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Tbh, your videos help me a lot with finding myself and I really appreciate that 🥺❤️ I hope you never stop with your videos!

I love the animation!! It’s so cute!!

Your channel is brilliantly structured, contemporary content, gracefully narrated : ) .

I found it👀✨

I couldn’t have said it better. ♡

k i l l e r q u e e n ♥️🙏

yeah...

I absolutely agree with you. 100% true

Very true 🤗

Same and when I want to hang actually be there.

Same

Same.

Same

highly accurate

Thank you 🌺

Totally agree 👍

It is 2am so I passed getting a good night's sleep but I may get a good day's sleep

Thank you!!

I'm pretty sure EVERYONE needs these things, but I think over-sensitivity is seriously limiting human common sense these days!

Thank you so much...all the best to you too! 💚

👌

Yep! My whole life I thought I was messed up I was wrong, etc. So I was told by the abusers in my life. We are Special people! We are refreshing! We are interesting 😉.

thank u and i hope u also have a wonderful day 💜

What a beautiful (and true) mantra! 🤗❤️

There’s a lotta truth in this .. the strong will often leave the quiet out of the conversation , the will talk over others without thought .. a HSP will bring the thoughtful into the conversation , creating space for them .

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Gonna screenshot this, thanks friend!

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Very truee😌💞

A spare heart is a good analogy. Do you currently journal?

Yeah, my heart gets so filled up with emotion easily it feels like a waterballoon about to burst X(

Omg facts!!!

True!

Yeah

Same :(

How about just being with 1 person or a small group for no longer than 2 hours. Lunch, movies, or a quiet activity. Perhaps this could help.

I find that having "pets" can help, wither it's an actual animal, a plant, or even a rock. Before I got my cat I had "pet" moss, taking care of it helped me feel less alone. And before I could have plants or animals I had so many rocks. (But I had abusive parents who kept throwing away my rocks.)

Same

I have the same problem. I find I can’t be around people for more than 2 hours then I start to get anxious. And then I hibernate in my room with u tube videos or meditation apps and then I am fine for another couple of hours. It is a cycle I have been doing for over 30 years. It is exhausting but it works.

Maybe he is one of those ridiculous things. Try pointing that out if he says something like that again. 🙄

You may be reading to much at his response. Maybe all it was, was just an observation, like thinking out loud. The real question which you asked is, does he love you? It is not really worth it to shed tears over it, next time if he does it again, just slap him, he will then get the message. Maybe he will cry then.

And what did you find out?

Same

@@Psych2go I found this accurate

Psych2Go it’s so accurate tbh! I love your videos!! The things I learn from your channel is amazing ❤️❤️

My husband is like that sometimes its so difficult for me to deal ☹

Ty.. This is what I'm looking for

4 that's what I do always

Do you guys feel restless and irritated with noises such as snoring, fans, talking, or just any sound, even if it’s really small?

Another one , AVOID TOXIC PEOPLE.

Also: spend quality time with pets or your passions, listen to soothing & inspirational music, look at beautiful & aesthetic things, be in nature, take herbs or supplements to create peace & calmness. 💙🙏🇺🇸🌍

Same I found out last year. So highly intune as well so you feel crazy lol

​@@buhbools133 You made me aware with your statement "...confused as to why I can't get over things which others just shrug off". Someone once told me that my sensitivity was a good thing because I'm more aware of others' feelings.

You are not alone. I hear ya! 💞

@@dianerandazzo1766 But if others aren't as sensitively attuned, conscious or aware of things themselves oftentimes they act as if you're a threat.

We are extremely empathetic which can be unpleasant at times until we understand how to tune out other peoples hurts. Myself? Stopped watching network tv news. Much happier with less tv. Calmer too.

My pets give me a reason to live, as they depend on me for their lives. They do not judge and so when I’m crying one or both dogs rush over and snuggle. My dogs sleep on my bed and keep me warm and help me feel safe. My bird loves to just sit with me a d sometimes he wants some head scratching. My house is a no judgment zone.

Me too, my dog is my BFF

Having a good kitty companion has helped me all my life. 75 now and the cat I have now saves me from stress from cringy ppl. I wake up loving my cat. Not so with humans.😢

@@shirleykaye4344 I have noticed this helps me daily too

You said it perfectly 👌 👏

same, that's why I like spending a lot of time in my room when doing homework, it calms me

Yeah, I like staying in rooms where nobody really comes. It makes me feel safe

I KNOW it’s like a cure for almost any emotional breakdown.

@@pixxL_ i know right

I can't :c I don't have a door

Great suggestion!! Thank you.

