6 Little Money Mindset Shifts You Need Right Now

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The law of attraction and creating an abundance mindset isn't as hard to create as you might think -- even if the people in your life can only think in "scarcity." You can only control your own mind, so in this video, you'll learn 6 mental shifts you can make today to feel more abundant.
1. Write Yourself A Fat Reality Check. Almost half the world lives on less than $2.50 per day. Realize that an abundance mindset begins with appreciating what you have right now. Like Oprah said, "Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough."
2. Get An ATM, or Automatic, Transformative Mantra. To battle the scarcity mentality using the law of attraction, have a mantra on hand that you can say whenever you're parting with money. Something like this: "There's always more where that came from." This will shift you into an abundance mindset as there's real power in words.
3. BYOL, or Bring Your Own Luxury. Who says you can't have nice dinners at home? A little bit of effort can turn a cheap dinner into a nice dinner, while also helping you get into the abundance mindset.
4. Start A Fun Fund. You and your partner have to get on the same page, and a great way to do that is with a joint account or even a piggy bank dedicated solely to things like movies, meals out, travel, or other things you and your partner might normally say you can't afford.
5. Build Your Knowledge Bank. Until you have your money game together and you're living an abundance mindset, you need to keep reading books on money, going to seminars, and listening to audios. You'll learn a ton and actively improve your money mindset.
6. Spread The Wealth. Whenever you're feeling a lack of money, give some away. Make a donation to a charity you believe in to help shift you out of scarcity and into abundance.
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@EliseMcDowell 4 жыл бұрын

HA!! I remember exactly where I was mentally, spiritually and emotionally when I wrote you this question Marie! 😅 I was sooooo stuck in scarcity! And you were 100% right, it wasn't about everyone else, it was about me. I had to change what was going on inside and I did. I continued the work even when it was sooooo hard and I didn't think anything would ever change. Your advice was helpful and I took it to heart and followed what I could. If this helps anyone watching I want you to know that I transformed my abundance mindset. 🎉 I now run my own business helping women transform their money mentality and grow their business (heading into my 5th year now), I make more money than I ever knew I could, I've been travelling the world full-time for the last 3 years, my life is my DREAM life and I am grateful everyday. 🙌 So don't give up. You are ALWAYS making progress, even when you think nothing is changing, it is. 💖

@WaveSupreme 4 жыл бұрын

That is so amazing to hear! Thank you for sharing and congratulations for manifesting your dream life!! 🥳😄💖

@devikadivinetarot 3 жыл бұрын

This is just amazing Elise. Thanks for sharing and inspiring others ❤️

@jlib7389 2 жыл бұрын

wooooow so glad to hear back from the one who asked the question

@ivonalatu4363 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Elize..

@tejchi3751 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Lovely to hear! ☺

@teejenkins2101 7 жыл бұрын

I read Secrets of a Millionaire Mind out loud to my children years ago and my youngest still says "I am a money magnet " whenever she finds money. That is my ATM as well.

@JustReadTheBible 9 жыл бұрын

"There's always more where that came from." I LOVE this.

@ravenswood118 10 жыл бұрын

I always try to remember that despite the fact that I may feel "poor," in most countries around the world, I am a freaking emperor.

@heidizakeri476 10 жыл бұрын

I broke out of my money mentality with AFFIRMATIONS and BEING GRATEFUL, two things you mentioned! :) I also give a lot away to people all around me and often offer to treat my friends when having tea or what not. I am currently living with my parents still but I have EVERYTHING I need and want and the universe keeps giving me more. I am 23, if I can do this, anyone can. I strongly believe it starts with gratitude and self-love/positive thoughts.

@denissemedina4619 5 жыл бұрын

Heidi Zakeri Yas! That’s the mentality. I feel like I always get more of what I give, not everything is perfect but I focus on the good things. If I don’t make a lot of money then I have to spend as lil as I can. So there are options like going out once or twice a week and the rest do other activities that do not involve that much money like eating at an expensive restaurant or going to the club 🤷🏻‍♀️

@lisabecklove 10 жыл бұрын

I love this. Thank you so much! I would add a number 7 to these awesome tips…seek out folks who have an abundance mentality. Make friends, learn from them, seek out mentors, surround yourself with people who inspire you!

