4:29 - I give the Church major points for insisting on consent between the bride and groom! (Although, I wonder how many brides or grooms consented because their families had made it clear that they'd better, or else?)
@genli56034 жыл бұрын
There were court cases about coerced marriage and what qualifies as coercion. Fear for your physical safety always did.
@jenniferbrewer53704 жыл бұрын
Most daughters still did what Daddy wanted when it came to marriage, especially if the family was wealthy and/or titled.
@donz62113 жыл бұрын
That's kinda the trick ain't it?
@azurephoenix95463 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferbrewer5370 That was how you moved up in society back then. It's not to say that medieval women were shrinking violets on the whole. Many women were part of trade guilds, and additionally managed the husband's business while he was away. I would have to go look because it's been about 20 years since I was actually deep into trade guild records, but many women were leather workers, textile merchants, ran pubs, and all manner of entrepreneurial ventures, separate and apart from their husbands. Arranged marriages were largely the province of people of wealth seeking to increase it through marriage. Poor and middling people mostly married for love, while elites married largely for convenience, just as they do now.
@cosmicartsastrologicalserv2422 жыл бұрын
Coerced consent
@rebeccabaumgarten75734 жыл бұрын
In the nuptial Mass, it is still prescribed that the bride and groom walk down the aisle together. The bride walking down the aisle with her father is an exception you have to get permission for (they always give it). Nowhere in a nuptial Mass does anyone ask who comes to give the bride away. The bride and groom give themselves to each other.
@curtisreinke33025 жыл бұрын
You left out my favorite high middle age couple, Fernando of Aragon and Isabel of Castile. Theirs was obviously a political marriage but on the other hand neither seemed to be capable of doing anything that would make make the other unhappy. Their love of their family was nearly legendary.
@brianbrady1394 жыл бұрын
They were more late middle ages or early renaissance rather then high
@orafrid35054 жыл бұрын
You mean the Fernando and Isabel who, in 1478 instituted the notorious inquisition that saw thousands of Jews being burnt alive , murdered, forced to convert or striped of their homes, their Holy books burnt and evicted from their country to wander aimlessly for fear of death? You mean those two? Yeah - real role model.
@AnzuBrief4 жыл бұрын
@@orafrid3505 There were a great role model. If not for Isabel, native Americans might still rule America. But Fernindad had many mistresses. I don't think they are the ideal middle age couple. Charles II, their grandchild, on the other hand, was always faithful to his wife, Empress Isabella. He had lovers but before and after being married to her, never while she was his wife and was alive.
@lillyCfields4 жыл бұрын
@@orafrid3505 What's the problem?
@kiera63264 жыл бұрын
@@orafrid3505+ We meant more about their relationship, but...
@annhendrickson52236 жыл бұрын
Men are males, period. Monogamous marriage has many practical and spiritual benefits. males do not have to be wealthy in order to have access to females and reproduce. monogamy encourages family harmony, not factions and constant rivalry between half brothers Property is passed down in a lawful manner. Fathers, husbands and wives are more motivated to invest in maintaining quality relationships with their spouses and children, and women are honored as individuals with souls and free will. of course. outcomes are dependent on the behavior and attitudes of the individuals, but society benefits from and supports stable families.
@htoodoh57705 жыл бұрын
@BulgaroSlav Not anymore?
@Deborahtunes5 жыл бұрын
Although what you say is true. Western countries no longer push for the normal family unit to stay in tact. Which is the very reason we are seeing whole societies break down into incivility. It's only a matter of time before we implode.
@hair20505 жыл бұрын
You seem to neglect addressing the fact that non monogamous men are by default involved sexually with other women, most of consensually of course. Not normally due to a power imbalance. The woman-girl, is a sexual being too and wants it for a variety of reasons.
@dustinparker35734 жыл бұрын
stephen turner you think too little.
@billionaire30xyz364 жыл бұрын
@@Deborahtunes Define "Normal"... Because "Normal" for Christian men in biblical times was, a man, his wife, his concubines, his mistreses and a whole bunch of children OUTSIDE of the marriage..
