Thanks a lot for talking about bad habits. Sometimes I'm just confused - no I won't spend money I don't have. Staying in my financial lane and owning less lolita items than I'd like to is a good thing. Yes I'm sad about missed opportunities but such is life. I hope you're okay with feedback of that kind. I really liked the background music you picked, it was just a tiny bit too loud for me? English is not my first language and I have to focus to get everything, sometimes music can get in the way. Not to tell you how to run your channel, just my perspective.

I've been nodding a lot during the negative part, some very universal sentiments there. And big, big agree on your bonus 6th thing you love about lolita! The variety within lolita fashion is so exciting, not many alt fashions that I know of can boast such a diversity of looks whilst still belonging to the same core community (goth is the only one that comes to mind). Seeing where individuals take their looks is inspiring, both in the "yay, pretty things, let me wear mine" way and the "ooh, I hadn't thought of that, I learnt something new" way.

Loved this video so much and I agree with everything you said LOL. I love blouses too and it's nice to hear you appreciate them so much 💞 Also strong yes to bad habits point. I've struggled with shopping addiction in the past and I think more lolitas have spending problems than they're willing to admit. Would be nice to have more conversations about this in the comm.

Meta is the best brand for inclusively. They were the first japanese brand to have plus sizes and ship over seas.

What a great video!! I enjoyed your points about both positives and negatives. I agree about the joyful aspects of lolita, I truly feel like my best self in lolita and I'm able to show myself how I truly am on the inside! I too grew up as a tomboy with internalized misogyny, hated girly things because I thought they were "weak" or "less than", and since childhood I've known I'm bisexual- so this all caused a lot of confusion in me and I truly believed I wasn't "pretty" or "delicate" enough to be girly just because of my personality, yet thankfully I quickly unglued myself from the "not like other girls" mindset- and I hate the recent uprising of these young people and even kids recycling this negativity. I'm sure they're going through the same phase of trying to find themselves, but there is so much negative chatter, bullying, etc within alt fashion communities and lolita unfortunately, that it's certainly best to call out that behavior with logic and understanding. I feel like everyone's trying to be "The Best" and "Most Famous" online and it shows a lot of self conscious behavior being projected, whether that person is younger or older- that's why it's so refreshing to see someone like YOU! with such a gentle energy and chill vibe where you aren't afraid to just be yourself and talk about what you enjoy, either positive or negative in turn. :) That's what lolita fashion is all about for me! Just being yourself and having a great time (and looking mega cute while you're at it

I learned so much about Lolita fashion 💙💙💙 thank you for putting this up together

As a non-lolita guest who is here just to listen and learn I really can't comment on the majority of what was discussed. Also don't see worth in providing what I like and don't like about it since it's just tossing out an outside random opinion. I'll just say that 1 thing I like about having decided to watch your library is that I came here looking for a deeper dive from someone who is genuinely interested in talking and expressing what it's about and you've definitely delivered. 1 thing I haven't liked so far is I'm about 10 videos or so in and you use a LOT of abbreviations and insider terms that bounce off of me. Kind of waiting for the "beginners" or "explainer" video.. hope there's one. Liked!

do you have a pinterest ?

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