4 Surprising things I learnt being a First Time Mum

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5 жыл бұрын

Hi guys, this will be my last MummyRochelle Vlog before the new baby arrives so I thought this would be a good opportunity to discuss some of the surprising things I didn't expect being a FTM. Below are some useful links if you want more info on the topics I talk about.
1. Colostrum, baby's first milk & Building up your milk supply: www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnan...
2. Nursing Aversion: www.breastfeedingaversion.com...
3. What is Mum Guilt? www.marieclaire.co.uk/life/wh...
4. Young kids learning development: www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/childdevel...
- Feel free to send me a comment, telling me what surprising things you learnt being a first-time parent.
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@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

There's so many things I haven't covered in this vlog (The video would be too long lol). I'd be interested to hear from you guys - What surprising things did you learn being a first-time mum/parent? :)

@DanAnderson_TheMaddestShredder 5 жыл бұрын

BabyRochelle kids are just biting to get hooks. But it does take a long time to get it happenings god bless you sweetheart

@madampango 5 жыл бұрын

I don't have any kids, but I do salute to all the moms there like you.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Madam Pango - Aww Thanks dear!!!

@KINGDOMANIMATION4D 5 жыл бұрын

Breastfeeding can be a struggle, but our hearts are in the right place. You do what you have to do in the beginning.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, this is true. You naturally want to do all you can to make sure your bubs stays healthy. We're lucky in the UK we have a lot of Breastfeeding support. It'll be great if all countries could provide this support xx

@heprovides5604 5 жыл бұрын

Our youngest is now 23. And the learning has never stopped.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Indeed - everyday new things to learn. Thanks for joining our family!!!

@playwithtinu1198 5 жыл бұрын

Sweet ..

@AS-bj9cn 5 жыл бұрын

Hi friend!! I agree breastfeeding is not easy!! So hard!! I did it with twins!! Not so easy, but a wonderful experience . Definitely recommend!!!

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi dear friend! Wow that's great and you breastfed twins!! BF really is the best for them and you have to be strong and committed to go the distance. Right now I'm trying to decide if I should/could co-nurse once the baby is born. I hope after the birth that my nursing aversion goes. Fingers crossed xx

@ButterflyJewels 5 жыл бұрын

Beautiful baby.

@christinermns3747 5 жыл бұрын

the baby is so adorable. This was a cool live. So many bells going off at a time I hope to catch yours soon.

@missyelle2749 5 жыл бұрын

Our children were spaced out, so no nursing aversion experienced

@Th3Goodn3rdsFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Breast feeding is really really painful and its difficult for baby and mom if the baby don't latch. I remember those days. love you hun.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thnaks for your message... yeah it's really hard decision cos sometimes you feel uncomfortable/pain but at the same time you want your baby to have the nutrition they need. I bet you're glad those BF days are over lol. I can't drink for another 2 years 😄 but it's worth it xx

@slaklay 5 жыл бұрын

Hello my friend 🌷🌷😊😊

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi! Thanks for watching, I hope you enjoyed this topic :)

@Samuelandhistoys786 5 жыл бұрын

Great informational video thanks for sharing this video my friend 👍 ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed it. Being a parent is amazing but is very complex and a shock to the system when you become a parent first time. I'm letting parents know they are not alone xx

@selinesrecipes 5 жыл бұрын

Hi dear nice baby stay connected 👍 always 🤗

@AnnetteTheEncourager 5 жыл бұрын

There are many things to learn and experience for sure my friend. Your daughter so Beautiful. Have a wonderful Day

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Indeed> Everyday we learning new things and gaining lots of experience. Loving it!! Thanks for joining our family!!

