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@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

I LOVED learning about sex ed this week and some of my favorite moments in this video are: 2:31, 9:22, 11:22 and 13:06!! Thanks to everyone for watching and being receptive to this topic 😻😻I know it's "off-brand" for me, but it's so important!!! Xx

@Einteil_ 7 жыл бұрын

Lucie where are those undies from? lol :) loved the video!

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

Diana A haha! Aren't they cute? Gap kids!!!

@Einteil_ 7 жыл бұрын

yeeey thank you!

@duetforherbivores 7 жыл бұрын

Lucie Fink please do 5 days in different Generations so maybe it would affect your clothing, food, and technology for what they represented in the generations

@madisonlittle7711 7 жыл бұрын

Do 5 days of breakfast where you try real nutritional different breakfast recipes

@smileforhiba 7 жыл бұрын

I just want people with "traditional" mindsets to stop saying that women should bleed during their first time and if they dont then they are not virgins and are "unclean".

@miamartin2561 7 жыл бұрын

smileforhiba I've never heard of that before but that's weird lol....

@lifetimeevents13 7 жыл бұрын

smileforhiba I have heard it. It's very common to hear it

@julianacarrier5738 7 жыл бұрын

smileforhiba I grew up in western society and my school offered scientific based sex ed but they still told us this. It isn't true though, which is what I don't understand, it is such a lie.

@therebex23 7 жыл бұрын

Although I've heard of this, and don't believe in it, I used tampons before I lost my virginity and also bled when it happened..I've also bled from sex after losing my virginity. As a sex-educated person, I know that bleeding from sex is either due to having your period or not having enough lubrication. Bleeding has nothing to do with being "pure" or "unclean."

@smileforhiba 7 жыл бұрын

exactly! I hope people would know this more often! unfortunately they dont teach people or "men" this where i come from :/

@petitsjoujoux5011 7 жыл бұрын

Hi Lucie! A video idea that popped in my head is... 5 days of dealing with menstruation. (Tips on cramps, using pads/tampons/cup...etc)

@cynthialimon3309 7 жыл бұрын

I took birth control pills for a little more than 3 years mainly for dermatological reasons. Everything was going well, but then I just started feeling weak, feeling sleepy all day and with no strenght at all. After some blood exams, doctors noticed that the pill had caused me elevated triglycerides and cholesterol. So in my opinion, girls please go to a doctor before starting using something new, just as Lucie said! Be safe!

@JPEIS_ 6 жыл бұрын

LUCIE YOU NEED TO DO EXTREME COUPONING

@KetzYp0p 6 жыл бұрын

Jenny :) yesss

@kaba3000 6 жыл бұрын

Yessss

@cathleen2673 6 жыл бұрын

Jenny :) ii

@saraharroyo3333 6 жыл бұрын

YES PLEASE

@arielskinner7322 6 жыл бұрын

Yesss💯💯💯💯

@sheakillinit 7 жыл бұрын

Please do 5 days of saying YES to everything!!

@ccap3211 7 жыл бұрын

ellie I bet people would take advantage of that! Lol

@haileytongay2778 6 жыл бұрын

ellie she has

@mustakbagwan6107 5 жыл бұрын

Mustak 9632995878 u can call me for hangout

@christinaprosper417 7 жыл бұрын

I'm learning more here than from my own mom. I'm 20 and I feel so insecure about all of this .

@BINCH-xe3kp 6 жыл бұрын

I adored this video. These things still need to be talked about so much more. The last time I bought condoms the woman behind the counter was all smiley and nice until she saw what I was buying, taking precautions to have safe sex shouldn't be awkward and being open and talking about sex shouldn't be awkward.

@missmanequinn9337 7 жыл бұрын

I love this!!! Thanks Lucie & R29

@Julianell97 7 жыл бұрын

This video was so well done! It was so refreshing to see your positive spirit when talking to the R29 Sex editor (she was so informative!) So hopefully next time I pass Babeland I will not be embarrassed about walking inside haha

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

Julia Nell yes!!!! Thank you! 😘

@marshahare7717 5 жыл бұрын

"Do most condoms break from friction or from the ... force of the stream..." oh lucie ...lol

@flipflop3780 7 жыл бұрын

kids a v nb thing to remember is to never double rap! it adds extra friction and actually ends up breaking both condoms, a ton of people never know this

@refinery29 7 жыл бұрын

So true!!

@user-yh8li2tm8g 6 жыл бұрын

thank you! i never knew

@amesie1 6 жыл бұрын

Why on earth would you double wrap???!

