Years later, and ever once in awhile, it's good to revisit these videos, to remind ourselves of what we're forgetting. It's easy to get overly comfortable and slip into bad habits.

Emotional Autonomy Non-Reactive Desire + Respect De-Idolization of Women Be in Control

My jaw has dropped more times than I care to pick it back up!! As a woman, I've learned more about myself watching your videos than through any other book / channel / etc. THANK YOU!!!!!!!

I can't say it enough times, the way Bobby explains things makes them so easy to understand. He really is the best!

That's my boy Bobby. He got an "A" as a student in my psychology class and now is the professor himself ! Keep up the good teachings !!

As long as you're not afraid to lose a woman, you can be yourself without all those strategies.

As a woman, I completely agree with everything you said👌🏽

Been following your work since I was in my mid teens all the way in South Africa (2010/2011) then I fell out and recently I stumbled on one of your KZfaq videos. Your growth and consistency is out of this world. Thank you for your work!

Bobby is the real deal! I've learned so much about myself from him. Cannot thank the dude enough. He's been like a personal Dan Marino like dating coach, and I've been airing it up and going deep!!

More spot on advice Bobby and I feel so much better after watching this video, the De-idolization of women tip is absolutely spot on as i'm one of those 'nice guys' who hasn't had many girlfriends and putting women on pedestals is something i've been very guilty of in the past and now after watching this you are so right, from now on i'm going to try and relax more and just treat them like any other person.

Some good insight here, especially with respect to “Emotional Control”…Thanks Bobby!

Bobby Rio, first of all thank you for your information,I love the way you break it down,and make super easy to understand, MY RESPECTS AND TKS AGAIN

You definitely exposed one of my weaknesses. Desire and respect. I won't make that mistake again. The old me intuitively knew this. The older single guy forgot what used to work.

Absolutely superb content! I used to fall victim to all five of these points. Lately I've been growing and doing better. This video is validation that I'm on the right track. Thank you!

This is definitely one of your best videos, Bobby. Thank you!

Sex actually is a huge deal. Pair bond, marriage. Once these girls are slutted out they can't bond anymore. That's why marriages don't last

This is great list to use and would work for majority of us. I have listened to this content 2 times and would be happy to share with my mates who are in the same situation as me. 1. Emotional Autonomy 2. Non Reactive 3. Desire and Respect 4. De-Idolisation of Women 5. Be in control (control the situation). Thank you Mr Bobby Rio, you have a purpose and you definitely fit the description as high value man. Looking forward to listening to your other contents. Regards Belay Yim

Bobby is a "game" OG, after all these yyearshis very sound advice is still very appreciated and highly relevant and THAT for a reason!

Bobby, thank you for your content. I've been watching you and on your e-mail list for a while. My only regret is learning valuable information like this in my late 40s. But I'm keeping my head up and look forward to a brighter future in my dealings with all women whatever our relationship, because I learned from you or someone else that the truth is we have a pre-existing relationship with all women. My main desire is to project more pronounced masculinity than in the past, because I have broken each one of those five rules (desire and respect in both directions). No more

Bro, you're just the one I've been looking for all this while😢❤

Bobby, you are the MAN! You should teach this class to 7th graders and maybe, just maybe it will help stop school shootings because these kids will learn to deal with their emotions and not act out on frustration or hatred, especially towards women. Cheers!

Bobby, you're very good, man! It's like a boy who'd been abandoned by his mother at 3 years old. He knows how to perceive women. He knows respect.

Excellent video!! Very much on point. Much love ❤ and appreciation. Peace ✌

This message is approved.. Top tier advice sir 👏👏

I wish I saw this video 20 years ago, but grateful I can see it now. On point for sure.

I really needed the second section, thanks

Great helpful valuable information and speeches Thanks a bunch

I’ve recently started a new relationship with a woman I have immense feelings about. This clip is a nice compliment . Thank you 🙏🏼

Thank you very much Bobby. I’m a single father and I got many issues with women, hopefully I’ll get better with this content you are making and sometimes I understand what I did wrong to my dates. Now I’m dating with my girlfriend and she is amazing. Sometimes my emotions fly away and I’ll say something wrong!

Thank you for the reminder! Great informative video. You just earned another subscriber!

