5 Crazy Facts About Colombian Culture

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AK Joel's Colombia

AK Joel's Colombia

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Colombian culture is very different to where most of us expats are from...
In this video we sit down to discuss and explain 5 things that Colombians do that may seem strange to those of us who aren't familiar with their culture.
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@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
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@user-un4zm6mu2o
@user-un4zm6mu2o 11 ай бұрын
Some great insights into Colombian culture. Thanks for posting this. The discussion about people lying about things to keep from saying "no" is very true. Dudes, binge drinking is huge. It is not done in the same way as in the States, but anyone who has ever been to a party at a finca has seen adults of all ages drinking up a storm. Carolina's comments were very accurate.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel 10 ай бұрын
I've seen a few comments here saying that the drinking culture depends on which region of Colombia you're in - glad you enjoyed the vid!
@oceanaxim
@oceanaxim Жыл бұрын
Just sayin' #4... I noticed in several Latin American countries (Brazil and Colombia especially) they will give you the "conversational sandwich" meaning they open a conversation with "how is your family?" or "how is your health?" (the bread) then get into the purpose of the conversation (the meat) and then close out with "tell your family I said hello" or "I hope you are feeling better soon" (the other slice of bread). I think this is very polite and displays that you care for the person you are talking to, whereas in the USA, we commonly say "how ya doin'?" and don't even care to bother to listen to your response which is kind of flakey.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
But sometimes it's almost like it's an automatic bot just sending you these messages to be "polite" rather than them actually caring about your answers lol I conform to their style but I personally would prefer if someone just asked me what they want lol
@leahflower9924
@leahflower9924 5 ай бұрын
I live in the US and I feel like people are becoming less human and everyone is like I don't need people I'm in love with my dog or cat and I find that weird
@kentcovington
@kentcovington Жыл бұрын
Good stuff as always. I am enjoying the new conversations, but I am really looking forward to more street interviews!
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
I'll get back to them some day haha
@AndresDCRealtor
@AndresDCRealtor 11 ай бұрын
Great tips! Thanks guys.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@oceanaxim
@oceanaxim Жыл бұрын
Another thing I learned right away is to NEVER point with your finger! It is considered rude and confrontational. Colombians usually point by pursing their lips (as if blowing a kiss) it is much less confrontational and discreet.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
I didn't know that one! But pointing is rude in a lot of cultures, so I'm not surprised!
@Colom990
@Colom990 10 ай бұрын
Hahaha! I’m Colombian and this is very true. Never point 👉
@alzate_dev
@alzate_dev 8 ай бұрын
Never point people with u finger hahahaha its not cool here 😅
@tennissir1986
@tennissir1986 Жыл бұрын
The drinking thing may be true to middle class people from Medellin but alcoholism is a huge problems across all classes of,society in many regions such as La Guajira.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
I've actually got a few comments saying that but I guess it's not all encompassing like in the US or Aus where everyone drinks regardless of income level
@DaDude1992
@DaDude1992 Жыл бұрын
Not texting you're home must be an Australian or European thing then. Cuz it's definitely still a thing to Americans and Canadians too.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Yeah maybe, I never texted a date or got a text from a date back in Australia saying "hey I've arrived home safe" lol
@therehastobesomethingmoore
@therehastobesomethingmoore Жыл бұрын
Manizales is on our list of possible retirement cities. These are very interesting but similar to some other Latin countries. We are traveling and currently in Nicaragua for a year.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
I've heard Manizales has a much slower pace of life and is much safer, definitely a great option for some!
@therehastobesomethingmoore
@therehastobesomethingmoore Жыл бұрын
We have only been to Bogota and that was many years ago so we are very excited to check out Manizales.
@DaveG-qd6ug
@DaveG-qd6ug Жыл бұрын
One of the best parts of traveling in Colombia is acting exactly the opposite of the people, Ask direct questions, say NO, point at people with your hand, be honest about your feelings, esp bad ones. You will blow their mind. And usually they will laugh it off, you are a gringo after all. Otherwise this is not someone you want to hang out with. 😂
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
hahahaha good ice breaker I guess!
