4 KEYS TO DEVELOPING THE SKILL OF SELF LOVE by RC Blakes

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RC Blakes, Jr

RC Blakes, Jr

4 жыл бұрын

In this session we discuss four principles that may empower you to learn to LOVE YOURSELF. Self love is fundamental to all emotional health.
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@lexxired
@lexxired 4 жыл бұрын
John 15:18 "If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first." -Jesus
@misguidedpearls7456
@misguidedpearls7456 3 жыл бұрын
💕💕💕💕💋
@renchemarais8419
@renchemarais8419 3 жыл бұрын
HALLELUJAH 🙏. JOHN 15:18.❤️❤️❤️
@elizabethgirinde8956
@elizabethgirinde8956 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼💯
@samuelabetew3268
@samuelabetew3268 Жыл бұрын
@@renchemarais8419 r x quantified
@Maya-xm5jx
@Maya-xm5jx 4 жыл бұрын
“Divorcing your future to maintain your history!”...Lord, I pray you remove negative energies holding me back in my life!!!!
@aneshrathomas
@aneshrathomas 3 жыл бұрын
Amen ... God got us🙌🏾
@MissD0829
@MissD0829 4 жыл бұрын
If I didn’t get anything from this video, “sometime your heart has to break for your soul to heal” “ you don’t learn how to love yourself until you are left with just you.” These statements are powerful!!!!
@latonyamorgan7447
@latonyamorgan7447 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@lovecmh62
@lovecmh62 4 жыл бұрын
Very Powerful !
@misguidedpearls7456
@misguidedpearls7456 3 жыл бұрын
Greatest life truth.. It hurts Then sets you free
@sharonanderson6926
@sharonanderson6926 3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos.
@user-gn7rm1vq2j
@user-gn7rm1vq2j 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@schoolwork232
@schoolwork232 4 жыл бұрын
"When you accept yourself unconditionally, the world does not have a vote!"
@mercym9610
@mercym9610 4 жыл бұрын
👍👍
@latonyamorgan7447
@latonyamorgan7447 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@kelleybright3113
@kelleybright3113 4 жыл бұрын
Preach
@joharisheared6405
@joharisheared6405 2 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@laradara7175
@laradara7175 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@joshuagrayson9356
@joshuagrayson9356 3 жыл бұрын
God just kicked my ex out of my life. A girl I really thought I was going to marry. I was with her for 3 years. There was some really good times in our relationship. But there was some severely ugly, dark times as well. God sometimes takes people out of our life to protect us. And who knows, maybe she takes this time to work on herself and achieves self love where she can be happy someday and learns to talk to people better. Im taking this time to work on myself and focus on my own self worth. Right now, its just not the time for her and I to be together. And I've accepted that. With a lot of the help of listening to RC Blakes videos. And of course, with the help of God and a lot of prayer. Just gotta have faith people! Just gotta have faith!
@juliascorey999
@juliascorey999 3 жыл бұрын
Well done Joshua 👍
@LeafsIn2024
@LeafsIn2024 3 жыл бұрын
Everything you mentioned resonated. Well said, Joshua. Thank you. I hope your prayers have been answered either with or without her as you found your way back to being whole since you wrote this. God bless you, brother. 🙏✝🇨🇦
@kizzyrock
@kizzyrock 3 жыл бұрын
What a great message!! Hurt people hurt people. She may have been fighting her own demons from trauma. It is wonderful that you know that YOU can't fix her, only God. Pray for her from a distance because SOME people really went through ALOT early on in life and Sadly, they end up hurting others. I just made a video about this a couple of days ago, that "MEN GET HURT TOO!" Keep trusting God!! The best is yet to come!!!!
@mtorchia24
@mtorchia24 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you are doing well now.
@marthascott292
@marthascott292 3 жыл бұрын
Well said. I have been working on myself since I have been listening to RC Blakes and Tony Gaskets. I am blocking negative people from my page on social media and my surrounding. When something happens in my life I pray and listen to these guys because it help clear my mind and thoughts. I remind myself when I'm feeling sad that this spirit is not from God. I know there are going to be days when I'm sad, hurt and feeling down, but because I know Christ, I know to go to him in prayer. Sometimes it's easier to say then done, but I don't give up until I have recover. Sometimes we are our worst enemy. Be blessed.
