5 Ways To Make Him WANT TO COMMIT To You

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5 Ways To Make Him WANT TO COMMIT To You

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Stephan Speaks

Күн бұрын

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@MeetStephanSpeaks Күн бұрын

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@Priscilla.i.m 9 ай бұрын

“Being made to feel insecure is a sign that you know deep down he’s not committed”. Felt THAT!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@J.CH.F. 9 ай бұрын

Encouraging👍thank you Steph

@judykyalo3074 9 ай бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks What if you've already made the mistake of not being his peace at the early stages of dating? I'm terrified that I've already destroyed the connection. Is there a way to repair this?😢

@esmiemolina7579 9 ай бұрын

so true never felt more insecure than when you know deep down someones not 100 or not sure they are for you..

@dianatailorshop3884 18 күн бұрын

Unfortunately commitment is not the end of the world, staying committed is important

@sacampbr1 9 ай бұрын

You’re right when you say “we’ll never be good enough for the wrong person”! That’s why I don’t want anyone to settle for me or I for him. Like the men, I would like to pursued by an extra special man who separates himself from the other good men around. I desire nothing less since I am what I’m asking for. Thanks for this video, it was very enlightening!🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

@24pixiegirl 9 ай бұрын

🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Same for me!!

@gmilner84 9 ай бұрын

#4 You Betta preach! Physical attraction is important. It's not shallow if this quality is important to you. A lack of physical attraction can lead to so many problems. Especially disrespect.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@lyshawade5029 9 ай бұрын

There are a lot of broken people who are afraid of committing. They want to be in a relationship but struggle with trust issues.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Healing is definitely key. It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@nyx4323 9 ай бұрын

If he wants you to be his peace, he needs to create space for that. You can’t be his peace if he makes you feel threatened or insecure by other girls.

@shaearnelle 9 ай бұрын

Attachment & connection are two different things. 💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely!

@celestinebennett212 9 ай бұрын

A Man knows his wife from day one ..that first conversation ...3 months down the line watch him hinting, My parents are comming over and they would like to meet you, ...or when he starts using the word my Mrs ..After 3 months ..if he drags the relationship more than 1 year ..you are not his wife ..you are a gate keeper..#The Reality

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@celestinebennett212 9 ай бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks #Spread some 💞💕always

@TheAttractionTriggers 6 ай бұрын

*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*

@thesexynun1749 Ай бұрын

I read your comments on his videos.. they are amazing

@teresaadams7368 4 ай бұрын

I think some women )me included) were secure, until their partner began pulling back without explanation, which caused the insecurity….

@thesexynun1749 Ай бұрын

Agreed!!

@LizDavinciLand 9 ай бұрын

I like your videos because you are healing divisions between men and women caused by negative stereotypes reinforced by a lot of content currently pushed. Your content is a positive force. All the best, Liz

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 thank you!

@2Xotick 9 ай бұрын

God is good and ALWAYS on time!!! Such a blessing that I found Stephan’s videos. TY for keeping your talks real!! EXACTLY what I have been needing to hear for a long a - - time. Blessings to ALL you BEAUTIFUL souls! 💜

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

I'm happy that the videos have been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

@heatherjeffrey8997 9 ай бұрын

Connection is the key to unlock every thing you do or say in a relationship, it's very important Stephan thank you so much 🙏 blessings to you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

You're absolutely right!

@chiqui0816 9 ай бұрын

Binge Watching your videos on a Saturday evening. Spiritual and emotional self care is the best❤️ Thank you for all you do to help others in their healing process🙏🏻

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you and don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity!

@babs4reel 9 ай бұрын

I think men are really complicated. A lot of men end up with the wife who was best at tricking him. She is quick at evaluating him and discerning what he likes then she pretends to be that person. That’s why most men don’t recognize their wives a few years after marriage when she’s no longer pretending.

@trifree 9 ай бұрын

Agree

@24pixiegirl 9 ай бұрын

Yes!!! Women can be great manipulators!

@tinawalker5335 Ай бұрын

Facts!!!!!!!!

