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By the time I made it to Step 3 I met and attracted a new woman and lost interest in friend zone girl 🤷‍♂️

Friendzones aren’t really a problem. Finding women WORTH dating and committing to is the current problem I see everywhere

This is all factual advice. Back in my dating days I was completely smitten with this one girl. I confessed my feelings and all that but was pretty much left in the friend zone. So after numerous attempts, I backed off. But when I started seeing other girls she got all interested again. Even called me up sobbing one day after she found out I had stayed the night at another girl's place. Maybe a few days after that would have been a good time to get her to go out on a date. But I decided to move on anyway. I'm not playing those games if I don't have to. My current wife never played those games and we have been happily married for 16 years now.

It's all games. When I was in high school I had a girl friend who I was infatuated with. We were really good friends, hung out all the time, and I asked her out a bunch and she always shot me down. One day, as a senior, I started dating a girl over the weekend. When I went to school Monday, I was telling my friends about her, and this girl overheard. Later in the day she gave me a letter telling me she was just about to ask me out cause she realized I was the one for her and it hurt her that I was seeing this other girl and she would wait for me forever. That relationship lasted 6 months and when it was over I went to her and told her and she said she changed her mind. We're both in our 40s now and we've never dated. Games. They're all games.

Steps: 1. Semi-pullaway (flirt but don't ask her out yet) 2. Show your options (mention other girls; introduce her to other girls as a friend) 3. Social leadership (facilitate conversations) 4. Pseudo-date (casual 1:1 time, low investment) 5. Make a move (if she is flirting back). Go for a kiss ideally, or tell her you want to go on a "date" Hope this piqued your interest and got you to watch the whole video!

No, don't do any of these things! Move on and enjoy life and meeting people, notice I said people and not women. Integrate yourself into your interests (mine are weightlifting, jiu-jitsu, and progressing on my teaching career) Leave this whole "social dating" on the back. These "rules" will only have you end up with a woman that's full of games and manipulations, it will increase the divorce rate and make you a statistic. Just move on and progress and make yourself the best version of yourself. In time, a woman that is totally into you will reveal herself to you. And she will make things very easy for you, non of these head games and "friendzone" BS rules. My opinion, if you're a high quality man with passion, a plan, and are a good man (a strong man who is a teacher, leader, and student) and are getting ignored, rejected, friendzone these women have revealed themselves to who they are. It's not you, it's actually their mindsets and the image they have of what a man is, the type they find attractive. Move on and seek your own happiness.

Step 1 - Tell her how you feel about her Step 2 - watch her ghosting you

To avoid being someone's emotional sponge "friend guy", just muster self discipline and tell that person you don't see them that way then WALK AWAY. There's plenty of people in the world and noone deserves having to yearn for the love of someone who keeps them at arms length all the time.

Most women tend to friend zone nice guys. And use them to fulfill their emotional needs. To not feel so lonely being single, until they get with the person who they actually want to be with. And then it turns out that the person who they actually want to be with is no good. There's no problem being friends before getting in a relationship with someone. But it's important to be clear with your intentions and not use the person. The same goes for men not just for women. Men who are only interested in a one night stand, and then lose interest.

One huge potential problem with these videos is I've noticed the tips can actually (indirectly mainly) be targeted towards the extrovert kinda guys who are after the diva kinda girls. And I think one damn important thing to remember is not all girls think like how this video implies the way they all think. And watching it makes me think, I can definitely use a few of these but mostly this stuff isn't for me. Not bcoz I think these tricks are beneath me but bcoz that's not who I am/ want to be and that's not the kinda girl I'm after. I mean not being the first to speak and lead and mingle with everyone won't exactly make you less of a man!

Definition of "Friend Zone". I can do better than you but just in case I can't I will keep you around. Guys don't want or need girls as friends.

Once you've been put in the friendzone by a woman, it's time to move on. It's that simple. Your time and energy could be spent on another girl.

I love watching these as a girl and seeing what I think...all I will say is for step 2 please please watch yourself and don't be cringe in the way that you "show her your options" because if you seem like you're trying too hard and are posting cringey pics with girls on Instagram, and shit it's really weird! Also, as a girl, if I see other women involved with a guy I tend to pull away rather than be more interested because I don't like to waste energy fighting over a guy. And, if a woman wants you just because she's possessive and competitive, she will still stop valuing you over time once she has you. Having female friends and having the platonic approval of other women is actually really valuable in my eyes.

The way he put it into words and made it make sense and got thru to him and say it like/as it is to him was special. I liked it coz that's the way it (should) be.

Treat them mean keep them keen.

You have such a great personality Marni. Please never lose that

Just what I needed to hear! Thanks, Marni!

