8 Signs Of Emotional Attraction

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Psych2Go

Psych2Go

Күн бұрын

Emotional attraction is a key ingredient in what makes us our bonds with those around us so meaningful and intimate. Are you looking for dating advice and flirting tips on how to find out whether someone you like is not just physically attracted to you, but emotionally as well? Or whether you're attracted to someone emotionally? Here are 8 tell-tale signs that can help you better understand if what you are feeling for someone may already be an emotional attraction or vice versa!
If you find this video helpful, be sure to check out 8 Subtle Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think: • 8 Subtle Signs You're ...
#emotionalattraction #attraction #psych2go
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
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References:
Ernulf, K. E. (2016). Studies on the bases of sexual attraction and its variants.
McCroskey, J. C., & McCain, T. A. (2010). The measurement of interpersonal attraction.
Burns, E., & Cardellini, H. (2013). Emotional experience in close relationships. Blackwell handbook of social psychology: Interpersonal processes, 308-330.
Whitman, B. P. (2009). Affiliation, attraction and close relationships.
Thousand Oaks, California.
Huston, T. L. (Ed.). (2013). Foundations of interpersonal attraction. Elsevier.

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@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Who’s currently experiencing emotional attraction? If you find this video helpful, be sure to check out 8 Subtle Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pd5dg86c1rKpYH0.html
@YuiGlitch
@YuiGlitch 3 жыл бұрын
Argurbks, I might check the video in a sec, Thanks for uploading this! Your videos are just calming and helpful!
@Simple_Grey_line
@Simple_Grey_line 3 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on relationship types? My bf...I think i...I dunni what we are. I don't talk alot but I enjoy being around him. But he's so cold and distant and show me what he wants me to see. I cry when I haven't talked to him over a few days, and think stupid thinks that he's doing. We barely talk about our issues and...its heart breaking.
@lucycocosanders1024
@lucycocosanders1024 3 жыл бұрын
I am🥺💕
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Hi!
@YuiGlitch
@YuiGlitch 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go :D
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 жыл бұрын
“You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.” ― Oscar Wilde
@waterfallsdontsaymeow2917
@waterfallsdontsaymeow2917 3 жыл бұрын
Cars didn't exist in the time of Oscar Wilde
@BigSky1
@BigSky1 3 жыл бұрын
bhavana samhita First car in U.K.1888. First car in Paris where Wilde died 1889. Oscar Wilde died in 1900. In 1900 Wilde did interact with a friends car. However, it cannot be verified conclusively that he wrote these lines.
@anusree60
@anusree60 3 жыл бұрын
Bts
@BigSky1
@BigSky1 3 жыл бұрын
Anu Sree I prefer The Fab 4 actually!
@niceone2241
@niceone2241 3 жыл бұрын
I once sang a song for someone and recorded it, but that person married another person and not me.
@ReynaSingh
@ReynaSingh 3 жыл бұрын
emotional attraction is more powerful than physical attraction; so fall in love with someone for who they are not what they look like
@zirconblue1249
@zirconblue1249 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah really.
@michaelokeke4976
@michaelokeke4976 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@bobbyahmad5197
@bobbyahmad5197 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@captainyolowaffle3160
@captainyolowaffle3160 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I wouldn’t date someone unless they have a good personality
@agr0nianTV
@agr0nianTV 3 жыл бұрын
Amen, but physical attraction is a nice bonus ☺
@loiddd7750
@loiddd7750 3 жыл бұрын
Who else randomly found Pysch2Go one day and has been watching ever since?
@loiddd7750
@loiddd7750 3 жыл бұрын
why does my comment always get hearted instantly lol thanks
@GINSHOTGUN
@GINSHOTGUN 3 жыл бұрын
Me
@kylevalentine5431
@kylevalentine5431 3 жыл бұрын
Meee
@Edenistics
@Edenistics 3 жыл бұрын
Me
@alberth7022
@alberth7022 3 жыл бұрын
Meeee Like I just can’t stop
@xoxo-gossipgirl8744
@xoxo-gossipgirl8744 3 жыл бұрын
*8 signs of emotional attraction* 1. you feel understood by them 0:51 2. you love talking to them 1:23 3. you admire a lot of their qualities 1:55 4. your values are in sync 2:28 5. you care about their opinion 2:57 6. you turn to them for advice 3:20 7. you don’t get sick of each other 3:41 8. you can be vulnerable with them 4:02 thanks for the video!
@dontdenyme
@dontdenyme 3 жыл бұрын
Ty
@annekabrannon8230
@annekabrannon8230 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!!
@xoxo-gossipgirl8744
@xoxo-gossipgirl8744 3 жыл бұрын
•Lovely Friend• you’re welcome!!
