7 mistakes pastors wives should not make 1. Don't fight the church ( God's wife) 2. Don't confuse hospitality to access. Isaiah 39: don't allow everyone access into your home. Have clear boundaries 3. Don't assume you belong to the church. Don't be entitled be grateful whenever your members do something for you. 4. Never take prayer as optional.... YOU CAN NOT FO LIFE WITHOUT PRAYER. 5. Forgetting that you live in a glass house. Don't throw stones be careful. 6. Forget to live for an audience of one. Live to please God. 7. Never forget that you husband he's 1st a man then a man of God. He has weaknesses too. Wow thank you Pastor M. Receive much love ❤️ from a pastor's wife here in 🇰🇪🇰🇪

About a year ago this message Pop on my timeline and I refused to listen to it because I'm not a pastor's wife or praying to marry a Pastor... Well I'm engaged to be married to a pastor in less than 2 months from now and here I am listening to this message 🥺

I want to applaud every pastor's wife who saw this video and clicked on it. I'm a pastors daughter so I have some knowledge from my own experience and also being around a lot of pastors' wives. So, I think I'm not the only one who's first reaction seeing this video was "Here we go again" like she said, the expectations and rules on how to be can be overwhelming. This is why I know that it must have taken courage, discipline, a determination to get it right and HUMILITY for many of us to click on this video. And to my pleasant surprise, it wasn't a bashing or shaming but a space where we could feel safe, put down our walls and listen to someone who understands and isn't speaking from a "high pedestal" I should've expected nothing less from Pastor M. I just felt the need to acknowledge and appreciate the pastors wives who watched, and tell you that God is happy and proud of you. You are mothers of nations so keep equipping yourselves for your role, His grace is sufficient. God bless you🙏❤❤❤

Am not a pastors wife and am not married but I just love listening to her 😩😃

Very profound instructions ma. I am not a pastor's wife but both my husband and I are workers in church. I have learnt a lot, and I think this counsel is for every serious-minded godly wife and mother. God bless you greatly ma.

I am one of those who never planned to marry a pastor but it was a plan of GOD. I am glad God is teaching me how to embrace the call.Thank you so much mum for this great insight

Phenomenal, the tongues got me 😂😂thank you Momma 💞 Am a Pastors wife and I really appreciate this. More unction

As a single lady, I felt chills just listening to you speak 🔥

I'm a Pastor's daughter. This helped me tremendously to even cover my own Father.

❤❤ Wow, I was so blessed by watching this video. There is so much I want to say because I’m a young Pastor’s wife and a very new one too. My husband was already a Pastor when I married him and we’ve been married for a year and some months. God bless you so much for sharing this. I was “wowed” from the introduction to the very end. It kept getting better and better at every point and I didn’t even want it to end. I really love the way you backed everything with scriptures. It really kept me going and wanting more. I don’t know when this video was made but the message is so fresh, practical and real for me. Obviously, I can say more 😂 but I’ll just end here. I really like you already even though it’s my first time seeing you or hearing about you. I even want to meet physically 🙈. I pray God grants me that privilege and opportunity. I’m so excited that’s why I can’t stop bubbling 😂. Ok I’ve stopped 😅. God bless you so much Pastor M❤. Thank you 😊🙏🏽

“your home is not your church.” 🔥🔥 It took me years as a pastor’s wife to realize that. We have to be careful about who we allow in our personal space. If I would have learned this when I became a pastor’s wife years ago, it would have saved me a lot of heartaches.

As a pastor' s wife I am really blessed and I have learnt most of the things I didn't know. Be blessed

As a pastor's wife, this has changed me. It's my first listening to you ma, but you have inspired me ans blessed me.

1-Ne pas combattre l'église parce que le mari n'a pas assez de temps pour toi ou la maison. 2-Limiter les visites à la maison(mari, maison, famille)ne pas abuser de l'hospitalité 3-Ne pas croire que vous (femme) appartenez à l'église, ne rien attendre des membres 4-Penser que la prière est facultative 5-Se réserver, se taire, être éveillée car vous êtes un standard. 6-Oublier ce que disent les gens et vivre selon le standard de Dieu 7-Ne jamais oublier que votre époux Pasteur est un être humain, ne pas l'élever au point de Dieu.