@Wonderfulkidsworld 5 жыл бұрын

good to see guys your new friends here

@DeaconsUniverse 5 жыл бұрын

Hi :) Nice meeting you in NDSA's stream

@PakistanimominAmerica 5 жыл бұрын

Nice share dear sister

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Glad you enjoyed this :)

@ladyttv4275 5 жыл бұрын

Wow love your Little Angle.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks LadyT :)

@ASMRSouthernBell 5 жыл бұрын

Being a Mom is a hard job, but it looks like your a Great Mom!!! 💖💖💖

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Aww thanks hun!! Yeah being a mom is hard but it is a blessing even when you have your low moments 😘

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Was it a shock to the system when you had your first? xx

@missyelle2749 5 жыл бұрын

I breasted all 5 of our children and wouldn’t trade it for anything. I too had to learn how to get baby to latch on after delivery and learn how to make sure the baby latched on.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

That's great to hear, an achievement to breastfeed all your babies as breastfeeding can be challenging and you really have to be self-disciplined to go the distance. I hope this video helps many mums who struggle as well as pregnant/or first time mums who might not know how complex breastfeeding can be. I'm glad you didn't suffer nursing aversion. It's not pleasant. BabyRochelle is still attached to my boobs so I might try and co breastfeed when newborn gets here. Not sure yet - a bit conflicted. Thanks for your message. Blessings to you and your family xx

@missyelle2749 5 жыл бұрын

BabyRochelle I had a friend successfully co breastfeed and both babies are thriving. Glad to see other Moms talking about this subject it can be overwhelming at times. When you’ve got a few mins ,I’d love for you to my. Handel and check it out you

@ButterflyJewels 5 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness. Thank you for giving me a name for it. Mommie Guilt. I do this sometimes.

@JulietRobin 5 жыл бұрын

Awwwww....beautiful. Thanks for sharing. My girlfriend just had a baby so i'm gonna be her teacher. LOL!

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Aww congrats! A lovely blessing 😘

@ArjanvsTheWorld 5 жыл бұрын

Your learning video is marvellous Rochelle.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Arjan, we're glad you enjoyed this x

@poonamskitchen5 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing..

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Poonam, I hope everything is good with you. Thanks for your message xx

@citizenztv4667 5 жыл бұрын

Yes the formula can be little time consuming but it subject sometimes can take longer friend for life

@marisolvillavicencio1491 5 жыл бұрын

Hi hun New from the live stream let's stay connected 💕💕💕have a blessed day

@mehzabinpinky 5 жыл бұрын

Been a mum is not easy hun I have 3 n I know all about it just subscribed thumbs up keep posting

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for leaving your comment Mehzabin. I'm mentally preparing for our fam of 3 to become fam of 4 lol. I'm glad you liked what I had to say... I think some of these topics are a bit taboo. Not many mums feel comfortable openly talking about these things but hopefully (through this vid) mums will know they are not alone. We will stop by sometime today and show our love. Take care hun and continue staying strong xx

@funthingswithjustin8972 5 жыл бұрын

Very informative! I wish I saw this before I had my 2 boys.. I thought the process was 1,2,3 and it became so frustrating for me I just resorted to pumping. Thanks for sharing your tips!! New sub here

@Pozeproductions1 5 жыл бұрын

Very nice video

@ButterflyJewels 5 жыл бұрын

Breastfeeding got me too. Lol I thought it would be all rainbows and butterflies.

@DanAnderson_TheMaddestShredder 5 жыл бұрын

Hurts they say. not like that sweetheart!!! She’s sooo adorable god bless you sweetheart. Mad Respect. God bless you sweetheart

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Dan. I hope you have a lovely weekend :)

@lasithrocks1246 5 жыл бұрын

Wow- interesting

@MountainGirlFrenchAlps 5 жыл бұрын

Interesting! Liked with full watch :)

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Aww, I'm glad you enjoyed this topic. There's so much I could talk about but I wanted to discuss nursing aversion and mum guilt in particular as it affects so much of us and is a bit of a taboo subject. At least mums/parents can know that they are not alone. xx

@playwithtinu1198 5 жыл бұрын

Lovely daughter....

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Tinu! We will connect with you today :)

@pintobean1 5 жыл бұрын

Great video!!! Stopping by to show some love

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi, we appreciate the love! Thanks for stopping by ☺

@SatisfyingASMR4u 5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!!