@AlexanderBeenGreat
@AlexanderBeenGreat Жыл бұрын
Colombians drive crazy and reckless but they hate when you close the car doors too hard 🤡🤡🥴😂😂
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Hahaha that's so true they attack the mountain curves like Schumacher but then cry about people slamming their doors 😂
@AlexanderBeenGreat
@AlexanderBeenGreat Жыл бұрын
@@AKJoel exactly, makes absolutely no sense at all. Priorities are in the wrong place🥴😂
@jameskoehler6038
@jameskoehler6038 6 ай бұрын
Understatement of the year......"Colombian families are huge"
@paxtecum4814
@paxtecum4814 Жыл бұрын
La señorita colombiana lo ha explicado todo a la perfección. Es muy inteligente. Soy local.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Siii eso es la verdad!!
@blendedrisk3330
@blendedrisk3330 Жыл бұрын
@paxtecum4814 ¿En realidad? Que interesante. Me encantaría tomar TU clase magistral también.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
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@paxtecum4814
@paxtecum4814 Жыл бұрын
@@blendedrisk3330 "Es mejor pájaro en mano que del ahogado el sombrero."
@user-bc4uz9tp8k
@user-bc4uz9tp8k Жыл бұрын
The 5th point you made about checkin in with the person to let them know you made it home. We do, do that in the USA however its normally after a long trip or after a family or friend who lives in a different city or state goes back home. Also checking in...used to be a lot more common before smartphones and cellphones really took over, when there were still payphones and people had pagers and landline phones in there houses...before the mid 2000s.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Ahhh the 90s what a time to be alive hey!!
@andrewinspires
@andrewinspires Жыл бұрын
True. I want to get a pager. It would be funny to carry one around.
@idkwuzgoinon
@idkwuzgoinon Жыл бұрын
I feel like it's still common between women and femmes (U.S.) in my experience although here it's usually between close friends or family we just met up with.
@davidcruise4978
@davidcruise4978 Жыл бұрын
I find it funny that all the people I know in Colombia ask me if I have eaten!
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Haha and what do you say?
@davidcruise4978
@davidcruise4978 Жыл бұрын
@@AKJoel hahaha I tell them the truth, but if I have not eaten yet they message me again to ask. I could understand if it was my mother but these are mid 20's men!
@davidcruise4978
@davidcruise4978 Жыл бұрын
@@AKJoel and what is it with ice cream! They all want to go out for ice cream all the time? I even have taken pictures of my eating ice cream at home so they can be happy!
@thisisrareform
@thisisrareform 11 ай бұрын
​@@davidcruise4978because its ICE CREAM!! 🍨 🤠
@mikemaldanado6015
@mikemaldanado6015 9 ай бұрын
Being straight is so very true. My friend was downstairs of my building and engaged me on all topics for about 2 hours and i asked him to come by - he then said what do you mean i have been downstairs in front of your building waiting for you for hours??????????????????
@garethwilliams5187
@garethwilliams5187 Жыл бұрын
I’m not sure the ‘don’t binge drink’ thing applies to Venezuelans living in Colombia 😀 - I live for 6 months a year in Bucaramanga with Venezuelan friends in a neighbourhood with a lot of Venezuelans and they drink a lot - in parties - in clubs - in bars. Maybe it’s different if you live in an upmarket part of Medillin - love the content 👍
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Or maybe Venezuelans just like to drink more? haha cos I noticed in Mexico they love getting wasted
@garethwilliams5187
@garethwilliams5187 Жыл бұрын
@@AKJoel I think you’re right 😀
@blendedrisk3330
@blendedrisk3330 Жыл бұрын
@@AKJoel My two cents is probably worth even less because my only experience with Colombian women (all in Medellin) has been with only one woman and the detail that likely invalidates my experience entirely is that the friendship was online from North America. She claimed and seemed to seldom go out at night or drink much, but the two nights she did she got wasted and slept much of the next day after staying until closing time of 3am. Maybe I don't understand, but that sounds like binge drinking to me.