@LanaAnneMD 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Stephan. I'm so grateful I came across your channel helping me to (finally) ,"get" what really matters to a man and it has helped so much in my present relationship. I'm older than he is but it never mattered and the 3 points that stood out were 1/the instant connection( we talk for hours after almost a year- no sex because we're waiting for marriage), 2/being healthy for myself and 3/ being his peace . A good man deserves us to be a good match the same as we women want a man to be his match. Your videos have helped so much!❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 ай бұрын

I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

@LanaAnneMD 3 ай бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I truly appreciate the time you took to reply thank you! I have shared with my bf, close friends and even some clients. Really profound. To our best selves! 🙏🏽💗🌞

@vanb8797 9 ай бұрын

What bugs me is that it seems several men just think they have all the time in the world. As a 35-year-old unmarried woman it bugs me how dudes seem to have unrealistic expectations and blinders on to how stability is gained in this economy; they assume they’ll just have one magical day when all the pieces fall together. Finally, it is THEN when he’s ready to commit to marriage. Likely, he’ll lose you before he is ready.

@275MsParis 9 ай бұрын

I’m committed to myself and that’s enuff for me

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@MaggieCano-wu1ek 9 ай бұрын

Actually the more you care for God the more the man of God will care for you! You are correct the first time I saw him I felt the connection but I had no clue what it was now we know what it is and it’s mutual!

@mandy7168 9 ай бұрын

Oh my God that what my man said to me u are different from others u make me happy. Cause I’m being simple myself , Stephan you are the best bru.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

@BatmanFan2.0 9 ай бұрын

A guy treated me completely exclusive for 2 1/2 months and wanted more, then he disappeared. I started believing he was the one because I'd never felt so safe and seen God answer so many of my prayers. We had all the things you listed. Now Im just confused. 🤦

@anubianqueen79 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for your unboundless effort to educate us on how love should be ❤ . you're awesome Stephan. God bless

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@maryannestewart2384 9 ай бұрын

@anubianqueen79 I agree he really does put alot in and I love his stories to help us understand. 😃💗

@arcturianoracle784 5 ай бұрын

The last part is what i had to figure out to stop with my "nice girl" mindset lol. "But im such a nice girl, men are just shallow 😢" lol. I realized that my best self is literally FOR ME and my lack of effort in myself is about a deeper issue within me!!!

@destiny04fe 9 ай бұрын

I feel like nowadays, People in their 40s get married because its TIME to get married and procreate..they marry the last girlfriend/boyfriend because him/her paid their dues…but they really wanted to marry the one that got away…the one that brought chaos in their life..:and then they say, “me marrying him/her will help me forget and move on from the chaotic one” but the lie catches up on them and then thats why they cheat…the brain wanted something but the heart wanted something else..this love thing is so sad…make a video about it…so many stoires on social media..makes you think is this love thing really real 😮

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@destiny04fe 9 ай бұрын

I agree but some biological clocks are ticking and what seems to be the BEST choice at the time can end up being the worst choice...@@MeetStephanSpeaks

@btbt332 9 ай бұрын

You nailed it. I'm a 35-year-old woman mother of two and who has been married for 13 years. On the surface, my life looks like I've married my "one and only" and we have a successful marriage but in reality, I know and feel every day that I've wasted 13 years of my life and my partner's life, convincing my self in a hope that by marrying him I could replace my ex-boyfriend who dumped me before I met my husband. Sadly, I'm still struggling with this abandonment wound, and during 13 years of our marriage, I subconsciously attempted to cheat my husband twice by having an affair with other men. I was dragging that trauma from my past relationship with me the whole time without even realizing that I was traumatized. Healing your past trauma before getting into a new relationship is crucial. People are not products that you can replace one with another. If someone hurts you let that person and resentment go, otherwise, you will be obsessed with the feeling of winning over someone, and if your attempt doesn't work with one person then without even realizing it you will find a good reason to justify yourself and repeat the pattern by finding another one. God bless you, God bless everyone who has been hurt in their past, and may you all live in a peaceful and joyful life

@destiny04fe 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for being so courageous in sharing your story with us. I agree that people need to heal first from the previous relationship before getting into a new relationship. May God heal and restore those wounds for everyone here. I appreciate your honesty. God Bless! @@btbt332

@sharonjohns1686 9 ай бұрын

Thank you great video. Be careful about the connection/ feminine piece. You can feel connected based on similar wounds and similar familiar spirits reacting Its happened to me twice

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@tanitshkatanjusha 9 ай бұрын

Very good input. It often feels like connection but is actually wounding.. an opportunity to heal it

@milenamilena1314 4 ай бұрын

Stephan, I'm grateful to you! You always share such a deep, important, valuable message, wisdom, high knowledge. Thank you! ☀️🙏⚘😊

@leannegraceliberty 9 ай бұрын

Awesome message. As always. Thank you 😊❤ Did you intentionally leave out Sexual chemistry though? I feel like men place a lot of emphasis on this aswell...