@darlenefletcher2691
@darlenefletcher2691 2 жыл бұрын
It just accured to me, I've always wanted someone to love me so I didn't have to🥺 But I'm left with nothing but me now. Self love here I come🙏🔥💃💯
@lynellb
@lynellb 2 жыл бұрын
Darlene it's a wonderful journey! You're gonna love every step of it... Your eyes will open up to yourself, things you've never known, get ready 😊
@charlottekirchner2612
@charlottekirchner2612 Жыл бұрын
I hope you are doing well on your journey, I just started mine after being in a toxic narcissistic relationship then trusting a so called friend that said he fell in love with me and then Freind zoned me as soon as my divorce was final. He helped me through all the drama and was there for me and now I’m alone 😢
@crystalcormier3148
@crystalcormier3148 4 жыл бұрын
Self love is love you must develop in a season of singleness. You cant fine that in relationship. Self love is something you must discover in life. Its basically requirement!!!!
@kikistewart4950
@kikistewart4950 4 жыл бұрын
amen
@ladyzinada5341
@ladyzinada5341 4 жыл бұрын
Singleness taught me this...
@M-D389
@M-D389 3 жыл бұрын
Love this message
@renchemarais8419
@renchemarais8419 3 жыл бұрын
@@M-D389 LOVE THIS MESSAGE 🙏🙏🙏
@joycehairston6891
@joycehairston6891 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@zeeo3546
@zeeo3546 3 жыл бұрын
"When you accept yourself the world does not have a vote!' ~ RC Blakes. Beautiful! 🤗👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@mybeautifuljourney7540
@mybeautifuljourney7540 2 жыл бұрын
No vote!
@anetparks2266
@anetparks2266 4 жыл бұрын
When I realized that God loves me in spite of myself with all of my faults and limitations it caused me to love myself. It was a process that took over 50 years for me to master it. I took a lot from people and gave a lot of my time, money, and myself. Now I know that without the love of God I can't love myself and without self love I can't love others as I should.
@latonyamorgan7447
@latonyamorgan7447 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@valeriesanders4917
@valeriesanders4917 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@joysimmons446
@joysimmons446 2 жыл бұрын
Amen I just learn also I will be 53
@reginabroughton5917
@reginabroughton5917 4 жыл бұрын
Funny thing we're not taught self love, love mommy, daddy, sister, hobby and material, but not self.
@paradiselivinginpurpose
@paradiselivinginpurpose 3 жыл бұрын
SO true!!!
@valeriesanders4917
@valeriesanders4917 3 жыл бұрын
You know I never thought about it like that.
@victoriadupuy5963
@victoriadupuy5963 3 жыл бұрын
Boom!!!! So so true 👍 😢 🥰
@bewaniya
@bewaniya 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@monserratevargas9773
@monserratevargas9773 3 жыл бұрын
You are so right! 🤔
@mirandadavis2730
@mirandadavis2730 2 жыл бұрын
IM IN MY FIFTIES AND ALL MY LIFE I HAD LOW SELF ESTEEM. JUST THINK WHERE I WOULD BE IF I ONLY LOVE MYSELF THROUGH GODS EYES AND KNOW MY SELFWORTH😢🙏
@BeautifulMorning-hx4my
@BeautifulMorning-hx4my 4 жыл бұрын
I'm going to listen to this message everyday for 21 days.
@misguidedpearls7456
@misguidedpearls7456 3 жыл бұрын
Repeat💕💕💕
@renchemarais8419
@renchemarais8419 3 жыл бұрын
🙋‍♀️
@shetrieseverything2206
@shetrieseverything2206 3 жыл бұрын
Good idea!!! I’m going to try this!!!
@user-gn7rm1vq2j
@user-gn7rm1vq2j 3 жыл бұрын
This man is spot on correct!
@queenkathleensartin-greer439
@queenkathleensartin-greer439 3 жыл бұрын
😃 This Is A GREAT IDEA My' Sister,,, I Totally AGREE'!!! I Am Doing The SAME THING, STARTING TODAY, Right Now!!!! ❤🎶💃😃 Day #1 of 21 Days of MY' TOTAL VICTORY'$, In JESUS Almighty & Precious, HEALING NAME, Amen. 🙌💜👑❤🙌😃 I Love & Appreciate You' Pastor & LADY R. C. BLAKES JR.. 😍
@freddrickwilson3579
@freddrickwilson3579 3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only man listening? This man is giving tools as if he's a doctor and he is in my book.
