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As a muslim women, I agree with every point... plus gaiyarah is so important . Not mentioning the wife around your own friends or other males, not mentioning anything aroung the first night, and not expecting the wife to be serving food or sit with men in dinner gatherings are traits that makes a woman see her husband as her safety.

im so glad you brought up that we dont like unattractive men or that we also have our physical type, muslim women have always been ridiculed and shamed for having a physical type, even if a man is succesful and nice and wtv i still have the right to reject him if theres no physical attraction at all just like men also have the same right bc marriage is a commitment you make for life, staying with someone you think is ugly ur whole life seems like hell. not everyone is gonna find u attractive and not everyone is gonna find me attractive, people are entitled to their own opinions, men or women

Andrew Tate taught me how to be a man but by the will of Allah He granted me a better role model, Rasulullah ﷺ.

point number 4 is very important a man with no ghayrah or low ghayrah is a complete red flag.

non muslim boys and girls taking notes

Be yourself ❌ Be what you are supposed to be(both for men and women)✅

everything you said here was true, subhan'Allah. could you make a video for muslim women about muslim men? (basically same as this but the other way around) may الله bless you akhi

Ayo, my bro from Bangladesh, keep our community proud ! Baarakallah

As a muslim woman, i can confirm a lot of it is true, this is a great video. But I don’t know why that “abandon your wife in bed if she disobeys you” triggers me for some reason. I know it must be an inner problem because it is in the Quran and the Quran is perfect, Allah knows what is best for us. So I know there’s good reason. but it brings up a bunch of questions, what does disobedience mean in this case? What if narcissistic men use this as an emotional abuse tactic, where if you don’t obey him at the expense of your own comfort he will cut off love from you and make you feel unstable? We are putting a huge amount of trust in him by handing over this power and authority. It’s a responsibility and a power that can be abused in the wrong hands, susceptible women who are vulnerable and have low self-esteem can easily be exploited. What constitutes as disobedience? Is it only for serious stuff like being disloyal, talking to non-mahrams or wearing provocative clothing, or can it be justified to abandon your wife in bed because she chose to do something you dislike or had a disagreement with you (not doing anything haram) ? I would really appreciate if you answer this comment or make a video about it! jazak allah khair

As Muslim women, I agree with each point of yours. This is how we are. We are beautifully different. We both are of faults, but I don't like those men and women who just blame each other. I mean come on, try to improve yourself. May Allah give us all hidayah. Ameen

brother my sister is 9 she told me today she wants blue clothes only because there's no difference between boys and girls 😢 I believe it's because what she watches on the phone, yet my mom still gives her the phone and doesn't want to believe how dangerous these ideas are, how can I save my sister?

I had to learn the hard way and learned from Andrew Tate listening to his podcast and I stopped after I reverted

Jazak Allahu khyran Brother

You are one of many Muslim brothers who are just when talking about the duties and responsibilities of the men and women of Islam and I thank you for that awakening and also there's no way no one should be upset because you are only saying what is to be true I see family and friends going through this and they aren't even Muslims.

may Allah reward u for the content u share

I love these types of videos where you discuss real life topics and implement reminders from Quran and hadith. This is slightly off topic but whenever I see these hijabi influencers I feel like I'm missing out and what's crazy to me is that most hijabis irl try to replicate this behaviour so I can't help but want it too. It's like everyone wants to be a mini celebrity and if you don't you're 'extreme,' or boring. I have to remind myself of Jahanam constantly and since turning 17 I've just been working on my character - my hobbies, personality and conduct. Above all, I just want to feel pretty which I genuinely feel from being at home with no makeup, reading Quran, spending time with my cat and doing at home workouts. May Allah make it easy for all Muslim sisters, young and old alike, ameen

Level up men & women Insha'Allah

One of the best advice I got from my teachers may Allah preserve them all. Less talk and more seeking i'lm.