"Show her your other options" ... haha... good one. Assuming I have options to begin with, rather than all of them being just friends at best, acquaintances at worst.

Girl your dropping fire 🔥. Thanks for all the tips.

This gets added to my playlist ANCIENT WISDOM

Gee, Marni all I did was touch her inner thigh and smile and I was immediately, “out of the friend zone” lol 😂.

Very good stuff. I relate to it because I'm very socially intuitive.

Thank you marni for sharing this beautiful information ❤

I'm glad I found this channel. I have been on the end of so many "you're a nice guy but" comments, it's just soul destroying.

As much as I’d like a relationship I’m comfortable with being alone. And that pisses some women off. I dated this woman on and off. She got mad at me and then took off. Later she said I didn’t stop her. I said you wanted to go. You had your bags packed and everything. I don’t chase anyone. If you want to leave then go. I used to be needy. I used to not want to be alone. I had a marriage where I ended up being cheated on. She left me and married the other guy. It was devastating for a while. But I learned to enjoy being by myself. It’s actually liberating to not need people. I’m not antisocial though either. I’m not a complete asshole either. If I get into a relationship I do put effort into it.

These actually work, i tried some before even without knowing about this video.

Another great video, thanks again.

Thank you Marni... I been watching your videos, I learned lot... greetings from Chicago.💐

Marni!!!great to always see your videos,i love you, you're awesome ❤

You’re the best, Marni. Thanks for your infinite wisdom.

Grest points Marni!

omg I was feeling depress...down....since month or years....those videos wake me up!

Hi Marni, I like you and you know what I want!😃 I love the great advice you give out, and it's fun to watch you!

Marnie made me see things differently. What an amazing and caring woman. I am filled with hope for my future. Finally some compassion for guys who keep failing. Thank you!

Good info Marni.

WOW thats brillant the step when Marni said that you could tell about stories about other girls or flirt with her friend! Wow Mindblown!

Wow, I'm first, thanks for the ever so helpful tips and tricks Marni! Hoping to put these to good use soon!

"Friends with Benefits" -- Girl getting friend zoned. "Boyfriend without Benefits" -- Guy getting friend zoned.

Thank you mari your advice always works

My goodness! You're a genius! Thank you so much!

The best way to get out of a friendzone is to realize the woman is not capable to recognize a good man. You walk away and let her live her own lonely life with her cats. No bigger turn off than a friendzoning woman. Brrr....

Been a fan for a long time, great advice for sure. Thanks Marni.

Great video Marni

This advice is gold

The one thing that trumps all of these things is non-compliance. The main reason guys get put in the friend zone is because they are too nice. Learn to tell a woman "no" from time to time. You'll notice how their perception of you changes. It shows you have confidence and balls. Two things women find irresistible.

Thanks! Marni I wish I knew all this while hanging out with my last girlfriend Now I'm moving on trying these new things and I've seen improvement

Appreciate the steps.

Marni, you're on point!

Always a big help Marni! Thank you wish I had this video 2 weeks ago but all good I have it now!!

All you have to do is ONE thing--be comfortable with yourself at all times!! Only YOU can do that!! (A confident dude who has personality and lets things flow will always attract somebody, somewhere--the universe will align when it is meant to align.) "Love is not a possession, it is a state of being" (Osho)

You are the best marni

I once "simped" for my highschool best friend for 3 years but if I had tips like this her and I probably wouldnt have crashed and burned so badly 😂

I had been doing some of those things and didn't know I was doing it it makes sense

Hey marni, love your content

I've watched a number of your videos and thoroughly enjoy them and your presentation of them. I can't take the time to read the thousands of comments you receive so I don't know if my input will be something new or if it's been mentioned before. It is dancing. I'm 73 now and have danced since I was about 26. I now do seven different dances. I was divorced when I was 29 and dancing turned out to be a goldmine in terms of meeting women. It was my ex that wanted us to take dance lessons so, in effect, it was she who gave me the goldmine. Because of dancing, I did really well with women from thirty-one through my fifties and a bit into my 60's. It turns out that dancing is a gateway to just about everything you advocate in your videos. Asking a woman to dance shows you've noticed her and if she accepts your invitation to dance you are now in a position to touch her, talk with her, let her test you, be a leader, and get to know her a bit and it gives her an opportunity to tell if you are someone she would like to know better, and they WILL let you know. If you see her out often, and you keep asking her for dances, over a short period of time she becomes very comfortable with you. Often times she'll come over and ask you to dance and perhaps introduce you to her girlfriends who also like to dance. Back in the day I was meeting probably 100 women per year through dancing. Some I dated and others I didn't, preferring to just know them as dance friends. All I'll say is that my sex life was not boring. I also managed to be in three longer term relationships, i.e. six years (12 years younger than I), two and a half years (22 years younger) and five years (25 years younger). So everything you are talking about, as a wing girl, is true. So guys, be your own man, be your best man, and lead the dance and everything else. If she doesn't like you leading then walk away. I've never remarried because I've chosen not to. I wanted to be married but divorce court was a real education and I'm a very good student. Even now, when I go out, women of all ages sometimes come over to me to compliment me on my dancing which gives me an excellent opportunity to ask them to dance and there are a lot of women who love to dance. Some guys would rather go out and buy a new $45K pickup thinking any woman would love to be seen it when all they really have to do is take a couple of dance lessons for a lot less money. Men and women do not think alike. Thank you for your content Marni!

