I think it is so sad that Chandler is so often dissed in FRIENDS he is really sweet with Monica and really tries and he is such a sweetheart 🥺

I never realised how many times phoebe let out Monica's secrets in front of chandler she has a very big mouth 😂

Yeah and she almost ruined Chandler's proposal by letting some other guy buy the engagement ring Chandler picked.

This video forgot the scene where phoebe was with David and she accidentally referred to him as Mike and then said that Monica refers to chandler as Richard all the time😂😂😂

Sad that she was almost never supportive of Chandler & Monica: the best (and healthiest) couple in the show

Note to self, Don’t share secrets with Phoebe.

Okay, the amount of patience they had for Phoebe is outstanding

Chandler's jaw sticking out expression when he's saying he isn't mad at Monica is so accurate for the anger and jealousy he's feeling

Honestly, Chandler's the only one in the group who isnt fucked up. He just has childhood trauma.

Phoebe creates the rift and Joey fixes it

At the risk of getting killed by her fans, this is one of the reasons why I dislike Phoebe. She basically has no filter or restrain : she just says or does whatever she wants to, not caring about the consequences and when there are consequences, she doesn’t even consider that she’s responsible or is like « whatever, I’ll just act like this isn’t my fault » and barely cares for those she might have offended. Sometimes, she could be really rude, disrespectful and insensitive towards others, even people she would call her friends. I know she’s very popular but I really have a hard time seeing her as a good person : I often felt like people would overlook her flaws because she was goofy and had a sad past

Out of all the couples on that show, Monica and Chandler are the best couples.

Phoebe messing with Mondler just proved that there relationship is stronger than ever!

In some way I believe that Phoebe is doing this on purpose.

They had Phoebe either making sexual innuendo about Chandler in front of Monica or demeaning his masculinity or trying to make Monica and Chandler feel insecure about their relationship in some way. Even after their engagement when they were all going to the Plaza Phoebe didn't want to get ready until she forced her song onto Monica with lyrics saying when she first met Chandler she thought he was gay.... not to mention how hard she shipped Ross & Rachel's kiss overshadowing Mondler. I love Lisa and her great acting but the writers really did her a disservice having her be portrayed as that kind of "friend".

I’ve been saying for years that Phoebe was the WORST friend.

YES 👏🏽 I like Phoebe but sometimes she can be a real pain in the butt. The way she keeps hassling Chandler makes me sad.

I remember the time when monica found out that chandler lied to her about her bad massages and said "We're supposed to be honest with each other" but she's the one who has a lot of secrets. Smh

Look, I love all these six characters to pieces. But in moments like these, I cannot help but wonder if Phoebe is just being her usual self, or if she's being deliberately mean spirited towards Chandler, of all people. Sure, Chandler's pretty sarcastic and acerbic when he wants to be, but never hurtful/harmful towards his friends, in my opinion. But this? This is just pure meanness at worst and pettiness at best. I especially find it hard to forgive her starting up this whole 'Don, Monica's soulmate' thing. Ugh! The woman is married, for goodness's sake! Love Lisa, to be sure, love Phoebe (most of the time), but what can I say? I love Mondler more.

i love her but she always tried messing up their relationship

Pheobe was a sweet heart in the beginning. First season pheobe was my favourite, she was kind and funny. But in the later seasons her funny-ness became cruel. She always insulted Chandler, also she created so many rifts between Chandler and Monica. Her character never developed it went way down the hill. She would ship toxic love like Rachel and Ross 's but belitte Mondler everytime. She became so toxic. Chandler is the only guy who turned out to be good and best when it comes to relationship. He's the best boyfriend and husband in the tv history. As a fan of chandler and Mondler, I really hated her in later seasons.

Phoebe turned awful around Season 5 lmao. Her and Chandler have such a uniquely great friendship in Season 3 where they often team up on subplots together. Then from about Season 6 they really, really push her and Joey as closer friends and have Phoebe start being extremely condescending, nasty and random, particularly towards Chandler and somewhat Ross. I'm up to the Vegas episode and Phoebe's at it already. It really is around Season 6 it becomes a little nonstop that she turns nasty and patronising, acting like she's the mainstay of the group despite actually being the one everyone knows could 'lift right out'. 'Now you're just my annoying friend Chandler'. 'Wow, I owe Rachel 20 bucks' 'It's only Chandler' Monica: 'If I can meet a great guy, so can you' Phoebe (blatantly in the face of Monica rightfully calling Chandler a great guy): 'Yeah we both can. And we both will!' Chandler is a better man than Phoebe could dream of. And yet ironically? She did meet a guy about as close to later seasons Chandler as you can get, in David. And she passed him up for Mike the wang? And that's not discounting Paul Rudd's unsurpassable charisma that allowed Mike to stay as long as he did but Mike as a character was no way on David's level and yet Phoebe has the audacity to act like she has any kind of say in what does or doesn't make a good relationship, what does or doesn't make a good man? Insanity! >Invites herself onto Monica and Chandler's anniversary trip then forces them to allow her to come, invites everyone else onto their trip then tells Chandler about Richard. That's not excusing Chandler of freaking out over less than nothing but Phoebe was the catalyst and began to do this constantly in between Monica and Chandler in the later seasons. It's a shame because Lisa Kudrow is actually hysterical, one of the most consistently hilarious actors in the show (And I think she was one of the ones that pushed Phoebe towards becoming nastier and angrier in the later episodes) but it is what it is. It's just one case of flanderisation that pops up as the show goes on.

