5 Ways Living A Formal Life Can Keep You Slim

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@keezyreads 2 жыл бұрын

My mother passed away when I was a pre teen. I navigated my teenage and early adult years without the proper feminine guidance a young woman needs. Your videos help me a lot.

@rinapadilla4019 2 жыл бұрын

Your comment touched my heart!

@rosymylene1878 2 жыл бұрын

Blessings and a big hug to you.

@TheDailyConnoisseur 2 жыл бұрын

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@smyoung3988 2 жыл бұрын

As a 67 year old living in the south, I’m delighted by things we have in common from the Portmeirion to a love of classic literature. Seeing this video, I have to applaud what you’ve said. My parents believed this & tho they began their life together struggling to have a lovely home, I was raised this way. It’s not about money & accumulating material things. It’s about treasuring the nice things you do have. My mom always set a beautiful table with very little. Long before my dad became successful, I thought we were rich b/c we had freshly ironed embroidered pillowcases. Thank you for promoting this.

@TheDailyConnoisseur 2 жыл бұрын

I love this!

@petramckean5041 2 жыл бұрын

I am a teacher in Vancouver, and lately I have been made aware of children that eat in their bedroom in front of a screen, or bouncing around the living room. I grew up in a poor immigrant family and yet we always sat down for our meals, no matter how humble. I can not believe the breakdown of not only set mealtimes at a common area, but the slow degradation of family values.

@juliettezea9507 2 жыл бұрын

Because sadly there’s not much family formation anymore

@elizabethnelms2564 2 жыл бұрын

I am a teacher in TN & feel the same way.

@danyf.1442 2 жыл бұрын

I am 40 and live with my elderly mother. It is just the two of us usually but there's no question that the table is set and we sit down for meals, does not matter how simple or frugal it is. Even when I lived on my own I tried to avoid eating on the sofa or bed, I feel that such behavior will lead to be less mindful and organized in other aspects of my life too.

@taniacummings9207 2 жыл бұрын

@@juliettezea9507 And that has been a deliberate piece of social engineering. The nuclear family is the foundation of a strong cohesive society with good conservative, traditional moral values. The destruction of society begins with the shaking and breaking of its religious and moral foundation and promotion of laissez-faire, casual attitudes particularly towards sexuality and its expression. The purpose is to divide and conquer, to make people dependent on the state for sustenance and look to them as authority figures. Since the 1960s we have been seeing this deliberately destructive social engineering creeping in and now it is accelerating. The "government is keeping you safe" fear-based mantra is all part of that. Worth checking out Frankfurt School and the ideas of Gramsky et al for deeper insights. God bless.

@pj595 2 жыл бұрын

My mom had a dress that she bought in the 70's ( in her late 20's)which she kept long after she stopped wearing it and she would try it on every year to make sure she hadn't put on weight. If it was a bit snug feeling, she knew she needed to cut back on the food a bit. I must remember to ask her if she still has it.....

@jo-annel.wright2975 2 жыл бұрын

True or not I remember reading French women used fitted pants or skirt rather than a tape to 'measure' themselves.

@allsquaredup9717 2 жыл бұрын

When the pandemic hit and we went into lockdown, I was shocked at how many were viewing it as a time to have a months-long pajama party, with unending snacks and Netflix binges. Instead I vowed to dress up everyday like I had somewhere to go. Hair, makeup, something cute to wear. It made a huge difference in my mood. We used the time to get lots done around the house, found a farm box delivery service and ate healthier than ever. While it was a terribly scary time, we weren’t going to let it take our dignity.

@ChanceCard9 2 жыл бұрын

During the pandemic I still wore lipstick under my 😷 mask, it’s just part of my routine every day mascara and 💄 lipstick

@vilindaveronica5703 Жыл бұрын

I did the same thing but I was so stressed I drank every day. I ended up putting on weight.

@virgierutledge3004 2 жыл бұрын

I am 72 retired. I am still encouraged by what Jennifer has to say.

@taniacummings9207 2 жыл бұрын

Ditto. 70.