@joyanderson8646 3 жыл бұрын

I can relate Marie. I gotta detox from being around ppl w/ poverty mindset. I need to shift that energy to abundance--- mindset 1) appreciate everything you have 2) ATM Automatic Transformative Mantra there's always more where that came from---retrain yourself in the truth!!! 3) Bring your own luxury- eat fancy meals @ home on the good plates 4) Start a fun fund!!!-pickle jar movies, eating out, spa, shopping etc 5) Build ur knowledge bank!! Go to seminars be around ppl actively improving 6) if you're feeling lack,-- donate to someone, be generous to friends & family Kiva

@BarbaraClayArtisticsoulwithin 9 жыл бұрын

I love this video... My favorite tip is the ATM mantra "There's always more where that came from." I am sooo going to use this mantra with everything in my life. My husband and I will be celebrating our 19th wedding anniversary this June soo every time I give him a kiss or a hug I'm going to say to him There's always more where that came from rofl ;-) I know with just this tip alone my life is going to be filled with lots of hugs, kisses and overall wealth. Thanks Marie :-)

@csillablau5009 9 жыл бұрын

Barbara Clay That's such a cute idea! Hope you had a nice wedding anniversary!

@BarbaraClayArtisticsoulwithin 9 жыл бұрын

Csilla Borián Thank You very much. We had a great anniversary. We are preparing for our 20th wedding anniversary THE BIG ONE rofl. I want to renew our wedding vows at Disney Land. I may have to do a lot of kissing and saying There's more where that came from to get my wish with this one. A girl can dream ^_^ lol

@csillablau5009 9 жыл бұрын

Barbara Clay Awww, so good for you! Reading your comment and answer makes me feel like I just watched a romantic movie, except that it's a real story :) I'm sure your wish will come true!

@BarbaraClayArtisticsoulwithin 9 жыл бұрын

Csilla Borián Aaaahhh Thank you. My life with my husband is more like a romantic comedy lol... It would be great for my wish to come true but in all honesty all I really want for my anniversary is him ^_^

@habibmojumder121 8 жыл бұрын

+Barbara Clay I like this video, especially your ideas for law of attraction ebooks . Something I also found helpfull for what is the course of miracles was Elumpa Fast Manifestation Alchemist - find it on google if you want

@juliusrams2009 10 жыл бұрын

Attitude of gratitude is what has been the most significant shifter for me. Amen to gratitude!!

@ForthebeautyofitCoZa 9 жыл бұрын

"There's always more where that came from!" Such an AHA moment right there! There always IS more where that came from! Thank you, Marie - I'll be implementing these tips going forward. I absolutely love your videos - it's become my nightly ritual: grab cup of coffee, hop into bed, and watch Marie Forleo before reading, then lights out.

@lunamontez7630 7 жыл бұрын

Your hair is literally the most beautiful hair I have ever seen. Thank you so much for all the videos you are making, they are amazing and I like to think of you as my own guru.

@jeniferbolcik8942 Жыл бұрын

I used to be stuck in money scarcity mindset. I found myself always saying, “I can’t afford it “. I stopped. I also realized that I always have what I need; food, shelter, an automobile in good working order, AND if I lose any of that, I know so many people in my life will cover me until I get back on my feet. Whenever I have to pay for something that I hate to, such as a red light camera speeding ticket, I reframe it as I write that check and just say, “ Well, I’m feeding the economy “, which means that it will come back to me somehow. I also spend money on concert tickets and travel whenever I want because I deserve to have fun. It’s my jam. I’ll fly to Denver to see a band at Red Rocks or Nashville just to see a band perform at the Ryman Theatre. I live for live music. I don’t even hesitate. And even though I do that, I always have enough.

@Kim-wq4sx 10 жыл бұрын

LOVE that you point out how the majority of people in the world have to get by on poverty wages. Thank your for your gentle reality check. Along with the money mantra, I'm going to start appreciating what I have more :)

@LynneyBetting 10 жыл бұрын

Go work for a bank part-time, even if you have a full-time job too help pay some of your bills. Hard work always pays off. Most importantly, you will learn so much and see that so many other people have it worse than you. Knowledge is power and all of these steps Marie provided are great tips! When you are talking to people for hours about the checking accounts bouncing, fees, etc. it puts everything into a whole different light! It can be life changing! Good Luck to you!