@cherisecaldwell5085 9 ай бұрын

I’m so glad I subscribed. Thank you, honestly. I usually don’t listen to men with headlines like this because… 🙄 misogyny and overall projection. Your message is different and hits us right in the feels. We needed it. ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

❤️ 😊 thank you!

@geeavo4058 9 ай бұрын

Hey Stephan, Whenever I listen to your videos I wonder where and when narcissism comes into play when you’re talking about relationships. I’d appreciate a video about this. Especially via-a-vis the “willingness to drop his player card”. Are there men who just cannot commit because of narcissism? Women as well.. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

For more clarity on the subject, watch my video on the nine signs you're dating a narcissist here 👉 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mM6jaapzur3RhHk.html

@Kenchani_Birb 9 ай бұрын

I believe both they have to put effort and be loyalty

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@Evolette09 3 ай бұрын

When it's ment to be it's meant to be!

@DenaeK 7 ай бұрын

I totally agree with the attraction aspect. I tried being with someone I wasn't attracted to and it just didn't work out.

@amaal1 6 ай бұрын

So true, thanks Stephen!! I wish I came across your live a while back 😢

@tanishamcdonala3181 3 ай бұрын

good evening. bless all us here amen. still listening may 2024!

@anubianqueen79 9 ай бұрын

I think if women are patient and stop putting labels on their relationships early. A man moves on his own accord and doesn't like being forced to commit. It took me 10 years to give my current relationship time. Now we pray together, have fun together and make moves to where we're helping to build us together without stress but I'm completely honest about ourselves and what we're expecting from one another but most importantly we're very supportive of each other. Even through sickness, my dialysis treatment, has really made us love one another. So I'm tolerable because no one is perfect so I don't place unrealistic expectations on him. I just learned to love him unconditionally ❤# love is unconditional beautiful 🎉

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@ebonyeyes7023 9 ай бұрын

I agree! I believe this is key. Spend time getting to know each other before putting a label on it

@EH-mn4kc 9 ай бұрын

Great story! I tend to agree, but 10 years is too long! When you know, you know much sooner 🤷🏽‍♀️

@1trudiva 9 ай бұрын

I’m not giving NO man 10 yrs to commit to be a boyfriend or husband….. men know right away what box they are going to put you in. Its up to us to know where we stand no more than 3 mos for a girlfriend title….. marriage is not that far behind. Anything more is him playing around waiting to see if he can get better options

@vperez2598 9 ай бұрын

I was about to ask if she got a ring after 10 years and dialysis

@destiny04fe 9 ай бұрын

What about the men that choose women that brings them peace, marries them but still have a thing for the EX that brought him hell…

@taylordactul 9 ай бұрын

That’s an unhealthy soul tie that can be broken in Jesus’ name.

@24pixiegirl 9 ай бұрын

He’s an unhealed man

@privateaccount2031 Ай бұрын

It’s really that simple

@sterntaler64 9 ай бұрын

🙏🏻 Thank you 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

@Evolette09 3 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@user-vd6sx1lv4j 9 ай бұрын

Steven this happened to me he left me when I lost my job and he moved out and went behind my back and filed legal separation and filed bankruptcy on. Our house and both of our names was on it I haven't taken him to court y but it's on the way after being married for 8 years

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@Kenchani_Birb 9 ай бұрын

Both. Desire each other

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@effortlesssuccess2585 2 ай бұрын

Men are not supposed to be in a position to choose women. It’s women who are supposed to be in that position. Observe nature, all animals, it is always the female’s decision to select who she will mate and have kids with. In the human race, the roles have been inverse, which is why relationships in the human species are a disaster. Women, you need to step up your game and become magnetic so you are in the position to choose and have options. I’m never in the position to wait for a guy to choose me. That’s a pretty low self worth position. I attract high caliber men because of all the traits Stephan talks about, and it is me who is in the position to choose. And if the guy doesn’t have the entire package, like what I have to offer, then the smartest decision is choosing yourself. Know your worth, act from that place, be that high valued/caliber person, and the rest leave it to the universe. It’s going to happen when it needs to happen.

@lovejinie4569 6 ай бұрын

Veryyyy enlightening

@aprilbush5060 9 ай бұрын

Good info thank you

@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170 9 ай бұрын

From the minute you Need to force some thing or someone to do something . That should be there own choice to make . As they shouldn't I feel need to work towards being Happy in the first place. if it is that unfortunately you have to then I do believe you lost the very objective an concept of Togetherness. If you are Loved it just is so simple . No need for force I believe .