The problem is that Phoebe never felt guilty, sometimes i just wanna put the chili into her mouth

Ross: we were on a break Phoebe: ill just mess with Monica and chandler

Monica did all the things secretly but stopped Chandler from doing the same. Chandler was more loyal.

Phoebe is quirky, big-hearted and loveable for both of those things. But by God she never, ever learned how to read a room...

I hate the way she behaves especially towards Chandler

Phoebe is the one type of friend that nobody wants to have in their life!

She even told Richard Monica had a lot of partners.

Phoebe was jealous of them, that's why she said that stuff. I had female friends like that.

Pheobe was the worst friend out of the 6, no contest. She was funny but definitely not a good friend.

I hate how Phoebe went from the nicest of the three female leads to being more mean and nasty, and treats Ross and Chandler horribly in later seasons. What happened to the old Phoebe who was so kind and sweet?

Phoebe gave the impression she low-key had it in for Chandler for some reason.

If this was a drama, I feel like Phoebe definitely would have gotten smacked a few times because of her big mouth.

I've always wanted to know Lisa Kudrow's thoughts on the way Phoebe was changed. When you rewatch or binge watch the show, it's such a big and obvious change, a 180 almost (post triplets). Anyone know if the cast, creators or writers have ever been asked about it? Has noone dared ask because they are afraid of seeming critical? The cast was pretty powerful, so if I should guess, Lisa agreed to the change, sadly. I definitely didn't find Phoebe's sudden pettiness, meanness, and occasional self-pity funny.

There's a fan theory that Phoebe did all these things to sabotage Chandler and Monica because she was in love with him. Obvs not true but it's interesting to think about when watching these clips

Yah mad at phoebe but why is Monica always lying to chandler?

interesting how phoebe always made jokes about or belittled monica and chandlers relationship, but she was such a supporter of ross and rachels toxic mess. gotta wonder if thats just how they ended up writing it or if it was an intentional choice for whatever reason.

So either Phoebe has the biggest mouth or she’s literally trying to sabotage their relationship on purpose.

It probably does not make sense to Phoebe that a relationship can be as easy, as the one between Monica and Chandler. Even when she meets Mike there is a lot of back and forth and complications, and thats the greatest sense of normal she has ever had

Phoebe is always trying to break up Monica and Chandler. I hate that she doesn't support them and wants to destroy their relationship. I never understand what she has against them being together. They're a wonderful couple, but she's too big of an ass to see it😠😡

I am missing Chandler so much.He was such a gentleman 😔😔

I mean she forced herself to be on a trip when obviously it's Mondler's anniversary then invite Ross and Rachel over. If she did that with me and my gf, man I will remove her out of our lives.

Phoebe's lack of sensitivity is unbelievable 🤦‍♀️

At of all the people on Friends, Chandler never had a birthday party. That so 😥

Chandler always tried to make Monics happy. But Phoebe somehow she ruined it

Why was Phoebe always against Monica and Chandler getting together which are the healthiest couple in the show but always pushed for Ross and Rachel to get together who in my opinion shouldn't have gotten back together at the end

It’s so obvious that Phoebe hated Monica and Chandler’s relationship and secretly tried to break it up. Like I legitimately want to know the explanation for that. What did they both do to piss her off so much?

Monica shouldn't be eating with her ex and then hiding it from her husband nor hiding secrets from Chandler

It’s not almost she did it, and she shows she doesn’t care not even remorse about how Chandler feels

Phoebe was not letting go of losing one of her back ups to Monica.

Please somebody tell me what is wrong with sun-dried tomatoes. ..

Later in seasons little things like these and sudden changes in characters behaviour really pissed me off tbh

Phoebe's disrespect towards Chandler was always unacceptable. And it's crazy how they kept her all thoses years in the friends group even when she clearly hated Chandler, Ross and always thought about herself in the first place. She only tolerated Joey because she was attracted to him

You are the queen of everything is such an underrated line!

Monica enjoyed stripper on her bachelor party, went for a bite with ex after getting married, went back to Richard for consolement after Chandler told her he didnt want to have babies and flirted with stranger in front of her fiance. Great partner.

Phoebe always treated chandler poorly

“You told him about the Richard thing” is probably the best 🤣🤣🤣

Phoebe needs to learn how to keep her mouth shut! 😂😝👌

Yea the no:1 almost broke them apart if it wasn't for Joey's beautiful speech 🤧😖 And also the engagement ring disaster and when she told Chandler and David that Monica always say Richard's name that one was kind of Monica's fault but still!

Am I the only one surprised (not to say "chocked") to realize how Monica treats Chandler like shit sometimes, while he always cares of her so much? I mean I already had thought that at some points when watching the show but this video kind of makes it clear.

