Who has ended their friendship before?

Sometimes, you dont lose a friend at all. A secret hater is just gone. You dont lose a friend when that person was never your friend to begin with.

It's really rough when you don't just lose one friend, but an entire group by default.

It's better to lose a friend, than to lose yourself. Sometimes, a friend wants to fix you according to his/her idea, when you yourself feel that there is nothing wrong with you.

These posts are getting personal omg

0:15 It's Okay to Grieve the Loss and Accept Your Emotions 0:55 Letting Go Of Resentment Will Help You 1:55 This is a Time for Reflection and Learning 3:03 No one Can Look After You Like You 3:50 You Are Capable of Moving On

I’ve lost very dear friends lately, this makes me feel a little better :) thank you!

I just ended a friend ship with someone. She was always stressing me out with her actions. I finally just lost it and said enough is enough. She actually reminded me of an ex boyfriend with the way she acted. Had to walk away for my sanity.

I'm lucky to have never experienced a "friend breakup". Mostly I've just kinda drifted out of peoples' orbits due to moving away, changing interests, our own lives leaving us little time to hang out, etc. But the silver lining there is that you don't truly stop being friends. if nothing else, you can always laugh and reminisce about old times when your paths do cross

People don't want to lose, they always want the best for themselves.

I just stopped talking to my closest friend a week ago. At first, things were great between us. We just clicked and did a lot of fun stuff together. But one day, I had a feeling that they were gradually pulling away from me. I was always ready to make an effort, but they wouldn't reciprocate anymore. There's nothing really I could do about that. When I mentioned any inconvenience that hurt me, I always got disrespected in return. But I took all of that in, just because I wanted to be a good friend. To protect my mental health, I had to do it, end it. I wish them the best in their life but I'll never speak to them again.

I’ve lost friends this past couple of months and now I’m learning to move on and I’ve met new people too

I lost a best friend due to “growing apart” so it wasn’t on bad terms. I’m convinced it’s because she didn’t know how to say she didn’t want to be friends anymore & let the passage of time along with un-replied texts do the talking for her. It is immensely heartbreaking as we were so close that I valued her as a sister, apparently she didn’t feel the same in the end. When a friendship is that deep moving on is absolutely harder than people tell you it is. It’s not a break up in your 20s, it’s deeper than that. She was really the only person along with my partner that could really open up and be vulnerable with on a level I don’t show anybody else. I feel like I’m never gonna find another best friend or a friend at all as being open and vulnerable takes time and trust for me which doesn’t bode well as Finding a friend is an adult is never a walk in the park due to us having more responsibilities & priorities, and people these days are more often about prioritizing themselves than relationships. Hanging out with someone and never talking to them anymore happens a lot faster. You’re either friends with someone far older than you or someone much younger and one of the two always has to have kids of which I can’t relate. I’m not saying I won’t find another friend, I hang around a lot of people, but there was a click in me when I first talked to her and I never felt that click with anyone else ever after that. Unless that rare feeling happens again every “friend” I make is just gonna be “A person I get along fine with” but never an actual friend.

I'll admit I tend to drop people and isolate very often when my mental state gets bad. Some people I can come back to after a few months without them acting like I hurt them for disappearing. They know me well enough to know if I leave, I need space. I'm not a good person, and I have a hard time maintaining friendships. So even when I'm not just ghosting people for months because of a bout of severe depression, people get sick of me. I don't blame them. I just don't let myself get too close, so when they do leave, it doesn't bother me as much. Sure, it's lonely. Cripplingly so, but I have my cat, and I have books and movies, so I'm not just left with my thoughts when I'm not working.

