Allison started saying interesting things about being into writing and stuff. Unfortunately, Tom was blinded by his unresolved feelings for Summer so he missed out on a potentially interesting girl.
@agenttheater52 жыл бұрын
When you watch the movie again you (or maybe that was just me) start wondering if you ever envisioned him going on a date with anyone else - because he's so self-obsessed and never thinks about anyone else but himself. What he wanted in a relationship, how badly he was apparently treated, how apparently nothing good ever happens to him, he's telling a relative stranger these things. I mean I guess it does count as unresolved feelings but I still think it's feelings for the Summer he convinced himself was there rather than the real Summer who made it pretty clear she didn't feel the same way about him. Allison gave him her honest opinion with a fair amount of insight and he drowned it out in drunken karaoke.
@fcosta942 жыл бұрын
It was a date that his friends set up with her. He wouldn’t have gone on a date with her otherwise. His obsession with Summer blinded him.
@rebel72342 жыл бұрын
Dude It was not his time to meet new girls. I don't think it's fair to call him selfish for not feeling ready to date. His friends forced him to have that date and the truth is that I have been through that situation and it is very uncomfortable. Everyone on the other hand seems desperate to justify Summer at all costs. You call Tom selfish for not taking others into account but Summer didn't care about Tom while she had what she wanted from a friend to have sex and that's it. You don't have to be very smart to look at Tom's face and see that he made a goofy face every time he looked at her and Summer was smart enough to realize that. What she did? Tell him, calm down, Tom, don't worry, maybe we can have something else, I don't know. You relax and enjoy the ride. Of course, if I get tired of you goodbye.
@Benjaminrcd4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, Tom could have worked well-together with this girl, if he forgot about Summer.
@Romy---4 жыл бұрын
How can you know based on a date where he was the only one who talked. We don't know anything about her, only that she seems very smart. We can't even know if they would've fit together.
@thedarkknight91533 жыл бұрын
He must not have been looking
@axechop3 жыл бұрын
No, she would have been a rebound.
@agenttheater52 жыл бұрын
@@Romy--- Personally I don't think any relationship Tom had could've worked until he confronted the fact that he was actually a very self-centred person, and not just in his romantic relationships but also in his relationships with his friends and his family because all he ever seemed to do with anyone is talk about himself and he expects things to go the way he wants them to and if they didn't (we see this right at the start when he said that there was no chance of him and Summer happening and that Summer was a "skank" and that nothing good ever happened to him just because Summer told him in the lift that her weekend was "good") then he becomes sullen and sulky and frankly kind of childish. Until he starts considering other peoples feelings and starts to give a bit more in his relationships rather than just take, I don't think he could've had any lasting relationship. Fortunately I think he might be fixing that problem at the end because he actually listened to his sister's advice when she told him to look back on the bad things in his relationship with Summer instead of just focusing on the good as opposed to earlier in the movie when she warned him that just because Summer liked the same things he did didn't make her his soulmate and he basically ignored her or when Summer said she wasn't looking for anything serious and he as good as ignored that when he said "and I say we're a couple damn it" or later when he assumed that she was happy just because he'd convinced himself that they were happy or even in this scene when Allison told him that it sounded more like he'd broken his own heart rather than Summer breaking his heart and he ignored her and dragged her to drunken karaoke
@zellanutellaa2 жыл бұрын
ThAt part
@Shoebill3 жыл бұрын
I give points to this film for mentioning she never cheated or manipulated him despite him acting like an over the top drunk depressed ex, it hit close and I kinda really liked this criticism on how diluted a sad romance film about a generic breakup can be
@salpairadice3 жыл бұрын
As a man, I feel that green dress could fix most broken hearts.
@alfiekay21012 жыл бұрын
what does being a man have to do with it
@tonyc73013 жыл бұрын
Yeah. If I met Allison I would have forgotten about Summer instantly.
@kentonpryor7091 Жыл бұрын
Me too! Summer is pretty.... but Allison is prettier.