Even if Phoebe was the one to tell those secrets, why aren't people questioning Monica's choices on those decisions??? She did things and knew Chandler wouldn't be alr wit it and still did it, like even if Phoebe could of ruined the relationship at least in a way she told him. If Phoebe is getting hate for saying secrets Monica should be for the same reason for having those secrets in the first place.

I often got the impression that Phoebe kind of hated Chandler. He was a normal kind of guy and she is the crazy woman used to go with weirdos. I think she also was very jealous of the normalcy of Monica and Chandler as a couple, something she never had portrayed to her by her parents growing up and something she never pursued herself, until Mike. In fact, by marrying Mike, the most Chandler-like sort of person she ever was with, she got what she actually craved and was jealous of - a normal, "vanilla" relationship like Monica's and Chandler's. And she is mean to Monica many times too, like the rest of the group, teasing her ways while also enjoying free food and hospitality in her apartment all the time. Phoebe is actually the most boring, artificial and often hypocritical of the friends, acting like she has so many principles and constantly acting against that whenever it suited her. She used the group of friends to appear like the quirky and eccentric "special" one because the rest of them were regular people with regular lives not trying to look anything different.

It was always phoebe creating conflicts 😀

Love this. have watched Friends so many times, never caught this as a series of events

I always hated Phoebe because she could get away with so much since she was the "crazy" character, everyone just forgave her like saying "oh that's just how she is". She ruined so much stuff.

And they resolved all of these and grew together!

Imagine Joey getting married, how will the bachelorette look like then? 😂

Moral of the story is dont tell phoebe your secrets haha

Phoebe needs to think before she speaks

Hated Phoebe at this moments...

OF COURSE, number 1 HAD to be that scene. That was terrible, terrible, terrible of her.

his death has hit me the hardest as it was so unexpected even though i never met him he was a big part of making me laugh the most im so sorry this happened to a beautiful soul sleep tight and R.I.P matthew the whole world is absolutely devastated beyond words💔💔💔 we really have lost an icon

Finally!! Thank God someone else noticed this and how horrible Phoebe was as friend

Sometimes I wonder why they're friends with her.

Phoebe always ruins things 🤦‍♀️

Having phoebe as friend is same as having an enemy.

Only number 2 feels really kind of mean-spirited. The rest just feels like Phoebe being scatterbrained and a bit too honest.

Yeah but pheobe also helped with the proposal so it's okay

she’s the worst friend

Phoebe is Not a good friends

I always thought the perfect line for Chandler when Phoebe said I didn't know you were going to be here, and Chandler would say " We're always here" in his Chandler Bing anxious voice

Ok, Friends is an excelent TV Show but this video shows us how the writters were lazy at times. They just needed a device (Phoebe, the quirky person of the group) to create a temporary drama between Monica and Chandler that would be solved at the end of the episode, and they dit it at least 5 times. The one who suffers from this is, of course, Phoebe who becomes so nasty Season 6 onwards. I like Phoebe as much I like all the other five, but there are some lines that she delivers that are straight up just insulting and "that's what makes it funny" the writters thought back them, again a lazy and honestly horrible way to work on her character

But what she said was true only 😏 Why Monica was even lying to Chandler?

Okay, people might hate me for this, but i really feel Phoebe was the most annoying and unnecessary character on the show. she couldn't keep her mouth close ffs.

Chandler was always too good for Monica… he didn’t realize that because oh, well, she was a pretty lady into him. He has a lot of low self esteem, which kept him in place… but it’s not just that, he’s got morals, loyalty and just a one of a kind man. Can’t find another man like chandler, she’s not loyal, probably would have even cheated if she had the chance. I never could stand the woman in this show, or the guys expect for chandler.

This is why Phoebe is 100% my least favorite character out of the 6

Toxic friend she is!

Matthew Perry looks the most aged among them today...despite him being the 2nd youngest.. And Courteney simply had to destroy her beautiful.. gorgeous face with surgery!!! So sad to see one of the best TV couples in such a tragic state!

i dont see a major problem with phoebe. Like other characters she's flawed but never was she ill intended towards the rest. She always came from a place of transparency and sincerity. Her screw up moments are almost always accidental as she assumes people have already communicated their problems. If anything she's an unintentional catalyst for each relationship the characters have ever had.

If you want to get a divorce or want to feel miserable call up your friend Phoebus she'll make it happen!

Pheobe had the most glaring and radical change as a character. As others in the comment have said all the other friends changed but the they just their characteristics ratcheted up to 1000 but Pheobe drastically changed. She became selfish, petty and sometimes outright cruel. She went from being the kindest of the group to the meanest.

chandler - how will the triplets feel when they come to know you ( pheebs ) gave birth to them , destroyed pheebs

"Simons, go with Simons" "London 1"

I can't stand her in any of those moments.

That last look "What" from phoebe?? 😀 So cute...

Why did writers always give pheobe those kinda dialogues😢

I am started to think that Phoebe is not happy about Monica and Chandler relationship. She always ruined it

'Somebody stop me' the mask reference.

"You are the queen of everything" "Thanks, so are you" 😂