@heartquaked 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this! This is an important topic. I have had the Nexplanon (arm implant) for 8 months now and I love it!!! I haven't had a period in 7 months either :) I STAND WITH PLANNED PARENTHOOD!! 💘

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

heartquaked you are most welcome :)

@lesliesuee96 6 жыл бұрын

Wow I’ve had a totally different experience with Nexpanon I also got it put in about 7-8 months ago and it’s been horrible for me mood swings, horrible acne, and It even starting to make me have my period again. When I was on the pill I never had any problems. Every birth control is different for everyone. Find what works for you!

@taryndasilva645 6 жыл бұрын

How are people excited over the fact that they implanted something in their arm that has now stopped their periods! Do not normal! Science isn’t always right, not enough long term research has been done! You have no idea how that stuff can harm you or your future children (if you choose to reproduce) in the future. Women are designed to have periods, it’s not healthy to take them away.

@breaastorga6481 6 жыл бұрын

You are my favorite part of refinery29. Love this series!

@imanee3127 7 жыл бұрын

i love how r29 are trying to discover new topics love this series and ofc Lucie♡

@ramswarupvalvi3459 5 жыл бұрын

Imanee I love you

@uttamsenapati9893 2 жыл бұрын

Sex

@geekista 7 жыл бұрын

"for his eyes only" , and the photographer, and her assistant, and the cameraman 😂😂😂😂 Lucy thank you, I was waiting for you to sing ! I started singing the song right when the intro began 😁

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

geekista hahaha 😂

@4trujillos 7 жыл бұрын

This was an informative video. Your generation has so much more information available via the internet /KZfaq that can be accessed privately. It was so different for mine, where you had to ask or rely on friends for advice or information. Love watching your videos, and enjoy our openness to try new things, on camera too! Keep up the good work!

@StephMoo59 7 жыл бұрын

I loved this episode Lucie! It's something we can all relate to but it's not talked about often

@holisticmaya 7 жыл бұрын

So coconut oil as lube should be avoided when using condoms?

@luciarindermann3537 6 жыл бұрын

definitely, otherwise it could break :/

@whitebleach99 6 жыл бұрын

Let’s try it

@nataliegonzales 5 жыл бұрын

White Bleach I DIED WHEN I SAW THIS 💀💀💀

@allyedwards8512 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Lucie! This was such a great informative video for somebody in their teens to watch because many of us are taught abstinence only. It’s good to know when it is time that you know how to do it, you do it safely!😁😁

@Aura000 7 жыл бұрын

Loved this Lucie! You did so well, I would have felt so awkward in some of those situations lol. Love your energy/essence too.

@palomalopez8008 7 жыл бұрын

I never ever learned about this at school sadly and neither from my parents but I'm glad to have come across this, I would have needed this a year ago but I like learning about this stuff as an 18 year girl there is so much pressure into not being allowed to "do it" and so I just want to educatemy self and who ever I'm with.

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

Paloma Lopez so happy to hear this 😘❤️

@elizabethfolkers1836 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your bravery Lucie! I watch Sexplanations and was interested in sex ed already but seeing you do a video like this is great because it opens up the conversation to a whole other platform of people. Your content is great! Thanks again ❤️

@ryennegarcia1574 7 жыл бұрын

love this whole video but can't get over the shirt you wore on Thursday! Where'd you get it?

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

Ryenne Garcia it's from @tictail!!!

@ryennegarcia1574 7 жыл бұрын

Lucie Fink thank you!!

@OjaswiShxrma 6 жыл бұрын

This was a nice video. I just realised how shy Lucie is, haha

@Lobstrique 6 жыл бұрын

LUCY I LOVE YOUR PIZZA EARRINGS THEY ARE SO PERFECT also this is such an amazing topic. i could imagine how uncomfortable it was at first to bring out such intimate part of your life and offer it to the internet to see. i'm proud of you! trying to be more open-minded and educated in my sex life, too :)

@runwaychick7 6 жыл бұрын

Wow girl, this takes a lot of bravery! Props for putting yourself out there and being so open!

@JuliaTaylorSoprano 6 жыл бұрын

Lucie I know this topic was potentially blush-inducing but it’s SO IMPORTANT and you did such a great job covering it!! Congrats!

@lavliina2136 7 жыл бұрын

5 days of personal growth!!