@festumstultorum1462
@festumstultorum1462 11 ай бұрын
where u live, the santandereanos and the boyacos are the only ones who drink until fall on the ground
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
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@DIEGORODRIGUEZ-xe1gk
@DIEGORODRIGUEZ-xe1gk Жыл бұрын
I don't know if someone texting you they are ok when they get home would be classified as "Crazy"😂.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
haha true! crazy is strong, let's say "different" or "strange"
@DIEGORODRIGUEZ-xe1gk
@DIEGORODRIGUEZ-xe1gk Жыл бұрын
@@AKJoel 😂 keep up the great content 🤙🏽. Hearing things from a non 🇨🇴 is very interesting.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Cheers Diego!! Appreciate it 👍🏾
@thisisrareform
@thisisrareform 11 ай бұрын
What would be "crazy" is actually the opposite
@user-un4zm6mu2o
@user-un4zm6mu2o 11 ай бұрын
Disagree that this is crazy. In fact it is not that uncommon or unusual in the States.
@hermanc.4420
@hermanc.4420 Жыл бұрын
The strato 3 and under crew binge drink. Aguardiente and pilsen until they are leafless 😂
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Okay maybe that's what I'm missing 😂 can't say I have many friends in that demographic
@karl3261
@karl3261 Жыл бұрын
#1,2 and 4.. I am a direct person. I value other people's time as well as my own. I expect others to be respectful of that by not wasting it by beating around the bush. I find not being direct, disrespectful. The unique characteristic nick names is not so good. There is no making it cute. It's just rude to sum people up to a characteristic they have and refer to them by it. The elaborate lies is not for me. I get offended by them and lose respect for the liars. Tell it to me straight. I am an adult. All info that is good to know. Also very eye opening.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Glad you found it insightful Karl 👍🏾
@germancampos1498
@germancampos1498 Жыл бұрын
You got to get the context: Colombian say "adonde fueres, has lo que vieres", it means "wherever you go, do what you see". It´s a well known phrase in Colombia. It means, if you got to Colombia, you have to respect and adapt. No foreigner will adapt to that country if you don´t respect them and understand them. A direct person will be respected but not missed. Time goes in another mode there, so they care more for people over time (but not always and not anywhere). And about nick names, it means "you care for someone else", it means also you become part of their closest ring. It isn´t rude by no means. Even more when they use the final sillabe as "ito/ita", like "negrito" or "gordita" which means "little niger" and "little fatty", that means you´re a pretty close person to a Colombian: a close friend or lover.
@user-un4zm6mu2o
@user-un4zm6mu2o 11 ай бұрын
Another one to add to the list: people will ask you how many children you have. If you say none and are older than a certain age, they will ask you why. (With the unspoken question being "Why hasn't someone of your age already had children?") If you say that you don't want children, people will look at you quizzically, as if the idea of choosing to not have children is a novel concept, and one which they had never before considered. And should a man make the cultural faux pas of saying that he is too old to start a family, he will be met with all kinds of replies about how men of his age--and indeed men much older than he is--can and do have children. While factually correct--men can have children well into their 70s and 80s--this argument highlights not only the differences between Colobian and other cultures as related to child rearing, but also the way in which culture affects language use. To wit: Whereas a Colombian is likely to interpret a man's statement about being too old to have children literally, someone from the US is more likely to correctly interpret the subtext contained in his statement (I _could_ start a family at my age, but I do not want to).
@AKJoel
@AKJoel 10 ай бұрын
Uh oh I haven't heard that yet - I'm 34 no kids lol
@user-un4zm6mu2o
@user-un4zm6mu2o 10 ай бұрын
@@AKJoel You probably have a few more question-free years. If you're still childless when you hit 40, get ready to have to explain why...
@WNL2013
@WNL2013 Жыл бұрын
U guys are just cold hearted 🤣 🇺🇸 🇬🇧 🇦🇺…….
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Hahaha we're not that bad are we!!
@Niles-Guy
@Niles-Guy Жыл бұрын
Can you guys talk about Colombian marriage agency in Medellin AFA to see if it’s legit
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
It's not really a topic much in demand but if you want us to help you out with it feel free to sign up for our Masterclass!
@cfG21
@cfG21 Жыл бұрын
Obviously you havent been to cali or the coast if you think they dont drink much
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
I've been there but only spend a week - they love to binge over there?
