Those are the three biggest things I have learned, but what have you learned after your losses?

Hi Kelli, I just came across your video. I agree with everything you have said. And the main thing is to not give up hope. I have been trying for 13 years. I have had 6 miscarriages. My 1st @ 18 weeks. My second @ 17 weeks, 3rd and 4th in the first trimester, 5th @ 14 weeks and my most recent @ 22 weeks. It is the hardest thing to have to bury your children. Everytime I think it can't get worse, well my recent son, was born alive, but doctors couldn't save him. I held him until he passed away. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. At one point I did blame myself, but at the end of the day it's no one's fault. I have been asked if I feel jealous of other people who have children and my answer is no, because they are giving birth to their children, not mine. If they were giving birth to my children, then yes of course I would have an issue with that. I have lost alot of friends over time due to this, some don't know how to deal with it, so have chosen to distance themselves instead of comforting me, some have said indirectly that I should not try again as I know that my babies do not survive, so I am basically killing them. It's been a tough road. But I believe that God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers. One thing that keeps me going is that I have to be strong, because when I do have a child, I have to be fully there, so I cannot break. Also if I can get through this, if one day, when I do have a child, if my child had to experience anything tough, then I know he/she will also be able to cope and manage. I hope anyone who is reading this that has gone through any losses, stays strong, and keep reminding yourself that nothing is your fault and if someone says something nasty to you, you don't need them in your life.

I live on a different continent, but what you said about the doctors is so true. It is like we went to the same doctors. Thank you for this video!

Thanks for putting this channel up. My wife and I have been thru 3 RPL. I just finished reading a 3rd book about this subject and that happens to be Dr Beer’s book. Searching for videos about him and ended up finding your KZfaq channel. I hope treatment is going well for you. Praying everything goes well. I will continue to watch your videos and share them with my wife.

I’m balling...but you’re the only person who’s made me feel better

Thank you for making this video.

Chemical, ectopic and recent miscarriage, I needed to hear this. So thank you.

Thank you for the video and the support ❤

Really needed this. I've had 4 very early Misscariges this year. We have been ttc 10 months. Me and my husband do have 3 children so very blessed. Have had 3 other losses in the past but have never experienced 4 in a row. I agree with you I wudnt wish it on my worst enemy. Thanks for the video.

Youre Lovely honest and brave❤ thank you for sharing your experience ❤

Thank you for this video, it was really helpful. I’ve had 3 early miscarriages and the process has been unbearable. Making people understand the emotional pain of it has been the hardest part!

I resonate so much with #2. I felt bad for even beginning to think that after my first and second loss. After my third loss, when people finally started to listen to me and recommended me to a high risk OB, I finally came to the conclusion that the medical industry is basically inadequate on the subject of recurrent miscarriages. It’s baffling and frustrating to hear a high risk OB at one of the best clinics in the nation tell you that only 30% of women who experience RPL ever find anything wrong with them. It is also heartbreaking and astounding to know that when you lose one baby and fear losing another, that no one (in the medical field) will take you seriously. During my third early pregnancy, I was miserable night and day, calling my doctors and asking them what I needed to do. In my mind, I kept thinking, “Hey, I’m going to miscarry. Guys, what do I do?” Local OB assures me she was not worried about this pregnancy and sent me home without even looking at anything. Why do we have to lose 3 or more babies for someone to take action? It’s not right, and my only conclusion is that the medical field is clueless.

I had miscarriage today. It makes 4 losses. This video was great. I went through all the things you said. Thank you for sharing

Thanks for sharing. Its very appreciated.

Thank you so much for sharing this ❤️ you are godsend

You are so right. Thank you for this video

Thank you! I’m having me second miscarriage and this is the first help I’ve received.

Thanks for sharing Kelli, this is very encouraging. I’ve just lost my baby girl at 4 months, I was told I had a early miscarriage 2 years ago, I had 2 scans the week lost her and was told everything was perfectly fine baby growing perfectly heartbeat was fine and there was nothing wrong it to worry about. I bed rested for 2 months prior due to being told I had a small bleed. So I agree when you say it’s not our fault as what happens when you have an ideal pregnancy and haven’t done any lifting etc. I have to just trust that it wasn’t Gods will in this time for us and not lose hope! We’ve been waiting on God and battling infertility for 5 years and we will continue to keep trusting cxx

Hello Kelli, Just want say thanks for yours advises. I had 3 miscarriages and it really hard time but your video helps. Thanks again.

OMG!! I needed such a film right now ❤ I feel 100% just like you! Thank you so much :*

Thanks for shering sister, may the Lord bless you❤

Thank you for this ❤

What u said all r true! Specially about the doctors! I am on the same boat as u. Went Through 4 miscarriages, the last one happened just yesterday. I am so devasted. Take my Love dear. Thanks for this great vdo!

Point no 2 was so so so right.itnis 1000 percent right. I thought i am stupid that i couldnt find a good doctor but now i listened to u and it is so true.