No way I can't believe Faiyad is Bangladeshi woow!!. I swear for the longest time, I thought he was an African immigrant 😅

I completely agree with every point, I’m glad to see a man addressing this and to other men because it’s honestly alarming the state of the ummah and this is honestly down to the lack of masculine men in society. As a woman who’s feminine fitra is intact Alhamdulillah but have been a victim of having a lack of masculine men in my life and why now I’m firm on finding a masculine man who fears الله and will not compromise, I’m always preaching that men are the fundamentals of a successful and thriving society. A man teaches his sons how to be a man to be a provider and protector and the core of a family through examples of himself or actually teaching him, he teaches his daughters to have self respect and self worth through love and engament and respect of authority and to never rely on another man who isn’t her husband and finally, he is there for his wife in every way possible, he doesn’t only know the responsibilities of a man but wants to be the man that she needs. He has gheera and leadership and his masculine energy complements her feminine energy and obeying and submission to the husband is no problem because she trusts his leadership and confidence but most importantly this is possible when both sides have الله at the centre and understand their natural fitra and roles in society. As a result of a lack of this, we’re having feminine men create other feminine men who do not lead a family well or at all even and masculine women who do not submit. Too many boys (not men) preach about women obeying the husband but don’t display any masculine, unemotionally lead actions or behaviour for feminine women to even consider, we simple don’t find men like that attractive but a strong (mentally and physically) man who is confident in his affairs, knows how to lead and protect and treat us like the feminine woman we are, that is very attractive. May الله correct the state of the ummah in the west and everywhere.

Choose a woman who chooses you

Jazak Allahu Khairan

Allahumma baarik feekum overall, this was a good video. Its absolutely imperative that some of these english words we use in translation of verses and hadith be clarified to the point where even a 5 year old could understand, because too many out there (men and women) are too emotionally and mentally immature to understand the context and not make it into an excuse to continue toxic behaviour towards eachother. That being said, nobody should be entering into a lifetime commitment of a relationship if they have not worked on themselves and developed the aforementioned maturity levels..otherwise youre just two children trying to play house with real babies. I fully agree that we sisters would not be "too masculine" if we werent forced to be. While we dont want a man who is unstable, we do want a man who we can count on to take action when its needed. Inaction is a huge turn off. I lost count how many videos ive seen where the sister is literally saving the day while the brothers stand there dumbfounded and recording...a woman needs to feel safe and she wont with men like that. That also goes for inaction within the community. Too many communities have sisters that are 10x more active in the community, and good at it, than the brothers and its sad. The sister's tajweed is perfect and shes always on time meanwhile the brother is late, ferrari imam, and puts little effort into learning to recite properly or give a prepared khutbah. If we dont want to see sisters in "masculine" positions, maybe brothers should learn more of their deen than just fatwas and calling it a day..or like you said having misconceptions about what it means to be a muslim man and balance your deen and dunya. We are not hindus or catholics and we dont practice monastics and aestheicism. Confidently too. Not arrogantly. To add to what you said on confidence, the difference between confidence, false confidence and arrogance definitely essentially to learn and put into practice and living examples of the same need to be given more of the limelight. Also, i absolutely agree about the physical attraction aspect. Hot take or not, Brothers need to remember that if this woman is expected to be intimate with you, she needs to be at least a little attracted to you physically..otherwise, that first night with you will feel like a r_pe and it will erode the marrige eventually. Sorry to be crude, most women are too embarrassed to say it out loud, but unfortunately its true. May Allah reward you for speaking up on this topic as its too many times been swept under the rug or the point lost on people entirely🤲

Brother may Allah bless you but I have a personal opinion I would like to share I believe the reason our ummah is so weak is because we forgot that going to the masjid is fard I promise if we had more people treating the masjid as the Prophet SAW and his companions did (like a town hall, meeting 5 times a day) then marriage would be so easy in my opinion May Allah bless us with righteous spouses and keep doing what you’re doing may Allah bless you Salam aliekom wa rahmat Allah

Jazak Allah Khair Brother. One point "Abandon them in bed" Doesn't mean to go to sleep alone, it means to sleep in the same bed but not to engage in marital relations. Love what you do and keep doing more may Allah Guide you and keep you on the straight path.

Your points on jubilee with are men and women equal was really strong and good subhanallah

I just had a marriage conversation with a brother a few days ago. When asked about a weekness of his he told me he often gets influenced by the feelings of others. First I thought ok thats a thing we all are faicing more or less. At least he is aware of it. But then I understood his conclusion is to find a wife who is always happy and positive.. I know thats what a man wants. A positive smiling wife and most of the time thats what I am. What was turning me off was that he wants to make his happiness my responsibility. So everytime I will feel sad, he feels sad too and that my responsibility? I don't know if I am overthinking this..