@nunyabuissness805811 ай бұрын
Shes also smart she went to brown
@aaajjjmmm1863 Жыл бұрын
You just can't force someone to love you. Love must come naturally
@lapislazuli5035 Жыл бұрын
Everyone's a gangster until they realize that they've done the exact same thing Tom did and made an ass of themselves because they couldn't get over a break up.
@supernaturalawesome1 Жыл бұрын
After being divorced, this hits so different. When you're in love and together, it's great. Then, when things go bad and your not together anymore, you hyper fixate on every moment that "signaled" your partners disinterest or desire to get away from you. You even start making them a villain in your story. But in the end, most relationships fail because you and/or your partner were incompatible in ways you didn't notice because you were focusing on what could be or trying to be a different/better version of yourselves. You expected a different outcome and to be those people forever but after a while reality and your real selves came in and resentment started to build. "Did she break your heart or did you"? Translation: Did her behavior hurt you or did your expectations hurt you. Sounds about right 😢
@eliscore3 жыл бұрын
If you didn't feel sorry for Allison and still thought he was the hero at the end of the scene you need help
@sgshumblecrumb60462 жыл бұрын
There seems to be a frightening amount of people that are on Tom's "side" in this movie
@rebel72342 жыл бұрын
@@sgshumblecrumb6046 No, the worrying thing is that you guys are desperate to justify Summer.
@The_Platinum_Realist Жыл бұрын
People are on Tom’s side because they can identify with someone who’s goes numb when someone they love treats them like they’re not important and will dump them any second. Yes Allison is sympathetic, but Tom is guy who should not be dating and should be getting his head on straight. Tom fears anyone he dates will treat him no different.
@agenttheater52 жыл бұрын
0:59 Yeah, it is you Tom. Because you are selfish, immature and self-centred. You made up your mind before the date that you couldn't just said you didn't want to go on, you didn't ask her one question about her self, you started drinking before she got there, and when she gave you her honest opinion about the situation you ignored her and shut her out because that's what you do to everyone who doesn't tell you what you want to hear. You filled a relative stranger in on all the details of how bad she apparently was because that's what you always do you dump your problems out on everyone around you because you honestly don't care about anyone other than yourself - you didn't care about Summer, you loved the idea of her and have been bad-mouthing her every chance you get because she was honest with you from the start.
@Ehlodieyng1342 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOOOO THIS SOUNDS PERSONAL but yeah same fuck tom
@PhaedraTify2 жыл бұрын
OMG so well said!
@SeTBAck-j9l Жыл бұрын
@@Ehlodieyng134he literally me
@mgmegt5920 Жыл бұрын
The worst is knowing you've been an Allison before
@achrafagermoune2417 Жыл бұрын
It's not a negative thing. She knows her worth. She was just being nice to him when she accepted his invitation.
@rayam.80885 жыл бұрын
no one: absolutely no one: Tom: she took a giant S H I T on my face
@rockershadow18203 жыл бұрын
Literally?
@linardreyes60432 жыл бұрын
What amber heard did to Johnny Depp
@nicholaspot60689 ай бұрын
Most underrated Line in the movie
@sgshumblecrumb60462 жыл бұрын
This poor woman
@G189992 жыл бұрын
Never never never never go on a blind date!
@sanghaitwist9844 Жыл бұрын
Your buddy: Hey, you wanna have a blind date? She looks just like Katy Perry.
@axechop3 жыл бұрын
I don't remember seeing the "please don't talk to me" bit, is it a deleted scene?
@markjosephaala22542 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Rebeccaluna6965 жыл бұрын
Where did you got those scenes where summer say please don't talk to me and the two ones before?
@mariuszdossantos50155 жыл бұрын
DVD uk edition
@clcp81375 жыл бұрын
Mariusz Dos Santos I’m glad that wasn’t in the movie because I can’t distinguish if it’s him imagining all the negative parts or summer actually doing it. If it’s the ladder, I don’t think it would have fit her character because she really likes that Tom is passionate about architecture and she wouldn’t sigh at him doing that especially since she encouraged him. Just my opinion tho
@iPyroNigma4 жыл бұрын
@@clcp8137 That's probably why they cut it. However, it is important to establish that the film actively sought to portray Tom as the one in the wrong (which he was) so that might have been why they devised the scene in the first place: to actually set in stone the message.