Bro your teachings are EXCELLENT

Thank you for putting this info into a video

Demonstrating sexual interest in a girl is THE KEY. The difficult part is THE HOW. (Ha! Ha!) Ken, Toronto, CANADA

Man I Started watching you back in 2016 when I was 23, spent my last couple dollars and signed up for you course. The door you help open in my thought process Will forever be appreciated 🙏🏾 I turned 30 in March And I can’t believe how accurate you were all the way back then cause I’ve blossomed Into a beast ✊🏾 Definitely help me for the better I’m glad you’re still doing this!! the knowledge you’ve been gathering over all this time is needed now more then EVER! All these fake coaches have popped over the years polluting the space. You were truly red pill before it became cringe. You definitely have an O.G Badge. And no homo or disrespect But bro you’re Glowing You even look better 😂😂😂 The years have been kind

This is so true 👍 thanks for explaining it so well

Bobby is a master at his craft. I don't how many men simp around these girls.

Hey Bobby, thank you what you're doing. After break up last Wednesday I feel your videos helps me to holding on 💪

Well, I enjoy that energy. Getting excited when you meet a girl. It’s fun to watch my friends get into character. When they are excited when a new girl comes around and you make that connection. Don’t suck the fun out of it. You’re making it way too regimental.

Lots of value in this video! Thank you!🤘

Well said, I'm gonna apply these all

Your videos are helpful… I’ve always been able to attract women, and exactly what you’re saying is exactly why I attract them. Then I get into a relationship and I try too hard when I should just be myself. It’s kind of a weird one now that she lives with me so some of things are a little tricky. Do you have any videos you recommend when you live with your partner? The thing is, when i do your principles, I get every girl attracted to me. When I actually love a girl, I drop my logic, act on emotions and sometimes in the past it would drive me to cheat to validate my own market value. Living with my partner complicates everything in terms of these key points and then learning from past mistakes and recognizing exactly what you’re taking about makes it like a very difficult situation to navigate. Appreciate your work. I recognize my faults, what you’re saying isn’t the first time I’m hearing it or recognizing it, but videos like this helps inventory my emotions and actions to handle situations better. Now that I’ve had the experience, I know to look for videos like this. Niche market, but very appreciated.

Amazing video. Great insights.

As a woman who has dated other women and have seen my nice guy brother’s girlfriends lose interest or respect…I agree with everything Bobby says.

Very educational. Thanks brother

Bobby is a genius! Lots of praise and applause 👏

I was taught some of these things really young… About 22 or so, had a first date with a very hot ex-model/dancer who was 36. She basically had to remind me to open doors for her and things of that nature. When I asked her where she wanted to go for dinner, she said "you're the man. Surprise me." And yes, just like most women, she thought she was too fat even though I thought she was quite fine.

I love all the advice! I can definitely try to implement these things again. So much work for these things! I don't even want a relationship at this point but I definitely want to learn how to be sexier to women. I don't think I have enough emotional stability or endurance to deal with someone needing me to look after their happiness 24/7 and "be in control" while not being too in control and letting her be free. Being dominant and making plans for things just to be shot down. That's probably the biggest thing. Why not have any ideas and then shoot down everything I say?

Love the video man

actually a helpful video after watching so many !!

The way you explain these Knowledge Gems-Simple and Palatable! After watching this video a FEW times, I realized, I was violating a few, and important, Core standards! Thank you for the Knowledge share; SUBSCRIBED!

Thanks!!!!! this is so good. and I think is not only for dating. This is normal respect for another people.

Damn I'm doing this and it has been working 💯 %. I noticed that it works with the women I'm not interested in or like so much. Woww this dose was

Outstanding information, thanks..

Great video. Good Clear explanation

Thank u so much 4 this video, u explain it perfectly

Thank you sir...love your explanation from Singapore

Bobby is a good teacher.

my new favorite channel

This is very informative. You are definitely the best dating coach.

Heya Barby how ya doin mate? another great video thanks, theres no flies on you Barb!

Great videos, homie.

71 years old and still learning. Really great stuff !

Thank you very informative information

Don't misunderstand, guys! ...be 'there', make her feel safe with you. But its not done by being a rock! Be responsive, understanding, steady, but stay human. Also you, you are allowed to be moved sometimes - so a/the woman can hold you and support you. And experience herself 'for' you.

Such good advice , thanks

i like this video! especially the "respect" part!

Solid stuff. Keep it up.

Bobby your the best! I’ve watched your videos since you started. You’ve really become very good at explaining Al these concepts. Thanks 🙏🏾

At the end of the day it comes down to compatibility. You can try to be something your not but eventually people will be who they really are. Find a woman that has genuine desire for you and be the best male version of yourself.

