4 Steps to Making a New Friend | How to Life

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5 жыл бұрын

Whether you've moved away to a new city, or your best friends have moved away, or you just don't have as many close friends as you wish you did, it's not always easy knowing how to make new friends. It can be daunting, and awkward, and downright scary. BUT, it doesn't have to be. "How to Life" is here with some tips on how to make new friends.
Directed by: Oskar Velazquez
Narration by: Rainn Wilson
Featuring: Kenzie Woodrow
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@horriblehoodie6880
@horriblehoodie6880 4 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I'm actually searching this *up*
@stuff7400
@stuff7400 4 жыл бұрын
Same💀
@CLPXZ
@CLPXZ 4 жыл бұрын
Its like looking at your other friends and family having sleepovers and having the best time ever and you are over here alone in your room alone
@justsomeguywithamustache7053
@justsomeguywithamustache7053 4 жыл бұрын
We all live in a society 💀
@kookitobh
@kookitobh 4 жыл бұрын
It is what it is
@evelynstansnina2403
@evelynstansnina2403 4 жыл бұрын
Right
@Marie70707070
@Marie70707070 5 жыл бұрын
There's one important mistake in this video. Whenever you want to find new friends and enter a new environment everyone already has a friend or is part of a group and that is extremely intimidating
@xzxjessxzx
@xzxjessxzx 5 жыл бұрын
There's probably one other loner there too so prey on them 😂
@Gamesake2
@Gamesake2 5 жыл бұрын
I always play it cool when I get into a group like that...you don't know what their group mentality is or who is who. I just try to fit in some way and kind of agree with everything. I assume it's a group you have to be in...like a new school or new job? In a week or so you will get the lay of the land and begin to see who you mesh with. I usually find the people I first think are really cool...aren't...and the ones who kind of seem standoffish are more like me and just trying to give it time to figure ME out. I try to participate in things they are doing so I look like a friendly person...even if I am quiet. In a month or so you will start to get in the groove and the group will accept you and you can begin to form friendships.
@haisesasaki3944
@haisesasaki3944 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's like when you go to college, everyone have a group of friends from high school or from the same town except me, "the outsider".
@Ana-ty8sl
@Ana-ty8sl 5 жыл бұрын
@@xzxjessxzx that used to be my tactic in high school/college... It really works!!!
@istrazuvanjepazar3822
@istrazuvanjepazar3822 5 жыл бұрын
On point !!!You may be asking yourself questions like, "What if they don't like me?" or "What if they make fun of me?" The truth is, we are all afraid of rejection. You are not alone in this. I remember transferring to a new school and not knowing where to begin. I had the same self-doubt. Then, one day, I pulled myself up and brushed all those doubts aside. We wrote a blog post on Myfriendshop blog covering your remarks.
@deemstarxox1778
@deemstarxox1778 4 жыл бұрын
The worst part about this is the small talk. Everytime I small talk it ends in like 2 seconds
@ashr.k5041
@ashr.k5041 4 жыл бұрын
OMG IKR!!!
@mercyimdani6853
@mercyimdani6853 3 жыл бұрын
Mine ends 100000 hours
@elliejean3787
@elliejean3787 3 жыл бұрын
Innit
@deemstarxox1778
@deemstarxox1778 3 жыл бұрын
@@mercyimdani6853 ugh lucky
@Amir-iz8eh
@Amir-iz8eh 3 жыл бұрын
@@mercyimdani6853 pls how do u do that 😂
@alya8053
@alya8053 4 жыл бұрын
The problem is “no one want to be my friend”🌚
@adhamshawky5594
@adhamshawky5594 4 жыл бұрын
No you are good believe in your self.it's just you have to try and accept people tring to be your friends. I,m sure you can ;-)
@alya8053
@alya8053 4 жыл бұрын
adham shawky I accept the ppl but they don’t accept me🙂
@adhamshawky5594
@adhamshawky5594 4 жыл бұрын
@@alya8053 because you didn't accept your self.
@alya8053
@alya8053 4 жыл бұрын
adham shawky I accept myself and I love myself 😌
@adhamshawky5594
@adhamshawky5594 4 жыл бұрын
@@alya8053 that's the spirit :-). I'm that you will have great friends.