@xoxo-gossipgirl8744
@xoxo-gossipgirl8744 3 жыл бұрын
Annie Brannon ofc! 💛
@ava198
@ava198 3 жыл бұрын
Ty n le sigh I suppose thats why the feelings stay even though they can be gone for long periods
@sofiamaya346
@sofiamaya346 3 жыл бұрын
Does anyone else ship those two cute-ass little characters so fricken much or is it just me?
@mina-simp
@mina-simp 3 жыл бұрын
Omg I thought it was only me-
@pureween9151
@pureween9151 3 жыл бұрын
YES
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Should we do a story around them? lol
@Triox-gd9oj
@Triox-gd9oj 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go yes
@jameswilliamson6245
@jameswilliamson6245 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go yessssssssss plss
@dash_board2026
@dash_board2026 3 жыл бұрын
Gosh the art is killing me its so cutee
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
I know right?!
@dash_board2026
@dash_board2026 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I wish I had money to hire that person.... Wait I don't have a channel 😂
@dash_board2026
@dash_board2026 3 жыл бұрын
@Skella ! y.o I WANT SЕЕХ !!!! OPEN MY VIDEO !!!! 🥕🍑
@anibalhyrulesantihero7021
@anibalhyrulesantihero7021 3 жыл бұрын
@Skella ! y.o I WANT SЕЕХ !!!! OPEN MY VIDEO !!!! FBI open up!
@pills4728
@pills4728 3 жыл бұрын
@@anibalhyrulesantihero7021 it's a bot
@chadpowell1832
@chadpowell1832 3 жыл бұрын
“Physical attraction is how we meet eachother , emotional attraction is how we stay together”
@IinesySankka
@IinesySankka 3 жыл бұрын
Emotional attraction is really painful. I've genuinely experienced this with one person only and I get upset and hurt if they're not around. It's such a hurtful and a delightful feeling both at the same time. Feels like obsession. It's so much harder to let go of someone who makes you feel this way instead of someone who you're just infatuated with.
@DrLizListens
@DrLizListens 3 жыл бұрын
If you're reading this... It's too late. I already sent good vibes your way. They are coming. And there's no way to stop them. May all your worries wash away & you find pockets of peace throughout your day. 💗Dr. Liz
@chrispalmer2312
@chrispalmer2312 2 жыл бұрын
That made me lol and smile in ways i can't describe.
@shaquandah_thafurst
@shaquandah_thafurst Жыл бұрын
Tysm!!
@radhakrishna3535
@radhakrishna3535 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much...Same kind of vibes to you dear💕...Noone will be able to stop that as well😉
@NLM-ec5rv
@NLM-ec5rv 3 жыл бұрын
If I’m extremely emotionally attracted to someone, we don’t necessarily have to speak when hanging out. There is never an awkward silence because their company is what I appreciate the most.
@thisisepic3052
@thisisepic3052 3 жыл бұрын
0:20 BABY DONT HURT ME DONT HURT ME NO MORE sorry, I just had to D:
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@nolife4588
@nolife4588 3 жыл бұрын
Me: flashbacks to What is love? By TWICE
@foreveruseless1292
@foreveruseless1292 3 жыл бұрын
I was about to do the same lol
@km7189
@km7189 3 жыл бұрын
original..
@Lil_lit_Bruh
@Lil_lit_Bruh 3 жыл бұрын
@@nolife4588 no
@marimarmar.
@marimarmar. 3 жыл бұрын
I feel this way about a friend, we are best friends and I really feel like we are connected, but with nothing romantic involved, it's not even a possibility for both of us lol. I find it very curious the incredible appreciation we can have for other people
@emilyrose2895
@emilyrose2895 3 жыл бұрын
Same. I miss him.
@ejharriettegarcia5253
@ejharriettegarcia5253 3 жыл бұрын
but mine is the shy type... so ye
@luisaabreu4028
@luisaabreu4028 3 жыл бұрын
That sounds so nice! I used to have a friend like that but he started liking me romantically and it ruined everything. All I want is a very strong platonic connection, dammit!
@ejharriettegarcia5253
@ejharriettegarcia5253 3 жыл бұрын
@@luisaabreu4028 how are u guys doing?? imma scared to be romantically like that with him
@luisaabreu4028
@luisaabreu4028 3 жыл бұрын
@@ejharriettegarcia5253 It didn't go very well. We're not friends anymore.
@astrokits
@astrokits 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so blessed to have found my best friends who are emotionally super close to me.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Best friends are the best! Did you find this video relatable to you?
@astrokits
@astrokits 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go yes, completely. I think adversities in my life brought them out and made them shine. Can't imagine my life without them anymore :))
@ninjamara2522
@ninjamara2522 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go Im a youngster, trying to learn more about psychology and trying to be more emotionally intelligent. Do you have any advice to help me?
@nicoleonfeels
@nicoleonfeels 3 жыл бұрын
Signs of a good relationship, I hope everyone experiences this type of bond in their lifetime 💗
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Awww I love that statement a lot! Thanks for sharing!