@highlyhp 6 жыл бұрын

Wow Lucy! It was really brave of you to step out of your comfort zone to make this video. It's awesome that you're making content like this to educate people--especially those of us who had awful sex ed in school

@hannahsch3796 5 жыл бұрын

It is so annoying that youtube puts an age restriction on every video including the topic sex.. education is so important, especially for those younger than 18

@julianacarrier5738 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you Lucie for doing this video, I think sex is a really important topic, but too many people are too afraid to talk about even though it plays a big role in our lives. I loved learning the things in your video because I feel like this kind of information is not easily accessible. Keep doing these awesome videos, they always inspire me to try new things. ❤️😘

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

Juliana Carrier you are welcome!!! And THANK YOU😍

@taylorlinn1406 7 жыл бұрын

this was great thanks for going out of your comfort zone i learned alot!

@chicklet3123 7 жыл бұрын

Those earrings though!! 😍😍😍 I neeeed those in my life!!

@shannonmurray3986 5 жыл бұрын

It's awesome to see more and more people trying to normalize the conversation around sex. It's something that most people will engage in, in one way shape or form. Thank you for putting yourself out of your comfort zone, to help educate people!

@maoandthen828 6 жыл бұрын

the communication in a long-term relationship is so important...especially sex really

@isabellejaeggin8364 7 жыл бұрын

Try doing 5 days of using essential oils in different ways

@lydiaventresca715 6 жыл бұрын

Its great how she just talks about it and isnt really scared to! Thank you for this video Lucie! Btw I love your vids!

@disneybelle3594 7 жыл бұрын

The Nuva Ring is the BEST THING EVER

@bobbolz 6 жыл бұрын

prob one of the few guys here but it's pretty intressting to learn more about this stuff even tho I don't have to take birth control pills etc.

@mysterysingingal123 7 жыл бұрын

Nobody is commenting on how awesome Lucie's shirts in this video were... I want them all!

@drphot6050 7 жыл бұрын

As a man I am really impressed how good this video is with explaining things you ladies have to deal with a lot. Love y'all!!

@nono-bo9zw 5 жыл бұрын

Dr Phot your first comment

@jaelinisquith6197 7 жыл бұрын

i really learned a lot from this! at school they didn't teach us about nuva rings or iud and my parents have never said anything about them.

@Anna-cz7ju 6 жыл бұрын

where can you buy the shirt at 11:45

@deeyoyo1 7 жыл бұрын

hey you didn't go to dr Doe? Sexplanations is such a big resource for sex ed!

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

deeyoyo1 thanks!!! I'll check it out 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@Crystal-of9qr 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Lucy, I learned a few things. Most of this I knew about already, but there were a couple things I've never heard of or seen. You photos were amazing about I'm sure your boyfriend enjoyed them. Thank you for all you do!! XOXOXO

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

Crystal Hall aww thank YOU!!!❤️💕❤️💕

@ellen6oscar 6 жыл бұрын

5 days of learning about a political view/alignment that is not your own and putting yourself into the shoes of people who are memebrs of that party

@deidraroberts9628 6 жыл бұрын

This is the video I needed 😊 We are taught to not talk about this but it's human nature!👍👍

@pinksweety288 6 жыл бұрын

Lucie, thank you for being you and taking this series to all areas of discussion!

@butterflynerd0078 5 жыл бұрын

I'm 22, married, and still learned more in a short video than all throughout sex ed in HS!

@bast1an975 5 жыл бұрын

22 and married? damn

@butterflynerd0078 5 жыл бұрын

@@bast1an975 we are more mature than our age and always have been, and we just knew that we would be with one another for life, so we got married young. :)

@yogwithnamita 6 жыл бұрын

girl i too had that "girl bite back" t :)

@katelyn195 7 жыл бұрын

SOOOOO glad you made a video on this stuff!!!

@julieg8501 7 жыл бұрын

I'd like to see talking points on the importance of seeing an ob/gyn when you're sexually active and/or the first visit regardless of sexual activity.

@MxBeehave 6 жыл бұрын

My IUD insertion was only about a 3 on the pain scale but the cramps lasted a week and they were a 7 or 8. But no period and no cramps for 5 years sooo... worth it

@Katsheart2002 6 жыл бұрын

You make the best videos, thank you.

@alexandralim3381 5 жыл бұрын

I love this series- I've been learning a lot 😓 and they were things I need to know

@taleejones8767 6 жыл бұрын

THIS SO AMAZING! thanks for making this!!

@luxlisbon2727 7 жыл бұрын

This was very helpful!! My school only teaches abstinence only

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

Hopelessme Down so glad you found this informative!!!

@chynagrl88 7 жыл бұрын

Hi Lucie, can you do a vid on your makeup routine? I love your eye makeup! BTW my name is also Lucy ;)

@siennajohnson6637 6 жыл бұрын

Please please please tell me where you go the shirt with the woman's hands in the air in front of the White House I've googled and can't find it!?

