Thank you! I pray the same for you. 🙏🏽

Amen, God bless you genuinly

Amen! thank you 💞

This what the show should be about.this comment here.not The delusion of of having a daughter,where does that leave all daughters? Narc trait

Amen. I receive it 🙏🏽💕

@ Lisa S Thank you

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This.

Thank you 😚

Thank you

Right?? That hit me in my chest!

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What is four ?

If unsafe leave

funny how women claim men & women's roles are equal but a woman's financial stability isn't even considered when a man chooses her.

Wow that is a very good advice. Thx

i don't think women should allow themselves to gullible into getting talked by men into loosing their career for men and their kids, or not loving themsleves first ..cause men are not so dumb enough no matter what their reasons are..

Mine said the same. Women need to date for themselves, with ourselves in mind. This is how men think.

very sexist advice.

Agreed... and this hit 100% .. all so true. 🥰

Finances and Godly Love Don't mix. As a Man doing very well for himself. He's a little off. But that little has influenced alot of women now days. You can't have both. MONEY isn't enough. Love is enough bcuz that's literally what the Bible says lol. I'd say love a hard working man. Cuz in the right situation a hard working man(Especially a brotha) gon Put on for you. Money comes money goes. But true love is Rare.

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Amen 🙌🏼

That's lovely!

@ Doris Woodruff- We women that choose to listen are here by choice not by force. Which means that most men would rather live a life of sin and lies because that lifestyle appeals to the immature male ego. If there were more men that wanted to hear this food for thought, we would not have such a great divide in the household.

I agree. Notice how many men speak to women about trash men and how we can and need to do better but yet I have yet to find podcasts or videos of men teaching men????like kinda weird and sad smh

@@nynyjohnson1 it's plenty it's called the manosphere we just don't listen to lying ass preachers.

​@@nynyjohnson1 Men don't even listen to themselves but want women to listen to them...that's the level of moral decadence they are battling with...when there are more women in church who are more religious but more men claiming headship at home who don't know Christ...you get the gist..

the women are just as unprepared & even go into relationships saying "i am the table" while bringing nothing to the relationship, yet men shoulder all the judgment for not being a perfect 6ft tall, 7 figure making entrepreneur by age 20. modern women are delusional in their expectations.

Facts 💯

Amen sis!

Amen 🙏🏽

I agree but he is just advising us of what he would have shared with his daughter. Our young men need guidance to embrace their place and our young women need to be taught who they are, to embrace their worth and ensure they ask for what they want/need. Submission on both parties are needed to build a great relationship.

Good question

I think that's the part where character is key. Because ultimately a person who demonstrates responsibility, discipline, integrity, ethics, persistence, drive to learn and improve, etc. etc., has a much higher chance of being successful at SOMETHING, than someone who doesn't have those character traits. That said, if you study entrepreneurs (for example), a large majority of them end up building businesses that they never initially intended on building. They may have had a completely different objective in life that turned into what they ended up with. The one consistent thing is their character. They applied it to what they were doing and something else panned out. I didn't finish watching this yet when I saw your comment, so I don't know if this was mentioned, but the other thing that I notice a lot of people don't really talk about or consider is that YOU also have an impact on that person's success. In a marriage, you are both pouring into each other, and that has an impact on success potential. So, that person's character, plus their plan/vision, plus your impact (whether you are supportive or not, understanding, or not, able to prioritize the 'mission' over the temporary high of a fancy vacation, for example) all those things equate to his success potential. And that goes both ways, by the way. Lastly, as a woman married to a man who poured into me, my husband is now embarking on a new endeavor. In my opinion, he has successful habits and characteristics, and a great vision. I've been honest with him on the things I think would work, the areas I think he should work on, and he's been eating up knowledge on his own and applying them to his work as best as he can. But ultimately, we have no idea if it will work out. What we do know is that regardless of the outcome, the journey will be a well travelled one. And in the end, we got each other's back, and we love each other. And more practically speaking, if things don't pan out the way we hope, he made smart strategic financial decisions along the way that won't leave our family struggling and destitute (that's the character piece- demonstrating responsibility and strategic thinking). We would leave the situation having not taken as many vacations as we would have otherwise, or without certain renovations to the house that we would have liked, but we would be fine otherwise. Maybe even better, since a 'leap of faith' journey actually brings you closer as a unit. That's how I would answer the question- hopefully that helps...

Then they will blame you and make sure you are taking "accoutability" for who you "chose". Thats why you shouldnt let men (especially black men) sucker you into dating for "potential".

DOnt ever date a man with "potencial". Thats why men never shoud date a woman before he is 30. There are a lot aspects he must succeed on before that (character, maturity, finances, work, career, good good record as a human being, that others can attest to their good conduct. Ohterwise they will fail with women and became a redpill

thats why you shouldn't be a goId digger & love people for who they are & not what they provide.

I'm struggling with this now...he just asked for a space and I was so hesitant at first thinking maybe if I give him time and the space he needed he wouldn't come back to me...maybe I will lose him...but again isn't that best for me!damn if he goes then I won't chase and I won't wait on him..I am tryn to focus on my mental healthy coz he's caused lotta damage..I need to recollect my pieces and mend my heart and be happy without him........if he comes back after he is done with the space and time thing he desperately wanted then he will come only to find out that I am a different girl he will choose then whether to stay or to ask for a lil more space again coz I won't give him that precious attention I have always been givn him...LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH... YOU NEED TO BE SAFE AND COMMIT TO ME...otherwise fuckoff boy!