This is something yes I believe all men Cheat nice one's bad one's what ever... i'm not Africa I love Africa movies and a lot of these movies are based on what happens a lot in life out there I work around many Africa people and when watching movies someone can relate to it or know someone it's happened to... so my question is why is it when a man have a good woman wife or girlfriend when there man cheats and gets found out they love to say it's the devil that caused it and they would expect you to forgive them and if it happens the other way around that wife/girlfriend she would be called all names under the sun and maybe kicked out of the house to now the same way the devil got him got her just asking 🤷‍♀️

@@jenniferjules9795 ...💯

I am a woman, but I struggle with strain. When a man treats me good, then I want to be with them....all this about struggle is bullcrap

Stop creating an excuse for cheaters

Do sinners generalise gender. What about Delilah, does that make all women corny??

Well said, God bless you. Some men/ pastors should not because they can't be holy say all men behave like them. Let us behave as Christ did.

@@gloriatenabe8192 Thank you and God bless you too sister. 🙏

Well said!

Thank you. I honestly don’t like to here people say men are polygamous and what not. It’s all falls on choice and discernment, because a woman can also choose to be polygamous.

Can you explain why God didn't condemn David for having more than one woman, instead he told him he gave him his master's house and master's throne and brought his master's wives into his bosom? Don't claim know it all in things you don't 🤣 understand.

Thank you.

Godly men, are not lead by their pulsions, but all those things apply to them. They simply westle against it with the Holy Spirit. As they fear The Lord they will not let themselves be disloyal to Christ. But knowing these things can surely help them win daily.

Amen! We have 2 types of men..

Amen. Thank you. The Pastor is explaining how men behave/think in a worldly view.

@@unathimbizo9952 Well he needs to Clarify that. Ppl who do not know, and do not spend Time in the Word will believe A Whole Lot of STUFF! One would think, a person who claims the Title Of PASTOR should be speaking from a Different Point of View!. Pastor in What? Then, Drop that Title. Use Another one If Diverting. Or... Make the TOPIC Clear.. Can't BUNGLE IT UP! .. The Tricky devil is in BUNGLE.UP.! Lol.. Already have Too Many Confused Christians, Who Don't Know their WORD and may think, believe and Misunderstand Every word PASTOR says.. Which can be Contrary! ...My Opinion

The man literally said NATURALLY!

Which one is the solution?

AMEN! But, It would be Very Nice if they would be a Role Model and Set an Example... Esp for the boys. They Do Not get a Medal for that! RESPECT?. And ppl have to Respect SELF First, BEFORE we can Respect Others...

@@heatherbrandon996 why are you sounding asif there are not father's out there setting good standards for their sons, I don't know about your dad but my dad is one good example when it comes to issues like this

God bless you!

Don't mind this men,they think is easy for we women to stay with one banana 🍌 for the rest of ourr life, special if the banana is haif dead or 2mins noodles. Contentment and self discipline is the key ..

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Set up a business then ..you might as well commercialise your lust cos no man will take a used woman seriously

@@stormship1647 you lake wisdom,and you are unintelligent,i pity your woman if you even have one,no woman want to stay with a man of your kind,

that marries an unbeliever

Did you watch when he said that so clearly so you missed it?

it`s important very very important

Thank you for confirming this.

Good!

I think he enlightened us so we coach you well to become the true men you are for the work. Meh, my mind has break loose.

Lol....just know that most ladies love it when you talk to them more🥺

Women cheaters are less noticeable..I worked with a lot of nurses that cheat.

The bible does not instruct women to teach their men.

@@laurac.2399 True. But parents are instructed to teach their children!

@@laurac.2399 The Bible does not tell you to take your bath every day yet you do why? Because of common sense right? Alright then, God has given us all the necessary things needed to do well in life and marriage we just fail to use them due to our stubbornness or whatever, not every thing is written in the Bible but when you have the Holy Spirit and you allow Him to guide you on how to approach issues including how to speak to your husband and how to point things out to him without it being in a confrontational manner then you'll realize you will have a better married life

HIV and a horde of other STI's and sexually transferred demons have entered the chat. It's easy to take back a cheating man if you have no ambition in life. You can't downplay the repercussions of illicit sex in order to pander to men

Well said.