@louisurbina3748
@louisurbina3748 3 жыл бұрын
The problem for me is that everyone already has their own group of friends and aren't willing to make room for one more
@rekhakamath5117
@rekhakamath5117 2 жыл бұрын
Soo true
@PeoniesandBows21
@PeoniesandBows21 2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@julianna7681
@julianna7681 2 жыл бұрын
Yupp and i dont wanna join any camp and i dont have any room in my schedule to participate into another hobby!! I have friends and a bestfriend who ive known for a very long time, but the problem is that my bestfriend is extremely negative, doesn’t bring me really happiness and very selfish plus rude. I consider her my bestfriend bc she is the only friend i can actually trust and i want a nicer friend who i can trust! That’s why im here lol
@thanosbutididntkillloki5373
@thanosbutididntkillloki5373 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@nothingbutyou7719
@nothingbutyou7719 Жыл бұрын
so true there a guy i wanted to be friend with he has plenty of other friend in the uni so i cant go and talk to a whole groupe + i tried to sent him a message on instagram BUT HE DOESNT EVEN ANSWER CAUSE HE DOESNT KNOW ME I GUESS WHAT SHOULD I DO
@nonanaismyname
@nonanaismyname 5 жыл бұрын
I never knew Dwight will teach me how to make friends
@pinkattics9708
@pinkattics9708 5 жыл бұрын
Nona Ignacio I KNEW he sounded familiar
@Joonsky5991
@Joonsky5991 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Dwight!
@artsydream2737
@artsydream2737 5 жыл бұрын
Once I read this comment I was like OMG LOL
@leleohanmu8142
@leleohanmu8142 5 жыл бұрын
LOL
@tehyamae3599
@tehyamae3599 5 жыл бұрын
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@hudsonfariasable
@hudsonfariasable 4 жыл бұрын
I used to think that my life couldn't be more depressing than it was but here I am
@who_we_are______5926
@who_we_are______5926 Жыл бұрын
Still out there?
@Tyland156
@Tyland156 5 жыл бұрын
Why can't you nap in a group? I would love a great group nap party
@Participant
@Participant 5 жыл бұрын
Haha you could definitely nap in a group. Just not sure how much "getting to know each other" would be taking place ;)
@nahmos658
@nahmos658 3 жыл бұрын
Cats 🤣👏😁😂😭💀
@EliteXtasy
@EliteXtasy 5 жыл бұрын
*Did she randomly ask "So what's been the best part of your week"?? That sounds so forced and unnatural! It makes it obvious that she's trying to make friends. Ask something in relation to her painting instead!*
@nahmos658
@nahmos658 3 жыл бұрын
IKR 🤣👏😂😭
@supashyarc
@supashyarc 5 жыл бұрын
I need friends whom i can hangout with no facebook or any bs social friends.
@gabiduncan18
@gabiduncan18 5 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@Donnie_y
@Donnie_y 5 жыл бұрын
@@gabiduncan18 done! Hye~
@nabeel9187
@nabeel9187 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@nooralhussein2161
@nooralhussein2161 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah same
@gladysagiende
@gladysagiende 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Norimarisu
@Norimarisu 5 жыл бұрын
It's so hard making friends in a different state and after college. I have in fact tried step 1 to 3 and it has not worked yet. Maybe I'll give it another go this month. Thanks for this video, it makes me wanna try it.
@younesrammach2501
@younesrammach2501 5 жыл бұрын
i agree with you but we have to try again and again because i believe the best life with best friends
@zey8557
@zey8557 5 жыл бұрын
Hey did you find friends? Update us!!
@Donnie_y
@Donnie_y 5 жыл бұрын
Done nory-chan kawaii deska~~
@Donnie_y
@Donnie_y 5 жыл бұрын
@@younesrammach2501 done
@Donnie_y
@Donnie_y 5 жыл бұрын
@@zey8557 done
@dami1219
@dami1219 5 жыл бұрын
*Get off your phone and talk to someone*
@adaliawright6891
@adaliawright6891 5 жыл бұрын
and if you dont have a phone?
@HermioneGranger-sr4vz
@HermioneGranger-sr4vz 5 жыл бұрын
Adalia Wright well use a computer
@adaliawright6891
@adaliawright6891 5 жыл бұрын
@@HermioneGranger-sr4vz I have a chromebook I suppose...
@alexifelton1070
@alexifelton1070 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 LMAO YOU ARE HILARIOUS 🤣🤣🤣 😅
@Senator_Senart
@Senator_Senart 4 жыл бұрын
😄 But I AM talking to someone on the phone....so what's the difference?
5 жыл бұрын
Loved the video. Especially as a lonely recent college student.
@marktuan8692
@marktuan8692 5 жыл бұрын
Same here;)
@kams7170
@kams7170 5 жыл бұрын
Go for it! You'll find some good people to hang out with!
@kams7170
@kams7170 5 жыл бұрын
Common interests with help you discuss and start some great conversations!
@jiminminja9542
@jiminminja9542 4 жыл бұрын
Felt you
@saradeen3984
@saradeen3984 4 жыл бұрын
Guys l came to anew country and started college and it's really hard making friends lam also the lonely 1 in college😣
@aleehx3732
@aleehx3732 5 жыл бұрын
I get super sweaty and nervous that's why I have no friends
@meIatonin
@meIatonin 5 жыл бұрын
Do you have social anxiety?
