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5 Questions to Never Ask a Man When Dating over 50

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Engaged at Any Age

Engaged at Any Age

Күн бұрын

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In this video, I identify 5 questions you should never ask a man you're dating if you're over 50.
Table of Contents:
01:13 - Question#1 - Do you notice anything different?
01:53 - Question#2 -- Do you think this outfit makes me look fat?
02:30 - Question#3 -- "So whatcha thinking?"
03:38 - Question#4 -- "Honey, is she prettier than me?"
04:29 - Question#5 -- "Honey what's wrong?"
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@SonjaElizabethTeal
@SonjaElizabethTeal 4 жыл бұрын
Most Women over fifty aren't going to ask a Man what they are thinking because we don't care! 😂😂😂😂
@MrColdsweat
@MrColdsweat 3 жыл бұрын
LMAO!!!
@flipped2bless886
@flipped2bless886 3 жыл бұрын
Precisely lol 😂
@edfrench6095
@edfrench6095 2 жыл бұрын
You didn't know?
@donaldfewell8908
@donaldfewell8908 2 жыл бұрын
Touche!
@anniealexander9616
@anniealexander9616 2 жыл бұрын
You got that right! 😉
@Darklordn0va
@Darklordn0va 3 жыл бұрын
What's your health insurance? Can you still get it up? Do you have any std's? What's your preferred fruit to throw? Do you have any brothers? Those are my top 5 questions to probably not ask during a date
@carriebrooks4174
@carriebrooks4174 2 жыл бұрын
What?!?! 2 and 3 are a must!!!
@michelles2299
@michelles2299 2 жыл бұрын
The one about std would be wise men are dirty creatures
@ssiegreen5292
@ssiegreen5292 Жыл бұрын
Hahahahaaaaa!!! #2+3 for sure... Maybe #5 if the answers are negative, LOL
@joeyshofner639
@joeyshofner639 5 жыл бұрын
Why over 50? You should never ask these questions regardless of age.
@Bb-jh9fo
@Bb-jh9fo 3 жыл бұрын
You should look at her channel name
@michelles2299
@michelles2299 2 жыл бұрын
Coz she is ageist
@MrWaterbugdesign
@MrWaterbugdesign 5 жыл бұрын
Oh please! I'm a 62 year old male and have heard all these questions many times by a fair number of women. Any guy with any brains learns the correct answers to these dumb questions by their late 20's.
@jackdeniston9326
@jackdeniston9326 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but the actual answer is f*** off
@davemoody4517
@davemoody4517 5 жыл бұрын
Could be 5 questions a woman shouldn’t ask at any age !
@leroybriscoe1076
@leroybriscoe1076 4 жыл бұрын
Ask me anything...be prepared for my honesty. Ask me no questions, I will tell you no lies
@peaceandhumanity5705
@peaceandhumanity5705 3 жыл бұрын
Hmmm, so you are a very honest and transparent person? If that's true then you have such a rare and beautiful personality...
@dave47663
@dave47663 5 жыл бұрын
#5. Ex-SO would ask me, "Are you okay?" When I was actually enjoying myself. What she was really saying was, "I hate that you're happy when I'm f'd up in the head so I'm projecting my insecurity and fear onto you!"
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 2 жыл бұрын
Really?!
@irenechoochoo3767
@irenechoochoo3767 5 жыл бұрын
1. Do u think i look any diff 2. Do this outfit makes me looks fat 3. Not ask question he is doing something he likes 4. Do u think she is prettier than me 5. Asking him wats wrong?
@tnwomantanyaneill703
@tnwomantanyaneill703 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@droneview8351
@droneview8351 5 жыл бұрын
Do you think this outfit makes me look fat? No, your outfit does not make you look fat, its the fat that makes you look fat...
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 4 жыл бұрын
lol
@jude4896
@jude4896 9 күн бұрын
Some men are not only ok with your body but can truly enjoy being with a hever woman! I've dated in my younger years a full spectrum of women. From skinny to fit to large. The larger have been more fun and affectionate.