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks hun! Have a lovely day where you are xx 😀

@COJ.Island 5 жыл бұрын

Hi! Hru? Thanks for sharing your wonderful experience as FTM.👍💚👍

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Cup o' Joe, I'm glad you enjoyed this topic. Much appreciated! 😃

@TokunboLatonaTV 5 жыл бұрын

Aww you're so beautiful... I'm clued to your channel. Xx

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Awww thanks Tokunbo Latona TV, you're so sweet! We have watched some of your vids - very good and professional looking. Keep up the good work! 😘

@missyelle2749 5 жыл бұрын

I had Mommy guilt with our last child because she was an emergency c-section and it was not something I thought I would ever experience

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear this, it wasn't your fault hun. I hope everything is going better for you xx

@liiamsromphouse1166 5 жыл бұрын

Stay connected new friend...cute little girl great video👏👍🙏❤

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks dear!!

@ToysAda 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Mum 😍 awesome video , super like from new friend 🥰👍🏻👍🏻💜💚🧡💙🔔

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

toys review for kids ❤️❤️❤️

@interestingstories4521 5 жыл бұрын

nice video))

@ButterflyJewels 5 жыл бұрын

New here. Really enjoyed myself and I'm sticking around love. 🦋

@albusjim6823 5 жыл бұрын

Beautiful family.Love your videos!!!

@precisionanglingYT 5 жыл бұрын

First time checking in. I learned a lot as a first time parent as well

@Pinkstonfamily123 5 жыл бұрын

Wow really beautiful baby girl thank you so much for sharing have a great day

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Jamaicagirl! We're glad you enjoyed our video, thanks for watching. We hope you have a lovely weekend!

@MasonsFunDay 5 жыл бұрын

Hi first here 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💚💚💚

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Mason and fam. Thanks for watching xx

@MasonsFunDay 5 жыл бұрын

BabyRochelle hi my dear friend 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💚💚💚💚

@OmShaanti1111 5 жыл бұрын

Very interesting upload and definitely resonate with the breast-feeding, I thought it would be so natural and I struggled for a while (with a 10lb hungry baby) but we got there in the end! Thanks for great content 🌸🙏

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi, thanks we're happy that you enjoyed this video! Awwww, I'm glad you stayed strong and tried to do what was best for your baby. BF really isn't that easy and sometimes there can be pressure to supplement with formula if BF isn't going as well in the beginning. Have a lovely weekend hun 😘

@AbandonedCityCamoCrewExplorers 5 жыл бұрын

Nice to meet you london? sounds like it hope your well .see you again soon

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi, how are you guys doing? Thanks for watching - it's nice that our male subscribers also watch and enjoy this video. Hope you have a good day :)

@NguoiRungDakLak 5 жыл бұрын

HÉLO VERY NICE VIDEO THANK YOU.. CHÚC BẠN VÀ GIA ĐÌNH NGÀY MỚI VUI VẺ VÀ HẠNH PHÚC

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Cảm ơn ý kiến của bạn. Chúc một ngày tốt lành! 😊

@PaintingtheRosesRed 5 жыл бұрын

Being a mom is a hard job!

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah it is lol. You hear people say this so much but until you go through it personally, you won't truly understand. It's a blessing to be a parent and our babies are worth the hard work xx

@PaintingtheRosesRed 5 жыл бұрын

@@MayaRochelleandFamily amen sister, you're absolutely right!

@twocutestthings6894 5 жыл бұрын

I have stay connected.. My friend...very cute baby.