@Ana-ty8sl
@Ana-ty8sl 5 жыл бұрын
Same... I can't even speak, if I do, stumbling words... That just confused people...
@Cat-ez5mk
@Cat-ez5mk 5 жыл бұрын
me too :(
@caniilashay
@caniilashay 5 жыл бұрын
Well i do talk but its akward amd i just idk. Its hard to talk for me and EVERYDAY I FEEL ALONE :C
@adaliawright6891
@adaliawright6891 5 жыл бұрын
@@meIatonin how can you tell for sure if you do?
@Sammmc99
@Sammmc99 5 жыл бұрын
It's hard when you're really busy with university and everyone in your program seems to have their own friend group already, but alas, my name is also Samantha so I'm going to pretend I was meant to see this video and actually start putting more of an effort in :)
@Unterhosegotti
@Unterhosegotti 5 жыл бұрын
And?
@Celestials1aurora
@Celestials1aurora 5 жыл бұрын
Samantha how is it going?
@1276kashi
@1276kashi 4 жыл бұрын
Samantha my name is Samantha too
@user-fz3ip3ke8p
@user-fz3ip3ke8p 4 жыл бұрын
@@1276kashi my name is ahtnamas
@christianmendoza3749
@christianmendoza3749 3 жыл бұрын
Lets be friends !
@limitednadia1947
@limitednadia1947 5 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard making friend in Middle School💀😭
@caniilashay
@caniilashay 5 жыл бұрын
Yes i miss my friends.
@caniilashay
@caniilashay 5 жыл бұрын
But you can be my friend c:
@limitednadia1947
@limitednadia1947 5 жыл бұрын
Nyny Studios! Please. I actually just now broke up with my friend😭😭
@caniilashay
@caniilashay 5 жыл бұрын
@@limitednadia1947 Of Course! I moved away:c from all of my friends and at school i just feel lonely and sad and at afterschool i just be Sad :c i just cant make friends and also you can be friend i would love you to be my friend c:
@showbizchannel4488
@showbizchannel4488 4 жыл бұрын
@@caniilashay how old are you?
@courtneyfleischman2338
@courtneyfleischman2338 5 жыл бұрын
I work from home full time and most of my closest friends have gotten married and moved away. Making new friends as an adult is one of the hardest things I've ever attempted to do. Not even exaggerating when I say that. I still haven't had any true success with this... I think I need to join more clubs?
@sandrabiekmann7424
@sandrabiekmann7424 5 жыл бұрын
Join more groups with the same hobby's.. like walking, swimming what you really like.. Than you have fun too.. and you can share. Have fun..
@Participant
@Participant 5 жыл бұрын
Ugh yes! When we no longer have school as a place to meet people, it can be difficult to find a group we really fit in with. But if you try finding meet up events for hobbies you enjoy, you'll definitely meet some cool new people!
@JuaniqueVerde
@JuaniqueVerde 5 жыл бұрын
Try meetup or bumble! Good luck!
@debbieomi
@debbieomi 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe there is a community volunteer group you can join. I am secretary for our county fair and also part of a group that organizes another big local festival. I've made a few incredibly close friends and lots of other to hang out with.
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892 3 жыл бұрын
@@debbieomi ohh woow 💖
@kenziewoodrow2035
@kenziewoodrow2035 5 жыл бұрын
This speaks to my inner child
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892 3 жыл бұрын
Yepp
@moongazer5854
@moongazer5854 Ай бұрын
Can I get your instgram handle
@mckarov5818
@mckarov5818 5 жыл бұрын
1 reason i have no friends in school is... "Akwardness"
@okgoogle999
@okgoogle999 5 жыл бұрын
New to the US, new to my high school in 11th grade, I tried this already but it seems everyone has formed their bubbles of friends already too late...well I guess I will wait till college
@kati6259
@kati6259 5 жыл бұрын
Jean Elysée ikr
@StephenAghahowa612
@StephenAghahowa612 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t give up that big gap of time in between now and college just because it doesn’t seem possible, you still have to try!
@nomyum7042
@nomyum7042 4 жыл бұрын
So.... how do you make friends with people in your class who you’ve been in school with for half a year and just remembered their faces and names a week ago?
