7 MISTAKES I Made With HOUSEHELPS

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Suzy's Homestead

4 жыл бұрын

Househelps or Nannies. They play such a crucial part in our lives here in Kenya, and yet most of us never seem to get "the right one". If you have been abandoned by your help in the morning as you step out the door headed to work, this is the video for you. In fact, this is the video I wish I had before I ever hired a househelp.
Most of us are guilty of many of these 7 common mistakes when dealing with our househelps and nannies. In this video, I unravel the mystery of why our helps are seemingly always leaving us, and how to make them stay....at least from my (vast) experience.
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@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
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@lucyteffomooi.
@lucyteffomooi. 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be so friendly to my helpers,most took advantage, to a point of stealing... I am trying to be a friendly boss again,it is just hard this time. Sometimes when you too kind they take advantage
@rosemaryjohnson3971
@rosemaryjohnson3971 2 жыл бұрын
True.... I pray that we get to strike this balance
@newlymade.8774
@newlymade.8774 Жыл бұрын
This happens to me too friendly, kind and helping them too but they exploit it n become too disobedient
@margaretwamaitha2766
@margaretwamaitha2766 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@margaretwamaitha2766
@margaretwamaitha2766 Жыл бұрын
Dealing with one right naw,,she drives me crazy😔
@annanurika5282
@annanurika5282 Жыл бұрын
@@margaretwamaitha2766 same yea
@annwambugu3647
@annwambugu3647 3 жыл бұрын
Where have I been? The best channel ever learning very credible lessons. Have been watching all your videos since 8pm.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Aaw Ann! So glad you like it! 🌻🌻
@Nancy.Macharia
@Nancy.Macharia 4 жыл бұрын
latest lesson i've learnt its ok to let her go if things dont work out, dont hold onto her because she's good with house work or your kids.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@brendaakoth8139
@brendaakoth8139 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Suzy.Its my first time with house help and this video has really been helpful.Am your subscriber especially for the batch cooking, detergent and hand wash videos, home yoghurt, peanut butter among others. Continue being blessed with your family.
@tarivision1641
@tarivision1641 3 жыл бұрын
Woooow!!! This is just what I needed. Thanks
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
So glad I could help! 💐
@rosendungu4756
@rosendungu4756 3 жыл бұрын
You are always serious but I really love your content I started being motivated after I watch how you do your chores and work too
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 thanks Rose..
@lydiamutai4360
@lydiamutai4360 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I have learnt alot from your channel. Much love
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 11 ай бұрын
You are welcome Lydia!😊
@naturelle1097
@naturelle1097 Жыл бұрын
Very valid points Suzy! I can count the number of hsehelps i had till my daughter got to a good age to be in boarding at 15. Pay them well,respect each other. Treat them like humans.
@gloriagithinji7582
@gloriagithinji7582 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a week old in this channel and I'm wondering where I have been.. super amazing content here, yaani I'm learning so so much watching your content back to back.. wow Suzy you are such a blessing and a wonderful soul too.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Gloria!! 🌼🌻
@gladyswanjiru1814
@gladyswanjiru1814 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.. very helpful to new mothers
@mizzy3835
@mizzy3835 3 жыл бұрын
I love your intonations... they're making me smile 😃 ☺ it's like we're having a one on one over tea and croissants lol 😆
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
💐💐💐 Chai + croissants = dream combination 😋😋😋
@mbangokokon2348
@mbangokokon2348 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly ,I have a dream of travelling to Kenya just to give her a hug😍😍
@eddahwachuka1066
@eddahwachuka1066 4 ай бұрын
This video is for me. I am watching the whole playlist. I loved that last bit....we check our hearts and attitude towards our home managers.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 ай бұрын
🤗🤗🤗
@lucymbewe9038
@lucymbewe9038 2 жыл бұрын
I've been learning so much on this channel..
@loisejoseph1551
@loisejoseph1551 3 жыл бұрын
This was very informative .thank you
@efashion614
@efashion614 3 жыл бұрын
some of them even if you be nice they take advantage. I always made sure i do the deep cleaning cooking and always gave space. She ended up kunitusi ...
@TwistedVillains
@TwistedVillains 4 жыл бұрын
Sue, you are the bomb. Had to jot down the points. I've never had help but I'm looking for the first time ever. Good stuff.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the "employers club" 😜 Wishing you all the best!