Am so glad i found this video. I have been through 2 recurrent miscarriages one after the other. I was so devastated. As you said iT i kept comparing my situation with other people and keep asking myself why me😔. I just found out today am 4weeks and am hella scared of going through it again

Thanks this helped me a lot with my wife’s miscarriage were on 5 now smh hopefully she’ll listen to this

I had a missed mis carriage recently on 9 th of march 2021.ur video made me strong and positive.

What a wonderful video, i needed to hear this, thank you. Had my 12 week scan and my baby died at 8 weeks.

I just had my third miscarriage in a row. I really needed to hear some of the things you were saying, thank you.

Thanks for this words.

Very helpful video....I had four miscarriages....and now I am mother of two...feel blessed 🙏.. but can not forget ... I miss my angel babies. ..this is very painful.. mentally and physically both...

Thank you for making this video and I am so sorry for your losses. I had three miscarriages, the last one was a missed miscarriage; before that I had no idea such a thing existed. My doctor actually laughed when I showed concern during my last pregnancy because of having lost the two before it and she said it was NOT likely (that even the second was pure bad luck) I felt stupid for sharing my concern which really made it so much harder at the end when I did lose my baby. I realised doctors don't know anything about recurrent miscarriages and they keep saying the same things about chromosomes and bad luck and non of it is helpful or answers the question "why?".

Thank you so much I’m going though my 3rd missed miscarriage in everything you said help so much

I just lost our son on Mother’s Day…your video helped so much

Thanks for sharing dear.. I will pray God that he blesses you with a baby. I had 3 miscarriages.. Cause not known yet....

i dont know but im crying while watching this😓😪 i had 3 pregnancy loss and still trying to conceive🙏🙏🙏

❤️💜💜congratulations on your baby

I have had 2 miscarriages and I agree that I have to deal with self image and wondering if I have done something wrong. I am trying not to over think that. I have also been seeing a therapist and that has helped greatly!! I cannot say that I have the same experience you did with your Doctors. I have a great ObGYN and I wish everyone could have someone as great.

Hi im hema here from malaysia, i had 6 miscarriage's and still scared to get pregnant. This video was great. i needed to hear this, Thank you.

I enjoy this ❤

I just felt you are speaking my heart out.... I am 8 weeks pregnant , baby is not growing and doctor has advised D& C

Thank you

I have learned that it is so hurtful that do many people are ignorant about miscarriages and not just that they are ignoring the case

Thank you for bringing up the doctors and medical field stuff. On my third miscarriage and it’s like I’m asking a stranger off the street for advice, not a medical professional. 🙄

What was your course of treatment for the egg maturation issues and implantation failure? Thank you for documenting your journey and congratulations!!!

Still sad. But thank you Kelli

Love you❤

From 18/10/2019 to 9/10/2020 I have miscarry 3 children... as I am typing I am on the hospital bed like I just want to die very heart broken and devastating.

ive "only" had one miscarriage and now im pregnant again but this time im going the naturopath route, I just met with her today for the first time and i cant believe i didnt do this last time! last time my doctor never even checked my progesterone (im sure 99% dont)

I totally agree with you that drs are clueless and don’t know how to handle RPL. They automatically classify you as infertile, when in reality they have no explanation for it.

I’ve had multiple tries with my husband and I’m 20. But the thing is that I’ve always had miscarriages within 4-22 weeks. Today would be my 6th miscarriage within the year but it’s still sad that I can’t have kids.. my mom would shame me saying it’s easy to have kids, you just don’t want kids. but I just can’t and there’s always more we can do to have kids such as adoption

Currently expand third miscarriage. This has been back to back, and I’m so broken. 😔

My ob/gyn told me to do ivf. I asked him how will it guarantee a positive pregnancy throughout the 9 months. He said he cant guarantee. So...i can conceive naturally...but i miscarried. How can he be sure it wont happen again if i did ivf. What if genetic testing is done but I still miscarry? I do not like their approach and their beside manners is severely lacking. I am sorry for your loss. I went through one miscarraige and i feel crap. I cant imagine what you are going through. I am watching Marc Sklar here on youtube to get answers for alternative methods

Omg so true. Im a provider and if didnt research my own it would never happen

Had an ectopic on New Years day after finding out on Christmas day i was pregnant😢, would have been due on my birthday. I just had a chemical miscarriage may 5th. MY cycle came on exact time it should three days ago. We hope to try again shortly. It is crazy what this does to our minds and bodies, still feel out of body and this isnt real

I’ve had 5 recurrent miscarriages with no live baby and I’ve been going through this for 6 years straight now

I am 42 ,i had 2 MC back to back ,its physical and emotional torture. So i gave up and planning for iud 😔..All the best to all xxx

I’ve genetically analyzed over 100,000 miscarried and aborted fetuses and I felt the pain for all those couples. I would just like to let you know that those babies did not die for no reason. Their deaths served a purpose. Fetal genomic data is very important to understanding what humans are all about. Scientists need data to analyze abnormalities so they can find ways to correct it. From analyzing the beginnings of life, scientists will discover new ways to extend people’s lives. Please don’t give up hope and faith for having a baby. My advice to you is simply try to reduce your stress levels and be happy. Once you can train your mind to do that, your system will be ready to develop a new life. Anti-depressants and many other drugs increase the risk of miscarriages. I’m not a stupid doctor but I do wish you all the best.

