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Hi I want to understand the many mistake and damage i had done ...how I could have handled correctly when my gf is Controlling 1) She wanted me to Put Profile Picture....i did but after a fight I removed the photo 2) She wanted me to Turn ON my text Notification so that she can see me "Online" and "Read" and after the fight I also Turn off all Last Seen , she was feeling I dont love her anymore Should I turn On my text Last Seen and also my Profile Picture so that she can see me Online ? My gf i guess was building up Resentment when I totally remove my profile picture and ...I think she feel I dont love her anymore by doing the opposite ...and I also Turn Off my Text Last Seen... totally Not doing What she wanted....I dont want her to think she can Control me and break up with me ... Did I feel wrongly that she is Controlling me by insisting I do what she said ? By letting her do what she wanted in the gym talking to guys...I was thinking she having the power which I stop her by doing opposite How could I have handle regarding my profile picture which she like me to have but now is empty and she cant see if I am Online I lost my direction How to love her because I am afraid to show Too much love ...I am confuse should I listen to her or say NO Any positive action beside walking away , removing attention and giving her No Benefit teaching her a lesson I so regret it has been Day 7 No contact..is letting her go and do what she wants is Love or should I fight for her to give her love story...?

@@fj4731 what she did is violating your personal boundaries. It is your right to determine whether you should have a pic or last seen info on in the messenger. If she doesn't like it it is her problem. Don't be a weak man who's giving her all she wants by sacrificing your own identity. She ignores you to try to break you. You should be ready to break up any minute and find someone who's a better fit for you. And obviously its not worth spending your life on fights about profile picture. This is meaningless.

You did a mistake at first by putting her pic on your profile, so now insist on your decision she either stays with you or leaves. Lastly never do the same mistake even your wife can’t rule your personal spaces, it’s you who decides if you wish to bring your loved ones to social media or not.

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@@gerrelloxendine2355 TRUE! THAT , if NOT you'll have a hard way too go, and a short time getting there ! 😩 ? 😂

Damn chill sigma.

Unless....She has a ton of money and you can go to gym, play video games and just be you the whole day until she gets home, you do her twice or thrice and your over with that.

@@raydiabolico I doubt you have any girl in your life. Coz these kind of girls would not exist and should not exist.

Don't expect them to. Just keep doing you and vent to your boys. Cus only they understand

Good luck on your quest too success. 🤣

Caring is sharing. 💕👍🏻

Bro I don't care that bitch gon leave me or not when I get home we gon make it start clapping

& roma army

The Lions Den. China White

Ikr

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Nailed it. 👍

Don’t get hurt? What bullshit is this? Of course we get hurt. Men are human. I’m not suppressing the way I feel for no one. It’ll be my choice whether I show her my pain. If I know she won’t respect it, she ain’t seeing no hurt from me. That kind of girl who doesn’t respect a hurt man are called “hit & quit”.

Exactly right!......

Sounds good but this is Nothing I would invest into though when it comes to pursuing marriage. Extremely unstable beings to build with .

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My ex used to test me, she probably left me because she thought i was needy since i failed her tests. But actually I don't want to waste energy, I'm too busy and my time is too precious for this bs. I didn't want to argue with her this is why I failed her "tests". But she and many other women are too immature to understand this.

lol fax leave a female weaeva she came from

That's because your smart,and awakened .

Right but stay red pilled. Don't go purple pill you will regret it

@@djwilson7200 neverrrrrr lol, unless she passes the screening process which is hard and long no pun intended lol

@@djwilson7200 Whats wrong with being Purple Pilled?????

True! 💯

I love her way of she gives me

Hey Melli, I have only 1 question. Where The Fuck Have You Been All This Time, Being all out of my life and shit. Your like a sister to me lol.{whispering} love you more than a sister though 🤫😂. Wait how short are you, because you tek long fi reach Inna mi life my girl😂 anyhow Heart a Love For You, God Dyam.

Melli is the best

That tiktoker girl that talks about girls and men problems talks shit that I hate her stupid fans being brain washed and saying the same sh that u just told this girl but this girl 100

My fantasy

The Promised Land..😂😂🤣

Chika? You be igbo?

Man she making money off you watching her videos them nuccas learning game from a woman is stupid when she running game by you watching her videos she pimping you dummy..

Well said.

Same here bro, any man who is good with girls has all been through this and had their eyes opened. Stay strong bro, girls like that shit #100

Same shit happened with me

Same, it's kinda sad. Women more attracted to Game than honesty and being genuine

Same lmao

Women back in the day weren't this bad lol

she earned two

She has earned my respect too. S/o to the women who understand men have it harder.

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She's sitting here explaining how to win their stupid games. Drop her at the arcade and find a new girl lmao

@@SWRVMEDIA drop her at the arcade... that should be a new anthem 😄

Exactly. Point number 4 sounds so tiring. Imagine having to check a dumb chick everyday just to make the relationship work. After a while I’d be like f this, I’m moving on, not worth it.

Dude I swear to you foreign girls have done the same included smh

@@kidsomagnificent Not on the level of American women, because in other cultures men still crack heads (and it’s in the culture for women to not cross certain boundaries). American women are the most masculinized women on the planet (ironically it’s called Feminism).

I was too and sometimes still am. I started ubering and met tons of people from all walks of life and forced myself to talk to people. I got better tips if my conversation was interesting. I also manage people at work both of these require public speaking which have helped tremendously. My point is forcing yourself out of your comfort zone helps so much

Fact! Had one buzzing me with calls just yesterday. We hadn't spoken in over a month. To round it up, she came around today apologizing & all that. Rest is history 🙃

@@DejiTalker nice job

Same. She tried to text me 2 days later. She however lost my attention after that and therefore lost her opportunity. Oh well, more opportunities for other women 😁

As a woman, we need to stop playing games. At some point we gotta grow up, damn

You didn't have a failed relationship, you just had a learning lesson. Stay sharp 💯

Realist shit I seen today…. I mean it’s only 10am but still

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I mean you are where you are because of your old beliefs. You clicked on this video because u probably don’t fully understand women in a way. Just listen to what she says apply them and see if they work.

It's not about old beliefs bro, if she not the one, she not the one. Why go through all this bullshit when you can just be normal people and relate?

dude aint no one said nothing about making it work with someone not meant for u. That’s retarded asf