@2150dalek
@2150dalek 4 жыл бұрын
1. What is your Net worth? 2. Do you own a Home? 3. Do you have a 401K or IRA? 4. What do you feel you have to offer me? 5. Why should i date you? 👀
@nemo7782
@nemo7782 4 жыл бұрын
Works vice versa. Definitely.
@bjhbroker
@bjhbroker 3 жыл бұрын
Great ideas
@sandralizondro1160
@sandralizondro1160 5 жыл бұрын
I Love being a Woman. I Love treating my Man Good. Learning what each other likes and dislikes is important. It's Time to rethink the relationship when you have to play silly games. We both Work and pay bills!! We both have good and bad days!!. Sometimes you find yourself in a stink mood for absolutely No reason at all it's called Life!!. I'll be Damn if I have to worry about what I can or cannot ask . I'm just saying!! Lolol
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 5 жыл бұрын
It's in the context of first dating...
@loverofbeautifulthings
@loverofbeautifulthings 5 жыл бұрын
This all sounds like what I consider "walking on eggshells" and typical of how you have to live with a narcissist. Makes me happy to be single after nine years of that stress and bs! Never again.
@freewifi7163
@freewifi7163 2 жыл бұрын
🤦🏾‍♂️
@michelles2299
@michelles2299 2 жыл бұрын
I agree men shouldn't need to be nursed
@laram5104
@laram5104 4 жыл бұрын
All questions listed are so really silly that i even cannot realize some lady could ask a guy such a question in any age not only after 50.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 4 жыл бұрын
As a Coach, there are never questions that are too silly. Many women that have not dated in years and even decades need help with the basics. So I make advanced videos and beginner videos.
@dannysinclair4756
@dannysinclair4756 3 жыл бұрын
Oh really
@deanwalter2854
@deanwalter2854 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Lara..
@Moonrise361
@Moonrise361 6 жыл бұрын
Well in my view, if a woman cannot ask her man what he would like to eat while he is watching a sports event, or he cannot be interrupted for a quick question, it seems to me either the man is rude and the impatient type, or he feels superior and thinks he is the one who can direct when is a good time to talk. If he arrives home and you cannot ask him how was his day, then he is a difficult person to be around. The woman had her day too and she can still talk. If a man loves his woman, cares for her and respects her, he will be happy to reply, at least in a cursory way (meaning short answer, if he is tired), without having to be rude or obonoxious about being disturbed. There are way of postponing longer discussions without sounding ticked off about it on the spot.
@jj-ey3ov
@jj-ey3ov 6 жыл бұрын
You missed the point completely. It is about putting into balance a woman's narcissistic need for attention with his need to let go of the ridiculous demands and expectations put on men. In a culture where men can do no right and women can do no wrong. Try using your vastly superior feminine emotional depth to look at someone else's needs instead of just your own.
@Moonrise361
@Moonrise361 6 жыл бұрын
Consideration towards each other is always a good thing. Once in while, having to be careful about those things, fine and good, but if it becomes a rule, I don't feel it is right. Turn the table around and pretend it is the woman arriving home or the woman watching her sport game or soap opera or mini series. Sure it is not a talking time, but to answer one question or two during the whole mini series does not seem the end of the world. And it can or should be easily addressed without being annoyed. The understanding could be that a detailed conversation would be postponed to later. But hey, in the end, what is important is what works for the two persons involved with each other. If there is an understand between the two and they feel ok in their understanding, then great! As long as one does not feel secretly hurt or frustrated internally.
@jj-ey3ov
@jj-ey3ov 6 жыл бұрын
True. Admittedly I do find men tend to waste too much of their lives on things like sports as well. I find looking at a persons values makes all the difference in relationships.
@diggarcia5190
@diggarcia5190 6 жыл бұрын
I think her point is pointless stuff that can wait like 15 minutes. It really is ok to wait a few minutes. And everything I read about when he comes home from work is just what she says. Just let him sit down a minute and unwind, I appreciate the same thing. I tried this with my last long term relationship. I would get him a drink, let him take off his shoes and just sit with him a few minutes. The questions of the day can wait. He really appreciated that.