@aspiringanimator2991
@aspiringanimator2991 2 жыл бұрын
Me too. I just realized that a girl in my class also draws. So I wanna be friends with her but I haven’t said a word to her in 2 years. I do not know how to approach her
@arhad0031
@arhad0031 5 жыл бұрын
I don't have any friends and i am really anxious for some reasons today. I saw this video and i feel better now. Thanks 🙂
@fredjen89
@fredjen89 5 жыл бұрын
This has me cracking up, love the Narrator dude, he rocks 😂
@emilynunns3725
@emilynunns3725 5 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful and exactly what I need right now. Thank you so much!
@cherishcanada4225
@cherishcanada4225 3 жыл бұрын
..wish I met you on the single life comment section, permit me to ask for YOUR FRIENDSHIP... Emily,am cherish. You must be good👌
@JeagerTv
@JeagerTv 5 жыл бұрын
LOVED this video! Rainn's commentary was hilarious. More like this please!
@cherishcanada4225
@cherishcanada4225 3 жыл бұрын
..wish I met you on the single life comment section, permit me to ask for YOUR FRIENDSHIP...Jeager,am cherish. You are handsome👌
@Thee5Footer
@Thee5Footer 3 жыл бұрын
When he said “Samantha, I didn’t know you like to paint” I looked like 😯 my name is Samantha and I like to paint and have been trying to get back into the swing of it. Thanks! I’m gonna paint today! 💚
@NK-vb3fn
@NK-vb3fn 2 жыл бұрын
Did it help?
@Thee5Footer
@Thee5Footer 2 жыл бұрын
@@NK-vb3fn sure did!!! ☺️
@NK-vb3fn
@NK-vb3fn 2 жыл бұрын
@@Thee5Footer great :)
@joyrinoza
@joyrinoza 3 жыл бұрын
This is the most accurate and concise steps I've seen. Such a great video. Thank you!
@oldschoolexe
@oldschoolexe 5 жыл бұрын
When one of these days you want a new friend but it's mid year into school and everyone has a like 4 friends each
@JG-on2wx
@JG-on2wx 5 жыл бұрын
This video is really helpful for me since I'll graduate from school next year and probably move to another city where I won't know anyone. I'm already a bit nervous although I still have enough time until then, I just hope everything will go right, or at least kind of 😂😊
@Triforceman1
@Triforceman1 5 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t expecting to laugh so much! Great video!
@AaronSF
@AaronSF 10 ай бұрын
Wow a 1000% kudos for this video! Love it! One of my favorite videos!
@SomeAnonymousGuy5
@SomeAnonymousGuy5 5 жыл бұрын
This is what I needed in my life. Thank you.
@realSkyEyes
@realSkyEyes 5 жыл бұрын
Well, here's the problem.. I totally fail at step 2 'cause I'm a chicken!!
@Participant
@Participant 5 жыл бұрын
Oy yes, we all feel that way. But, you just got to keep in mind that even if you strike out, it's not personal. You're just going to click better with some people than others. And once you find the people you click with, working past your nerves will have all been worth it.
@vloggetts
@vloggetts 5 жыл бұрын
I thought it was going to be a plot twist where she makes friends with the narrator
@Donnie_y
@Donnie_y 5 жыл бұрын
Hey !! Haha wkr? Done!! Btw sub back!! Tq😀
@mckennalynn1916
@mckennalynn1916 2 жыл бұрын
This is genuinely straightforward and really good advice :)
@duckyduke954
@duckyduke954 5 жыл бұрын
I started my senior year of High School and I really have troubles making friends, I'm always alone, so Thank you for this video ! Even though adult's mentalities are not the same as teen's
@TheLegend-rx8yu
@TheLegend-rx8yu 3 жыл бұрын
Do u wanna be my friend?
@duckyduke954
@duckyduke954 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheLegend-rx8yu I would love to ☺️
@TheLegend-rx8yu
@TheLegend-rx8yu 3 жыл бұрын
@@duckyduke954 that's great! Btw what's your age?
@duckyduke954
@duckyduke954 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheLegend-rx8yu I'm 19! how old are you?
@TheLegend-rx8yu
@TheLegend-rx8yu 3 жыл бұрын
@@duckyduke954 oh nice..actually I'm going to be 18 now.. Btw are u active on ⓣⓔⓛⓔⓖⓡⓐⓜ ? 😅
@aneeshxD
@aneeshxD 2 жыл бұрын
The problem for me is that most of the things I do are not related to going outside. I like gaming, graphic designing, learning new things and reading books.
@thejoshH1
@thejoshH1 Жыл бұрын
A bit of a late reply, I enjoy about the same things you do
@amjaadalharbi5639
@amjaadalharbi5639 3 жыл бұрын
I just moved in to new place and it been 6 month with no social life, I ll try those :)
@NK-vb3fn
@NK-vb3fn 11 ай бұрын
Wow, this is actually quite nice bro, I didn't expect it to be ao good 😅
@CARCINOGENETiCIST.6
@CARCINOGENETiCIST.6 2 жыл бұрын
My life has gone so wrong that I got recommended a video that has how to life in it.