"men love girls but women don't love boys" really does sum up what we want. I don't want to deal with another boy I need someone to be the leader of my family not a follower.

If your videos Pop up on my Recommended page 1 more time I'm gonna lose it 😂

2:48 How about a video (or podcast episode) on social anxiety? It would a good topic to cover inshallah

Can you make a video regarding female psychology and why women are more inclined to seek out “bad boys”?

4:07 the pause☠

the joke is I have heard of stories about how some wifes end up not wanting to be intimate with their husbands because they let themselves go or they have a stinking mouth or they are fat or they dont think about the female and only thinks of their own pleasure, like in all of these instances I kinda can understand those women, because if I had to be honest, If I had a wife and she was letting herself go, not being hygienic, and over all just a selfish person, I wouldn't want to be intimate with such a person either

Faiyad, you are from Bangladesh?!

I feel like beauty and attractiveness is subjective to preferences. “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” shower nice clothes that has more to do with hygiene

I must say 😢 Sadly that our dear Muslims are struggling in the West. May Allah giude them always. At the same time i am grateful that i am Born in Africa (South Africa) even though its not an Islamic country with only two percent Muslims i can say i am safe from the bad influence in our time that we are living in now besides social Media and its impact. The fact that that our Muslim brothers and sisters are not setting a good example for the Muslim reverts, making the Muslim reverts go astray upsets me . 😢but sadly there is fitna everywhere and it gets worse everyday as for we are living in the end of times. We can guide one another in various ways and make Dua to better ourselves in the future inshallah. There is a part of me that is yearning to move out of Africa (South Africa) because of the poverty,safety, corruption and crimes,but now i see the only gets worse as far as you go .

Brother, Please do video about Imam Ibn Qayyim's Books. 1. Have Tawqa (Thinking about Allah's Right Over us) not thinking our Rights from Allah. 2. Opposing our whims and desires or else it will ruin our life and Hereafter. 3. Patience and Gratitude. Muslims please read the Books of Imam Ibn Qayyim.

Where did you study Islam ? Who are your teachers ? Your background and credentials ? Please share with us In Sha Allah. Be transparent about your qualifications

I think more talks need to be had on what actually constitutes disobedience, i think it actually says, if you fear rebellion and not disobedience, because how can you address disobedience without it happening, but rebellion you can, also who says the man is right in a disagreement??? Not all men are wise, if a man calls his wife to bed and she refuses, isnt that disobedience, how would you follow the steps with something frequent, it makes no sense.

My Lord! Make me and those ˹believers˺ of my descendants keep up prayer. Our Lord! Accept my prayers.(14:40)

Assalamualaikum, can you make a video about what Muslim men thinks whta are red flags in women. Support from Pakistan

Asalam Alaykum please consider making a video of turn offs for Muslim men aswell

Faiyad Bhai is from Bangladesh???? 😮😮😮

It's the ''submitting to you'' that baffles me every time, swear we only submit to Allah🤔. I think everything else in this vid was alright except from 'Men like girls and women don't like boys' I think what you meant to say was Men like WOMEN, not girls and women like Men, not boys. I think just like how you advocate growth for muslim men, there are points for both to grow because the reason girls/women end up in relationships like you described is cause they haven't experienced positive growth, however, there are plenty grown women out there that know what they're looking for in a man and I don't think 'submitting' to them is on their list -tHis doesn't make them masculine as you like to point out, it's just a boundary, it's more like respecting each other equally which doesn't mean split everything 50/50 it means we do our roles just like islam teaches but making sure we know our boundaries. One thing I think you missed was that women (and I imagine men) love to feel respected and heard especially by their partner. I'm pretty sure we're all familiar with Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her).😌

Why did you lighting your skin color on your thumbnail? lol

Are you married brother Fiayad??

are you married? i think muslim guys that want to get married should listen to married couples

Whoa didn't know you are a Bangladeshi. My love for you increased more cause you're my native brother

Till this day I still don't understand why women my age love bad boy red flag toxic men. Please get a HELP......

Honest if you wants to go 50-50, I’ll do it, but don’t you complain later and try to switch it up on me 😂

Good vid brother but actually your not supposed to leave her in the bed alone your supposed to still stay there with her but deny her intimacy and any kind of touching to show your serious! and it will hurt her even more cause your right there and still denying her!