@newfiegirl893 10 жыл бұрын

I have always felt that I was luckier than others and it gives me immense pleasure to make others smile. I pay it forward as often as I can...even if it just a cup of coffee.

@mepperly07 7 жыл бұрын

I have been tithing as a way of thanking the Universe for my abundance. It's amazing what happens when you tithe to those who influence you.

@sumanramesh2728 7 жыл бұрын

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@PhilAnderson88 10 жыл бұрын

NO question, the one that resonated the most with me was, "There's more where that came from!" I will be using this from now on until the end of time. This was THE moment of the video, in my opinion. Thank you! -Phil

@CourtneyLSanders 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciation is one way out of the scarcity mindset. I love the quote from Oprah, "be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more." Thank you for sharing!

@angelchild87ec 10 жыл бұрын

I liked the money mantra, and spreading the wealth by donating and give to family and friends! Thanks

@DiLifeandStyle 10 жыл бұрын

My #1 thing right now is gratitude! That is def. the path that leads to the rest.

@MonicaSancio 9 жыл бұрын

I agree so much with this Abundance Mindset + Law of Attraction... Let´s all be grateful for what we have already + ATM... + BYOL is so important to feel Wealthy... Because, in fact, we already are wealthy!! Yes! And the Fun Fund is great + the Knowledge bank is something I practice on a daily basis... + spreading the Wealth: When you give, you love & you actually make your life much richer!! I am practicing ALL YOUR 6 WEALTH TIPS, MARIE!! Love + admire you, Marie... You are an awesome inspiration to greatness!

@michelleparent9184 6 жыл бұрын

I have listened to this more than once, this time I am compelled to comment. I am working my way through my relationship with money. I have naturally put several of these steps into action. The BIGGEST thing I have done is let go of fear. I believe in myself and my abilities. I know I have the capacity to make more money.....but now I see it is not about the money, it is ALL about the attitude. At this moment, I barely make anything and I have never felt more abundant. As a result, more abundance will come to me.

@smcneal330 10 жыл бұрын

This is just what I needed to hear I've been stressing over paying for school and bills. I will for sure start using the mantra.

@mariamanifest 9 жыл бұрын

Loved this vid!! The ATM worked for me. My mantras about money have continuously brought more to the point I would have never dreamed of! It's important to be the change in the people you are surrounded by. Some will be influenced and start to think more positively and some will leave but that only makes room for more like minded people in your life!

@aBieBi1 4 жыл бұрын

Practicing gratitude is so important! So true, that when you focus and are thankful for more comes to be grateful for.

@manalani3724 7 жыл бұрын

Love the mantra. Theres always more where that came from. That makes me feel confident around money. Thank you Marie.

@practice.intimacy Жыл бұрын

There's always more where that came from! I love this!!! I'm going to make this a habit every time I spend money, starting today.

@clairefigley1766 8 жыл бұрын

I say an abundance creed every day. I found it on utube. although it hasn't helped yet, I am changing the way I think. I bless all money that comes into my hands and leaves. I list all I'm thankful for ever day.

@roomforpeace7134 9 жыл бұрын

This was such a great episode! As a recent college grad. and newly-wed, I can relate to the "scarcity mentality" around money. An optimist by nature, I try my best to really focus on what my husband and I do have; and how blessed we really are; but sometimes I have to admit I get pretty overwhelmed. A lot of the tips that you mentioned, Marie, really work to help get me back up - esp. the giving one.

@Shalini2808 7 жыл бұрын

You are amazing Marie! my fav strategies were "tell yourself there's more of it where that came from" anytime u part with a big chunk of money and spread the wealth! looking forward to applying these! :)

@adrianperez647 10 жыл бұрын

The question is a good one! This applies to a lot of people in this country. Thanks Marie!

@CityGov 9 жыл бұрын

Thank you Marie, I really needed this video today.