So nice voice

This kinda hurt Ngl, I was 15 when I lost my first baby and hearing you say drug addicts get pregnant and then immediately saying kids kinda hurt, I was a kid but I promise if my baby was born she’s have had the best life im 20 now

Mam thanks for sharing this video i have facing 5 misscarrage plz help me.

Hey just came across your video today.I'm 24 years old and I have lost 5 pregnancies.at this point I do not know what to do anymore 😢

One biochemical and then a missed miscarriage at 10 wks.. how long we should wait for the next?? Kindly answer

I’ve had three in the last year. And I currently have four family members that are pregnant. I’m happy for them but sad for me. I have my almost 4 year old so thought having a second would be easy and it’s not. It’s hell. And I’m not sure yet about trying again.

I had four missed miscarriage between 7 to 11 weeks. Am 6 weeks pregnant now I hope this survives.

Hi,l am also accros4 miscarriages.l mentally and physically exosted

Diz is painful mentally + physicaly

Lost my daughter at 16weeks. Another at 8 weeks, then a chemical pregnancy (loss at 4 weeks). Im now pregnant and started Lovenox. I have no idea if that was the issue (clotting) but we will see and wait with hope.

Going through my second right now 😔 I feel so lost

I agree 100% about drs not knowing how to handle multiple miscarriages. They’re jerks about it

I m feeling exact same😭😭

Im having my 3rd miscarriage now 😭😭😭💔💔💔💔

It’s important to feel hope but I wondered if there’s anyone who feels the same as I do - stories of people getting the babies after years and years of trying SCARE me… I mean , I always think ‘it’s time if you life …it’s all your finances ..it’s all the pain you had to go through ‘ - was a baby really your life goal or did that person become obsessed cause it wasn’t happening ? I know it will sound rediculous but I spent my 20s becoming a lawyer through so many hurdles just to realise I hated it. I’m now 34, I had 2 miscarriages already and I can see that my life could be good if I never wanted a child …not like I can fix my desires but I already feel I’m becoming fixated and going into this long painful process and it scares me 😔😔😔 I want a baby , but realising a have to dedicate my life and leftovers of my youth and go through all this pain upsets me so much :((( I know people will say ‘well may you don’t really want one!’ But I did more than anything . I wanted 3… two are now gone (((

I too had 4 miscarriage, I'm also planning to consider lit the next time. Please let me know if you did the therapy? Did it worked out or not. Please reply

I always get miscarriage at 8 weeks,now 5 times....am really stressed up n almost giving up.. brightened ovum all the time, kindly advise

Having a d&c friday 3rd miscarriage and 1 ectopic 😔 life is so hard right now i am Hurt and sad

😭😭😭❤️

I had 3 miscarriages and im just broken inside its really hard to gain hope again :(

I just had my second miscarriage 3 days ago 💔

Go to a really good fertility specialist. Take your sac for testing after miscarriage. Demand answers. Always do genetic testing first. Don’t lose help

I have had 6

I have had five. My last one was a boy and considered a late miscarriage. It was the most horrible pain ever! My other miscarriages were not nearly as painful. The doctor told me I should stop trying and get on birth control.

I found out last week (at 13w2d) that I had a miscarriage. This is the 3rd miscarriage. We did IVF and it was genetically tested "normal". Something happened with the placental development. I can't control that; neither can the doctors. I feel so broken. I'm also angry at myself for not trying for a baby earlier in my life in my 20s. I just figured when I was ready it would happen. Wow so far from the truth. I made a huge mistake and didn't have my priorities straight. Now I don't know if I'll be blessed with a baby at all. I'm shattered

Its usually blood clotting disorders, abnormal placenta or uterus, males sperm, or other underlying medical issues.

I bet 5 unlike are doctors 🥼 smh

Miscarriages

China is pretty advanced in this area.

It was god's plan, that's what it is

The hard part for me is that I do still feel like it’s my fault because I’m almost 38. I just had 2 back to back missed miscarriages. Waiting on genetic test to see if it was chromosonally abnormal which still kinda makes me feel like it’s my fault. Not giving up I’m just so scared. Also waiting on other blood tests to see if I have blood clotting issues where I might need blood thinners to have successful pregnancy or if we just need to keep trying to have a healthy one at some point 🥹❤️

Had three miscarriages, I was tested and I had a MTHFR mutation. I was put on a Folate prenatal instead of a Folic Acid prenatal along with a baby aspirin. Recently got pregnant after taking the "right" supplements and just had my 4th miscarriage. I have to go into deeper genetic testing now. It just sucks because I can get pregnant, but It doesn't stick.what's