@cherylbalmas4901 9 ай бұрын

I just turned 68 and I just found this channel. I find it fascinating. This video was a true eye-opener. When I was first retired I had a bit more of a routine. Then I got sassy and said to myself, “I could do what I want when I want how I want and no one can boss me“. This was very liberating. However, over the years I have become a bit too relaxed and casual. On the days when my husband works, which is only two days a week now out of the house, I find myself lounging on my couch or sitting on my couch with my meal. Or eating lunch or snacking over The counter in the kitchen while I am multitasking. So I go from one extreme to the other. I’m either multitasking and eating at the same time which is not a good way to do it. Or I am a complete lounge lizard sitting on the couch eating. This video just made me chuckle because I could identify with many of the things said here! Picked up quite a few good tips too! And I’m surprised I let myself slip into these bad habits because while I was never super formal, as a very organized person I used to be a bit more intentional. And one of my pet peeves is the way people dress when they travel, particularly on an airplane. Sweat pants, pajamas, dirty feet in flip-flops, bed hair making them look like They just rolled out of bed and hopped on the plane. Lol I’m sorry I know I’m sounding Judgey but this and a few other things are really pet peeves of mine. This video was a good reminder that I can do better!

@agathachris9722 2 жыл бұрын

I'm steadily arranging my life to mirror these principles.

@Sistacurls 2 жыл бұрын

Great video. When I became a mother it dawned at me that if meals were only had at the dining table - not on the coach, not in bed - it helped keep my house cleaner! I never connected it with maintaining my weight, but, yeah.

@BeautyLifewithLC 2 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed how you showed the drastic difference of the look in wearing sweats versus dressing in actual day clothes. A major difference!

@pip5284 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! She goes from Walmart lady to head-turning stunning!

@heidireynolds5598 2 жыл бұрын

Jennifer, it’s hard to imagine you EVER looking that way around your home, and mindlessly eating on the couch or over the sink, which is why I found it so funny! 😂

@tishie42 2 жыл бұрын

This is 100% true on the clothing front. Not wearing sweats and yoga pants with waistline hiding silhouettes is a great indicator of where my waist is going...I sew most of my" formal" clothes so I know exactly where I'm supposed to be.

@amandazplace5663 2 жыл бұрын

That's so true! I doubt most of us non-seamstresses know our waist and hip measurements.

@TheDailyConnoisseur 2 жыл бұрын

I love that you sew your clothing!

@tishie42 2 жыл бұрын

@@TheDailyConnoisseur it came from wanting to stop adjusting my clothes. It seemed that only stretchy knit items were comfortable, but I even had to pull down my t shirts constantly because the space between my bust and shoulders is smaller that average (whatever that is). . I'm petite but muscular and absolutely nothing fit right. I now make even my t-shirts and lingerie. When I stand up, there's no digging anything out or adjusting anything. Much more ladylike in my opinion. It just seems very tacky to be digging to pull out my underthings. I didn't want to do that anymore. I love that I stumbled onto this channel. It seems so many influences are making life less formal and it shows. It's actual self care for me. It sets up long term good habits. Thank you!

@JenniferoftheSea 2 жыл бұрын

@@tishie42 Wow. That's amazing. What a valuable skill and talent to have!

@tishie42 2 жыл бұрын

@@JenniferoftheSea it really is! And anyone able bodied enough can learn it. It's an amazing stress release too. Stitch meditation.

@debradieckman3846 2 жыл бұрын

At 5ft 3/4in and 160#+, I knew I needed to loose weight. In my mind, at 53 years old and having lost 40 pounds two times in the last 20 years, this was going to be probably the last time I could lose the weight. I got a jump start to losing weight by having pneumonia for the first time for a full month in January this year and got down to 150 pounds. I decided to make that a guage and to never go above that weight. I also made my husband shake on it with me that he had permission to get firm with me if needed, if I went above that mark of 150 pounds. I had tried 8 hour window Intermittent fasting before and found I would not gain weight if I did it. I used that time to eat whenever and whatever I wanted. I however never lost any weight. I hated counting calories, making special meals and exercising, plus I did not have the energy to do so. Then I saw YOUR VIDEO...your 1 year update. WHAT!? I really don't have to count calories or exercise!!! This is great! Plus I get to have a mid day snack...I'm in! I am now at 139 pounds and that is my new guage...no going out of the 30's. Having three sensibly sized meals and one snack in an 8 hour period has been so helpful. Before I would skip meals to lose a pound only to be hungry all the time. In YOUR VIDEO, you ate well at each meal. It is amazing to eat so well and the weight come off! I now have energy and walk 3 miles a couple times a week. If anyone asks, I tell them about you and your way of eating. Your transparency and not making weight loss a program or huge ordeal has helped me to relax and actually lose weight. Going to continue this LIFESTYLE! Maybe I will have a good one year update too! May the LORD bless your household!