@msbanji4963
@msbanji4963 3 жыл бұрын
Same wazzup!
@limitlessmomke6301
@limitlessmomke6301 3 жыл бұрын
Sue, thank you for starting this channel. Every video you do has changed my perspective a whole lot. This one is the best. How you explain each mistake, in such a motherly voice (don't ask me how) felt like it's my mum explaining all this. Now, when I got my child, I'd never had a nanny, I dint know how to be around another lady in my house. (Raised with boys). My first nanny, God bless her... Taught me patience, she'd speak like you are now. She'd calm me down when I get angry.. yaani she contained hasira zangu za Mkisii.🤣🤣 When her season ended I let her go start her family and hope she gets a good nanny as she was to me. Bless you for this channel, you are changing lives.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you girl!! You're too kind! I'm so glad you are finding value here. 🌻✨
@hattiebigutes8672
@hattiebigutes8672 3 жыл бұрын
I have recently just discovered your channel. And I Love it. So much to learn from. Well done Suzy and awesome video :)
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Hattie! So glad you're here! 👍🏾👍🏾
@enhadassah1966
@enhadassah1966 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful advice right there 👌. Thanks alot. Let's treat them with the fear of The Lord 💞.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!
@pick-me-upwithangiechavang5407
@pick-me-upwithangiechavang5407 4 жыл бұрын
Sue this one is the bomb!!! You are hilarious🤣🤣🤣
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks girl! I had so much fun making it!
@mona26ish
@mona26ish 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Suzy for this very helpful.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Most welcome Grace. And thanks for watching!
@susangitonga4582
@susangitonga4582 4 жыл бұрын
Such invaluable advice. Shared with others. Mistake No. 1 is so me 🙈
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching girl. We all make these mistakes yaani!
@doshycooksKe
@doshycooksKe 3 жыл бұрын
I agree totally! I feel with my first househelp I had left everything for her to handle but I am now more involved in my house chores. Good sfuff
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🎉🎉
@elizamwande6396
@elizamwande6396 3 жыл бұрын
Woow! I used to ask my self what's wrong but I've just discovered I was the problem.
@jeanrosewambui4304
@jeanrosewambui4304 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏽This info is so on point...i love the part of treating them like Gods children and having conversations with them. I have had mine for 6 plus years and i pray God keep us together longer.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
6 years!! Wow! What a blessing! Clearly you are doing something right. Keep it up girl! 💯👍🏾
@queensuu4780
@queensuu4780 3 жыл бұрын
Please help me?
@kawiramuema3186
@kawiramuema3186 4 жыл бұрын
Smile for the camera sweety 😁 This is an awesome video!
@esthermuinga9466
@esthermuinga9466 4 жыл бұрын
:-)
@marymurithii4897
@marymurithii4897 Жыл бұрын
Best advice ever .. this will help us also manage our house and our helps too
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mary!💐
@ascarakinyi
@ascarakinyi 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this points so helpful
@nyaxx38
@nyaxx38 4 жыл бұрын
The points are well generated and can be used especially in young mom forums and work.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you think so!
@victoriahnjoki2889
@victoriahnjoki2889 3 жыл бұрын
Wow this is absolutely great.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Victoria 💐
@rehemaissa9811
@rehemaissa9811 3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos, since jana I discovered your Channel am just glued hear.💕❤️
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Rehema! You're so kind! 🌼🌼
@flombogoh5835
@flombogoh5835 3 жыл бұрын
This, is awesome. Thank you.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Most welcome Flo! 🎉🎉
@euniceatieno4976
@euniceatieno4976 3 жыл бұрын
How intelligent!l have learnt alot,God bless you.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Eunice! God bless you too! 💐💐
@MichelleisMyName
@MichelleisMyName 4 жыл бұрын
Really enjoying this information.Already shared it out to my WhatsApp groups.Valuable!
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Aaaww!! You're such a darling! Thanks dear.
@christineno2887
@christineno2887 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 Do I smile in my videos... I ended up smiling. Good job Suzy
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Christine! 😁😁😁
@moureenkyobutungi3502
@moureenkyobutungi3502 3 жыл бұрын
Insightful Suzy Thank you
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot!
@chachaspendo2170
@chachaspendo2170 3 жыл бұрын
Wow wow wow ! I like this information... thankyou
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you too! 🌺🌺
@doreenkaburu8916
@doreenkaburu8916 4 жыл бұрын
I am entertained and educated at the same time.Thank you Suzy!