Alhamdulillah

الواضح انه في كثير هون نسيانين انه المرأه انسان, اه اخنا بنهتم بالشكل زي الرجل صرلكم سنين قاعدين بتتزوجو بنات حلوين بعد ما تحمل وتخلف ولادك بتنط عالتانيه, بس صار احنا بدنا واحد حلو عشان ما نضل عالقين مع وجه البطه طول حياتنا صرنا مجرمين براييكم؟ مش طبيعي, حاسس حالك بشع زبط من حالك قبل ما تتزوج ولاقي بنت بتحب شكلك مش تيجي هون وعاملي فيها معصب ولا بصيرش وبصيرش. الله يصبرنا بس

if a man doesn't have ghayrah 🚩

After all the things u just mentioned makes me want to stay single 😂🤣 nowadays its all about money, marriage and being a alpha male 🙃 and it all started with one man ANDREW TATE, a man that made money by using women. Nowadays people on KZfaq talking about how to be a man or do this or that as if they follow the ruls they preach in IRL 🙄

Allahuma Barik. Valid points Akhi 🫱🏽‍🫲🏾

Be Tall. Be Handsome. Be rich. Those are three of the most things that will attract any women

First of all I am not saying that men shouldn't try to keep fit. They should to a level. Second Men are not men anymore and women want to be like men. Third I have nothing against women, think what you will it is your opinion. You can call men weak but the same can be said about women but I'd rather not go into that hole because what you and so many fail to understand is that the times have changed, so have the tests that comes with it. So if the men are weak then the women are worse because when the cat's away, the mice will play. There are no men so what are the women doing? Doing whatever they want, which is often bad. That is the only thing that I can say men should be blamed for. Its not fair to compare men of today to those at the time of the prophet SAW. Its completely different, the situations, the technology, the people not just men women also. Also some of what the prophet teaches us is in correction to what the sahabas were doing wrong, they were humans too, so are the men today. I guess if any of the sahabas were asked if they would choose to live among the people of today or live during the time of the prophet SAW they would prefer the time of the prophet SAW. The tests we have been given today is not greater nor lesser than theirs but it is on another level. Social media is basically soft porn at this point, People are focused on wealth more than deen. There is a lot of things that we are facing now that can easily tempt someone to sin. You are approaching this matter from a western standpoint, not a religion one. You're basically describing the dating scene literally. And its no surprise since dating has been integrated into islam, whether you admit it or not, its here and its not going anywhere. Muslim men and women consider marriage a red flag in itself (of course the majority not everyone). Muslim men and women date, have sex and do all of this shit but the moment you bring the topic of marriage you will be presented with everything in islam for them not to marry, people will use deen against you to make you feel bad for talking about marriage. They will ensure they find a clip or a video or the words of a scholar just for them not to marry you but go behind your back and say their goal is marriage. See the hypocrisy here. But the men are to be blamed eh? Yes to a point too but not the way you are putting it. This is why I say islam is being integrated with the western culture. Muslim women want to get married after they complete their uni education and after they have a high paying job(which is not bad at all) and here you are coming here with the biggest load of cr** (forgive my language) that men are not responsible. You know what happens when a man asks a woman to stay at home and not work? they are called misogynists and all. They are called stupid and they are accused of not wanting women to progress. Muslim women advise other muslim women to not accept him paying for everything, they say that if the man holds all the cards that its bad, so what are you trying to pull here? You think men are stupid? You think we don't know what goes on? Where did this term "high value man" come from. Who are you to say so and so is a high value man? Who are you to call men weak? What is the standard? I can guarantee you that if you are put in one of the shoes of these men that you call weak, you wouldn't last but here you are calling them weak because they don't please these women, women who reject marriage? You against a whole gender just because of a woman? Wealth comes from Allah, the work that you have is because of Allah, the opportunity to live a comfortable life is all because of Allah. The ability to breathe is by the mercy of Allah, so who are we to label ourselves high value men? The prophet SAW didn't hold himself to the standards some of you hold yourself to, who are you? Are you guaranteed jannah? The prophet SAW himself chose to live life as a slave and not as a king, where does this idea that having wealth makes you better? The connection to Allah is a billion times better than wealth and what women think of you as a person. Muslim women listen, you have rights that should be fulfilled whether be it in marriage or outside of it but this video is just here to feed their dating nonsense. This is just a dating roadmap not a marriage one. You and everyone that agrees with this video hasn't matured and he/she is still a child. You have no clue what you want in life, you have no clue that's why you want someone else to tell you what to do. Be a grown up, sit down with your husband and talk like grown ups do. Raise your concerns, talk about financial responsibilities & all sorts of responsibilities, talk about sex, say it when you want it how you want it, be a grown up for once and make your decisions together or not. Stop this stupid and pointless gender war. Fulfill your role as a wife and the husband should do the same otherwise why did you get married? If you place importance on wealth and status then that's all you'll find in that person, money does not make a good man. The last thing you should be looking at in a man is wealth. Allah is the provider, don't think for a second the food on your table is there because of you and your sweat. Allah allowed you to have it, gave you the opportunity to work, so don't forget where it all comes from. The only one of high value is Allah. Stop this gender war, stop making videos about men or women because you will not be fair in pointing out the mistakes of each gender. Both are shitty people that do shitty things to each other then come to social media blaming the other gender and use to deen to justify their crap to make themselves feel good.

