaz60 25 күн бұрын

I’m an adult male who is disabled and live with serious medical conditions due to a spinal cord injury. I live with chronic pain and I have, so far, had over 20 surgeries with more to come. My doctors often state, “I’m complicated,” which really means they have no clue how to help me, especially with my pain. Sometimes I harm myself, in order to feel a different pain; one I can see and understand why I’m hurting. Other times, when my pain is out of control, I harm myself in a fit of anger and to punish my broken body for not working right. I know people will judge me for this and perhaps it’s wrong, but I doubt anyone could suffer the pain I endure daily with no cure, and claim they are “sane.” It’s ironic that humans can “humanely” kill a horse suffering from a broken foot; something we have no clue how to fix. Yet, people suffering from serious medical issues, who are suffering in uncontrolled pain, cannot be “humanely put out of their misery! When my pain gets to be so bad, I beg for death, I’m zipped off to a mental health facility and held against my will. While there, my pain is still off the charts, but I’m shackled and kept doped up, until I’m literally a walking, brain dead zombie; who by the way is still in a lot of pain! How does any of this make sense? They’ll never find a way to stop my pain, but they’ll keep trying to stop me from ending my own pain. Cheers!

@malory6312 2 жыл бұрын

Mine is and ed. Been doing that since I was 10 and lost too much weight but felt great. Still struggling ten years later

@Bretislavka Ай бұрын

Biggest myth of them all: "Self-harm is always a pathological thing and the one who does this always needs help, because there muset be something wrong with him/her or because he/she muset have some kind of a problem"

@Alwaysxliz 4 ай бұрын

i haven’t done it for almost six months and scared i will fail but no one understands!

@terminatorplayz4614 Жыл бұрын

I pray that everyone here, and out there never feels the need to self harm. But if you have done so already- I hope you’re still here, and if you are, I’m glad you here. Thank you for existing.

@martinwright8972 2 жыл бұрын

People assume self harm always means cutting nah man bruising is just as well

@Tim1kanuber Жыл бұрын

Everyone I my school just found out and now everyone thinks I’m mental and an emo

@ayanopsycho1 Жыл бұрын

I started sh when i was 12 because of my weitght i used to do sh whenever i ate anything

@Obv_NLS 11 ай бұрын

I started sh when I was 12 too because I don’t really think my siblings love me or care about me because they kept ignoring me all the time, second is that my mother will compare me with someone else better than me especially my cousin, third I felt like a puppet at my school because my friends kept forcing me to do something even though I dont want to, and forth I feel worthless… but now I feel much better since I’m 13 and I’ve stop sh and I focus more to my god ❤

@selah6778 7 ай бұрын

First informational self harm video ive seen thats actually (imo) helpful, correct, and constructive :)

@SubhamSk2006 5 ай бұрын

I can't see why? Can't bypass Warning

@cumballs4life590 2 жыл бұрын

I love the background music

@ScarletOnPawz 25 күн бұрын

Been clean for 3 weeks! And broke it.

@hannguyentran5733 Ай бұрын

I’ve self-harmed for over 10 years and my parents refused to think that I need help or support, they think that I’m a thorn in their eyes and leave me 😂 just got diagnosed yesterday by a psychiatrist with bipolar disorder and I’m in a severe depressive episode. Still don’t know how to cope with everything

@Cazstreams 2 жыл бұрын

Yes cope is the reason

@just_Alexio 2 жыл бұрын

I keep convincing myself I can stop if i want

@athu6218 Жыл бұрын

That's exactly my problem. Even right now i feel like i have control over myself because i haven't done for a month, but my sh tendencies comes back like tides and when they do, i have not an ounce of control over myself.

@just_Alexio Жыл бұрын

@@athu6218 hah, same

@lifeoncanvass Жыл бұрын

@@athu6218 same

@dyl_pickle.i Жыл бұрын

@@athu6218 Same, like I know I want to stop, but I'm scared to think about how I'm going to have to cope with my problems without SH.

@Texas_Tan_2010 2 жыл бұрын

I did sh for attention I was so so desperate

@Dthang_Gzz Жыл бұрын

fxck you than

@Bonnie-gl1si 19 күн бұрын

Been clean for a few months now ❤

@aqvxlo Жыл бұрын

Self harm is definitely not only done by teenagers I’m not a teenager yet and I still do it?