@diva555sg
@diva555sg 3 жыл бұрын
1)Inner self definition 2)Validate external data 3)Process free radical in your self conscious mind & eliminate them 4)create internal esteem
@christineadams3047
@christineadams3047 2 жыл бұрын
The age group of women seeking relationships are not only women in age group of 35 to 60 they are 70s and 80s. Please include us in your prayers for hope 🙏❤
@Dreamsareareality
@Dreamsareareality 2 жыл бұрын
People who love themselves, treat other people well. 💜🙏🏽
@kareeshasimonebenjamin5706
@kareeshasimonebenjamin5706 3 жыл бұрын
“God healeth the broken in the heart he bindeth up their wounds” Psalms 147:3-4
@moniquezmuda3924
@moniquezmuda3924 4 жыл бұрын
I am not defined by people, I am defined by what God says about me. Amen!!
@Kadenssugamomma1230
@Kadenssugamomma1230 2 жыл бұрын
“When you accept yourself, the world does not have a vote.” Powerful!!
@elizabethjimenez1082
@elizabethjimenez1082 3 жыл бұрын
"when you accept yourself the world doesn't have a vote"
@BrownSkinQueen_
@BrownSkinQueen_ 4 жыл бұрын
I love your teaching SO MUCH! I wish that I would have seen your videos when I was a teen and before I started having children out of wedlock. Please never stop uploading videos, if I lived in Texas or New Orleans, I would join your church.
@AmyAnsel
@AmyAnsel 4 жыл бұрын
yes and yes-- blessed by his teachings too, and join his community if local...perhaps someday, until then let's fellowship in spirit!
@borkapajic4154
@borkapajic4154 4 жыл бұрын
🙏Thank You💖I Love all that is shared🌈just wish to add that There lS O n l y One R e a l Self..all other "s e l v e s" are Illusionary impositions withouth L i v i n g Substance or The Living Reality ..💖ln The Spirit of The lnfinite Blessings and L🌈 o v e🙏
@joyfulpm6303
@joyfulpm6303 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, never stop uploading videos, the ones I've watched sinks in my spirit,, and I want to remember as much as I can on how to make through this life, because apparently I never knew alot, i just like it so much, thanks pastor Blakes, Glory be to God,,
@chardaflowtooyou8952
@chardaflowtooyou8952 3 жыл бұрын
Yes something we hear the right things after the fact. Be never to late Amen.
@damianavegamaisonet7960
@damianavegamaisonet7960 3 жыл бұрын
I am working on myself. Having love for me daily. Love myself for me , accept that I am growing and flaws are there, but self love is greater than flaws. I exercise, I eat healthy food and I still have cake and ice cream. I read, I pray, I listen to helpful encouraging real talk videos to help me evolve. I have to come to live out all of the potential God put inside me. Love yourself so much that you do not allow others to hurt me , humiliate me, use or abuse me, disrespect me. No. I say no. I know God says I am extremely beautiful and valuable. Every day I will practice self love. I am happy to be alive. I am thankful to be a follower of Christ. Abba I belong to you.
@brendasollers5252
@brendasollers5252 2 жыл бұрын
I say that God had to send me to RC because I was watching something totally different last month when I came up RC page
@FaithFashionFinances
@FaithFashionFinances 3 жыл бұрын
hurt people hurt people! and the longer we stay around people that are toxic the longer our self worth will deteriorate! I find the more I turn to Jesus the more I can find self acceptance!
@ghadaj.mohammed6455
@ghadaj.mohammed6455 4 жыл бұрын
When you value yourself that’s will devalue what others think..
@lightsalt581
@lightsalt581 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent Message. "No body should participate in your esteem but you and God." " You do not learn how to love you until you are left with just you." I have planted these statements in my mind. R.C. Blakes you are truly anointed. I am excited about the new things God will have you teaching. May favor continue to follow your ministry.