@tej9027
@tej9027 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so tired of not having a good friend 😭
@winterbear7794
@winterbear7794 3 жыл бұрын
same- 😩
@jdmaster9686
@jdmaster9686 3 жыл бұрын
I need friend 😭
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892 3 жыл бұрын
Me too 😭
@tej9027
@tej9027 3 жыл бұрын
@@winterbear7794 🥺
@sjsurya3375
@sjsurya3375 3 жыл бұрын
@@jdmaster9686 nanbaa nammalukku vijay irukkumbodhu . Edhukku tension . Vidu nanba . Namba rendu perum frnds aaydalaam 🤗
@AbhimanyuVenu
@AbhimanyuVenu 4 жыл бұрын
"Your hair is winter fire January embers My heart burns there, too"
@lucastea9533
@lucastea9533 4 жыл бұрын
lol
@DrPatrickKingsep
@DrPatrickKingsep 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, Patrick from Mind Life Flow here...great advice on how to make friends...useful info for so many people. I like your video too! Thanks
@suvendumishra4915
@suvendumishra4915 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.... this may surely help me
@cryptical1210
@cryptical1210 3 жыл бұрын
Here's just what I follow: (Im person A) A= "Hello!, How are you?" B= "Good and you?" A= "Glad to hear that" A= "Do you like (insert thing you like)?" If they say yes: A= "Cool! Me too" And start asking questions such as: how did you discovered it? Why do you like it? What's your favorite character? (If is a series) If they say no: A= "Ah It's okay! What things are you interested on?" And find something you both have in common
@jetoux4881
@jetoux4881 2 жыл бұрын
Made sure to screenshot this
@Newmemes-ic1rj
@Newmemes-ic1rj 5 жыл бұрын
I see why this is on my recommend list
@aviationking8088
@aviationking8088 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice
@Fernando-fr5cu
@Fernando-fr5cu 5 жыл бұрын
Nice to hear Rainn Wilson's voice on one of this videos!!!
@claoul9451
@claoul9451 5 жыл бұрын
C'est super il y a des sous-titres en français, merci😗
@hattidzamesic8920
@hattidzamesic8920 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that we are searching this up-
@niraj2251
@niraj2251 3 жыл бұрын
Hey so you also don't have any real friend
@hattidzamesic8920
@hattidzamesic8920 3 жыл бұрын
@@niraj2251 yeah 😩
@niraj2251
@niraj2251 3 жыл бұрын
@@hattidzamesic8920 well i will try to be your best friend ever just give me 1 chance
@hattidzamesic8920
@hattidzamesic8920 3 жыл бұрын
@@niraj2251 eeemm-
@NK-vb3fn
@NK-vb3fn 2 жыл бұрын
@@hattidzamesic8920 got a vacancy xD
@rainatmidnight
@rainatmidnight 4 жыл бұрын
No lie this is a helpful video and I can't believe I actually had to search this up.
@raskelguy9646
@raskelguy9646 4 жыл бұрын
That's a great advice, I should try this with someone I need
@denisZsuave
@denisZsuave 5 жыл бұрын
Trust, intention and vulnerability are the keys of a great friendship. Painting 🐢 turtles also helps
@Participant
@Participant 5 жыл бұрын
Haha love this
@indieintellect1121
@indieintellect1121 4 жыл бұрын
I have taken admission in new school when I was in 7 th and there is so hard to survive cause all students had made groups already and they are not ready to get you involved in their group And I found solution for it I talked to everyone nicely sometimes I used to give them small treats I involve in every sports and curriculum activities and I found some good mates I mean to say just don't be deactive and dull in new places And I'm in 12 th now
@gabreiliusgen4519
@gabreiliusgen4519 3 жыл бұрын
this is the most helpful guide I could ever find. ever.
@sanketchoudhary7391
@sanketchoudhary7391 3 жыл бұрын
Hey can we friends
@murataubakir8437
@murataubakir8437 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. I hope this one'll help me.
@marieherridge3700
@marieherridge3700 5 жыл бұрын
O my gosh, this was SUPER cute! Love it...moving to a new town can be tough.
@anna-fd7it
@anna-fd7it 3 жыл бұрын
I had 3 best friends. The first one tried stealing my other friends from me and and constantly copied me, the second one left me for her popularity, the third one completely forgot about me and became best friends with my BFF that left me for her popularity and became bffs with somebody I was trying to become friends with. I do have other friends but we never talk anymore because of online schooling and all that. I feel so lost.
@TheLegend-rx8yu
@TheLegend-rx8yu 3 жыл бұрын
Ohh 🥺🥺 can u give me a chance to become ur best friend?