@nicoleonfeels
@nicoleonfeels 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go of course :)
@Phoebe_Games43
@Phoebe_Games43 3 жыл бұрын
Never even got to experience what true love is yet. I've been hurt by so many people.
@MC-dz8be
@MC-dz8be 3 жыл бұрын
@@Phoebe_Games43 sorry for the long post in advanced, quick summary at the bottom don't give up, well actaully that's what I did sort of. I am currently in a blossoming wonderful relationship. But anyway I gave up on trying to force it to happen and I just came to terms that I might always be alone and decided that I will still smile and try to light up the world because the world needs it more than I need to be in a relationship and when my neediness went away I was able to find joy in every situation and people are attracted to that. Tldr: Learn to love yourself as how you would love the person you care about the most in the world.
@Phoebe_Games43
@Phoebe_Games43 3 жыл бұрын
@@MC-dz8be loving myself has proven to be the most difficult thing for me. (You can thank my parents for that) and dealing with all the stuff going on. It's so stressful. I don't have time to love myself. I just have to make sure no one is suffering around me. Even if it means I have to sacrifice my own happiness for my friends
@JoaoPedro-jc5fm
@JoaoPedro-jc5fm 3 жыл бұрын
it baffles me how i was never taught this while growing up (and i imagine most people haven't too?), I was basically raised to be superficial and with no understanding of how to truly connect with people it's very liberating to understand that and see how there's a more profound world view to live by
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
I agree! I wish these topics were taught at home or even at school. It's such an important topic to cover. Thanks for sharing your input! Did you find any of the signs apply to you?
@JoaoPedro-jc5fm
@JoaoPedro-jc5fm 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go oh, for sure! it's kind of all of them really haha but what struck me the most was the one that said that we don't get tired of being and talking with the person. I have that with a few people and I just thought of it as me randomly being more receptive to that person, but now I understand that it's more about emotional attraction, because all of the other signs are present as well! It's so useful to recognize that there's a deeper rooted reason for all of these signs and their correlation. This kind of understanding actually changes your perspective, truly transformatory for people that have no idea of it (I don't want to overreact here, but it totally was for me lol). It really puts more importance and value into the relationships that I already have and will have in the future, and it helped me understand myself better. So thank you for sharing it in such an easy way to digest, i think your work is a great public service. Keep at it!
@mischum2915
@mischum2915 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. At the age of 38 I've found out there is something like this and someone out there who feel the same way. Only a half year ago😳
@ezersriah1539
@ezersriah1539 3 жыл бұрын
I remember being emotionally attracted to a friend once, we were on the phone one night gazing at the stars and talking about the universe. It was one of the most significant moments in my life
@PremierRikLatyeskov
@PremierRikLatyeskov 3 жыл бұрын
I'm hoping to eventually meet someone that I feel a connection to in this way.
@rhydershepherd8179
@rhydershepherd8179 3 жыл бұрын
All I can say is that it takes time and when you find them you’ll know they are the one
@beyou2133
@beyou2133 3 жыл бұрын
You will.
@sajahamoudi5850
@sajahamoudi5850 3 жыл бұрын
I need THAT someone now tho😢
@PremierRikLatyeskov
@PremierRikLatyeskov 3 жыл бұрын
Sad thing is, COVID's been making that goal pretty much impossible.
@TastyShepherdsPie
@TastyShepherdsPie 3 жыл бұрын
@@PremierRikLatyeskov not anymore
@dianaweld7777
@dianaweld7777 3 жыл бұрын
Like basic attraction, you never saw it coming. This unexpected quality of emotional attraction makes it even more appealing.
@yellowmellow2033
@yellowmellow2033 3 жыл бұрын
i feel profoundly emotionally attracted to my best friend although we're basically opposites with no common interests and different values/views, i can't help but love her so much. i always want to be with her and she's the only one who makes me feel upset if she's too busy to meet :
@km7189
@km7189 3 жыл бұрын
i know the feel, the one i like in the same way gives strange but pleasant feelings in the heart.
@randomnesswithraelyn419
@randomnesswithraelyn419 3 жыл бұрын
I felt this way about one of my close guy friends. Eventually we lost touch and I regretted not telling him....just keep that in mind
@AznGotChen
@AznGotChen 3 жыл бұрын
When your examples of attraction contradicts the video's xD
@nobodynowhere21
@nobodynowhere21 3 жыл бұрын
You don't have common interests OR values, how is this describing an emotional attraction?
@ChazoAnwah
@ChazoAnwah 3 жыл бұрын
Its okay to have different interests
@lucifermorningstar1902
@lucifermorningstar1902 3 жыл бұрын
Me, a demisexual who’s clearly having feelings for a close friend: wait but is that REALLY what I’m feeling
@OphranArts006
@OphranArts006 3 жыл бұрын
Same😕
@GINSHOTGUN
@GINSHOTGUN 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@wheatley-was-in-this-box
@wheatley-was-in-this-box 3 жыл бұрын
Same ;-;
@dibujante2.071
@dibujante2.071 3 жыл бұрын
Why the hell says that this is from 5 days ago when it has been published right now???