@rocketmom60 2 жыл бұрын

We have a very casual lifestyle but have always had our meals together at the table. Even when our son was in sports, we waited to eat until he got home from practice. We didn't do it to be formal, but we thought having a family meal together gave us the chance to talk about our day and keep up with what we were each doing.

@lindahenderson1625 2 жыл бұрын

In regard to our daywear, the same applies when we are sick. Just to get into daywear and adding a little cosmetics can raise my mood and energy level. How we appear, even when alone, does make a psychological difference. Thank you for continuing to enlighten us as to how we can be our best and enjoy our lives in small , elegant ways. It does make a difference. Life is hard. It is my job to create the joy and appreciate the other side of life. Life is a gift from God. Live your life showing appreciation for that precious gift. Our enjoyment of it relies on what our focus is on. Thank you, again, for showing us that beauty surrounds us in all aspects of our lives. God bless you and your family.

@PetiteLeeLife 2 жыл бұрын

This resonated with me so much! I broke my wrist in two places a couple of years ago, and I had to wear a cast for months. I couldn't wear pants that buttoned, so I lived in stretchy pants and tent like dresses. When I finally healed, I'd gained 15 pounds and I couldn't get into any of my clothes. I'm over 40 now and it was difficult to get that weight off. It's taken a year, but I'm 20 pounds down and much happier.

@nicolassmith3350 2 жыл бұрын

Hi there

@lisabraun1177 2 жыл бұрын

I've never considered this concept before, but it makes so much sense. Thanks so much for posting this video and all that you do to help us become classier versions of ourselves. Too much of society doesn't care, and were surrounded by casual living so much we don't realize how much we let ourselves go.

@whohash83 2 жыл бұрын

That runway walk in your sweats was everything. I died! lol

@eunoia1016 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree with you, but the once in awhile slump on the couch (maybe when no one is looking 🤣) with a cookie can lend to balance IMO. You look pretty comfy on that couch.

@ruthgreen2014 2 жыл бұрын

"A bored person is a boring person". I heard Dennis Prager say this and couldn't agree more.

@nicolassmith3350 2 жыл бұрын

Hi there

@Jessa32 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my. The “don’t” B roll is hilarious and humbling. I’ve done it all!!! 🤪😳

@frenchbreadandfamily1811 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for bringing us another wonderful Monday mindset to build upon, Jennifer!

@TheDailyConnoisseur 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!

@davebonello1944 2 жыл бұрын

(Melanie here) Fun and insightful video. And if you have an organized, structured life most of the time, there is room for spontaneous fun, too, because you know you will reign it in at some point. Especially with kids, when there is order (not constant mess and chaos), they can appreciate the occasional picnic lunch on a blanket on the floor since it's special. Hey, that's a video idea! How/when to be spontaneous within a formal lifestyle :)

@livingawordfilledlife 2 жыл бұрын

I love how you couldn't even bring yourself to eat over the sink (while trying to display "goblin mode"). We have a guest house and I am SHOCKED at how so few of our guests use the dining table. I would say 95% of our guests either eat while sitting on the sofa or in bed. I really don't even understand why they would do that!?!?!??!

@jennieforcum5396 2 жыл бұрын

Outstanding video, both wise and funny at the same time! The “other Jennifer” illustrations were hilarious, but so on-point. Thank you for highlighting things we might not have thought of before! ❤️

@marya.pierce5236 2 жыл бұрын

Jennifer! This is so profound and such an anchor! I think the thing that I miss and am longing for is structure. And the wisdom that you are sharing is priceless because it highlights the fact that as a culture we have become way too casual with our dress, with our homes, with our conversation, on and on. I think your video today is profoundly at the heart of why we have lost quality in life. And it is a bullseye for any of us who struggle with our weight. You mentioned boredom as well and I believe this is a key factor - the lack of structure. What is so needed is for people to have a sense of purpose and I believe this meets that need. I thank you so much for the influence that you have had in my life. I am going to pass this on to my nieces. God bless you richly! Mary 💖

@TheDailyConnoisseur 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Mary! Comment of the week!