@mrdilligaf1968
@mrdilligaf1968 5 жыл бұрын
If a woman asks what you do for a living , she is working out if your pay packet is capable of supporting the lifestyle she wants.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 4 жыл бұрын
mrdilligaf1968 I wouldn’t disagree.
@shawnmatthwws3759
@shawnmatthwws3759 Жыл бұрын
Excellent advice.
@Fergalicious49
@Fergalicious49 6 жыл бұрын
What if you see him visibly checking someone else out! Like staring and turning around to look? To me that is disrespectful. If I am with my man and I see a handsome man I will notice him but I will not stare. Staring is disrespectful in my opinion.
@diggarcia5190
@diggarcia5190 6 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@marcsorensen1184
@marcsorensen1184 6 жыл бұрын
Thats rude. Personally..if I am out with you, I want you to feel like the most beautiful woman in the room. If I am staring at some random woman, its obvious Im not feeling it with my partner.
@MrPolos64
@MrPolos64 5 жыл бұрын
I think that shows: he is more interested in somebody else; also shows he is not after your personality ...
@Kabaselefh
@Kabaselefh 5 жыл бұрын
Fergalicious49 keep your insecurities to yourself.
@Jennyshengm
@Jennyshengm 5 жыл бұрын
If its me I would make very obvious and tell him, “hummm honey look at that woman sooooo sexy! With my facial expressions like these emoji 😍😋 and my eyes looked so enjoyed by starring at that woman too. What’s more, I would continue tell him:” you should walk to her and ask her number “. Then before he realised and respond to me, I would walk away leave him shocked without turning my head back hahaha
@Makrania
@Makrania 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t mind, in fact quite like being asked about “something different” and other questions are ok, too.
@hughobrien4436
@hughobrien4436 3 жыл бұрын
I would say “what are you talking about?”
@motorcycleguy73
@motorcycleguy73 5 жыл бұрын
These aren't for men over 50 these are for any man. The questions you don't want to ask our do you want to have kids, do you want to get married, where's this relationship going.
@misamisa2677
@misamisa2677 6 жыл бұрын
Usually Narcissist are people who cannot be asked a question, just saying!!!✌🏼😉
@jwinchester1320
@jwinchester1320 4 жыл бұрын
Misa Misa mundane questions are annoying to any man narcissist or not. Ask a panel of 100 guys... if they’re being honest 100/100 are annoyed at mundane questions. Why is that? I have no clue it just is 😂
@frankdavis2327
@frankdavis2327 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@marius39671
@marius39671 4 жыл бұрын
why am i a 15 year old boy watching this video
@maureentepedino2059
@maureentepedino2059 3 жыл бұрын
You're awesome! Love your advice which always make sense!
@ballhawk387
@ballhawk387 2 жыл бұрын
#3 and #5 can be combine to this: Let a man stay in his flow/groove. Don't interrupt something he's doing, even if it's mindless, unless it's a genuine emergency that needs immediate attention. #1 Might ask that after you got a haircut. Harmless, but don't expect a serious response. #2 Don't be too surprised if he says: "sooo'eeeyy!", "whale on the beach!" or some such in an intentionally exaggerated way. #3 Not unless you're into the game, too. Then if it's about the game and sport, it can be *great.* #4 Like #2, really asking for trouble on this one, especially if the man is a wise-ass. He just might give a far more detailed answer than you asked for.
@stephenabm7779
@stephenabm7779 11 ай бұрын
I just came across your channel, and you make lots of sense with your advice, thoughts, and information regarding dating. I just subscribed. Thank you for providing this service.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 11 ай бұрын
I'm glad you resonated with my videos! Thanks!
@chriso4024
@chriso4024 2 жыл бұрын
I get mad when I’m interrupted during my sports and I’m a female.
@ricardomirabal6406
@ricardomirabal6406 3 жыл бұрын
It's sad that women really think that way , because a relationship is not based on those reasons she just gave is based on partnership and love and having fun together a woman will have to be involved in everything I do and everything we have it's ours not not mine or hers it's ours. Maybe it's because I'm Cuban born and raised in Miami since the 60s . American man's have a different concept than Latinos men. Would hate to have a wife that feels those things she just said, I would prefer to stay single.