@sharand3016
@sharand3016 3 жыл бұрын
Ughhh it's the worst feeling when they leave you but you knew you were giving your all btw I lost four best friends too
@NK-vb3fn
@NK-vb3fn 2 жыл бұрын
@@sharand3016 sad but part of life
@kshitijpandey7618
@kshitijpandey7618 5 жыл бұрын
This video is super funny and informative at the same time
@xSuperdogx
@xSuperdogx 5 жыл бұрын
Y’all really nailed this on the head! ❤️
@khalidaytbenlfatmi6738
@khalidaytbenlfatmi6738 Жыл бұрын
I need friend 💔
@albertoespinoza3626
@albertoespinoza3626 5 жыл бұрын
Me everytime before I get regected after a few talks. Hey, we should hangout I know this place... you will love it. Potential friend: Hmm (changes subject)
@Theodior
@Theodior 3 жыл бұрын
Finally I have a true friend! :D
@NK-vb3fn
@NK-vb3fn 2 жыл бұрын
Who
@derbeu1
@derbeu1 5 жыл бұрын
Love the writing of this video.
@johnbehneman1546
@johnbehneman1546 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! THOSE ARE GREAT BUILDING BLOCKS.
@marktuan8692
@marktuan8692 5 жыл бұрын
I have more than 100 friends but they're all fake any advice 😕
@DarkX64
@DarkX64 5 жыл бұрын
Try cutting them all out. If anyone asks why or feels hurt, there's a good chance those who do may be more worth your time. Apologize and dedicate more time to them, see where it goes. On the flipside, if you cut ties with those friends and none of them bat an eyelash or say anything, this can sometimes be better. If they aren't upset about seeing you less or even not at all, then you shouldn't be either. You just freed up your schedule to find people who will care about hearing from you! As far as getting away from those friends, there isn't a need to be uncivil about the matter. Just take a break from seeing people, fill your time up with other responsibilities or hobbies that don't include them. See how long you can stretch it, take note of how they respond. And my last tip? Don't make one of those "cutting out the fake people from my life," posts or carry on about it in such a manner. That draws negative attention, hurts your rep and will actually make outsiders unsympathetic with your case. Do it quietly. Discreetly. And respectfully. This gets you a better chance of finding friends to keep if none of the first 100 really stick. And a question for you to think on before you go about this: what do you define as a friend? Is it someone you know their first name? Played a game with them before? Really question yourself on what you want and need out of friends, and more importantly what, if anything, you are doing to meet them halfway. Be yourself, but more importantly, consistently be yourself so that it is simple to get a grasp on who you are and what you like, again for the purposes of simplifying forming the right friendships. Tl;dr, take a break from these friends and either keep the ones who want you back or work to find someone who you truly connect with
@marktuan8692
@marktuan8692 5 жыл бұрын
@@DarkX64 thank you so much❤
@haisesasaki3944
@haisesasaki3944 5 жыл бұрын
cafiifa QNa I have two best friends but we're going to different universities which sucks ☹. And about 50 fake friends who used to feed on my notes back in school in exchange for not hurting me.
@marktuan8692
@marktuan8692 5 жыл бұрын
@@haisesasaki3944 My high school best friends and I picked different colleges. when I tried to keep the friendship going but it turned into a one sided thing and so I eventually let go after it was going nowhere.
@Ibetala
@Ibetala 3 жыл бұрын
Delete social media. Go outside. Do something that is your hobby. Strike up a convo with someone that has great vibes. Keep in contact. Go somewhere else with the new friend! :)
@albertobailon7529
@albertobailon7529 3 жыл бұрын
Me whos just a kid but has no friends and cant move away: *Ah yes, Loneliness is my only friend now i guess*
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892 3 жыл бұрын
So how is it going now? Did you get the true friend now
@sjsurya3375
@sjsurya3375 3 жыл бұрын
@@_.xnugrxhx_.4892 u r tamil right . Becoz ur profile is like that 😅. Just asking ..I m also not having any frnds. No one speaks to me properly. Only one or two . 😞..
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892
@_.xnugrxhx_.4892 3 жыл бұрын
@@sjsurya3375 no no I am not tamil ..