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He misses out on the fact that humans in general experience lust - man, woman, third gender etc. He says men are tempted to just have sex because he himself is a man. If he was a woman, he'd know that women are just as sexual. Maybe he hasn't come across a liberated woman or one who has embraced her sexuality in a healthy way, or believes that such a woman is bad, which is quite close-minded. The trigger is not that he's open about male sexuality. It's that he's obtuse and blind to female sexuality - one that is experienced by a woman of her own nature, not as a result of her partner's call. And while he's justifying male cheating and lack of faithfulness and character by confusing it with his sexuality and therefore a result of biology (/God/Nature), it's very short-sighted of him to call female sexuality (also God/Nature's creation - because Nature doesn't think/discriminate like humans, otherwise why would it be there in the first place?!) as non-existent. If he's calling it all-emotional and connection-related, then he clearly doesn't know the flipside animal-like crazy lust that women experience too, his mind would probably reject it as ungodly. All humans are capable of sin, as well as good deeds - be it men or women.

@@PoojaG_PG so in short women are exactly like men? Doubt it.

That is such a beautiful testimony!❤️

I'm telling you....what sort of biased attitude is that? ....smh

I was disappointed by the bias and defamatory label of “loose”…. Vs “straying”when doing the exact same thing? I expected better tbh.

@@houston10Yes sister na so... It is fine for every nation and tribe to have and respect culture but when we become Christians, the culture of Gods kingdom is above all other cultures....so that culture that says a man can do whatever he likes and still be respected but a woman should not dare try the same, is very wrong and has NO place in the church. We are all new creatures in Christ and are ALL expected to live as such.

You haven’t changed. You don’t listen!!

that's what he's saying. The real men will put in effort to be disciplined even though they are more likely to stray. ....and we also need to pray for them too

@@dumdum9898 nah! They don't need prayer. It's who they are, all they need is self discipline.

Please who is this Super Soniq guy? Men have standards, we women should just stop lowering ours because we want to have someone or be in a "relationship". Men would never, never accept that his woman cheated on him. I know of a guy, who can sleep with anything that has a vagina. His girlfriend asked him, what he would do if he caught his wife cheating. He swore, that such would never happen to him. Imagine the thief!

Lynda people IKR 🙏🏽

😂😂, good question . I watched this KZfaq video recently and the men were like the things they really value in a woman is the ability to cook , clean and raise kids 😂😂 .

@@sunmolaa These responsibilities are the man's as much as they're the woman's. But you might have to selectively help a man especially one who's African and was brought up to think those responsibilities are for the woman alone. It is enlightenment, understanding and cooperation that'll make any relationship, marriage, friendship to work. Understand where one is lacking as a weakness and proffer a solution, a remedy and do so respectively not in a mocking manner. To crown the whole thing up, with the Holy Spirit, much can be achieved.

😂😂😂 ask him o

Kingsley is speaking for himself....his poor wife

The way they be pampering these men like they are the price. We are the price.

I pity you.... love and sex is different for a man....thank you.

I disagree. Men can separate emotion from sec. a man can love his mate/wife, and still cheat

@@enividclinton8634 I pity you, especially if you're Christian and believe this.

@@fw3296 not if the definition of love is by Jesus Christ's standards and what's laid out in the Bible, sorry. The reason why it happens is because men and women continue to believe this rhetoric and give excuses for it happening 🤷🏿‍♀️

@@LoveJoyandFreedom I don't need to believe it, I believe in Christ. But you quickly forget that you are in this world but not of this world....so it's a struggle for men not to cheat, cause easily, without hold backs, they will gladly sleep with other women. Don't know why you guys don't understand simple reality....... So my dear, I believe in Christ and I am daily working to be like him, but I am still on earth, that's something to remember.

Let me ask,a guy asks you to move on then comes back after some time. You get back and he ghosts you.

Na women dey chase men before???🙄

@@RukkyDINMA move on my sister, he's not real

@@precioustayo5312 have you not heard? Not before, nowadays girls.

This point hit hard. 😅😅😅 I don't know if I'm the only one that feels weak whenever I'm around a woman for so long?. 😅

What do you mean? Cheating is as a result of sin of the flesh period.

@@realtalkwithphil You're not alone bro. 😂

But counselor do u know the more aman cheats the more women loose interest on them