@LifeWithMike85 5 жыл бұрын

Hello! Nice show!😊

@Fridayss 5 жыл бұрын

this was so interesting to watch, very well put together! Xx

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks hun! I had some technical issues lol but where there's a will, there's a way 😄

@LyndasDiamonds 5 жыл бұрын

What a great video. I relate even though I was a first time mom almost 23 years ago. I could not breast feed either one of my children. I just did not produce enough. I think a lot think it is just a natural easy thing. Congrats on your family! I'm excited to get to know you and your channel. What a beautiful baby.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Linda, thanks for your message. I'm glad this video could relate to you and your experience. Sorry to hear about your struggles with breastfeeding. We know we as mothers get a lot of pressure to breastfeed, when some mums have a hard time bf or choose not to. Thanks for the congrats hun! Much appreciated. All the best to you, your family and your channel. Goodnight and we will be sure to show you our support xx

@PositiveQueen 5 жыл бұрын

Hiya Beautiful family love your accent good afternoon new friend here let's stay in touch Big 👍up Great video she is such a cutie pie

@LegendsOfArt_production 5 жыл бұрын

I love your content 😍

@gunz00 5 жыл бұрын

Almost at 1k 😊🔝💯

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi SUNDY, what's good? Thanks for watching - I can almost taste the 1k lol 😄

@gunz00 5 жыл бұрын

@@MayaRochelleandFamily no problem my freind all the best I'm good wbu?😊😊

@thedailydee 5 жыл бұрын

Met you on G-Mama's live and came over to check you out. I really like what I see. I will be here permanently.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Dee!

@kristinb7450 5 жыл бұрын

Great video showing you love and support ❤️❤️❤️

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Kristin B- Thanks dear!!

@NorthWestGhostAdventures 5 жыл бұрын

Love your channel

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks SPIRIT ENCOUNTERS ITC! We appreciate it. We'll stop by and show some love some time today 😀

@ButterflyJewels 5 жыл бұрын

Oh wow. I've never heard of nursing aversion.

@RollingwiththeReids 5 жыл бұрын

hello new from Ndisa, beautiful family !

@mariannecanoofficial 5 жыл бұрын

the napping time was different already.. changing of diapers and many more

@LeBainSoap 5 жыл бұрын

What an awesome share, so informative for new moms! I never had to pump, thank God! I was always around and when in public, i just threw a blanket over myself lol. Things were different back in my day though. The teeth thing, lord lord, that could be painful, i remember! HahahA! Great big LIKE sweety! Have a blessed weekend!

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Le Bain. I'm glad you enjoyed our video. Yeah the things we need to do as mums lol! Yeah, I used to carry around a nursing top to breastfeed since don't want public attention and it helps with milk let down cos I wasn't as self-conscious breastfeeding using it. I'm glad your breastfeeding journey wasn't too challenging. Yeah the teeth, so scary to try BF at first lol! I wish you the same too, have a blessed weekend hun! xx

@itsyagirlsheena8494 5 жыл бұрын

I wanna great feed my next child ❤️ congrats on 1k🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks dear!!!

@BeingTanisha 5 жыл бұрын

Hey girl!!! I don't have any kids so thatis is very helpful!!! I swear there are thigs they do't tell you before you have kids!!! Beautiful!!!

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Being Tanisha- Thanks for joining our family!!! stay connected

@Ysai0813 5 жыл бұрын

its hard to breastfeed at firstimer mom,,, i also experienced breasfeeding my 3 kids

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Marisa Avila - Waiting for my 2nd baby next week then my life will be more interesting. Loving being a mum!! Thanks for joining to our family!!

@ButterflyJewels 5 жыл бұрын

I learned I was wrong about my mom.

@paperfreek7808 5 жыл бұрын

Nice video!!!🔔👍*^^* I really enjoyed watching😊✨ !! Dear friend💕💕 !!!!! Like 81

@shaunsim6013 5 жыл бұрын

great video

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

simsqaud simsqaud- Thanks

@ChrissySxo4 5 жыл бұрын

You're so gorgeous! 😍 & TFS i wanna become a mom some day! Thanks for your insight on this! Feeding sounds like fun but i agree that does sound complicated!