@sjsurya3375
@sjsurya3375 3 жыл бұрын
@@_.xnugrxhx_.4892 ohh okok
@afnansaud8695
@afnansaud8695 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice btw 👍
@Ibetala
@Ibetala 3 жыл бұрын
I loved this! It was HILARIOUS!!!! Lol
@francismausley7239
@francismausley7239 5 жыл бұрын
Have spiritual dynamics..."One must see in every human being only that which is worthy of praise. When this is done, one can be a friend to the whole human race. If, however, we look at people from the standpoint of their faults, then being a friend to them is a formidable task." ~ Writings of Abdu'l-Baha, Baha'i Faith
@rashaski
@rashaski 5 жыл бұрын
I'm an alcohol & drug counselor/mental health professional and I work in high-intensity outpatient treatment. Just yesterday, a 25-year-old client was complaining that he didn't know how to make friends. I'm sharing this video with my group tomorrow. Thanks Rainn! :-)
@thomaswaltz4735
@thomaswaltz4735 2 жыл бұрын
Whose rainn??!
@MariaMilenovasArt
@MariaMilenovasArt 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂 the edit is so funny. Well done
@nyahahshs
@nyahahshs 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this video,now ihave a best freind thank you so much
@freedomartsandcrafts7965
@freedomartsandcrafts7965 3 жыл бұрын
The problem is I feel like I am constantly giving off the desperate vibe
@keziahnyalaa3429
@keziahnyalaa3429 3 жыл бұрын
same. but sometimes i cant help it bc loneliness rly gets you and puts you in that depressive stage.. but lets be friends!! my Snapchat is baaby.zyzy
@freedomartsandcrafts7965
@freedomartsandcrafts7965 3 жыл бұрын
@@keziahnyalaa3429 I don't have a snap lol sorry
@NK-vb3fn
@NK-vb3fn 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine being an Indian boy, we are like what people call Mount Everest of desperation
@InspireMotive..9
@InspireMotive..9 2 жыл бұрын
Can we be friend
@kokofish1879
@kokofish1879 3 жыл бұрын
Haha i just searched "how to make a friend" haha im lonely
@sameerk733
@sameerk733 3 жыл бұрын
I think so many people are..
@manuelgarcia5488
@manuelgarcia5488 3 жыл бұрын
I searched this up then played it whole on a zoom and blasted the volume. That's how not to get friends.
@mrkaytone1557
@mrkaytone1557 4 жыл бұрын
Now I'm seriously looking for a friend.. No doubt, friends are beautiful gifts from nature!!!! I'm ready do drop a package
@nathandrake3712
@nathandrake3712 3 жыл бұрын
Mr Kay tone have u found urself a friend yet
@alexmartin9973
@alexmartin9973 3 жыл бұрын
It feels so unreal that there exist people on the same planet as mine who feel as lonely and isolated as I do. Maybe more or less. But this just interrupted my breakdown I had this week after a long time.
@PowahSlapEntertainmint
@PowahSlapEntertainmint 5 жыл бұрын
"Hey, do you play fortnite?"
@maureenw.m2677
@maureenw.m2677 5 жыл бұрын
I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE YOU CREEP!
@healthbeautylifestyle1830
@healthbeautylifestyle1830 5 жыл бұрын
How to Make The Best Homemade Peanut Butter in 5 Minutes? kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fKl4rdOh3bq5o4k.html
@Ana-ty8sl
@Ana-ty8sl 5 жыл бұрын
No?
@Lamasalta6245
@Lamasalta6245 5 жыл бұрын
PowahSlap Entertainmint 😂
@FI-ww4rl
@FI-ww4rl 5 жыл бұрын
Yep
@younesrammach2501
@younesrammach2501 5 жыл бұрын
Ok let's be friends 🤗
@harbinderbal9729
@harbinderbal9729 3 жыл бұрын
Really?
@ahm7538
@ahm7538 2 жыл бұрын
I cant believe I'm searching this up!
@KrakGrenade
@KrakGrenade 5 жыл бұрын
This is very funny and well executed
@hi-ns3dv
@hi-ns3dv 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a 14 yo female from the Philippines -i like true crime documents -i love Blackpink -i like ghibli -i love disney and pixar -i love animated stories (And i'm trying to find friends because i don't have one, and the one's i became friends with always moved places and we never saw each other again)
@Konimiru
@Konimiru 3 жыл бұрын
I don't have friends too!! We have similarities. I am from the Philippines and I am also 14 years old. I love BLACKPINK, Ghibli, Disney/Pixar, etc. But I am a boy.
@NK-vb3fn
@NK-vb3fn 2 жыл бұрын
The only matching thing is I like listening up crime podcasts like "In the dark" -Give it a go if u haven't listened it
@human1880
@human1880 2 жыл бұрын
How to make a friend in 4 steps: 1.Get a human of your choice 2.Insert a chip in their head 3.Code it so that the follow your orders 4.Tell them to be your friend.
@NK-vb3fn
@NK-vb3fn 2 жыл бұрын
Chhiti Robot
@jetoux4881
@jetoux4881 2 жыл бұрын
Using this tysm
@human1880
@human1880 2 жыл бұрын
@@NK-vb3fn boom boom robo guy
@nathanielnatejacobs4619
@nathanielnatejacobs4619 2 жыл бұрын
Perhaps....This is what I am really looking for !!