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@kurtrinamckinnon4214 9 ай бұрын

Very good point

@shireendaniels5049 9 ай бұрын

Love your video

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@TI-sept62023 9 ай бұрын

Thank you

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

@queenofthepack8536 9 ай бұрын

True

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

💯 yes!

@queenofthepack8536 9 ай бұрын

I love how you shed light on relationships in general. Love watching.

@24pixiegirl 9 ай бұрын

This my friends proves that men ARENT SIMPLE! 😂😂😂. Appreciate the info tho.

@shemsewatmketsogahu5916 9 ай бұрын

What about the man you are with

@towandaallen314 9 ай бұрын

You are right, the bottom line woman needs to stop chasing me, either you are the one or not, by month 3, most women have given up every, will end up walking away with nothing, a wet "" and waste time. My aunt would say, if they like it, I love it, stay blessed, keep it moving, and let's go! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@towandaallen314 9 ай бұрын

You know what your doing, trust me I don't follow people that don't, I am taking notes, I am reinventing my self a new, walking way from life long passion, have no idea, should have done it a few years ago, when God was getting my attention, you know humans thinking we are smart, not smarter than God, you will hear about me in the next year or sooner, getting my act together, so I can show up in a grander way, give God all the glory, enjoy the journey to the fullest this time my friend and stay blessed! Let's go! 💆💆💆💆💆

@6598945 9 ай бұрын

If he doesnt like the rest hes not attractive he doesnt really like women i dont want him why do i have to go overboard for him to do soemthing as simple as be a husband

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@etiquetteconnoisseur6184 9 ай бұрын

Try as you might, you cannot make any man commit who doesn't already have the desire.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@ninaowusuaa502 9 ай бұрын

First here❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

🙌❤

@Tiasowise 9 ай бұрын

Thank you i appreciate you handsome

@shinons 9 ай бұрын

Don' t you think, there are men, who are unable to be comitted and monogam?

@oanamunteanu4744 9 ай бұрын

There are plenty and women should stay away from them 😵😬🤷‍♀️

@Catina28 2 ай бұрын

11:57 sounds to me like men need to have a review of thier expectations. They keeping looking for a unicorn who will be one resentful depending on the ongoing expectations.

@anaaviles6552 8 ай бұрын

Then, why that ex is back 2 yrs after parting ways. Involving mutual friends in the process😒Awkward and too late. Having to hear same words I heard when I first met him 3yrs ago😢

@maryalbania897 8 ай бұрын

Did you cause the breakup between your friend and his girl. You played a part.

@rebekahdennis969 9 ай бұрын

Unique value = the cabinet from hoemath

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@LoveAlways_Marlena 9 ай бұрын

We’re in love but during one of our separations he got married. Now I need more help than getting him to commit

@vperez2598 9 ай бұрын

Lol don’t let his wife stop you from getting your soulmate 🥴

@nakedtarotlifestylewellnes5992 9 ай бұрын

@@vperez2598 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@kristir1262 9 ай бұрын

😂 funny. You're right! The waiting thing is overrated.

@LoveAlways_Marlena 9 ай бұрын

Honestly I’ve just been TRYING to focus on me. This is out of my control. He needs man up and leave and if he can’t then he wasn’t man enough for me anyway

@kristir1262 9 ай бұрын

@@LoveAlways_Marlena oh honey, you deserve so much better! Please believe that first and foremost ❤️. You deserve someone to commit to you, and just you. Someone who has placed you in this sort of situation, even if he turns things around, doesn't deserve you. And you need to stop waiting for him. There is a concept of sunk costs in management/economics. Whatever costs you've sunk into a project, do not consider them when assessing whether you continue the project. You have to only look at the profitability of the project in its current state. And honey, this project crashed and burned already. You need to move on. Watching these videos does help. Channels like this, and Matthew Hussey got me through last year. This year I met a wonderful new guy. I think he might be the one 🤞. I hope you're able to move on, value yourself, and meet someone who treats you well 😘. May not happen right away, but give it time. Things will work out for you! Love and prayers ❤️❤️❤️

@offairhead 9 ай бұрын

👍🏻

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

🙏🏼 ❤️

@mercedesmontgomery9094 9 ай бұрын

Maybe it was because time past where he got to stay single is why he was ready when the next woman he was interested in came along?

@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx 9 ай бұрын

Ladies stop ur brain cells from spinning around this. The solution of this dam question Y won’t commit. … etc, is the less u care 4 Him the more he will 4 u. Don’t get invested

@MeetStephanSpeaks 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️