@marebear09 2 жыл бұрын

Good insight. The "you do you" phenomenon is not helping anyone. There are better and worse choices, and it doesn't all boil down to you and your feelings.

@pip5284 2 жыл бұрын

This is great, definitely what I aspire to! As a mother who breastfeeds round the clock I do allow myself to snack whenever I am hungry, though. Once I am nursing less I'll need to be careful not to continue that habit, so these tips are very helpful.

@SoNick25 2 жыл бұрын

Pip, nursing moms are excused! You have to do what you can, when you can. However, as your kids get older I strongly suggest a routine for everyday life..my mother did this, I did this and I hope my kids do this when they have kids!

@halcyondays8945 2 жыл бұрын

Breastfeeding and early postpartum mamas absolutely get a pass!

@tiffanywake5070 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations. I’m nursing a five month old who I feed applesauce and oatmeal to on days she seems to need it. I don’t know how old your baby is but at this stage I feel I’m able to get a lot done around the house and I’m eating a bit better as well. Having a three item to do list or a cleaning list helps with time management. Every nap is utilized to get things done. I also have two older Children ages 7 & 5 and babysit three others aged 12, 6 & 4. I love this channel because it reminds us to live beautifully and enjoy the things we buy not hoard them away as if they are too good for us to use. Anyways best of luck to you.

@janierlarcheveaux3057 2 жыл бұрын

I love sweets! After reading your first book I decided to be more deliberate about sitting down at the table to enjoy dessert following my meal. Before, every time I passed by I would take a sliver of cake or slice of pie and before I knew it I'd eaten half by myself! Now my clothes are fitting better without even trying.

@fionnghualakelly5942 2 жыл бұрын

Why do I feel like you had the best time acting the goblin mode shots?! Hehehe, you’re the best Jennifer

@TheDailyConnoisseur 2 жыл бұрын

I definitely did! 😂

@jamieboylan641 2 жыл бұрын

Here’s an interesting thought, Jennifer, that maybe you or others might agree with me on. Going along with living a formal life, looking presentable each day, setting the table, taking time out each day for a sit-down coffee/tea break, etc… is the concept of physically slowing down with doing tasks around the house. I got to thinking about this after going to the library and shopping downtown at a local, quaint gift shop. I noticed how the ladies I interacted with moved slowly and deliberately. Although these women were “older” in the sense that they were born before 1960, they were not slow because of old age, but they were slow because they were deliberate about each thing they were doing (counting the money, looking for something behind the cashier drawer, folding a receipt to put in my bag) It got me thinking about how quickly I move and do things around the house. I have 5 kids and I homeschool- while I do take time to do a lot of what you promote in these videos, I notice that I’m always moving in a rushed manner and when I slow down physically to take the time to do something like as if I’m NOT in a hurry, it really does something to the brain and mood. Does anyone know what I’m trying to describe or is it just me? 😂

@lightupyourlife8058 2 жыл бұрын

I fully agree. I have noticed the same with me. When I am hurried towards finishing any chore I feel so much stressed from inside. I yell at my daughter for any xyz reason but when I set my intention to remain calm and composed I am able to finish my task with much ease and grace

@tonicarey971 2 жыл бұрын

I took a spill a couple of years ago after being in too much of a hurry while simultaneously allowing myself to become too fatigued that day. It scared me, because although I was not hurt in the fall, it easily could have gone another way. It made me think about Queen Elizabeth, and I wondered if anytime during her long reign, with so many public events, had she ever fallen? Well, I could not find a single recorded instance of her tripping, much less falling. That's when it dawned on me that she moves slowly and deliberately, and that's a good lesson for me. (Of course, in her life, everything revolves around her, so she's never in a hurry! That's not true in my life, but it's still an important lesson!)

@jamieboylan641 2 жыл бұрын

@@tonicarey971 Yes! I’m reminded of my need to slow down every time I bang my elbow or stub my toe!

@taniacummings9207 2 жыл бұрын

I know exactly what you mean, especially as I do age more. I am so tired of being hustled through checkouts by fast-talking young women who are ok with the how are you today have a nice day thank you stuff but it is gabbled mechanically and the next persons things are being checked through when I am still checking and putting away my change and gathering my personal items before leaving. The words tumble out if their mouths, the ridiculous perspex screens now everywhere and the totally medically useless and harmful masks don't help either. I so hate going out shopping or even going somewhere for tea or coffee now. Life has lost its grace and care and for the most part been replaced with automaton empty words and platitudes.