@yipps1171
@yipps1171 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@DLaneeFields
@DLaneeFields 3 жыл бұрын
Me, an asexual, thinking this was the only attraction that existed
@user-up5di8ln7g
@user-up5di8ln7g 3 жыл бұрын
Same lmao
@amangupta7963
@amangupta7963 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@scribbletin
@scribbletin 3 жыл бұрын
Yup
@iridesce.x
@iridesce.x 3 жыл бұрын
mood
@AchillesKillies
@AchillesKillies 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who's a very picky Demi- Mood.
@lauralaine8678
@lauralaine8678 3 жыл бұрын
Emotional attraction is by far the most important part of a long lasting & healthy relationship. Better yet a key sign that you are finally in union, but more than likely a reunion with your 🔥Twin Flame🔥
@brittneybernardin4671
@brittneybernardin4671 3 жыл бұрын
So true!!! 💙
@Maya_hee
@Maya_hee 3 жыл бұрын
@Laura Laine How you got hit with four bots, all at the same time😅😅
@lauralaine8678
@lauralaine8678 3 жыл бұрын
@@Maya_hee ~ I know right 😂 Hey Bots...Click your heels 👠👠 3 x's & go back to Kansas!
@VivianPerezRFM
@VivianPerezRFM 3 жыл бұрын
I found it to be true with my soulmate....a tremendous amount of peace and love especially emotionally. :-D
@melissaayres6347
@melissaayres6347 3 жыл бұрын
It is the most beautiful thing. Separation is super challenging...but to learn self love during this time
@SevenTailedWolf72
@SevenTailedWolf72 3 жыл бұрын
Now I understand why I feel this way about certain people.
@flutenanyidk1806
@flutenanyidk1806 3 жыл бұрын
I can think of a few off the top of my head lol.
@aviomons
@aviomons 3 жыл бұрын
this poor reply section, I feel bad for the original commenter lmao
@PistachioMustachio_
@PistachioMustachio_ 3 жыл бұрын
𝚓𝚞𝚕𝚒𝚡𝚗𝚗𝚡 :(
@Hibisco_Angelita
@Hibisco_Angelita 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao why did so many bots reply to the same comment
@redpanda6497
@redpanda6497 3 жыл бұрын
@@aviomons I tought the same thing. Like... wtf is this?
@buggy5675
@buggy5675 2 жыл бұрын
Did I just send this to my crush to explain more accurately why I like them? Yes, yes I did.
@sacredwarrior2681
@sacredwarrior2681 2 жыл бұрын
I’m going to do the same except I won’t directly say it you are a genius 😂
@liaorihuela8905
@liaorihuela8905 2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I felt with my former best friend of seven years. I realized I was in love and told her, but she ghosted me. It has been a difficult 4 months because I literally think about and miss her everyday. I feel like I’ll never have the same feelings about anyone again. I would have done anything for her and wish she didn’t leave me without explanation.
@ysabelledelacuesta7533
@ysabelledelacuesta7533 3 жыл бұрын
2:14 this frame is so cute and is such a mood 😂😂
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you like it!
@Esabelle
@Esabelle 3 жыл бұрын
*At the end of the day, emotional attraction matters so much in a healthy relationship.* 💖
@arizuniga8388
@arizuniga8388 3 жыл бұрын
What if my emotional attraction is with Psych2go 😳?
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@pinklasagna8328
@pinklasagna8328 3 жыл бұрын
This comment is so sweet
@sarangelic
@sarangelic 3 жыл бұрын
the art is so cute 😭❤️
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤️
@furballscave4431
@furballscave4431 3 жыл бұрын
AA YES IT IIIIS
@n1fffan
@n1fffan 3 жыл бұрын
for me, actual attraction to someone quite literally starts on an emotional level, kinda makes being me a lot harder when everyone around me thinks I should just be physically attracted to people one way or the other regardless of my emotional state
@sarangelic
@sarangelic 3 жыл бұрын
this just reminded me of my boyfriend 🥺👉🏽👈🏽💖 it's been difficult with the long distance due to the current situation but we finally met yesterday and everything just fell into place
@agr0nianTV
@agr0nianTV 3 жыл бұрын
That's great news! Meanwhile I've actually grown much closer to my best friend because of the situation 😆
@succmythumb6958
@succmythumb6958 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in a similiar situation too!
@CitiesOfAsh
@CitiesOfAsh 2 ай бұрын
Howd the breakup go? Long distance never works for the female.
@KShih
@KShih 4 жыл бұрын
I’m emotionally attracted to my friends, but I still don’t feel comfortable being vulnerable with them :/
@juicykiwi7347
@juicykiwi7347 3 жыл бұрын
are you a wizard? how did you comment 1 month ago on a video from 5 minutes ago?