@MindBodyBeauty 10 жыл бұрын

i really love that you mentioned to give some of it away! people think im crazy when i practice this exercise. when im done at work, i always tip out at the minimum but when i do really bad on certain nights, i give a little more then 10% (the required amount) people think im crazy but i always learn that when I put myself in this mind set that in order to have more of something you have to give it away and when i am a blessing, 10x more blessings will come back to me, i always find that i do better the next night at work and i make more $$ from tipping out generously. the more i give away, the more the universe starts to notice i am not stressing about not having enough money and that i am actually so confident in my belief that i end up getting more of it. works every time. lol

@piccolakatie 10 жыл бұрын

Thank-you! Exactly what I needed today... Turns out, I've already started implementing a few of your ideas, (fun fund, affirmation, bringing our own luxury) and just this morning I found myself (and husband) deciding to spend on something we would have otherwise felt was silly. The freedom to go grab the cash, and spend on something that will bring us joy, and create fun family memories is priceless. Thanks Marie for helping me recognize this gift!

@kezziekz 9 жыл бұрын

Hi Marie, I can say that I'm one of those people who are making progress regarding my money mindset. Here's my progress below :) 1. Write Yourself A Fat Reality Check (being grateful) = I can definitely do this more. I'm doing this 20% out of all my time (or even less--YIKES! Fixing this NOW!!!) 2. Get An ATM, or Automatic, Transformative Mantra = My current mantras when I'm "parting" with money are "I get to do what I love and make money from it, even though I can use more. And these people may not be doing what they love so I feel right giving money to them in hope they get to be in my position too", "I have more money than most people in this world so I should share what I already have, no matter how much", "I love having money so I want to spread this love", "I'm happy that I have this much money, even though I can use more--just like anyone else". My mantras are along that line. Aside from that, I smile and call on the vibration of abundance silently every time. I will add "There's always more where that came from!" to my mantras! 3. BYOL, or Bring Your Own Luxury = I DO THIS ALL THE TIME! I'm most happy when I'm juicing at home :) And I cook nice little lunches and dinners for myself. Although, I must say that sometimes I get tricked into the illusion by other people that eating out is fancier! But it's not! And I have to remind myself of this :) 4. Start A Fun Fund = I have not done this at all! I've always been scarce with myself when it comes to fun. I've never dedicated a budget for "fun". I have been focusing on investing only in work-related activities. I should start doing this!!! Especially since my line of work is music and I can dedicate some funds into buying new equipment :) 5. Build Your Knowledge Bank = I read up on books but not seminars since I'm afraid I'll run through some weird people into those seminars (you know those who are just way too crazy about money or praise money. I don't want to surround myself with those people). 6. Spread The Wealth = I do this, YES! I do this to ensure myself, "Hey, I'm giving out money because I've been blessed with it. It's only right that I share my wealth and what I have, no matter how much."

@coachpaulettekumar2673 4 жыл бұрын

What resonated with me is saying 'There's more where that came from'. Thanks for sharing Marie 🧡

@genniferdionisio7815 8 жыл бұрын

Love the ATM idea! Going to start using it!

@tejchi3751 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! The Automatic Transformative Mantra (A.T.M.) resinated the most! ☺ And I implemented it immidiately!

@tim1986fsr 7 жыл бұрын

I love this video the most. Realizing us we have lot to be thankful for... Always!

@chiomabethel6792 9 жыл бұрын

This is my first video of you. Love everything you said. I practice them in small forms already but I have decided to stick with these six steps in my finances. Thank you. Loved the ATM heist.

@oscar-cesiafalcon1408 10 жыл бұрын

Such a great question! I am currently in the process of breaking out of this mentality, my husband reminds me of it all the time, he has broken out of it already. So it is nice to have someone to remind you. He has told me most of the pointers given here, but as usual when I watch MarieTV it resonates more in me than before lol

@Nate1975 5 жыл бұрын

Gratitude works every time, total game changer for all sorts of situations in life. It’s magic

@mercurious6699 10 жыл бұрын

yes, gratitude can be life-changing, thank you

@beautyqueen115 10 жыл бұрын

I'm currently changing my money mentality in BIG ways. I definitely use the " there's plenty more where that came from" thought. And I go to sleep each night thanking the universe for all I have and all I have yet to have. Thanking in advance is not only fun, it helps me visualize and manifest everything I want. I am also currently tapping for more money abundance which is amazing and is already working! Thanks Marie!