@andrew-paulclements15026 жыл бұрын
I never knew there was such a focus on consent. Das Kool
@StetzMusic5 жыл бұрын
Andrew Clements Very Kool 👌Christianity has brought more good than bad to the World, contrary to popular belief that is....As we heard it gave women the right to consensual marriage...also people like MLK JR we’re inspired by Jesus and Jesus’s principles are what lived through them and others...even Gandhi spoke on the truth of Jesus.
@amasion28824 жыл бұрын
The problem with this is that most “women” were married quite young and were raised/socialized to accept the suitor chosen by their families. Refusing consent is a lot tougher if you fear displeasing your family.
@williampool78954 жыл бұрын
StetzMusic 8
@blacktigerpaw14 жыл бұрын
@@amasion2882 Only for aristocrats. Most common women married around 16-18, having sex at 18-20. It was pretty scandalous for an older dude to marry a young girl.
@amasion28824 жыл бұрын
blacktigerpaw1 : It doesn’t matter. A 16-18 year old girl/woman would usually be dependent emotionally and financially upon her parents or guardians. Religious teachings and social norms of the era required women to be submissive and obedient to parents, elders, clergy and to men in general. Most women probably didn’t choose their own men unless their parents approved their choices.
@Lilas.Duveteux4 жыл бұрын
I think that if you spend enough time with anyone who is even remotly a decent person, you will become emotionally attached to them. For exemple, if your collegues are nice, you will come to like them, eventually. Also, if you are stuck with someone, might as well make it bearable...
@marilon4 жыл бұрын
There are plenty of people I like but that I wouldn't want to have sex with.
@Lilas.Duveteux4 жыл бұрын
@@marilon Agreed.
@seanrodgers18392 жыл бұрын
Finally, someone with actual knowledge of reality, as opposed to hyperbole, wishful thinking and revisionism.
@markrowland13664 жыл бұрын
Simple people married by announcing their intentions to their community. Market day, on hutch steps after Sunday on the church steps, where many people were. Most people were simple.
@MotherOfFerrets755 жыл бұрын
Love your channel! The way you present facts versus myth, timelines and events is a great study resource. My favorite time of history is the middle and high middle ages. I find the lives, struggles and history fascinating. Not to mention the clothing! I have a few dresses and other garments in the style of the middle ages. They are so comfortable! Thanks for your hard work on all these videos❤
@RealCrusadesHistory5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for your comment. I'm glad you enjoy the channel. We definitely share a taste in historical eras! Take care, and thanks again!
@u2fancar2 жыл бұрын
Henry VIII's fifth wife, Catherine Howard, was facing execution for adultery - then an ex of hers turned up, claiming to have been engaged to her! This was seen as a way for her to escape the chopping block, as if she had admitted the betrothal, her marriage to Henry would have been unlawful. She'd have been bigamous, but that wasn't a capital offence.
@suzannederringer16074 жыл бұрын
Respect was a big part of it also. And as you say, Friendship and Partnership. Wasn't a matter of what is now considered the sine qua non - 'romantic love.'
@patsyk12136 жыл бұрын
Christianity greatly improved the status of women in society....beginning with the marriage of Our Lord miraculously changing the water into wine at the marriage at Cana. J. Stephen Roberts, your presentation is - as usual - accurate and well balanced.
@RealCrusadesHistory6 жыл бұрын
thanks!
@jessicaperez13705 жыл бұрын
Yes the Catholic Church improved the lives of women and society vastly in the middle ages
@KMarieNieto4 жыл бұрын
Mm, I disagree. The Catholic Church burned women at the stake for practicing medicine and bringing competition to make physicians. Not to mention the common rules that demanded women be subservient without expecting the same from men. There are so many dicotomies with how the church treated women; just think about the punishments of adultery for men vs women. I also don't think the "consent of the woman" or "power of the woman" was as we see it. "Consent" could have been forced, since women could be abused with no repercussions. The church deemed this the men's spiritual right. Also, what kind "power" is this man referring to? There are still modern Christians who think a woman's "power" is being quiet and completely obedient to her husband, the ability to surrender her liberty and personal will. This is the problem with men presenting the history of marriage: they cling to optimistic perspectives about how women were treated without acknowledging the reality, to make their gender look better historically. Marriage has been systematic abuse and legal slave-level ownership of half the population, all perpetuated by the Christian Church in Western society.