@richardjohnson6519
@richardjohnson6519 4 жыл бұрын
Great Knowledge
@tommycriscitello6235
@tommycriscitello6235 3 жыл бұрын
I literally could listen to this man 24 hrs a day I usually listen to his talks 2-3 times
@cheche9528
@cheche9528 4 жыл бұрын
“Lack of self love is To Sabotage your future .for the sake of please the people meant to be past.” I grow up lack of self steen because my mother told me how stupid and ugly I am my whole childhood. I was convinced something is seriously lack in me. I had out body experiences whenever I felt humiliated or disrespected. I stay quite and feel so shameful, but later on. I felt such Anger. Felt such disappointment that I didn’t stand up for myself! I think because that fire in me. I start to practice have my voice , sometimes it’s dramatic but at least I felt it’s step forward to equal fair treatments that I require from others. That I won’t let shit slide anymore I had last twenty years!
@shawnbush761
@shawnbush761 4 жыл бұрын
I suffered like you from verbal abuse from my mother
@shawnbush761
@shawnbush761 4 жыл бұрын
I suffered like you from verbal abuse from my mother
@latonyamorgan7447
@latonyamorgan7447 4 жыл бұрын
I suffered from verbal abuse too from both my parents although I wasn't called ugly but I was called stupid by my dad and other names by my mom but I did feel safe with them but whn they got mad they called names and felt bad about it later bcus they wood apologize to me afterwards and I remember tht would make me feel better
@kasondratoney4546
@kasondratoney4546 4 жыл бұрын
GOD bless you!
@sallybagson5843
@sallybagson5843 4 жыл бұрын
My exact situation More power to you sister
@MonacoVirago
@MonacoVirago 4 жыл бұрын
Household exercises: Look in the mirror and ask who am I? (12 years+); Ask yourself “Am I allowing or using sex, material things, machoism, social media, and/or the behaviors of others to set or establish who I am?” These seem so minor, but they are so major. They must be added into the Home Curriculum: INNER DEFINITION. Thank you! You are soooooo awesome and sooooo appreciated.
@jalynnmarie4218
@jalynnmarie4218 4 жыл бұрын
You have to know that “you’re perfectly enough “ just the way you are!
@Estella275
@Estella275 3 жыл бұрын
Build yourself up. Lay that foundation and build your house filled with overflowing Love. Only let those in who deserve all your love and goodness.
@feliciaireland1394
@feliciaireland1394 4 жыл бұрын
I truly believe GOD himself sent me to your channel. My earthly father passed away 9 years ago. I’ve watched a few of your videos so far and they have blessed me so much that I’ve shared them with some of my friends. Just know that the seeds you’re planting are falling on fertile soil. Thank you so much! God bless you and your ministry!
@angiep8217
@angiep8217 2 жыл бұрын
That was powerful “You don’t learn how to love you until you’re just you” That’s exactly what I just did in the past 2 months
@lovearttherapyalways
@lovearttherapyalways 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the teenage parent thing. I was raped at 15 and kept the child whom I gave birth to at 16. I had a really rough road and tons of judgment and hate from mostly church people who judged and condemed me without knowing the whole story... I never talked about the rape.. it was a long story... my rapist was my supposed boyfriend who was very abusive...sadly my upbringing shaped me to tolerate too uch abuse... I broke out of all that much later in life... now for the past few years I finally learned to love and accept myself... my son is now a grown man.. sadly he is harsh and judgmental himself.. I never told him what his father did... I left his father after the birth of my child and went back to school and I raised my child without any help financial or other... It was really hard but all that went with being a child mom was far worse.
@corabevill-thomas4632
@corabevill-thomas4632 2 жыл бұрын
@ Love Art Therapy God bless you for being an overcomer!
@lovearttherapyalways
@lovearttherapyalways 2 жыл бұрын
@@corabevill-thomas4632 Thank you Cora. God bless you also!
@05faithy
@05faithy Жыл бұрын
You are beautiful in God's eyes & mine! I do hope that you have found love in knowing Jesus loves you!! He's our heavenly father who loved us 1st. I'm proud of you!!
@mariepeartree5018
@mariepeartree5018 Жыл бұрын
@@corabevill-thomas4632 Thank you and God bless you also!
@mariepeartree5018
@mariepeartree5018 Жыл бұрын
@@05faithy Yes Jesus is the only man who ever loved me! God bless you!!!!
@KrystleLaughter
@KrystleLaughter 4 жыл бұрын
My self-esteem is between me and God.🤗
@tereng128
@tereng128 4 жыл бұрын
💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕my heart had to break for my soul to heal.......