@dibujante2.071
@dibujante2.071 3 жыл бұрын
@@juicykiwi7347 yeah I notice that...he's a Russian time traveler
@chrispafrieddreams9118
@chrispafrieddreams9118 3 жыл бұрын
All the comments like this; I think this vid was locked in an "undisclosed location" and released...
@Light-cy1gp
@Light-cy1gp 3 жыл бұрын
ur not emotionally attracted to them if u cant be vulnerable with them
@piedondon8726
@piedondon8726 3 жыл бұрын
That moment that you realized... That they look like Baymax but with plant hairs..
@mizuho7914
@mizuho7914 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Daniel-rg5kb
@Daniel-rg5kb 2 жыл бұрын
I imagine how much better life is when you have someone like this, someone you can actually share ur feelings with. Being able to talk about your feelings without being judged is rare, at least in my experience. Especially as a teenager when no one values ur opinion, or listens to anything u have to say. They hear but don't listen. It sucks when u feel like u can't talk to anyone
@mar35962
@mar35962 3 жыл бұрын
We must find someone who loves us for who we really are! Not what we look like! And we must love them for who they are instead of loving what they look like in return! This can be hard to find, but it's the most stable thing.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Love your comment. You are absolutely right about this!
@mar35962
@mar35962 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go aww! Thanks! And I always watch psych2go videos and you guys are doing an amazing job! Keep going! Love you guys
@Shazistic
@Shazistic 3 жыл бұрын
Nobody has a perfect life. Everybody has problems. Some people just know how to deal with it in a best way. -The Shades
@misterminutes4504
@misterminutes4504 3 жыл бұрын
It hurts when you lose someone you have emotional attraction to. Like a part of your heart is taken.
@wirroam
@wirroam 3 жыл бұрын
Video: 4 minutes ago Comments: 1 month ago
@wirroam
@wirroam 3 жыл бұрын
@NANCY ! 19 I WANT SЕЕХ ღ*GO MY PROF!LE* ღ who dafuq are u
@shanonella1669
@shanonella1669 3 жыл бұрын
NANCY ! 19 I WANT SЕЕХ ღ*GO MY PROF!LE* ღ why the faq are u here
@lemonlunges44
@lemonlunges44 3 жыл бұрын
This made me laugh thank you
@angelvu
@angelvu 3 жыл бұрын
hol up
@wirroam
@wirroam 3 жыл бұрын
@@lemonlunges44 yer welkom kind sir or sirette
@daelclapperton8990
@daelclapperton8990 3 жыл бұрын
I think the craziest part of emotional attraction is that all these facts/behaviors will be apparent in the relationship and it took this video for you to realize because it felt that natural 🥰
@ArianaReflects
@ArianaReflects 3 жыл бұрын
I love the narrator’s voice and the animations are just so cute 😍🥰❤️❤️❤️
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I totally agree with you!
@ArianaReflects
@ArianaReflects 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go 😊😊😊
@robloxmanface1
@robloxmanface1 3 жыл бұрын
Ding Dong Doodles oh, there was a bot that was spamming
@robloxmanface1
@robloxmanface1 3 жыл бұрын
Ding Dong Doodles ok jeez, stop being so triggered 🙄
@mobsniper0
@mobsniper0 3 жыл бұрын
I get emotionally attached with people too quickly but that vulnerability is terrifying to live with
@alycat1073
@alycat1073 3 жыл бұрын
Me: *Soemone who has never been in a relationship and yet still comes to watch the videos about relationships or emotions that surround the topic* Heh... Why am I here...? In all seriousness through, I think this can go alone with friends and family members we are close to. I have a best friend I feel very comfortable with and can talk to him about anything and he understands because he's going through something similar. It's a nice thing to have that kind of person. I don't do this often with people either from having terrible trust issues. I could talk to him on the phone for a long time and not get tired, and I usually hate talking on the phone with people. I don't mind seeing them now and then but I don't need constant interaction with seeing or hearing them. I'm very interverted and love being alone, and when I don't mind talking to someone for hours, you better believe that they are special.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! This not only applies to romantic relationship but to your family or friends. I am glad you have a best friend that you’re comfortable to talk about anything. Sometime we just need that best friend to be beside us. Did you find this video relatable to your life?
@alycat1073
@alycat1073 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go So true. Yeah I did for the most part. It took me back when either or us were struggling and the other person would help them out however we could. Thanks! I always enjoy your guys' videos. They're simple and fun.
@chrispafrieddreams9118
@chrispafrieddreams9118 3 жыл бұрын
Haven't had anybody to have those type conversations with in about 20 years... I miss my best friend..
@alexandrialeonora6542
@alexandrialeonora6542 3 жыл бұрын
Emotional attraction is my love language - romantically, with friends, with family. It’s the only way I can understand what love is.