@jamieboylan641 2 жыл бұрын

@@taniacummings9207 Very well put! I agree. I think that’s why I prefer to be helped by the older ladies at the library or my favorite local bookstore and gift shops downtown where they actually take their time. (And wouldn’t you know, they’re all run by people in their 50’s or older)

@jessieelliott3157 2 жыл бұрын

A few years ago i had finished work and had a long drive home and was really hungry. I was at the traffic lights digging around in my bag for something to eat and looked in the rear vision mirror to see a rather large woman literally stuffing food into her face. I thought "thats what ill look like if i keep this up." I remember this often and try to avoid eating on the way home. I do have my days though where i eat in the car, but they are few thanks to that woman.

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@florencebelcourt9706 2 жыл бұрын

As a lady of 65, I was raised in a more formal environment you speak of. It wasnt a wealthy home by world standards but yet this way of living was possible then and continues for people in every group of life. It continues for me to this day and is one that brings me a restful, welcome, beautiful environment and mind. I've always said, it takes no more energy to pull on a baggy pair of joggers than a pair of nice trousers or skirt but the difference within is immeasurable.

@textnyc 2 жыл бұрын

Seeing the contrast reminds me of "Goofus and Gallant" in the Highlights magazines I read as a kid. Loved those, and love this!

@2aeng 2 жыл бұрын

Such a wonderful perspective to life. You're absolutely right on the correlation between a formal life & eating right. Thank you Jennifer

@sarapawsonherrington2595 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent points! Another 'problem' with eating inappropriately is the design of our homes. When it is all one big room -"open concept" then the food in the kitchen is always visually presented available. I notice that you have a separate kitchen and dining room, I think. I also think that is a good idea!

@angiehelmly2841 2 жыл бұрын

Love this video Jennifer. Can you do a video on remaining chic and elegant in the summer

@mommabear5059 2 жыл бұрын

I love when you put out these kinds of videos! Thank you for your thoughtful and helpful content!

@lissetsanchez5316 2 жыл бұрын

I am striving to live a more minimal yet formal life. Thank you Jennifer for bringing these nuggets of wisdom. You are a blessing brought thru KZfaq. 🌺

@lisalowrey2230 2 жыл бұрын

This was a very inspiring video. With the advent of summer, we rarely adhere to meal schedules, or even cooking meals from scratch. When I visit grocery stores, fresh foods are being replaced by pre-made meals because no one cooks, including me. You have inspired me to change it up!! Thank you. P.S. Embarrassed to say that I have my hair in a messy bun and I am wearing a bathrobe right now. Lol

@diannebertold3602 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you reminding us that these small decisions make us healthier. So true.

@shirleyannaphroditeofficial 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for having these much needed conversations Jennifer.🌹

@juliegillen3571 2 жыл бұрын

I love this❣️ You are spot on with everything 💯. Thanks for the reminders to be more formal, it all makes sense! 💁🏼‍♀️

@jwrites805 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for a great video, Jennifer. I'm studying for my masters at the moment, so a lot of time sitting, reading and writing. I'm really having to work on my time management especially around balancing home management, exercise and diet. I think these tips will be so helpful for putting me in the right mindset. Your dress is beautiful, those colours suit you so well! x

@mrs.shockley 2 жыл бұрын

Great video Jennifer! I am loving the laughter that you have during the sweatpants shots! For me elegant living is everything! It sets you apart and can provide opportunities that you would never think were possible!

@erinfoley9965 2 жыл бұрын

Great video! I'm watching it waiting for my flight to take off at the airport. Goblin mode overload! When I grew up, we got dressed up to GO to the airport. I remember excitedly picking out my 'airport outfit'. It set the tone for the trip, in my opinion. Now, most people look like they are in pajamas. Makes me sad...

@andyt6637 2 жыл бұрын

Exceptional segment. Very thought provoking. My mother is Canadian French and I was raised to live formally. Mom always wore a dress and added an apron when cooking or cleaning. She is now 93 years old and still runs her household impeccably. Cloth napkins at every meal and teatime. Also - Many thanks for the Nord VPN. I have been wanting to subscribe and finally subscribed to Premium and all the 'accessories' a few moments ago. I needed a nudge .... Greatly appreciate that too.