@e.adriannapatterson3900
@e.adriannapatterson3900 4 жыл бұрын
Amen Pastor Blake. Self love is not being narrcistic. It is simply refusing others to treat you less than who you are. And, not allowing them to treat you less than how great you treat them. My Lord, I just prayed an hour ago telling the Lord that I am not angry with those people who have recently hurt me so bad. However, I told the Lord in checking myself that I move on in love from these people. Why, because I love myself enough to refuse to stay connected to them knowing they don't care and love me as I love them. It comes a time when a person has to pick oneself up and go on to grow elsewhere. Self love releases us to # go and not look back. Respect comes into play here as well.
@lucettadiamond3978
@lucettadiamond3978 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@joharisheared6405
@joharisheared6405 2 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@MonacoVirago
@MonacoVirago 4 жыл бұрын
Validate ALL external data/factors : “We define ourselves by who/what we give our hearts to...” POWERFUL 💥 25:00
@ledaham2321
@ledaham2321 4 жыл бұрын
Learn to seek God first then the foundation will have some structure for u to build self love . Patience come with time
@angelaallen28
@angelaallen28 Жыл бұрын
I'm Gods child, even though I'm nearly fifty two, I've been through so much, God is always strong and stable, even though I'm sad right now I believing and praying God can lift me out of it , thank you Jesus for everything , the trials and the smiles amen 🙏
@405boy4
@405boy4 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this word today Pastor. I've referred 3 friends to your KZfaq channel but they keep avoiding it. I guess they allowing Satan to deter them from hearing this great word.👍👍
@405boy4
@405boy4 4 жыл бұрын
@Denise Meletiche Yes, I will.. It's just shameful at times. One of my coworkers is a training manager at my job who makes good money. What's crazy is, that despite her being well educated and traveling to different states to train people within our company, she keeps dating low level street hustlers who don't have legit jobs, and constantly cheat on her..She can't even go outta town with being stressed out because she's worried about getting cheated on and eventually getting hurt.. I've prayed with her and referred her to this channel because I think she could learn a lot about dating from Pastor Blakes.. I mean I came to this channel to learn more about dating and waiting patiently through God on finding that right one for me.. But she don't wanna listen so yes, I'll just keep praying for her as well as some of my hard headed friends who think they know it all...
@pattygeee2298
@pattygeee2298 3 жыл бұрын
I can confirm that I have never had real love outside of my parents. Not even when I was married for 10 years was the love genuine. Hopefully one day I’ll get to experience it.
@snowleopard7952
@snowleopard7952 4 жыл бұрын
Right on. Determine your own individuality (self love) before becoming a couple. Thing is, biological urges need to be overcome. Young people are driven by sexual impulses. These urges are the work of the flesh, and hence, without self love, become demonic in essence. It gets easier for women to resist as they get older, but biological urges are powerful when young. Having children and being in a bad relationship without self love, can be hell on earth. However, one can overcome! It's easier to avoid in the first place! LISTEN TO THIS MAN!
@buffhotchkiss7400
@buffhotchkiss7400 4 жыл бұрын
Thank god for being older. No gets so much easier. Your not defined by looks or material possessions. Not impressed anymore by fools
@marshamcdonald1475
@marshamcdonald1475 4 жыл бұрын
Amen : Thank you Pastor Blake. Children would so Benefit from your Bible Teaching in our school System. I wish I knew You when I was young. It would have prevented so Much heartbreak. God Bless you. I appreciate you So very much.
@QIKWIA
@QIKWIA 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you beloved Bishop!👍🏾 You brought the 🔥tonight!!👏🏾👏🏾 Pastor, You have one of the most DANGEROUS jobs in the world.. bringing the truth to the people. Thank you for being who God has commanded you to be and for serving the people umconditionally with love and dedication. I thank God for you..🙏🏾
@RCBlakesJr.