@AluminiumT63 жыл бұрын
@@KMarieNieto Wrong. The Church has always demanded fidelity and order within marriage from both husband and wife. While women were seen as objects or even less by the pagans in Greece and Rome, they were recognized as children of God by Christianity. Respect was expected, and abuse became intolerable. Now, to say a woman is not allowed to be unfaithful to her husband, in any way, is not to take away her freedom (the same applies to the husband). It is to preserve the sacred institution of marriage, which is oriented primarily to the children, but also to the well-being of both spouses. Fidelity is essential.
@AluminiumT63 жыл бұрын
@@KMarieNieto Also, do you have any evidence for the claim that "the Church burned women at the stake for practicing medicine"?
@cathipalmer82174 жыл бұрын
My grandmother's grandmother (early LDS polygamous marriage) - who was, by all accounts, very happy in her marriage - explained to her that the approach to marriage of her time was not based on romance, but on good decision-making. Not that the two are necessarily mutually exclusive...
@cernunnos_lives4 жыл бұрын
Romantic love didn't have much to do with marriage. And everything to do with survival of your clan, tribe, or lineage. It was more about politics and society in a brutal time.
@dinosaurcj3 жыл бұрын
I think instincts are what generally cause people to be driven towards those things, hence why people find certain behaviors attractive, because they lead to survival (this can be made manifest culturally as well, that's why different cultures find different things to be attractive).
@Thor-Orion8 ай бұрын
Romantic love is just a chemical reaction in your brain driving the propagation of your genes. And thus, nothing has changed. I do take issue with you labeling it a brutal time, as nothing could be more brutal than pushing a button and killing hundreds of thousands, and that’s a recent development.
@tinamvin53595 жыл бұрын
What, you mean Christianity doesn’t want to make women subservient and hidden away?!
@mandypandy111ify4 жыл бұрын
It depends heavily on the time period. In the time the Bible was written, Christian women were seen as, and treated as, objects. Though later Christianity moved on from this.
@emmamemma41624 жыл бұрын
It's not really possible to talk about a religion that has existed for about 2000 years, has a great number of different branches, and is the most popular in the world today as having one singular, clearly defined attitude towards women. Within modern day Christianity you can find examples ranging from extreme misogyny to churches having quite a feminist approach. When you include the different forms of Christianity of earlier time periods the picture becomes even more complex.
@ouroborosi4 жыл бұрын
ofcourse not, a lot of money goes to the church with legal marriages it's all about money
@dakotalisa38934 жыл бұрын
@Elizabeth Sobel Apparently you never read the Bible.
@dakotalisa38934 жыл бұрын
@@mandypandy111ify Not so.....
@lavish_17176 жыл бұрын
European women had a better lifestyle even then in comparison to nonwhite women even today 😮 White men have always adored and doted on their women especially after adopting Christianity throughout Europe.
@Nexus-ub4hs5 жыл бұрын
I wish they did. On the facade sure, but in reality they don’t. Women too have changed, though some of us are still traditional and would like a man with similar values. One man, one woman, a team, best friends, love, loyalty, respect. But near impossible to find these days. Few understand what love is and means now.
@guiniverejoy90134 жыл бұрын
@erni muja Too much dishonest romanticism. It is what the rich want you to believe. Long ago, and even not so long ago, common men may desert wife/family, die of illness or war, or simply drink or gamble the money/family goods away, and the woman/family would lose all, since women were not generally accepted / allowed to work and a woman with children had a hard time re-marrying, unless from a rich family. Similarly, a woman had no real power, so could be beaten, maimed, walled up in a room to die of thirst and there was little recourse, depending on 50 to 200 years ago, or the location. So no, it is still much better today. Today, the real problem is the rich/poor wage difference. Used to be, the owner made on average 30 times the typical worker's wage - Now, the CEO more often is paid 300 to 3000 times an average worker's salary. Therefore, fewer workers who are expected to do more work. Simple math - that greed is the cause of the increase in poverty and erosion of the middle class.