@Light-cy1gp
@Light-cy1gp 3 жыл бұрын
same
@alexandrialeonora6542
@alexandrialeonora6542 3 жыл бұрын
@Light ❤️
@kaylan341
@kaylan341 4 жыл бұрын
I just found out that I'm obsessed and now I discover that I'm obsessed not in love bc I'm emotionally attracted, huh, who would guess? 🤔
@restingInpieces
@restingInpieces 4 жыл бұрын
SAME!!! 😂😂😂
@kaylan341
@kaylan341 4 жыл бұрын
@@restingInpieces lol, it's kinda amusing right? 😂
@YuiGlitch
@YuiGlitch 3 жыл бұрын
Oof-
@razzberrybagel7184
@razzberrybagel7184 3 жыл бұрын
What a fat mood
@chrispafrieddreams9118
@chrispafrieddreams9118 3 жыл бұрын
Don't confuse it withe "love" could be what you only, are feeling. Many different kinds of attractions.. Took me the span of a lifetime to figure this out, hope it helps you! You'll know "Love" when I find it..
@luvareesha
@luvareesha 3 жыл бұрын
This was a great video! It seemed to show signs of emotional attraction that would be displayed by people with secure attachment styles. I would love to see a video similar to this that demonstrates what emotional attraction may look like for people with insecure attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, & fearful avoidant)!
@cleo_jelly
@cleo_jelly 3 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so relaxing!
@theanarchist1572
@theanarchist1572 3 жыл бұрын
I feel that way about a friend of mine ... In fact, I see him as more than a friend. The relationship we have is so ethereal, so profound, that the first time he came to talk to me I became attached to him. And he got attached to me ... I love him so much! Someday we will be together :3
@claudiarivas8492
@claudiarivas8492 3 жыл бұрын
Oh, I know this feeling. It's amazing to find someone like this, and it feels weird at first when we found out how similar we are. We agree on so many things. We communicate in the same way, we're both honest and open with each other. He has a way of encouraging me I haven't experienced with anyone else. And when we talk, I draw this power of motivating him as I never do with anyone. Each time we talk we keep discovering more similarities. I didn't expect to meet him as I did. He lives literally crossing the Atlantic. He's not my partner nor do I have one. But I'm just grateful he is part of my life now ♥
@anonymousbear8844
@anonymousbear8844 3 жыл бұрын
I had this one I'm emotionally attracted with.. ~~ Sometimes, its so hard to see him in pain and sick.. As if I am him.. and he is same. Its so amazing, how human nature works.. Very interesting.. The bond it can make from one person with another person.. At first that person was my worse enemy, not physically but just within me (so I tried to avoid him a lot), because he always got mad and angry, I didn't like his temper.. But somehow.. Time passed by and I wanted to give him love because I felt like he was like that because he needed some love... And then it truly worked.. He became so soft and warm-hearted as if someone was able to understand him.. Now, he is the most gentle and kindest person I've ever known. He knows I don't like his temper so he doesn't get angry anymore unlike before..
@djc1416
@djc1416 3 жыл бұрын
This has helped me understand some things that have happened recently, thank you
@raelakae
@raelakae 3 жыл бұрын
This also applies to platonic love right? I really admire my best friends and these kinda relate to me
@luisaabreu4028
@luisaabreu4028 3 жыл бұрын
Of course!
@user-up5di8ln7g
@user-up5di8ln7g 3 жыл бұрын
I’m aroace but I feel these in my platonic relationships so yep :)
@chrispafrieddreams9118
@chrispafrieddreams9118 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!..
@adubber97
@adubber97 3 жыл бұрын
For sure!
@TheHappyYouChannel
@TheHappyYouChannel Жыл бұрын
This video is so helpful! 🙌🏼 Thanks for sharing this insightful advice! 😊
@sarangelic
@sarangelic 3 жыл бұрын
fall in love with a person you enjoy being with and can spend your time with ❤️
@jazzlynsoldchannel2057
@jazzlynsoldchannel2057 3 жыл бұрын
The art style of each video is cute and simple I really like it ^w^
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
I know right?!
@skater4god
@skater4god 3 жыл бұрын
I've been talking to a woman for over 2 years now but we haven't met yet. We video chat sometimes and text all the time. She's beautiful but im way more emotionally attracted to her, I haven't felt like this since I was engaged years ago. Such an amazing bond.
@lordmmo2838
@lordmmo2838 3 жыл бұрын
been here since psych2go was at 500k. so proud that they’ve reached 4.1 million!!!
@jackthepainter0531
@jackthepainter0531 3 жыл бұрын
"At least out loud, I won't say I'm in love..." no but seriously I DONT WANT TO ADMIT IT TO HIM I THINK HES SO COOL AND WHENEVER WE HANG OUT WE JOKE ABOUT HOW OUT PARENTS THINK WE'RE DATING AND I DONT WANT TO LOSE HIM AS A FRIEND BUT THE ONLY TIMES IVE EVER ADMITTED MY FEELINGS TO PEOPLE I EDNED UP BEING SUPER AWKWARD......... ...that actually felt kinda good to get off my chest, even if its just to random people on the internet...