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Most welcome dear!
@sophiaalindwaongoya6155
@sophiaalindwaongoya6155 4 жыл бұрын
Now I know how to treat myself 😜.... Thanks for the content Suzy👏
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha!! Nice one!!
@wacukakangethe4281
@wacukakangethe4281 2 жыл бұрын
New on this channel, really good info considering my household is reporting on Monday
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 7 ай бұрын
Welcome to the family Wacuka! 😊
@newlymade.8774
@newlymade.8774 Жыл бұрын
This happens to me too friendly, kind and helping them too but they exploit it, take advantage n become disobedient too...
@luciasichali1028
@luciasichali1028 3 жыл бұрын
Learnt a lot , thanks
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Most welcome Lucia! 🌻🌻
@kossieseii85
@kossieseii85 2 жыл бұрын
My first time watching you. A recommendation from my hubby. Such a lovely to hear this. 👍🏾 To answer your question about you smiling ☺️, yes you are. I’m interested in learning more about househelps and Kenyan employers.
@fiacreconsulting1279
@fiacreconsulting1279 4 жыл бұрын
Good one!
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@njericatethuo
@njericatethuo 4 жыл бұрын
Woooow happy to know that we are fellowship members. NLC
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Woohoo!! Awesome!!
@dudushongwe1673
@dudushongwe1673 3 жыл бұрын
Mostly you blame helper but you employers are a promblem , laizy,laizy laizy ,laiz yooooo
@nyaxx38
@nyaxx38 4 жыл бұрын
I think you speak about serious isuses and all and are interesting to listen to and smile when you need to. Can you imagine smiling all through the videos yaani the jaws will be aching in less than 5minutesb🖤🤍🖤🤍
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha!! That's a great perspective!! I agree kabisa!!
@pantaleologoluso9593
@pantaleologoluso9593 Жыл бұрын
Yes I agree pay well so they become loyal and don’t need to take anything also to gain thankfulness and respect from househelper
@hannahmuchibi5174
@hannahmuchibi5174 4 жыл бұрын
I am all ears. I am on house girl number 5 with an 18 months old and 3 weeks old. God help me. Each time a help leaves most times the following day I am left crying and asking my hubby did I make the wrong Decision to let them go. Thanks for sharing. I am learning and relearning.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my! Hugs girl! Reminds me of when my twins were born! Such difficult times! But things do get better, trust me. God will bring you the right person.
@lynnieeve
@lynnieeve 3 жыл бұрын
I had my help for 3yrs but after listening to you I think I could have done better at creating rapport.Our was purely employee-employer relationship but it didn't help that she was introverted.I hope to do better with my next help.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Eve! Every day we learn and make progress. 🌺🌷
@mathatotsupane9969
@mathatotsupane9969 2 жыл бұрын
I used to work for this family where by I start at 5am to 10pm even on weekends and I did not have leave at all I left and God blessed me with the new family I have been with them for 11yrs not working on weekends and also I have a total of 1month leave days I thank God
@magzdue
@magzdue 2 жыл бұрын
Wow blessings
@sellinemoo3301
@sellinemoo3301 3 жыл бұрын
Am loving this suzy
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Selline! 😊
@jenifferogoba3642
@jenifferogoba3642 3 жыл бұрын
May God bless you and your family
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jennifer! You too!! 🌻👍🏾
@wahomemuriuki1154
@wahomemuriuki1154 3 жыл бұрын
Great content...!
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot!
@blessedofgod2241
@blessedofgod2241 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this topic! Such perspective especially the part for helping so that you know what’s Happening in your house…I have a newborn and currently on my third Househelp in 2 months haha weeeeeeeeeeeeeh character development
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead Жыл бұрын
Hi! You are welcome. You are doing well girl!