I’m going through a pretty bad breakup and she was my best friend, so this video had perfect timing. Thank you 🙏🏽

My friend from 9th grade just broke our friendship yesterday😢 it really hurts so thank u very much for this, it really helped me out🥹✨God bless u all✨

1. It's okay to grieve the loss and accept your emotions 0:16 2. Letting go of resentment will help you 0:55 3. This is a time for reflection and learning 1:55 4. No one can look after you like you 3:03 5. You are capable of moving on 3:50

For anyone who reads this- I also had a "friend breakup" last year, and it's been a rough time, but I'm starting to get out of it and find genuine new friends. You will find friends. Life will go on. The hard times will pass. You will look back at how broken you felt, and be proud of yourself, as you totally deserve to. You will be happy again❤

I lost almost all those I considered friends due to ideology butting in. Instead of being understanding, they were toxic.

I'd rather my friendships have an abrupt end then slowly drifting apart and becoming strangers to each other

omfg I'm actually ending my friendship with my boy bestfriend rn. I needed this.

I’ve learned that no matter how hard I try, I just can’t keep friendships. People’s lives do change though. I grew tired of being hurt all the time and the best remedy for me is to just make myself as unavailable as possible to others. I’ll still be cordial and say hi 👋 and bye 👋. But I won’t invest anything anymore in anyone. At work I just go in, do my shift and get out. I wave 👋 to my neighbours and I just live my life. I realize I don’t really need friends. You have to look after yourself caz nobody else will. You really do have to live for yourself. I just learn to make loneliness work for me.

Friends come & go... Its only natural that we lose them

My favorite friend I’ve ever had died 2 years ago and I just found out. We fell out a while ago but I’ve always missed him. This has been devastating so I’m thankful for the timing of this video.

I’ve never have had lasting friendships in my life. Luckily, I’m married & my husband & I will stay best friends & soul mates forever!

This was definitely needed a year ago. Sort of. Its more for my two friends breaking up and splitting our trio. The way they broke it off, felt like two parents divorcing, where i get word from one of them, that they wont be best friends anymore. Nothing ever gets said for those in the middle who have to watch and cant do anything to stop it or fix it. Even one of my best friends whos a bro to me told me there was nothing i could do to fix it. So im left there with feelings of resentment and almost like im just forced to move on, cuz everyone else did. Best i had was my bro and our dnd group. What he meant was how it seemed they were settled on splitting

It is so great to hear a self-help KZfaq with human voice.

Yapping about my ex bestfriend: My ex best friend ghosted me, and I didn’t even notice anything different until soon before when she stopped responding as much or really dryly. I have no clue why she ghosted me. And then she's apparently now besties with one of my least favorite, which I told her why I disliked, and she also often said she disliked too. I honestly might've preferred her just yelling at me or something, because I stressed for months about keeping my friendships, especially with her, because I was leaving the school, and basically everyone I knew was going somewhere else, but I also have social anxiety, which made it ten times worse. I don’t know what reasons she would’ve ghosted me especially so out of the blue. I think I was a pretty good best friend to her, obviously I had some faults, but I genuinely think that I'm a good friend in general. Heck, the last time I saw her in person, she brought me multiple souvenirs from Japan. I thought that everything was fine, and we had a great time, or at least I did. I can't figure out what I did wrong and what I need to improve about myself if she doesn’t tell me. After a lot of thinking (unfortunately I have a horrible memory) I realized that she had a lot of faults as a friend and person in general. She has gone through a lot, so it's partially understandable, but I've realized how much she and some others have hurt me without me having realized before. I have mostly moved on, and honestly, don't think about her all too often anymore, usually only every 2 weeks or so, sometimes less. Its been about 9 months since I gave up on trying to get her to give me a genuine response or a response at all, and I've healed a lot, though it obviously still bothers me. I wish she would've just talked to me and explained stuff, maybe we could've even worked it out. Although, looking back, I'm kind of glad that she ended our friendship, though obviously not the way she did it. She was sometimes a negative influence or made fun of some of my interests that I was already insecure about (from previous experiences) and rarely praised me (she did sometimes, though) among other things. I still harbor resentment, unfortunately, but I'm a lot less angry and sad about it than I used to be, so I'm getting there. I honestly feel bad for her, but she's kind of a dick now. Obviously from ghosting me (and most of our old friend group), but also for becoming besties with aforementioned rude girl and being rude together. I haven't talked to her since we stoped being friends (obviously), but from trusted friends (part of old friend group) I'veheard bad things. She's pretty rude now and kinda acts like one of the popular girls, whom she used to claim to hate. I don't understand why she suddenly changed so much and without talking to me at all. I want to say I wish her well, but part of me hates her for hurting me so much, and I know I'll eventually be able to say that completely truthfully, but not yet. I'm still healing. She was my first bestfriend and one of my first deep friendships. I didn’t know what was the minimum was yet. Dispite what I've said, I do hope that she's okay. I still care about her despite everything, and while I do still resent her, I hope she's okay. She's been through a lot, and while she didn't vent to me often (neither of us did), I know that she's delt with and is dealing with a lot of shit. So no, actually, I take it back, I hope that's she doing well as a better person away from her new "bestie". I hope that she grows as I have and more. I wonder what she's been up too. I still have her number, but there's no way I'm going to text her, even if I did, I doubt that she'd respond anyway, lol. That was a lot, lol. Thanks for this. I needed to be reminded of a lot of this, especially about resentment. I will keep this in mind. :) EDIT: I texted her about a month ago, and she actually ended up responding. We had a discussion, and she apologized, although we haven't talked since, and I don't particularly want to. Decent ending, I suppose.