You're not supposed to do what socity tells your father is sopose to guide you don't blame others because you're dad didn't guide you

Brother I have a question should I listen to my dad when he tells me to take my lip gloss off even tho it's at home I'm not getting without with it ofc bcz it's act of tabaruj I kinda argued with him about this well without yelling but yeah

i agree with everything u said but going to college for a better degree isnt a bad path to start with ngl.

I’m a girl who has never had a boyfriend, grew up in a Muslim country, doesn’t watch porn and has never used birth control and I find feminine gentle boys my age to be the most attractive. They can be masculine in the right ways but extremely soft and kind. It is sooo attractive. I also prefer them beardless. May Allah give me the perfect guy.

لا حول ولا قوة إلا بالله What kind of woman would agree to pay bills? Is that even a woman?!

Were was your father

Okay, do, as a muslim woman, nr.1 2 and 3 yes, 100% yes, nr.4 i cann relaaatee but not fully ban it, id say maybe that a man should know who his womans make friends are so he can tell her if they have bad intentions or not, but no ofc a woman should know herself not to go out alone eith a male friend ofc, but if she has company like collegues her husband or female friends then she should be fine, but a man should know her male friends. As if for nr.5 i can relate yes also till a point for most women, but personally for me no, physical attraction isnt main or thattttt important, whats important about it is the hygiene u keep, cuz God gave us the way we are and we cant change our appereance but keep ur hygiene up and deen up and ull be good.

I don't know where you come up with the idea that men not making a lot of money is because they're "lazy" and so their family having both parents work is because "he isnt maculine enough" when the issue is most likely that where they live is hard to make enough to live off one income. Of course if they had the possibility not to it wouldn't be the case. Plus insulting our elders is shameful.

Please stop using images of women/sisters in your thumbnails..even if part of it is blurred, it is unnecessary

Brother what is considered a masculine woman? Someone who gets a degree and then a job?

Lol this is exactly the advice Allah would give to Muslims…😂. Go read the Quran.

Ok but whats wrong with finding younger nice boys attractive?

The first point is absolutely dumb and nonsensical. Nobody, not even the "Feminist" or "Womanist" as you call them believe that Men and Women are exactly the same with no differences between them. Even you're point that men are somehow always "logical" and women somehow always "emotional" makes no sense either. Men and Women have very similar proclivities towards emotional expression, the only difference is what particular emotions are expressed. Look this up if you don't believe me, this idea that Women are more emotional than Men or Men are more logical than women is just not true. What's worse is the example you brought up. Let's say you're correct for the sake of argument (you're not) that women respond primarily to emotion, why would Allah SWT tell Men to advise them kindly first if Allah knows that it's not going to work since that's what they "need" according to you?

“Submitting to you” Yes…truly free women

Just my personal take on things

Jazak Allahu khayran Brother

the joke is I have heard of stories about how some wifes end up not wanting to be intimate with their husbands because they let themselves go or they have a stinking mouth or they are fat or they dont think about the female and only thinks of their own pleasure, like in all of these instances I kinda can understand those women, because if I had to be honest, If I had a wife and she was letting herself go, not being hygienic, and over all just a selfish person, I wouldn't want to be intimate with such a person either