Same

Absolutely 💯

Oh yeah, I’ve got a bad habit of suppressing negative emotions, sometimes even for MONTHS just to avoid hurting someone’s feelings

@@Psych2go omg big fan

@@Psych2go I love you’re videos

lucky, you got a reply from them

TRUE ACTUALLY I FEEL A LOT BETTER AFTER WATCHING THESE VIDEOS

Glad you like it! Alex is a new animator :)

channel member?

@@Psych2go I know I saw your post about this in the community tab, I read the description and I definitely wouldn’t forget the art style. I look forward to seeing more animation from Alex.

@@wildbeam yup I am

@Lia you are right

I totally relate to what you say, i tend to cry too when someone yells.

I remember shaking uncontrollably in high school watching the JFK assassination.

This is so relatable, I always have to cry when things get too emotional

Geeze! I cry at Hallmark greeting card commercials. 😊😢

I am the same way. I once told a psychiatrist that I was too emotional… And when he asked what I meant I said “well, I watched a video called “The 50 most moving photos of the year... and basically cried 50 times” 🤷🏼‍♀️ His response was priceless. He said, “well that’s the difference between you and I. I would know a video like that was trying to elicit an emotional response, and if I was not in the mood to feel that way, I would not watch it. And in fact, I usually don’t watch things like that” Touché 🤣 now I am careful about what content I watch, and mindful to ask myself “is that what I want to feel right now“ 👌🏼

Honestly same, that is why my dad takes me on walks,and when I feel overwhelmed, I ask dad to walk outside with him and just talk or walk together silently

Walking also helps remind you that are are in a physical body, and that helps you stay present in the moment, and remove the mental/emotional inputs from first place in your attention. In other words, the physical movement takes most of your attention, so the mental/emotional inputs take a back seat.

I do this too!

powerpuff!

Absolutely ! Toxic people will come and go .. that’s life .. it’s how we “ protect “ ourselves that matters .

Awe 💕

Sometimes people are not sensitive enough and then they end saying mean hurtful shit but then theyre all like "its just a joke bro calm down i didnt mean to hurt your feelings gosh stop being so sensitive"

That’s a great way to put it. I feel inspired reading your comment 😃

@@coffintears5821 "oooooh; you are so sensitive" I'm told this but it's a copout for those not taking responsibility for their actions.

Man! This is like my dream 😭. I also dream my life like this where i can stay with my cat in close area. I am also a HSP

For me, it's being with my doggies. Bliss 😊

Enjoy watching and listening to my dog sleep too. So peaceful and relaxing.

@@ronniebutman I have both and its just us. just retired early. I have never felt happier!

I agree with all my heart. The more I know ppl the more I love my cat. 😊

Thank you

So beautiful and so true.

Didn’t mind reading it … interesting!

Hey there Cassidy ! Writing thoughtful comments, even if lengthy, is my hobby. My OUTLET. Been commenting on KZfaq now for 4 years and it IS A BIG HELP TO ME. Don't hesitate to express yourself in this format. You never know who you might be helping. 💜🙋

I totally agree. What I find frustrating is when I can explain to people with low empathy exactly what I am feeling/needing and get a reaction in return that suggests those feelings are not valid (or perhaps even completely fabricated). For better or for worse, I am very In touch with my emotions now and have started to avoid people who refuse to understand. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm wondering if there are HSP's who are only highly sensitive to only positive or only negative emotions.

Not necessarily. I am bad at expressing emotions. Bad at empathising with other's emotions cause I overanalyze it ad try to solve it. But I experience emotions in my own way to a very strong degree. But again I might not be an HSP. I have not been diagnosed. But I am very sensitive. Are you an HSP?

@@arpitkumar4525Thats the thing: You cant really be officially diagnosed. HSP is not a (so called) 'disorder'. But when you are and you educate yourself (through articles, books, talks) you can recognize it in an instant.

so true

Your time has only just begun.

@@Psych2go y e s

Same, i know that feeling all too well

@@Psych2go yes

Why are you calling yourself “little dude” haha that sounds hilarious

Браво! So, at least you are sure to talk to an intelligent person- yourself. Haha- I also like switching into another language. English/ Spanish/ my mother tongue is Bulgarian.

@@lilianikolova7685 Bro I do that too! Also I am so using that as an excuse the next time someone asks why I talk to myself-

I always talk to myself

Nederlands Engels I have it too, my tips for sleeping problems! 1: if you can't sleep, make your bed converrable and don't forget that you have put the right pillow on your bed that you can sleep on. 2 when you have done that read a book an hour before you go to bed and no phones and stuff like that and take melatonin if you have it. and before you read sit/lie in a warm bath and try to rest from your day, and if you have lavender oil at home throw that in too. Try to spend as little time on your phone as possible during the day. 4 you can do relaxation breathing exercises 😍 believe me I did that in the afternoon after school and was as zen as a feather haha, you can look it up on KZfaq or breathe in and out yourself (: 5 keep your room neat and orderly. I think they were, but love to you ♥️

I talk to myself. In fact I made up and imaginary friend when I was younger. Seems to be still around. Maybe to deal with feeling lonely. That's the big one for me.