@RCBlakesJr. 4 жыл бұрын
QUEEN'IKnoWhoIam Thank you for your encouragement. 😊🙏🏽
@QIKWIA
@QIKWIA 4 жыл бұрын
@Robin S 🖐🏽hello sis! 🌞🌈🌳
@NYCRhythm
@NYCRhythm 4 жыл бұрын
This has helped me so much! I love love your comments
@TheVonnie45
@TheVonnie45 4 жыл бұрын
You have changed my life in two weeks listening to you consistently. God has sent you to speak to me by your videos and you have made me in christ and i have officially started to go to church after 8years. God bless you. Thank you
@mitiaoliver9738
@mitiaoliver9738 4 жыл бұрын
Yvonne Gabriella Nkhoma 🙌🏾💃🏾👏🏾🥳❤️
@zoraidacastro5403
@zoraidacastro5403 4 жыл бұрын
Likewise but online
@TheVonnie45
@TheVonnie45 4 жыл бұрын
@@zoraidacastro5403 you have to start somewhere...still progress
@zoraidacastro5403
@zoraidacastro5403 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheVonnie45 hey lady, everything is closed because of LaRona-- the world has dramatically changed... this lockdown has been driving me CRAZY---
@talktofelicia
@talktofelicia 2 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@shareesiva396
@shareesiva396 2 жыл бұрын
Self love regulates your capacity to determine real love. Amen to that!
@NYCRhythm
@NYCRhythm 4 жыл бұрын
This video is so helpful. Thank you so much for lifting me out of a difficult time - you are amazing. I’m crying. We think we “got it” until we don’t ...girls, let’s reach out to each other and get strength from our friendship and self love. I love you all..
@Here_Today_
@Here_Today_ 4 жыл бұрын
Kingology?! That's wonderful to hear.
@melissaszarka5718
@melissaszarka5718 2 жыл бұрын
Self love regulates your capacity to determine real love.
@stephaniesmith4121
@stephaniesmith4121 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Wow! And Wow! I say this soberly...An atomic bomb with finese on the kingdom of darkness. Thank you. God bless you and your wife for such a deep and profound ministry.
@charlottebrown9197
@charlottebrown9197 4 жыл бұрын
Amen pastor , I am moving forward , letting go of of toxicity friendships and co-workers because I feel as if I am beginning to love me by removing that engery away , just saying good morning and praying for all of us and asking praying and asking the Lord Jesus Christ to forgive us and teach us to love one another as he has love us all , because they can either stay stagnated or move forward to be a better person. Peace Love and light to you pastor and to your family and may the Lord Jesus Christ continue to bless you in spirit always . thank You. Charlotte ,. Houston Texas.
@anabautista8071
@anabautista8071 2 жыл бұрын
SELF-LOVE = To regard one's own self-being and happiness; the love that I have for myself that regulates what I accept from others, and generates how I treat others; the value you experience within your own soul, separate and distinct from others; regulates your capacity to determine real love [1. It starts with an inner definition: It finds its foundation on identity. *When the world cannot leave any imprint on your self evaluation / estimation, you are truly free. Who am I? We will always define ourselves by what we give our hearts to] [2. Validation of all external data] [3. Process free radicals out of your subconscious mind *Free radicals are thoughts in your system sabotaging you] [4. Create internal esteem. *Build yourself up]
@madam-queen9665
@madam-queen9665 3 жыл бұрын
I listen to this wise teaching at least weekly. I pray God continue to share this absolutely valuable Words of Life. Thank you for your sincerity and blessing the Body of Christ and helping us to not repeat the same mistakes over and over again. The definition of Insanity.
@Here_Today_
@Here_Today_ 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for encouraging us and sharing life with us.
@orchidisle1
@orchidisle1 4 жыл бұрын
Pastor! RC Blakes you are lead by the Holy Spirit. I was so blessed by this message today. Had to call a suicide line 2 nights ago to get through the night. Today is brighter and by the grace of God I am going higher!
@kasand01
@kasand01 4 жыл бұрын
Pamela I pray that your soul is healing with the love of God & embracing self love. May God bless you richly.
@ddenise8428
@ddenise8428 2 жыл бұрын
💟🙏
@paradiselivinginpurpose
@paradiselivinginpurpose 3 жыл бұрын
"...I find my definition in God... PERIOD." Acts 17:28 In Him we live and move and have our being!!
@Risingpresent
@Risingpresent 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you, pastor. You helped me change my life for the better. 🙏🌱✨
@margohenderson4963
@margohenderson4963 2 жыл бұрын
I have self love today! I have greeting my brothers and sisters as Kings and Queens! It has been received with smiles! Thank you for Queenology!
@kimberlymccracken747
@kimberlymccracken747 4 жыл бұрын
Pastor Blakes thank you for the prayers. I let the last one go today in Jesus' name. A charming abuser like my Father. Brought me to my knees, though my Father never could. I receive nothing but the blessings of Christ upon my life. 🙏⭐🙏⭐🙏⭐
@Maya-xm5jx
@Maya-xm5jx 4 жыл бұрын
Kimberly McCracken bless you!