@eleauline3665
@eleauline3665 3 жыл бұрын
I know this feeling ahah it's hard to know what to do in this situation, you want to go for it and at the same time keep him as a friend for life
@tutte3217
@tutte3217 3 жыл бұрын
As a pansexual I feel emotional attracted to people and partners. So I can relate to a lot of this as it's in my daily life, when I get attracted to someone it's through our emotional bond. ❤️❤️
@ItsWhyUno
@ItsWhyUno 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I met a person the first time and I already feel at ease and my anxiety just disappear when I’m with them. Great video 🙃
@BlankCanvas88
@BlankCanvas88 3 жыл бұрын
This is the first list where I can check off all 8. I'm so glad!
@marces646
@marces646 3 жыл бұрын
I always experience emotional attraction before physical attraction. But because the emotional attraction takes so long to build it makes it difficult to date people.
@ellieequizi6566
@ellieequizi6566 3 жыл бұрын
As an asexual, this is about as intense as it gets for me :p Speaking of, I'd really love it if you made a video about asexuality sometime! It might help more people to understand- and maybe not treat us like broken, unnatural freaks. Sometimes ignorance can be very hurtful. Thank you xx
@emilyanncahill2863
@emilyanncahill2863 8 ай бұрын
^^^^
@emilyanncahill2863
@emilyanncahill2863 8 ай бұрын
This, yes
@thebassboar3980
@thebassboar3980 3 жыл бұрын
I'm fully convinced that the youtube recommendation algorithm can read my mind
@morladarling3319
@morladarling3319 3 жыл бұрын
Loved the video! Congratulations on 4Mil Psych2Go! 💕
@juanpablo1834
@juanpablo1834 3 жыл бұрын
As a demisexual I'd like to say that this is the only kind of attraction I feel towards others and I've never been able to put it into words. This was very helpful, thanks
@checkitout134
@checkitout134 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I had a deep emotional connection with someone but it turns out he already has someone else currently. Watching this video was honestly pretty painful :/
@Ernest-From-England
@Ernest-From-England 3 жыл бұрын
Woww this hits soo close to home. I've been talking to a girl for 3 months now and we share the same interests, have the same taste in music and sometimes it feels like I'm talking to another me😂 Everything that you mentioned in the video is exactly how our friendship is. Last night I even stayed up until 7 in the morning with her just having a deep conversation (which lasted 8 hours) I hope in the future we can pursue a romantic relationship but she's a few years older than me and lives 5000km away.
@mohammadsanaullah3953
@mohammadsanaullah3953 3 жыл бұрын
I love your channel so much and your voice is so soothing. Your channel is really helpful and interesting. Thank you .
@ThisIsTori_
@ThisIsTori_ 3 жыл бұрын
If I’m not attracted to you emotionally, I’m not attracted to you at all. Idc how good you look.
@sagesharkie
@sagesharkie 3 жыл бұрын
when I saw this I literally went "Wow! I have no clue what that means 😃"
@lawofattraction-hindi2945
@lawofattraction-hindi2945 3 жыл бұрын
Dopamine secretions follows
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Yay! Did you learn something new from this video?
@sagesharkie
@sagesharkie 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I did!
@Cloudm4n
@Cloudm4n 3 жыл бұрын
Nice pfp ya got there pal
@sagesharkie
@sagesharkie 3 жыл бұрын
@@Cloudm4n thanks :)
@igriegid250
@igriegid250 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I am definitely emotional attractive to him. Thank you for this Psych2Go!
@NekoDimple
@NekoDimple 3 жыл бұрын
I really love watching Psych2Go's videos. Not only because its educational but also because of the voice actor, her voice is so realaxing.
@bobbyahmad5197
@bobbyahmad5197 3 жыл бұрын
My lover and I really have emotional attraction, she and I both love each other for who we are 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
@berencool
@berencool 4 жыл бұрын
Random question I have, how do you know if someone crushes on you in a long distance friendship?
@Gettrolledlol1
@Gettrolledlol1 3 жыл бұрын
FR
@cesunyan1563
@cesunyan1563 3 жыл бұрын
For me, you'll know with how much time they invest in you
@toniblox6926
@toniblox6926 3 жыл бұрын
@@cesunyan1563 nice
@anonumosGirl
@anonumosGirl 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this. I've had a crush on my long distance friend since forever, but never said a thing, which I really don't recommend. He told me he liked me three weeks ago and now we're going out lol
@moba8324
@moba8324 3 жыл бұрын
@@anonumosGirl 8. You can be vulnerable with them. (...) When you have an emotional attraction to someone, you're comfortable displaying your emotions around them.
@personemolity9447
@personemolity9447 3 жыл бұрын
This is the cutest video! The animation and message is so beautiful💜
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@user-kg2qz2rj6l
@user-kg2qz2rj6l 3 жыл бұрын
congrats psych2go for the 4 million subsrcibers, 4 million people love you
@Potat0_1015
@Potat0_1015 3 жыл бұрын
You know.. sometimes I wish I never met them. But at the same time i’m glad I do? Does that even make sense?