3:18 ;))))

I sleep at 5 in the morning lol and i have online class at 8 hehe because Im just 12 skl

Oh it's 04:46AM by me

@@cathydia120 what does age gotta do with this should I say I'm 11 ??

SAMEEE

Yep

I’m lucky , when I was 30 I went through the painful exercise of learning guitar .. but at the same time , it gave me alone time .. now , 20 years later , I can process my emotions through music .. my fingers dance along the fret board while tears fall from eyes , because of the profound beauty of being in a moment of absolute bliss .

Hibernating in my room. I feel sooo safe.

Same for me, I love drawing mandalas, they are meditation to me

Exactly!

me too

This is so right.

What a fantastic insight! Especially in today's society of ranking and consummation...

I thought you were going to say that happiness is the key to happiness 😁

Bumper sticker -- SUCCESS IS HAVING YOUR OWN APPROVAL

Love it

100% for the ear buds. Especially when there are so many people outside.

I find playing games like game apps or roblox or something of that nature really helps

I like stories a lot

Ikr

Ikr I love the new drawings too

Singing helps me too, specially about what I'm feeling.

Meeeeeeee

Everytime i speak my feelings I start to cry I think thats a sensitive person right??

I'm scared too, cause it might break off my relationships 😣

Lol

I was never allowed to express them because people didn't allow me to speak them up ( starting from my childhood grown up in a dysfonctional and very toxic family of origin with PN parent as well as sibling) even if I needed too, feel totally misunderstood all my life while giving much care and attention to others but never had the chance to feel closely connected with anyone and find it too difficult or ' complex' to get to understand me. No surprise I had to face a burnout in my life while not learned to have boundaries as PN ride over your feet's and triggers your limits all the time. Very exhausting !

Same here.

I think I get that!

Oh no?!!! I just finished watching the movie POLTERGEIST. Yikes!!!

@@joannaedwards6325 I don't know about this movie but if it was horror I hope it wasn't too bad😅 and if you need it this thought helps me sometimes: that the author thought of writing a horror movie that's why they just purposefully thought up those plots to scare us and it's all just fiction!

Yup. You're right. Always helps to say THIS IS JUST A MOVIE. Sometimes I do worry or wonder about the kind of minds that are able to create horror and violence in books and movies. Like for instance - what kind of person is Stephen King. Creepy??

@@riddhimanna8437 You're right. It ALWAYS helps to say THIS IS JUST A PLOT. NOT REAL. But I wonder about what kind of mind would create horror and violence. Like - what kind of person is Stephen King in person? Creepy? Insane?

In my opinion, your mom is wrong. She has good intentions but you have the right to be who you are and to express your feelings. I cry a lot and have all my life. If other people don’t like it, that is their problem. I hated the teasing and people at school doing things to make me cry for their fun. They are pathetic sick people to get joy from hurting someone. Keep your mi d and heart open and you will find others who are like us.

It’s a difficult process for non hsp’s to comprehend we aren’t broken .. the important thing is for you to know you aren’t broken .. that you are strong and knowing your strengths , you can become stronger .

@@ionageman I feel so broken all the time. Your comment made me feel better. Thanks. Really.

@@ionageman Preach!!! ❤

@@grishakaleesh4207 Agreed. Pretty much all the time i feel like an open wound.

Finally a great excuse for getting a new room

haha. Thank you! Singing is a great way to distress.

@@Psych2go 8/18/21 Just found you today Subscribed immediately. Am 75 and have had a handle on who and what I am for over 30 years but am still learning from your channel. Never too late to improve my quality of life. Thank you for doing what you do. Am also learning from reading all the comments. And to think IT'S ALL FOR FREE !!!! 😄😄💜💜🙋 ✌

I have had to stop trying to help hurting ppl. Took too much out of me and USUALLY no one really appreciates being helped. Some just enjoy being miserable and don't want help in changing.