@AllySenterfitt 10 жыл бұрын

Liked, fav'ed and shared, got to keep reminding myself of these. Great advice.

@TheMagicalHaven 2 жыл бұрын

These were awesome tips. When I catch myself worrying about money and feeling scarcity, I look around at all of the abundance I have and do some decluttering, which reminds me that I actually have more than enough! Next thing I know, more money starts flowing in. 🧡💜

@anubha5640 10 жыл бұрын

Much thanks ...very simple yet extremely transformative tools you have given us here !! I needed this !!

@Aligatorxx3 5 жыл бұрын

Watching your talks really helps me overcome my addiction (negative habits)

@kenandyson Жыл бұрын

I spoke your money mantra aloud and got instant goosebumps! 🤯

@oogallecta 5 жыл бұрын

I'm adopting that ATM immediately! Thank you :)

@gonurseyourself__ 5 жыл бұрын

these tips are phenomenal !! I especially love the last one. thank you so much for sharing !

@wencymercy6073 8 жыл бұрын

great video again. as always, God bless u Marie!

@meganlane3458 10 жыл бұрын

I do all of these things!! Love it. Well said, as usual Marie.

@AcousticSoulstressMusic 10 жыл бұрын

Thanks Marie, this was great and so timely! And I agree with the comment below about adding a number 7. Hang out with people who have what you want, even if that is simply an attitude.

@iamblessed513 7 жыл бұрын

Here's my mantra " man makes money, money doesn't make a man" it works for me..

@practice.intimacy Жыл бұрын

Thanks, Marie and Team Forleo. Y'all make amazing content. So useful and entertaining!

@Itas888 7 жыл бұрын

I listen to Clark Howard, because just hearing about how careful he, his staff, and their listeners are with money is enough incentive for me.

@Miss1LovelyRose 10 жыл бұрын

Hi Marie I love it. I have spread my wealth when I was feeling snowed under with my cash without realising that it was wonderful tool to attract money to myself. That explains why I am getting out from under. Thanks for that

@brendabarrera6252 7 жыл бұрын

So greatful for your message.....thanks for the reminder, Marie.... :)

@daianafviana5825 7 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU very much for this ❤️

@kritikabhutada7972 6 жыл бұрын

Hi Marie, I started watching your channel an hour ago and I absolutely love what you are doing! I can feel the difference in my attitude already! And I completely agree with you regarding money mentality. I have a very similar attitude when it comes to money and thankfully I always have enough to enjoy the little and sometimes big things in life. Love!!

@Babykay1985 10 жыл бұрын

I love the money mantra one, I'm going to start using that one right away.

8 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the powerful and inspiring insights :)

@marielbatista2661 10 жыл бұрын

Such good tips. You are AWESOME!!!

@ShadowsMasquerade 6 жыл бұрын

This is good. I never had a scarcity mindset, but living around people who did and having little "energetic boundaries".... I absorbed their beliefs and had to fight just to keep them out and let my own take over. It's all good now. I hate buying cheap stuff, I hate eating low quality food/groceries, I hate not having fun, I hate settling for "good enough," I hate the false belief that "I can't afford it" (I can and it always seems to work out), etc. I find ways, there's always a way. It's sad... the people around me have a lot more than I do, quite literally, and they're stuck in that whole scarcity mindset and thinking that life is supposed to be incredibly hard. My dad actually GOT MAD when he was gifted vacation plane tickets for his birthday. I couldn't believe it. I thought about why he would feel that way, and I concluded it's because of his deep-seated beliefs that he doesn't deserve it, or that it shouldn't be that easy. Makes so much sense.

@mschelly17 10 жыл бұрын

Excellent video. So much helpful info. One of my fav ways to cease the scarcity mentality is gratitude. I notice the more I am grateful the things I may need show up- food money kindness patience etc. So I keep my complaints 2 a minimum & focus on gratitude & appreciation. Life is so much better.