@judyludden 2 жыл бұрын

Love this Jennifer! Thank you. I need this video. I’ve been real slacker and need to get things in order. Have a beautiful week!

@Rositasparks 2 жыл бұрын

Fabulous insight and tips. I fully agree with you on this. Have a peaceful Memorial Day.⭐️

@happyhomeinholland 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Jennifer! Excited for this video, I always love yours. I saw this video a little bit too late because I just emptied a bag of potatochips. But I ate it quite'formal' at the table from a boal, you made me do a little better 😉

@karenstrickland5056 2 жыл бұрын

I will have to show this video to my teen as well! The illustrations are quite similar!! I have days like that as well. Very well thought out plans. I love all of your videos!

@jessicapemberton5476 2 жыл бұрын

Great insight and correlations! Thank you, Jennifer!

@leigh6804 2 жыл бұрын

Haha, great video!! I'm inspired to do better! Now that my children are grown and it's just hubby and me, we've definitely gotten too casual about snacking and meal times. Thanks Jennifer!

@kimbers1238 2 жыл бұрын

Some really good points. I think I can use these even in my casual life. Structure would help me tremendously. I have been a long term subscriber and love ur content. I just wanted to say that I was raised by a "formal" mother and it made me a nervous wreck. Even to this day. So in quiet rebellion I went the opposite way. Not wanting any formal at all in my life. I'm still trying to find a middle ground.

@parahcoffey554 2 жыл бұрын

I have so enjoyed your videos! You inspired me to do intermittent fasting and I have for three months now. I haven’t lost a pound, but I’m grateful for the health benefits I’ve read about. I’ve researched what I could be doing wrong and couldn’t come up with anything, so I guess I’m just eating too much. I started with 16/8 and have progressed to 18/6. Congratulations on your commitment AND weight loss!

@tanaconnelly6960 2 жыл бұрын

Your blouse is so pretty! Thankyou for always sharing such good thoughts. 💐

@fairysoulz4903 2 жыл бұрын

I am always so excited to see what you have to say! Thank you for these great insightful tips!

@debbiedouglass1478 2 жыл бұрын

You have such as gift for recognizing such a powerful correlation between living a more formal life and weight control. I had never made this connection before but I completely agree. I have always leaned towards a more formal way of living in decorating my home and the way I dress. I have lived with a very pared down wardrobe for the past 5 years but today I plan to order your 10 item wardrobe E-course to make better selections. Also, my plan is to begin meal planning for the upcoming week and to sit at the table to enjoy it. Thank you Jennifer so much for the valuable content you present and the inspiration that comes with it! I'm proud to say you are my role model. Many thanks, Debbie

@TheDailyConnoisseur 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Debbie! I hope you enjoy the eCourse ✨

@juliekonigskind6434 2 жыл бұрын

I love, what you said about the formal environment for example a really nice restaurant or hotel. Treating our very home with the same elegance and gratitude will help me tremendously next time I’m tempted to snack on the sofa! Thank you so much and blessings from Germany :)

@samanthamcgowan8684 2 жыл бұрын

I put on a skirt and a freshly ironed T-shirt to go to the grocery store this morning and felt amazing! I didn’t even change when I got home either! Then I sat on my porch and ate lunch with my husband ☺️

@suehy4054 2 жыл бұрын

So inspiring. Thank you for sharing with us!

@aniaw6285 2 жыл бұрын

I really need to start working on it...Thank you for this reminder :)

@pinkrose8422 2 жыл бұрын

Brilliant! I truly agree with what you explained in this video. It was spot on.

@happycommuter3523 2 жыл бұрын

Great use of humor to get your points across!

@Lillian584 2 жыл бұрын

Lolololol Jennifer 😂😂❣️❣️ omg I laughed so hard at the sweatpants and hair in a messy bun scenes. You are the best 🥰🥰 Thank you for your videos. You are changing my life for the better all the time. Thank you for all the lessons and inspiration. Much love and blessings to you and your family ❤️

@nikkil764 2 жыл бұрын

Setting a beautiful table is a way of saying “You are important enough.” Not just setting the table for occasions or when company is coming over. Set a beautiful table for one. Also if you are having a really bad day, dressing up in your cutest outfit will almost instantly raise your spirits. On a really bad day (like today) I like to go to a tea room and have afternoon tea. The whole process gives me something else to concentrate on and surrounds me with beauty and grace.