Losing my best friends all at once was the most painful experience of my life. I was trying to get better for years, but they labeled me a narcissist and all blocked me all at the same time. The grief had me a mess for an entire year. But it also helped me better understand the things I needed to change. I believe they misunderstood my behaviors, my therapist keeps telling me I'm not a narcissist, and the more I learn about narcissism the more I understand the differences between me and a narcissist. But I still worked on those traits and I still miss my friends. I wish they could see all the work I put in to change. I don't think I will ever stop grieving their loss, I saw them as family

I needed this, a friend and I just ended a friendship, possibly temporary but could be permanently, we were causing trauma and stress for each other, and we were having communication issues to bring it up, so we didn't know until it blew up today. I'm sad, I'm hurting a lot, and I feel like I'm lost because I haven't had any of my other friends reach out. So I'm trying to walk a lonely road to the next venture.

This was needed 7 years ago. My friend was pregnant we were supposed to meet up for lunch, but we have lives and I was adapting to being a new mom myself and we forgot to communicate. I told her sorry about not reaching out, she didn't respond for a week and then I asked her if she was OK and she blew up on me and said hurtful things and made it about her. I tried to reach out a few times to see if she was ok, no response. So i said screw it, i dont need this negetivity inmy life and deleted her number and cut her out. I'm still upset about it sometimes. But now I'm awesome friends with my homeboy and his girlfriend and they are amazing people and I'm grateful for them

It's been complicated for me, back in middle school I started straying away from my best friend. I didn't feel the same talking to him anymore. He was kinda controlling, judgemental, and honestly quite obnoxious, on top of that I was getting bullied for my friendship with him. I was hesitant to end it because we'd see each other every single day. Overtime I started treating him the same way he was treating me so I could get my getback, but looking back that's probably one of the most immature things ive done in my life; one day we had a big argument and HE ended up ending the friendship, and blackmailed me for months. I felt terrible about it for years and couldn't even hear his name without getting filled with negative emotions, but in recent years, I don't really feel bad anymore because I realized that friendship was legitimately going nowhere anyways.

This was uploaded when my friends and I really needed it.. We made a hard decision to get a friend out of the group. She has caused all of us emotional distress, and her mental health is bad. We hope she will find people who will help her with her issues or even seek help.

I experienced a friendship break-up two years ago. Man, that hurt. It was worse than any break-up I've ever had (because you don't expect that to happen with a friend). But everything ever since confirmed that I was right to end that relationship. And though I really miss him and a lot of people tried to help us mend fences, I have yet to see any reason why I should.