@aerialpunk4 жыл бұрын
@@Nexus-ub4hs yeah I think that's true. I have more traditional values and I can hardly even find friends these days cos those values are so despised. Thankfully I met my husband before all this stuff went totally off the rails. I couldn't imagine trying to find a good partner these days, it's be so hard.
@celesteadeanes44784 жыл бұрын
@erni muja women always worked. The chief economic unit was the home. Cottage industry required spinners weavers farming and cooks medicnal agents (until the inqiustion culled them out) market sales (ever heard of a fishwife? Or a seamstress? ) A wet nurse held status. A cook ,maid, laundress , shepardress or cattle keeper was typical.Innkeepers, and nursing homes were usually female ran affairs if not owned by them in Europe. Great Homes were ran by capable educated aristocratic females who kept estates much like a corporate CEO would today. Wages are stagnate because corporate white male CEOs take home multiples of times the pay of whole groups of workers, and near slave markets exist overseas. Nixon opened trade in China and all our manufacturing went there or somewhere worse.
@RebeccaOre4 жыл бұрын
erni muja , boy, you don’t know much history or have ever considered how people got food and textiles before the Industrial Revolution. Women didn’t get handled money to go shopping.
@caiusofglantri5513 Жыл бұрын
The assertion in Gratian's Decretal (c1139) that, "A father's oath cannot compel a girl to marry one to whom she has never ascented" found mirrors in the life of the English woman, Theodora, who live at the about the same time. Her parents were wealthy merchants of Hertfordshire who married her, against her will, to a noble called Beorhtred. She resisted his advances, he did not force himself on her, and she escaped to hide in local religious cells. Eventually Beorhtred cancelled the marriage contract with her parents, and the archbishop of York annulled it in 1122.
@user-tg6xh9bc9q4 жыл бұрын
fact number 3: 7:42 fact number 4:10:50 fact number 5: 15:35
@jack600915 жыл бұрын
Most great men had supportive wives. See U.S. Grant. A. Lincoln. One man, one women.
@HolasoyMai4 жыл бұрын
*woman
@KMarieNieto4 жыл бұрын
What did the women get in return? You don't even mention their names. Being a great woman in our own right is always better than being a nameless supportive wife.
@chitrikart23284 жыл бұрын
@@KMarieNieto exactly. I would like a supportive husband
@rogerhoke97253 жыл бұрын
@@KMarieNieto Mary Todd Lincoln and Julia Dent Grant were great women in their own right; not despite their husbands' success. You can read much about both of them. That's why they are referred to as the First Lady, not Second Person.
@jettpayton13523 жыл бұрын
@@KMarieNieto Well to someone who clearly places value strictly on notoriety, they didn’t gain much.
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey4 жыл бұрын
more friendship than romantic love. this makes good sense.
@mawg75984 жыл бұрын
Loved it! Thanks so much. God bless u n urs!
@jefferywise19064 жыл бұрын
Arranged marriage persisted into the 1800's especially in high ranking families. Think Queen Victoria.
@genli56034 жыл бұрын
No. Queen Victoria chose her husband from multiple possibilities.
@jenniferbrewer53704 жыл бұрын
Arranged marriage persists to this day in some cultures.
@KenDelloSandro75656 жыл бұрын
Our Blessed Lord raised marriage to a Sacramentum. There is only only seven ways to gain Sanctifying Grace and the Sacrament of Holy Marriage is one of them. That's why divorce is not only a mortal sin, but pretty much a sacrilege.
@krisplant54975 жыл бұрын
Divorce is accepted in some circumstances by our Lord GOD, adultery, One partner not believing or not worshiping GOD there are a few more but not many, It also is not a mortal sin.
@erinrising27995 жыл бұрын
thank you for commenting directly from the middle ages
@m_d19055 жыл бұрын
Sin is sin, there are no levels, sorry. No sin can enter heaven.