@suzanneandersen7319 2 жыл бұрын

This was a great video Jennifer, I think almost everyone can relate to the goblin mode at one time or another! I’ve been dressing up more often now, trying to stay away from my comfort yoga pants and wearing dresses and skirts….I love them. I do think it’s true, when you feel pretty and a little more formal you want your home to reflect that too. I love pretty vintage tablecloths, flowers on the table, and lovely dishes. The small changes can really make a difference. You really made me laugh with your sweatpants clips too! So funny as it’s so out of character for you, especially the ego waffles with hot sauce!! 🤣Thank you for all your inspiration, I never miss a video! 🌸🌿💐

@viola758 2 жыл бұрын

Fantastic video as always. The clip of you trying to eat the eggo with hot sauce was hilarious.

@Nourishingminimalism 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this Jennifer - I enjoyed the entire video, but I definitely relate to the meal times, I've noticed that I revere mealtimes more than my peers, where we all sit at the table and share what I've cooked... and it curbs the snacking in all of us, and has given the kids better habits - we all know what time the meal is and we can wait for it.

@TheDailyConnoisseur 2 жыл бұрын

This is so true. Thank you for watching! ♥️

@ChanceCard9 2 жыл бұрын

It really is the simple things that make a big difference, great inspiring video 🙏

@estyle329 2 жыл бұрын

This video speaks encouragement to me. Thanks!

@elizabethtallman3280 2 жыл бұрын

You have such a great sense of humor! I love the pictures of you snacking. I think about how you looked sitting on the couch eating chess its whenever I am tempted to snack!

@larag1764 2 жыл бұрын

I recommend you read 'Taste' by Stanley Tucci, a beautiful book by the American actor of Italian heritage and the importance of food, mealtimes and recipes to him, his parents, his children and colleagues. Interspersed with recipes, it had my mouth watering ! An easy read, a delightful read. Hi from Australia 🇦🇺 xx

@taniacummings9207 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Lara. NSW here 👋

@debrawrightman9976 2 жыл бұрын

Jennifer you are an inspiration. I would like to share your videos with some of my friends because I know they would feel better about themselves. But I am afraid they might take it in the wrong way. I would like to be help them change their lifestyle and be happier and more sure of themselves. I will share your channel. Thank you for all you do to help make me a classy woman. ❤️

@SoNick25 2 жыл бұрын

whenever, however and whatever...no no! Eating while walking or on the couch is the norm in western societies. Thanks to you I have added many revisions to my life and everything is organised and working to plan. Wearing nice clothes, eating nice food and using beautiful crockery brings me joy and satisfaction. Highly recommend!

@qytj1182 2 жыл бұрын

This is so true and relevant to me! I saw a colleague today, complimented her smart apparel and she thanked me but I felt a very awkward after, as I on the other hand was in tight trousers and a very crinkled shirt 😭 I went blank and just said bye quickly haha I'm looking for some quality clothing now, as I have been uncomfortable all day in the material too

@courtneybougie7904 2 жыл бұрын

Omgeee. You and that Mom bun. As always, great content. You inspire me to sit just a bit straighter. Thank you. XO

@kiara4253 2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree about boredom. I had a period in the past when I put on weight because it was a really boring period at work. Just this morning, before watching your video, I thought that a good planned day and a good routine could give me a sense of accomplishment and help me to overcome boredom. Also if I'm not a fan of routines!

@paulajohnson7075 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Jennifer, from all of those who are in recovery from various maladies, for giving us some good laughs! A merry heart does good like a medicine, so you were like medicine. You are a great actress. It was so funny to see you not be able to keep a straight face when you began to take a bite of the hot sauced waffle (who truly does that? ). Life is so much nicer when one is mindful. No matter how rich or poor, we can be tidy and eat our meals at the table! Thanks, again!

@wendykornfein3337 2 жыл бұрын

So agreed. Never thought of this for controlling weight.

@Martina_E 2 жыл бұрын

This is so true!

@sumnerfamily2287 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely 100% agree with this video. Thank you for sharing! And I must say, I laughed out loud every time I saw the clips of you snacking on the couch in your sweatpants😁

@judymarkel8029 2 жыл бұрын

I never thought of it that way. Thanks

@klf153 2 жыл бұрын

(giggling at the couldn't-care-less contrast connaisseur) Love this one, Jennifer! Thank you for making this connection.