Thank you... I REALLY needed this... Twenty seven years ago... Better late than never!

I have been needing this video... it has been over a year since ut happened, but it still feels like a stab to the heart sometimes. Reflecting on it, it was literally the worst emotional pain I have ever gone through in my life. I liken it to breaking up with your first deep love, because it kinda was. I am much better now, but it still feels like i had lost a part of my self. I an atill healing

Something that happened to me quite unexpectedly during Covid, was reconnecting with old friends. Several of them, actually. Ofc this can't always be the case, but if you've drifted apart from friendships you still value and miss, sometimes reaching out, can be worth it. And if they still don't respect you, or appreciate you, maybe you're better off without them.

I’m going to send this to a friendship that ended it helps so much thank you (First comment)

I had a brutal break up with a friend once. I'm mostly over it by now. It no longer makes me feel uncomfortable to think about and no more haunting dreams. I do definitely still miss the moments we used to enjoy together, and sometimes I wish we could get along again some day. But as of now, these are just memories. At least I dearly hope they were able to move on too. I could tell us splitting hurt them a lot too.

Thanks for posting this. This is one I might need to watch a time or two again just to keep things in perspective and be reminded that there can be some positives to reach and hold onto. I had a very difficult situation with a friend recently: inappropriate things said, boundaries not respected or stated enough. And while the friendship isn't lost, I feel like the healing process is helped by being better able to accept whatever path we end up on. Whether that's remaining friends or moving on.

I ended a friendship recently due too what I felt was a serious betrayal, and honestly I feel like I may be outgrowing another one. So I definitely needed this at the moment Psych2Go. Thank you.

Some people are only in your life for a season. I lost a friendship of over 20 years almost 3 years ago. We don’t speak anymore.

I lost a friend recently, and it honestly REALLY hurt, she was honestly a toxic friend all the way through, but I can't stop thinking that it was my fault and that I wanna be her friend again, but one of my other friends, who lost her too, she doesn't seem to be bothered by it at all. Of course, I thought this was odd because why wouldn't she care, like not even a little bit, so I started asking questions, and even asked her if she was okay about the loss of the friendship, she said she was not hurting that much because she knew she was a toxic friend, and it just feels good to have that weight off her back. I'm really happy that she has been able to move on. For me, not so much, but I'll eventually get there. This shows how different friends can be from one another.

This video is very helpful for me right now. I’m going through a friendship that’s drifting apart. Thank you so much 😊

Thank you so much the voice artist... For again giving the voice In this video!!! For a long time I wasn't hearing Ur voice in any video.... so I was So upset...!!! Ur voice makes me feel so comfortable, relax, warm nd Happy... Ur voice feels so close to me... it can melt my heart so easily.... I don't know your name... but I was literally missing ur voice so badly!!! Thanks for coming back!!! Nd lot's of love for you dear sister... 🥺❤️✨

I entered first semester of my undergrad degree in a new city, I don't know anyone, and on the first week I met this girl I had instantaneous affinity with. We were friends for the some weeks, I felt so comfortable with her, but lately she met this new girl from our semester and they have a lot of connection. Now she's not talking to me anymore (she talks to me just for college issues) That has made me feel really terrible these days. Today I was doing an assignment and they were in the same classroom, they were singing and laughing together I honestly don't know what to do, but this video helped a lot ❤️‍🩹

My best friend of almost 13 years left me a few months ago. To cut a long story short: he lied to his girlfriend about who he was out and about with and she caught him hanging out with me. they almost broke up and he apparently blames me for it. Dude didn’t even give me the courtesy of allowing me to say goodbye. A real „Dick move“ but I still wish them all the best even though it really stings

I love this! I had my longest friendship end recently. And it hurt so much, but I carried on. And now I feel even better! I learned so much about it. I have so much time for me!