@gracewaithera1542
@gracewaithera1542 3 жыл бұрын
Good informative content.....thumbs up
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Grace! 🎊🎊
@beemariam3455
@beemariam3455 4 жыл бұрын
I have never helped a nanny with housework EVER! So with Covid, I decided since I'm home, we can work together. Wueeeee!! That idea took a big bite on my ass. After 2 months of this, nanny started seeing me as her equal. The day I have left the house and done no house work, she SULKSSSSS! She started even leavng some of her duties for me. Suzzie i STOPPED! I only assist when I feel like it. But mambo ya "Cook and I'll wash the house", hapanaa.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Pole sana mami... Some nannies will initially respond like this, depending on their level of maturity. I would have a chat with her and explain that I still expect work to be done at the end of the day. I would let her know that when I am at home I would help, but if I am not at home she should make sure everything gets done. Hapa ndio leadership skills zinatokelezea 😂😂 That's how I would handle such a help. She should know that it's still her job at the end of the day.
@marymaricengari.
@marymaricengari. 3 жыл бұрын
@@suzyshomestead true
@mercykariuki4168
@mercykariuki4168 3 жыл бұрын
I am used to a spotless kitchen on Sunday as it is her day off,So one day I left two thermos not washed but soaked.Upon her return she was like"Na hizi thermos zinafanya nini hapa."Phew🙄😬
@scholarkimwamu7260
@scholarkimwamu7260 3 жыл бұрын
exactly,the moment you start helping them they even assume some of their duties
@moureenkemunto41
@moureenkemunto41 3 жыл бұрын
Yes hapo ni ukweli akikuzoe ni basi the same happened to me so ilimbidi nimemtoa
@shesblack8917
@shesblack8917 3 жыл бұрын
Hi suzzy I truly appreciate this platform , Im a househelp and I'm in a dire situation with my boss currently ... I really need someone to talk to , just to give me strength .... Someone to uplift me so I can stay focused on my goals
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
No worries girl. Just inbox me on FB or IG. Hang in there! 💐
@Nancy.Macharia
@Nancy.Macharia 4 жыл бұрын
like this Hot topic which i too have learnt alot and its a broad topic that mummies personally learn as they raise their children.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks girl!
@theachidosgirl.4003
@theachidosgirl.4003 2 жыл бұрын
Amen you are such a nice person,may all employers and employees watch this video,but everything you've said I have passed through in 3 houses I was employed until I am hating to be employed .
@idafaith7300
@idafaith7300 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful content
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ida! 💐💐
@nabsmarialil2325
@nabsmarialil2325 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Suzy and other bosses can embarrass their house helps in front of the children and children also take that advantage to disrespect the househelps
@christinesifuna1271
@christinesifuna1271 Жыл бұрын
True my sister
@milikalonus3499
@milikalonus3499 2 жыл бұрын
Lots of love here from Uganda Mbarara city
@moureenkyobutungi3502
@moureenkyobutungi3502 3 жыл бұрын
Yes you smile and honestly your sooooo lovely and you feel with what you say It's well dear
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Moureen. You're so kind! 🌼🌼
@daisywambui4711
@daisywambui4711 2 жыл бұрын
Hello thts great advice I would like you to guide me on something.
@booksandlife3012
@booksandlife3012 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the tips Suzy, I absolutely love you and your content. Also, you're a wonderful human being. May God bless you and your family❣️❣️ Yes, you smile in your videos, it's just that it's a little on the inside😅😅
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Verah! 💐💐
@alanpierrers
@alanpierrers 2 жыл бұрын
Wacha nikunywe chai juu ya hiyo stori had me cracked up!
@lynnedigo4492
@lynnedigo4492 3 жыл бұрын
Househelp is helpless 😂😂😂. I love your videos
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words Lynne! Merry Christmas! 🎄🎄
@milikalonus3499
@milikalonus3499 2 жыл бұрын
Me whenever am home I do most of work then these house helps get used and sometimes goes to bed leaving me hustling yet am helping ha.whn she is not sick
@tannekag.811
@tannekag.811 Жыл бұрын
This is what attracted me to your channel. You being yourself, I can tell you're not phony. Me personally I don't think you need to smile more. You're alright with me.😊❤
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tanneka!🤗
@twoten2547
@twoten2547 3 жыл бұрын
Then if the no. one mistake is to go bye, then I don't need one because Her JD is purely house chores and the kids when I am out there looking for money. Imagine coming home late because of the nature of your work and you find her literally waiting for you to help??? Unless I review down her salary, because i normally do her JD and i make sure I compensate her adequately. You can only help her of you know you are paying her poorly. I have had one whom I treated soo well that my 9yr daughter questioned me why are you soo nice to aunty and she is mistreating us when you are not there?? She one day took a video of her shouting and punching his younger brothers in the dining and the part of her threatening them from telling me what happened. She used to blackmail them that if you tell your mother I will tell her how you frustrate me and I will leave this job and you know your mum will not get any house help to come and help her. So the kids were confused should they tell mum or we endure the mistreatment for the sake of her staying around to help mum with work??? That video shocked me and I just paid her earned salary the next day and we parted ways without telling her what happened.