This is the real stuff. Thanks

Superb video 👌… bang on to the point

Watching old movies, you'll see how the men acted towards women. It was very masculine which compliments the feminine nature so well. A gentleman who is always in control of the situation including his emotions. A man amused by a womans distress over trivialities is also very effective, it shows you're immovable and confident and not afraid of losing her.

"EMOTIONAL QUICKSAND" ❤ i love this term😊

Wow! Very helpful content. I wish I knew this earlier.

I should have found this video sooner. Your way explain things is amazing. Thank Bobby Rio

Respect goes a long way

Thank you. Older guy and I learned a lot from this something I should have known.. kind of embarrassing something I should have known a long time ago but better late than never 👍👍

I've been following your work for 3 years ago. I've watching your videos from Angola-Africa. Thank you so much for your videos. Cheers!

Just a thought - with the stigma of men and "control", I think "take charge" really is a better way to describe it. Getting her drink refilled is taking charge. You can't control the environment. Too many variables that are always beyond you're control, but you CAN take charge of making sure her environment is as comfortable and enjoyable as possible.

Excellent lecture, thank you.

I think what a woman really likes is a man that has control of his emotions but also isn't afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with them. It shows a woman that a man is comfortable with them and able to be themselves and trust them, which is a huge attractive quality . You can be frustrated with something while on a date with them, but instead of being mopey, talk to them about it and how it's got you down . They'll wanna help you with it and be there for you but they will also appreciate you're communication and that they feel you trust them .

In general you talk sense and try to guide in a holistic manner , It's my second video which I watched and am subscribing to your channel.

Well said!!!

Bob Rio is the man.

You've actually got some good advice that checks out Kudos! The YT genre of attracting women is mostly redundant garbage that oversimplifies the psychology

This all can be boiled down to just one word: self-confidence.

Thanks Bobby :)

I have mastered all 5 Good Video!! And I've been Happily Married for 23 years this year 🎉.

This was so good 😮

thanks bobby you help me a lot, your student from Philippines

Thank Bobby!!!

Interesting and educative keep it up

I was born with 0 sex drive so I never went on a date or had a relationship, It used to bother me when I was younger man,but now I consider it a blessing since the stress and worry are non existent

Great video, helps a lot.

Spot on!

Great video

This is actually great advice. The prolbrem is if a women is doin all this garbage on the regular indefinitely she isn't worth your time and most today arnt and have very lil to offer this really don't matter on modern women ..... And the only way a man will act this sturdy 24-7 is if he flat out doesn't care about her. And is banging other chicks. Or he's a simp. That she steam rolls over. Men have emotions actually I'm a firm believer men develop feelings far faster and deeper then a women do. So by the time she does have a feelings his our prolly double what hers is. So why the hell would a guy put him self in that position. And put up with this garbage. When more often then not she will leave him anyway. For a dozen reasons. Because he reacted. Jealousy is a game. If a man is head over heels over a girl. The reaction isn't goin to be good. At best he will jus shut down and ignore her. It's not my job to be taking that kind of crap 24-7. If a women truly is into you. This should be very limited. ...the prolbrem is men should never react negatively..this isn't natural nor should be expected. All the time. I get reacting passively and calmly is good. But sometimes u have no choice....and in today's world ur attention means very lil. When she got 200 dudes a day given her attention and valadation on fb and Instagram etc ...this all goes down the drain. If they slept with 100 dudes sex goes out the window too...witch is the norm ...no dating coach today explains or mentions what modern women are. And what and have much it changed it jus the last 10 years. This advice would have been good like 20 -25 years ago....women are goin to like all these traits. But if her attention is on you. And she doesn't get time to think about you when your away. And instead is messaging other hot men. What do u think is gonna happen or how will anything progress. Il tell you it won't. The phone is a constant distraction. And you as a man. Need to narrow your choices of women down to a select few.

Thanks Bobby

So when she said you never take the garbage out and I said that's a lie, I took you out last week, that wasn't the proper thing to say? 🤔

Is "chasing" the best you can achieve? Actually, it is well known that all you need to do is stand there, and let the girls decide. My wife had been dumped by a two-timer, and had gone on a cruise to forget him. Not a very promising start, but from the moment we met, we were a recognised item. I was born with lifetime depression, and didn't want any girl to have to live with that, but I couldn't dissuade her. Between our eldest daughter and her then boyfriend, much the same thing happened. I always remember the girl who posted: "There are no boys in my town worth chasing."