Hi Marni, I wanna go from the friend zone to the end zone! I need to score a touchdown with this gal!

Dear Marnie I just felt it necessary to emphasize that flirting as flirting is not something that is predetermined adhering to certain steps to achieve the goal. The magic of flirting is the moment itself and how it goes depends on the individual and his ability to seize the moment and recognize the signs...🥂🥂👋

great video

I unfortunately lost my wife of many many years this year and one thing I am happy, out of a zillion, when looking back is that I never once had to play games when we were dating or have a strategy. She loved my expressiveness from the get go and I never had to worry that I was saying to much or showing too much interest because you know what? She loved that I expressed interest. The right woman will not have to be "played" and will completely like it when you show interest.

Solid and clearly articulated. Better than another vid about escaping the friend zone. I was talking to my friends about a foxy French girl who was flirting with me. One of my friends who is a hottie herself asked facetiously, Is she hotter than me? There was a pregnant pause, then I said, She was pretty effin’ hot, lol! My friend looked disappointed because she’s usually the hottest in the room. It’s not like I was attracted to my friend that way. But it was amusing watching her shock and disappointment.

Very easy. Terminate all contact. That definitely gets you out of the friendzone.

This is how you should always behalve not only when you want to get out of the friend zone.

Interesting tips.

Marni you are a great teacher and give great advice! Let’s be real everything is a gigantic game and with the stuff going on in our world there will be a lot woman and man ALONE in our world! These are not normal times people are unhappy 🙁 and we in very uncertain times most are economic!

If you attract a girl by pretending to be someone you're not, she won't love you. She will instead love the guy you are pretending to be. It sounds cliche, but just be yourself and be open to rejection. If a girl doesn't like you for who you are, then you've short-listed your candidates and are closer to finding someone who's actually your type.

Works only if she is a real friend .I believe it because it makes sense logically ..I have seen many dating gurus speka bs.This is gold

This video helped so much!!!!!!!!!

the social leader one sounds too much like "be extroverted"... I'm afraid that's not possible for those of us that are shy, introverted and quiet.

Thankyou Marni, ..been putting myself in Friendzone or enemyzone for a few years now. And Now following your advice 100%. Been surrounded by Very nice Women, and especially one in particular. Thankyou for the Confidence boost.

Thanks for sharing 👍

Thanks anyhow, Marni.

Where were you when I was in High School and college? Fantastic advice now that I am older and know a lot more about what attracts women to men.

Was texting back and forth with a girl. Girl seemed interested to spend time together from the get go, then once I chose the time and place, I got a “sounds good bro!”

tysm i won't break the right girl heart but i can't promise to not break those who broke me mentally

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Why can't two people just say they like each other. 1. Fear

At 6:13 Marnie says that social leadership is a quality that turns women on too. Be the one who mingles with people. Be the first one who is willing to get playful in a group of people when the setting is more serious. Encourage others to share their thoughts and stories, and share your thoughts and stories freely. And own it

oh my gosh this is so great video you are a good coach i think i can get some helps from you

Hi Marni , I woke up at 2:15 am n I stayed up n watched 2 videos !! Marni, you are the Coolest Lady ever !!! Love your attitude, n demeanor , you make me enjoy every video, even if I’m good in that area , but I figure that I will always learn something ! I have a texting relationship, and I’m already using what I’m learning, all to my benefit !!! Thank you Marni ❣️😀Smile for me ❣️