A lost a friend of mine 2 months ago, we were friends for no more then 8-9 months. But it was great and felt amazing, but when she ended it, It felt like my world came crashing down and that was one of the worst heartbreaks I felt in a LOOONG time. And it hurt like hell. I’ve been still trying to recover from it but it’s been really hard, because she was just great, flaws and all….

I just ended a friendship for the 1st time and when it happend i lost 2, a few months ago. It was the 1st time something like that had happened to me, and i went through these exact stages. Watching this video made me realize that it is a part of life and people change, plus i cant keep all my friends and will eventually have to let some of them go.

I’ve found it tough in the past addressing issues and walking away from unhealthy friendships because I don’t like the thought of hurting people I care about. But there’s only so much I’ll put up with before enough is enough and I start to push back and stand up for myself. Friendship breakups are tough, it’s usually the people I hangout with the most that I end up walking away from so it’s a big change to my social life. And when I’m feeling tired or lonely then I end up thinking back on things, questioning the choices I made then and questioning whether it’s worth trying to patch things up now. It’s being on your own, whether it’s out of choice or circumstance, you have all this extra time on your hands but don’t know what to do with it and it feels like you’ve have to start all over again with making new friends.

I recently ended frnship with a good friend after lots of horrible arguments.i think in the start we dont rlly realise the overall behaviour pattern and the toxic traits they have like it took me 2 yrs but slowly with time it starts to affect us in a negative way (for a long time i had self doubts about my abilties coz that person has let me down a hell lot of times), and sometimes we can let go off the things but if it keeps repeating,its time to cut that person off frm ur life and save ur energy n time for urself and ur personal development. To anyone reading this have a grt day 😊

Wow this video is so insightful. I recently had a falling out with a friend too except i dont harbor resentment towards them, nor do i blame myself because i feel like we both made a lot of mistakes. My only regret is that when we ended things, she couldn't understand why i was miserable. I tried so many times to explain my point of view, yet it was always about her. The last i saw her she claims she tried looking at things from my perspective, but she never did. She just blocked me before giving me a chance to reply to her assessment. I do miss her because i feel she's the only person i didn't have to censor my humor around, but she gave up on our friendship ages ago before our falling out, so its probably for the best.

I have ended a few friendships a few months ago and I’m still grieving… They were very close friends and this video keep me aware of what they did and what I did. This was very informative and I’m thankful for that!

Five of my best friends died too early. I really have no friends left now.

My former friend has quite low self esteem and started to use my to feel better about herself. Always trying to bring me or others down. Saying mean things, mean jokes. Never bad enough to make me stop loving her but enough to make me feel sad. The first time I addressed her behavior I never heard anything meaningful again. It was a bit traumatic because we grew up together. But other friendships in my life are a source of joy and lift me up instead of bring me down and that's what helped me move on.

Would just like to say thank you for this video. My BFF was dealing with losing a friend that was treating us all badly and this came out right as I was talking with my BFF about it. Though they didn’t watch it until last night, they said it really helped them out and realize that things will get better over time and that they still have other friends to help them through it. So thank you all for this perfectly timed video

I had a rough falling out with some friends recently and fell into a pit of sadness and anger. Thank you for this video! It really helped me reflect and sort my feelings.

I’ve never broken up with a friend but a friends broken up me. We would eat breakfast together every morning, one day she she wanted some other people she meet to tag along, once we got there she told me she never wanted to speak to me again. I see her everyday, but she never talks to me, never even looks at me. I hate watching her be so happy without me, I hate seeing her contact in my phone, I hate having nobody to eat in the mornings, i hate having nobody to call when I’m afraid or sad, I hate having nobody to call my best friend, I hate that I don’t know what I did to deserve this kind of pain. I hate that I still care. I still get her Christmas gifts, I still celebrated her birthday, I still reach out to her current friends to ask how she doing. She still treats me like a stranger.

Friendships, I find, are surprisingly ephemeral, and even the people I'm closest to can simply disappear on me. Friendship often seems like a fleeting part of the here-and-now, and not something enduring.