@joycekanyangii7679
@joycekanyangii7679 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sue.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Most welcome!
@rosem9402
@rosem9402 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes they finish the housework by 10:00am and spend the rest of the day on afrosinema till you arrive .
@newlymade.8774
@newlymade.8774 Жыл бұрын
I always use those rules coz that's my nature n they turn into mistake n it's like I give my power away in the process, I don't stop even when I keep being warned to stop being too nice, of course they the helps all claim am too good person but they disappoint alot coz they take advantage and even start seeing me as their equal n disobedience n disrespects comes in there, but most always want to come back but I only need one when hv just given birth or when am working but it's better to just raise your kids on your own...they are of big help but most betray your kindness aki...
@keystonekoko5433
@keystonekoko5433 3 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of one woman who used to tell me not to sit in the sitting room because the hubby will see me forgetting that she used to go places leaving the kids and the husband in my hands 🤔
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@moureenkemunto41
@moureenkemunto41 3 жыл бұрын
Haaaaa
@beemariam3455
@beemariam3455 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@dudushongwe1673
@dudushongwe1673 3 жыл бұрын
Many employers are lazy all the know complain , complain ,
@prossymisanya7456
@prossymisanya7456 3 жыл бұрын
Sweet heart I have one here that's her job
@tatianataty7034
@tatianataty7034 Жыл бұрын
Lovely
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tatiana!💐
@ItsCynthiaMisagreeable
@ItsCynthiaMisagreeable 3 жыл бұрын
All Househelps should sign a Contract on how long employment is needed if from 6 months to 12 months if Househelp breaks contract all payments should be withheld and notify Househelp of breach of contract. ALL HOUSEHELP MUST BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS WHEN A CONTRACT IS BROKEN.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment Cynthia! ☺️☺️
@naturelle1097
@naturelle1097 Жыл бұрын
😆i think for someone to decide to terminate a contract which they happily signed there is always an issue. so get to the bottom of the matter and if the issue is beyond mending let her go in peace.
@cindyashreywambuikarathe394
@cindyashreywambuikarathe394 3 жыл бұрын
I agree totally
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Cindy!
@gracendungwa9211
@gracendungwa9211 2 жыл бұрын
I only cook occasionally ,i dont correct her errors,i point them out and she corrects them,its only that i cant be bathed!!
@MmboneM
@MmboneM 4 жыл бұрын
Do a video on a questionnaire you use when recruiting househelps. What are the tale tell signs that she will not stay or she is not a good fit/match for your family.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
Very good idea girl!! Working on it! Thanks!
@lydiakoimburi
@lydiakoimburi 3 жыл бұрын
On this one I can tell women, do you. It feels like the women are being oppressed in a way as compared to men in running homes. There's no way mtaingia nyumbani nyinyi wawili and then I rush to the kitchen to cook so as to help the help, don't get me wrong but let her panga her time well and do her job. Treat her well, but let her do her job. If you are the type ya kutandikiwa kitanda, do it, if you want to cook,well, but don't neglect yourself while at it
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Good points Wambui. 👏🏾👏🏾
@mbangokokon2348
@mbangokokon2348 3 жыл бұрын
Pls can you translate the vernacular to English,🙏🙏
@margaretwamaitha2766
@margaretwamaitha2766 Жыл бұрын
Very very vererrrrrrrryyyyyy TRUE!!
@monicahmbugua2451
@monicahmbugua2451 3 жыл бұрын
Wow thanks for this,am here looking for one can't believe the one I had left after all I did for her it hurts!
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Pole Sana Monicah! It shall be well. 😢😢😢
@daphinekandagor9122
@daphinekandagor9122 2 жыл бұрын
Hugs
@newlymade.8774
@newlymade.8774 Жыл бұрын
Hugs the same happened to me i let her go coz the ungratefulness n the disrespect was too much despite being a siz to her
@mwendapoleee
@mwendapoleee 3 жыл бұрын
I remember a neighbour whose baby Was more used to the househelp than the mother .