Thanks for sharing this mom , I’m engaged to a pastor now and I’m trying to learn as much as I can to be a support to him and good with people although we can’t please everyone

My first question is where were you 14 years ago when I got married 😊😊 but I know God's time is always the right time, my sister I just want to thank you for this wonderful teaching, all these mistakes you are teaching I have made them and I just pray that there is still time for me to rectify them. Please continue teaching is cause when I got married I was never taught about prayer or how to pray for my marriage, my husband,myself, my children . All what I knew to pray for was to pray for the ministry , pray for the church pray for the pastor, we got so good at praying for all these things but never did someone teach me to pray for my own things. i just wanted to say thank you women of God

This has really blessed me as a Pastor's wife💖Thank you Pastor Mildred💖

These are valuable tips for anyone in any position of influence. Thanks so much Pastor Mildred for such commitment to excellence.

If u are d only reason tube n insta was invented its so worth it.i thank God 4 ur life.thanks for blessing us with ur msges

One more thing ma, please 🙏🙏 can you do this more often? Talking to pastor's wives more often. Sincerely I need more of this as a young pastor's wife. Or if you have a platform where you mentor young pastor's wives in ministry, I will love to register. Thank you so much!

I needed this message, and I'm not even a Pastor's wife! God knew I needed pastor M, so He put her on my stream. I'm binge watching. Can't get enough!

Wow...! I thought I knew what to expect until I watched and stayed glued till the end. Thank you Mama! You are indeed a blessing to the body of Christ, God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Clear distinction between hospitality and acess. 🙏🙏🙏👏👏madam God bless you, am not a pastors wife but I find it very useful 👏👏👏👏👏watching from🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

Amen 🙏 God bless you Ma and God bless your Ministry In Jesus Christ Name Amen

Thinking prayer is optional💥🔥🙏♪🤲Prayer is our breadth in this life...husband and wife must pray before bed and before leaving your marital home and even in between the hours of the day💥🔥🙏🤲🙌👌thank you Pastora for speaking this truth.

I woke up this morning & God told me to find an answer as to how I must develop myself in the ministry because I’ve been stuck. I’m not in love with a pastor but im in love with the Pastors son who is as involved in the ministry. Being a member of the church/leader/evangelist doesn’t mean I’m prepared to marry the pastoral ministry & I’ve been terrified because I’ve been feeling neglected, shaken, misunderstood & depressed. The Lord presented me these answers. this video has shown I’ve been doing it all wrong & I must change & receive the wisdom of the Lord. Even if things do not work out with him God has called me to prepare. I cannot be more grateful for this video. May the Lord continue to bless your ministry.

Am a Uganda in Jordan am grateful for teaching me.

Thsnk you ma 👍 I'm bless by watching this powerful massage. Thank you Jesus for using such a woman to be a blessing to her generation 🔥

Thank you. I am not married to a Pastor but this was helpful n insightful even to a single Christian woman

"When you get to the point where your mind is renewed you will only know that it's the word that works"🙌. This one hit me.... Thank you very much Ma you are truly and inspiration. Been learning so much and seeing the results already since I started following you about a week ago and the Lord is still doing Marvellous things as I continue to follow your spirit filled teachings. Love all the way from Cameroon 🙏

I love you pastor M, your teachings are just pure and as a pastor's wife I have learnt a lot from this. I really appreciate your time.

I as a man so blessed by this message and the presence of God while listening, thank you ma ! May the Lord increase you.

I love the manner with which you explain things, especially thinking that our husbands as pastors are infallible. God bless your ministry ma

ah this one is for any wife oo, not only for pastors wives. truly blessed me oo. "your husband is first a man before he is a man of God." chai. Thank you PM for this teaching

This message is from above No person can say these things except God be with them I like how it exudes from you ma that you are indeed a branch of our Lord Jesus Christ. This message has made me pray more.

I can't explain the GRACE you carry ma. I am always blessed by the words of wisdom from your mouth. I have sent this message to almost all the Pastor's wives I know. This message is very key. I am also learning even though I am a single. God bless you more in Jesus name.