@PsychHub Жыл бұрын

@xellaabellax 5 күн бұрын

“Your not alone” Well gosh diddly thanks KZfaq it’s 3 am

@user-qw1zj3qr2p 5 күн бұрын

Been clean for about an hour 😅🤗

@everstars. 2 ай бұрын

"SH mostly occurs in teenagers, but can also happen to adults." what about kids? ive been SHing as a kid. we're not permanently happy just bcz we are kids :(

@Megumi_991 2 ай бұрын

I havent been clean for a lot

@me.1712 2 жыл бұрын

Wait self harm is not a fase……💀

@Ash_Draws_Shit 6 ай бұрын

Started when I was 7 now I still give myself bruises to cope

@stupididiot900 2 жыл бұрын

Another myth is that self-harm was taken from somewhere, from the internet or from someone else. Though u can learn ABOUT self-harm from the internet, it isn't the case *most* of the time. It's a coping mechanism, u dnt need to learn from the internet that u can pick scabs, u already can, right? So why r ppl assuming that it was taken from the internet, a person, etc.?

@Jacebanana Жыл бұрын

Yo, why is everyone comparing. I get it, some have it harder than others but you really shouldn't compare if you're more addicted, if you started younger, etc.

@IReallyDontCare275 Жыл бұрын

The following may be related to suicide or self harm this may trigger u. Miss girl there wasn’t a trigger warning on my life 😩

@24hrslaying 10 ай бұрын

Self-harm also happens in kids! I would know

@imprettytired.3 Ай бұрын

I’m a pre teen and I do sh. I’ve been clean for 2 days now :3

@_V41L_ Жыл бұрын

I can't even stay clean for a week 😶

@PsychHub Жыл бұрын

@melscake.x 10 ай бұрын

please remeber that yes most people hide it but just because someone is open about it dosnt mean it’s for attention.i do self harm but i am open about because it’s easier for if anyone notices or i need to talk about it

@Acid_0n.P4ws 18 күн бұрын

Been clean for 3 hours. But.. im not a teenager or adult doing it

@Meharaqsa1 9 күн бұрын

I was clean for 2 yrs but I've started slf harming again.

@lilydavis9541 6 ай бұрын

I self harmed when I was 7 and went to therapy and didn’t start back up untill I was 14. When I was 7 I did it for attention cause I was neglected and wanted attention. When I started back up at 14 it was to feel something. I had gone through a break up and I felt lost and numb and wanted to feel again. To anyone out there it gets better ❤

@Naravayax 2 ай бұрын

I relapsed today, I feel like i let myself down. My mom knows about my s/h and i feel like i let her down too.

@Sebastians-wife 9 ай бұрын

I started self harm when I was 10 ( I don’t do it too much anymore)

@KayleeLemus-e8c 13 күн бұрын

Did it since 9

@Donottalktome013 2 ай бұрын

I started SH when i was 10, still going at 17.

@twoliltherians 10 ай бұрын

i had my relapse today, the first time i dis this was april 23,2023 at prob midnight. i ised to be clean for a month, then a week, now 0 seconds...

@Yourfellowtherianishere 8 ай бұрын

Little children can also self harm because when I was 4-7 I would self harm all the time and hide it but when I was 8 my dad caught me doing self harm and tried to get me a therapist but the therapist that I got was toxic and abusive so I’m getting a new one and she is really nice. I’m supposed to talk to her on the 19th this month. I still do self harm.

@goftm4058 23 күн бұрын

People do do it for attention, but this isn't a bad thing. They try to create attention in order for them to get support by others.

@Onyx_is_emo 6 ай бұрын

I relapsed, had an accident. I made myself have 200+ little red lines. The bl00d ran down my arms and I called my best friend. I wish I could be clean but it’s so hard to have no one to talk to for so long.

@Kapp_On_Paws 2 ай бұрын

Im a child. I should not have a constant need for pain. I shouldnt have to go to therapy. But it happens...

@dyl_pickle.i Жыл бұрын

It's not letting me watch this video for some reason, it just scrolls on it's own.

@D0ne_W1th_p30p1e Жыл бұрын

They have made it 18+

@Bee_.the._Animal 8 ай бұрын

My parents just found out i did this.. my dad did growing up and he comforted me but i just cried. I am 100 days clean tomorrow but i cry just thinking about it

@Aceea_Maria 9 ай бұрын

It doesn't let me watch. Can someone tell me what's in the video?

@theNewPlanet 2 жыл бұрын

I do self harm for fun

@b0o556 2 жыл бұрын

He forgot one thing self harm is also done by kids not just adults and teens

@iluvsubliminals 29 күн бұрын

I've been clean for over 5 months

@Jam59345 4 ай бұрын

I’ve had intrusive thoughts of SH and now I’m doing it it’s not cutting it’s with something that can’t make me bleed but I do have something that can make it hurt so yeah

@arsnicky 2 жыл бұрын

I just started SH, and im not a teenager. Im sorry thats cap.