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
So sad! 😟😟
@mercyoronje1733
@mercyoronje1733 2 жыл бұрын
And how do you "politely" get rid of a non performing house help who doesn't want to leave?She is comfortable to continue staying yet her job is just OK. She does the bare minimum of her duties, doesn't go out of her way to improve and has to be reminded every time to do things correctly.
@zipporahmaisiba2977
@zipporahmaisiba2977 2 жыл бұрын
Am also hoping to be assisted in this
@floachieng810
@floachieng810 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@annenjoroge8814
@annenjoroge8814 2 жыл бұрын
I wish she answered this question cz am going through the same. I've to keep reminding her and pointing out her shoddy job. It makes it difficult to even socialize or relate with her. Most times am just pissed at her
@newlymade.8774
@newlymade.8774 Жыл бұрын
It's better to let her go, I am a patient person too it only gets worse n she will eventually leave n leave u with regrets why u never let her go earlier...someone will to stay should be willing to do their best ..so don't make the same mistakes that I make
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 11 ай бұрын
Hi Mercy! Here is a video I did on how to fire a househelp... kzfaq.info/get/bejne/o9yGeah0z8uqlH0.htmlsi=20UJRutd7SL_RVTr
@rosemaryjohnson3971
@rosemaryjohnson3971 2 жыл бұрын
Haha I asked my friend if I'm the one in the wrong... Kumbe... Never hold on to the house helps. Blessed is the coming house help.... She's going to find the best employer
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!! Love it! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@doshycooksKe
@doshycooksKe 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
👌🏾
@hellenaluoch8234
@hellenaluoch8234 3 жыл бұрын
Waaah GOD bless you.... imagine nimekaa na mtu for 3 yrs ata off siendi namwongoja hadi apewe leave ndio naenda home and she dsnt even appreciate now have decided to go
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Oh Hellen! Pole Sana! Have you had a chat with her about it? 3 years is a long time. May God bless the work of your hands. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@hellenaluoch8234
@hellenaluoch8234 3 жыл бұрын
She is talking to me rudely like have told you before ukichoka you let me know waah
@destershomeliving7486
@destershomeliving7486 3 жыл бұрын
@@hellenaluoch8234 waaah! That's very rude of her!
@hellenaluoch8234
@hellenaluoch8234 3 жыл бұрын
Mungu anamwona...
@nassimahmed8346
@nassimahmed8346 3 жыл бұрын
Sweet be blessed your so patient
@ruthatieno4904
@ruthatieno4904 3 жыл бұрын
For me this a no I tried I ended up doing all the work while she was on phone this went on for like one week and that's how I realised I do not need her I can actually do it on my own and that how I got rid of her got a cleaning lady who comes once a week we thorough clean and am happy
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
So glad you found a system that works for you Ruth! 🙌🏾👊🏾
@newlymade.8774
@newlymade.8774 Жыл бұрын
The story of my life n recently it was a 36yr old grown up yet I had a Cs wound to heal...nkt
@estherkimani3194
@estherkimani3194 3 жыл бұрын
Suzi,do you despise house helps? We forget that they're also human beings,it's not good to overwork them coz they're being paid,sometimes let's put ourselves in their shoes.I was once a house help but could cope with my boss.Kid's (rude,disrespectful, messy) from that day,I preferred working g for old parents.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Esther! Keep up the good work! I appreciate househelps. They are a vital part of our community. Thanks for watching! 👊🏿
@aliceodera9920
@aliceodera9920 3 жыл бұрын
Am a house help seven years now in this house ,bat she has never helped me .aki sio kumchomea bat she do not help ata kidogo .and recently her husband complained that kusha tsho zake za job zimepotea and they r needed guess niliambiwa nimeziiba forgetting that there is a relative of his also living with us .he had already called the police not to know that his brother had actually taken them .manze sio rahisi am planning to leave soon
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Pole Sana Alice! I pray everything works out well for you. 💐💐
@efashion614
@efashion614 3 жыл бұрын
mine ukimkalisha chini atakuambia ye amezoea hivo😂
@josephinenabiryotamale5935
@josephinenabiryotamale5935 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@naomimwaniki8128
@naomimwaniki8128 3 жыл бұрын
Nice lessons there
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 💐💐
@Angela-sn5tb
@Angela-sn5tb 2 жыл бұрын