@natalied6923 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you, especially for the last thing you said ;) That's very uplifting :)

@Soorkh 9 жыл бұрын

This is the first video I've seen of you. I'm honestly so proud of your answers. I was thinking that you were going to give the typical "Keeping up with the Jones's" "Bigger is better" answers but you are so down to earth and humble. I'm so glad to know that I'm not the only one who thinks people have so much these days and don't appreciate anything and overspend constantly especially in the US. Hope more people take your advice, I know I did!

@legibitiqua2 9 жыл бұрын

The one I'll implement starting now is the ATM.. Thanks Marie another great video :D I love Q&A Tuesdays. I appreciate you

@LizzyRichardson 8 жыл бұрын

Marie you are the best!

@lttoverlord 5 жыл бұрын

LOVE LOVE LOVE this video!!!

@Calvotribe 8 жыл бұрын

We've done the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace class. It's changed the way we think about finances and has helped us pay of debt. We have learned to tell our money where to go instead of feeling like you have no idea where it went. :) LOVE your Q & A's!

@suntarotreadingsberlin6860 Жыл бұрын

Very simple but true. Thanks Marie 🤗

@elsiethompson4677 8 жыл бұрын

Thanks I did gain insight and some of these are already in practice.

@JoanieFMcMahon 10 жыл бұрын

Super job Marie ! I agree with these steps .....

@waltercassiuscarter4115 2 жыл бұрын

definitely “there’s always more where that came from”

@jilliangrisel5933 6 жыл бұрын

I love you! Many Blessing to you!

@thekemizumishow223 2 жыл бұрын

I have decided to be more generous in giving. I love your idea of treating friends coffee...etc. I have been rigid about keeping my money so much that I thought the less I spend the better. But your video helped me see that is not so. Thank you, Marie.

@Jae7rush 10 жыл бұрын

Omg I love her skin and bouncy hair :) I will start using gratitude and the mantra

@jennashowers539 8 жыл бұрын

Loved this! thanks Marie!

@livingformondays288 10 жыл бұрын

Hi Marie, I totally believe in the law of attraction. It seems that we all need a good attitude to archive things in life. Just when I changed myself I changed my business.

@NadaAhmed-dk4ch 7 жыл бұрын

certainly giving more and that quote of there's always there from that came from

@LKFari 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this.

@maliaarnold9051 10 жыл бұрын

Cooking Light is one of my favorite magazine subscriptions.

@presidentialife 8 жыл бұрын

Marie you are my new passion...we talk about some of the same things. I love how you bring humor in...One day I will have Kiné TV. Thanks for being an inspiration.

@Etiana2504 10 жыл бұрын

Thanks to Susanna De Santos who introduced me to your Maria. Great tips and video. I love being around people like you and you look like your walk your talk. Thank You Maria.

@brendayaeso 10 жыл бұрын

Good one!!! Thanks!!!

@FeelGoodWithin 5 жыл бұрын

Thankx so much Gr8 tips 👌

@reddeersleeping 8 жыл бұрын

Fab thanks Maria!

@Misana 8 жыл бұрын

Ok. I am subscribing!

@calikatsai 10 жыл бұрын

I love that you have a lending team! I've wanted to lend on Kiva before, but have had trouble figuring out the right projects.

@DarlyneBeauty 7 жыл бұрын

I love Jen Sincero and learned from her the great mantra: My bank account is wide open and ready to receive! I love it!

@JLewy_ 8 жыл бұрын

Tip #6 resonated with me the most because it was counterintuitive like you said. To give money away when you feel short. That's very interesting.

@m.suranyi3885 7 жыл бұрын

Called tithing.

@alphafemalelimitless8051 2 жыл бұрын

just when i was giving up@ I GAVE..... IN MY DARKEST MONTHS, I DECIDED TO GIVE WHOLE LIVING ROOM AND BEDROOM SETS TO FAMILY AND CLOSE FRIENDS@ AFTER THAT, THE WORLD AND MYSELF IS A BETTER PLACE@ ( smile at the world and the world smiles at you)@