I lost a friendship 17 months ago that still makes me wanna cry and get drunk just to numb the pain. I've lost more friends since then. Basically for the same reason. A constant source of drama and pain in my life that I can't ever seem to walk away from because without it, I have nothing. I was alone without a friend in the world for many years and I'm too afraid of going back to that loneliness and isolation even though the alternative is clinging to a constant source of negativity that is ruining good things in my life over and over again.

Nothing better than having a person that you consider your best friend for more than 5 years and suddenly getting replaced because he made other friends and just discards you without saying anything. Great feeling, I'm very happy! ...honestly I'm starting to think life is just better when you're alone, because there will be no people to hurt you anymore.

The timing of this video couldn't be better...thanks a lot!!

I really needed this, I just recently lost a lot of high school friends. I went through everything in this video before seeing it. I'm happily growing and moving on

I lost many of my best friends and one I considered a brother it’s sad but have to let it go and move on

I've been dealing with an ended friendship for about 6 months, so this couldn't come at a better time, so thanks! 👍

I had to end a friendship with one of my really longtime best friends about 7 years ago due to how toxic she was becoming. Not exactly her fault but she kept choosing to be with unhealthy people who were warping her mind and behaviors. I’m still struggling with the anger and grief of the loss but it’s getting better slowly, day by day.

Needed this. Three weeks ago, I cut ties with a friend because he was quitting something. When I asked about exceptions, he told me there were none. I was crying so much and it all happened at the worst time possible. I can’t quite disclose everything, so this is the short of it.

I ended my friendship and leave my ex. Sometimes I blame myself thinking that maybe I'm just toxic person... But then I remember why I end it all at the first place. 😮‍💨

I really needed this one, perfect timing 🙏

I need this so thank you!

Your videos truly are a sorce of comfort whenever I am going through a hard time. You have the answere to everything. Thank you :)

I don't know how you guys always have the best timing with these videos but I appreciate it every time. thank you :)

my friendship with this channel is irreplaceable

I was the fult with a friendship that ended last year. I completely understand why she doesn't want anything to do with me. I've tried a few times to reach out to her just to say goodbye, but she never responded back. It definitely makes it harder. She meant a lot to me.

Thank you so much! I am currently recovering from my Best Friend leaving me, I was really struggling.

This was timed so perfectly

The fact yesterday my friend said she don't wanna be friend with me and this video pops up

I was the one who ended a very important friendship of almost 7 years. I genuinely thought we would be friends forever but something happened that made me feel terrible and while we could have stayed friends, I did not want to cause problems to her when she was finally getting a better life, since I realised I would probably hurt her at one point and so I thought it would be better if I ended our friendship right there when she was doing good instead of doing bad. She still does not know exactly why I walked away and I know I hurt her upfront, but I hope she is now doing better. I do not know if one day I will be able to forget her because I still feel bad about it and I think of her all the time and miss her terribly but sometimes we have to do things that are unpleasant to keep people we care safe, even if it means safe from us.

A good friend of mine since high school decided to end our friendship of 6-7 years out of nowhere. I still find myself asking what happened but I know that the only thing I can do is move on. I still think of her daily and wish she gave me closure but that’s not I’m entitled to and she doesn’t need to go into detail if she doesn’t want to. Moving on is the best thing that I learned

Wow I can’t believe the timing of this video I had what I thought was the perfect relationship a lover soulmate best freind I thought we’d be together forever I wrote poetry we sang we were so compatible we knew each other for many years and no one else existed outside our relationship then I lost my daughter 8 years ago and he left with out a reason why which was so out of character for him nothing would have kept him away he was 20years older than me and his health was failing him but I don’t know if that was the reason he left he was such a big part of my life and I still grieve for him I love him one day and hate him the next but that’s how we were couldn’t live with him couldn’t live without him but ido wish him well and hope he’s happy and well thanks for the video 😊❤️

anyone want to be friends? i lost like 90% of my friends recently. really sad. all ive ever wanted was to just connect with people. aw man