@jj-ey3ov
@jj-ey3ov 6 жыл бұрын
This is actually decent advice for all ages.
@jwinchester1320
@jwinchester1320 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely good advice on the How was your day? and other mundane questions... it’s a really bad habit and can open up a can of worms... which is why it’s so annoying, most of the time the can of worms doesn’t need to be opened with proper time to process and relax thus avoiding the need to vent a bunch of negativity into the air unnecessarily... a better option would be to give a hug, smile and kiss “I hope you had a good day” and go about your business for awhile.
@johnballard6725
@johnballard6725 2 жыл бұрын
A very good suggestion !
@meenatchisundaram1273
@meenatchisundaram1273 4 жыл бұрын
We must identify carefully the good and bad persons that is why dating will be happy
@Snarge22
@Snarge22 3 жыл бұрын
I got sick of the question; "How are you feeling?" I started answering, "4". And then refused to elaborate. Many of these questions Engaged at Any Age lists are "S**t Tests" that women apply to men. And guys you need to fail them and stop trying to placate a woman's ego. For example, "Honey, do you think she's prettier than me?" You're response. "I'd F her." It's not a yes or no, and she'll hate your answer and steam about it. But you just let her know who's the Alfa in your relationship. Same for "Does this dress make me look fat?" Your response, "No, it's your fat makes you look fat." Guys, don't put up with s**t tests like this. You're the man, so be that man. If she can't handle it, then she's not worthy of you. More than likely she'll respect you for being the strong leader in your relationship.
@lisatietz9954
@lisatietz9954 5 жыл бұрын
Oh wow. What a waste of time this video is. I knew this at 20!
@AlanArmstrongAuctioneer
@AlanArmstrongAuctioneer 5 жыл бұрын
LOL, I've been asked all of these, everything was and is still fine.
@billsmith1965
@billsmith1965 5 жыл бұрын
The same "don't interrupt sports" would apply to those of us who play video games. I was happy to give my ex attention whenever, but it helped if she would not interrupt right in the middle of something where I was likely to die (in game) or let team members down. Or when in the middle of writing text, code or whatever. The creative inspiration is a pain to get dropped out of since it is not always there.
@lindaworkman4826
@lindaworkman4826 5 жыл бұрын
The gaming thing I didn't understand until I started playing some games myself. The interruption to creativity is probably the only thing worse than talking to me before I have a cup a coffee and a few minutes of peace and mental planning for the day.
@michelles2299
@michelles2299 2 жыл бұрын
Video games OMG grow up
@emomuzz5883
@emomuzz5883 4 жыл бұрын
What's the frequency, Kenneth?
@kennyzail6224
@kennyzail6224 3 жыл бұрын
The first 4 are all about HER and her insecurity. Run, unless you want to answer these questions for the rest of your life. The 5th and last question is okay if done well but be prepared to listen a long time. (Sometimes men want you to ask "What's wrong?")
@tucsonrazorbacks1053
@tucsonrazorbacks1053 5 жыл бұрын
My problem is that 40 plus women subtlety bring up memorable or concerned experiences from their past with their families or ex's and assume I can relate when I've never had either experience nor interest. Sometimes women become extremely solipsistic unaware that they're disconnecting from a prospective future partner before they've had a chance to start.
@catbootsy
@catbootsy 2 жыл бұрын
Solipsistic… great word and food for thought…
@michelles2299
@michelles2299 2 жыл бұрын
All men do this and its boring
@ralphwaters8905
@ralphwaters8905 3 жыл бұрын
The title of this video is misleading because all 5 questions are things you should perhaps not ask a husband or cohabitant. The questions you should not ask WHILE DATING over 50 are a bit different...
@guysview
@guysview 4 жыл бұрын
This woman reminds of of Rexella Van Impe. She even sounds like her.
@Funsoul8
@Funsoul8 6 жыл бұрын
Yes women sometimes think their talking to their girlfriends they don't even know that speaking to their man should be completely different from their GFriends....and any man who looks at , checks out other women when he's on a date with you has poor self ESTEME problems....and I would move on....xoxo
@1_Divinity_1
@1_Divinity_1 5 жыл бұрын
This breaks my heart.