@nicolassmith3350 2 жыл бұрын

Hi there

@sarahd1706 2 жыл бұрын

Love the video ❤️ It was amazing to see how the way one dresses can make such a difference. You switched back & forth from looking like an elegant adult who can be taken seriously, to a cute little 15 year old who needs guidance 😂😂 The little music was great during goblin mode😂

@adyl89 2 жыл бұрын

Very eye-opening! Thank you for sharing 😀

@MA-iu5hu 2 жыл бұрын

I’m finally getting the sense (I think) that what you mean by formal is not unfairly valuing one style over another, but rather bringing mindful rituals and structure into life to enrich it

@JillKirchner 2 жыл бұрын

I watch this video often just to laugh at you eating over the sink. It makes me smile and reminds me of how I once did that before IF, which has changed my life. Thank you, Jennifer for your good common sense and lovely humor.

@crterwil 2 жыл бұрын

Sooo true and inspiring!! You on the sofa earring those cheerios!!🤣 what was the poster you had in your closet door ? It looked interesting, like a guide to dressing.

@rawcurls1 2 жыл бұрын

What a great topic. 💕 I came out of a period of unwellness where my iron was extremely low and I was constantly weak, dizzy and lightheaded. And I found myself wearing a lot of sweatpants (more like decent joggers, but still) and being on the sofa a lot. I really disliked feeling so schlumpy but wasnt sure how to dress better with the way I was feeling and the very cold weather. Eventually upon feeling better, I went back to dressing better, and the nicer weather sure helped as well. This experience had made me interested in figuring out what to wear during times of sickness and malaise, where one feels almost powerless to make efforts but still desires to be put together.

@Erin_29 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you🙏💞

@paulajohnson7075 2 жыл бұрын

For the days I was primarily in my recliner all day, I purchased a nice, soft pair of pants with an elastic waist that made me look more dressy than I was; I used my usual comfortable tops and have been able to look good even when not feeling well. My husband has never cared for sweat pants, so I have none. The pants I wear now do not look like loungewear, but they feel like it! I find that if I wear light makeup, especially groom my eyebrows, I feel much better without much fuss. I hope you feel better soon.

@rawcurls1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I should add the sweatpants I wore were fairly decent joggers. 💕

@agnesdp1855 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Jennifer, your videos are like a breath of fresh air. Thank you for another great one! Being French, most of what you say is common sense in our culture, where meal etiquette is nearly sacred. We always eat together as a family and don't snack during the day, except for the '4 heures' or 'le goûter', which is the equivalent of your tea time I guess.

@alcogito8287 2 жыл бұрын

As Americans tend to eat dinner earlier, many of us can easily skip gouter (and save the calories for dinner).

@lindaleclair8938 2 жыл бұрын

I was getting sleepy on a long drive yesterday, so I stopped and bought a two-serving bag of potato chips. I was thinking , to myself--this isn't like Jennifer at all. Most of the time, I do try to follow Madame Chic principles.

@nicolassmith3350 2 жыл бұрын

Hi there

@homesteadgmad8223 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice!!!

@michellebedtelyon364 2 жыл бұрын

I loved how even in your "goblin" example you couldn't pull off being sloppy! That is truly a good example of practice makes perfect. Thank you so much for your consistent example of pursuing classy! 😊

@TheDailyConnoisseur 2 жыл бұрын

😆 Thank you!

@aliciaannewoodward 2 жыл бұрын

This was one of my favorite Daily Connoisseur videos yet. I've definitely noticed how each of your points affects my own eating habits ~ such an interesting correlation. I imagine your husband would faint if he walked in and saw you sprawled out on the couch in sweats eating chips out of the bag! ~ Alicia

@phillipsk100 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, thank you, thank you! I both needed and loved this🥰

@JenniferVanMatreMissouriUSA 2 жыл бұрын

Love this video! Since your last video, I stopped eating dinner at the couch! I sit at the kitchen bar (my family is still at the couch 😂). We do sit at the formal dinner table about once a week. It’s so much nicer!

@judyzander3681 2 жыл бұрын

Your clips of you being casual (messy bun & slippers, snacking) are so hilarious of you! ONLY because it is so not you!🤣 As always, great food for thought❤