@angelajakob12574 жыл бұрын
Why does an intellectual discussion turns into religious fairytale bullshit?
@milehighpodcast44864 жыл бұрын
@@angelajakob1257 Pure baffoonary if you ask me. Sadly most people do not really base their views on evidence and hold on to the nonsensical bs they were raised on and cherish.
@sylviafelix41524 жыл бұрын
Excellent channel.
@lrritt63094 жыл бұрын
I also believe that an actual ceremony was not necessary for peasants in the early middle ages.
@ah57214 жыл бұрын
it became a problem for the church later. people would claim they pledged themselves to each other but them separate.
@toomanymarys73552 жыл бұрын
@@ah5721 And it was precisely for practical reasons that the church wanted a witness to the marriage!
@davidkueny24444 жыл бұрын
Peter Lombard? Didn't he write an important book called "the Sentences" that every theologian and his dog wrote a commentary on?
@jamestown83985 жыл бұрын
I have a question. Could a widower join the Templars if his children are grown up?
@kennymonty82064 жыл бұрын
I suspect that the Templar were like the rest of us. Some good and some bad. Also, it might depend on where you are positioned with regard to the Templar as a whole, or even an individual. For example, I'm fairly convinced that if you were a person who owed a great deal of money to them, you might support their enemies for the purpose of escaping your poor budgeting and financial responsibility. Or, if you were one of Salahadin's footmen, and met a Templar, fully armored and mounted, on the battlefield, you would certainly consider these folk to be "bad". While, a period European architect, might find the influence of the Templar to convince them they were good. He could we'll have found himself gainfully employed working on any of the hundreds of Gothic cathedrals built following their return to France.
@kennymonty82064 жыл бұрын
Hundreds of cathedrals? I'm not sure about that. But, I'll amend it to at least dozens.
@ppaaccoojrf4 жыл бұрын
@Princess 123 Templars have nothing to do with freemasonry outside of unsubstantiated claims and conspiracy theories.
@jimevans45824 жыл бұрын
@Princess 123 Freemasonry is really good stuff if you know anything about it. Freemasons are accepting of all who accept God in any form and are involved in many charitable causes. Whereas to this day the Catholic Church is still protecting child molester.
@Peristerygr4 жыл бұрын
The Orders' members where monks so I suppose widowers could join them -since back then it was common for widowers and widows becaming monks and nuns respectively. Yet I am not sure if they would meet the warrior standards the Orders needed as easily in all cases if they were of older age.
@kingslegion15 жыл бұрын
great as usual.. but I bring up Dr. Schroeder's book "the English templar" where she explains in it within the story marriage and love at that time. actually the whole book is amazing and how in the hell does someone not make a movie of this book? I have read it some 7 or more times and not even able to read others because I keep coming back to it. but in this book (a historical fiction) it shows all the concepts at the time of marriage and the reasons things happen as they do. that is just one of the MANY concepts in this ONE book. and I am sure you know it well. again you continue to bring excellent concept and knowledge on your simple broadcasts, I again applaud you.
@u2fancar2 жыл бұрын
Edward IV of England had a clandestine marriage (possibly two)!
@dr.c.c.16714 жыл бұрын
Excellent as usual! Thanks!🌟
@keiserwilhem55436 жыл бұрын
Your page is amazing
@GAndreC6 жыл бұрын
Great subject that tends to be overlooked. Any chance you could cover something abour the different types of bastards (their rights and obligations) then or today (secular marriages). On the secret marriage note wasn't a religious representative required for it to be validated (at the very least a friar)
@sabsman1004 жыл бұрын
Non-Agglutinative Krenak I was under the impression that if a man and a woman consummated the relationship they were considered married under the law at that time.
@genli56034 жыл бұрын
Officiants were not required for marriage. You needed only the words and then sex to follow it up.
@Codie-el2di6 жыл бұрын
Ferdinand and Isabella also fell in love. She even tolerated his adultery.
@lavish_17176 жыл бұрын
Codie 2000 He was adulterous ? 😮☹️
@Codie-el2di6 жыл бұрын
Yamnayan Descent yes,he had several bastard children yet Isabella made sure they were properly educated.