@marvindanny2279
@marvindanny2279 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@breezyvibe
@breezyvibe 6 жыл бұрын
Really great video!!!
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks breezyvibe!
@davemoody4517
@davemoody4517 5 жыл бұрын
Teachers pet !
@dannysinclair4756
@dannysinclair4756 3 жыл бұрын
You have a different way of thinking and that gives an indication of affection thank you beautiful lady with a beautiful heart
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 4 жыл бұрын
Very good and very correct. 2 things; Televised sporting contests of any sort are absolutely riddled with commercials. You only have to wait a few moments to get the break to make your inquiry and not cause any angst. When a man comes home from work, just say hello and give a kiss/hug and let him be for about a half hour before you go into whatever it is that women think is so important they have to hammer their man the moment he comes in the door. Married, LTR, or other, this one is universally true. Lay off for a while. You'll get a much better response too.
@larryhenson7213
@larryhenson7213 6 жыл бұрын
These are some great questions never to ask your mate, unfortunately, many of your followers are going to take this recommendation the wrong way. Unless you're in the court of law, it is said never ask a question you already know the answer to. All of these questions either have to do with baiting him which may lead to an argument or timing which could be brought up at a better time as you said.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for commenting Larry but I disagree with your assessment.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
Sorry, you feel this way Susan and no you don't need to walk on eggshells in order to be in a relationship with a man. You both need to be respectful of each other's needs and feelings. This video expresses one point but in no way am I inferring that women are inferior.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 6 жыл бұрын
It's all about timing and knowing the person you are dating. These are suggestions, not the holy grail. Take it with a grain of salt. Some women need the basics. Thanks for you comment.
@christinemadrazo6755
@christinemadrazo6755 6 жыл бұрын
Brava Jaki, brava!! Thanks for sharing.
@zinab.3251
@zinab.3251 6 жыл бұрын
Heck, I don't like to be asked questions in the middle of sports..😛..namely football and I'm female!
@Sarah-es2qf
@Sarah-es2qf 4 жыл бұрын
Such common sense questions. But then again....lol!
@dannysinclair4756
@dannysinclair4756 3 жыл бұрын
Lol Sarah
@johndglynn
@johndglynn 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent ☘️
@jamesthor5104
@jamesthor5104 3 жыл бұрын
All fact. If you’re a woman over 50 years old you should know this. Expanding on the sports analogy, don’t ask him any questions when he’s concentrating on anything. Anything. And yes we do notice the weight gain. We are just not allowed to say anything about it.
@johnballard6725
@johnballard6725 2 жыл бұрын
Why are we men so obsessed with weight gain ?!
@billsmith1965
@billsmith1965 5 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't mind (as much at least" if a woman asked how my day was if she had already shown some interest in my field, what I do, etc. Asking that with no idea is not helpful. Though I would tend to agree that letting him decide what he wants to share is a better approach, though it would probably be good for men to find another outlet to do any complaining.
@mikebanks4935
@mikebanks4935 4 жыл бұрын
Tell your audience to not ask a man about money on the first date.
@alanf403
@alanf403 3 жыл бұрын
Seems the unwritten rules about $ no longer apply. I’ve been asked very early in the dating pathway about my finances. Sometimes feel like I need to pull out the phone ( which I put away while on a date ) so I can show her my portfolio summary. Not just gold-diggers either, they all want to know about the Benjamin’s!
@earthlycolorbrown6246
@earthlycolorbrown6246 2 жыл бұрын
@@alanf403 .
@edfrench6095
@edfrench6095 2 жыл бұрын
Did I just get sucked into alternate universe? These questions are way to loaded, no right answer to any of them. Just got a cooled chill of these questions coming back to haunt me at a later date in an argument. Yepper she is definitely from an alternate universe. She is beautiful, I'll giver her that. She's not really wrong, but men have come to expect some kind of manipulation on the women part.