@beckynakachwa7195
@beckynakachwa7195 3 жыл бұрын
Am blessed listening to this video.. Blessings pastor blakes
@jessicag0625
@jessicag0625 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor…huge fan! I stopped tuning in for a short bit for no good reason really; just life’s distractions 🤦🏻‍♀️, now I’m back. Didn’t realize till now how much I missed and need you in my life (like you would a natural father) 🥲. Many thanks on behalf of myself and the rest of the ladies/men who are in need of your teachings or constant reminders of our worth! GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏽😇
@marybethmorris4963
@marybethmorris4963 Жыл бұрын
You are the Dad’s voice and wisdom and understanding I never had. My wounds run deep and I truly need to learn how to love myself. I just want peace and some joy and acceptance of myself as I am so I can self actualize to be the complete woman God wants me to be. Thank you for your guidance. I feel you are sincere and God put you on my path as an answer to my prayers. God bless and keep you Pastor.
@biblequeen4sure823
@biblequeen4sure823 3 жыл бұрын
Pastor, I really ❤ me. I ❤ everything that makes Carrie who she is. Thank you for your powerful teachings that's like a healing balm.
@debbiespain2302
@debbiespain2302 4 жыл бұрын
I thank the most High God for your Ministry
@loyalliz5909
@loyalliz5909 Жыл бұрын
God bless you for your insight! Praise God! I am a believer first! PS. We don’t care how long you take or don’t take. Please continue to give the message God provided for you to share, the timing will work itself out. (I’d listen and learn from you for days, who am I kidding, I actually already do that! Lol
@sexyava5280
@sexyava5280 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you so much. Thank you for preaching to me tonight. I receive it..in Jesus Name.
@patriciaketzner8706
@patriciaketzner8706 2 жыл бұрын
SO GRATEFUL FOR THIS POWERFUL MESSAGE... AMEN
@itiaharts
@itiaharts Жыл бұрын
"YOU DON'T LEARN HOW TO LOVE YOU UNTIL YOU ARE LEFT WITH JUST YOU" so truly said. God bless you pastor Blake's. Found you in my late 50's.
@kelleybright3113
@kelleybright3113 4 жыл бұрын
Class:Self love 101 school:Blake's university Teacher: Bishop RC Blake's Number of students see coments!!
@cherisejones9535
@cherisejones9535 4 жыл бұрын
His teachings are a powerful powerful lesson in life he's a blessing for us all👃😊
@the_feisty_vegan_llc
@the_feisty_vegan_llc 4 жыл бұрын
I truly thank God 🙏 for you and your videos..I need them in this time.. moving on from a very recent relationship with a narcissist... breaking soul ties... moving into healing and freedom.. Please keep them coming.. Continue to be blessed!!!
@smuccilicious
@smuccilicious 4 жыл бұрын
There's a stability a rest when you know who you are....Come on now Pastor!
@user-qn1lh4zn7f
@user-qn1lh4zn7f Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you for allowing God to use you as a tool of strength to those who are broken .We are now freed by the renewing of our minds Knowledge is power May The Most High continue to bless you & your families.
@mariahharris1671
@mariahharris1671 2 жыл бұрын
Your ministry is a blessing to me during this heartbreak. ❤️
@judithstevens4323
@judithstevens4323 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor! YOU some how ALWAYS come up with the teachings that I TRULY NEED! YOU are ALWAYS right on time!! YOU are TRULY God's warrior & teacher!! YOU are my pastor!! Keep TEACHING, I AM YOUR SPONGE!! I AM LEARNING SO MUCH!! THANK YOU & I LOVE YOU!! MAY GOD BLESS & PROTECT YOU!!
@Paulina-yv7go
@Paulina-yv7go Жыл бұрын
"Whenever you make up your mind that you're going to do anything that brings you to the next level, you're going to discover people in your current circle that do not really have your best interests at heart and if you are not a person that is given to self love and you're a person that is in need of their approval you'll find yourself divorcing your future to maintain your history, divorcing your destiny to maintain your history..."
@sachawilliams4360
@sachawilliams4360 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I can't wait for you to come to my hometown of Toronto, Ontario, Canada. I love your ministry. You're practicality and godly wisdom is a breath of fresh air. You are so appreciated and loved by many. Thank you!