@apositivetake 6 жыл бұрын

Absolutely LOVED this video cuz it was NOT at all awkward and really was educational!! You're great Lucy! you made this fun and super easy to watch!!

@RosyRoci 6 жыл бұрын

Listening to the women recount how painful and difficult their experiences with various types of birth control have been is so sad and honest. This could all be avoided by a man having a vasectomy, which is reversible. Or a man helping to take on some of the burden by taking male birth control--which was in human trials but did not make it to the market because a small percentage of men complained about migraines and mood swings (just, wow). Our society both shames women for having sex and for not having sex, for getting pregnant and choosing to have a child and for choosing to not have a child. As women we often shoulder the burden of methods child prevention and then suffer all of the consequences when those methods fail us.

@sarahclark919 6 жыл бұрын

Rocio Tia I agree that birth control is a big burden that falls on women... I've tried multiple hormonal methods and ended up in the hospital once and once I bled for 3 months straight... however a vasectomy isn't always reversible and the male birth control had some more severe side effects as far as I know:/ I hope in the future there will be better options (nonhormonal ideally) for women as well as men to have sex without having to worry about pregnancy or stds :)

@marissafernandez98 6 жыл бұрын

Rocio Tia so with you on that one why do we have to take all these things that are most of the time painful and they just have to worry sometimes about a condom

@NessaNote 6 жыл бұрын

Completely relate to being shamed for not having sex. For me, I am 23 and haven’t found a partner to share that experience with. I’ve been made fun of and put down for that choice since I was 15.

@tessastilley825 6 жыл бұрын

There were multiple issues with male birth control. Some men became unable to ever have kids and others became depressed and suicidal, one man succeeded. They stopped testing to reformulate and try again, just like they do with every drug. I mean no ill will when I say please don’t perpetuate things you have not researched. I think it’s sad that some people feel really bad for the women who talk about their bad experiences with birth control, but don’t care about the male birth control victims. Again I don’t mean you as you seem to be ignorant to the facts (that wasn’t meant to be insulting) but those who know the facts and still perpetuate this idea that men got a witty bitty headache so they dropped out. Another logical reason that male birth control isn’t a thing yet isn’t because men don’t want to deal with it, but that it’s way easier to stop one egg a month then thousands of sperm a day. There are also many feminists that don’t want male birth control because it takes that power out of women’s hands. Some women go off birth control on purpose to trick their boyfriend into staying with them, some men would be happy to have male birth control. Women suffer all the consequences of birth control failure? Are you kidding me? Child support, no say in if she gets an abortion (some pro life men consider it murder. I agree they should have no right to tell her she has to get a abortion) Almost always lose custody battles. Tell me more about how they never suffer any consequences. You can’t drag men for no reason. I’m a woman in case you were wondering.

@sicklethyst_3140 6 жыл бұрын

Male sterilisation reversal is NOT easily reversed. It’s around 1/4 chance of full fertility coming back.

@melanieemertaylor 7 жыл бұрын

i love this video so much!!!

@MoshPitEtiquette 6 жыл бұрын

What a brilliant video! Fair play Lucie for being brave and tackling this topic openly and unabashedly 😊

@NL-rj9uk 7 жыл бұрын

I'm very impressed that so many subjects about "sex" were discussed; thank you so much for sharing. :)

@MangaAndSkyrim123 6 жыл бұрын

A birth control method that was not mentioned but is fairly common is the Implanon/Nexplanon in arm implant, I have one and I really like it.

@xKarmylla 7 жыл бұрын

You forgot to talk about fetishes and different sexual lifestyles, like BDSM and others less known! Would love to see something like that, we do need to break this stigma! Also, a video about polyamorous relationships would be pretty great!

@refinery29 7 жыл бұрын

Hi Karmylla! We'd love to do that! We only had 5 days to through some of the basics BUT we love this comment and glad there is an interest!

@xKarmylla 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you! It would be interesting to see Laura and Lucie going on these kind of adventures, they do such a wonderful job! Kudos to the team!

@therebex23 7 жыл бұрын

Karmylla I think, although these sexual topics are great to explore, sexual experiences should start with proper and basic sexual education - it's not so much that they "forgot" about it, but rather that that is further steps beyond the basics that need to be the foundation whether it is "vanilla" sex or "fetish" sex.

@xKarmylla 7 жыл бұрын

Certainly, but that is what this video is about, basic sex education. What I proposed should be done in a next video, if the team felt they should. Thankfully, it might happen in the future.