@misamisa2677
@misamisa2677 6 жыл бұрын
All people should accept each other as they are, you are either in or out. If you feel bothered by a question so sorry. The most important part of meeting someone is to be compatible and that includes being different and accepted as you are. Love is not remembering valentines day and getting flowers or chocolates not everyone likes them!! Love is to be UNconditional!!! Once that is achieved there will be mutual respect, understanding, loving, generosity from both sides, snd the list goes on. Yes knowing your partner is important to be able to co live in harmony, just a little goes a long way. Most important Be Yourself!!! Everyone is good looking to someone, is just wanting to feel good no matter how you are, its not the clothes that make you its You how you carry yourself. Men and women love a confident partner!!!
@zenepseville6823
@zenepseville6823 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@dannysinclair4756
@dannysinclair4756 3 жыл бұрын
You have a different way of thinking and that gives an indication of affection thank you beautiful lady with a beautiful heart
@frankdavis2327
@frankdavis2327 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@samkline7705
@samkline7705 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on ma'am, unfortunately, most women today don't think like you do.
@jude4896
@jude4896 9 күн бұрын
What about 50+ with medical issues. I desire snuggling, cuddling, fondled, grope, and intamancy. Don't want pitty or sorry partner. Compassion and kindness with intamancy. Is there something wrong? Could have roll play. From a partner. Am I something off spectrum or is this normal?
@jomo8209
@jomo8209 Жыл бұрын
Ask her how much she weighs, what meds she’s on, body count, how much money she has, why her previous relationships failed. Good luck.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge Жыл бұрын
yeah, you'll need it if you ask those questions!
@less_concerned1221
@less_concerned1221 4 жыл бұрын
So in other words, women shouldn’t act insecure and needy when dating. Wait until you marry him! Lol
@maureen1234mc
@maureen1234mc 2 жыл бұрын
Omg, I would NEVER ask any of those questions! Some are actually soooo silly, insecure and stupid! 🙄😶
@nemo7782
@nemo7782 4 жыл бұрын
These five questions should never be asked of a woman either. It applies to both sexes. Not one or the other. :)
@sonatablue5437
@sonatablue5437 2 жыл бұрын
After he get home from work.....Tell him your glad hes home, give him a hug/kiss hello,hand him a beer if he drinks and leave him be for at least 30 minutes. Unless he asks you to join him.
@larryboysen5911
@larryboysen5911 5 жыл бұрын
Not with this guy...sports are dull and corporate!
@63Baggies
@63Baggies 3 жыл бұрын
I'm also getting sick of the tattooed prima donnas with flashy cleats who celebrate a block on 3rd and 22...
@sharhful
@sharhful 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Jacki, can you make a video about how much a woman should contribute to a relationship financially? Thanks 🙏
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 3 жыл бұрын
Great suggestion! Please join and post it in our Engaged at Any Age Ladies Club Facebook group! Join the conversation there and join my weekly live coaching calls to get your questions answered. Go here to join: facebook.com/groups/engagedatanyageladiesclub
@michelles2299
@michelles2299 2 жыл бұрын
Not a question you should need to ask you sound mean big turn off
@GlasUndMetall
@GlasUndMetall 4 жыл бұрын
I'm married to a sports nut. If you can't ask your man anything until halftime then I feel sorry for you, honestly. I talk to my husband during the game sometimes, just like he talks to me when I'm in the middle of glassblowing which is my fem thing I do (because if we are going to gender sports as male why not gender everything? /endsarcasm). Is this really a representation of what women do dating now? Good grief Martha, get some self-love and self-respect and know you are a queen and a goddess. If the man you are dating sees you as less than that? Thank u, next!
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 4 жыл бұрын
Good grief! Just a rule of thumb. I do talk to my husband but honestly, I know he's so focused on the game (good one last night) that he's only halfway listening! Take a breath. It's all good. I'm teaching a 10,000' foot view and making general statements for the whole, do what works best for you for sure. I used to glass blow. I sure miss that. Good for you!