@ramses_is_numba_one4 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure what Allison meant when she told him that stuff in the restaurant about summer taking advantage of him. Was she just making it obvious that Tom was being selfish ?
@emilyallen3664 жыл бұрын
I think that her point was that she didn't do anything terrible in the relationship, was upfront about what she was looking for, and the only reason that Tom was hurting was because he ignored her warnings and tried to be in a relationship with her.
@agenttheater52 жыл бұрын
@@emilyallen366 Which Tom of course also ignored. In an earlier version of the script Tom stopped talking about Summer for 5 seconds and asked Allison about herself, she barely finished the line 'well I grew up' when he interrupted her again to talk again about summer. Tom really is one of the most selfish characters I've ever seen in a movie
@sagittariusguy20115 жыл бұрын
And in original movie she also doesnt say who break her heart or she break
@benjaminmedrano52144 жыл бұрын
Is the first scene filmed at Library Bar in DTLA?
@muhibullahkhanjisan1751 Жыл бұрын
that's the scene im looking for
@christianalexanderthegreat89414 жыл бұрын
I've said stupid shit like this with two of my dates before. Albeit I wasn't a drunk mess like him, but was being too honest and straightforward.
@ennuiblue42954 жыл бұрын
How did it come about his friend Paul set him up if he didn't want to go on the date? Plot progression i guess
@pufelmulticolorido3 жыл бұрын
Hmm cause Paul wants Tom to move on? And pushed him to go on a date, even if he was resistant.
@justecho123 жыл бұрын
Why did they muted my favorite song from The Clash in this scene :((
@91toinfinity3 жыл бұрын
Copyright.
@abdoulitim33464 жыл бұрын
Wait .... This girl knew the kind of summer girl anyway Guys when she asked him about did she tell u on front that she not need boyfriend ...so can anyone tell me summer type pls
@windyunej1896 Жыл бұрын
She just happy with her own life and wait a succesfull man:)
@EfendyPlus4 жыл бұрын
karaoke song pls
@DaveGX Жыл бұрын
Why is the singing portion silent?
@kentonpryor7091 Жыл бұрын
Allison is a very pretty lady
@MrBlue-me9cd3 жыл бұрын
this scene was deleted
@ZombyMammoth3 жыл бұрын
was it deleted because it was too funny?
@dannyhuskerjay3 жыл бұрын
No it wasn’t
@MrBlue-me9cd3 жыл бұрын
@@dannyhuskerjay part of it was. I watched this movie for 500 hundred times
@giooniani75623 жыл бұрын
What was he singing
@andy69703 жыл бұрын
Train in Vain by The Clash.
@lautaroferrares90123 күн бұрын
2:35 sera que eso estaba en la mente de tom o realmente le pasaba a summer ???
@pacd3099 Жыл бұрын
My condition is so similar with tom right now I'm broke :)
@JohnDoe-sl6di Жыл бұрын
Allison is cute and seems nice. Tom messed up big
@darindixon53425 ай бұрын
I love how he does the exact same thing to Allison as Summer did to him. It’s cool when he does it, but not cool when Summer does it. Tom was being really pathetic (I’ve been there so I get it) but I’m glad he got his shit together so he could be the best partner for Autumn (hopefully)
@markfroman7385 жыл бұрын
This movie is so overrated
@dab03315 жыл бұрын
You say that until a bitch bites your heart out.
@Lapeacemaker4 жыл бұрын
You never loved that’s why you can’t relate
@markfroman7383 жыл бұрын
@Akshay 004 🤫
@markfroman7383 жыл бұрын
@@dab0331 IDC it’s still overrated AF
@markfroman7383 жыл бұрын
@@Lapeacemaker Just didn’t love the movie. It’s not that deep. Lol