@MikhaelAhava
@MikhaelAhava 3 жыл бұрын
Yes?
@ija-chantheforbiddenone4123
@ija-chantheforbiddenone4123 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I know what you mean
3 жыл бұрын
Me about my best friend, who I’m hopelessly in love with.
@Potat0_1015
@Potat0_1015 3 жыл бұрын
Paula Sofía Contreras oh my goodness i’ve never related to anything more. I’ve liked my very good friend for so long. I promised myself to never tell him and just get over him because I know he has alot of stuff he needs to figure out, and I don’t want to be another problem. It just hurts so much that I can’t let go of that hope.
@mostcreativenickname
@mostcreativenickname 3 жыл бұрын
Feel..or felt the same. Because I‘m stupid I confessed to her. We‘re „no longer friends at the moment“. She‘s avoiding me. I‘m avoiding her. Even changed train connections to not spend more time together. She wants me to move on, because she doesn’t want to hurt me & because she doesn‘t know how to deal with my attention and affection. Really long story. Maybe sometimes we‘ll get back to the friendship we had. Maybe we won‘t. It sucks. Can‘t recommend confessing at this point. ://
@MrJoon360
@MrJoon360 3 жыл бұрын
A beautiful reminder that intimacy is more than just physical.
@courcourgabby9322
@courcourgabby9322 3 жыл бұрын
This video hits the nail on the head for me and i was emotional just watching it.
@taise653
@taise653 3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I managed to find someone like this
@DangoPirate
@DangoPirate 3 жыл бұрын
Confirming that my relationship lacks substance
@mustardpineapple5462
@mustardpineapple5462 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the great content these past few years!
@TheBroGamer14082
@TheBroGamer14082 3 жыл бұрын
Bro I mark all of these! I just had a zoom audio call with my best friend yesterday and although it wasn't long (because we tried playing a game while the call was on but my pc crashed) I cherished every second of it. I love my best friend like I would if I had a brother. I don't think I would've lived to this moment had I not met him. I am forever in his debt.
@xxjeditsxx5935
@xxjeditsxx5935 3 жыл бұрын
The captions: -hey *segdegoers* - *psytico's* aim
@jp9480
@jp9480 3 жыл бұрын
sometimes im afraid i might not feel like this ever bcuz i’m just so emotionally numb :/
@arielklay23
@arielklay23 3 жыл бұрын
I was blessed to have a strong mutual emotional attraction with my late husband. We *loved* talking to each other for hours!
@callmesnow4507
@callmesnow4507 3 жыл бұрын
The drawing is so cute also these two characters fits so well in this video
@esteemedcharacteractressma58
@esteemedcharacteractressma58 3 жыл бұрын
I know I love him. I just wish I knew why.
@xxburakxx6305
@xxburakxx6305 3 жыл бұрын
Having such a good friend would help me a lot but yeah
@speepo
@speepo 3 жыл бұрын
Well I’ll be your friend if you need one.
@xxburakxx6305
@xxburakxx6305 3 жыл бұрын
@@speepo thank you (:
@jc-wx5oo
@jc-wx5oo 3 жыл бұрын
Whoever did the voiceover in this one legitimately has one of the most soothing voices I’ve ever heard
@nusratjamia7953
@nusratjamia7953 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your time and consideration to share.
@Hydrogen315
@Hydrogen315 3 жыл бұрын
The animation is so cute I can't...
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
🙈thank you!
@ThePoeticGuy
@ThePoeticGuy 3 жыл бұрын
All the signs seem to be fitting from my part. However, I have no clue if all these boxes are checked from the other person's perspective. What is this? Does the other person feel an emotional connection with me then?
@kharkovluzhin8333
@kharkovluzhin8333 3 жыл бұрын
I think if you do all this with them but they have no sign of being uncomfortable then it's a yes
@Febrero888
@Febrero888 3 жыл бұрын
I completly LOVE the animation of this video
@pamelabassmarsh5262
@pamelabassmarsh5262 3 жыл бұрын
I like this. Its straight to the point without the hoopla of others talking and never getting to the point--!!!
@CobaltChono
@CobaltChono 4 жыл бұрын
8. Sounds pretty great ngl
@ducttape-sillystring
@ducttape-sillystring 3 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on the differences between aesthetic attraction and physical attraction?
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
I can pass this down to the team
@MikhaelAhava
@MikhaelAhava 3 жыл бұрын
Intriguing.
@NBnNC
@NBnNC 3 жыл бұрын
I’m emotionally attracted to this channel- it understands me and I turn to it for advice 😏
@cerenyldz1898
@cerenyldz1898 3 жыл бұрын
Everybody pictured someone when heard abaout qualities: great sense of humor, respect, kindness, intelligence.
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