@BillyT531
@BillyT531 3 жыл бұрын
1.) Do you have a six figure income? 2.) Are you at least six feet tall? 3.) Do you have 6 pack abs? 4.) Are you packing more than 6 inches? "The rules of 6". P.S. How come you don't make more money? And yes, you look fat in that dress.
@cconnelly1085
@cconnelly1085 5 жыл бұрын
Why do men over 50 disappear after a couple of dates if you won't sleep with him?
@mrdilligaf1968
@mrdilligaf1968 5 жыл бұрын
Wow ! Really ? If someone disappears after only 2 dates because it was too soon to have sex with them , then it's good they did leave because that's all they wanted out of a so called relationship. In the past I've refused to have sex with a woman purely because i don't know her well enough yet.
@gracedalit3092
@gracedalit3092 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe they feel as if there getting older everyday and that they want a spark right on the bedroom.But real men will tell you.Not disappear
@richardgray115
@richardgray115 5 жыл бұрын
A good question with an extremely easy answer. I don't want to be correct in this but unfortunately I am. Nowadays, "getting sex" is extremely easy. So If a person is with a partner who is holding back, and he is a horny guy like most are, why would he hang around when he can get that elsewhere??. And he doesn't come back because he feels bad about what he has done, doesn't want to cheat on you so just leaves you. Moves to someone who does have sex early on. Also if a woman doesn't want to have sex it could also mean that her sex drive is low, and that could spell disaster later on. So he leaves before he gets in too deep, or not deep enough, as the case may be ......
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 5 жыл бұрын
@@richardgray115 I agree. Thanks!
@tucsonrazorbacks1053
@tucsonrazorbacks1053 5 жыл бұрын
The same reason a hot 22 year old Chad won't in relation to a 20 year old Stacy. Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. Men know this (all ages). Re-evaluate your priorities and try for a beta effeminate metrosexual.
@mariaa.5829
@mariaa.5829 5 жыл бұрын
Wait for halftime.
@dannysinclair4756
@dannysinclair4756 3 жыл бұрын
You have a different way of thinking and that gives an indication of affection thank you beautiful lady with a beautiful heart
@robinbrl
@robinbrl 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Very helpful video. I just wish that I could find someone. I am 55 now and I am scared that I will never find anyone and be alone for the rest of my life. I am just too ugly and don't feel very worthy. Oh well. Everything you say in this video, makes sense. I am not sure what to do now. Also, I think many men are attractive. However, that does not mean that I am in love with them all, so that should not be a problem.
@x35mmman
@x35mmman 6 жыл бұрын
I am 63 and I feel I won't find anyone either.
@sandralizondro1160
@sandralizondro1160 5 жыл бұрын
robinbrl. You are NOT UGLY!!! I clicked on your page after I read you saying that you are just too ugly. Listen there is someone for all of us. If you haven't found anyone yet, maybe change where you're frequenting. Step out of your comfort zone. Treat yourself to a makeover if you're feeling stuck. ❤
@dannysinclair4756
@dannysinclair4756 3 жыл бұрын
You have a different way of thinking and that gives an indication of affection thank you beautiful lady with a beautiful heart
@frankdavis2327
@frankdavis2327 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@nmartin5551
@nmartin5551 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry. Do any women anywhere ask this crap? The first 4 are so crazy superficial. This sounds like stuff from somebody’s stand up routine about his horrible wife.
@gabrielamartinyuk9894
@gabrielamartinyuk9894 3 жыл бұрын
How come I’ve never even thought to ask a man what he’s thinking? That sounds very insecure- I’ve never wondered what a man was thinking.... but I hear this so much in the dating world that women ask this . It’s absolutely just odd to ask a man that, instead Of enjoying the man. Hm. Asking a man if she looks fat. Wow! Get on a healthy meal plan and excersize if you feel fat. 😀 Is she prettier than me? Why would a woman ask that? I can’t believe these things. Smile and be in the moment with him and have his attention on you!
@alexanderlapp5048
@alexanderlapp5048 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I don't want my private thoughts to be invaded by other people. Sometimes I just want to sit and think about something complex without being interrupted. My thoughts are some of the few things I can actually call my own, I don't always want to share them. "If I wanted you to know what I was thinking, I would be talking" -Al Bundy
@watchmanonthewall14
@watchmanonthewall14 2 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderlapp5048 Most women do not comprehend that most men have periods of time during day when we are thinking of ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. We are vegging.