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Chrissy, I'm glad you enjoyed the video. The aim of this video was to bring awareness to these (especially breastfeeding and mum guilt) so new parents don't get caught off guard... not many people talk about these, it's like taboo subject or something lol. That's lovely that you hope to become a mum some day, all the best to you. It is a blessing that should'nt be taken for granted and life isn't the same again after this. I hope you have a lovely weekend hun. 😘

@NickyTheRealest 5 жыл бұрын

New friend here..came to support you ❤️

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Nicky! 😘

@vinimalheirogamer3249 5 жыл бұрын

Nice video :)

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Vini!!

@jewelzofthasea 5 жыл бұрын

Heyy new friend thanks for sharing these things with us! Im happy to be apart of ur fam🎉 we are friends stay connected love🌸

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Awww !! Thanks for joining our family dear Jewel- Stay connected !1

@jewelzofthasea 5 жыл бұрын

BabyRochelle will do!🙂

@ImaaniBeauty 5 жыл бұрын

Nice video enjoyed watching 👌 here to support hope to stay connected 💯

@laura.isabell 5 жыл бұрын

👍❤️

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Laura 😘

@saybo95 5 жыл бұрын

New to the channel 🤗

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks new friend 👍

@trueatsasmr 5 жыл бұрын

Hey love new friend here, hit that bell as well, love your video hope to see more soon. Lets stay connected.

@NicoleKayeB 5 жыл бұрын

Such a cool video, thanks for sharing:) here from a live to show some permanent love!!:)

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Nicole - Stay connected.

@stuwilliams1130 5 жыл бұрын

New to channel. Found your channel at Ndisa's world.

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Stu Williams - Welcome to our family and stay connected - Thanks

@aqillaghanniya6281 5 жыл бұрын

Hello my name is aqilla from Indonesian 😉

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi, nice to meet you Keffi :)

@sandrashauls5840 5 жыл бұрын

Great video I subscribed back to your channel enjoyed watching stay connected!!!👍👍

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Sandra, we're glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks for returning the love. 😀👍

@ASMRR3N33 5 жыл бұрын

Got you from the live stream let's stay in touch I'm permanent

@SportsLiveInTheAtl 5 жыл бұрын

I wasn't breast fed. Nope.😀

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Lol! Breastfeeding isn't for everyone. Different strokes for different folks. Thank our lucky stars that in this day and age we have a lot more options (incl formula) to choose from :)

@Filipinoreaction 5 жыл бұрын

rochelle my friend my clasmate whats up

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Doing great TIK TOk.Stay connected!!

5 жыл бұрын

Xin chào 2 mẹ con

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Vân Nhi TV! Hope you and family are well xx

@LegendsOfArt_production 5 жыл бұрын

Hello I am new to your channel showing some love 😍😘...stay connected we grow together 🤗🔔🔔

@ButterflyJewels 5 жыл бұрын

You're beautiful. 😍

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks dear!!!

@drewnationtv-vlogs1141 5 жыл бұрын

Hey, Hey, discovered your channel in a stream. Nice to meet you. Cool video. All the misleading things we believe prior to becoming a parent quickly unfolds once our little ones come along. The experience is great though and just like anything else once you stick to it it gets better. I am happy you stuck with it. Thanks for sharing this awesome vid. Exploring your channel more. This was a well put together video. You are invited to stop by our house to say hi and become one of our family members! BELLS On! Made a friend for life here!

@MayaRochelleandFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Drew, thanks for your message. Yeah, I'm hoping this video will help new parents/soon to be parents so these things won't be a major shock to the system. It's weird that things like nursing aversion and mum guilt can be a bit of a taboo subject... like parents are uncomfortable talking about it but these things do happen to some of us. Thanks for your support! We're glad you enjoyed this video. We're happy to join your family and we hope to see you any new videos you upload in the future xx

@DrewsClues 5 жыл бұрын

@@MayaRochelleandFamily Hey there, I just realized today that my original comment came from our out account which does not have videos. I have responded today from the correct account. we have hit the button and bell from the correct account as well. Thanks