@lavish_17175 жыл бұрын
Codie 2000 That sucks 😐
@history_maven98005 жыл бұрын
Codie 2000 The main duty of a nobleman's wife was to provide heirs. It was not uncommon for a nobleman to acquire a mistress when the noble wife and her husband had decided that they had enough children. Or, when the wife could no longer (for whatever reason) bear children. That said, most noblewomen had several children, over a period of many years.
@history_maven98005 жыл бұрын
@Emil Vasilev ;)
@CalvinGibson1954 жыл бұрын
It's somewhat odd that consentual marriage has a much higher divorce rate than prearranged marriage
@yinfox074 жыл бұрын
That's because the early Christian church wouldn't accept divorce. It wasn't until King Henry the 8th created his own religion just so he could divorce his 1st 2nd and 3rd wife and even then it was only possible by the husband. Honestly I'm glad divorce is legal and aloud by both partners.
@CalvinGibson1954 жыл бұрын
@@yinfox07 Actually, I was referring to today's modern world. Cultures with pre-arranged marriage have a much lower divorce rate if the documentaries I've seen are correct. It's not exactly the trend you'd expect.
@yinfox074 жыл бұрын
@@CalvinGibson195 that maybe but you have to take into account of the culture that practice it, the families and how they go about the arrangement. Many cultures that have arranged marriage heavily frown on divorce unless a valid reason is given and that varies. And again it goes back to what I stated earlier. In some countries it illegal to get a divorce, or only man can initiate it. Again I'm glad that divorce is a option.
@kaylahendrickson8164 жыл бұрын
A marriage can be both arranged and consensual. There are still plenty of parts of the world today where young people go to their parents to ask for a match to be found, and are able to freely accept or reject any potential matches. In other families, arranged marriages are forced/coerced, but that doesn't mean the two always go together.
@adielwilson87494 жыл бұрын
Marriage is complicated and when that choice is not based on logic but emotion makes it more likely to fluctuate and depending on the situation could lead to divorce
@homerm.16724 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your interest and interesting presentation
@stianberg56454 жыл бұрын
5:10 Is it possible that the consent of the woman was spread by the Normans? Because I have heard norse marriages required the consent of the woman even though they were aranged by the families.
@vivideblois4 жыл бұрын
Actually, I studied this in history of the family, it comes from the Romans, whose only real requirement for marriage was the consent of the bride and groom (whether it was enthusiastic or informed consent I couldn't tell you ans the consent of the family was paramount behind the scenes). Since the Catholic church took root in Rome and made it its HQ, it used a lot of its culture to form itself, like the language and certain laws and customs. That's why the church struggled later to enforce a religious ceremony, the permission of the parents or that consummation made the mariage official or required in a mariage (social norms enforced the last one), because they made and maintained the Roman tradition of consent as the only requirement.
@stianberg56454 жыл бұрын
@@vivideblois interesting knowledge. The perspective I often come across (and had myself) was that the womens consent was more of a convenience than a requirement
@vivideblois4 жыл бұрын
@@stianberg5645 I know, it was quite a shock, but my professor did also warn us not to idealise it either, consent didn't mean enthusiastic consent. I'm sure that peer pressuring into accepting an unlikable spouse had to have happened. Nevertheless it just goes to show how society has twisted how we view history and people from other cultures that them having consent as a requirement from both parties in a mariage comes as a shock.
@amyraab83265 жыл бұрын
This was great ! Really interesting 😮🤯👍
@patriciusvunkempen1024 жыл бұрын
what do we have in sources about the consent in marriage?
@danmccabe85822 жыл бұрын
Great program Steven! I think that the Catholic Church's influence on the middle ages was very strong and it was always maintained that it was 3 to get married. The Priest, who was, and still is "Persona Christi" or in The Person of Christ and of course the couple. So when they took their vows. It was a vow to Christ which made it a eternal union in the presence of Christ Jesus Himself of three. It was vital to have a priest there for it to be a valid marriage. Pax Christi Steven!
@toomanymarys73552 жыл бұрын
No, the requirement for a priest was a later development.