@chriscunicelli7070
@chriscunicelli7070 4 жыл бұрын
You know men well.
@galefrost7404
@galefrost7404 5 жыл бұрын
Omgosh, what is wrong with some women. You hardly know the guy, how self centered are some women? Duh, really. Some people are so self absorbed. Sad. No wonder men get frustrated. It's not all about you give him space and time to connect.
@dannysinclair4756
@dannysinclair4756 3 жыл бұрын
You have a different way of thinking and that gives an indication of affection thank you beautiful lady with a beautiful heart
@gedeonserbinov362
@gedeonserbinov362 3 жыл бұрын
What is Badofintao Secrets? Does it work? I hear most people become badass with women with this popular dating manual.
@SouthernBelle888
@SouthernBelle888 2 жыл бұрын
#4 only women with low self esteem or self worth will ask this kind of question. 5# probably works for people with regular jobs, but not if you are married to or dating a US Soldier, who brings work home, and soonest he comes home and the phone rings, cause one of his lower enlisted Soldiers acted crazy or got in trouble, usually he will rant soonest he walked in the door, that he had such a horrible day, adult babysitting a bunch of wussies and winers, who are getting their feelings hurt, without common sense..... especially if it is your Soulmate or Twinflame, I can just sensor that something is wrong, and before he says hi honey, he is already venting about his day.....
@jacksonlevon9882
@jacksonlevon9882 Жыл бұрын
Hello Miss , how're you doing today,.?
@SouthernBelle888
@SouthernBelle888 Жыл бұрын
@@jacksonlevon9882 doing awesome, enjoying the nice weather on the patio with my soulmate
@jacksonlevon9882
@jacksonlevon9882 Жыл бұрын
@@SouthernBelle888 that's cool , I'm doing quite good today by the grace of God, thanks. Where are you from Miss ..?
@SouthernBelle888
@SouthernBelle888 Жыл бұрын
@@jacksonlevon9882 Hot Coffee, MS
@jacksonlevon9882
@jacksonlevon9882 Жыл бұрын
@@SouthernBelle888 oh that's cool I'm from Boston Massachusetts. So how's your City handling the pandemic?
@mnop1774
@mnop1774 3 жыл бұрын
I mean no offense, but all of this makes me cringe.
@lindaellen808
@lindaellen808 5 жыл бұрын
All common sense.
@dannysinclair4756
@dannysinclair4756 3 жыл бұрын
You have a different way of thinking and that gives an indication of affection thank you beautiful lady with a beautiful heart
@brad8868
@brad8868 4 жыл бұрын
You wear too much lipstick.
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree. Not a good look!! oh, well. I threw out those lip stains. I thought it was a good idea at the time but I can see that I look a bit like a clown! lol
@Cassie-t1i
@Cassie-t1i 3 жыл бұрын
@@EngagedAtAnyAge no you don't not at all, I think it really suits your beautiful and cheeky smile
@ggphe
@ggphe 3 жыл бұрын
Jesus. This is like the housewives guide of 1956. No thanks !
@EngagedAtAnyAge
@EngagedAtAnyAge 3 жыл бұрын
Lol! That’s so funny
@michelles2299
@michelles2299 2 жыл бұрын
Reverse psychology if you want to get rid of them do all these things, on the whole men are sneaky and needy
@liamitchell2534
@liamitchell2534 5 жыл бұрын
Very submissive woman!!!!!
@NatureSouldierSC
@NatureSouldierSC 6 жыл бұрын
Omg what a load of bull crap Hey all get some self worth so No One needs this type of advice. Self love cures all. Sports? Half time? Am I fat? Men have 60% more testosterone, First thing any woman should know and remember. I'll ask whatever question I want at any given time and I get a respectful reply. ? ? ? Does this video cater to cowards? What does this video really mean? Omg the more I hear you the more confused I Am and so I've added you to all prayer group's I know of sending you much love and light.
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