@baliwalknshops1517
@baliwalknshops1517 2 жыл бұрын
I have been looking for this
@czcl3197
@czcl3197 3 жыл бұрын
Then one day the friend will find out that you made a list and someone told you how to make a friend then think you're weird...
@thanosbutididntkillloki5373
@thanosbutididntkillloki5373 Жыл бұрын
LMAO
@Melanierose21122
@Melanierose21122 5 жыл бұрын
Did we really have to hear the "swallow" ?
@Participant
@Participant 5 жыл бұрын
Oh yes. Most definitely ;)
@Melanierose21122
@Melanierose21122 5 жыл бұрын
SoulPancake love you guys!!
@someoneontheinternet9583
@someoneontheinternet9583 4 жыл бұрын
When I clicked on this video I did not expect rainn Wilson to be narrating for a second I was like wait I'm not watching the office
@jakry_apexlegends
@jakry_apexlegends 2 жыл бұрын
This was fun to watch.
@savor3d376
@savor3d376 3 жыл бұрын
it wasnt helpful.
@jcepri
@jcepri 4 жыл бұрын
Step 5: Stop watching KZfaq videos and scanning the comments.
@nahmos658
@nahmos658 3 жыл бұрын
We can make friends here! The possibilities are endless! 🌎😭👏🤣
@scarlettista6930
@scarlettista6930 2 жыл бұрын
YOU DIDNT NEED TO CALL ME OUT LIKE THAT-
@wongjeremy1362
@wongjeremy1362 5 жыл бұрын
This channel is AWESOME
@solarseren
@solarseren 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that I am an actually really good friend, but the people I make friends with are not. Rn, the only best friend I have is my cousin and another friend of mine but unfortunately she does not live where I live. I did meet her irl once, but she moved away, so we have to rely on internet and time zones to be able to talk. Is there anyone here who is an ACTUAL good friend and would like to be friends? :c
@marykateveggie
@marykateveggie 5 жыл бұрын
Dwight Schrute is pretty bold to narrate this when everyone knows his only friend is Mose 🙄
@DWayneGaming
@DWayneGaming 5 жыл бұрын
Pam was his best friend though!
@marykateveggie
@marykateveggie 5 жыл бұрын
JakX12321 True, I guess I was referencing early season Dwight lol
@Participant
@Participant 5 жыл бұрын
😄
@marykateveggie
@marykateveggie 5 жыл бұрын
SoulPancake Thanks for love 💛 Always enjoy the videos y'all put out
@elviram7599
@elviram7599 5 жыл бұрын
but what if you are bad at small talk/ conversations/keep the conversation going? (because of nerves or you're socially awkward or something else) Or you are scared that you can't keep the conversation going or just to talk to someone. Or you don't know what to say at first (that you have a good begin of the conversation.)
@BullshitDetector
@BullshitDetector 5 жыл бұрын
You're fucked.
@mohamedsedeek1472
@mohamedsedeek1472 5 жыл бұрын
Hello
@caniilashay
@caniilashay 5 жыл бұрын
THAT IS ME IM SO AWKWARD
@amuslim39
@amuslim39 5 жыл бұрын
@@mohamedsedeek1472 hi
@darkangelsasha
@darkangelsasha 4 жыл бұрын
@@amuslim39 hi. :)
@unavailable6950
@unavailable6950 5 жыл бұрын
Funny this was recommended to me since I'll be going to a new school Monday where I literally don't know anyone
@lolathebunny6735
@lolathebunny6735 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought that Dwight would be teaching us how to make friends
@Griseosdreams
@Griseosdreams 4 жыл бұрын
*laughs in loneliness*
@bladetunnel
@bladetunnel 3 жыл бұрын
Let’s all be honest, You don’t have any friends so you searched this up
@samilopez7361
@samilopez7361 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry I’m awkward :,)
@palak720
@palak720 3 жыл бұрын
True..;-;
@beeeeeesssttttttttt
@beeeeeesssttttttttt 3 жыл бұрын
@@palak720 seriously you don't have any friends
@palak720
@palak720 3 жыл бұрын
@@beeeeeesssttttttttt Yeah I don't. Why?
@beeeeeesssttttttttt
@beeeeeesssttttttttt 3 жыл бұрын
@@palak720 are you socially anxious.
@ElectrifyThunder
@ElectrifyThunder 2 ай бұрын
Haha, thanks for this video, I'm having trouble finding friends atm
@calvinpg7372
@calvinpg7372 5 жыл бұрын
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