@alzate_dev
@alzate_dev 8 ай бұрын
@@AKJoel in “La costa” people used to drink much
@PaavoPesusieni699
@PaavoPesusieni699 Жыл бұрын
I answered to questions yesterday, and i don't see medellin masterclass message in my email, even in the spam folder yet?
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
We'll resend it, you should get it in the next hour.
@festumstultorum1462
@festumstultorum1462 11 ай бұрын
not all of us ..Santandereanos won't lie unless is very very importantor hurt a close friend un buen boyaco se puede beber mas de 100 cervezas en un dia y al clima y un buen santandereano mas de 15 litros de aguardienyte en un dia tambien, colombia no es medellin
@AKJoel
@AKJoel 11 ай бұрын
I had dinner with a friend of mine and his girlfriend (who's from Boyaca) last night and I asked her about your comment! She laughed and said its 100% true LOL
@festumstultorum1462
@festumstultorum1462 11 ай бұрын
@@AKJoel if u like drinking u should consider movin lol
@Alex-wd8ix
@Alex-wd8ix 5 ай бұрын
theyre definitely not all liars ..
@tomaszkokoszka7475
@tomaszkokoszka7475 Жыл бұрын
"Its considered rude to be straight to the point"?? Isn't it more rude and shady to have a conversation about something random , waste another person's time and then say what you want to say regardless if its negative or not? I mean it sounds like at that point that the person had another agenda about something and was secretly hiding it for some reason. That is def weird
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Yeah that's what I always thought - I'd much rather someone just ask me what they want lol
@rafael8184
@rafael8184 Жыл бұрын
Is not shady, is just a cultural thing and you should adapt to it in Colombia.
@CleverAccountName303
@CleverAccountName303 11 ай бұрын
​@@rafael8184why adapt? I'm never going to fit in. I will always stand out, So I should just be my authentic self. I am super happy to understand another person and why they do things, But I am a different kind of person and they can also understand me. That is the beautiful and interesting thing about meeting people from other cultures, understanding the differences and appreciating them. You are not going to go to China and try to act Chinese. But you should understand them and learn how to avoid misunderstandings while still remaining who you are.
@Colom990
@Colom990 10 ай бұрын
⁠Colombian chiming in. These “Things Colombians Do” musty applies among Colombians. Foreigners usually get a free pass. We don’t expect you to act like us. Hell, we’re more curious about your culture than you to ours. Cheers 🍻
@techgeek4499
@techgeek4499 Жыл бұрын
This definitely confirms how dangerous Colombia is.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Lol what?
@andrewinspires
@andrewinspires Жыл бұрын
I’ve got A.K. tied up in my basement right now. 😂
@andreslotus4993
@andreslotus4993 11 ай бұрын
I have to disagree on the drinking guys. Go to Boyaca and you guys won’t pick up the drinking cerveza 🍺 😂 Also the south of bogota. Oh my gos the drink like fish 🐠
@AKJoel
@AKJoel 11 ай бұрын
hahaha man that's hilarious - I got a similar comment on this video saying that people in Boyaca LOVE to drink until they fall down.
@giacomofibonacci1022
@giacomofibonacci1022 Жыл бұрын
Noooo....."negrito" "gordito" is not offensive is actually very sympathetic and loving. You will feel a real offensive word directed to someone.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Yeah anyone who's been to Colombia knows that, but those who haven't could quite easily be offended
@user-hx5kx1he8u
@user-hx5kx1he8u Жыл бұрын
Tropical countries drink less because it feels bad to sweat so much
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
Really? Never thought of it that way haha
@cristianloquesea
@cristianloquesea Жыл бұрын
Mentira, en mi region beben mucho, esta a mas de 3000 metros sobre el nivel mar.
@alexch3618
@alexch3618 Жыл бұрын
wut? no "drugging foreigners and taking their stuff?"
@AKJoel
@AKJoel Жыл бұрын
They only do that to idiots, not the general traveler so doesn't apply to everyone lol
@devildog3799
@devildog3799 8 ай бұрын
I can Frankly say that I don’t like it, savages. Every country has its bs , just don’t like there’s.
@AKJoel
@AKJoel 6 ай бұрын
It's not for everyone! There's almost 200 other countries in the world for those that don't like it here lol
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