@thomassugg34226 жыл бұрын
Nice video
@dianachack8779 Жыл бұрын
This comment thread is fierce. 🎉
@disaffected_malcontent3 жыл бұрын
Super interesting insight.
@jessicamoores1815 жыл бұрын
Thank You❤️
@pineconepinetree25786 жыл бұрын
I have one question, what happened to the wives of the men who joined the templars?
@RealCrusadesHistory6 жыл бұрын
They had to be unmarried at the time of joining.
@pineconepinetree25786 жыл бұрын
Real Crusades History I’ve been reading the book The Templars The rise and spectacular fall of God’s holy warrios by Dan Jones and he said that married couple where allowed to join the order
@RealCrusadesHistory6 жыл бұрын
On rare occasions.
@Peristerygr6 жыл бұрын
Typically the Templars were taking roughly the same oaths as monks so it must have been the same process as becoming a regular monk.
@anthonytroisi668210 ай бұрын
When a marriage partner joined a monastery or convent, the marriage was annulled. Any children born before the annulment, were considered legitimate and retained their inheritance rights. Had Catherine of Aragon entered a convent, Mary would have retained her rights of succession. The Pope actually wanted this solution, but Catherine of Aragon refused. Dispensations because of consanguinity were fairly easy to obtain because most notables married within a small circle.
@francikeen Жыл бұрын
Before telephones & cars, *dating was almost impossible.* Arranged marriages were the "dating websites" of history.
@heythatsprettygood36536 жыл бұрын
Did moors marry or mix in with Spaniards in the reconquista?
@heythatsprettygood36536 жыл бұрын
Anton Babani why not I'm Spanish and I have middle East and North Africa dna
@Codie-el2di6 жыл бұрын
Gog Mog kind of through raping of Spanish women but most moors were expelled by Ferdinand and Isabella.
@heythatsprettygood36536 жыл бұрын
Codie 2000 oh, now I get it
@nantzstein33116 жыл бұрын
ooh TRIGGERING !
@nantzstein33116 жыл бұрын
Probably the opposite, remember the New continent?
@Apollo1989V6 жыл бұрын
Concubines in antiquity seems to me to have been little more than sex slaves.
@jamestown83985 жыл бұрын
In pre-Christian antiquity there were literal sex slaves. A master in ancient Greece or Rome could have sex with his slave at any time and said slave had no right to refuse him.
@samman460210 ай бұрын
Was it acceptable that a female can be married as soon as she passed puberty? According to NIH puberty in girls ranges 8-13. So can it be assumed many girls were married as young as age 8 and this was normal practice?
@judyvaughn7615 жыл бұрын
Question did Charles Love Diana or was that just to get an heir and a spare
@lotstolearn53505 жыл бұрын
Diana said in an interview that Charles called Camilla from the royal yacht Britannia on which they took their honeymoon.
@conitorres97745 жыл бұрын
No, he just wanted the heir and the spare and she had the blood and connections
@lotstolearn53505 жыл бұрын
JV: As soon as she accepted his proposal that Actually Mentioned That One Day She'd Be Queen, instead of enjoying a romantic moment, he immediately called his mother to announce that their problem had been "fixed". Prior to being introduced to her by his grandmother, Charles endured endless ridicule from family along the lines of: Oh COME on now, Charles ! Just how hard can it BE to find a Protestant virgin?
@Nexus-ub4hs5 жыл бұрын
Nope, he was always in love with Camilla and Diana was forced on him and a breeding mare. Cold reality
@rose44904 жыл бұрын
@@lotstolearn5350 that's so sad.
@patriciusvunkempen1024 жыл бұрын
where to find the source you mention at 5:30 , "gracian"?
@Publius1233 жыл бұрын
Gratian (not to be confused with the Roman emperor Flavius Gratian) was a Medieval monk and professor. The source J. Stephen Roberts is possibly referencing is a work by Gratian often called the “Decretum Gratiani,” a treatise/collection of canon laws which became part of the larger Corpus Juris Canonici.