Thanks Michelle for watching!

looool

Me too. Just learned all this today 8/16/21. So EMPOWERING!!!

you are born a certain way. Not everything is for you. not all rockclimb or paint. or like cars. be yourself. your comfort zone is to protect you. it's who you are. we. are. not. the. same. we should Not try to do everything others do. or be all things. we can't. accept your born limitations. love yourself. do not go with the flow. ignore the crowds. the majority. they are wrong. be you. be kind and find God

do Not grow out of it. that's losing your inner child identity. it's who you are

Yeah, if someone told you they "grew out" of this, I'd suggest perhaps they mean they put on a hard exterior, as I have done that in the past, but it always catches up to me, as I am what I am. I feel deeply in all circumstances and relationships. As for you, I'm glad some are supporting you and I wish you the very best in your future. I'm sorry you must feel such pain. I'd like to share this whiteboard animation with you about "beating" the bully (and you'll find plenty of other good, searchable info on bullying on the same website): www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/teenagers/whiteboard-animations/beat-a-bully-without-using-your-fists/

Ender Wood Hope you are doing better than you were at the writing of your original comment. I felt your pain. I was bullied and called names as a child. I know it hurts. I'm going slightly off topic now but I'm curious. Do you know if you were named for the main character in the 1975 book ENDER'S GAME? Written by an Orson Scott Card. If you were it's a good thing. That Ender was special BECAUSE OF HOW HE WAS. He was different BECAUSE he was STRONG and SMARTER than most.... Ender is a GREAT name. I have no doubt that everything will work out well for you. 😊💜

Thanks :’)

He's not done with you yet! ☝

What do you mean? ;-;

@@mntu014 You are an angel from the heaven that come to save the world QwQ

@@mntu014 You are the blessing my dear :)

Research on YiuTube JASON STEPHENSON sleep talk downs and relaxing hypnosis tapes. Great soothing voice and wonderful, positive philosophy. Nite nite. 😪 💜💤💤💤

Exactly these kids mostly have anime pfps and play Roblox lmao they even are either bi or gay like is this a trend? Man hope they stay losers they failed themselves

@@gamingsage2364 lol isnt your pfp an anime character? you sound like a 4 year old kid :p

Vicky Lin considering you used “:p” your most likely a 11 year old or 12 year old who thinks he knows all that :)

@@gamingsage2364 umm guess what surprise surprise I'm not an 11-year-old kid that thinks she knows all this :)

I am 64 and have many stuffed animals. I have my teddy that I got for my first Christmas.

I did hate to cry before, but now I realize is fine.

I always got "soft bullied" at for being so indecisive.. And this Videos help me so much understanding myself. It all makes sense now!

You sound like a really fun person! Bad boys are exciting though but not good for us. For help with sleep - research on KZfaq JASON STEPHENSON. Sleep talk downs and relaxing hypnosis tapes. Very soothing voice ( slightly Australian ) and good positive philosophy. Nite nite 😊 🙋 😪 💤💤💤🙋

@@joannaedwards6325 Thank you so much for the info my dear! I will look him up, hopefully I can teach myself to sleep peacefully again with some help...❤😄👍

@@LadyVoldemort You're very welcome. Sweet dreams.

@Maxine S what is it like to date another HSP? I always wondered if it would make a relationship easier for me, if the other person would be a HSP too.

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Honestly. I just got engaged and I’m showing this to my guy. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think sometimes his frustration freaks me out because I’m very averse to confrontation, even if he’s not upset at *me,* and sometimes he’s put off a bit by my indecision. Videos like these are actually pretty helpful at understanding differences in each other and working to establish positive behaviors linked to the “problem” aspects, before it becomes a point of contention or fodder for a fight. Also knowing where our hearts are coming from, that we love and respect each other and don’t ever want to hurt each other, that goes a long long way in giving each other some grace with little missteps here and there. But the videos help!

@@MsViolena On one hand, there is a massive amount of solidarity, understanding, and support that you don’t often get from non-HSP’s. We instinctively understand a lot about each other and what we struggle with, and it makes the relationship much easier to navigate. Both of us have a very strong grasp of boundaries, consent, constructive (non-argumentative) conflict resolution, and the like, which creates a much healthier and more secure relationship dynamic than average. There are definitely some difficulties that come along with it, though, mostly to do with how easily we can get overwhelmed by and shut down from nominally-normal things, a mutual tendency to overanalyze body language, and differences between how we each recover from a mental shutdown. These are all likely in relationships between HSP’s, and a grasp of and deep respect for consent and boundaries is *critical* to the relationship’s success. However, we’ve been able to manage these quite well, and it’s an absolutely lovely and very happy and fulfilling relationship thus far.

@@DisasterMax thank you very much for being so open about it! I really appreciate it ❤️

I have a small hematite egg I use for the same thing. It is tiny but heavy. I love it.

Omg I see your comments literally so often on other channels aswell it’s crazy😂

@@isabellf1210 hahhha hi hi!! Happy Friday 😄

@@SamElle May I ask you something?🙈

@@isabellf1210 yea of course!!

Totally relatable and it feels so conflicting