@PsychHub 2 жыл бұрын

@RahardianAlex 21 күн бұрын

This is me literally

@Melosnation 8 ай бұрын

I selfhsrm sometimes when I get really mad or hot

@XoxoJules888 5 ай бұрын

I’m 11 and I tried to do self harm before

@IO_The.NonbinarySpaceNerdd Ай бұрын

Im 9 days clean and omg I trying so hard to not relapse I need help but nobody is here for me and I just gonna break down in a few days if I don’t get any help

@Daisy-the-5th-for-some-reason 2 ай бұрын

When I was nine and I made my mom cry or she does cry I will hit myself with a ruler because I felt like I’m the problem

@hazel.lifestylee 4 ай бұрын

I’m 10 almost 11 and have many scars from sh already

@ToriParnell-hb4tb 9 ай бұрын

I started at 11 due to family trauma 🙁

@nyght_last 9 ай бұрын

I got addicted to self harm when i was 12 im 20 and im only one month clean

@nancylmb1188 Жыл бұрын

I harmed myself at 13 and everywhere I went they made me feel like a loser they made fun of me said that they felt like laughing every time they saw my scars they told me that only addicts and bad people do that and the answer to my scar is not what they want so they don't believe in me and I'm honestly sick and tired of it all

@Elliotneedshelp Жыл бұрын

Any age self harm even children

@Iheartjellyfish 6 ай бұрын

I do self-harm.Started today

@XxpandiixX Күн бұрын

Been clean for a week soon ❤ (Edit) 3 minutes clean 💔

@Quartz_Rain 19 күн бұрын

i sh to feel something

@Lucky_Black_cat_13 Ай бұрын

I've been clean for fourty minutes now 😞

@TributeMack2015AngrierMack 2 жыл бұрын

I started attempting self harm when I was 7 and I did it with razor blades

@Dthang_Gzz Жыл бұрын

@super-sizedmcshizzle6235 Жыл бұрын

@Free Dthang Damn

@dhllyyquit Жыл бұрын

Why can I not watch it

@Wolfie_Silver Жыл бұрын

Why is there just a black screen telling me that this video might contain self harm?

@Lizaky-chan 4 ай бұрын

My mom told EVERYONE that I was self harming..

@-kyrahhh 3 ай бұрын

this is exactly why I don’t tell anyone, nor do I plan on telling anyone 🥲

@Lizaky-chan 3 ай бұрын

@@-kyrahhh I didn’t tell my mom.. my mom just noticed my scars and she forced me to show her all my scars and after she forced me to stop what I loved to do..😕 (srry for the spelling and mistakes in my sentence 💀😭)

@-kyrahhh 3 ай бұрын

@@Lizaky-chan oml 😠 no offense to ur mom or anything but Jesus why tf would anyone do that?! 😭😭 well I hope you get better ❤️‍🩹

@Lizaky-chan 3 ай бұрын

@@-kyrahhh oh well thank you 😭🥹

@virginiamoretta1672 Ай бұрын

Been clean 4 days

@fluffy.miku.creations.0101 2 ай бұрын

The video forgot to mention pre teens/ tweens, we struggle sometimes too❤

@fluffy.miku.creations.0101 2 ай бұрын

Been clean for a month!

@Bvrtje.gnome12654 22 күн бұрын

Its not for seeking attention

@Natalies..feverdream 19 күн бұрын

Actually it can be. But not in that way. One of the reasons i do it, is attention but only because i never get payed attention to by family members, have no friends, and no one takes me seriously. It can also be a cry for help that something is wrong :)

@Asdfgod12 5 ай бұрын

I’m not even a teen I’m only 11 and I’m doing it

@CozyGamerOFFICIAL 11 ай бұрын

Kids self harm too...

@Tiredgirlyy 7 ай бұрын

I need help. I just self harmed myself last night and I did it on my hand (which I use for EVERYTHING) and I don’t wanna show my parents because they would send me to a psych ward. Please help in any way.

@ItsHappy14 7 ай бұрын

Im not that smart or anything but u can put a bandaid, or doodle on it to cover it up, orrr u can also wear only long sleeves, idk about much but ive been doing those for the past 2 years and it worked i guess

@Tiredgirlyy 7 ай бұрын

@@ItsHappy14 thank you! That’s actually what I’m doing now.

@ItsHappy14 7 ай бұрын

@@Tiredgirlyy np🥰

@Tiredgirlyy 6 ай бұрын

Just wanna say they healed up!

@ItsHappy14 6 ай бұрын

@@Tiredgirlyy nice! keep em clean >:3 gl!