Heeh!! Gosh! I disagree with almost everything you've said but maybe it's just me. A nanny should know what is expected of her from day 1. You train her and she continues on her own. You are her employer and she is an employee. That's it. There should be a clear boundary. If you start doing her work, she will stop working hard and always expect you to help. If you can't help her because you have other things to do, she will start feeling over worked and start walking around like she is a victim. I am a working mom. At work, my boss tells me what to do and I do it. He doesn't tell me what to do and then he grabs a chair, sits beside me and helps me to do it. Kila mtu na kazi yake! Also, when am I expected to relax. I work and I come home to work some more 🤣🤣 I think society expects too much from women especially mothers. LADIES, LEARN TO RELAX! You deserve it. Leave her with the kids and go and drink some tea with friends. You can even go to your room and watch a movie. Take a break. Nannies get Sunday off. When will you as a wife and mom take a break? With a relaxed and well rested mind, you'll be better wives, mothers and workers. House work is not a priority in my house. My husband and kids are. All you have pointed out seems like more work to me. That part where you are saying that we should talk to them also is a big mistake. Nannies have issues like everyone else but if they tell you they expect you to go above and beyond to help them and to be super understanding when they keep asking for time off. Even if you talk to her. She will still go and talk to other nannies out there probably about you. I had a nanny we treated her really well. We helped her and uplifted her and her family. After a year, she started feeling like she was better than the job. She ended up giving me a notice to try and increase her salary. Her husband tried to conn me. She left our house very bitter. A week later she was trying to come back but I can never take back a nanny. I was exhausted. My personal advice is don't involve yourself in the lives of your nannies. They will leave you, without warning and you will feel drained. Focus on your families. She is an employee, she has family and friends of her own that she can confide in.
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Angela! I appreciate the passion and dedication that it took to write all that! You clearly feel very strongly about this topic. Thank you for taking the time to watch and leave a comment. Much appreciated! 👏🏾👏🏾💐💐
@Angela-sn5tb
@Angela-sn5tb 2 жыл бұрын
@@suzyshomestead Hehehe!! Aki I tried to keep it brief but I just can't. Anyway, I have learned these lessons the hard way I tell you. In fact, we just let go of a nanny. She just couldn't get along with my kids. I gave her a month and she didn't improve so onto the next. I learned not to get invested so I don't get affected either. Let me stop there before I chuck another book. Thanks Suzy.
@rosem9402
@rosem9402 Жыл бұрын
Oh my...I totally agree. Women need time for themselves. Don't get invested. You're right your boss at work gives you work and expects it done.
@newlymade.8774
@newlymade.8774 Жыл бұрын
@@Angela-sn5tb u r so very right, I have learnt the hard way too n I hope I can be tough coz even your boss at work doesjt come to help, they expect work done in time wether you didn't sleep, slept hungry or tires or you came to work on food is never their concern, so house helps should not be exceptional, i treat them well but they take advantage...
@margaretwamaitha2766
@margaretwamaitha2766 Жыл бұрын
Good
@tabbyblessed8802
@tabbyblessed8802 3 жыл бұрын
but still this video educating
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tabby! 🌷🌷
@essiemuinga
@essiemuinga 4 жыл бұрын
Hapo sawa. We both need each other. Smile Suzy :-)
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Sawa... Smiling all the way!
@s35255
@s35255 3 жыл бұрын
Mums working from home do your nannies feel uncomfortable? I work from home and I'm always in my bedroom but i feel like they feel like hawana freedom. I tried helping her with house chores like cooking which ended up that it's my job. The other day she told me " na rushiu ugaturugira pilau"...yaaniii
@suzyshomestead
@suzyshomestead 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 I feel you Susan! I'm home a lot too, but I try to balance between giving my nanny her space and also building rapport with her. And also taking away the kids from her for a while so she can get her work done. It's a fine balance, but doable. All the best! Na upikie watu pilau.. 🤣🤣🤣
@joycenderitu4646
@joycenderitu4646 3 жыл бұрын
😛😅😅😅
@rebeccakisayke588
@rebeccakisayke588 3 жыл бұрын
Have liked you so much but some have no privacy in their house
@rebeccakisayke588
@rebeccakisayke588 3 жыл бұрын
Iam looking for a job please
@hildanyaga4743
@hildanyaga4743 2 жыл бұрын
Susie, very few of us could afford this minimum wage
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