@pzandlov8179
@pzandlov8179 4 жыл бұрын
That’s it right there build ourselves up.
@emilysmith9826
@emilysmith9826 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Livingbyfaith789
@Livingbyfaith789 Жыл бұрын
We must love ourselves by taking care of ourselves and know our limits. Do what you are able without putting your own well being and life in jeopardy. As the old saying goes love what you do & do what you love. And hopefully it is something that will support a financial living for you
@tabithabalcitis7656
@tabithabalcitis7656 4 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful that I found you and your teachings. I was raised by a narcissistic parent and then married a narcissist. I am on my own journey of learning to love myself.
@nicmusic5839
@nicmusic5839 3 жыл бұрын
I am so thankful that I found this channel. Thank you RC Blakes for sharing your wisdom. It helps me every step of the way. 🙏
@marymurillo6189
@marymurillo6189 Жыл бұрын
I want to thank you RC Blakes for opening my eyes a year ago to narcissism. I heard the word but I didn't know what it was. You are a very good educator and you will be forever in my thanks and prayers. God bless you
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD 2 жыл бұрын
I AM resilient, I AM enough. I am a child of the Most High God YHWH.
@josephineperez7225
@josephineperez7225 Жыл бұрын
I have been directected I believe to you seeing and hearing How our creator manifests HIS GREAT LOVE Through you JESUS THE SAME YESTERDAY TODAY AND FOREVER! Hallelujah brother and yes 👑you and Sister Lisa been seeing and hearing and it’s like am being reborn
@ndlilian
@ndlilian Жыл бұрын
You're simply awesome ☺️☺️ Always impacting lives by your powerful insight and teachings. Thank you Sir!
@diannmyrick6121
@diannmyrick6121 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your authentic self. and teaching. You helping this queen to heal and crown stay straight. I thank God for you and your beautiful wife. Diann
@jeanettemeans4099
@jeanettemeans4099 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message, truly powerful and empowering. Amen Bishop, Gory to God for self love!
@gethomebywynona
@gethomebywynona 4 жыл бұрын
My God, always has perfect timing! Thank you for the reminder and 4 key points.
@HealingHoney
@HealingHoney 3 жыл бұрын
Your words are healing and refreshing to the soul! Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@donnajeanackerman8285
@donnajeanackerman8285 4 жыл бұрын
Right on!! Powerful ❤️🙏🏼 you need to get into schools.. We need to preach pour this to our youth.. 💛💛
@theloveofjesus5775
@theloveofjesus5775 4 жыл бұрын
Just love you for your messages
@lmoody2825
@lmoody2825 4 жыл бұрын
Lord knows I needed this. Thank you for this word.
@tarageene5845
@tarageene5845 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking out, being you, pouring into others, Brother!
@catrinagriffin6141
@catrinagriffin6141 3 жыл бұрын
I have seen that peace in people. There is a calm about them and it feels awesome to be in their presence.
@teresafreemanparker6967
@teresafreemanparker6967 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor Blake's for the word of God! God Bless you!
@nikkilove6128
@nikkilove6128 4 жыл бұрын
Can't thank you enough Pastor! I was just focusing on self love this week as I deal with life, thank you for blessing us!❤
@autumnrose6370
@autumnrose6370 4 жыл бұрын
I love that statement "Inner definition" requires contant validation. In that prospective from a clinical perspective... the meaning is positive self-talk. AND reframe from self detachment (when you deny yourself you are detaching from your body). An individual must seek professional and spiritual help.
@101Tmon
@101Tmon 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful for this!!! Thank you Bishop.🙏🙏🙏🙏
@cindagilford2053
@cindagilford2053 3 жыл бұрын
I listen to you daily. You have truly spoken life to me. I thank you. Your like the Father I never had respectfully.
@luulips
@luulips 4 жыл бұрын
This is a powerful powerful message. Take it in Kings and Queens. Stay blessed.
@Chocqueen1c
@Chocqueen1c 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I was just struggling with this very thing! God is awesome! Keep sharing the truth please 💖💖💖💖💞
@CorineLaFont
@CorineLaFont 4 жыл бұрын
Powerful! Pastor R.C. Blakes Jr. Thank you
@leslierb3484
@leslierb3484 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor Blakes for this powerful word, for your wisdom and love.
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