Just want to add my own two cents. This is a great introduction video to the friend zone. But there is much more to it. Some guys fear the friend zone like the kiss of death and others can make it work for them. Here's how, or "Friend Zone Pro". 1. Don't fear the friend zone. Girls use it all the time and they will move you out of it quickly if you pass some basic tests. 2. Be absolutely certain she knows you fully accept the friend zone temporarily when you are placed in it. There is no getting out of it so embrace it. If she senses you are squirming you have already failed the first test. 3. Accept that if you are attempting to date far out of your league you are going to have to become a master of the friend zone and there is no way around it. 4. Don't confuse the friend zone with being a Barnacle. Fawning on someone who is actually trying to avoid you does not count. Have some self respect. If she does not want to have anything to do with you and is just too timid to tell you then move on. 5. Be able to detect the difference between the "Friend Zone" and the "Friend with Potential Zone" They may look the same but they are not. How do you know? She treats you with respect (see the host's other videos on this). She does not mind being alone with you. She does not cancel appointments last minute. She gets a little jealous if other women infringe on her time with you. 6. Understand why you are in the friend zone. The more intelligent a woman is the greater the chance she may wants to see how you treat her outside the bedroom. Also she may have experienced some recent turmoil. 7. This one is odd but trust me. It could actually be a good sign. Women will sometimes put a guy in the friend zone if they see serious long term potential. She may not want to risk giving you what you want too quickly and then losing you. Some women will play the long game when they find a keeper. 8. Accept some responsibility. If you are behaving immaturely or trying to move too fast, or don't have a job or a car, or don't take care of yourself, or exhibit clear signs of not being serious about your success, or seem unsure of yourself, or don't know how to dress yourself, or don't listen to what she says when she talks, or don't know what the inside of a gym looks like then you put yourself in the friend zone not her. Man up and fix the problems first. 9. Be aware that the friend zone could be your own invention. If the women in question is beautiful there is almost no chance she would be spending time with you at all unless there was at least some potential. Think about it. If she is smart and attractive she would not abide you as a friend if you were someone she would not want be seen with. Trust me, if you are her friend, you are checking off at least some of the boxes. 10. Understand how the friend zone works. Time can move slowly but when you are moved out it will happen suddenly, without warning and for no apparent reason. Just for the record, be aware the term "friend zone" is a male invention and not one women generally use in regard to someone they care about. Women require people to demonstrate respect, patience and ambition all the time before levelling them up and they don't consider this a cage with no key. Sorry, one more thing, if she is truly a prize and you are man enough to handle the friendship don't throw away a golden fishing rod just because you didn't get the fish.

I. Never ever had this issue untill this one girl we've been close friends for years and she's scared from having very bad experiences from the past I can't get her there Everytime we close she backs out it's almost there I've never been through this I've given up and moving on just staying friends and when I did this she wants it and backs out again jheeesh!!!!!!

i lold at presenting "being the social leader" as so so simple.

Thank you for sharing and having love for men 😊😌

It's disrespectful to chase someone who doesn't want you: she rejects my move then i ditch her instantly.

Wow! This is Unbelievable, I do really believe Marni you are the Master, I stunned, speechless but you're an Incredible, amazing genius person that I ever met. Thanks so much.

She's down to go with me to the movies. Thanks for the tips, just needed this before it all goes down.😄

Your the goat everything you say works idc what anybody else say’s

Great advice as always! I like the “Pull Away” strategy! Lol I use the: “Two steps forward, one back” technique - which is pretty similar. It’s basically giving her the attention that you’re used you to giving her, and then stop for a little while, and let her mind wonder a little bit. Now she has to think about what you’re up to, and she might reach out to you, and give you some attention. And just rinse, and repeat, and each time, figure out a way to make her see you in a new light! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

I guess step 1 works much better combined with step 2, specially if you ocasionally flirt others in front of her, but not while flirting with her, not in the same day or event. Confidence is key. Great content!

Great wow. I wish I could do that

can't wait for you to hit 1 million subscribers

This is actually great life advice.

I have been focusing on myself! Girls chase me! I always leave girls wanting more! I workout 6 days a week 💪! I notice the difference in my physique! I maintain my masculine frame! I stand my ground and don't let anyone walk all over me!

I’m dropping a like not for your video but for you because I like what you did with your hair. Love all your videos either way. Genuine compliment lol totally not hitting on ya!😇😎

I get so much chatter fatigue I find myself tuning out and keep having to go back and re-watch.

U tell her that neither one of u wants with the other person wants. So let's move on. Brake all contact with her. She will think of u and mostly will come back. Happened to me. The girl fiendzone me and I just said to myself that I was better off without her. After months she showed up at my house un announced and told me that she was crazy about me and wanted to do it all LOL so for me it was crazy as hell that what I wanted was in front of me.

If you are a male over the age of 30 you should have figured most of this stuff out. I have watched quite a few of her videos because I like to look at her! 😛 That being said, just about everything she says is spot on. Follow her advice!

Pure gold

I have the biggest crush on you Marni Since my wife died ( was married for 15+ years ) I've been binge-watching your channel. Thank you for the company, I appreciate you Love from Michael 😘