You are indeed a blessing to this generation ❤

Thanks so much Daughter of the Most High God. I am a mother who has been so concerned about what you've just shared. Alot of applause has been given to women by the men generally. Its time for women to rise up and begin to share more of these weaknesses so that together we can improve on ourselves and become virtuous women. The more virtuous women we have in our society, the more pleasant society will be. Training skills and ability for humanity is in a woman. Thanks so much Daughter, it was not only for pastor's wives but equally to all the women by me.

Yes this is applicable to all of us woman life learnings, that's why I liked it when she said "you cannot do life without prayer". Just try doing life without prayer and see fire flames. Im sending my appreciation to you Pastor Mildred all the way fro..South Africa Pretoria.

Am a pastor’s wife.. it is extremely challenging honestly.. not fun at all..i wish you had a mentoring program where you can share more with us ma.. most times i really need someone to talk to..behind all d fake smiles and facade am really hurting inside..

Pastor Mildred is a big gift. This is the best message on pastors' wife I have ever listened to. She's not sarcastic in her message like some that I know. I can recommend this to my wife because your manners is something to emulate

Pastor M, I fall into the second category. I keep praying for strength cos I never prayed for this at all. May God keep strengthening you for all of us. Weldone Ma.

Thank you so much ma for this. I am currently engaged to a pastor and I am in the category that never wanted to marry a pastor but here we are. I've been looking for things to help me navigate and make the transition. This is super helpful. God bless you ma. Everything is spot on.

I am very certain God made me stumble in this message for a greater reason. 41 minutes transforming a hundred added years of previous snd current lives of many women. My first time watching this woman and my innerman says yes. Anointed cool voice to convince the confused. I personally Thank you ma.

This is not only for pastor ‘s wife, it concerns every conscious Christian women. thank you very much. God blessed you

This is awesome! I simply love your teaching woman of God. Would love to listen to more of your teachings. I think every Christian sister should listen to your teachings.

Honestly as a pastor wife l am grateful for this wanderful massage love❤

Wisdom on display. Thank you! And I thank God for using you.

Thank you Pastor Mildred. Listening to you ignites something in me. This message was so necessary!!

I am a pastor's wife and I always receive the Word from you. Thank you. Somertimes The Lord reveals what you should pray for through dreams. Blessings to you and your Husband.🙏

Pray until you become prayer 🤣🤣Love that! Thanks for this powerful message 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Wow thank you so much for this, I'm not a pastor or pastor's wife but by the grace of God, I'm into worship and prayer. That number 2 really spoke to me cos I made the mistake of talking about what God was showing me or dealing with me, trusted too much and it brought so much demonic attacks into my life and ministry until I began to understand what I was doing wrong.

Its the authenticity for me😀.God bless you Mummy 🙏🙏

Thank you Pastor M, pls ma, hope there will be Part2 of this message for the pastors. 7 mistakes a pastor must not do to his wife or family. I really need it ma plsssss

Thank you ma, very very helpful. I'm not married but this will go a very long way. May the lord continue to use you to help women out here.

WOw i shouldn't make the mistake of sacrificing my role as the wife of the pastor for a position of Pastor's wife. Chaii this is the brutal truth, real and so deep.Thank you Blessings

Even if you decide to stop pastoring right now...the sermons that you've already dropped will be more than enough to last a life time. God continue to increase you in wisdom and grace. God bless you ma. I love you so much!

Bless you mama,I desire to be married to a pastor and these 7 mistakes, I have noted them😂

I love you Pastor M.. Your videos are filled with so much wisdom.. God bless you ma.. From Zambia 🇿🇲 💕💕

I am not a pastor wife, but I love your teaching , God bless you ijn

Thanks ma you have bless my soul today

Yes ma....I needed this in preparation to...more grace

Thank you woman of God am not a pastor’s wife but this teaching has blessed me more than I can explain. You changed big part of me ❤️🙏🏾

Lord help 😢,am about to be on this table. Never dreamt of being a pastor's wife but in few months i will be on this table 🙏🥲

A word in season! "He who has ears, let him hear what the Spirit is saying"! Thank you so much ma.