@ascd92604 жыл бұрын
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@marycavender71363 жыл бұрын
Interesting video.👍🌹⚔️🎭👑🏰🤔❗
@user-tl7nv1ps6b3 жыл бұрын
Still happening in the other side of the world 🌍
@charbelbejjani55412 жыл бұрын
What about the common people not part of nobility and aristocracy?
@anthonytroisi668210 ай бұрын
Declaring intent to marry was sufficient. In Scotland, handfasting existed that allowed couple to nutually dissolve the union after a year and a day. Children born during the handfast period were legitimate.
@christianfreedom-seeker9344 жыл бұрын
Okay so on the "peasant marriage" issue, I cannot agree with that because our laws today (except in States with "Common Law Marriage") say that the consent of the Government must be obtained before a couple is legally married and there is a good reason for this! It prevents things like brothers and sisters from hooking up and close cousins hooking up or some really really old dude hooking up with a girl child! So you missed a big element of the debate. Also a couple needs the consent of God and I would argue that you obtain the consent of God through Consent of the State. Just my 2 cents.
@pamelaturner60924 жыл бұрын
Anonymous Libertarian Not all of the states in the USA recognize Common Law marriage. My state does not.
@dakotalisa38934 жыл бұрын
Govt approval doesn't prevent that. Govt approval in modern society as in the U.S. is vestige of racists to prevent interracial marriage.
@dakotalisa38934 жыл бұрын
@@mudkipx9052 ...or a pastor... (I'm not Catholic) 😇
@dakotalisa38934 жыл бұрын
@@mudkipx9052 True. 😊
@genli56034 жыл бұрын
What??? No. No, no, no. People knew which marriages were legal and which weren’t. We need to return to a sane definition of marriage and force the officiant out again.
@sawahtb4 жыл бұрын
Royal marriages must have been the exception, because cousins, Uncles and nieces were even married.
@RealCrusadesHistory4 жыл бұрын
Consanguinity laws applied to all marriages regardless of rank.
@sawahtb4 жыл бұрын
Real Crusades History how did it work for the Hapsbergs
@RealCrusadesHistory4 жыл бұрын
That's modern history. I'm talking about the Middle Ages.
@genli56034 жыл бұрын
You could sometimes get a dispensation but it applied to all ranks even after the Middle Ages.
@guymcmullan92974 жыл бұрын
A lot like a cowboy,?
@chitrikart23284 жыл бұрын
They're are many sexists in the comments..lol😂
@rimckd8254 жыл бұрын
I don't think so.....
@Stanbott2 жыл бұрын
Concubines were always second class wives
@perceblue39762 жыл бұрын
The sanctuary of marriage as we know it today is purely a western concept. Considering that in the west 60% of marriages end in divorce or couples stay together unhappy as the long and suffering means that marriage is failing. Back in ancient times men would choose women for mating purposes and would have as the old saying goes, a girl in every port. They would still help support their children but would have maybe several female partners. As the women grew older men would find younger women and all this was acceptable back in those times, in-fact it was natural human behaviour not pairing off with one partner forever more as we do today. Men had their functions in society as did women.
@Anaris106 жыл бұрын
Oh wait....I can't watch this because you delete non-inflammatory comments..
@RealCrusadesHistory6 жыл бұрын
Anaris10 you keep saying this. It is not true. I have not deleted any of your comments. Not a single one.
@ellielowehiem93036 жыл бұрын
Redman speaks with forked tongue.
@Anaris106 жыл бұрын
I had a comment on your "5 things wrong" vid. I alluded to how movies like "Gladiator" showed how nasty Roman arty could be in the old days and then the "Romans" just devolved into a sword swinging mob. I mentioned that the Romans were SOLDIERS and their enemies were mostly WARRIORS, There being a big difference. I asked how many movies show the Romans in their "Checkerboard" formations. 2 other people replied and I came back to see if anyone had added anything and the whole conversation was gone. Well thanks for answering anyway.
@troywheatley7446 жыл бұрын
Anaris10 ....tears in your tea :(
@Anaris106 жыл бұрын
Troy What's that supposed to mean?.What does this have to do with you?.