@gracescarlett9953 5 жыл бұрын

On the birth control methods I hope that people take the implant into consideration. I think everyone should look at all options and see which works best for your situation and body but the implant works really well for me and should be considered because insertion is easy, very effective, easy to take out, there are side effects but I haven’t experienced any bad ones. I just hope that every woman knows that there is a method out there for you and birth control is your right and your choice

@aysenuraydinli8708 6 жыл бұрын

This video is such a gem, thank you Lucie!

@francescaboni 7 жыл бұрын

5 days of slow fashion!

@fpw2223 7 жыл бұрын

loved the phrase Luci - I hope thats okay ...

@vashtiramsaroop5410 6 жыл бұрын

I LOVED this piece!! This is the first time I've seen one of your videos, or your Living With Lucie series. I appreciated how each day explored a different facet of sex. Thank you to you and your team for giving us a wide spectrum of information. Great job!!!

@user-sk5pi5dn6k 5 жыл бұрын

SIM2

@swimmer4liflol565 5 жыл бұрын

Does anyone know where the “girls bite back” shirt is from

@eileenwelzel824 7 жыл бұрын

good one

@KwniStewart 6 жыл бұрын

I love how the Ed is in brackets in the thumbnail

@13livslife 6 жыл бұрын

okay my dudes I have a 5 year hormonal IUD and just wanted to say that the insertion procedure was not even a 1 for me so it might not be that bad for you, its really different for everyone

@0rchasm 7 жыл бұрын

I wish that you would have talked about nexplanon/implanon. I think it is the best birth control out there.

@rachelgpryor 5 жыл бұрын

I'm concerned about those women's IUD insertions being so painful. My pain level was maybe a 3 tops. My doctor told me it's not something that should be very painful. If done right, just some discomfort.

@collusionz_5744 6 жыл бұрын

She has some of the prettiest eyes I have ever seen

@alessandrabernardis8158 5 жыл бұрын

Omg I love your pozza earrings 😍😍😍😍

@allisonnicole9524 6 жыл бұрын

Another form of birth control is a shot. The one I use is a 3 month shot. I just get it in my arm or my hip, and I'm fine for 12 weeks, and it's over 90 something % effective. It's been great, and it's fantastic if you're a busy person, or you think you'll forget to take a pill, bc after you get a shot you just make a note or reminder for yourself in 12 weeks, get another one really quick and you're out again.

@Ohhello_itskat 6 жыл бұрын

I loved this video!!! So refreshing!!!

@ansleyacree7768 7 жыл бұрын

Does anyone know where Lucie's necklace (the one she wears in every video) is from??

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

ansley.k.a it's Van Cleef & Arpels! It was a graduation gift 😍

@GeorginaMarsden 7 жыл бұрын

I loved this episode so much!!! It was amazing and super educational, love you Lucie 😊💕

@roxiediamonddog5926 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks this really helped

@tessabaxter3003 6 жыл бұрын

This was amazing!!

@ellenlindblom4083 7 жыл бұрын

Lucie! I need that shirt you're wearing on Thursday in this video.

@sgjgex 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for subtitles

@summerfunner003 6 жыл бұрын

Where Can I get the shirt she was wearing on Thursday?

@Luciamlr 6 жыл бұрын

I loved it! Thanks Lucie

@RachelRescuesAnimals 6 жыл бұрын

Why does no one talk about the patch EVER it’s great I recommend it

@katisbasement777 7 жыл бұрын

Good job, Lucie! Fun and information - thank you! :o)

@jennyhammond9261 6 жыл бұрын

I love Friday's dress!

@christynelong5357 6 жыл бұрын

I’m curious about the photo shoot, where can you go for something like that? How can you be sure that your intimate pictures would be safe from the people who took them? How would you find something like that?

@Whitey166 6 жыл бұрын

where can i buy these earrings??

@avacodispodi4649 6 жыл бұрын

Lucie, where did you get your shirt from Tuesday, it’s stunning on you!

@yvettey0223 7 жыл бұрын

great video! thanks for getting out of your comfort zone and doing this Lucie! question! where is your white t-shirt from?!?!

@luciebfink 7 жыл бұрын

Yvette Angeles which one? "Babe you got this" is from H&M and the Thursday shirt is from TicTail!

@dorettaschat-beimers2522 5 жыл бұрын

Five days of facing fears!!

@alessandrasmith339 6 жыл бұрын

This was definitely a great video to introduce and de-stigmatize the broad topic of sex! Getting to see Planned Parenthood as a clinic instead of just an abortion clinic was also a real eye-opener. Thanks for making it a little easier to talk about sex. :)