This hit me hard, so thank you for making a video about this. Just a few months ago, I broke friendships with a few people from a small fandom that I was in online. It was all because I chose to voice some opinions I had that they extremely disagreed with, so they all chose to unfollow & block me for good because of it. One of them even messaged me in such a mean way, that it made me wonder if I truly was their friend to begin with... and it really hurt my soul to read it. To think that they thought I was such an evil person now, when only a year or two ago, they adored my work & enjoyed talking to me... Luckily, time has moved on & I have done the same - I've focused on my true friends that have stuck by my side & honestly, I left most of that fandom behind, even though I am still a fan of it (I'm just not a fan of most of the people in it). It's been difficult, but I feel happier with the newer friends that I'm making & what I choose to focus on now.

I really needed to hear this thank you guys

Back in January, me and my best friend got into a argument on messages. It was a while ago but I am still grieving about him. Something about that friend just clicked, I made the happiest moments in my life. But all good things must come to a end. I’ve tried moving on but I can just never get rid of the fact that he is never coming back. Now my friends said that he was a toxic friend. I didn’t understand why, but I knew now. He would talk behind peoples back, insult his own friends, make people embarrassed, etc. Now I’m not saying he is the worst person, I’ve also done my fair share of bad stuff, but it was toxic and prone to ends soon.

I literally had a fight with my roommate last night and she left the room today. This video couldn't have come at a better time.

I don't have any friends from childhood I just stayed at the sidelines 🙂 peoples only come to me when they want something. I just felt numb in my memories.

Our friendship ended last year though I’m still having relapses of what I should have done to save our friendship. I continue to blame myself and up to now I feel lost. I think I won’t find a person like her. I hope I can heal in time and learn from the mistakes I’ve made.

I’m here!! Also this is very relatable.

The grieving, i litterally cried for more than 20mins yesterday from not being able to talk with one of my online friends, i havent seen him for a while and i just hope he isnt dead I hope that was just catastrophising, i cant remember how i distracted myself to stop crying I miss the familiarity of his presence

I went through years of abuse by someone I called my best friend. I used to beat myself up for not being able to move on from the pain. I severed the relationship after all. She told me that abuse like that can take a long time to heal but I’m already doing better. I give myself some rest if I go back to dreaming about her or if I go into a whiplash of flashbacks. I used to hide when I went to Raising Canes cause I was that afraid and thought she was there. Haven’t been able to return. But reflecting, I realize I’m in a way better place than I ever been

I needed this.

Why is this come in the exact timing 😢😢😢

Can you do a video on how to make friends when depressed (people want to be around fun people)

I needed this sm rn thanks!

What I've learned from my "friendships" is to not trust people. I have ended my last friendship and this was the last one for me. Not gonna wish them well either. I'm done with being nice no matter what.

Yep lessons & growth!! ❤

I figured at a young age that certain friends don’t stick around or help you be a better person. I have only four friends that I’m still in contact with that I’ve known since elementary/middle/highschool. And two of them I reconnected with after I moved away and got married. You don’t need a ton of friends. It sucks when things don’t work out, but be true to yourself. And some people really aren’t good to be around anyway. I’m far happier with my four friends that I’ve know. For over a decade than a bunch I’ve kept a hold of for no reason.

I still feel grief and sadness over a frienship that lasted for over a decade... she up and one day ghosted multiple people and fell off the face of the earth. 8 years after she did, I found out from a mututal friend that they assumed they were struggling and wanted to start fresh. I mean, do what you gotta do for peace of mind and mental health, but she completely left us behind without a word of goodbye... I still see her mom sometimes, and her social media every now and then, but it still cuts deep. She was the closest friendship I ever had growing up, and throughout highschool.

The timing of your videos are more often than not oddly perfect 😂