Identity..... access..... prayer not optional.... remain his wife first. I am a young pastors wife. Just a couple of months in...i am sooo greatful for this word.. God bless you. Wisdom

Im speechless cos I'm super blessed with this message. Thank u Pastor Mildred. God bless you

Thank you so very much ma God bless you greatly ❤❤❤❤❤ Can't love you less I'm blessed 🙏

Exactly God bless you ma That's exactly what I do tell my husband, that we are shepherds does not mean we shouldn't have our privacy. Everyone wants access to rooms and kitchen and everywhere in the house, but it shouldn't be so.

I am not a pastors's wife either but this is a true mother-daughter talk that is deeper than just preaching, come on, if can all apply this in our lives whether married or not, life will be much easier and better - real talk and l love it. Thank you Pastor.

Powerful message. The 7th point is really for me. I am always discouraged when I see the members having or behaving like people who haven't experienced Christ. But listening to this message I have learned seriously.

When you marry a Pastor that's the time you will know all the prayers you've prayed was just introduction now your getting to the body

Pray till you become prayer🔥🔥🔥🔥. This made my day. You are a blessing ma.

Am not a Pastor''s wife yet but I love your sincerity. God bless you Pastor M

God bless you ma, am grateful I stumbled on this. Rhema word aLL through

I never planned on being a pastor's wife. These tips are very helpful! I'd love to know more about the comments you made on clothing / hair, etc.

God bless you so much ma’am, I really feel blessed by this. I’m currently engaged to a minister whereas I’ve never thought of being a minister’s wife🥺 really learnt a lot from this video, more unction to you ma’am

Best advice ever for Minister's wives. Honest and full of wisdom

Glory Hallelujah!!! These are real time real life nuggets! -Pastor's wife need to draw the lines in relation to access to their lives, etc. -You must live for an audience of one(God the Father). -Wife your husband; don't subortage your role as his wife and amplify the position of Pastor's wife. -Never forget that your husband is first a man; yep; all men can be tempted. -Prayer is not an option.

More grace to conquer IJN

Honestly your right we have been hurt so much through giving, u give more is expected, when your unable u get cursed.

I so much love Pastor Mildred! Serves God's word accurately plus she's so real when teaching... I'm not married tho but I just love listening to her!

How can one not love this great woman...I love you ma...thank you for this great teaching..I am really blessed. More grace ma, I celebrate Grace beautiful mama.

I learnt a lot from this video, most of the things is not even only applicable to Minister's wives but also to women of God and to daughters of Zion. The one that really got me is really knowing the people you give access into your life and home. More Grace Ma.

Mama, 1of the points is not even for a pastors wife, it is for all wives. Point 6..... Soo true. God bless you ma.

Mummy thank you so much I am not a pastor's wife but GOD uses you to bless me,honestly mummy you need to visit so many churches and talk to women general.thank you so much ma

I love this... Thank you ma

It's really costly no more complaining, compromise, comparison God bless you dear

Woow. Thank you so much Ma. Though am not a pastor’s wife but have have learnt so much Ma. God bless you

Thank you woman of God.for this message

I am married but not to a pastor by the grace of God Almighty, I just love you& your all teachings may God Almighty bless you and give you the grace to function in your ministry Amen.

Am not a pastors wife, in fact I am a pastor having a wife and I wished my wife to listen to this as I always spoke to her about this now it will be clear for her after listening to this message, thank you woman of God

Ooooo my GOD this IS the kind of message i was looking for.

My God you are helping ALL of US today. Hallelujah!!!!

Awesome teaching and confirmation. Thank you for your godly wisdom!

Thank you for shaking the table Pastor M. The truth must be told. Love you ma

Thank you very much now that my husband is now Apostle I just needed this been an Apostle wife is not an easy job but thank God for straight

Thank you mother

WOW I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS VIDEO ‼️ SO MUCH WISDOM FOR SUCH A TIME As THIS🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽 🔥🔥🤍🤍 Thank You so much ❤️🤍🤍❤️

Thank you Lord for the woman of God's life😊🤗